I love your videos man. Your simplicity and positive attitude is what keeps me coming back. U seem to be one rational real and cool dude naturally. Keep it up man. Wish you well. Cheers.
Man, situations like this are one of the primary legs of the root of my anxiety and panic attacks. I hate those awkward silent interactions when you can tell someone disproves of your actions and doesn't have the wherewithal or decency to bring it up maturely. That stuff eats up on me. But then again, like I commented about in a previous video, therapy.
Really love how you play with colour grading and lighting with your videos. And I combat gossiping in the workplace by just physically walking away from the conversation.
You are such a great male role model. I love your videos. At the moment I am inspired by the RUclips people that are becoming real in stead of their manufactured persona.
Great advice. I just wanted to expand on this idea by bringing up exes which is something I've tried to be mindful of after my fiancé and I recently broke up. It's natural that a close friend might want to say something negative about your recent ex to make you "feel better" but I've found that stopping people in their tracks from speaking ill of my ex has helped me move on more quickly and it keeps me from feeling negative thoughts about my ex. Thanks for another great video. Onward and upward...
Awesome message Jeff and I think this is something that I can personally improve. As an emotional guy I typically, I'll find myself needing to vent with my wife or business partners. My reasoning is behind the venting is to hopefully talk some sense into me and calm me down before I do or say something stupid. Not exactly sure when venting becomes trash talking or gossip, but keeping a positive image should always be first and foremost. Keep on creating man. I love the videos.
Thanks yeah it's not easy, and I've been guilty too. But been practicing for a while now and the positivity definitely is trickling to everything. Just catching myself out others say something negative and changing the conversation is so nice! I am happier on an otherwise bad day! Good luck!
I can understand that. If you need to vent, I find that meditating is good. I pray and meditate co that energy has to come out. Venting can be good. By selecting your wife/business partner at least you've used discernment and the info won't go everywhere.
I name this man King Buon of the Internet. Seriously, I wish you ran the Internet, it would be a much nicer place. Gossip also feeds your own negativity and state of mind as well. Negativity is a very hungry monster. Hard to deal with in a crowd, to find the courage to stand up, say no to it and walk away. Great video...awesome beard.
Hey Jeff, not sure if you've ever worked in a corporate environment, but sometimes you need to talk about issues with other co-workers in order to find solutions. No world is perfect, and thinking only positively does not fix problems that may be related to management or other co-workers. You cannot pretend everything is peachy in the Titanic if you know the boat is sinking.
I have actually. And like I said, bitching about an issue(s) to someone who doesn't have a say in it, doesn't progress the solution in an efficient manner. Just go directly to the source of someone who can do something about it instead of whining or bitching And I'm not the one who made this up, this is directly pulled from papers and studies. I didn't make it up. People don't like ppl who complain. It isn't about thinking positively, I believe you missed the point, it's about taking responsibility and talking to the people that can do something about what upsets you also that studies found people dislike when people complain to them if they are not involved in the problem. (Trying to clear that up, I know it sounds argumentative, I assure you it's not)
The Buon Life, sometimes going directly to the source does not help resolve the problem. Sometimes, it can backfire. There are a lot of nuances involved, but generally what I am referring to is not about bitching about people, but how operations are run. I have a concentration in Strategic Management, and one of the biggest problems companies face that make them fail is not to talk openly about their problems. But it also takes good leadership to be open to hear what employees have to say. I get what you're saying that people don't like people who complain, but there is a difference between constructive criticism and destructive, and also for what purpose.
I suppose I just don't know the variables of your situation. However, I do still think, that there is ways to go to the source without it backfiring. Setting up a meeting with them. Express concerns that affect both parties. There's always a way I believe. I think the challenge is in not being too lazy because they take effort. That's what struggle I personally face
The Buon Life, I've lived through several situations, personal and not personal. If you trust your leadership, what you say will work. If not, the best option is to go a rank above if you're ignored, and even then it's not guaranteed it will not backfire. Talking to other people also helps to profile the situation in a more rational manner. That's my take.
Thank you Jeff! I needed to hear what you shared tonight on not gossiping or taking negatively about others. Excellent advice. By the way, welcome back!
Nice video! All the things you said are totally accurate. I may add that, whenever I talk to a gossip person I'm thinking: "if he/she is capable to talk like that of that person... I CANNOT IMAGINE THE THINGS THAT HE/SHE TALKS ABOUT ME BEHIND MY BACK", so I instantly stop trusting that person. Is automatic. Anyway, nice video, Jeff.
Great video! I *NEVER* gossip or trash talk co-workers (with other co-workers). It just complicates and makes things awkward at work. If I have to vent about something at work I'll do it with people outside of my job (outside friends, family, my GF). If a co-worker comes to me with gossip I just let them talk. I never give my opinion or add anything to the conversation. Eventually they'll see I'm disinterested and cut it short.
Thank you for this video. I really like the way you presented the topic especially the point of gossiping as a result of the position of weakness. I am currently working in a poisoning environment where gossiping appears to be the daily sport. I really enjoy watching this video and it gives nice tips to handle the current situation. Have a lovely day
If someone at my job is not doing their work properly I am going to bring it up. We have standard operating procedures, thorough training and are quality accredited-accuracy is crucial.
I love your videos man. Your simplicity and positive attitude is what keeps me coming back. U seem to be one rational real and cool dude naturally. Keep it up man. Wish you well. Cheers.
Wow you hit it out of the park with this one. I needed to be reminded of this and I'm glad I just was. Keep up the great work.
well said and all true
I love it buddy, I'm a new sub and I gotta say your videos are a breath of fresh air! Thanks brother
You totally inspire myself Jeff , your changing my life for the better ' it seems each time I listen to you , I really take your words of wisdom in
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Man, situations like this are one of the primary legs of the root of my anxiety and panic attacks. I hate those awkward silent interactions when you can tell someone disproves of your actions and doesn't have the wherewithal or decency to bring it up maturely. That stuff eats up on me. But then again, like I commented about in a previous video, therapy.
Really love how you play with colour grading and lighting with your videos. And I combat gossiping in the workplace by just physically walking away from the conversation.
Thank you so much! Appreciate it
This is Incredible Jeff, I personally think I can build on , thank you very much you are incredible.
thank you! I'm glad this gave you a new perspective!
"Pointing out others sin doesn't makes you saint"
Thanks
You are such a great male role model. I love your videos. At the moment I am inspired by the RUclips people that are becoming real in stead of their manufactured persona.
Thank you so much!
Yes, YES, Great Information and VIDEO, THANKS JEFF..
POSITIVE WAYS OF BEING IS SO MUCH MORE ALFAMALE BECAUSE TELLS THAT YOU ARE ON TOP OF THE SITUATION :)
Great advice. I just wanted to expand on this idea by bringing up exes which is something I've tried to be mindful of after my fiancé and I recently broke up. It's natural that a close friend might want to say something negative about your recent ex to make you "feel better" but I've found that stopping people in their tracks from speaking ill of my ex has helped me move on more quickly and it keeps me from feeling negative thoughts about my ex. Thanks for another great video. Onward and upward...
When are you going to write a book? You have a lot of information and a simplistic way to explain things that could be useful to many.
It's in my plans for starting at the end of year!
Awesome message Jeff and I think this is something that I can personally improve. As an emotional guy I typically, I'll find myself needing to vent with my wife or business partners. My reasoning is behind the venting is to hopefully talk some sense into me and calm me down before I do or say something stupid.
Not exactly sure when venting becomes trash talking or gossip, but keeping a positive image should always be first and foremost. Keep on creating man. I love the videos.
Thanks yeah it's not easy, and I've been guilty too. But been practicing for a while now and the positivity definitely is trickling to everything. Just catching myself out others say something negative and changing the conversation is so nice! I am happier on an otherwise bad day! Good luck!
I can understand that. If you need to vent, I find that meditating is good. I pray and meditate co that energy has to come out. Venting can be good. By selecting your wife/business partner at least you've used discernment and the info won't go everywhere.
Once again you are spot on with advices, sure did miss your videos!
I name this man King Buon of the Internet. Seriously, I wish you ran the Internet, it would be a much nicer place. Gossip also feeds your own negativity and state of mind as well. Negativity is a very hungry monster. Hard to deal with in a crowd, to find the courage to stand up, say no to it and walk away. Great video...awesome beard.
Hey Jeff, not sure if you've ever worked in a corporate environment, but sometimes you need to talk about issues with other co-workers in order to find solutions. No world is perfect, and thinking only positively does not fix problems that may be related to management or other co-workers. You cannot pretend everything is peachy in the Titanic if you know the boat is sinking.
I have actually. And like I said, bitching about an issue(s) to someone who doesn't have a say in it, doesn't progress the solution in an efficient manner. Just go directly to the source of someone who can do something about it instead of whining or bitching And I'm not the one who made this up, this is directly pulled from papers and studies. I didn't make it up. People don't like ppl who complain. It isn't about thinking positively, I believe you missed the point, it's about taking responsibility and talking to the people that can do something about what upsets you also that studies found people dislike when people complain to them if they are not involved in the problem. (Trying to clear that up, I know it sounds argumentative, I assure you it's not)
The Buon Life, sometimes going directly to the source does not help resolve the problem. Sometimes, it can backfire. There are a lot of nuances involved, but generally what I am referring to is not about bitching about people, but how operations are run. I have a concentration in Strategic Management, and one of the biggest problems companies face that make them fail is not to talk openly about their problems. But it also takes good leadership to be open to hear what employees have to say. I get what you're saying that people don't like people who complain, but there is a difference between constructive criticism and destructive, and also for what purpose.
I suppose I just don't know the variables of your situation. However, I do still think, that there is ways to go to the source without it backfiring. Setting up a meeting with them. Express concerns that affect both parties. There's always a way I believe. I think the challenge is in not being too lazy because they take effort. That's what struggle I personally face
The Buon Life, I've lived through several situations, personal and not personal. If you trust your leadership, what you say will work. If not, the best option is to go a rank above if you're ignored, and even then it's not guaranteed it will not backfire. Talking to other people also helps to profile the situation in a more rational manner. That's my take.
Thank you Jeff! I needed to hear what you shared tonight on not gossiping or taking negatively about others. Excellent advice. By the way, welcome back!
If you cannot improve the conversation with the person and world, better to be quiet
Nice video! All the things you said are totally accurate. I may add that, whenever I talk to a gossip person I'm thinking: "if he/she is capable to talk like that of that person... I CANNOT IMAGINE THE THINGS THAT HE/SHE TALKS ABOUT ME BEHIND MY BACK", so I instantly stop trusting that person. Is automatic. Anyway, nice video, Jeff.
Great video man !! I love following you, very interesting.
Love the new lighting! Great advice!
Great advice! This got me thinking! Thank you!
Gossiping is a sin.
Love it. One of the four agreements!
Yeah yo! Hope all is well... It seems like it is! You're killing it! 👌🔥
Great video!
I *NEVER* gossip or trash talk co-workers (with other co-workers). It just complicates and makes things awkward at work.
If I have to vent about something at work I'll do it with people outside of my job (outside friends, family, my GF).
If a co-worker comes to me with gossip I just let them talk. I never give my opinion or add anything to the conversation. Eventually they'll see I'm disinterested and cut it short.
Thank you for this video. I really like the way you presented the topic especially the point of gossiping as a result of the position of weakness. I am currently working in a poisoning environment where gossiping appears to be the daily sport. I really enjoy watching this video and it gives nice tips to handle the current situation. Have a lovely day
beard looking great
Great advice Jeff. If only more people felt this way...
Peace and Love brother
Amazing! Really makes you think. Keep up the great work!
Great advice. It's so hard sometimes to not get sucked into gossip, especially at work
Excellent advice.👍
If someone at my job is not doing their work properly I am going to bring it up. We have standard operating procedures, thorough training and are quality accredited-accuracy is crucial.
if it's completely about their crumby work and not a personal jab I don't see a problem but I'm just a dude on the internet lol
Great advice 💪👌keep on
No body is perfect ,,, but we try too
RIP Had no idea you had your own channel. Subscribed from Beardbrand, cheers m8