They were both hitting each other she's not Innocent and when he stated that the judge ignored it... Judge mathis is a simp always taking the woman's side
This young mother had a nervous breakdown early on in the relationship, but was able to leave a toxic environment and still care for herself and her children. I am proud that she has been able to do all that she has done inspite of her circumstances. Respect for her strength at this juncture in her life 🙏🏽
He said they were both abusive to each other, and the stats show that majority of the time domestic violence is mutual combat. Meaning both parties were both abusive to each other. Mathis should've explored that more because the guy was honest and didn't try to deny it, but he was triggered by the whole child support thing and really didn't want to hear him. Plus, often times women leave out the part where they were a part of the abuse b/c they know ppl are inclined to believe them with no questions asked. And she certainly didn't seem like she was scared of or intimidated by him in the least.
@@theoracle2760 So, here we have case of an individual who committed statutory rape and continue to sleep with and impregnate her a second time after "finding out" that she was a minor. This grown man made a choice to be at least "mutually" abusive with that minor, and consciously refused to contribute to his children's financial well-being. That minor had enough sense to know that it was a toxic situation that she needed to get out of. But I guess you're right, Judge Mathis should have pressed to see if she ever hit him back.
@@theoracle2760 Judge Mathis is 100% unfair when it comes to men and men's rights he always sides with women especially when they scream mental and physical abuse or that they put the man through so much stress in hell that he doesn't even care
Why was this guy hanging out in a teen nightclub if he was THAT worried about statutory charges? She never should have lied about her age but still...what adult goes to a teen nightclub unless they work there and just..hangs out with kids???
Absolutely. That boy didn’t want to let his dad go. He’s hurting and wants him so bad. Meanwhile his daughter is so disgusted with him. She’s older and has witnessed his absence herself and she’s over it. Sadly the damage is done and it’ll take a lot to rebuild that relationship but I hope they can. Those kids deserve a good father, not just a check every month. Shame on him for trying to blame the mom. Yes she moved but we have so many routes of communication nowadays there’s no excuse. We’ve got cars, trains, planes, boats, bikes to visit. We’ve got cell phones, text messages, email, social media, stamps, video chat, literally no excuse to not talk.
@@Sara-xk1ns Even smoke signals!!😆😆Like you said, there's plenty of ways to stay in touch with your children. Kids need their fathers, especially black kids.
He said a year later but I'm sure most won't believe him since she cried throughout her testimony and he didn't pay his child support. He still should have left at that moment though.
She’s wrong for arguing in front of the kids but you can hear the frustration in her voice. It’s sad the little girl didn’t even want to hug him. Kids know who’s there for them and who isn’t.
@@MrLenroc82 Nah...I told ur mom from the biginning i wasn't claiming ur bi*hazz. She said she was gonna go w/ the ninja w/ the extra bananas....You'll have to tell us the outcome
There’s a child support order for $250 a month for 2 children. Yet he’s $17,000 behind. First of all can’t nobody raise a child on $125 a month. Still he doesn’t want to pay. Why isn’t it embarrassing to men for them to admit they don’t give a darn whether their children survive? My God!
What are you talking about? He hasn’t seen them in 9 years. He’s supposed to be able to see them regardless of if he’s paying or not. And just in case you try to get slick. NO, I’m not. A deadbeat dad. I’m a SINGLE FATHER of 3. Dealing with a DEADBEAT MOM. Who STILL pushes the issue of her SPENDING time with her kids. NO, I don’t get child support, CAUSE SHE DONT PAY, but that DOESNT MATTER. THEY STILL NEED HER PRESENCE.
Please God allow this man and this woman to be there for their children not just financially, but emotionally, physically and mentally... Let her "let go" of the hurt she feels and him "the bitterness"... Bless all Parents and children (that covers us all, in some way)😘😘😘
I like how she brought out their kids to see him at the end. Showing that, if not everything, MOST of what she says is true, especially about NOT keeping the kids away
She doesn't NEED to bring them to him. The point is she was WILLING to bring them to him when the cameras were around and she would look good on TV. So why wasn't she willing to do it without the cameras for 9 years? It doesn't prove that she was telling the truth about not wanting him to see his kids as the original comment suggests.
That guy isn’t going to miraculously become a great dad overnight. He won’t change. This happens too much in our community and the kids suffer the most 🤦🏾♂️
I made post in response to this and some guy replied the kids need a father. Yes, they need a real father not a sperm donor who hasn't cared to see them in nine years. no child support and probably not even sending a 50 cent dollar tree card for the holidays or the kids birthdays if he even know those dates. Now he wants to be father of the year. He just wants that woman to drop that child support so he can keep making babies he can't afford and dodging the system.
@@sharmainearroyo7113 thats the bias against men when she lied to him 2 dnas on her children while under his roof she knew those kids her meal ticket waited 9 years for the money to stack up ohh she was stuck and abused she probably popped off and got a slap to settle her spirit he dont look like no women beater she probably uncontrollable and wild she probably swung on him thinking it was nothing
It's Judge Mathis saying "What!?!? 17,000!?!?" and throwing the paper for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣. This really is sad for the kids though. Apparently her leaving the state with the kids is a good enough reason to be trifling for him smh.
When he did that, all that I heard is that comedian that does the JM impersonations on YT. This had to have been an episode that inspired his impersonations.
Both of them are on some bull and what makes me mad is these fools broght children in the middle. I hate it when two irresponsible adults do shit like this because the children suffers in the end overall
@@teejacobs2426 whats sad is her true colors came out at the end. Typical shit "they don't need this and that" then at the very end talking about "they hurting". Bull shit she kept them kids away from him. Hes no prize either but shit you can tell he atleast gave a damn.
@@teejacobs2426 I usually agree with most of what JM says but this right here was all one sided. Straight debauchery. We get it what he did was totally wrong. My problem is he straight up castrated him so much that he didn't pay attention to bull she was doing. And that end part really proved to me that some of the shit he said was true as day.
@@relaxitsme_alex9104 I’m sorry but to me he castrated himself when he failed to financially support his own children. All Judge Mathis did was ask him to explain himself. He’s a deadbeat dad and now the world knows it.
Why are the kids seeing him on Facebook with his other children? She seems like the type to talk trash about the father to and in-front of the children. It takes two and the mother is equally at fault, she moved out of state with their children and cut off communication she is dead wrong.
I hope those kids didn’t hear all that hollering in the courtroom. I wish they would not have brought it up in the hallway either. The little girl was clearly upset before they even started. Im glad the father at least shut it down.
OMG that was so tough for me to watch. As a woman I understand the money don't matter. The kids need you period. No matter what type of way. Money is last. Kids need their dad. Yes you need help but fight for you children sir! Who cares if she moved. Show you care.
money definitely is not last… in this day and age you do need to have your finances in order to give your children a good life, so they’re not hungry, ill, etc. and it’s hard to do that as a single parent, especially when that partner is abusive
What a beautiful young lady, yet grew up in a bad situation. Latching on to an older man, just to abuse her, and neglect the kids. Mathis was fired up this episode! 😳
Shorty shut up talking about a young woman latching on to a grown man and u a bitter black old woman always need sympathy..that girl was wrong in the beginning she started the whole thing off in a lie.. shut up please women like you make old women of the early days turn over in a grave ... u weak af. U female's ain't no victim.. ur the abusers frfr
Really? That's what u saw in this case? That was a beautiful display to u?? U blessing one side illustrates how ridiculously u fools think. "Her" children are HIS children dummy.
Being a dad myself who had to go through some major issues and eventually got full custody of my oldest son I don’t feel bad for dude if you really want to see your kids and be in they life you will figure out how to there’s no excuse and even after all the dirt he did to this woman she still said I’m not holding your kids from you as a father he has to do better and step his son misses him dearly and his daughter is turned off by him possibly because she was old to remember seeing the things he did to her mother he has a lot of growing up to do and he has to be better as a father maybe he can go to some parenting classes to learn effective communication and better parenting skills cause clearly right now he’s lacking in those areas he can definitely turn it around though and make this a success story
JM is just as emotional as the Plaintiff, get him in his feelings and he’ll rule your way. Ain’t nobody gon listen to all that damn hollering and carrying on
He needs a good man and father figure, this man most likely will never change, most men like him will only act redeemed to get off the CS and dip once again. When dealing with grow boys like this, it's best to keep giving the kids stability, an open line of communication and to find father figures in people you can trust in the community and within the family. Every child deserves a good parent, but not every parent deserves a child.
Yeah, I didn't understand that statement either. That child support is for her children and they are entitled to that so he needs to make it right. She didn't have to carry on like that at the end. And all of that yelling during the proceeding was uncalled for. I hope they can co-parent and create healthy, stable environments for their children.
So a teen lies about their age...did she drop out of highschool as well? Did you not meet any of her teen friends? Did she pay taxes? Did she have a driver's license?... I can't believe over 18 months there were no other indicators of her age
There were a bunch of mistakes made in this situation on both sides. 1) She lied about her age 2) Once he realized the lie, he should've left her alone for a number of reasons 3) Looks like both were committing domestic violence, wrong on both of their parts 4) Nobody was worried about contreception,, especially him considering he has more kids 5) All that carrying on and arguing in front of the kids does nothing, but damage them
@@CLAUDINEtbmoth you'd be surprised especially these days. Plus, his age was not made clear at the time. Cause what if he was 19? Are you gonna say a 19 year old can't be in a teen club?
@@ddavis8988 I don't think there's anything wrong with that but I think in a teen club you run the risk of dealing with a minor once you are a legal adult in places like those. Better to be safe than sorry!
I said what I said. As a grown woman I know when I talking to a child regardless of how they look. He knew she was a young girl. He didn't care. Obviously he's not a good person. He abuses women and is a dead beat. So him also being a predator isn't shocking.
Dude is disgraceful for not at least fightingfor his kids and continuing to see her when he found out she was only 15 but I don't judge quickly when it comes to domestic violence because I've seen women be the aggressor then act like victims when the time is right.
These young women need to be held accountable for lying to other young men about their ages. Some jail time or heavy fines need to be levied against them.
These men who don’t take care of their children need to be held accountable. She told him the truth and he didn’t care. The adult in the situation is who needs to be held accountable. But he was too busy trying to get in the sack.
But once he found out . He continued to have sex with a minor. He was not that scared of jail time! That goes both ways cause some men are older and will lie to appear younger to date a minor.
She has deep emotional stress and needs counseling He is a typical dead beat father and now wants his children to forgive him. He will try to get out .of paying. I hope she continues to take him to court if he doesn't do right
The Judge become infuriated when males don't provide financially for their children. He also despises males who physically abuse women. Deadbeats and abusers! That switch will be flipped!
@@hackunit he stayed having sexual contact with a minor once finding out she was a minor. Seems predatory to continue a sexual relationship knowing your partner has been a minor.
Lying to a man who was having a sexual relationship with her, impregnating her, knowing her home circumstances, BUT IT TOOK HIM A YEAR TO KNOW SHE WAS UNDERAGE. Wouldn't have made a difference, because when he "FOUND OUT" her real age, she was still a minor and NOTHING CHANGED.
She shouldn’t have had that convo in front of the kids with him. It’s evidence of how emotional she is when discussing him with her kids overall. Kids feed off our eMotion and it hurts them to see their mom hurt. She needs to put on a stronger game face in front of the kids for their sake
@@misterbee66 her tears are fake.. that woman is a thot, she is a liar, and she moved the man's kids far away from him without even telling him... She's a horrible person and abusive
Miss Lady, you have done ver well by taking are of the kids and bringing them to court to meet their dad.. I hope he will rise up to his responsibilities
But so many people downplay child support, or try to see it as a way to tear down the father. Its simple dont make children you know you aren’t going to help take care of emotionally and financially. The responsible parent ends up doing way more than child support could cover depending on the non custodial parents income. Some try to be spiteful towards the mother through their own flesh and blood and end up catching hell.
I wish more black mothers would hold these baby father's accountable and put them on child support. They didn't have these kids by themselves they need money for them kids.
At the same time, she laid down with him and made not 1 but 2 kids. She knew she was too young to be having them but did it anyway. My other problem is she then jumped state with those kids and refused him visitation. Missed child support is not a reason for her to withhold visitation. Only a court can do that.
young men need to work on avoiding these types of females. young girl from damaged homes, they'll call you fighting words when she disagree with you, if you reply with an insult or any sign of aggression, they'll call you abusive. they'll hit on you when angry but only tell people when you hit back. lose lose situations.
@@sereneamani1713 Fr. These same men will straight up say they love crazy women. Stop chasing em then! Just like women have to "pick better men" when they turn out to be abusive or bums, pick better women!
I hope and pray she’s not feeding this venom to her pre teens because she’s going to reap a rotten harvest because puberty is a terrible storm in females over males. I never talked bad about my ex husband to my kids whenever he was around I allowed him to see them in spite of him not giving support at all. When my daughter reached puberty she was another person and very troublesome running away talking to grown men etc… it was pure hell for me for several years I only made it through that because of God and my pastor and his wife helping me stay strong and encouraging me to do everything I can to help her all while keeping a closer eye on my son, it was hard. To this day their dad still owes support and they are grown now and they on their own doesn’t communicate with their dad at all. My daughter apologized to me about how she behaved and that really meant the world to me. God bless this family 🙏🏽
Your daughter probably grew up thinking all men are like this and that it is normal. I don’t think you should speak bad about their dad, but you should let them know that what he is doing is not right etc, and that God will deal with him. Women need to stop protecting these men at their own expense.
What did she say bad about him? She told the truth about his actions... The children need to know what is going on and why their father is not there... It can backfire on the mom later if she does not inform the kids of what actually happened...
@Marlon Dickerson I agree with that, BUT why aren't the men there proving the woman wrong. Kids can see through misinformation no matter what side it's coming from.
There are two things that really makes Judge Mathis mad, being a woman beater and being behind in child support.
And we got both in one episode!!! Whoo wee.
And a third thing: Going to someone's job!!!
They were both hitting each other she's not Innocent and when he stated that the judge ignored it... Judge mathis is a simp always taking the woman's side
This guy had a DOUBLE strike right away
And being on crack
In the end I was crying for the kids. No child deserves a fatherless life
I’m still crying. Smh. Just sad.
He kept sleeping with her after he knew she was underaged so he can save the “I could’ve went to jail” act 🙄
That’s exactly what I thought!
She also could of not lied and kept her legs closed Accountability on both ends now those children are suffering SMH
Right!
facts but woman should be held accountable for some of the shit y'all do lol 😆
Right! Claims he was already in love with her when he found out (a year later). STILL, he could have went to jail. Clown ass!
She lied about her age, then told you. You kept going; to me that becomes your fault.
Exactly! Trying to put the blame on the child about him almost having to do 40 years! Sir, that's on you!
If you can’t telll after talking to a teen that they’re underage that seems to be your fault
This why woman are the devil🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thank you!
Exactly!! He should have stopped after she told him the truth.
This young mother had a nervous breakdown early on in the relationship, but was able to leave a toxic environment and still care for herself and her children. I am proud that she has been able to do all that she has done inspite of her circumstances. Respect for her strength at this juncture in her life 🙏🏽
I felt it in my soul when she started crying and she said "I had to go." I felt that so deeply because I was in a similar situation.
Literally me right now!! Made me so emotional
@@alariewright5571 really? You're going through that now?
I wouldn't trust a word from ANY of your lips...
Wheww Chile! It was triggering ok. So many of us been there. I'm glad she left and did what she had to.
Blessings to you, @Mother & @Alarie Wright.
The minute she said he put his hands on her- it was a wrap with Mathis.
Double whammy. Abusive and a deadbeat dad
That z thing I don't understand with judge's yes he put hands on her but at z same time she can be z reason or she hit first
He said they were both abusive to each other, and the stats show that majority of the time domestic violence is mutual combat. Meaning both parties were both abusive to each other. Mathis should've explored that more because the guy was honest and didn't try to deny it, but he was triggered by the whole child support thing and really didn't want to hear him. Plus, often times women leave out the part where they were a part of the abuse b/c they know ppl are inclined to believe them with no questions asked. And she certainly didn't seem like she was scared of or intimidated by him in the least.
@@theoracle2760 So, here we have case of an individual who committed statutory rape and continue to sleep with and impregnate her a second time after "finding out" that she was a minor. This grown man made a choice to be at least "mutually" abusive with that minor, and consciously refused to contribute to
his children's financial well-being. That minor had enough sense to know that it was a toxic situation that she needed to get out of. But I guess you're right, Judge Mathis should have pressed to see if she ever hit him back.
@@theoracle2760 Judge Mathis is 100% unfair when it comes to men and men's rights he always sides with women especially when they scream mental and physical abuse or that they put the man through so much stress in hell that he doesn't even care
Why was this guy hanging out in a teen nightclub if he was THAT worried about statutory charges?
She never should have lied about her age but still...what adult goes to a teen nightclub unless they work there and just..hangs out with kids???
Exactly. It’s weird people defending a p@do
Glad you pointed this out. He talking bout deception …. WHAT WAS HE DOING THERE??
Bingo.....he knew. Somebody else had to tell him too......like yo Bro she aint 18
@@dawnhawkins9699 right!! I’m like was bruh a chaperone or summ??? 😵💫
I think she meant an 18 an over club.
Judge Mathis had me cracking up with that “What?! $17,000?!” I feel sorry for the children.
Someone on this show owed 52,000 dollars and some else's on this show owed 23,000 and 1 white guy on this show owed 13,000 dollars 💵 it's crazy
lol 1 white guy
@@Greatsharkbite ain't that ashame lol
Actually very sad for the kids🤦🏾🤦🏾
@@christiandilday7543 by the time my son was 15 his father owed 39 plus thousand dollars and had the nerve to die smh after being absent too....
Focus on the children.,, the son is hurting for his dad … and his daughter don’t even want to hug him🫤
Made me cry for the kids :(
Very sad situation. Gotta do what's best for the kids in the end, they didn't ask for any of this.
@@josl1345 l
Absolutely. That boy didn’t want to let his dad go. He’s hurting and wants him so bad. Meanwhile his daughter is so disgusted with him. She’s older and has witnessed his absence herself and she’s over it. Sadly the damage is done and it’ll take a lot to rebuild that relationship but I hope they can. Those kids deserve a good father, not just a check every month. Shame on him for trying to blame the mom. Yes she moved but we have so many routes of communication nowadays there’s no excuse. We’ve got cars, trains, planes, boats, bikes to visit. We’ve got cell phones, text messages, email, social media, stamps, video chat, literally no excuse to not talk.
@@Sara-xk1ns Even smoke signals!!😆😆Like you said, there's plenty of ways to stay in touch with your children. Kids need their fathers, especially black kids.
Well just because a man is older than you it doesn't mean he's mature and will stay and take care of you
Of course. I agree.
Facts. 30 is the new 15 these days🤦🏾🤦🏾
Most older men who date much younger women are usually immature. That's why they don't want women their own age.
Youre a joke
Yep
He found out her “real” age in 4 months according to the plaintiff. END OF RELATIONSHIP sir! Right then, there!
He didn’t care. Maybe he thought he had someone he could manipulate foreva🤷🏾♀️
4 mths not 2
it was a year and she giggled when he said it
He said a year later but I'm sure most won't believe him since she cried throughout her testimony and he didn't pay his child support. He still should have left at that moment though.
They both said A YEAR
My heart goes out to the mother and children. The daughter's face explains it all and you can't blame her
Fucked up if she lied to him about her age smh…. What else is she hiding from him 🧐🧐🧐🤔🤔🤔🤔
@@Oneluv2389 kids lie... when he found out she was 15, he should have left her alone
Too late, had fallen deeply in love with her.
Her mouth running at the end of the case blew away my sympathy.
@@madmemadhouseme4885No one care abt ur opinion
She’s wrong for arguing in front of the kids but you can hear the frustration in her voice. It’s sad the little girl didn’t even want to hug him. Kids know who’s there for them and who isn’t.
glad someone sad it.
I agree...
As an adult you have to control your emotions and be an example to your children. Even when you’re hurt.
@@Price8903 which is why I stated she was wrong for how she’s arguing in front of her children!!!!
@@moniquebrown7738 I'm agreeing with you and adding my personal take on the matter.
She told him she was 18 ....but does that make it wrong for him to continue to have kids with her....absolutely....
So he knew damn well he was dating a 15 year old.........I cant stand these dudes
Foh.
Sure, he did! Circumstantial evidence alone showed she was a minor.
@@Mr.Oct___ lol you the same type?????
@@MrLenroc82 Nah...I told ur mom from the biginning i wasn't claiming ur bi*hazz. She said she was gonna go w/ the ninja w/ the extra bananas....You'll have to tell us the outcome
But he met her in a club!!!🤷♂️
There’s a child support order for $250 a month for 2 children. Yet he’s $17,000 behind. First of all can’t nobody raise a child on $125 a month. Still he doesn’t want to pay. Why isn’t it embarrassing to men for them to admit they don’t give a darn whether their children survive? My God!
Thank You 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
She chose him 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
@@isaiahdavis41 You are a ninja like him.
@isaiahdavis41 Actually...your fellow creepy brethren chose HER.
I pray she gets every penny of that child support. I commend her for still allowing the kids to see their father that is real strength right there.
What are you talking about? He hasn’t seen them in 9 years. He’s supposed to be able to see them regardless of if he’s paying or not.
And just in case you try to get slick. NO, I’m not. A deadbeat dad. I’m a SINGLE FATHER of 3. Dealing with a DEADBEAT MOM. Who STILL pushes the issue of her SPENDING time with her kids. NO, I don’t get child support, CAUSE SHE DONT PAY, but that DOESNT MATTER. THEY STILL NEED HER PRESENCE.
@@nickynick_ you need to rewatch this case. This comment is exaggerated, irrelevant, and unnecessary. I’m not going to argue with you.
He's suing for emotional distress because he can't see his children. He should be suing for visitation rights then.
That's literally the same thing how can hide kids and have no repercussions
Why does he have all these kids, he can't even afford? $17,000 in Child Support for 2 kids. He's a deadbeat dad
Oh this brought tears to my eyes 🥺, that little boy did not want to let go of his dad, and the daughter is upset with him, as she should be.
You could tell the son was really hurting for his Father. As a person who didn't have a Father in his life. I could feel those kids pain
Please God allow this man and this woman to be there for their children not just financially, but emotionally, physically and mentally... Let her "let go" of the hurt she feels and him "the bitterness"... Bless all Parents and children (that covers us all, in some way)😘😘😘
Amen
I like how she brought out their kids to see him at the end. Showing that, if not everything, MOST of what she says is true, especially about NOT keeping the kids away
Seemed like a stunt for TV. If she could bring them on TV, how has she not been able to bring them to see him for 9 years? Makes no sense.
@@theoracle2760 she’s full of crap
Why does she need to bring them to him? If he was interesting in seeing his kids he would have.
She doesn't NEED to bring them to him. The point is she was WILLING to bring them to him when the cameras were around and she would look good on TV. So why wasn't she willing to do it without the cameras for 9 years? It doesn't prove that she was telling the truth about not wanting him to see his kids as the original comment suggests.
@@theoracle2760 she said she has called him throughout the years about seeing his kids
That guy isn’t going to miraculously become a great dad overnight. He won’t change. This happens too much in our community and the kids suffer the most 🤦🏾♂️
So 👍🏽 true
I made post in response to this and some guy replied the kids need a father. Yes, they need a real father not a sperm donor who hasn't cared to see them in nine years. no child support and probably not even sending a 50 cent dollar tree card for the holidays or the kids birthdays if he even know those dates. Now he wants to be father of the year. He just wants that woman to drop that child support so he can keep making babies he can't afford and dodging the system.
@@GEAUXUNA our community is delusional. What you said was correct. He is going to keep creating broken homes
@@scottrogue946 Because we are members of "our community", that is our greatest concern. BUT this is SO NOT limited to our community.
Sad but true. SMH🤦🏾♂
Those kids are absolutely beautiful!! 💔💔💔
THEY ARE.. THEY CONTINUE TO STAY BLESSED 😇
So if they were ugly it would be okay!!?? I hate when ppl comment about kids being beautiful and nothing else!!!! All gods children are beautiful
He right to say don't start that mess in front of his kids she too emotional in front of them time n place sis
It always kills me when JM asks a question and the person just stands there and says nothing… like, sir is this your counterclaim or not?!?! 🤦🏾♀️
The way that little boy held on to his dad 😭😭😭😭
This episode got me in my feelings. Sending this whole situation prayers.
I can’t even say anything - her pops passed and he slithered his way in there
Sounds about right. Father dead, mother addicted.
she lied about her age for a year.....he didnt just slither lol... but he was wrong too
@@sharmainearroyo7113 thats the bias against men when she lied to him 2 dnas on her children while under his roof she knew those kids her meal ticket waited 9 years for the money to stack up ohh she was stuck and abused she probably popped off and got a slap to settle her spirit he dont look like no women beater she probably uncontrollable and wild she probably swung on him thinking it was nothing
@@sharmainearroyo7113 2 months
She met him at a club and said she was 18
9yrs ago she fled the state & you as MAN haven't went to the court house in 9YRS this man is a sorry excuse of a father
He was in a teen nightclub, always check ID!
Was he a chaperone or sumn??? 😵💫 I’m confused af. All teenagers ain’t equal!
Somewhere he had No business being there🤦🏾🤦🏾🤡🤛🏿
I think said it was a 16 plus club
He LYING 🤣😂 He Could've Gotten Her Address from Child Support 😒
It's Judge Mathis saying "What!?!? 17,000!?!?" and throwing the paper for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣. This really is sad for the kids though. Apparently her leaving the state with the kids is a good enough reason to be trifling for him smh.
When he did that, all that I heard is that comedian that does the JM impersonations on YT. This had to have been an episode that inspired his impersonations.
The defendant should be ashamed of himself another bum not taking care of his children. The plaintiff was over the top with her nonsense
Both of them are on some bull and what makes me mad is these fools broght children in the middle. I hate it when two irresponsible adults do shit like this because the children suffers in the end overall
I think she was filled with emotion. She needs to get in control of her feelings for the sake of her children, and mental health.
@@teejacobs2426 whats sad is her true colors came out at the end. Typical shit "they don't need this and that" then at the very end talking about "they hurting". Bull shit she kept them kids away from him. Hes no prize either but shit you can tell he atleast gave a damn.
@@teejacobs2426 I usually agree with most of what JM says but this right here was all one sided. Straight debauchery. We get it what he did was totally wrong. My problem is he straight up castrated him so much that he didn't pay attention to bull she was doing. And that end part really proved to me that some of the shit he said was true as day.
@@relaxitsme_alex9104 I’m sorry but to me he castrated himself when he failed to financially support his own children. All Judge Mathis did was ask him to explain himself. He’s a deadbeat dad and now the world knows it.
Why are the kids seeing him on Facebook with his other children? She seems like the type to talk trash about the father to and in-front of the children. It takes two and the mother is equally at fault, she moved out of state with their children and cut off communication she is dead wrong.
They see him on Facebook with his other kids broke my heart. Kids need their dad
As an AFRIKAN MAN, I wish I was an American, this foolishness wouldn't occur to me - MY WAY, OR THE HIGHWAY.
I hope those kids didn’t hear all that hollering in the courtroom. I wish they would not have brought it up in the hallway either. The little girl was clearly upset before they even started. Im glad the father at least shut it down.
Ik the mom was emotional but I agree those kids shouldn’t have been a part of that situation at all
Too late they are going to see it on TV.😎
If only he would have shut down their conception after finding out he was dealing with a child.
Whewwww 🥺🥹😢 Brought me to tears watching their son clutching on to his dad like that 🥺😭
That baby been thru some ish😥😥
I know she’s frustrated but that’s not a discussion to have in front of the kids. Let them formulate their own opinions of him.
Totally agree.
He’ll take a woman side everytime but won’t say nun about her lying about her age. But that was on him for staying with her
Conceiving kids is recess for adults, but once the child is born, exams and term papers ensue! These are the true tests!
Great analogy.!
Those beautiful kids are so affected by the drama. You can see it in their eyes. I wish them the best.
Y’all, *please* don’t do this in front of those babies! 😔
OMG that was so tough for me to watch. As a woman I understand the money don't matter. The kids need you period. No matter what type of way. Money is last. Kids need their dad. Yes you need help but fight for you children sir! Who cares if she moved. Show you care.
money definitely is not last… in this day and age you do need to have your finances in order to give your children a good life, so they’re not hungry, ill, etc. and it’s hard to do that as a single parent, especially when that partner is abusive
Imagine wanting a DNA test and still not providing for your kids
So nobody is talking about the fact she lied about her age and didn’t tell him until she moved in to his life and family home?
That part. She full of shit
I barely see any comments about her lying ! It’s sick
The moment he found out she was 15 he should have ended PERIOD!!!!!
She told him 2 months later.. she was still underage at the time , he should have ended it right there
yep bias she just up and ran off
What a beautiful young lady, yet grew up in a bad situation. Latching on to an older man, just to abuse her, and neglect the kids. Mathis was fired up this episode! 😳
Shorty shut up talking about a young woman latching on to a grown man and u a bitter black old woman always need sympathy..that girl was wrong in the beginning she started the whole thing off in a lie.. shut up please women like you make old women of the early days turn over in a grave ... u weak af. U female's ain't no victim.. ur the abusers frfr
Passion goes out the window when parental responsibilities come into the relationship.
HIS DAUGHTER SEEN HIM COMING 😒; & TURNED HER HEAD😔.. SAD.. DO BETTER PPL.. PRAYERS 🙏
So heartbreaking…honestly
And he throw the paperwork....Judge was heated.....
Beautiful young lady, God bless her and her kids
Really? That's what u saw in this case? That was a beautiful display to u?? U blessing one side illustrates how ridiculously u fools think. "Her" children are HIS children dummy.
The daughter is not feeling him. Ain't seen them in 9 years mom had to bring them to court to see them he gonna ask her you ok? Hell to the NO!
Being a dad myself who had to go through some major issues and eventually got full custody of my oldest son I don’t feel bad for dude if you really want to see your kids and be in they life you will figure out how to there’s no excuse and even after all the dirt he did to this woman she still said I’m not holding your kids from you as a father he has to do better and step his son misses him dearly and his daughter is turned off by him possibly because she was old to remember seeing the things he did to her mother he has a lot of growing up to do and he has to be better as a father maybe he can go to some parenting classes to learn effective communication and better parenting skills cause clearly right now he’s lacking in those areas he can definitely turn it around though and make this a success story
That daughter didn't wanna be anywhere near him.
Omg, the ending! So sad. 😢
The end had me teary eyed seeing the kids not knowing how to react when seeing their dad!
The deadbeatness of it all!
She shows tears and the judge just turns on dude. Exactly how it happens in family court.
JM is just as emotional as the Plaintiff, get him in his feelings and he’ll rule your way. Ain’t nobody gon listen to all that damn hollering and carrying on
Exactly
That little boy had me in tears. He needed his dad. Both of them do 🥹
If only their dad would have stepped up to the plate
I just started to tear up watching them.
to all the fathers in he position, Why??????
He needs a good man and father figure, this man most likely will never change, most men like him will only act redeemed to get off the CS and dip once again. When dealing with grow boys like this, it's best to keep giving the kids stability, an open line of communication and to find father figures in people you can trust in the community and within the family. Every child deserves a good parent, but not every parent deserves a child.
That was explosive 🧨
Look how his son was glued to him, his son didn't want to let his daddy go
Love it when JM go slap off on these losers...😂😂😂😂👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
We don’t need nothing…so why are you there asking for money?
Yeah, I didn't understand that statement either. That child support is for her children and they are entitled to that so he needs to make it right. She didn't have to carry on like that at the end. And all of that yelling during the proceeding was uncalled for. I hope they can co-parent and create healthy, stable environments for their children.
So a teen lies about their age...did she drop out of highschool as well? Did you not meet any of her teen friends? Did she pay taxes? Did she have a driver's license?... I can't believe over 18 months there were no other indicators of her age
None of your questions are valid for this child support case
Well that escalated quickly!
Absolutely 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
The plaintiff is annoying af!!!
“ go to jail”? Yea he should be able to pay then smh
There were a bunch of mistakes made in this situation on both sides.
1) She lied about her age
2) Once he realized the lie, he should've left her alone for a number of reasons
3) Looks like both were committing domestic violence, wrong on both of their parts
4) Nobody was worried about contreception,, especially him considering he has more kids
5) All that carrying on and arguing in front of the kids does nothing, but damage them
He was hanging out in a teen club. She was a child and a grown adult knows when they're dealing with a child regardless of the situation.
@@CLAUDINEtbmoth you'd be surprised especially these days.
Plus, his age was not made clear at the time. Cause what if he was 19? Are you gonna say a 19 year old can't be in a teen club?
@@ddavis8988 I don't think there's anything wrong with that but I think in a teen club you run the risk of dealing with a minor once you are a legal adult in places like those. Better to be safe than sorry!
@@simplistikitty that's true which is why I said both made many mistakes
I said what I said. As a grown woman I know when I talking to a child regardless of how they look. He knew she was a young girl. He didn't care. Obviously he's not a good person. He abuses women and is a dead beat. So him also being a predator isn't shocking.
Dude is disgraceful for not at least fightingfor his kids and continuing to see her when he found out she was only 15 but I don't judge quickly when it comes to domestic violence because I've seen women be the aggressor then act like victims when the time is right.
The plaintiff was still acting 15 yrs old, all that yelling at the end wasn't called for. Tasteless
Probably arrested development and effects of being a teen mom. Therapy for her and the kids.
Agreed! 💯 I wanted her to HUSH 🤫 & let the kids enjoy dad’s embrace….
She was obviously still very emotional from what just happened in the courtroom. Y’all kill me getting on the internet acting like you’re so perfect
@@makeit3275 What does the dad need?
@@sereneamani1713 he needs to play in traffic.
This really hit home with me. MONEY will never fill in the place for a FATHER PHYSICALLY being in your life!!!
These young women need to be held accountable for lying to other young men about their ages.
Some jail time or heavy fines need to be levied against them.
These men who don’t take care of their children need to be held accountable.
She told him the truth and he didn’t care. The adult in the situation is who needs to be held accountable. But he was too busy trying to get in the sack.
I agree. Judge Mathis never addressed her lying and it wasn't stated that he was over 18 in the teen club. We have to be fair across the board
The law doesn’t work that way. As an adult you will be held accountable for dating someone underage lol. Doesn’t matter if they are lying or not.
But once he found out . He continued to have sex with a minor. He was not that scared of jail time! That goes both ways cause some men are older and will lie to appear younger to date a minor.
@@indigorose1270 notice he said “women” need to be held accountable. Some men want to be able to do these things and come out unscathed. Sick 🤢
Just send him to jail he not gone pay
And what is that going to do? Hopefully he will want to work and be in the kids life Blessings.
@@wildfiregirl1556 Yeah, hopefully he will make it right.
She has deep emotional stress and needs counseling
He is a typical dead beat father and now wants his children to forgive him.
He will try to get out .of paying.
I hope she continues to take him to court if he doesn't do right
Amazing how u worded that to soften her issues & flat out call him a derogatory name...Never ceases to amaze me. I have no sympathy for any of u.
Wow he tripped the judge all the way offfff 😧
The Judge become infuriated when males don't provide financially for their children. He also despises males who physically abuse women. Deadbeats and abusers! That switch will be flipped!
Predator, he knew she was underage. When he learned the truth, he didn’t stop.
That part.
Why did she lie about her age?
He is not a predator a predator preys on someone or thing, he didn't do that.
@@hackunit he stayed having sexual contact with a minor once finding out she was a minor.
Seems predatory to continue a sexual relationship knowing your partner has been a minor.
@@simplistikitty I wouldn't have continued the relationship, however, according to Wisconsin law the age of consent is 16.
“Relationship” started out toxic with deception, her lying about her age…a whole year! Smdh
Exactly! It started with her lying! Let's not overlook that!
Lisa... she did take accountability! You need to remember the time between admitting her true age and having to leave.
Lying to a man who was having a sexual relationship with her, impregnating her, knowing her home circumstances, BUT IT TOOK HIM A YEAR TO KNOW SHE WAS UNDERAGE. Wouldn't have made a difference, because when he "FOUND OUT" her real age, she was still a minor and NOTHING CHANGED.
I bet she wished she would’ve told him her real age back then. 🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
He should have done his research. Thirsty ass. Anint no way.
A VERY smart black. She moved on and got her life together. He had nothing but lame excuses. His son was just glad to see his daddy.
I knew by the title JM would turn up on dis one 😂
Why keep talking bad in front of the children?! I’m glad he asked her to stop. Smh… she’s more of a deadbeat than she calls him.
That boy is clinging to his dad 😢
He is dead wrong, but she needs to stop all that hollering. Good Lord!!!!
She shouldn’t have had that convo in front of the kids with him. It’s evidence of how emotional she is when discussing him with her kids overall. Kids feed off our eMotion and it hurts them to see their mom hurt. She needs to put on a stronger game face in front of the kids for their sake
I agree and was just saying this.
Complete 🗑
Where did you see the kids?
Apologies I didn't get to the very end. Sorry about that.
That game face can be so draining at times but you're right.
This tears me up what a dead beat!!!!
That’s very honorable of her to let the kids see him, hopefully this can start something positive for them to co parent
Honor should have nothing to do with it. She is supposed to let him see his children. They're his children!
@@evacook4693 understandable yet Most people in her position use the children as a weapon
Did he glitch or something 😭😭 JM asked a question, honey. Wake up 😭
Her fake tears.. They both was abusive
Who is to say that they are fake?
I agree!
@@misterbee66 her tears are fake.. that woman is a thot, she is a liar, and she moved the man's kids far away from him without even telling him... She's a horrible person and abusive
Thank you - they both were mutual abusers
I wouldn't say fake but they definitely both played their part. If she's this emotional in court you can imagine how she'd act at 15 / 16.
Miss Lady, you have done ver well by taking are of the kids and bringing them to court to meet their dad.. I hope he will rise up to his responsibilities
But so many people downplay child support, or try to see it as a way to tear down the father. Its simple dont make children you know you aren’t going to help take care of emotionally and financially. The responsible parent ends up doing way more than child support could cover depending on the non custodial parents income. Some try to be spiteful towards the mother through their own flesh and blood and end up catching hell.
So she went to his grandma after her father died.....yet he didnt know her age????? Hmmmmmmmm
I wish more black mothers would hold these baby father's accountable and put them on child support. They didn't have these kids by themselves they need money for them kids.
At the same time, she laid down with him and made not 1 but 2 kids. She knew she was too young to be having them but did it anyway. My other problem is she then jumped state with those kids and refused him visitation. Missed child support is not a reason for her to withhold visitation. Only a court can do that.
young men need to work on avoiding these types of females. young girl from damaged homes, they'll call you fighting words when she disagree with you, if you reply with an insult or any sign of aggression, they'll call you abusive. they'll hit on you when angry but only tell people when you hit back. lose lose situations.
Bingo.
Hard for young men to avoid "these types of females" when they're predators who seek them out.
@@sereneamani1713 Fr. These same men will straight up say they love crazy women.
Stop chasing em then! Just like women have to "pick better men" when they turn out to be abusive or bums, pick better women!
@@simplistikitty i couldve swore to gd i already said that in a different way. just shut up. yall like to hear yall selves talk
I hope and pray she’s not feeding this venom to her pre teens because she’s going to reap a rotten harvest because puberty is a terrible storm in females over males. I never talked bad about my ex husband to my kids whenever he was around I allowed him to see them in spite of him not giving support at all. When my daughter reached puberty she was another person and very troublesome running away talking to grown men etc… it was pure hell for me for several years I only made it through that because of God and my pastor and his wife helping me stay strong and encouraging me to do everything I can to help her all while keeping a closer eye on my son, it was hard. To this day their dad still owes support and they are grown now and they on their own doesn’t communicate with their dad at all. My daughter apologized to me about how she behaved and that really meant the world to me.
God bless this family 🙏🏽
Your daughter probably grew up thinking all men are like this and that it is normal. I don’t think you should speak bad about their dad, but you should let them know that what he is doing is not right etc, and that God will deal with him. Women need to stop protecting these men at their own expense.
@Marlon Dickerson
They see the parent struggle and know what is happening. They know who is there and who isn't, this is all too common not to notice.
What did she say bad about him? She told the truth about his actions... The children need to know what is going on and why their father is not there... It can backfire on the mom later if she does not inform the kids of what actually happened...
@Marlon Dickerson I agree with that, BUT why aren't the men there proving the woman wrong. Kids can see through misinformation no matter what side it's coming from.
To God be the glory and thank you for that wonder Praise Report!!! Great job!!!
why didn’t he grill her for lying about her age , i can’t deal with the double standards & bias that JM shows ,
He didn't address that because she was a child. Doing childish things.
@@ultimatecouponlady RIGHT! And doing it with someone who WAS NOT a child.
Judge Mathis should have got on her fast butt being grown She knew what She was doing
He never does
@@ultimatecouponlady having unprotected sex and having babies is not a childish thing.
Take a shot for every time he says, Erica Hoyt 😮💨
You're going to be drunk!!