Overcoming your own worst enemy...you | Kent Grosswiler | TEDxYearlingRoad

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  • Опубликовано: 7 янв 2025

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  • @cindyhalpern3187
    @cindyhalpern3187 Год назад +1

    Thank you.
    You were a great speaker. I learned a lot from you. Because you are real, you have been through rough edges, but you found a way to end up in a better place, utilizing your inner talents, accepting your flaws, but embracing your strengths!

  • @rogerkentgrosswilerjr7671
    @rogerkentgrosswilerjr7671 8 лет назад +105

    Thank you all so much for the kind words. They're really much appreciated.

    • @causeand3ff3ct
      @causeand3ff3ct 8 лет назад +5

      Roger Kent Grosswiler Jr
      Absolute respect for doing this talk.
      I've struggled with minor internal battles in comparison to what you have had to deal with, yet you managed to get on a TedTalks stage and let the world into your experiences.
      Big ups, Sir, and keep on keeping on.

    • @EmreSahinGural
      @EmreSahinGural 7 лет назад +2

      That was beautiful dude, thank you!

    • @LonersGuide
      @LonersGuide 7 лет назад +6

      Your nerves and self-doubt had you speaking without enough pauses for awhile, and the story took a bit to wind up, but it wind up it did. Your delivery got better as you went. What you had to say was great, and you put it across with humanity and humility, and that's a beautiful thing. The cool thing is, the way your delivery got better and more punctuated as you persisted at it actually reinforced the point you were trying to make. Thanks for the inspiring and moving talk, I'm going to take it to heart. It's not how you start, it's how you finish.

    • @emmamacgregor731
      @emmamacgregor731 6 лет назад +3

      Well done, Kent! I am struggling right now, and your story today has helped me take another step...and try again. You have "helped someone" today. Thank you!

    • @angelicasbestversion3301
      @angelicasbestversion3301 6 лет назад +1

      @@causeand3ff3ct Yes! well said.

  • @ThisisDaniel
    @ThisisDaniel 4 года назад +16

    Always nice to hear people successfully turn their lives around 🙏🏾

  • @lisawhitehouse9432
    @lisawhitehouse9432 7 лет назад +55

    i was worrying about writing the wrong thing or it not being good enough but then i thought..wait a minute....so youve inspired me to write my first ever comment for a tedtalk and ive watched many over the years! I love the fact that you said you were worried about doing a tedtalk. It good to show vulnerabilities and be so human. Well done for how far you have come and good luck with the future. I believe you have got lots more good stuff still to come. Big love x

  • @Esther-fp2mt
    @Esther-fp2mt 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you sooooo much

  • @declagreen7884
    @declagreen7884 2 года назад +1

    Proud of you for your courage. Honesty, and tolerance... I hope you continue.. your an inspiration!

  • @DS-cf1zc
    @DS-cf1zc 3 года назад +4

    Thank you for telling your story - it is powerful, and will empower others to keep trying - including me. Who is trying to overcome my own inner demons, even though everyone thinks I am successful. In my head, I am not, and I try hard each day to become better, and try even harder to keep going.
    Life is a challenge, and your story is so motivational.
    I hope you are still doing really well.

  • @Animashaun
    @Animashaun 6 лет назад +19

    And huh...he has a phenomenal story. When you seek to be the best version of yourself and you work hard at positive change, however hopeless your life may seem, great things will happen for you.
    And huh...seek to be the best version of yourself.

  • @wonderwomanx1268
    @wonderwomanx1268 2 года назад +1

    Beautiful and triumphant story.

  • @amywalshharris
    @amywalshharris 8 лет назад +18

    One of my favourites so far. I've listened to you several times. I think it takes a lot of bravery to get up and talk in front of a lot of people about your personal experiences with addiction. I love that you spoke of how you were afraid and went for it anyhow. Very inspiring. Thank you!!

  • @jessiewheeler3175
    @jessiewheeler3175 8 лет назад +24

    Thank you. I am in self induced recovery and I needed this right now. I am my own worst critic and I am searching for ways to improve. I am meditating and writing insanely and the funny part is I started doing so to not go crazy. I want to do this. Thank you for your bravery, your honesty and sincerity.
    That's how you save a life.
    I hope that helps with your scale, Sir.
    Because you remind me that it's all mindset.
    And what we were doesn't mean it's all we have to be FOREVER.
    Bless you.

    • @SOSM209
      @SOSM209 6 лет назад +2

      Jessie Wheeler well said 🙂

    • @zennologyofeverything7265
      @zennologyofeverything7265 4 года назад

      Yo Jessie, what helps a lot is the work of Professor Kristin Neff. It is a hard work...trial and error...

  • @adevore1971
    @adevore1971 6 лет назад +11

    Thank you! I've told myself I'm a failure for soooooo long... Since junior high school really and im now 47... Im going to rage it with my painting, sewing, gardening and a few other things! Youve inspired me ...

  • @warrenbradford2597
    @warrenbradford2597 2 года назад +1

    So, keep failing yourself to get the success you want. Got it! 👍 To you win, you got to lose.

  • @lorindaliversidge4609
    @lorindaliversidge4609 Год назад +1

    Love it! Thank you - so authentic

  • @joeryan1369
    @joeryan1369 6 лет назад +1

    It's something that I don't believe that I could get bored of listening to.
    That's the beauty of friendship isn't it, the ability to allow it to go down stream, but never lose a beat no matter how far one may actually be from the other.
    One day soon I will go for mine as well.
    God Bless You and Thank You!

  • @blancadz3905
    @blancadz3905 8 лет назад +71

    I am so inspired by you, how ever your speech unfolded, it was one of the most authentic I've seen so far, don't listen to the noise my friend, you are exceptionally brave to share ALL of you with your audience and Us watching through vid, How many can say they'll speak in front of an audience about their most inner battles ??! Not many who fight to stay afloat after a serious drug addiction can undertake such an important and intimate task of allowing the world to enter their truest colors of dark unto triumph of unbelievable beautiful radiant colors, I commend you! your awesome! 🤗🙂

    • @karint1755
      @karint1755 8 лет назад +7

      Well said! I haven't fought the drug addiction, but I can completely empathize with the feelings of self-doubt and the negative self-talk. Keep on keeping on!

    • @poe3man394
      @poe3man394 7 лет назад +3

      Well formulated ;-)

  • @PoliticaV
    @PoliticaV 9 месяцев назад +1

    The art is pretty amazing!

  • @beldiman5870
    @beldiman5870 2 года назад +1

    Blaming everything on yourself and ignoring the fact that others try to oppress
    you is counter productive. Your biggest enemy might be yourself but
    that does not mean that you do not have plenty of other enemies who
    want to keep you down and humiliate you.

  • @stephengoh5456
    @stephengoh5456 4 года назад +1

    Awesome! You discovered your talents! Love it. God bless. Thank you.

  • @lynguyen8590
    @lynguyen8590 5 лет назад +7

    You could be your own worst enemy. Fighting with yourself could be a hard battle. An escape from your own ego could be the only path leading to happiness and life, and to disempower your grief and loss, to truly live in the discomfort...

    • @matthewtetley7048
      @matthewtetley7048 3 года назад +1

      Yup, needed to let go of it and something else, now ready to be the ultimate me.

    • @warrenbradford2597
      @warrenbradford2597 2 года назад +1

      I am working on destroying my ego. I am taking my time to start learning how.

  • @maisaahmed7012
    @maisaahmed7012 6 лет назад +4

    Absolutely amazing!!! I needed to hear this long time ago. Thank you very much for sharing.

  • @Footplanet34
    @Footplanet34 7 лет назад +1

    Your authenticity is on Wow levels. Thank you

  • @beautyqueen9209
    @beautyqueen9209 5 лет назад +3

    Woow what an inspiration talk. Always yourself is your first enemy as you said as you plan to do things there will be to many excuses to pull u back and always have a tremendous argument in your brain. Thanks for sharing your great success and push me to the right path of great motivations

  • @RO-kn6cw
    @RO-kn6cw 8 лет назад +20

    God bless you man, you have inspired me today. Good on you. Love you're art work and your bravery to be really real. All the best to you and thank you :) X

  • @robertsanchez9174
    @robertsanchez9174 2 года назад +1

    Thank you

  • @jasonuttleyaces8
    @jasonuttleyaces8 8 лет назад +8

    So glad to listen & share this on g+ & fb too, I wish u well & hope sharing helps in ways I can't. I too will follow & share in pay-it-forward hommage as I need to explore & live as never before, building solid foundations instead of wading in quicksand destruction... GL.

  • @dontewoods-spikes9309
    @dontewoods-spikes9309 8 лет назад +2

    Uncle Kent! Amazing job! I'm proud and inspired as well!

  • @ivanmarkovic6830
    @ivanmarkovic6830 7 лет назад +1

    Thank you! I loved this! Your talk was beautiful and your paintings are so vibrant and gorgeous!

  • @theonemrham
    @theonemrham 5 лет назад +2

    Great insight and an honest way... Thanks buddy!

  • @Kiritokun9333
    @Kiritokun9333 5 лет назад +2

    i cried really

  • @amandameth688
    @amandameth688 6 лет назад

    Actually one of the best TED Talks I've seen!! Great job!

  • @AbhishekSharma-dz8ux
    @AbhishekSharma-dz8ux 3 года назад +1

    A worth life ❤️

  • @dcat2004
    @dcat2004 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you.

  • @freshencounter
    @freshencounter 7 лет назад +1

    Yes!!! He is wonderful!

  • @emilieyegikyan3782
    @emilieyegikyan3782 6 лет назад +1

    Yeah, inspiring, courageous, I can feel where you’ve been, I’d love to have these guys telling me to try something new. Writing this, I realize I have you to inspire me from now on. Thank you for sharing 🙂

  • @salmamahmoud6037
    @salmamahmoud6037 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you, You gave me hope

  • @DrShankar1001
    @DrShankar1001 2 года назад +1

    excellent

  • @AlexandraParaskiv
    @AlexandraParaskiv 8 лет назад +4

    You are so awesome!

  • @katrekoovit8601
    @katrekoovit8601 4 года назад +1

    Really amazing paintings. He has great imagination!

  • @slovenkas7733
    @slovenkas7733 6 лет назад

    Love this talk. Thank you!

  • @jengal1007
    @jengal1007 7 лет назад +1

    I'm happy for you, Kent, that someone gave you a fair chance. Seems to me that people with criminal backgrounds and past drug problems get more respect and fair opportunity than me. Not that I would want to keep it from them, just wonder it's kept from me. Maybe it's because I expect to be treated with respect and not be bullied -- I guess drug addicts and criminals aren't seen as a threat or a target for bullying. Lucky them. Hey everyone -- in America you are so much better off being a criminal or drug addict rather than speaking the truth and doing a good job for fear of jealousy from others! There's some solid advice for you.

    • @rogerkentgrosswilerjr7671
      @rogerkentgrosswilerjr7671 7 лет назад +4

      I didn't have enough time in the talk to go into the endless doors that were shut in my face upon first getting out of treatment while trying to find a job. For a long time I worked construction for mt stepdad. Probably wouldn't have been hired if it wasn't for family.

  • @KG-pj3bc
    @KG-pj3bc 6 лет назад

    Thank you for sharing your story. Very inspiring. Keep on killin’ it man. XOXO

  • @johnellis3244
    @johnellis3244 7 лет назад +1

    This has really made my day - thanks

  • @clairecanty9447
    @clairecanty9447 4 года назад +1

    BRAVO!

  • @tiffanykyer
    @tiffanykyer 5 лет назад +1

    This right here!

  • @logan3956
    @logan3956 6 лет назад

    He is a good guy

  • @tashalodge1340
    @tashalodge1340 7 лет назад +2

    God I love this.

  • @jh13inker
    @jh13inker 6 лет назад +1

    Life's a garden you got to dig it.

  • @karenvonclezie4678
    @karenvonclezie4678 8 лет назад +2

    great job KG!!

  • @maggpye206
    @maggpye206 6 лет назад

    ❤ Thank you

  • @jh13inker
    @jh13inker 6 лет назад +2

    We've all had it ruff. We've all did drugs. We've all given up.
    I want to figure out why?

  • @SOSM209
    @SOSM209 6 лет назад

    Almost appears as a simple speech, it has great encouragement. It’s always going to be best to see the cup as almost full! Great job! I hope some day soon to share a story of thought provoking motivation also. I want to experience looking into an audience and doing my very best from the heart not a script. SantosJr

  • @mindvolution
    @mindvolution 7 лет назад

    Good story. Respect man!

  • @mccarney4207
    @mccarney4207 3 года назад +1

    It’s no surprise to me I am my own worst enemy

  • @soulnurse3833
    @soulnurse3833 8 лет назад +6

    Hey there! You are AMAZING!!! I am in amazement of your work... how can I get some of your ART to purchase? I am just a low key home taught Artist just the same and you have inspired me to keep on going with some of it! I have ALSO been known to hang out in some of the rooms with bad coffee.. hehehe so your story really helps me today.. take care Brother:)

    • @rogerkentgrosswilerjr7671
      @rogerkentgrosswilerjr7671 8 лет назад +2

      Thank you so much for the kind words. I can be contacted through my website www.kentgrosswiler.com/ or found pretty easily on facebook. Looking forward to hearing from you.

    • @rogerkentgrosswilerjr7671
      @rogerkentgrosswilerjr7671 8 лет назад +1

      Also, if you're on social media, find me. Would love to see your work.

  • @ElusivEnigma
    @ElusivEnigma 5 месяцев назад

    Watching this cause I’ve been failing interdisciplinary course for my bachelor degree 5 times and I’m in my senior year….idk whats wrong with me…

  • @Messi10947
    @Messi10947 7 лет назад +1

    that was inspiring man!

  • @bradydavidow4470
    @bradydavidow4470 5 лет назад

    He says LIKE a lot.

  • @saraho362
    @saraho362 8 лет назад +5

    i really like his jacket lmao

  • @leighatkins22
    @leighatkins22 8 лет назад +7

    31 years IS a long time to not try anything new!
    Wow, I can't believe that he was stuck where he was just because he wouldn't allow himself to try something new.

    • @MrRJGD
      @MrRJGD 7 лет назад

      he was so lenghty with his autobiography.can he just get straight to the main topic?half the time he talked about his own story not the main topic.Half the time its like im reading a storybook.quit fooling around dude.

  • @otarshavadze9178
    @otarshavadze9178 3 года назад +1

    So You are big enemy of yourself but big friend also, it looks like quantum, 2 different positions same time.
    I wroted this like i know something about quantum

  • @yewmunwong642
    @yewmunwong642 7 лет назад +1

    Can I buy one of your paintings?

  • @logan3956
    @logan3956 6 лет назад

    Nice paintings

  • @thehurricane218
    @thehurricane218 5 лет назад

    16:18 minutes and I think one or two sentences in there were worth it.

  • @KatBuckleyXOX
    @KatBuckleyXOX 8 лет назад +2

    XOX

  • @michelletaylor-gill7484
    @michelletaylor-gill7484 7 лет назад

    What is this a 12 step recovery talk??🎉🎉🎉🎉🐷🐷🐷👟👟💕👟💕👟👟

  • @acerealinvestor
    @acerealinvestor 6 лет назад

    so much of the audience was forowning i think hes funny af

  • @The_Server_ong
    @The_Server_ong 8 лет назад +5

    The beginning was way too long dude. I recommend getting to the point next time. Keep it up

  • @3L3CTR0static
    @3L3CTR0static 8 лет назад

    Does this guy work for Spectre? LOL

  • @christyvigil5691
    @christyvigil5691 4 года назад

    Lost over a door ????

  • @Daxkalak
    @Daxkalak 7 лет назад +1

    His earlier paintings were better.

  • @catmagic2226
    @catmagic2226 7 лет назад

    what?!

  • @mosot624
    @mosot624 8 лет назад

    2nd comment

  • @iloveryangreasley6172
    @iloveryangreasley6172 6 лет назад +1

    Dude, get to the point...

  • @prakerr9155
    @prakerr9155 5 лет назад +1

    What a boring talk.

    • @addictionfreeworld2919
      @addictionfreeworld2919 Год назад

      This is one of best Ted talk, try to catch his points and also don't look at the number of views