This Is Why Men Don’t Take Y’all Seriously
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
- AMG - MASCULINE OG
Come in | Be Respectful | Have Fun | Join the conversation
And don’t forget to Subscribe
Disclaimer: This livestream is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content discussed is not intended to offend or target any specific individual or group. It is a critical examination of contemporary cultural dynamics and their impact on societal perspectives. We respect the principles of fair use, utilizing relevant content to facilitate our discussion and analysis. This conversation is designed for mature audiences and encourages thoughtful engagement from grown men and women.
Support the channel here:
CashApp: cash.app/$TheA...
CashApp: cash.app/$Fuel...
PayPal: bit.ly/3vZ6O5Y
Patreon: bit.ly/3vyd9Xb
Content Guide:
THE ANGRY TWO PIECE: / @angrytwopiece
THE STREET CONSERVATIVE: binonation.loc...
MONDAY MONEY TALK: / theangryman
RUMBLE: rumble.com/c/T...
Purchase My Book:
THE ANGRYMAN STANDARD: a.co/d/077xilM
Autographed Copies:
thebinobistro....
BINO NATION BONUS:
Get 20% OFF + Free Shipping @Manscaped with promo code ANGRYMAN20 at Manscaped.com!
Get your Merchandise here:
thebinobistro....
1 on 1 RUclips Coaching Sessions:
www.theangryma...
Follow me on social media
Facebook: / theangrymanchannel
Instagram: / angrymanchannel
Twitter: / angrymanchannel
Booking, Sponsorships and Brand deals:
bookingtheangryman@gmail.com
SHIP GIFTS OR FAN MAIL TO:
BINO Entertainment LLC
6325 Falls Of Neuse Rd
Ste 35 # 401
Raleigh, NC 27615
BINO ENTERTAINMENT
#angryman #theangryman #teammanscaped #givegoodface
That was a very lucky guy. He avoided an immature woman.
FACTS!!!!
PERIOD
That's the problem she's not a woman she stuck in teenage mode
Yep,exactly
Absolutely 🤗💖
She’s Extra Petty and Shallow.. He’s the lucky one! He Dodged a Bullet 🎉
Amen!!
Sad
Yup
Probably while in a dodge too, extra lucky
Do you have any idea of how many are actually like this?
His car being old, says "no car payments, no debt, there's money in the bank right now"
Not to those ratchet 304s ... not that smart 😄👍
😂 Right
$ in the bank translates into having funds for growth together
@@user-redeemed Yes, mine. Not hers 😄
Preach! I’ve no debt, paid off car (though not new), with more than three months of savings in my bank account, but you wouldn’t know off of looks alone. But women like these don’t care for non of that. They’re looking for the fame, status, and glam!
I always say, "if she loves you at your lowest, she'll love you when you get back up".
EXACTLY!
Women who ONLY places value on men based on material possessions alone should be avoided like the plague!
FAKE recognize REAL and got scared and started running 🏃🏾♀️ 💨
lol 😂
facts
Exactly.
Ooof!
That’s what I was thinking, she knew he was too good for her dumb *ss, so she thought of a petty reason to cut him off first
She deserves a guy with the best car that treats her like shite. This generation is gonna have soooooooooooo many regrets.
They're parents completely failed
@@evos469 FACTS!!!! EXACTLY
@@evos469 As an adult no one can fail you but yourself...🤷🏽♀️
Love how you flipped this 💯 then she will want the bucket with a good man her treats her right but we know that outcome
Stop grouping us together lol this planet is too big not every young person is an idiot United States citizen.
Those who aren't wise enough to appreciate a good thing when they have it will simply miss out. Someone else will enjoy your blessing
FACTZ!!
😂
This exactly what my wife says about my kids moms! I might drive a 16 year old truck, but my kids, my wife, her kids all graduated or currently in college, all have a car! It is what it is…
ain't that it?
Facts!!
It sounds like her friend should get a Costco membership and start stocking up on Meow Mix, because she's going to need it.
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😭
La GaTa
😂😂😂😂😂😂
🥴🤣🤣🤣🤣
When I met my wife, she had a one bedroom apartment, with only a TV. I had a car, still living with my folks. 25 years later, we in a 4k square foot home. Living our best life.
Good for you brother. God bless! 🙏
Congratulations, hopefully you're ready for the inevitable divorce that's about to come your way Mr. Hope strategist
@@younglove3362 sshhh…let people enjoy things
@@younglove3362 yeah because god forbid people can't be happy minus well think of the negatives while were at it lol
@younglove3362 listen youngin. My past accomplishments is your future hopes and dreams and good luck finding some one to settle with you let alone get pass that pessimistic attitude of yours.
.... got the nerve to have a name called young love.... lol
When I met my wife, I was driving a 10 year old car with well over 100k miles. Two years later, I bought us a home and 2 years after that I bought a brand new car (which she drives). Judging a man by the car he drives is what 16 year old immature girls do. Homie was blessed, she ejected herself before becoming his headache.
Facts
Women overseas are more appreciative than american women its a huge difference bm are missing out dealing with women in America
@@fashionlife5348how to meet them?
@@fashionlife5348Shit, that's gonna drive American women crazy!
My wife is American. Pay attention to a woman's values and how she was raised. I know men who were absolutely destroyed by foreign women, looking for a way out of their living situations.
A good friend of mine once met a girl he seriously liked. The night he was going to meet her parents he asked to borrow my car.He had a year old alfa romeo sports at the time and I had a 10 year old saab. Less than an hour after setting off he called round for me and says let's go to the pub.She was just a social climber/gold digger by the sounds of things as she had sneered at his/my car. He just wanted to see her true colours.Good move mate!
He isn't your friend he is your brother, if you let him do something that y'all definitely looking out for eachother, bros before hoes man, I love that you two keep that motto alive.
Mans played chess.
The fact that my man could literally go and buy whatever kind of vehicle he wants but just drives something that's comfortable and convenient is so sexy to me
And, you are sexy to him !!!
She knew that she didn't bring anything to match his output... Dam he's lucky
VERY!
Exactly
Word
That Right There☀️☀️😄😄
Exactly 💯💯💯🎯🎯
The look on her face when she said "'his car is old.'" I think it broke her heart to see her friend make such poor decisions.
It didn’t break her heart. Her reaction was, “are you kidding me?”.
I drive an old pickup truck. I could pay cash for a new one, but I kind of use it to weed out shallow, materialistic people! (Most of whom are in financial crisis, ....but they have shiny trinkets!")
@@davidturk6170realizing your friend is that superficial is heartbreaking.
@@BST-lm4po ... Bingo !!and I believe that's just what he did... IF YOU CAN'T HAVE FUN WITH ME AND MY WORK TRUCK YOU NOT GETTING IN MY GOT DAMN ASS RANGE ROVER..🖕📴👊
My voy over there probably hella smart driving his daily to work and saving money and she only saw the surface. She did say he had a good job. Maybe he tested her and boom. F
Her mind became obsessed with what her friends would say if they saw them together in his car.
💯
Yup
That part!!💯
You are right
I know I'm not the only one who notices that there are some women our here that tend to be posing or acting a bit too noticeable when they are in the passenger seat of some dude's fancy vehicle.
That’s self sabotage on a high level 😭 You had it in the bag girl! But honestly he probably dodged a bullet
She'll be posting on social media in the future, asking, "Where are all the good men at?!?" I have an answer for her; "Look in your 'reject' pile!"
Yet she'll find a reason to stay with Pookie who has no car. SMH!
Her car is his car 🚗 😆
😂
Now isn't that the truth!! POOKIE IN ORANGE 3 OUT OF 4 YEARS EVERY 4 YEARS! She love him to death! Even keep money in his jail account and visits him faithfully! THIS IS HOW FUCKED UP IN THE HEAD these black women are! WORTHLESS
and that statement right there is on point stay with Pookie get treated like crap and on top of that he has no car not even a bus pass
@@DerwinDaDestroyer ☝🏿 This
Also means he's loyal and takes care of his stuff.
Yeah it means a Man Don't get rid of something reliable. Lmfao We Don't give up on something just cause it let us down. If he owns it he is proud. She is just jelly of his ol'girl
My Father says better old and gold than new and broke
Preach brotha
And financially responsible
That means his consistent, he manages his money well & he doesn’t get rid of things because it’s old.
Look...old likely means PAID FOR...title in the glove compartment. LESS DEBT.
That probably went over a lot of ppl head
@@lkofie6670 I was about to say that lol .... This is grounds to end the friendship 🤣
@@Moyawethu. Lbvs...I agree.
Sounds good.. Like maybe he wouldn't get rid of a woman due to her aging
And she'll always be complaining she can't find a man. She'll be at home -- alone -- eating out of a five gallon tub of ice cream.
Exactly! Women like that makes me sick!🤢
😂
Or saying she doesn’t need a man, but deep down inside… we know, we all know. Say otherwise, but we know.
...Living vicariously through Tyler Perry movies & romcoms.
The angle is she knew she couldn't keep up with him so she tried to make it about the car...
I believe that she was shallow enough to make it about the car. If he had the right car, she would have asked him to marry her!
Facts!
Real True Story!!!!!
@ronnimartin7033 why would anyone not think a man with a good job can't afford a newer car?? That's illogical AF
@@kaliefhampton2483nobody said this was about logic…
When my now wife met me, I was living check to check, had a roommate and my car was old. Now I make 250k a year and she’s a stay at home mom getting to do whatever she wants and chasing her dreams. It took work to get where we are, which makes it so much sweeter.
It’s unrealistic to expect someone “ready made” for you to walk into a situation and everything is perfect. Building with someone is what makes you’re relationship last (in my opinion) I’m gonna give my wife the world, because when I was down she held me up.
That’s beautiful to hear because typically a guy will get successful he lets it go to his head and he dumps that woman who was down for him over someone’s who wouldn’t have crap to do with him unless he was successful
Excellent! I agree with your comment in that the "work" is what builds the relationship. What good is it to find someone with everything? Contributing to a relationship will help you to feel secure. You are a team. Glad to hear that you and your wife stood the test of time. Blessings.
I don't think its unrealistic for someone to be ready-made. After a certain age you should be ready-made. Being broke is ok in your 20s but after that you should be focus on yourself until you get to whre you want to be in every area of life at least 80%.
It's easier to attract a fit person when you're already a fit person. It's easier to attract an attractive person when you're a attractive person.
THAT MADE ME CRY...BLESSINGS TO YALL❤️❤️❤️❤️
God bless
The bro just avoided a real financial liability! Good for him!
As a man, I feel like my soul's been crushed and I ain't even been dumped.
Why, this is just good advice. Even if you're rolling in it, be sure to keep an old car for first dates. Prospector repellant right there
Don't lose hope because all of us women aren't materialistic, gold-digging, money hungry, and delusional.
Women like the one described in this video makes me sick and I guarantee that she'll end up alone years later wishing she had that man that she passed up and he'll be in the arms of a woman who values him.
That was a Blessing from the most High that she ended that relationship. She spared him from future headaches, pain and sorrow. Sometimes rejection is really protection.🙏🏾
You are so right
Sometime rejection is really protection
Big Facts
She saved him from a future drug addiction.
That's why when your rich try to look broke
Facts
I had a woman that I liked that I believe played me cuz my car. When she found out I owned a house on a lake, her mind changed. I was done tho. 💯💪
Good for you sir!
You also dodged that bullet.
Good for you keep that garlic by your front door lol.
I bet you also hold the title to your car. Most of the phony people who need to drive new do not even have the title to the car, thus the car is not even their property.
@@sunondalyons73 I definitely did. At that time it had been paid off for 4 years. Unfortunately, some lady ran into the back of it one day(2002 Toyota Corrola) and totaled it. 💯Ur spit nothing but facts.
@@RodNubianKing Yessir indeed lol!
Notice how she said he had a good job which basically meant he met her income requirements but was smart about his money, and she still dubbed him over a car..bro dodged a bullet and dropped this 👑
“You can’t make these things up, you just can’t” ~ Kelvin Samuels
🚩🚩🚩🚩
Kelvin ???
😂
🤣😂Just about EVERY MAN HAS EXPERIENCED THIS.😂🤣 I know I have... On so many occasions I choose to ride in old ish.. I STAY in work clothes.. I ain't with the superficial ish anymore.. Over A LOT of 🐂 💩 for 2023. 🤔
Understand that someone not being with you.... CAN BE THE GREATEST BLESSING THAT COULD HAPPEN TO YOU♡
So True!
Amen 🙏 say it again!!!!
In the name of Jesus!
Sometimes NOT getting what you want is, in itself, is the greatest blessing you could ever have.
This reminds me of high school. My older brother got his license and my parents let him drive their ‘77 Malibu wagon to school. Both of us were in the marching band, but he was also on the football team. My nerdy butt never ratted out his shenanigans, even though I was only known as so-and-so’s sister. Long story short, some kids were clowning the wagon. Game finished late, it was cold, guess who wanted rides? I told my brother if he let them put one sorry toe in the car, I was telling! He wasn’t allowed to let others in the car. They had a long, cold walk home. We were warm in our parent’s beat up old Chevy. They couldn’t appreciate the car in the sunshine, they sure as heck weren’t getting a ride when it was cold.
👏👏👏👏👏
You did well, Sis,!
u go girl
👍👍👍👍👍
Facts
We need more Queens like you. ! Hats off to your pure heart.
Don't insult her like that. The "queens" of our generation are the problem.
@@baikoukimodo5760 I was talking about the Woman speaking. She's not valuing a man for his car. Her friend is. I'm sure Men know what a Queen is more than most Women.
@Sebastijan fino I know exactly who you were referring to lol. But men who know better tend to stay away from women who classify themselves as "queens". Sensible eomen also know they can't be a queen without a king. She seems like a sensible woman, so I rather not give her that moniker.
@@baikoukimodo5760 💯 agreed. Can we agree that a man calling a Woman who is a hard working, loyal and not materialistic is a Queen. But when girls call one another Queen it's not valid as a Man saying it ?
@@baikoukimodo5760 💯 agreed. Can we agree that a man calling a Woman who is a hard working, loyal and not materialistic is a Queen. But when girls call one another Queen it's not valid as a Man saying it ?
That happened to me.
Instead of car notes, I paid for a house. By the time she found out and came back, I had paid for 2 more rental properties and was STILL comfortable with an older car( which was reliable). She wanted to talk. I listened. I moved on.
Me too, I have a Nissan Sentra….and a house. People with bmw’s make fun of my car but live check to check 🤷🏽♀️
People make fun of your car? Wow.
😂😂😂😂😂 She wanted to talk.......
About what? The Clippers???
@notaytguru8214 don't get me wrong, i love cars too but my priorities are different. Closed on a brand new house a few months ago.
😂😂😂😂she talked you listened & moved on 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 classic
Them the types that prefer driving a high end car while renting an apartment.
💯
People need to learn financial literacy and get their priorities in order.
😂🤣🤣😅😅🤣🤣😂
🤦🏾 Facts! Driving a high-end car but no emergency funds saved. 🤷🏾♂️
Lol. Exactly. My apartment parking lot is filled with Corvettes, BMWs, Tesla, and even S Class Mercedes. The rent here is $2000 at most.
Yep! We see them, even amongst us women! AND, STILL wanna throw MAD shade…?!🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙎🏾♀️
She was the definition of blocking your blessing.
It was a blessing she dropped him. Saved him a ton of headache.
Good for her. She decided to let him find the right one instead of tricking him and ruining his life.
My bf car is twenty years old. His hood doesn't even match the rest of it. But man did he work hard to get that thing. I'm so proud of him.
It's Inspiring to read or hear about folks who are in a really good relationship. It gives me some hope! 👍😂
My car is a 2005 Chevrolet Cavalier, I'm a disabled (highly decorated) veteran (everything still works), university degree, speak two languages, own my own home (not a trailer), settled and loyal. Anyone want me ?
He dodged a bullet and so should you
Definitely awesome to see that there's still good women that are there for their men out in the world today with all the insanity .
I'm your 49th like I'm your 4th comment rock on
What her friend didn't relay to her in that convo is "truth is girl he didn't want me and said I wasn't right for him".
That part
Leave the last part out. She couldn't say he never called me back after the second date...lol.
Yea bc she was saving face. She didn't care until he curved her. Strong possibility.
Possibly, but statistically women leave far more than men. But ya theyre not honest about it either
Maybe she was just trying to save face but I doubt it. I have had friends who will ghost a real good man because of something dumb like his accent when he says certain words. I had a friend who dumped a guy because his belt buckle didn't match the outfit and she was so embarrassed bla blah bla. As for judging a man on his car? That's so common. It's usually very superficial women who do this. They would be mortified to be seen in certain places or vehicles, etc. It happens. As a woman, I've seen other women ghost men for dumb reasons. I've had friends try to discourage me from dating my husband because he was a medical intern when we started dating, had very little money, took public transport, didn't have much time to bother with his appearance and his biggest crime according to them was he's short lol. I'm also short so I don't care but they did.
😂 😂 I'm glad at least SHE could see the foolishness in her friends statement!! 👏 👏
I was laughing so hard 😂😂😂😂 because she out of line
His car is probably more loved than she will ever be in life if that's her reaction
BEST RESPONSE EVER.
five thumbs up
👍👍👍👍👍
Facts, and if we check back in with her years later I guarantee she'll still be alone with regrets wishing she had that man that she foolishly passed up!
Dang right my car is old…. And completely paid off. 🎉
You got long term thinking brotha and guess what you ain’t paying nothing for it to get to work when you getting a full check but you know she got little girl energy.
Paid off, hallelujah
For all she knew he's living a debt free life. Maybe he plans on paying cash for his next car when he's ready. He could be saving for his first home. Now she'll never know. 💨💨💨Run brother, run.
Yeah that's facts. I know plenty of people that was doing that. When I was in the army there was this Sargent major who drove this old old Acura and it seemed like he never had money. Mind you this man is the senior ranking enlisted in the unit. People made fun of him behind his back up until he's 2 weeks from retirement. Come to find out that during his 30yr career he was saving his money and being extra frugal anyway he could. Three days before retirement we find out that he bought a new car and a new house with cash. He stayed the area and taught some of us soldiers some great financial lessons that I use today.
@@rizingpho3nix so much facts if I could have been taught that before I made certain decisions I would’ve been way better now but you live and you learn at least I could’ve saved myself before it got real bad I quickly got a better high paying job and disciplined myself on money usage and I realized once you get yourself in check the rest follows
She not that bright/THINKS THAT FAR AHEAD 😉. Trust......
That was an excuse. She finally met a husband and she got scared.
That do happen, just like it easy for her to live with a bum😢
She started to realize that she would have to change to match his moral standards..SHE STILL WANTED TO BE IN THE STREETS. So she broke it off with him to go hang with the thug boys.
She wasn't scared, she was just materialistic. They were never going to be a good match. She'd have been spending the money before it was brought into the household.
She needs to see a psychiatrist
@@whiteranger79 when she dealing wit a bum… no one holds her accountable. But when she with a real man… she has to stand on what all she says…
At this point yall ladies are doing all of our guess work for us🤣😂
You can’t make this sh*t up 😂😂- The Godfather RIP
😂🤣
Undefeated in life. Still undefeated in death. 🤣🤣🤣
Godfather?? Lol! I also appreciate what KS did, but he is not the Godfather. Patrice Oneal, or Alan roger Currie
@@greezythumb RIP to the Godfather 🙏
@@ImDrunkAndHorny they all up there with the God/Father now anyway
This is the reason why I keep my 96 Nissan in the driveway and keep the Maserati in the garage never judge a book by his cover
facts bro
imma keep a old school whip
…
I have a friend who does that, he drives a mini van….meanwhile he has 2 luxury cars at home 😂
That actually happened to me... A lady I dated face changed so quickly when she saw my truck. She didn't know I gave my newer car to my mom. I just wanted her not to worry about a car and travel safely. Got a better vehicle 6 months later. Still luv the truck.
Women just don't understand a man's relationship with their vehicles. But good for you you dodged a bullet
She didn't even consider that you loved your mom that much which is a really good trait in men
80/20 rule.
@@younglove3362 its real and a savior for ɓorn again simps.
Then you drive the truck ! I hate when women judge men based on their car. Its so juvenile
Omg she dumped a good dude because his car was old? I'm speechless right now.
This happened to my Dad about 20 years ago. He is in excellent shape even to this day, was making 6 figures and is has women approaching him all the time. He went on a date with a woman who was all excited to spend time with him. He told me the moment that she saw he drove an old car, he saw the excitement drain from her face. He never heard from her again.
sad😭 but he slipped a bullet !!!! he should thank her and send her gifts every year for holidays!!!
Most black women today are going to die alone and I don’t feel sorry for none of them because they don’t appreciate nothing that’s why i focus on myself and getting money
movingforward2020 True brother. Very True. These same women that wanted nothing to do with a man like me get so mad when they see me with a white, Asian, or Hispanic woman. I get called all sorts of names. I doesn't make any sense. In any case, I don't let it affect my happiness anymore.
@@Poshkin do what makes you happy cause them same women 10 years later are going to be living with cats and dogs 😂
Thank The heavens he dodged a dam Bullet!!!! 😊
She didn't understand that he was even better than she thought. This man has a good job and is content with his old vehicle because it was probably paid off. That tells me he's financially responsible. She really effed up.
The answer could be as simple as she found someone she found much more attractive on a dating app who is interested in her and just be lying about the car...
I say he found a QUALITY, reliable vehicle that was also likely built to last instead of being built to be discarded after a few years.
She ain’t lying. I’ve heard similar stories. Baffled me still till this day
A good sign to reevaluate that friendship
My wife could write a top selling book on how to have a successful marriage. Women talking about what they’re supposed to get, and thinking relationships are supposed to be all about them will never be happy in marriage.
She let it be known from pretty early on that she understood relationships are a team effort. She literally came through the door expressing her desire to contribute and fully participate in this relationship. That was decades ago, and her resolve has never changed.
She continues to show me she’s in this for me, just as much as I am for her. How can you not fall in love with someone like that? It’s why to this day she can have literally anything in this world she wants.
If anything were to happen to me, she is set for life. My efforts over the years ensure that she’s taken care of, 30, 40 years from now, til the end of her days. And I wouldn’t have had it any other way.
You are a lucky man
God bless you and her bro!
You lucky s.o.b damm props to you bro 👍✊
And that's how it's done. Everyone take notes.
you're one of i may say 'not so many' lucky ones. i loved two my whole life, one came 3yrs after the other but unfortunately didn't marry any of them which i regret till this day. i actually blame myself cuz i never felt that way towards a woman again and never seen anyone as loving and honest quite like those two who turned out successful in life. i'm doing good but can't find real love anymore😭🤓🤤
Lol. I had a friend who was not interested in a guy because he wore crappy shoes. I told her if that’s the only thing you got a problem with- buy him some new shoes. They married a year after that.
Good job sometimes we all just need a little Common Sense thrown at us
This comment should have a million likes
Mines didn’t have no car , barley no money , divorced with 2 kids. Stayed with him ,today he own a business with 2 cars . I got my ring !🎉❤
Good for you!
Some men just need a good woman like yourself to see the light at the end of the tunnel.
Some good divorced men and women just need a hand up to get back on their feet after losing so much.
🖤
@@tommiebrooks8573exactly 👍🏽💯
"Mines"? Plural or singular? "Barley"? Was it captain crunch? Count chocula? Cereal grain?
@@jamesbasham5439 But did you get the message Literacy Police? 😂🤦🏾♂️
When I met my wife 39 years ago I drove a car from the 60’s and delivered pizza. Now I’m an engineer we our own company have 2 girls and 2 boys that have grown into great adults. How? Because she made me the man I am today. It seems these days everyone wants everything but not willing to do the work.
That’s almost equivalent to a GROWN ass woman not talking to a man because his text messages aren’t blue😂😂
Sounds funny, my husband when I met him didn’t have a car. I still fell for him. He had a great job but no car. He brought me a brand new Escalade 5 months into the relationship and I asked why he didn’t a car and he clearly could afford it. That’s when I learned about the scar on the back of his head. He flipped his SUV over 8 times and almost died two years prior. He is scared to drive. 😢 Becareful about who you let go I’m glad I didn’t I’m truly blessed.
Glory to God!
man bought you a escalade after only 5 months??? What a beta hahahahaha
Blessings to you both ❤❤❤❤
@@jasonb.3874 Lmao
@@jasonb.3874 Dude I'm crying🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣 Even home girl could see the craziness
"You know what this woman told me..." *gives "brace yourself for the madness, you know it's coming" look*
😆😆😆
Huh
Well thank goodness he missed a trifling behind ungrateful woman, I use this word as a diss. Some people don't know what's good for them 😉.
I recently visited a guy friend in another state. Great dude. He's a General Contractor, single-divorced, great looking, intelligent, old-school. He planned us a great hang out weekend and we did it all in his little work truck. He told me it was so nice to go out and not have to be concerned about impressing a superficial chick worried about how his old dusty work vehicle looked like. He's saving to build his house to own outright. No mortgage. Already owns land. Said he's not buying a new car and getting in debt to impress nice ladies he's never gonna marry. That money can go towards his business or his savings. Made sense to me.
It made me sad though. I could tell it bothered him. We've been friends 25 years. I see why some good men ghost sisters and play games. We don't be focused on the long term.
Yep I been there too.
If the two of you were friends, im sure it shouldn't surprise you that she made such a decision.
Ohhh believe me it would. See, I personally have made the mistake of thinking that because we're all of a more mature age range and bracket, we have all evolved and matured at the same pace but ohhhh no. They would say or do something that just takes me off guard where I'd have to compose myself and keep a poker face to not show my disgust or disbelief. This is how I knew I'd outgrown them.
@@lkofie6670 Its better for a woman with sense and maturity to distance herself from other woman like this physically, mentally, emotionally etc so that you don't take on those foolish philosophies
Even the best of friends have those moments when they question each others dumbass decisions.
@@ligtningdog6399 True. Just think thats something easier for men to navigate, particularly when it comes to protecting his spouse from outside shenanigans.
@@fam2313 Oh I have been out of their circle for many years now. I was amongst the first to marry at age 25 and frankly they started doing me the favor of distancing themselves and excluding me from social events and the like many years ago since the time I got married. Sure, in the beginning it was confusing, disappointing, and a little hurtful that these so-called friends of which some were even my bridesmaids began to basically gossip, assume, and slander me behind my back but I've most certainly began to see things clearly over the years from that point onward. So in essence what I'm referencing is during the time that we used to socialize more frequently and over the years when in passing I would hear some of the conversations they will stir up and it just took me aback that they still thought the way that they did when we were in our twenties versus being in our 40s now. There's still the possibility of seeing these same group of women being that we know each other from childhood and attend some of the same social/cultural functions. Though they have since married and now have families of their own, and their approach towards me may have changed now from the cold shoulder to being more cordial for one reason or another, I feel that their aura towards me remain but again I'd since realized years back that I outgrew them and came to terms with the fact that what I thought was a friendship was something different or turned to something different over time.
Translation... he really is too good for me and he will eventually see how ratchet, drunk and inappropriate I can get so ill just find a reason to end it...and not try to level up to have a great man.
But then she shows up at 35 year old, and other dudes kids,,. demanding a high value man.. people never explain that part.. and she will go crazy when you tell her that high value men want nothing to do with her..
@@taipan1234 facts!!! Never fails. Women think w emotions and men think rationally.
@@italianstallion8180 I agree.. it's amazing she's 25 years old.. very nice body, no children.. but she is afraid that you will see her as "ratchet, goofy, drunk or inappropriate.. at that point the high value man STILL WANTS YOU.. the woman then comes up with a dumb excuse.. which is what black women do to decent black men all the time......... 15 years later, numerous bad boys.. kids by multiple bad boys.. and her attitude is that same Decent Black Men should never reject her... even though she provided him with the GREATEST REASONS on the planet.. it takes a special level of stupid to not understand that situation..
@@italianstallion8180 when a woman is goofy, ratchet, inappropriate, and even maybe she talks too much just a little.. many men will take her anyway, those are small reasons to reject a woman.. sometimes they can even be corrected.. unable to pair bond.. other dudes disrespectful kids.. C-Section surgery on your stomach... I'M OUT.. I'M GETTING MY PASSPORT...
@@taipan1234 Preach on!!!! You speaking Facts!!!!
What does it matter what they drive or what job they have? As long as they love you and treat you with respect and are perfect for you. When I met my husband he didn't have a job but he treated me like I always wanted to be treated, now he has a job we have 2 kids and a great life. We lifted each other up and thats how it should be
modern women dont want love they want status so they can brag on social media
Its cause she’s insecure and doesn’t wanna be made fun of by her “friends “
💯 💯
Most women care more about how much a man makes rather than how a man treats her. My guess is because after 3 years, she can divorce him and take half.
Long as it's legal job
I'm dead the way he pushed his glasses up on his face killed 😭 💀 🤣 😂 me
😂😂
Godfather KS flashbacks
"I'm dead"? Did they have a funeral for you? Did you get an obituary about you? Did you get cremated? Was there a viewing?
@@jamesbasham5439 all of that
@@AM-PMFAM R.I.P. 🙏
Material things don’t mean anything…it’s all about that character ‼️.
I really don’t understand my own kind. My heart is aching, I really feel for men it’s a cruel world out there for them. That woman truly spared the guy the heartache that he would’ve been subject too. She paved the way for the right woman to come into his life 🙏🏻
No she did not do any of that.
@@tomare6479 she did not do what? May I know what you mean?
I was dating a woman that wanted me to pay for her nails and her hair
I laughed as she left
The next guy had to sell his fancy car to pay for his girl wait did I win
@@allenmason1098 incredible, it’s sad and embarrassing how some of my own kind treat men. Sorry she did that to you
Facing alot of these women can cause a man to not be open to the right woman. She's not paving the way she's closing it.
When I was a young man (about 25) I met a girl, that I really liked. In the beginning, we would meet at different places for dinner and/or drinks. She seemed to really like me as well. The VERY FIRST time she saw my 1979 Ford farm truck, was the last time we spoke. I was heartbroken!!! All because I didn’t have a nice car/truck!!
she did you a favor. imagine marrying or having kids with her. Your life would be miserable
Honestly you dodge the bullet
Sorry that happened
She proved quickly how shallow she really is... You dodged that one! Old trucks are Cool!
Chances are now that looks like one of them farm animals nowadays lol
😂😂😂
You can’t make this up!
(In my KS R. I.P. voice)
She knew she was in over her head and had to run!
I hope he knew. Sometimes we be scratching our heads about being ghosted. The woman knows. 😅😅
“Thank You!” for sharing this
❤️🖤💚
🙏🏾R.I.P. Shanquella R.🙏🏾
Dude!!!! Love the silent reaction of glasses being pushed up the bridge of your nose 😂
Brilliance needs no words!
"His car is old."
She's lost a blessing. For real.
I hope he finds someone better 🙏🏾🏆
That fool woman didn't realize he was in a position to save for a house and furniture, etc to start a new life.
What, you think you're gonna live in the car? Foolish women chasing clout end up with an empty womb and an empty house!
It was a 2015 Bentley. Sucka didn't have the upgrade, what a loser.
😑
oh he will! she probably won't
He probably dubbed her first, the old car lie was because she couldn't admit he just used her & kicked her to the curb.
Won't be hard!
Yeah his car is old but his pockets are new, true story 🤯
But then her friend will turn around and date pookie or Ray Ray who got 3 kids and 3 baby mommas and is borrowing one of their cars talking about “he got potential and he’s trying to find a job and saving up to move out of his momma’s house”🤦🏾♂️
Lol
Fact's....so TRU
💯💯💯💯💯
Pookie and Ray Ray always come to collect lol
@@mannygonzales1985 😂 on God they do!! With interest too!!
He cut out the part where she tells her friend that she’s stupid for breaking up with him. Lol
I had a women dump me after 3 months because I was "to affectionate" and she didn't want goodmorning texts or calls or goodnight 🙃
You dodged a bullet salute to you 💯
I bet she is currently crying over the last few guys treating her like trash. Same thing happened to me , she found me too nice, chose a coke dealer over me, got dumped by him after being treated like shit, then married some other douchebag and now she's a single mother. So sad, too bad.
@@eggrolll women are emotional creature. They hate respect men a respect men is dangerous to them ,they like a men know his goal taking care himself don't chase women achieve his goals. And most of them like money we know we all need money to survival but the women she spent the money crazy for unnecessary things not thinks about the situation of financial in house.
@@eggrolll yeah and I bet in her eyes men specifically aren't shit smh, and I bet men also hate women that _________(insert any thing here) 😂🤣😂🤣
You didn't get the message. She didn't want to build an emotional relationship with you. She had priorities in other places. You are a convenient utensil that fits in when you are needed.
New cars open Legs. That's what I got from this story
Not on a new back seat though, right?
😂 when u want a good night, get a luxury rental. When you want a good wife, bring your A personality 😂 gotta know the right solution to that specific equation.
They do! From guys that wouldn’t take you anywhere in said car, run an errand for you in this car or couldn’t afford a date because of his car note 🤷🏽♀️
@@tisham.9065 not new lol
This been happening since before Olive Oyl used to leave Popeye when bluto drove by in a new car 😂
I had a girlfriend like that once.
I lost my job in the 2008 crash.
She left me fast. I started a company. I struggled for a few years. The company grew. I got married had two kids.
I met the girl again at a corporate function. She made some snyd remarks, then asked me how I was there. I asked the same question. She was the date of one of my up and coming employees. She went on about how lucky sh was to not be with me as her boyfriend makes so much money.
I said yeah we both dodged a bullet.
She asked if she could I troduce me to her boy friend. I said if you must.
She talked trash about me again.
My employee said to her " it is not polite to insult you host in his own house"
Took her a while to figure it out. She was dumped the next day.
I hired a smart man
Shallow friend needs to be by her self. Thank goodness that old car saved him.
What happened was...she got scared. She felt like he was too good for her and felt insecure. She found a small inconsequential detail about him to justify to herself about why the relationship wouldn't work so she wouldn't feel guilty
That sounds about right
Not guilty but immature and young acting.
Agreed
Finally someone who saw the real problem and spit the truth!
Maybe that’s something a man would do but I don’t see women leaving a relationship bc they think the guy is too good
That is not a woman that is a child. Believe that 💯
The problem is... a LOT of them are children. Women possess this mindset in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. Probably even older than that. It's fear. They've been taught to fear men their whole lives, so they look for any excuse to sabotage their relationships. When you dwell in fear, you lose. When you dwell in love, you win.
@@KtotheG *I know right and they claim women mature faster than men.* 🤣🤣🤣
My ex did not have a car when we first met but was a good guy…I encouraged him to save his money to get a car and a year later a neighbor sold her car to him for cheap because he always helped her and because he had been saving his money he could pay in cash…I knew he was trying to save so I did not ask him for anything and for Christmas and birthday I asked for small things so he could still feel like the man and provide but save his money…these women out here with nothing asking a man for everything…
Please, at the time, was he making more than U or U were making more than his income?
they have nothing to offer and expect..the brainwash and ego will be a downfall
@Ayankunle Akanbi so.. why does that matter at all? Let me guess. You only date up? Cause the man is part of your status as well? So you're also single, thinking you are the prize for a millionaire?
@queene7206 "queen" name checks out ❤
@@ayankunleakanbi1650 what does that have to do with op's comment?
An old care means he knows how to take CARE of things.
That guy killed the reaction at the end....he had me dead serious 🤣
At least he had a car. You know how many men in the dating scene I’ve heard say their car was “in the shop”?😂
Lol right the engine blew a few weeks ago 😂
You are great!! You can do a stand-up comedy. Hahaha 😆
Yes that’s right my car is in the shop right now.
Is there anything wrong with a man not having a car?
Most women are still living with their parents tbh, I think a guy having a car shouldn’t be a big issue but their own place is a must.
My husband had a damn hoopty when I met him. Seriously, we called the car “squeaks” because it squeaked. He was making over $75k at the time but just didn’t feel like getting a new car yet. Now he’s making at least double that and we got rid of squeaks for two new cars and a house. Imagine if I dubbed him over that? She’ll probably regret it once she sees him driving with his future wife and children 😅
well done Id say!
Women will disqualify men for the dumbest things. “Oh, he ties his shoes differently. He’s no good.”
🌬️💨💨💨 Blame society and FEMINISM for the cushy-seat of entitlement that most women have.
As a woman, I am taking accountability for the delusions of many of these women. I know they do exist and I won't make excuses for them.
It makes no sense to me how they pass up "good-men" for materialistic reasons. It isn't right and it isn't fair.
That’s why men keep your energy to yourself y’all will learn one day😂
Because he's not in debt paying a car note...he wasn't right for her. Yeah...being Single wins again.
Yes, Lord knows I could buy a new car if I wanted to but I hate bills 😂
Definitely no words needed bruh!
That is why I drive my hooptie to a first date.
We have a 2005 Pontiac Grand Prix, a 2008 Ford SportTrac, and a 2002 Honda Civic for our son's first car.
We have 3 modes of transportation, no car payments, and reasonable insurance rates.
When my younger son complained about, "why we didn't have new cars like everyone else", at 12 yrs old, I explained how everything works, and he said, "Wow, that's smart", and now he never complains about being dropped at school in an older vehicle. 😆💞👍
These women crazy this why we as men and women have to really see the patterns and listen to have people talk
My homeboy is currently dating a on and off girl , he is such a great guy. I mean really, he would literally help anyone and go out of his way to do anything especially for her. But she is straight dogging him and it's so sad I've been trying to talk him out of the toxic relationship. He went through therapy and all behind her. Yet he is still stuck on her. Soul ties must be broken especially when you're dealing with a selfish toxic individual. 😔
DAMN sounds like someone l once knew (me). Those days are long behind me. Hopefully, he can wake up from the disillusion.
@@errollpalmer9568 Aw sorry to hear that and yes so do I
just a part of growing up… let him get burned NOW, so he’ll know how to recognize it later when he sees it… it’s gonna hurt, but a lesson well learned… hopefully, no kids get involved
@@t-ladonn9095 it's all good. It was years ago and it was a lesson that l needed to learn. And learn l did.
@@errollpalmer9568 we never stop learning I thought av seen it all but some people will still surprise you however you be ready armed with your lessons.
That’s my son. Owns his own house, plus plus plus but drive a pos. He’s on a list to get a new truck next year. A lot of ladies are missing out.
He don't need that type anyway.
Lol women do not understand men at all
@@aigami7928 they actually don’t try to because they are really interested in if a man understands them
She actually did this brutha a favorite. At least he's physically, spiritually and financially free.
I’m 44 and boy things sure have changed in the dating game. I Don’t even try to talk to anyone anymore. Not worth the effort. If someone likes me they gotta come talk to me now.
A buddy who's my age told me 5 years ago I sit back and attract. Definitely a 180 from what it was in the 90s and early 2000s. Some days I wish I was born like 8 or 9 years earlier I would've caught the last good generation of worthwhile women.
But I got my passport 3 years ago so I'll be planning my relationship goals soon as I leave the States and finish my business here. Thanks for the post
Me too🤦🏽♀️
@@tengutribe Yeah man used to be some actual decent females in the world back in the day, but social media has blown up the heads of even the bottom 10 percent of females now.
I could not have said it better myself.
no wonder everyone is single, just sayin
Thank the lord. When I got with who is now my wife, it was 2008 and I was driving a 96 Pontiac Bonneville and the passenger door would open sometimes while driving, and she stayed with me.
Lmao 😂
@@kanonymously Lol, XD. He a g still, though.
When I met my husband we worked at the same job, made the same pay. We both struggled trying to do better, but at least we had each other. Money doesn't mean shit to me. Not that long ago we got sick, his job was playing games as usual so he decided to get a new one. We struggled for a good 3 months until he was able to get a better one. Now he only has to work 3, 12 hrs days with 4 days off. Unlike working 5 days a week schedule changing all the time.
Now we are working in buying a home 🙏
I find it very rewarding to work towards building a better life than having everything handed to me. These women are ridiculous with their high standards 🙄
I'm so sorry you men have to deal with this BS. 😔
U found that real love lovkng someone for who they are take away cars n material things who are you and what do you really have?? Love it
@@deandrenared4628 All I ever wanted was real love, never got that from my parents or anyone. I'm thankful to God for him. Now we have a beautiful family of our own and working towards goals to better our lives. Feels really good to be able to do it with my soul mate. 🙏
I pray more people get to find their significant other, seems like men are going to have to start looking overseas. The western women just doesn't care about anything but money and materials.
💪🏾We appreciate you and would equally like to apologize for the idiots among us.
yall love each other because you can relate to each other due to the common ground of having the same job. I think that's why a large number of relationships fail,the couple cannot relate to one another because they come from different lifestyles. the building up matters but I don't think it matters as much as being able to say "I know how you feel" and truly mean it, because you were in the same position at one point or another
All life has for us is B.S., so we just have to keep moving forward avoid headaches as best we can.
YESSS!!! I definitely needed the "FOH SILENT STARE" on this one. Whenever 1 a dem ask me why I'm single Imma have this joint right here cued DF up "Red Tah Go!" ▶️ 😒
Hearing this inspired me to park my nice ride and start driving my bucket more.....
It helps to weed out the fake ones...
I’ve seen this in too many women. When my hubby and I went on our first date, he was driving an old Honda Civic that was in an accident a couple of months before. I remember getting in and at one point it was acting like it was going to cut off. I told him if it cuts off I will guide the car but he has to push 😂. We still get a laugh about that now after our 15 years of marriage (with 4 kids). He’s also shorter than me (but most people are). I see women putting so much importance on things that don’t matter. I would have missed out on one of the best thinks to happen in my life. He is just amazing and we are blessed to call him my husband. Sorry I get mushy talking about him. I pray people start to put more important on substance and coming together to build a solid family. We are meant to complement each other not to compete against each other.
That's beautiful. You both are blessed to have each other. Big props to you both for seeing each others potential. I see 4 children that won't become statistics. 💪🏾👍🏾🙏🏾👏🏾
Ma’am, your comments are WAY too appropriate, mature, and logical for RUclips. 😅
How sad that fact is! 😑
@G Kab sharp guy 😂
Wow you are the last great generation of women left. We need a new batch
@G Kab 😂 only child unfortunately.
That was a blessing. Somebody that only cared about materialthings will leave for the first person with more material things. Like a person that only likes someone for looks, we all age and our looks fade. Focus on personality and interests.... celebrating our 25th anniversary in a few weeks
Ever heard the story of the girl who found a guy that met the perfect guy but he wasn’t ambitious enough to get ahead and make her life better ? She dumps him only to find out he was living off a trust fund and lived frugally till he found a girl that loved him not his money.
i know a couple of guys like that. its a bit sad actually, they cannot find an honest woman at all. they don't exist.
this is a strategy mom's tell their kids to try.
fails every time cause women be looking for security so you're basically sabotaging yourself by acting poor.
the only way to win is to have money, show it, but don't let women touch any of it.
I'm still looking...sometimes it seems like we should tell them. I keep finding out I can't trust my own judgement.
@@fleepss2407wont work as they will get everything by purposely getting pregnant
@@fleepss2407 wrong, he won by escaping. you don't want to be landed with a horror like that.