seriously she is right i asked god universe that i dont continue like this show me the path show me if im right. in 2 days i started to get challenges which i cant even be lazy in now. it worked like im grateful to universe for doing this to me i know whatever ill do in september would be right and ill not give up and universe will keep helping me like seriously same challenge passed by me when i didnt believe in all this and somehow i got to escape from it yeah the escape which was not good for me. now i have no choice but to work towards whats right for me and just work . i could have escaped this time too but universe gave me the path i know it means something cause he gave me that imma aim high till where my eyes can go and be restless
Such a good sentence❤ Many people are quick to call someone weak or sensitive, instead of trying to understand why they're sad. I was called weak by my dad all my life for crying or being sad, but he was the one who made me scared and unsafe lol..
@@rickacton7540 If you feel she is wasting your time, just don't watch or listen her. No one is stopping you from doing so. But for me, my life has started to change positively ever since I started watching her and there are lots of people who also said that they has improved, their life has improved. I understand you're talking from your perception but instead of badmouthing on her, just do or watch something that improves your life. Her content maybe not your type, but that doesn't mean those are useless
That’s true I tried shutting myself down and not letting it out and I actually got sick my body started responding otherwise and i started breaking out on my face …my whole face covered with acne so fast and until this day I have my acne scars but when I look myself in the mirror I see a strong girl who went through a lot I don’t find myself ugly instead I remind myself how i handled that situation without even anyone finding out so be happy with yourself , be in peace with yourself because if you’re not then nobody is gonna bring you the peace…you bring peace to yourself by changing your mindset ❤
1:56 realize there is no self 2:44 rewire your beliefs about yourself 4:28 are you acting or reacting 5:25 what are your non negotiables 8:01 don't lose yourself in doing too much of something 8:55 understand your triggers 9:45 therapy can teach you a lot about yourself 11:02 understand and acknowledge your feelings 11:58 recognise repeating patterns in your life 13:22 taking responsibility is your power 14:52 don't become addicted to suffering 16:00 who feeds you and who takes from you 17:48 choose wisely who you surround yourself with 19:47 what are people, books, TV shows, songs... teaching you 22:33 answer questions about yourself 23:00 living in the now 24:18 what people think about you is none of your business 25:46 believe in yourself
Seeing her saying that she used to get scared to get married, and now she's engaged.. I'm so happy and proud of you, Liz! I wish you all the happiness and god keep blessing you, I love you!
I was also attacked by my past and for some reason ut was very bitter like i was so bad earlier but it is just a distraction we should remove it we are a followers for liz .
@@user-ir8xk2kd7voicebillie I tried getting back with one of my toxic relatives,I thought we could go back to normal but she's really toxic,and after just one convo with her I felt triggered and overwhelmed,and I cried,but I'm better now,I think it's better to just not force anything anymore😭
She’s Super right. I was told my whole childhood I’m ugly and now I can’t stop believing that no matter what happens or who compliments me. It’s like my reality
Happened the same to me. Only right now i dont hate myself for my appearance. People calling you ugly treating you like you are ugly leaves a mark on you
honestly exactly the same here. i wasnt directly told but iy was pretty obvious since i was 11, but i have literally been feeling myself recently as i met better people and i feel good in who i am💗
yes, it's so true, someone told me so when I was a child, today I get so many compliments every day about my appearance, but I always suspect that people are flattering that it's not true and that I'm ugly, as I someone said when I was a child i understan you totaly.. although I'm happy with how I look, but it's strange to explain it, that feeling
I’m so sorry you had to experience that growing up-it can be incredibly hard to break free from the negative messages we internalize as kids. When we hear something repeatedly, especially from people we trust, it can feel like the truth, even when it’s not. But remember, those messages were reflections of someone else's issues, not your worth or beauty. It takes time, but with self-compassion and conscious effort, you can start to rewrite those beliefs. As a therapist, I know how deeply rooted these thoughts can be, but healing and change are possible. I also create content focused on therapy and self-empowerment, so if you're looking for more support on this journey, feel free to check it out. You deserve to see yourself as the amazing person you are.
@@EmpowermentPsychology thank you very much for such nice and encouraging words, I think it's a process and a constant struggle, you succeed a little but often the inner child reminds you... I will definitely watch your content Thank you very much
Liz you’re an angel. I haven’t watch your videos till yesterday and I have been just connecting and healing so many different things in my life that I need work on. Genuinely, Thank you
Absolutely, Rosa! It's so easy to fall into the trap of self-doubt and start minimizing our own worth, but the truth is, we are all worthy of the effort it takes to heal, grow, and thrive. Gaslighting ourselves only holds us back from recognizing the value we bring to the world. As a therapist, I see how crucial it is for people to stop underestimating themselves and start embracing their own importance. You are worth every bit of effort! I also create content around therapy and self-care, so if you ever need more support or encouragement, feel free to check it out. You're doing amazing-keep believing in yourself!
26:01 this. This is exactly what I need to hear. I deserve the best. There is this guy that's obsessed with me, he travels like 2hrs just to see me for 30mins. I've been telling myself that I don't deserve it, but why? I do deserve to be treated like a queen. Thank you for making me realise that. Thank you liz
Pay attention on how you reciprocate toward your BF because if you convince yourself that you deserve all the best but don't payback this is going to trap you.. If he's giving so much to you that it cost him it's health or security it will crash the relationship. Each party needs its boundaries aligned otherwise it wont work long term. Many women nowadays are stuck in that "I'm a queen, I deserve only the best" bc of feminism delusion while remaining poor quality people (you can check the channel of Alexander Grace for a deep dive of those issues) . It's about being truth full and accurate on who we are more than entertaining positive/negative personas of ourselves (aka putting masks).
7:02 this part is very true my mother was in a toxic relationship with my dad for over 11 years and one day she had the switch and we left and have never turned back since. I will forever respect her for that.
No one understands me like she does no one understands how much i admire this woman she is smart, healthy, beautiful, nice and literally perfect and i used to wish to be like her but she taught me to never wish to be her but to be the highest version of MYself love you liz
once a woman decides that she dont want you anymore,she will never come back and you will not be even able to recognize her ..... Thats so true.... recognized a narcissist partner and left him a week ago.....abd the peace i have now is worth everything i left behind....I dont even wanna look at him .....
not sure why I love this background more than any of her previous fancy videos. Somehow this one feels more raw and rare, I feel way more connected with her words.
Being brutally honest with myself and breaking down my strengths and weaknesses have given me so much clarity and prosperity that I highly recommend it to everyone. Take action, you owe it to yourself to live your best life possible. Stay Uncommon!
Wow liz, the way you're saying that all you ever wanted was freedom and how you didn't have a voice and now millions of people are listening to your words and changing our lives because of it. Thank you for showing us this light and power. I love you.
she's so real about not living in the future. i constantly feel like i'm stuck there because i always find myself trying to escape the now. if you've watched or read The Great Gatsby you will know how obsessed Gatsby was with the past. sometimes I feel like that about my future and i know it's really unhealthy for me to be living that way because not appreciating my now means that it'll be hard for me to have the future that i want. i've acknowledged that and i really wish to now change my mindset.
Liz, you have become so calm while talking compared to your older videos. I can feel the healing process that's going on. I pray for you and me to heal from all the things that we can't be spoken of. God bless you💖🎀
I want to thank Liz with all my heart. You are a very great person. Thank you for everything I learned from your videos. I am only 13 years old and I am already better than most adults in terms of thinking, rationality and confidence. Thank you.
Omg Liz you've no idea about how you're actually helping AND healing many wounded people out there You're basically our older sister we never had Plz never stop being you and guiding us❤ we love you
"Once you know who you are, no one can tell you anything." This is so true like no one else's opinions can move or shake you, just living unapologetically for YOURSELF, FOR YOU! 💯
This is the most powerful I've ever seen you. Just wow. SO much inner peace that comes from trusting yourself. I'm proud of how insanely far you've come. You're walking the path of the Lion
I agree with you! And I had the same situation! My whole life people had told me that I am not smart, just the weird pretty girl. Until I enter the university and people started to taking me seriously and never doubt my knowledge. Now, I understand my abilities and I KNOW that I am the smartest person in the room and no one can make me feel less.❤
I’m so glad I found this video! I moved away from my abusive home and in a far away foreign place but I found people I wouldn’t want to be like and I was feeling that,liz saying all this is just so good for me!thankyou liz!you truly deserve the best,praying for you!
1.You are what you believe 2.People's perception of you is not the real you 3. Listen to your inner voice 4. When you set your boundaries, you become confident and you earn respect
7:03 SOO SPECIFIC. my mom did it this year to my "father" after 25 years of marriage cus she was *done* . He still thinks she'll comeback, but she will NEVER.
@@Saptami-wi7oi cook, serve, ate is like ways to say someone is doing sth really impressive, slay. They are words related to food because how important foods are just like breadwinner
"so choose wisely who you surround yourself with" I'm kinda introverted I don't think it would be easy for me to connect with people but i like challenges i will give it a try soon thank you Liz for encouraging me to take a step forward and to do something i was struggling with....
Like literally I was just crying.....idk what's wrong with me, i suddenly feel happy, and then suddenly I'm feeling low, I feel done with everyone and everything....... sometimes I feel like talking to someone and then I get past flashbacks that how they used me ghosted me when I put efforts on them......I can't share anything with my family they're toxic, a bunch of bullies.....they are ashamed of me, i got less marks than my sis and bla bla...............but when I listen to Liz I guess that trigger cools down ....... Thankyou Lizzie❤ Mama❤
Same I get so trauma shocked sometimes from past abuse from my dad and just not really supportive family and a bf I’m trying to get used to she helps with this❤️
as someone who is a first yr college and i’m done for my first week. i’ve been crying, seeing my classmates made friends already made me more alone, i couldn’t get myself to talk to ppl when i don’t feel like myself, even in recitation there are times i knew the answer yet i chose not to bc i questioned myself. i’ve started doubting myself and losing my grip and it felt like i was my past self. last night i was in yt and all i could wish was liz to upload a new vid and to see this first thing in the morning was so nice. tysm liz i’ve been drowning but after seeing ur vid i got this now. thank you! 🥺
I have been reading the book: the power of now and this video was just the cherry on top. A constant reminder that we all should leave in the now. The past doesn’t exist. THE future doesn’t exist. WE must create it.
investing in yourself is the most valuable thing you can do. Discipline is often misunderstood, but reading Bruce Thornwood's "Unveiling Your Hidden Potential" gave me the tools to build it and distinguish my mindset from others.
I don’t know why but I’ve been thinking about you and your videos today, and literally five minutes ago I was thinking to myself, ever since I got to know myself better I’ve become so much more confident- and then I open RUclips and see this video title. Crazy! Thank you 💗
Dear Liz, you are the only positive and motivating person in my life😊🥲💖 I was depressed because I lost all of my friends and was thinking to attend every event just to have someone to talk to. You opend my eyes to be picky! Before I saw your video, I was walking in the park and thinking about what I would like to do and try as a new hobby and how I want to build myself. Your videos always show up in the right time💖💖💖
best video ever, everything connects to me now. all the things that happened in my childhood somehow affects me now even when im almost 18, and now by watching this video it all makes sense, thank you so much
I hope you know how much love and appreciation you have from us. You truly have made such a huge impact in my life. I'm actually tearing up now. You have changed my life for the better and helped me find value in myself. Thank you so much. I hope you continue to get the good karma you deserve.
I feel like setting an intention of who you want to be is so so important and so so powerful. Saying:"I wanna be happy" "I wanna be confident" "I wanna be calm" "I wanna be peaceful" "I want to trust myself" "I want to be grateful" is super important towards creating the life that you desire. Having that intention in mind, truly nothing can get in your way cause you're so focused on creating that version of yourself.
omg you're literally my sign , these days i've been feeling insecure and not good enough like literally this voice would come out of nowhere telling me you're not good enough that's not enough you need to do more and i've never experienced this before (only once after i broke up with my first ex boyfriend)and this evening i asked god to show me why the hell i was feeling this way bcz it was completely out of caracter so what i realized is that i've been traumatized and not yet healed from what my exes caused to me so the first one after few days from breaking up with him he got a new girlfriend and they stayed together untill now (3 years i guess) and a part of me felt betrayed and not good enough but i completely neglected that my conscious mind was thinking "ow he's a loser and he doesn't deserve me screw him" but my subconscious was really hurt and for my last relationship my ex was a total manipulator and i don't know how he got with it for a whole 9 months without me noticing it from the begining (bcz i'm really into psychology) but now i get it it was bcz i was insecure and not healed with the previous trauma like i didn't even realise it was there so i was in a volunarable state(p.s that's why we need to ask god constantly for reasons to certain triggers also scripting is really beneficial) he literally controlled me by treating me well giving me flowers surprising me spoiling me and planing good dates eventho he was kinda broke also he was really good to me or that's what i thought bcz by time he started crossing some boundries and i would forgive him everytime bcz he would blame me for me crossing some 'boundries' of his as well like for exp showing up late two or three times but the problem is he would show up late sometimes too but i wouldn't talk about it f*ck i was an adiot please be careful when dating and observe yourself and the pattern of your relationship be extra conscious pls and stay firm to your boundries or else walk away they don't deserve you so anyways this mf would make me do things that i would feel uncomfortable doing they were literally my boundries and i would let him cross them just for the sake of approval bcz in my subconscious tiny head it was like if i don't do what he likes he would not give me princess treatement and attention so i had to perform to "earn" love and i just realised it after seeing the pattern of not feeling good enough exactly this time of the year which is the time i broke up with my first bf this is literally insane and i'm so grateful i realized all this now bcz now i know what the problem was and i'm about to fix it if you're reading this thank you it's a looonnng paragraph i just felt the need to share my story maybe someone can benefit from it it's literally the first time i comment on youtube and it's because it's so crazy to me how fast god responded to me thank you liz you're my favourite youtuber love you xoxo
I am having one of the biggest test in my life in the next two days. I have been constantly scared of how it could be going. I’m glad I got to watch your video tonight before the test, “you can have a goal, but don’t live for it” that hits me harder than I thought. I cried and now I feel a lot more relieved, thank you ❤
see, for real, as she said, everybody can watch a video and all understand, and retain that differently. That depends on what they are going through in their lives. I watched this video, and I don't remember hearing this sentence just because, at this stage of my life this is not sth that I Needed to here. 'Signs' as she said xd
This is one of your best videos Liz, iv watched you from the beginning and your communication and the way you articulate yourself has improved so much, I can feel you healing and growing, you have a beautiful aura of wisdom that grows by Time ❤
THE TIMINGGGGG ! I had a bad day today because of my “friends” or js “classmates” cz they called me ugly and stuff and i was lowk crying and came here to distract myslef and i see LIZ POSTED AAAAA I LOVE U !💋
Aww..same happened with me a month ago, they did not say anything though but they did gossip about me behind my back about things I thought were only between us. They scapegoated me and acted as if I did not matter. They also decided to badmouth me to one of my "good friend" and now she hates me too. I don’t feel like going to school now, I feel bad. I just stay at home now. It feels weird because they only hate me because I do not fit the beauty standards.
Dw bout them, they'll spend most their time insulting ppl then wonder why they got rubbish grades on results day. Hold ur head high, always work hard ❤
😢😢😢😢😢😢you are literally speaking my life story here Liz. Ive been through broken home, abuse on every level that traumatized me , been abandone and ridiculed , humiliated by everyone and betrayed 3 times, suffered 3 heart break back to back , i am now healing thnxs to all the divine healed feminins sharing their stories of empowerment. .
thank u liz really thank you. you talked about the toxic friendships and how it may change you in a negative way and personnaly i had this one friend that has deppression that she always want to escape from reality and one day i listened to one of your videos and i realized that she was a toxic friend and her lifestyle is not matching mine anymore even her friends and ppl that she surrounds herself with are like her
Liz you have helped me sm I litterly after following your advice two years ago I was living in a toxic household which I still live in but I was very depressed and struggled with other mental health issues and now two years later I’m going on exchange to Japan for a year in high school and following my dreams thank you so much Liz for believing in me
Thank you for normalizing crying, processing, and patterns! So many people toxically preach just being stoic about everything when that’s not how life should be
الشي الي فهمته من الفيد : 2:47 تغيير الطريقة التي تتحدث بها مع نفسك 4:31 اسال نفسك هل تتصرف او تتفاعل مع الحياة 5:28 التفكير فيما تفعله امورك الغير قابله للتفاوض 13:25 بدلا من اللقاء اللوم تحمل مسؤليه حياتك 17:52 اختر من تحيط نفسك به لان ذلك ايضا سيشكل شخصيتك 19:51 ابدا في النظر الى ما هم الاشخاص وما هي الكتب والبرامج التلفيزونية والاغاني التي تعلمك في كل مكان تنظر اليه 22:37 خذ ورقة واكتب عن نفسي من انا وماذا افعل وماذا احب وما لااحب ماذا افعل من اجل المتعة ما هي هواياتي وماهي هواياتي عندما كنت اصغر سنا كيف اريد الناس اني يعاملونني كيف اعتقد انني اعامل الناس 23:02 العيش في الوقت الحاضر 24:22 ما يعتقده الناس عنك لايمكن لرجال الاعمال ان يفكروا في ما يريدون 25:50 الايمان بنفسك هو احد اعلى طرق التواصل مع نفسك
That’s soooo true and so important for a woman to really know herself, because otherwise you won‘t realize toxic influences on you or attacks from toxic people ect..,…
Liz, by a few minutes of your video I started crying and trauma dumping then I started saying things to myself like “I love you, I’m so proud of you. You are doing such a great job…” Thank you so much Liz. By the way, you don’t vibrate in the aggressive mode giving advices like you had always been, I wanna say I’m so proud of you. I can see you have become a lot more wiser and calmer. I’m so proud of you for not giving up. I think your nervous system is resetting by the way you emit this calmer self of yours, whether you know this or not, I wanna let you know that YOU HAVE SAVED MY LIFE SO MANY TIMES. THANK YOU 🙏🩷
I was used to the feeling of dont feel hunger. I didn't realise that this was my body telling me that I was sick of living and that i had lack of motivation. After I discovered Liz, i realised that i had an issue and I did my best to fix it. Now, I am eating better and I have the ambition to give my life a twist. Thank you liz💝
This woman is literally my therapist, LIZ YOU HELPED ME SOOO MUCH, i changed the way i think, the way act and the way i give, my life was miserable and when i started to watch your videos you made me realize soo much, you changed my life. I love you so much your videos are supper great Thank you for making videos for Us I really Appreciate the Effort you put into making videos your a great beautiful living soul and i wish you the BEST in life💝
I want to say that I'm so glad my younger sister introduced me to your channel because, to be honest, your videos helped me a lot to recover from a lot of things I used to be obsessed with. I'm still recovering, but I'd like to watch more of your content because it's healthy, and I can see myself healing and becoming a better person every now and then, and I start to love myself more thanks to you. I hope you know that I'm thankful you exist because people like you are hard to find nowadays, thank you liz. keep up the good work!!
i am so touched right now i can even cry. because this video changed my perspective of life, i found exactly all the answers to my questions that i have been trying to find in the past few months. i was so lost. thank you Liz, i never thought my mind would change when i clicked on this video
Ever since I started watching you last year I've become more confident and aware of what to do or react in different situations, thank you so so much Liz!
10:47. thank you. i just hated that he had made me an aggressive person and turned my anger into rage. but youre right i never got the opportunity to be mad at him for everything he put me through. i never had an outlet for my feelings. i am in a much better place now, everytime i think of him my default used to be to be SO angry even after i had accepted everything. ive decided to not talk to him the same way ever again and now everytime i think of him, i think of real forgiveness. it gave me my power back.
16:35 this could be the realest thing ever. i also was very depressed but i reconnect w my old friends this summer who i was ignoring bc of my mental health n stuff but then i had my best summer this year ngl, i made so many new precious memories with them n realized i shouldnt have ignored them but talked w them instead
Use this as a "thank you liz ❤" button
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yesss thank you liz ❤
Liking the video is enough
seriously she is right i asked god universe that i dont continue like this show me the path show me if im right. in 2 days i started to get challenges which i cant even be lazy in now. it worked like im grateful to universe for doing this to me i know whatever ill do in september would be right and ill not give up and universe will keep helping me like seriously same challenge passed by me when i didnt believe in all this and somehow i got to escape from it
yeah the escape which was not good for me. now i have no choice but to work towards whats right for me and just work . i could have escaped this time too but universe gave me the path i know it means something cause he gave me that
imma aim high till where my eyes can go and be restless
"The reason why you're sad, is because you're hurt, it's not because you're weak." What a magical quote. Thank you Liz❤
@@rickacton7540 She's just trying to make money off of gullible teens. She's just spouting generic nonsense
Such a good sentence❤ Many people are quick to call someone weak or sensitive, instead of trying to understand why they're sad. I was called weak by my dad all my life for crying or being sad, but he was the one who made me scared and unsafe lol..
@@rickacton7540 If you feel she is wasting your time, just don't watch or listen her. No one is stopping you from doing so. But for me, my life has started to change positively ever since I started watching her and there are lots of people who also said that they has improved, their life has improved. I understand you're talking from your perception but instead of badmouthing on her, just do or watch something that improves your life. Her content maybe not your type, but that doesn't mean those are useless
@@rickacton7540have you watched her other videos? One of the recent ones, “you are not the victim”, for example.
That’s true I tried shutting myself down and not letting it out and I actually got sick my body started responding otherwise and i started breaking out on my face …my whole face covered with acne so fast and until this day I have my acne scars but when I look myself in the mirror I see a strong girl who went through a lot I don’t find myself ugly instead I remind myself how i handled that situation without even anyone finding out so be happy with yourself , be in peace with yourself because if you’re not then nobody is gonna bring you the peace…you bring peace to yourself by changing your mindset ❤
1:56 realize there is no self
2:44 rewire your beliefs about yourself
4:28 are you acting or reacting
5:25 what are your non negotiables
8:01 don't lose yourself in doing too much of something
8:55 understand your triggers
9:45 therapy can teach you a lot about yourself
11:02 understand and acknowledge your feelings
11:58 recognise repeating patterns in your life
13:22 taking responsibility is your power
14:52 don't become addicted to suffering
16:00 who feeds you and who takes from you
17:48 choose wisely who you surround yourself with
19:47 what are people, books, TV shows, songs... teaching you
22:33 answer questions about yourself
23:00 living in the now
24:18 what people think about you is none of your business
25:46 believe in yourself
thank you so much omg!!
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Well.. a lil edit we need here, it's not therapy can't it's therapy can..and yeah
Seeing her saying that she used to get scared to get married, and now she's engaged.. I'm so happy and proud of you, Liz! I wish you all the happiness and god keep blessing you, I love you!
If you get a child , she would be the luckiest child in the world to have such a wonderful mother like you liz
GURL YOUR TIMING IS SO PERFECT😭
FR SCHOOL STARTS IN 6 DAYS OMF
@@Ava-pg9vh LUCKY I’M IN SCHOOL NOW AND JUST FINISHED MY MATH TEST 😭
@@Ava-pg9vh W, my school started a month ago😭
@Sakshi-e4y frfr
LITERALLY this is what i needed
I WAS CRYING 5 MINS AGO CAUSE I WAS TRIGGERED BY MY PAST TRAUMAS AND now I saw this,I need to get over my past and the people in it,i NEEDED THIS
I was also attacked by my past and for some reason ut was very bitter like i was so bad earlier but it is just a distraction we should remove it we are a followers for liz .
Why girl
@@user-ir8xk2kd7voicebillie I tried getting back with one of my toxic relatives,I thought we could go back to normal but she's really toxic,and after just one convo with her I felt triggered and overwhelmed,and I cried,but I'm better now,I think it's better to just not force anything anymore😭
@@Abeer_Fatima821 frr
It’s gonna be fine sweetheart, trust me
She’s Super right. I was told my whole childhood I’m ugly and now I can’t stop believing that no matter what happens or who compliments me. It’s like my reality
Happened the same to me. Only right now i dont hate myself for my appearance. People calling you ugly treating you like you are ugly leaves a mark on you
honestly exactly the same here. i wasnt directly told but iy was pretty obvious since i was 11, but i have literally been feeling myself recently as i met better people and i feel good in who i am💗
yes, it's so true, someone told me so when I was a child, today I get so many compliments every day about my appearance, but I always suspect that people are flattering that it's not true and that I'm ugly, as I someone said when I was a child i understan you totaly.. although I'm happy with how I look, but it's strange to explain it, that feeling
I’m so sorry you had to experience that growing up-it can be incredibly hard to break free from the negative messages we internalize as kids. When we hear something repeatedly, especially from people we trust, it can feel like the truth, even when it’s not. But remember, those messages were reflections of someone else's issues, not your worth or beauty.
It takes time, but with self-compassion and conscious effort, you can start to rewrite those beliefs. As a therapist, I know how deeply rooted these thoughts can be, but healing and change are possible. I also create content focused on therapy and self-empowerment, so if you're looking for more support on this journey, feel free to check it out. You deserve to see yourself as the amazing person you are.
@@EmpowermentPsychology thank you very much for such nice and encouraging words, I think it's a process and a constant struggle, you succeed a little but often the inner child reminds you...
I will definitely watch your content Thank you very much
This woman’s delicacy and consistency saved my life and she doesn’t even know it. Thank you for your content, Liz.
Liz you’re an angel. I haven’t watch your videos till yesterday and I have been just connecting and healing so many different things in my life that I need work on. Genuinely, Thank you
Proud of youuu 💗 ive been improving thanks to her too
why her timing is divine all the time .......she is literally an angel in my life 🥺😭❤
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Same ❤im so grateful for liz
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Sending so much love ❤❤❤
to everyone watching: stop gaslighting yourself, you ARE the only person worth the effort, ALWAYS! 💖💖
Absolutely, Rosa! It's so easy to fall into the trap of self-doubt and start minimizing our own worth, but the truth is, we are all worthy of the effort it takes to heal, grow, and thrive. Gaslighting ourselves only holds us back from recognizing the value we bring to the world.
As a therapist, I see how crucial it is for people to stop underestimating themselves and start embracing their own importance. You are worth every bit of effort! I also create content around therapy and self-care, so if you ever need more support or encouragement, feel free to check it out. You're doing amazing-keep believing in yourself!
26:01 this. This is exactly what I need to hear. I deserve the best. There is this guy that's obsessed with me, he travels like 2hrs just to see me for 30mins. I've been telling myself that I don't deserve it, but why? I do deserve to be treated like a queen. Thank you for making me realise that. Thank you liz
Gurl you're so lucky, im so happy 4 u !
Pay attention on how you reciprocate toward your BF because if you convince yourself that you deserve all the best but don't payback this is going to trap you..
If he's giving so much to you that it cost him it's health or security it will crash the relationship.
Each party needs its boundaries aligned otherwise it wont work long term.
Many women nowadays are stuck in that "I'm a queen, I deserve only the best" bc of feminism delusion while remaining poor quality people (you can check the channel of Alexander Grace for a deep dive of those issues)
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It's about being truth full and accurate on who we are more than entertaining positive/negative personas of ourselves (aka putting masks).
please show him the same attention, or atleast try to
Sending so much love to all ❤❤❤
A queen needs a king not an obsessed toxic person
Read it again and think it out , I wish you the best
7:02 this part is very true my mother was in a toxic relationship with my dad for over 11 years and one day she had the switch and we left and have never turned back since. I will forever respect her for that.
No one understands me like she does no one understands how much i admire this woman she is smart, healthy, beautiful, nice and literally perfect and i used to wish to be like her but she taught me to never wish to be her but to be the highest version of MYself love you liz
once a woman decides that she dont want you anymore,she will never come back and you will not be even able to recognize her .....
Thats so true.... recognized a narcissist partner and left him a week ago.....abd the peace i have now is worth everything i left behind....I dont even wanna look at him .....
Im proud of you I hope you heal from that❤
wow same sis. we are gonna heal our wounds and shine even brighter ❤
Staying up late and come across this at the right timing is the best thing ever
not sure why I love this background more than any of her previous fancy videos. Somehow this one feels more raw and rare, I feel way more connected with her words.
Whenever I need someone to comfort me this women does that🥺🌹✨
Being brutally honest with myself and breaking down my strengths and weaknesses have given me so much clarity and prosperity that I highly recommend it to everyone. Take action, you owe it to yourself to live your best life possible. Stay Uncommon!
Wow liz, the way you're saying that all you ever wanted was freedom and how you didn't have a voice and now millions of people are listening to your words and changing our lives because of it. Thank you for showing us this light and power. I love you.
she's so real about not living in the future. i constantly feel like i'm stuck there because i always find myself trying to escape the now. if you've watched or read The Great Gatsby you will know how obsessed Gatsby was with the past. sometimes I feel like that about my future and i know it's really unhealthy for me to be living that way because not appreciating my now means that it'll be hard for me to have the future that i want. i've acknowledged that and i really wish to now change my mindset.
WAKE UP THE QUEEN HAS POSTED
Witch you mean? This is a witch feeding you hocus pocus.
Your voice sounds way calmer than before, seems like you are way more peaceful. Thank you for helping again ♥️
Liz, you have become so calm while talking compared to your older videos. I can feel the healing process that's going on. I pray for you and me to heal from all the things that we can't be spoken of. God bless you💖🎀
Video starts at 1:51
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I want to thank Liz with all my heart. You are a very great person. Thank you for everything I learned from your videos. I am only 13 years old and I am already better than most adults in terms of thinking, rationality and confidence. Thank you.
Me too❤
Omg Liz you've no idea about how you're actually helping AND healing many wounded people out there
You're basically our older sister we never had
Plz never stop being you and guiding us❤ we love you
this❤❤
"Once you know who you are, no one can tell you anything." This is so true like no one else's opinions can move or shake you, just living unapologetically for YOURSELF, FOR YOU! 💯
Yea so true
I love how calm she is in this video. I pray for all the peace to her❤
This is the most powerful I've ever seen you. Just wow. SO much inner peace that comes from trusting yourself. I'm proud of how insanely far you've come. You're walking the path of the Lion
I agree with you! And I had the same situation! My whole life people had told me that I am not smart, just the weird pretty girl. Until I enter the university and people started to taking me seriously and never doubt my knowledge. Now, I understand my abilities and I KNOW that I am the smartest person in the room and no one can make me feel less.❤
See that light above Liz's head, thats her halo because she's an absolute angel
I’m so glad I found this video! I moved away from my abusive home and in a far away foreign place but I found people I wouldn’t want to be like and I was feeling that,liz saying all this is just so good for me!thankyou liz!you truly deserve the best,praying for you!
1.You are what you believe
2.People's perception of you is not the real you
3. Listen to your inner voice
4. When you set your boundaries, you become confident and you earn respect
People who love the wizard Liz >>>
7:03 SOO SPECIFIC. my mom did it this year to my "father" after 25 years of marriage cus she was *done* . He still thinks she'll comeback, but she will NEVER.
Liz can never know how desperate i am for this video. She may in a garage and not in a restaurant but she cooked, served and ate
Period ❤
I Don't get it...Can you please explain?
@@Saptami-wi7oi cook, serve, ate is like ways to say someone is doing sth really impressive, slay. They are words related to food because how important foods are just like breadwinner
@@yingz8159 thanks😊
"so choose wisely who you surround yourself with"
I'm kinda introverted I don't think it would be easy for me to connect with people but i like challenges i will give it a try soon thank you Liz for encouraging me to take a step forward and to do something i was struggling with....
This video felt like a warm hug. the timing is divine. thank you liz
Our beautiful big sister Liz has posted! I love you, Liz! 🥹🫂❤️
Like literally I was just crying.....idk what's wrong with me, i suddenly feel happy, and then suddenly I'm feeling low, I feel done with everyone and everything....... sometimes I feel like talking to someone and then I get past flashbacks that how they used me ghosted me when I put efforts on them......I can't share anything with my family they're toxic, a bunch of bullies.....they are ashamed of me, i got less marks than my sis and bla bla...............but when I listen to Liz I guess that trigger cools down ....... Thankyou Lizzie❤ Mama❤
Same I get so trauma shocked sometimes from past abuse from my dad and just not really supportive family and a bf I’m trying to get used to she helps with this❤️
as someone who is a first yr college and i’m done for my first week. i’ve been crying, seeing my classmates made friends already made me more alone, i couldn’t get myself to talk to ppl when i don’t feel like myself, even in recitation there are times i knew the answer yet i chose not to bc i questioned myself. i’ve started doubting myself and losing my grip and it felt like i was my past self. last night i was in yt and all i could wish was liz to upload a new vid and to see this first thing in the morning was so nice. tysm liz i’ve been drowning but after seeing ur vid i got this now. thank you! 🥺
I have been reading the book: the power of now and this video was just the cherry on top. A constant reminder that we all should leave in the now.
The past doesn’t exist. THE future doesn’t exist. WE must create it.
investing in yourself is the most valuable thing you can do. Discipline is often misunderstood, but reading Bruce Thornwood's "Unveiling Your Hidden Potential" gave me the tools to build it and distinguish my mindset from others.
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is this a book
I can't find where to buy this book.
@@DarkandRadiantliz has some amazing book reccomndations in here highlights u should go check it out
@@slayyy_naya9302 I highly doubt it, as I already commented that it's most likely a bot.
SHE CAN READ MY MIND I SWEAR😭😭😭
she's the aura🙏🏻
You knowing yourself is one of the biggest asset to yourself trust me.
I don’t know why but I’ve been thinking about you and your videos today, and literally five minutes ago I was thinking to myself, ever since I got to know myself better I’ve become so much more confident- and then I open RUclips and see this video title. Crazy! Thank you 💗
Dear Liz, you are the only positive and motivating person in my life😊🥲💖 I was depressed because I lost all of my friends and was thinking to attend every event just to have someone to talk to. You opend my eyes to be picky! Before I saw your video, I was walking in the park and thinking about what I would like to do and try as a new hobby and how I want to build myself. Your videos always show up in the right time💖💖💖
HER TIMING IS LITERALLY PERFECT
She comes the exact moment i need her😭🐣
AND AGAIN SHE'S HERE WHEN I NEEDED HER THE MOST!! THANK YOU LIZ FOR SAVING US
best video ever, everything connects to me now. all the things that happened in my childhood somehow affects me now even when im almost 18, and now by watching this video it all makes sense, thank you so much
I hope you know how much love and appreciation you have from us. You truly have made such a huge impact in my life. I'm actually tearing up now. You have changed my life for the better and helped me find value in myself. Thank you so much. I hope you continue to get the good karma you deserve.
Just come out from situationship....and i really need to watch you fr 😭😭
She’s always there right when I need her! Today is my Birthday and I needed a little mother pep talk 💕
happy birthday ☺️💗
Happy birthday 🥳💐
Happy birthday baby ❤
happy birthday
Happy birthday 🎉🎉🎉
liz you're an incredible woman and we all appreciate you helping us be the best version of ourselves as well
I feel like setting an intention of who you want to be is so so important and so so powerful. Saying:"I wanna be happy" "I wanna be confident" "I wanna be calm" "I wanna be peaceful" "I want to trust myself" "I want to be grateful" is super important towards creating the life that you desire. Having that intention in mind, truly nothing can get in your way cause you're so focused on creating that version of yourself.
You seem much more peaceful lately, seems like you’re getting the life that makes you truly happy. Bless you and thank you for the video!
omg you're literally my sign , these days i've been feeling insecure and not good enough like literally this voice would come out of nowhere telling me you're not good enough that's not enough you need to do more and i've never experienced this before (only once after i broke up with my first ex boyfriend)and this evening i asked god to show me why the hell i was feeling this way bcz it was completely out of caracter so what i realized is that i've been traumatized and not yet healed from what my exes caused to me so the first one after few days from breaking up with him he got a new girlfriend and they stayed together untill now (3 years i guess) and a part of me felt betrayed and not good enough but i completely neglected that my conscious mind was thinking "ow he's a loser and he doesn't deserve me screw him" but my subconscious was really hurt and for my last relationship my ex was a total manipulator and i don't know how he got with it for a whole 9 months without me noticing it from the begining (bcz i'm really into psychology) but now i get it it was bcz i was insecure and not healed with the previous trauma like i didn't even realise it was there so i was in a volunarable state(p.s that's why we need to ask god constantly for reasons to certain triggers also scripting is really beneficial) he literally controlled me by treating me well giving me flowers surprising me spoiling me and planing good dates eventho he was kinda broke also he was really good to me or that's what i thought bcz by time he started crossing some boundries and i would forgive him everytime bcz he would blame me for me crossing some 'boundries' of his as well like for exp showing up late two or three times but the problem is he would show up late sometimes too but i wouldn't talk about it f*ck i was an adiot please be careful when dating and observe yourself and the pattern of your relationship be extra conscious pls and stay firm to your boundries or else walk away they don't deserve you so anyways this mf would make me do things that i would feel uncomfortable doing they were literally my boundries and i would let him cross them just for the sake of approval bcz in my subconscious tiny head it was like if i don't do what he likes he would not give me princess treatement and attention so i had to perform to "earn" love and i just realised it after seeing the pattern of not feeling good enough exactly this time of the year which is the time i broke up with my first bf this is literally insane and i'm so grateful i realized all this now bcz now i know what the problem was and i'm about to fix it
if you're reading this thank you it's a looonnng paragraph i just felt the need to share my story maybe someone can benefit from it it's literally the first time i comment on youtube and it's because it's so crazy to me how fast god responded to me thank you liz you're my favourite youtuber love you xoxo
The timing is crazy. Thank you so much Liz 💗
I'm struggling with confidence these days so I really needed this, thank you
Timing could not be MORE PERFECT
This is a big boost for my career and lifestyle, in Liz we trust. ❤
I am having one of the biggest test in my life in the next two days. I have been constantly scared of how it could be going. I’m glad I got to watch your video tonight before the test, “you can have a goal, but don’t live for it” that hits me harder than I thought. I cried and now I feel a lot more relieved, thank you ❤
see, for real, as she said, everybody can watch a video and all understand, and retain that differently. That depends on what they are going through in their lives.
I watched this video, and I don't remember hearing this sentence just because, at this stage of my life this is not sth that I Needed to here. 'Signs' as she said xd
This is one of your best videos Liz, iv watched you from the beginning and your communication and the way you articulate yourself has improved so much, I can feel you healing and growing, you have a beautiful aura of wisdom that grows by Time ❤
THE TIMINGGGGG ! I had a bad day today because of my “friends” or js “classmates” cz they called me ugly and stuff and i was lowk crying and came here to distract myslef and i see LIZ POSTED AAAAA I LOVE U !💋
Aww..same happened with me a month ago, they did not say anything though but they did gossip about me behind my back about things I thought were only between us. They scapegoated me and acted as if I did not matter. They also decided to badmouth me to one of my "good friend" and now she hates me too. I don’t feel like going to school now, I feel bad. I just stay at home now. It feels weird because they only hate me because I do not fit the beauty standards.
dont listen to them, they are just insecure
I’m sorry they were saying that :( they are definitely just insecure themselves and unfortunately choosing to be hurtful to others
Dw bout them, they'll spend most their time insulting ppl then wonder why they got rubbish grades on results day. Hold ur head high, always work hard ❤
this video’s take really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in hidden manifestation by oliver mercer
no it doesn’t, this book is a scam and your comment is an ad
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😢😢😢😢😢😢you are literally speaking my life story here Liz. Ive been through broken home, abuse on every level that traumatized me , been abandone and ridiculed , humiliated by everyone and betrayed 3 times, suffered 3 heart break back to back , i am now healing thnxs to all the divine healed feminins sharing their stories of empowerment. .
thank u liz really thank you. you talked about the toxic friendships and how it may change you in a negative way and personnaly i had this one friend that has deppression that she always want to escape from reality and one day i listened to one of your videos and i realized that she was a toxic friend and her lifestyle is not matching mine anymore even her friends and ppl that she surrounds herself with are like her
Liz you have helped me sm I litterly after following your advice two years ago I was living in a toxic household which I still live in but I was very depressed and struggled with other mental health issues and now two years later I’m going on exchange to Japan for a year in high school and following my dreams thank you so much Liz for believing in me
Thank you for normalizing crying, processing, and patterns! So many people toxically preach just being stoic about everything when that’s not how life should be
GIRL I WAS MISSING YOU JUST TODAY, YOUR DIVINE TIMING!!!!!!!
you are so calm and at peace here, more love and positivity to you and may you always attract the best for yourself.
Thank you Liz for guiding us.
الشي الي فهمته من الفيد :
2:47 تغيير الطريقة التي تتحدث بها مع نفسك
4:31 اسال نفسك هل تتصرف او تتفاعل مع الحياة
5:28 التفكير فيما تفعله امورك الغير قابله للتفاوض
13:25 بدلا من اللقاء اللوم تحمل مسؤليه حياتك
17:52 اختر من تحيط نفسك به لان ذلك ايضا سيشكل شخصيتك
19:51 ابدا في النظر الى ما هم الاشخاص وما هي الكتب والبرامج التلفيزونية والاغاني التي تعلمك في كل مكان تنظر اليه
22:37 خذ ورقة واكتب عن نفسي من انا وماذا افعل وماذا احب وما لااحب ماذا افعل من اجل المتعة ما هي هواياتي وماهي هواياتي عندما كنت اصغر سنا كيف اريد الناس اني يعاملونني كيف اعتقد انني اعامل الناس
23:02 العيش في الوقت الحاضر
24:22 ما يعتقده الناس عنك لايمكن لرجال الاعمال ان يفكروا في ما يريدون
25:50 الايمان بنفسك هو احد اعلى طرق التواصل مع نفسك
mama liz just senses what we need and delivers🥰🥰
You are helping so many to change their life
That’s soooo true and so important for a woman to really know herself, because otherwise you won‘t realize toxic influences on you or attacks from toxic people ect..,…
When I look at you, I see pieces of myself. You leave perfect marks on me!! 💗💗💗
Liz, by a few minutes of your video I started crying and trauma dumping then I started saying things to myself like “I love you, I’m so proud of you. You are doing such a great job…”
Thank you so much Liz.
By the way, you don’t vibrate in the aggressive mode giving advices like you had always been, I wanna say I’m so proud of you. I can see you have become a lot more wiser and calmer. I’m so proud of you for not giving up. I think your nervous system is resetting by the way you emit this calmer self of yours, whether you know this or not, I wanna let you know that YOU HAVE SAVED MY LIFE SO MANY TIMES. THANK YOU 🙏🩷
the timing on her videos is always perfect
Exactly when I needed the most, Liz appeared OMGGGG. She's a blessing!
Mother posted
I was used to the feeling of dont feel hunger. I didn't realise that this was my body telling me that I was sick of living and that i had lack of motivation. After I discovered Liz, i realised that i had an issue and I did my best to fix it. Now, I am eating better and I have the ambition to give my life a twist. Thank you liz💝
she looks like a bunny ,a cute , confident and successful bunny who deserves all the love the world can offer and deserves respect
Always the best timing... thank you.
This woman is literally my therapist, LIZ YOU HELPED ME SOOO MUCH, i changed the way i think, the way act and the way i give, my life was miserable and when i started to watch your videos you made me realize soo much, you changed my life. I love you so much your videos are supper great Thank you for making videos for Us I really Appreciate the Effort you put into making videos your a great beautiful living soul and i wish you the BEST in life💝
GURL YU SAVED MY LIFE!!
I want to say that I'm so glad my younger sister introduced me to your channel because, to be honest, your videos helped me a lot to recover from a lot of things I used to be obsessed with. I'm still recovering, but I'd like to watch more of your content because it's healthy, and I can see myself healing and becoming a better person every now and then, and I start to love myself more thanks to you. I hope you know that I'm thankful you exist because people like you are hard to find nowadays, thank you liz.
keep up the good work!!
i am so touched right now i can even cry. because this video changed my perspective of life, i found exactly all the answers to my questions that i have been trying to find in the past few months. i was so lost. thank you Liz, i never thought my mind would change when i clicked on this video
"WE LOVE YOU LIZ" we all say in unision
And here's Liz making my day just by posting.
Liz You are amazing - like actually really amazing 💞💞
Ily, Thank You for existing 💘💘
Ever since I started watching you last year I've become more confident and aware of what to do or react in different situations, thank you so so much Liz!
10:47. thank you. i just hated that he had made me an aggressive person and turned my anger into rage. but youre right i never got the opportunity to be mad at him for everything he put me through. i never had an outlet for my feelings. i am in a much better place now, everytime i think of him my default used to be to be SO angry even after i had accepted everything. ive decided to not talk to him the same way ever again and now everytime i think of him, i think of real forgiveness. it gave me my power back.
motivation for new school year!!!
LIZ YOU SAVED ME❤❤ I LOVE YOU SO SO MUCH!! 10SECS AND I CAUGHT YOU.
You know that Liz you might not read my comment but you really saved and still saving my life thanks ❤
For some reason you’re so healing🥹. I just want to hug you🥹😭💔🙆♀️
16:35 this could be the realest thing ever. i also was very depressed but i reconnect w my old friends this summer who i was ignoring bc of my mental health n stuff but then i had my best summer this year ngl, i made so many new precious memories with them n realized i shouldnt have ignored them but talked w them instead