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@@ShaBooThree one more thing bro self respect is most important for every person I really worried about this divorce issue because I also living same problem but iam women I can manage this but jayam Ravi sir is men
Anasatchi uods pesunga she is jeya wife,why going police station....,15 years nalladhane vazhndhanga ...appo adhu ena Chumma vA if she is not good girl see his interview..and photos... stupid
Anasatchi uods pesunga she is jeya wife,why going police station....,15 years nalladhane vazhndhanga ...appo adhu ena Chumma vA if she is not good girl see his interview..and photos... stupid
Nanum iruken plan panni Raviya with the help of kusbhu love pannavachurkaanga aarti but oru precious sweet husband kedachum avara anbala aravanaichu purinjikitu avarudaya lifeah nimmadhya vaazhavidama ipdi spoil pannivachirkardha patha nothing to utter avarudaya girls fan base avlo irundhuchu avarmela avlo paithyama avlo girls irundhom but aartiya paathu unmayavey upset aaitom indha girls fanbase pathu aarti maariageku apram pathu ivlo girls fans ungalkaga irukangala na unmayavey luckynu solli perumaipata oru ponnu ipo yen psychomari avara torture pannirkunu therla Unmayavey enaporuthavara Ravi semma smart and gentleman avarku andha ponnu worthey illa 🤦🤦
@@naturelover1640 yes he is such a chocolate and handsome boy. M kumaran la avlo azhaga iruparu. Ippavum dhan. Jeyam ravi oda azhaguku maddy lam onnume illa😍😍😍
@@brokenwings7607 yes M kumaran movieya paathu avarmela paithyam ponnunga yegapattaper adhil nanum oruthar avarku mrgenu kelvipatta silaper azhudhadhellam pathurken still he has the same craze among girls not only for his handsome look as a person love him so much kudumbapangana oru beautiful soul avaru avarudaya arumayum anbum aartiku purialandradhu dhan varutham avarudaya diehard girl fansah avarudaya life questionmarkah niruthi oru ponnu avara ivlo torture pannirkunu kekkumbodhu avlo kovam varudhu avaru arumayalam solli thitnum pola iruku avarudaya anbum arumayum andha ponnuku therla andha ponnoda parents ponadhakapram avaru arumai therinji nichayama azhuvanga 😠ipovey purinji adangipona aarti thappichanga illena her life waste
நானும்.நல்லா சம்பரிச்சுட்டு இப்படி அடிமையா இருக்கணும்னு அவசியம் இல்லை. இந்த கால குழந்தைகள் ரொம்ப மெச்சூறிட்டி. கண்டிப்பா புரிஞ்சுகிட்டு அப்பா கிட்ட வருவாங்க. இதுல குஷ்பூ தலையிட வேண்டிய அவசியம் இல்லை.
It's very true Shah. It affects children badly of age 8 to 14 yrs . I have personally seen this in my friends life. So as u said each couple need to consider these
Hi sha na what ever your convyed in this video is almost true bcz one of my students parent he was working as a personal assistant for Jayam Ravi, last year I came to knw about this issues especially the money handling and controlling of his wife 👍now i completely believe in your words and what Jayam sir told you was right 😊
His wife deserves this. When i was working in a popular tv channel i had worked with her mom's production house. Their attitude is really bad. Very money minded!!
பெண் என்ற ஒரு காரணத்தினால் அவர்கள் சொல்வதெல்லாம் உண்மை என்று யாரும் நம்ப கூடாது தீர விசாரித்து ஆணும் பெண்ணும் அவர்களுக்கான நியாயத்தை வாங்கி கொடுப்பதே....🙌
Self respect is not a gender bias. Everyone in this world should deserve self respect. He is affected nu tha thonuthu when we see him. Unfortunately god gives strength to the family
Poor Jayam Ravi...feel bad for him...Pls people, after marriage, even if u have joint account..do maintain a personal account too for urself...have individuality...this applies both for men n women!!
@@ShankarNithu-gx1ykpondati panra torture naala avala pudikala athey time la inoru ponnu mela geniunea love varuthu , athula ena da thappu iruku , mothalla nee yaaru da judge pañrathuku
We are all talking about male domination, mamiyar kodumai, wat about female dominance, control over husband, girl side in law domination, so sad to hear this. My deepest worry towards jayamravi
What ever jayam ravi saying it may be true…. But now he is going throw a divorce and his family and kids going throw same divorce drama… ravi is giving an interview that he is going to start a healing centre with that girl kanisha…… healing centre is not important in this situation….. before this divorce announcement… in all interviews he is praising his wife saying she is very possessive about him and he enjoyed saying that wife is possessiveness …. All off sudden he is accusing his wife for the same possessive nature…. Why are u seeking help from RUclipsrs…. Ashamed off ur self ravi…. If u have problems with ur in-law …. And wife handling money matters talk to her take upper hand in money matters ….you can open mouth to media y not to ur wife ….if media is accusing that girl kinesha your jumping in to protect here…. But your wife …. She may be money minded and bad wife…. What ever ….she lived with you and Mother of your 2 kids she needs respect… media is trolling and tearing her up….. when ur kids grow up media will still talks about there mother… think about it …. U don’t want to stand for her plz don’t add fule… don’t seek help from RUclipss …. Media never going solves ur problems…. Dhanush handle his divorce issues way better than you with dignity…. Don’t bring your family problems to media…. No need announce ur divorce to media… no need to show your wife bad in media…. You don’t want to prove to anyone in media…. You only matter for few months for media
@@anikutty85have u been in an abusive marriage ? Everyone is different . May be you are a strong person to handle these things . May be ravi is sensitive and can’t take this anymore . I am sure he would thought a lot
Jeyam ravi decision is absolutely correct 💯. He is very good and humble person. Last few years his face and health are so bad.He is very active and jovial person in the cinefield . during his issue he is very calm and he doesn't speak much more.everything is taken his rights his wife and her family it's really bad for him. Money,Atm, he is earning money ,he built his own house also taken everything with him without his permission that's very sad .Whatever he needs to go,eat food ,outing his own decision and he have rights and freedom.But they did not give any space for him it's shocked.after marriage How much he faced a lot of struggling his life and problems But in social media no one their personal life .they will build up and they will say anything . society also they will accept their words. Everyday he lives like hell really very sad for him. If boy does not make mistakes and if the girl's complaint means , they will tell them very big issue will create and they will do sympathy also. if the girl did the mistakes and cried means they won't talk much more that's call society and social media . Now he come back from his hell life and he will make happy and he will live with his family
ஆணாக இருந்தாலும் பெண்ணாக இருந்தாலும் உரிமைகள் சிறு எல்லை கோடு மீறும்போது அன்பு கொஞ்ச கொஞ்சமாக குறையும், அதுவே எல்லை கோடு அழிந்து அடிமைதனமாக மாறினால் அவன்/அவளுக்கு சுதந்திரமாக பறக்க தோன்றும்.. jeyam ravi point of view'la irundhu paathatha adhu purium ( இங்கே ஒரு பெண்ணின் அழு குரலுக்கு முன் ஆண்களின் உண்மை பல நேரம் காணாமல் போய் விடும்).
Enakum apdidhan thonuchu dominating wealthy maamiyar who can go any extend to keep her daughter happy and kenisha entry um apdidhan iruku sithara maadhiri ore oru difference dhan here jeyam Ravi and aarthi having two innocent kids who is going to suffer
The problem is 1. Mamiyar step away from his life 2. Arthi is so entitled person. Stop you are not a special human than any others in this world 3. Poor Ravi needs his space. He decides who he needs to work for 4. Don’t lie about his success say it’s a flop. That’s hurtful big time for a hardworking man. This is max level of evilness
Pavam Jayam Ravi ..he tolerated all these days now he lost his patience...celebrity status maintain pannun nu ivlo naal solla venamnu control pannitu irundhiruparu pola.... Wishing both of them and his family get some peace of mind from this trauma..its not easy to handle all these 😢
எல்லார் வீட்லயும் இருக்கிற சண்டை தான் ஆனா ஓரளவுக்கு இருக்கணும் அது வந்து அதிகப்படியா போகும்போது மனநிலை கண்டிப்பா மாறும் எல்லாத்துக்கும் பெரிய காரணம் சந்தேகம்
😂 counselling illa ya yov.. idhuku punishment dhan kudukanum.. women ku prachana vandha raththam .. men ku vandha thakkali chutney ah.. punishment and fine... Defamation... Financial fraud... 😅😂 Ipdi yevlavo iruku indha case la.. 🤷♂️
To dear Sha, please understand: His marital issue is not due to “misunderstanding” as you are saying at the end of the video. Also I don’t know what is there to reconsider as you mentioned. It’s clearly because of controlling behavior of Arti, her domination, her life her rules and lack of respect on her life partner. Marriage and relationship are built on mutual RESPECT and TRUST. When these two essential elements are missing , then the relationship is void. If all the things said by Jayam Ravi are true, i really feel sorry for him. I sincerely pray and hope he comes out of this toxic relationship and he gets his mental peace and happiness back which he deserves.
It's very easy to say stay together, those who live in that situation only knows how stressful it is.. untill he goes in to depression they tortured him... pity the man
I'm a woman but i support jayam ravi👍 aarthi didn't deserve jayam ravi as a husband....ravi treat her well☹️but she treat ravi like this...hope ravi deserve more loves n blessings from we all🫶
In film industry, Captain Vijayakanth's journey and how his family consistently supported him without interfering in his professional life is inspiring. Captain was known for feeding technicians, providing financial aid during natural disasters, helping fellow actors, both known and unknown, and always standing by those in need. His legacy will live on forever!
There is no point in staying in a toxic relationship, it is healthier for kids also rather than see parents fighting with each other and abusing each other at home. Men also get abused a lot in marriage- but men do not speak about this outside . As a psychologist- parents can try to reconcile, but when respect is lost - it is better and healthier to seperate and be good parents
பாவம் ரவி 15 yrs அடிமை வாழ்க்கை வாழ்ந்து இருக்கார். ஆர்த்தி first' Amma va விட்டு வெளியே வரணும். ரவி ku respect தரணும்.ஆர்த்தி அவங்கள மாத்திகளைன் ரவி லைஃப் wate ஆகிடும். So ரவி ku avar life வாழ உரிமை உண்டு. ஆர்த்தி அவங்க character மாத்திகளைன ஆ Ravi divorce வாங்குறது தான் சரி. ஆர்த்தி கு மட்டும் தான் தெரியும் ரவி எவ்ளோ நல்லவர் என்று. ஆர்த்தி விட்டுகுடுகணும். இல்லைனா ரவிக்கு devorce தரணும் அது தான் நியாயம். குழந்தைகளுக்காக ரவி தன்மானம் இழந்து வாழ முடியாது ஷா bro.
இத்தன வருடங்கள் அவனுக்கு ஒன்னும் தெரியல,இப்ப இன்னொருத்திய கண்டதும்தான் அவனுக்கு வீரமும்,மிச்சமும் வருதோ? எந்த பொண்டாட்டியும் இன்னொருத்தியோட சேர்ந்து பயணிப்பதை ஏற்கமாட்டார்கள். நீங்க ஏத்துக்குவிங்களா?
ஜெயம் ரவி மனைவியை விட்டு ஏன் பிரிக்கிறார் குழந்தைகளுக்காக வாழலாமே என்று நினைத்தேன் ஆனா அவர்க்கு இவ்வளவு மென்டல் டார்ச் கொடுத்த அவர் எவ்வளவு தான் தாங்கி கொல்வார் தெளிவான வீடியோ நன்றி சகோதரர் 🙏
In any relationship, personal space is very very very important. Too much of anything is good for nothing, sometimes it will end with suffocation. I feel like supporting Jeyam Ravi.
Separation is good if there is no love n respect in relationship..Ravi is a great actor n feel pity for his current situation..No words about aarthi she never allowed him alone to gave even interview as well..wherever i see Ravi in some event there is Aarthi..freedom n personal space is much needed I support Ravi 👍🏻
வீட்டோடு மாப்பிள்ளை இருந்தால் இதேபோல் தொடர்ந்து நடக்கும். ரவி சகோதரர் எடுத்த முடிவு 100/சதவீதம் சரியான முடிவு. அந்த வேதனை அனுபவிப்பவர்களுக்கு தான் தெரியும். தயவுசெய்து அவரை சுயமரியாதை உடன் வாழ. அனுமதியுங்கள்.
Ithu ippo oru aan ku nadkakuthu jryam ravi pavam tha. Ithe vishyam tahne ella ambalaingalum pombalaikku pandranga . Ellaru illa konja per . Appola purushan tahnr adangi iru nu solluvanga athayu ethirthu keta nallam
Im more concerned abt how ravi feels now... That freedom feels like heaven.. Cutting of those evil dominance , chains... 😊😊 shout out to ravi.. 🎉 enjoy pannupa ni..
Possesive அளவுக்கு அதிகமாக இருந்தா அங்க கண்டிப்பா சந்தேகமும் வரும். ஆர்த்தி Too Much Of Possesive JR மேல அதுதான் வெறுப்பை ஏற்படுத்தி இருக்கும். possessive Ah Use Panni control பண்ணி வைக்க நினைத்தால் இப்படி தான் ஆகும். ஆசை ஒரு நாள் வெறுப்பாக காரணம் நமக்கு கீழ அடக்கி வைக்கணும்னு நினைப்பதால் தான்
Neenga soltrathu sarithan avanga konjam consider pannalam because baby's kaka but jayam ravi avaroda mana aluttham kuraiya na God kitta prayer 🙏🏻 pannikirae kavalapadathinga brother kadavul ungalukku thunaiya irupparu
@@tamizh2003 10years nalla dan ponuchunu avarey sollirukkarunnu sha vey vedio la sollirukkanga, 15years sirai life nu yeppadi neenga solluveenga...3years kulla vantha reasons
Indha ulagatha porutha vara oru relationship la problem na udane boys kitta tha problem nu ninaikuranga... Girls ena sonnalum adha nambitu boys ah pathi thappa pesuvanga... Nanum oru girl tha... Pls yarum endha vishayamum mulusa therinjikama jayam ravi annava pathi pesadhinga... Yar mela thappunu therinjikuma ovoruthar solra kadhaigala pathu judge pannadhinga...
I'm from Udumalpet his first movie was captured in my hometown since tha day 1 he is my favourite till now. I wish he stay calm and in peace now❤ Thanks Sha anna for conveying his justification. Let the people know about him atleast now unless commenting rubbish. In current world who is sharing their social media account to Bank account details without hiding. He is really a genuine😢 Only this kind of people get hurt and backstabbed. I pray for him to be freedom and happy from now🎉
That’s pure narcissistic behaviour. Whenever you face such people never hesitate to leave them. Lots of people here blame Jayam Ravi for leaving his wife. He made the right decision, these kinds of women deserve such action. At last he will finally taste the freedom.
Separation is not the end of everything bro, if everyone decides to separate then no one can live as a family and partner. Women and men now think differently about their freedom. But no one has ever thought of the sacrifices their life partners make. Now the word freedom has become a new weapon for both men and women to escape from married life. But no one thinks about children's future.. Always understand one thing. How true it is that "Let both hands clap together." Similarly, husband and wife fight is similar, in which no one can say that the husband is right and the wife is wrong, and the husband is wrong and the wife is right. Now men and women are afraid to fix the problem in their life so they run to divorce . The first lesson we teach our children is to get our lives right. As you say no one can take away anyone's freedom. But don't forget that some people make some mistakes in the name of freedom and say that it is wrong and their partner has the right to say that it is wrong. People who think their freedom is important like this are not fit for family life. They cannot be good parents to their children. So people who think their independence is important are not suitable for married life. Freedom is important here, but in married life, freedom belongs only to one person and it does not understand that freedom is also important to one's partner. Now if Aarti thinks that freedom is important what will be the life of those children.. But God knows the truth, there is no escape from Karma.... Time will answer everything bro ...✝️☪️🕉️
@@Nikithaa-mr7qu you are talking general theories here. I have seen my parents fighting always but they had an understanding on how to take things forward. If men sacrifices a lot of things including his freedom to just go out with his friends, talk to women colleagues or drink with his friends then there is definitely a narc behaviour with the female partner. The same goes for both men and women. Both need not to sacrifice their happiness just to be in a relationship. You can make sacrifices but not to the level he or she controls you completely. Let’s think about the kids and destroy their own happiness. If both can’t be happy together then they can be happy separated. I have been in this same struggle and I don’t blame my partner. I was suicidal and can’t heal myself from that trauma. What happens if I’m gone? Who is going to take care of the child? As long as I’m here I will provide for my partner and my child if I’m gone then who are we going to blame? To give you an idea, I don’t drink, I have no friends just because of my wife, I don’t talk to women colleagues etc just because my wife thinks I have an affair (I work from home), I was flexible in my whole marriage life and all I got is mental trauma. Not everyone’s problems are same. Either you need to witness it or you had to be victim to understand this. I’m sorry but you don’t have any idea on how this works.
@@God-Brand bro You may have given up a lot in your life and who knows your partner may have given up too. They may have had male and female friends and she may have avoided it for you... It is not wrong to think that you should have the same. As you say it is not wrong that your colleagues are women it is natural. It's not wrong to drink with friends but if it's wife or co-workers what's important, don't even think for a minute and say that you want your wife...why, there will come a time when you feel that it's not important here than family..a small misunderstanding happened in your life, that's all.. According to me, we can sit down and talk and fix it, why the divorce comes here, the reason is because you don't like each other, what can you do if your wife thinks the same way you think.... So divorce is not a solution, we can talk and fix it, but now a days they are getting separated. When the time comes when we feel that this divorce is wrong then our partner chooses another partner in my life and I feel the same way in work I felt it was wrong when my wife remarried.. I felt that it was not a big fight but it was of no use. I was It was only after some time that I came to know that my mother and sister are the reason for the separation and I am suffering so much because of them. But when I want my anger and ego to calm down and my wife and my son want him to belong to a different family it has been very difficult..Nothing is permanent except the family of the world. Your friend or your colleague has another friend and another life but for your wife you are the only life so they may have been over possessive. You are the only one they know...who knows even your wife may have had many male and female friends and may not have talked to them for you...I am missing my family today. My friends are also telling me this advice... I am praying to God that my wish is for my wife and my son to come back 🙏...
@@Nikithaa-mr7qu Thank you very much for understanding both the sides. I did change a lot just to meet her needs and love. But it was always one sided for me. Whatever she asks I do it in an instant, she separated me from my family just because of a normal family fight, I need to let go of my friends, my job, had to change city. Did a lot of work in my marriage. But I got blamed that I’m having a side kick even though I work from home. She checks my phone regularly, she has all my account passwords, my bank details everything. She still thinks I’m cheating. Do I need to do more to prove that I’m not? Even so for how many years? Apart from this I had to handle work pressure, daily fights with my wife for her imaginary thinking. She won’t cook for me, i had to wait until she cooks for the day. If not I can’t go out and eat otherwise there will be a fight that continues for days. Also there are 1000 rules for me in my house. Not go there do that etc. What I’m saying is you don’t know my full story, or what I suffered if you still think a talk will settle this then it’s not. There is no way I could live with such a person by being a slave. Please try to understand, divorce atleast gets me some peace. I’m mentally depressed, taking session for that. Physically down, no proper diet, suicidal, financially unstable. I got all the problems a person could ever imagine. So in my POV divorce is mental peace and freedoms for me. But thanks for your advice. I wish you all the best in your life
Sha ஓடி ஆடி சம்பாதிச்சு அதுல தனக்கு நு செலவு பண்ண முடில நா ரொம்ப மோசம் sha.. அவர் என்ன machine ஆ.. வார்தை முக்கியம் sha..தீயினாற் சுட்டபுண் உள்ளாறும் ஆறாதே நாவினாற் சுட்ட வடு. அவர ரொம்ப காயபடுதிருகாங்க நு நினைக்கிறேன்.. He now needs freedom from her..I am a women even I can feel his situation..atleast now on let him live his life..life is short...his family also a very decent one..
20years ah Ravi ya film la pakurom .. neriya interviews la kuda yaraiyum hurt pannadha manusan..2 pasangaliyum thandi divorce nu decide panni irukaruna avlo depression,stress....lets pray for him..elam maridum...always we stand with JayamRavii ❤
Sha u were telling the truth so dont worry may all the jravi's worries turn into happiness. This is mental emotional bullying for jravi how could he hold this much personal and emotional damage and mocking this long.... Unbelievable
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Anna manimegali pathi soillu ga anna
Kudumpathuku idaiyil yaar vanthaalum ithuthaan kethi... 25yrs love yetho orusila karanangalal piriya kooduma......
@@ShaBooThree one more thing bro self respect is most important for every person I really worried about this divorce issue because I also living same problem but iam women I can manage this but jayam Ravi sir is men
O5
Over controling really dangerous! No one can tolerate this goes to both gender !
After Kenisha come into jayam ravi life ….Now only rive released he is over control by wife ….
கணவனை அன்பாக நடத்துவது வேறு அடிமைத்தனமாக நடத்துவது வேறு..
💯💯
Yes
U all duno her part of story .yeah....we don't know
Adu epudi Sir Healing GIRL KIDAICHA APPOROM wife. Adakumurai teriyuthu?
@@ThalaAjithkumar1n1ஆமைகளுக்கு மட்டும் புரியாது nanba
பெண் சுதந்திரம் மட்டும் அல்லாமல் ஆண் சுதந்திரமும் வேண்டும்
Correct
True
மிக்கும் 😂😂😂😂....
Anasatchi uods pesunga she is jeya wife,why going police station....,15 years nalladhane vazhndhanga ...appo adhu ena
Chumma vA if she is not good girl see his interview..and photos... stupid
Anasatchi uods pesunga she is jeya wife,why going police station....,15 years nalladhane vazhndhanga ...appo adhu ena
Chumma vA if she is not good girl see his interview..and photos... stupid
Self respect more important,Jayam Ravi made a good decision i think
பாவம் மனுஷனை இப்படி பண்ணா அவன் என்னதான் சார் செய்யனும் பாவம் அவரு
Enaku mattum dha aarthi ah starting la irundhe pudikatha?? Attitude face eppavum aarthi ku.
Andha mogara kataiya enakum 2009 la Ravi marrige aanapo irunthen pidikadhu. Konrangu moonji
Nanum iruken plan panni Raviya with the help of kusbhu love pannavachurkaanga aarti but oru precious sweet husband kedachum avara anbala aravanaichu purinjikitu avarudaya lifeah nimmadhya vaazhavidama ipdi spoil pannivachirkardha patha nothing to utter avarudaya girls fan base avlo irundhuchu avarmela avlo paithyama avlo girls irundhom but aartiya paathu unmayavey upset aaitom indha girls fanbase pathu aarti maariageku apram pathu ivlo girls fans ungalkaga irukangala na unmayavey luckynu solli perumaipata oru ponnu ipo yen psychomari avara torture pannirkunu therla Unmayavey enaporuthavara Ravi semma smart and gentleman avarku andha ponnu worthey illa 🤦🤦
@@naturelover1640 yes he is such a chocolate and handsome boy. M kumaran la avlo azhaga iruparu. Ippavum dhan. Jeyam ravi oda azhaguku maddy lam onnume illa😍😍😍
@@brokenwings7607 yes M kumaran movieya paathu avarmela paithyam ponnunga yegapattaper adhil nanum oruthar avarku mrgenu kelvipatta silaper azhudhadhellam pathurken still he has the same craze among girls not only for his handsome look as a person love him so much kudumbapangana oru beautiful soul avaru avarudaya arumayum anbum aartiku purialandradhu dhan varutham avarudaya diehard girl fansah avarudaya life questionmarkah niruthi oru ponnu avara ivlo torture pannirkunu kekkumbodhu avlo kovam varudhu avaru arumayalam solli thitnum pola iruku avarudaya anbum arumayum andha ponnuku therla andha ponnoda parents ponadhakapram avaru arumai therinji nichayama azhuvanga 😠ipovey purinji adangipona aarti thappichanga illena her life waste
@@naturelover1640 yes good soul avaru❤️ but aarthi attitude moonji.
Omg na evlo days ah jayamravi ya thappa nenachitu irutha but epo unga video pathuthan ena prbm nu puriyuthu.....
Nanum
Yes im too
நானும்.நல்லா சம்பரிச்சுட்டு இப்படி அடிமையா இருக்கணும்னு அவசியம் இல்லை. இந்த கால குழந்தைகள் ரொம்ப மெச்சூறிட்டி. கண்டிப்பா புரிஞ்சுகிட்டு அப்பா கிட்ட வருவாங்க. இதுல குஷ்பூ தலையிட வேண்டிய அவசியம் இல்லை.
Me too...
Ayoo யார இருந்தாலும் இப்படி பண்ணுன mental ஆகிருவாங்க உண்மையா romba பாவம் 😢😢😢
I stand with Jayam Ravi Anna ❤❤❤❤ stay strong anna ❤❤❤ men deserve respect as well ❤
Thalaiva jayam ravi emotionalah avanga tharapu sona ipo support pandravanga apram criticize dhaa panuvanga
@@ajitkumarh4379 purila bro! Ipo jayam ravi thana solrukaru 🤔
nenga solrathu unmaiyana statement huh iruntha i support ravi 🙌 everyone needs self respect and need to treat them each other equally 😎
these days many innocent men are trapped at wifes hand. even in normal ppl...but they wont blame women.
@@karthikeyan9593 Idhu 100 % Jayam Ravi sonnadhu !!! Avar sonnadhu unmaiyaaga irundhaal
Self respect is important but wat kids will do.... And idhuku solution vera girl ah ??? Y he can't stand alone for self respect.......
It's very true Shah. It affects children badly of age 8 to 14 yrs . I have personally seen this in my friends life. So as u said each couple need to consider these
@@ShaBooThree anyway cannot hide the real truth .. one day it will come out automatically 😁let's see
Hi sha na what ever your convyed in this video is almost true bcz one of my students parent he was working as a personal assistant for Jayam Ravi, last year I came to knw about this issues especially the money handling and controlling of his wife 👍now i completely believe in your words and what Jayam sir told you was right 😊
Even I heard the same
What rights did Kushboo has to comment against JR?
@@jansirani961 Khushboo is Ravi's mother-in-law's friend so that could be a reason
@anushiyamohan27 No, they are relatives.ravi's mil is sundar C's sister.
@@preethijanarthanan910Sundar C only has two brothers as his siblings.JR MIL is best friend of Kushboo
My support is for Jayam Ravi, I know him personally he is such a cultured man🫡🤞
His wife deserves this. When i was working in a popular tv channel i had worked with her mom's production house. Their attitude is really bad. Very money minded!!
Avanga face pathalae teriuthu.
True
அவளுக்கு ரொம்பப் பணத்திமிர்
Idkk if you know this but VANITHA has spoken about Sujatha Vijayakumar
புரியல@@shruthi1253
பெண் என்ற ஒரு காரணத்தினால் அவர்கள் சொல்வதெல்லாம் உண்மை என்று யாரும் நம்ப கூடாது தீர விசாரித்து ஆணும் பெண்ணும் அவர்களுக்கான நியாயத்தை வாங்கி கொடுப்பதே....🙌
🙌🏻👍🏻
Inga elarukum ponnuku tha support pannuvanga tharkuri payaluga
Well said
@@ajithkumarks3963correct nanba. But ipdiye sollitu yedhuvum pannaama irundha yepdi??
@@soldierking6859 first ninga ponnunga support pannama boys ku support pannunga elarum maarum....
bro,oru nimidam avaroda mananilayai ninaitthu parungal.romba adimaithanama....adavadithanama nadanthirukkanga....intha madhiri kodumayana valkkai valurathai vida,vilagirathuthan mel.avar uyiravathu thappikkum.
புதுப்புது அர்த்தங்கள் படத்தைப் பார்த்து ரகுமானை பரிதாபம் பார்க்க வேண்டியது அதே நிஜ வாழ்க்கையில் நடந்தால் ஜெயம் ரவியை திட்ட வேண்டியது
Antha movie Climax theriyuma???😂
That's movie, now real life it's their decision@@Chinnapan-h8b
@ shebhas 😂😂😂👌
Self respect is not a gender bias. Everyone in this world should deserve self respect. He is affected nu tha thonuthu when we see him. Unfortunately god gives strength to the family
Poor Jayam Ravi...feel bad for him...Pls people, after marriage, even if u have joint account..do maintain a personal account too for urself...have individuality...this applies both for men n women!!
It is not happening only in Ravi life it also happens in many good hearted men
January IL vinisha VA meet panne September LA divorce vinesha wow physiological treatment nampura Mariya irrukku .
@@ShankarNithu-gx1ykyaaruda vinisha.. ooruga mAnda 😂
Moral of the story is husband should behave like a man of the house.
@@ShankarNithu-gx1ykpondati panra torture naala avala pudikala athey time la inoru ponnu mela geniunea love varuthu , athula ena da thappu iruku , mothalla nee yaaru da judge pañrathuku
@@nasirwaka9255😮 you mean his share from his parents also??
always it striked my mind that aarti could be toxic even before this issue came out. i could understand ravi.
We are all talking about male domination, mamiyar kodumai, wat about female dominance, control over husband, girl side in law domination, so sad to hear this. My deepest worry towards jayamravi
Absolutely 💯 many men are suffering quietly with the dominance of the girl's mother. Who is going to talk about it.
Female domination instances are very less on a global level......and people talk about it widely when an incident is revealed.......
What ever jayam ravi saying it may be true…. But now he is going throw a divorce and his family and kids going throw same divorce drama… ravi is giving an interview that he is going to start a healing centre with that girl kanisha…… healing centre is not important in this situation….. before this divorce announcement… in all interviews he is praising his wife saying she is very possessive about him and he enjoyed saying that wife is possessiveness …. All off sudden he is accusing his wife for the same possessive nature…. Why are u seeking help from RUclipsrs…. Ashamed off ur self ravi…. If u have problems with ur in-law …. And wife handling money matters talk to her take upper hand in money matters ….you can open mouth to media y not to ur wife ….if media is accusing that girl kinesha your jumping in to protect here…. But your wife …. She may be money minded and bad wife…. What ever ….she lived with you and Mother of your 2 kids she needs respect… media is trolling and tearing her up….. when ur kids grow up media will still talks about there mother… think about it …. U don’t want to stand for her plz don’t add fule… don’t seek help from RUclipss …. Media never going solves ur problems…. Dhanush handle his divorce issues way better than you with dignity…. Don’t bring your family problems to media…. No need announce ur divorce to media… no need to show your wife bad in media…. You don’t want to prove to anyone in media…. You only matter for few months for media
@@anikutty85have u been in an abusive marriage ? Everyone is different . May be you are a strong person to handle these things . May be ravi is sensitive and can’t take this anymore . I am sure he would thought a lot
@@AshaSathyaNarayanan namma dhan pesanum... Apo dhan awareness varum... Are you ready??
Jayam Ravi mind voice:
😢நாள்தோறும் ரசிகன் பாராட்டும் கலைஞன் காவல்கள் எனக்கில்லையே
சோகங்கள் எனாக்கும் நெஞ்சோடு இருக்கும் சிரிக்காத நாளில்லையே
Exactly true for him 😢
yes... ive seen many these days. some women r totally using woman card n playing hub life.
😢😢😢😢
Jeyam ravi decision is absolutely correct 💯. He is very good and humble person. Last few years his face and health are so bad.He is very active and jovial person in the cinefield . during his issue he is very calm and he doesn't speak much more.everything is taken his rights his wife and her family it's really bad for him. Money,Atm, he is earning money ,he built his own house also taken everything with him without his permission that's very sad .Whatever he needs to go,eat food ,outing his own decision and he have rights and freedom.But they did not give any space for him it's shocked.after marriage How much he faced a lot of struggling his life and problems But in social media no one their personal life .they will build up and they will say anything . society also they will accept their words. Everyday he lives like hell really very sad for him. If boy does not make mistakes and if the girl's complaint means , they will tell them very big issue will create and they will do sympathy also. if the girl did the mistakes and cried means they won't talk much more that's call society and social media . Now he come back from his hell life and he will make happy and he will live with his family
Thanks for sharing this sha........ I know jayam ravi is innocent.... Avaru life avaru decision stay happy ravi😊
It would be better live separately rather than living as the enemies in the same house. Broken pieces will never be pasted as like its original state.
Super 👍
Respect is very important in any relationship...sha bro u r 100% correct....they should reconsider...
ஆணாக இருந்தாலும் பெண்ணாக இருந்தாலும் உரிமைகள் சிறு எல்லை கோடு மீறும்போது அன்பு கொஞ்ச கொஞ்சமாக குறையும், அதுவே எல்லை கோடு அழிந்து அடிமைதனமாக மாறினால் அவன்/அவளுக்கு சுதந்திரமாக பறக்க தோன்றும்.. jeyam ravi point of view'la irundhu paathatha adhu purium ( இங்கே ஒரு பெண்ணின் அழு குரலுக்கு முன் ஆண்களின் உண்மை பல நேரம் காணாமல் போய் விடும்).
Yethaanaai pengal sandaga padakudiya kanvaanoda vaalgirargal kulandaigalukaagaa adum Pollu ravium kids kaga valundaal yenna
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@@uniquefashion5424kidska ipo vaalntha kid valanthu avaga lifea paathudu poiduvaanga aprem parents oda nilama...kids munadi sanda podu valuratha vida pirinchi poi vaalurathu ellarukum nallathu....
Exactly
@@uniquefashion5424 Tamizh ah konjam ozhungaa type pannunga. Romba neram padichaa dhaan puriyudhu.
பாவம்பா மனுஷன் சந்தோஷ் சுப்ரமண்யம் படத்துல பிரகஷ்ராஜ் கிட்ட பட்ட கஷ்டத்த விட ஆர்த்தி ஃபேமிலி ட்ட ரொம்ப பட்ருப்பாரு போல...😢😢
Correct decision 👌 self respect mukiyam
ஜெயம் ரவி பாவம் எவ்ளோ வருஷம் பொறுமையா இருந்தது போதும் நீங்க உங்க லைப் பாருங்கsir ஆர்த்தி ரொம்ப சந்தேகம் காசு இருந்த மட்டும் பத்தாது
True
We will support you Ravi!
Puthu puthu arthangal movie pola irukku jeyam Ravi life..
Enakum apdidhan thonuchu dominating wealthy maamiyar who can go any extend to keep her daughter happy and kenisha entry um apdidhan iruku sithara maadhiri ore oru difference dhan here jeyam Ravi and aarthi having two innocent kids who is going to suffer
Kennisha also hav kids ..one journalist told this... But dont know about father status
@@deepika4145 yes sis..pity the kids..
Vasanth can direct part 2 with Ravi in Raguman's role
Mr ravi ivlo tensionaium thaandi cinema la nadichirkarunu nenaikum pothu konjma feeling ah tha iruku
Hm ama.. paavam Jayam Ravi romba kasta patrukaru..😔
Ravi sir ennaku rombo pidikum pavam many started to support arthi but I think jayam Ravi is victim here 😔
Divorce venam ..konjam 1year space vidunga ..yarum yaraium distrub pannama work parunga ..kandipa change ahum mind ..avunga avunga mistake kandipa realise panna mudium ..one year aparemum divorce than venumuna mutually break pannikonga
J Ravi is mature enough to decide about his life.
Yes one year transition and transformation period can be given
The problem is
1. Mamiyar step away from his life
2. Arthi is so entitled person. Stop you are not a special human than any others in this world
3. Poor Ravi needs his space. He decides who he needs to work for
4. Don’t lie about his success say it’s a flop. That’s hurtful big time for a hardworking man. This is max level of evilness
Lol y fk feminist deciding fr men always?
Y cant u say this fr samantha?@@GodIsLoveLoveLove
Some people won't change
Pavom ya antha manushan ,unma theriyama avar mela ulla mariyatha poitu nu comment podranga pakave sangatama irukku ....ithukumelaiyum epdi sha reconsider panna soldringa athu innum hurt aagum sha
Pavam Jayam Ravi ..he tolerated all these days now he lost his patience...celebrity status maintain pannun nu ivlo naal solla venamnu control pannitu irundhiruparu pola.... Wishing both of them and his family get some peace of mind from this trauma..its not easy to handle all these 😢
Avanga mela irukira paasathula than poruthu poirukaru..... But avaroda wife ku puriyala pola... Evalavu naal than valikatha mathri nadikirathunuh nenachiruparu pola🙂👍
எல்லார் வீட்லயும் இருக்கிற சண்டை தான் ஆனா ஓரளவுக்கு இருக்கணும் அது வந்து அதிகப்படியா போகும்போது மனநிலை கண்டிப்பா மாறும் எல்லாத்துக்கும் பெரிய காரணம் சந்தேகம்
Jeyam Ravi very pity.......
How much he going in suffering...
Ravi God bless you...pls pray . Jesus Love's you ❤
I believe and support Jayam Ravi with lots of love ❤️
RUclips channel களில் வரும் தகவல்களில் நம்பிக்கையான உண்மையான ஒரே channel sha boo three தான்
I watched Cheyyaaru Balu interview. I started pitying Jayam. Iniyaavadhu nimmadhiya irungal Ravi
indhamadhiri ponnu kooda,eppadi bro vaalamudiyum....??illa antha ponnukku counciling kodukka sollunga...avanga mananilai sariyillainu ninaikkiren.
Jayamravi only his medicine
@@purpleteddy4071unaku ipdi aachuna neyum medicine ah irupiya ila thapichi oduviya
😂 counselling illa ya yov.. idhuku punishment dhan kudukanum.. women ku prachana vandha raththam .. men ku vandha thakkali chutney ah.. punishment and fine... Defamation... Financial fraud... 😅😂 Ipdi yevlavo iruku indha case la.. 🤷♂️
To dear Sha, please understand: His marital issue is not due to “misunderstanding” as you are saying at the end of the video. Also I don’t know what is there to reconsider as you mentioned. It’s clearly because of controlling behavior of Arti, her domination, her life her rules and lack of respect on her life partner. Marriage and relationship are built on mutual RESPECT and TRUST. When these two essential elements are missing , then the relationship is void. If all the things said by Jayam Ravi are true, i really feel sorry for him. I sincerely pray and hope he comes out of this toxic relationship and he gets his mental peace and happiness back which he deserves.
Very well said. .....u told everything which is in my heart ...👌👌👌👌
It's very easy to say stay together, those who live in that situation only knows how stressful it is.. untill he goes in to depression they tortured him... pity the man
Possessiveness should be there but over possesiveness would destroy ppl's life.
I'm a woman but i support jayam ravi👍 aarthi didn't deserve jayam ravi as a husband....ravi treat her well☹️but she treat ravi like this...hope ravi deserve more loves n blessings from we all🫶
Hi Shaa Bro👋🏼 Na Appawe Nenachen Jayam Ravi Mela Oru Thappum Irkkathu'Nnu Athu Ippo Confirm Aagiduchu!!🇱🇰✨
Ravi ku irukura kastathaium parkanumga ....ivlo varusam namaku nallavara therintha Raviya orey adiya thapa pesakoodathu 2 perum vittukoduthu vaalanum..,
In film industry, Captain Vijayakanth's journey and how his family consistently supported him without interfering in his professional life is inspiring. Captain was known for feeding technicians, providing financial aid during natural disasters, helping fellow actors, both known and unknown, and always standing by those in need. His legacy will live on forever!
Respect to Captain Vijaykanth Sir 💯🙏
There is no point in staying in a toxic relationship, it is healthier for kids also rather than see parents fighting with each other and abusing each other at home. Men also get abused a lot in marriage- but men do not speak about this outside . As a psychologist- parents can try to reconcile, but when respect is lost - it is better and healthier to seperate and be good parents
When you get to know Jayam Ravi really lived as Santhosh Subramaniyam Santhosh !!
பாவம் ரவி 15 yrs அடிமை வாழ்க்கை வாழ்ந்து இருக்கார். ஆர்த்தி first' Amma va விட்டு வெளியே வரணும். ரவி ku respect தரணும்.ஆர்த்தி அவங்கள மாத்திகளைன் ரவி லைஃப் wate ஆகிடும். So ரவி ku avar life வாழ உரிமை உண்டு. ஆர்த்தி அவங்க character மாத்திகளைன ஆ Ravi divorce வாங்குறது தான் சரி. ஆர்த்தி கு மட்டும் தான் தெரியும் ரவி எவ்ளோ நல்லவர் என்று. ஆர்த்தி விட்டுகுடுகணும். இல்லைனா ரவிக்கு devorce தரணும் அது தான் நியாயம். குழந்தைகளுக்காக ரவி தன்மானம் இழந்து வாழ முடியாது ஷா bro.
Yes sir
அவரவர் வழக்கையில் துரோகம் நடந்தால் தான் வலிக்கும்
Yes true 👍
இத்தன வருடங்கள் அவனுக்கு ஒன்னும் தெரியல,இப்ப இன்னொருத்திய கண்டதும்தான் அவனுக்கு வீரமும்,மிச்சமும் வருதோ?
எந்த பொண்டாட்டியும் இன்னொருத்தியோட சேர்ந்து பயணிப்பதை ஏற்கமாட்டார்கள்.
நீங்க ஏத்துக்குவிங்களா?
ஆமா கரெக்ட் ங்க 👍
Pana Thimir pidichava pola Aarthi.....you can manage Ravi bro..don't worry... Pasanga dhan purinjikanum..ammava thatti kekanum
Don worry Ravi anna.. God takes care all.. Be happy with ur parent and children
ஜெயம் ரவி மனைவியை விட்டு ஏன் பிரிக்கிறார் குழந்தைகளுக்காக வாழலாமே என்று நினைத்தேன் ஆனா அவர்க்கு இவ்வளவு மென்டல் டார்ச் கொடுத்த அவர் எவ்வளவு தான் தாங்கி கொல்வார் தெளிவான வீடியோ நன்றி சகோதரர் 🙏
In any relationship, personal space is very very very important. Too much of anything is good for nothing, sometimes it will end with suffocation. I feel like supporting Jeyam Ravi.
Respect Jeyam Ravi. These ladies are like that. Understand his feelings and respect his decision
Well done 👍 satisfied after saw this video 🎉 Support Ravi🎉
so sad khushboo neengalam pesureenga paarunga asthana comedy 😅😅😅😅
Unmayana vishayatha therinjitu sonadhuku thankyou....i know that , ravi anna mela yendha mistake um irukadhunu God bless you brother 🙏
Pavam jayamravi evlo than tolerate panuvaru. Every one needs peace in life❤✌️
நீயா நானா என்பதில்லை வகழ்க்கை நீயும் நானும் என்பதே வாழ்க்கை ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 ஷா தம்பி
Separation is good if there is no love n respect in relationship..Ravi is a great actor n feel pity for his current situation..No words about aarthi she never allowed him alone to gave even interview as well..wherever i see Ravi in some event there is Aarthi..freedom n personal space is much needed I support Ravi 👍🏻
Nalla Thelivaana Paechu
Superb SHAA brother 🎉👏
Jayam ravi bro leave the toxic life and move on and take the custody of your children
வீட்டோடு மாப்பிள்ளை இருந்தால் இதேபோல் தொடர்ந்து நடக்கும்.
ரவி சகோதரர் எடுத்த முடிவு 100/சதவீதம் சரியான முடிவு.
அந்த வேதனை அனுபவிப்பவர்களுக்கு தான் தெரியும்.
தயவுசெய்து அவரை சுயமரியாதை உடன் வாழ. அனுமதியுங்கள்.
இதெல்லாம் சில ஜென்மங்களுக்கெல்லாம் புரியாது சார் 😢
Ithu ippo oru aan ku nadkakuthu jryam ravi pavam tha. Ithe vishyam tahne ella ambalaingalum pombalaikku pandranga . Ellaru illa konja per . Appola purushan tahnr adangi iru nu solluvanga athayu ethirthu keta nallam
Im more concerned abt how ravi feels now... That freedom feels like heaven.. Cutting of those evil dominance , chains... 😊😊 shout out to ravi.. 🎉 enjoy pannupa ni..
Possesive அளவுக்கு அதிகமாக இருந்தா அங்க கண்டிப்பா சந்தேகமும் வரும். ஆர்த்தி Too Much Of Possesive JR மேல அதுதான் வெறுப்பை ஏற்படுத்தி இருக்கும். possessive Ah Use Panni control பண்ணி வைக்க நினைத்தால் இப்படி தான் ஆகும். ஆசை ஒரு நாள் வெறுப்பாக காரணம் நமக்கு கீழ அடக்கி வைக்கணும்னு நினைப்பதால் தான்
பணத்திமிர். அடுத்தவர்களை அடிமையாக்கத் திறியும் ஜென்மம் இவள்.
நன்றி நண்பா,,,,,,,, சிந்திக்க வேண்டிய விஷயம் 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Matured mindset rjsha please support jayamravi in this particular case 🙏 🎉🎉
Neenga soltrathu sarithan avanga konjam consider pannalam because baby's kaka but jayam ravi avaroda mana aluttham kuraiya na God kitta prayer 🙏🏻 pannikirae kavalapadathinga brother kadavul ungalukku thunaiya irupparu
Sha bro... I trust only ur speech !!
Now I can understand Jeyam.Ravi bros problem.. but then too he should have not allowed keneesha to talk about Aarthi.
Aarthi matu keneshaa pathi rumour spread panlamaa ?
உண்மையா ரவி 15 வருஷம் சிறை வாழ்க்கை வாழ்ந்திருக்கார்...
15 வருடங்கள் பொன்னையனாக வாழ்ந்தவனுக்கு இப்போ இன்னொருத்திய பார்த்ததும் வீரம் வந்திடுச்சு😂😂😂😂
@@tamizh2003 10years nalla dan ponuchunu avarey sollirukkarunnu sha vey vedio la sollirukkanga, 15years sirai life nu yeppadi neenga solluveenga...3years kulla vantha reasons
தற்காலத்தில் ஆண்கள் நிலைமை ரொம்ப கஷ்ட காலமாக இருக்கின்றது
ஜெயம் ரவி நல்ல மனிதர்❤
Super anna last point is very very good eriyira thila enni outhara mari dhan prachanai shal aganum anna Great ur speech
Indha ulagatha porutha vara oru relationship la problem na udane boys kitta tha problem nu ninaikuranga... Girls ena sonnalum adha nambitu boys ah pathi thappa pesuvanga... Nanum oru girl tha... Pls yarum endha vishayamum mulusa therinjikama jayam ravi annava pathi pesadhinga... Yar mela thappunu therinjikuma ovoruthar solra kadhaigala pathu judge pannadhinga...
It's like Pudhu Pudhu Arthangal possessive girl and rich mother.
Santhosh subramaniam film la prakash raj sir than ravi ah product senjanga nija life la aarthi madam ah pavam ravi
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Thank u so much for sharing this... And ur way of approach for the kids goodness...
I'm from Udumalpet his first movie was captured in my hometown since tha day 1 he is my favourite till now. I wish he stay calm and in peace now❤
Thanks Sha anna for conveying his justification. Let the people know about him atleast now unless commenting rubbish.
In current world who is sharing their social media account to Bank account details without hiding. He is really a genuine😢
Only this kind of people get hurt and backstabbed. I pray for him to be freedom and happy from now🎉
Ellarumey Santhoshama irukkanum Happy ah irukkanum Nalla irukanum 💯💯💯💯💯❤️
Support for Jayam Ravi sir ❤
Bro neenga solrathu correct thaan aana Yara iruthalum antha edathula iruthu pathathaan bro theriyum 😊
That’s pure narcissistic behaviour. Whenever you face such people never hesitate to leave them. Lots of people here blame Jayam Ravi for leaving his wife.
He made the right decision, these kinds of women deserve such action.
At last he will finally taste the freedom.
Separation is not the end of everything bro, if everyone decides to separate then no one can live as a family and partner. Women and men now think differently about their freedom. But no one has ever thought of the sacrifices their life partners make. Now the word freedom has become a new weapon for both men and women to escape from married life. But no one thinks about children's future.. Always understand one thing. How true it is that "Let both hands clap together." Similarly, husband and wife fight is similar, in which no one can say that the husband is right and the wife is wrong, and the husband is wrong and the wife is right. Now men and women are afraid to fix the problem in their life so they run to divorce . The first lesson we teach our children is to get our lives right. As you say no one can take away anyone's freedom. But don't forget that some people make some mistakes in the name of freedom and say that it is wrong and their partner has the right to say that it is wrong. People who think their freedom is important like this are not fit for family life. They cannot be good parents to their children. So people who think their independence is important are not suitable for married life. Freedom is important here, but in married life, freedom belongs only to one person and it does not understand that freedom is also important to one's partner. Now if Aarti thinks that freedom is important what will be the life of those children.. But God knows the truth, there is no escape from Karma.... Time will answer everything bro ...✝️☪️🕉️
@@Nikithaa-mr7qu you are talking general theories here. I have seen my parents fighting always but they had an understanding on how to take things forward. If men sacrifices a lot of things including his freedom to just go out with his friends, talk to women colleagues or drink with his friends then there is definitely a narc behaviour with the female partner.
The same goes for both men and women. Both need not to sacrifice their happiness just to be in a relationship. You can make sacrifices but not to the level he or she controls you completely. Let’s think about the kids and destroy their own happiness. If both can’t be happy together then they can be happy separated.
I have been in this same struggle and I don’t blame my partner. I was suicidal and can’t heal myself from that trauma. What happens if I’m gone? Who is going to take care of the child? As long as I’m here I will provide for my partner and my child if I’m gone then who are we going to blame?
To give you an idea, I don’t drink, I have no friends just because of my wife, I don’t talk to women colleagues etc just because my wife thinks I have an affair (I work from home), I was flexible in my whole marriage life and all I got is mental trauma. Not everyone’s problems are same. Either you need to witness it or you had to be victim to understand this. I’m sorry but you don’t have any idea on how this works.
@@God-Brand bro You may have given up a lot in your life and who knows your partner may have given up too. They may have had male and female friends and she may have avoided it for you... It is not wrong to think that you should have the same. As you say it is not wrong that your colleagues are women it is natural. It's not wrong to drink with friends but if it's wife or co-workers what's important, don't even think for a minute and say that you want your wife...why, there will come a time when you feel that it's not important here than family..a small misunderstanding happened in your life, that's all.. According to me, we can sit down and talk and fix it, why the divorce comes here, the reason is because you don't like each other, what can you do if your wife thinks the same way you think.... So divorce is not a solution, we can talk and fix it, but now a days they are getting separated. When the time comes when we feel that this divorce is wrong then our partner chooses another partner in my life and I feel the same way in work I felt it was wrong when my wife remarried.. I felt that it was not a big fight but it was of no use. I was It was only after some time that I came to know that my mother and sister are the reason for the separation and I am suffering so much because of them. But when I want my anger and ego to calm down and my wife and my son want him to belong to a different family it has been very difficult..Nothing is permanent except the family of the world. Your friend or your colleague has another friend and another life but for your wife you are the only life so they may have been over possessive. You are the only one they know...who knows even your wife may have had many male and female friends and may not have talked to them for you...I am missing my family today. My friends are also telling me this advice... I am praying to God that my wish is for my wife and my son to come back 🙏...
@@Nikithaa-mr7qu Thank you very much for understanding both the sides. I did change a lot just to meet her needs and love. But it was always one sided for me.
Whatever she asks I do it in an instant, she separated me from my family just because of a normal family fight, I need to let go of my friends, my job, had to change city. Did a lot of work in my marriage. But I got blamed that I’m having a side kick even though I work from home. She checks my phone regularly, she has all my account passwords, my bank details everything. She still thinks I’m cheating.
Do I need to do more to prove that I’m not? Even so for how many years? Apart from this I had to handle work pressure, daily fights with my wife for her imaginary thinking. She won’t cook for me, i had to wait until she cooks for the day. If not I can’t go out and eat otherwise there will be a fight that continues for days. Also there are 1000 rules for me in my house. Not go there do that etc.
What I’m saying is you don’t know my full story, or what I suffered if you still think a talk will settle this then it’s not. There is no way I could live with such a person by being a slave.
Please try to understand, divorce atleast gets me some peace.
I’m mentally depressed, taking session for that. Physically down, no proper diet, suicidal, financially unstable. I got all the problems a person could ever imagine. So in my POV divorce is mental peace and freedoms for me.
But thanks for your advice. I wish you all the best in your life
Crct. Narcissistic behavior romba danger
You are changing the society through your videos ! Keep doing brother 🎉 you and your family will always be blessed for your efforts!!
Sha ஓடி ஆடி சம்பாதிச்சு அதுல தனக்கு நு செலவு பண்ண முடில நா ரொம்ப மோசம் sha.. அவர் என்ன machine ஆ.. வார்தை முக்கியம் sha..தீயினாற் சுட்டபுண் உள்ளாறும் ஆறாதே
நாவினாற் சுட்ட வடு.
அவர ரொம்ப காயபடுதிருகாங்க நு நினைக்கிறேன்..
He now needs freedom from her..I am a women even I can feel his situation..atleast now on let him live his life..life is short...his family also a very decent one..
ஜெயம் ரவி நீங்க வீட்டோட மாப்பிளையாக போயிருக்க கூடாது.
15 வரிடங்கள் தெரியல,கெனிஷாவ கண்டதும்தான் புரிதோ?
@@RskKamalavunga avunga problem avungaluku than teriyum . Nee ennamo poi patha mathiri pesatha.
@@RskKamalpsychologist thedi pora alavuku irundhirukanga avanga wife ....
@@malamala5141 நீ பாத்தியா?
இத்தன வருசங்கள் என்ன கோமாவுல இருந்தானா?
@@nivisree7360 ஒரு வருசத்துக்கு முன்னாடி நேர்கணல்ல என்னமா புகழ்ந்து வழிய பேசினானே? அப்போ பொன்னயனா இருந்தானா?
Always support actor jayam ravi
It's a cruelty done by this lady Aarti and her mother. Thank God atleast he escaped from this wicked 🖤 ladies now 😊
support 💪 jayam ravi brother self respect is important in every relationship
ரொம்ப ரொம்ப சூப்பராக சொன்னீங்க தம்பி வாழ்த்துகள் அருமை ❤
The Real Santhosh Subramaniam
Jayam Ravi bro.I support you.Keep going and rock.
God give difficulties for good people for get stronger.
20years ah Ravi ya film la pakurom .. neriya interviews la kuda yaraiyum hurt pannadha manusan..2 pasangaliyum thandi divorce nu decide panni irukaruna avlo depression,stress....lets pray for him..elam maridum...always we stand with JayamRavii ❤
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Sha u were telling the truth so dont worry may all the jravi's worries turn into happiness. This is mental emotional bullying for jravi how could he hold this much personal and emotional damage and mocking this long.... Unbelievable
தெளிவான விளக்கம்
ஜெயம் ரவி ஆரம்பத்திலேயே
சரி செய்யாமல் இவ்வளவு வருடங்களில் முற்ற வைத்து விட்டார்
கணவன் மனைவி
Individuality பாதிக்கக் கூடாது
@@SaradhaG-yu4be illa unmayiley avar familyku importance kuduthu avarmatumey vitukuduthu poirkar unmayana understanding couples 2 perumey ovvoru vishayathula vitukuduthu poganum but Inga Ravimatumey vitukudukavum aartiku superior nature adhigamagirku idha unaradha alavuku aartiku maturity illama poirchu pola 😞
Sha ungaluku oru free advice husband and wife problem kulla pogathinga anthuthaan ungaluku nalla thidirnu manasu marana senthiduvaanga
Jayam Ravi is a gem of a person. He deserves peace and happiness. 🥺