I apologize to my older brother for thinking candle blowing was a game to prevent the wax from getting on the cake, and ruining his 5th birthday party cake candle blowing. I also apologize for assuming going to the bathroom during your birthday party made you a "party pooper" Honestly child me was unhinged with his logic
One of my ex's did this to me with my birthday cup cake and I cried and told him he stole my wish. I got it anyways when he moved out a week later cause I'm a "child".
Oh yes, I would call that wedding off! If they would sink that low to try on a wedding dress before the bride? That is emotional damage! Get out! Run do not walk to the nearest blocking everything you have to get rid of them!!!! Who does this crap?? I will tell you, mental retardation!!
Who lets their mother and sister try on their fiancé’s wedding dress? That’s so ridiculous and insane that I’d literally tell him the wedding is off. If he’s going to do this shit I can only imagine how it’ll be when they’re married and also when they have children… oy vey. This poor woman… Morgan, I LOVE this co-host. She’s definitely one of my favorites to listen to. Please have her on more! Love love love her perspective ♥️
I JUST AM SO FLABBERGASTED WHY WOULD ANYONE (after alterations and in general) EVER WANT TO TRY ON ANOTHER PERSONS WEDDING DRESS, TUXE ETC?!? Like…. If bitches is so pressed about someone else getting married like take yourself to try on wedding dresses w ur friends… the mother and sister are projecting
My brother showed my mom and I the engagement ring he got for his now wife before he proposed. I went to get a closer look, and my mom thought I was going to try it on (which I wasnt), and she nearly screamed at me. That's the appropriate reaction, we respect them too much to want to taint something like that
It's not about the dress at all. You have to look past the dress and focus on the behavior and relationships. Use this as a way to see what the rest of the marriage would be like. What it would be like when you have children. What holidays will be like. The fiance, his mother, and sister have shown how things will go. Believe me when I say, it will get worse.
That girl has to realize she has to live with that family for the rest of her life. Imagine when they have a kid. None of her rules would ever be respected. She is not being respected as a person right now. Her dress is a symbolic thing. This is some emotional fuckery at its finest. This guy isn't a winner.
Exactly. And it’d be one thing if the guy actually stuck up for his fiancée and had nothing to do with his mother and sister trying her dress on, as then they could just cut his family off, but he freaking PARTICIPATED and DELIVERED her dress to them knowing full well their intentions, and saw NOTHING wrong with it! Not only is she not respected by the MIL and SIL, but her own soon-to-be husband disrespected her in such a horrible way that you just can’t forgive and forget. What he did is a symptom of a WAY bigger problem that will only get worse with time. That guy will never choose his wife over his mother and sister if they get married, and adding kids will make it an even bigger nightmare. This isn’t the kind of guy you want to grow old with. Absolutely disgusting behavior!
Who does that? Trying the wedding dress of other person?? Bride should thank to the fiance cause he warn her that hes family is crazy and should run away..
So…the wedding is off, the relationship is over, the mother in law is catching these hands, the sister is catching these hands and the fiancé is catching a lawsuit for emotional distress. Also, Alexa, play “sweet home Alabama”
Nah I would cancel the whole relationship either way even if fiance puts mother and sister in their place cause he doesn't know his place either. It's not like they came in in the middle of the night, stole the dress and tried it on, the fiance literally took the dress to them IN A BLOODY GROCERIES BAG ALONG WITH ACTUAL GROCERIES ON TOP OF IT. Shows absolutely no respect towards the woman.
What's wrong with the fiance? No, I'd cancel that shit. It's disturbing that he saw both his mom and sister in his partner's dress... that's messed up on so many levels. First it starts with the dress... wait til they have kids (if they continue with this marriage)... Thank God I have the MIL and FIL I do... man, I got lucky.
My husband and I once visited my parents, and some of my husband‘s laundry got mixed up with my younger brothers. They have similar sizes so we didn’t notice. A few days later I visit my mother and see that she is worn my husbands shirt thinking that it is her sons (she uses his old Ts every now and then) I point this out to her, and I tell her that it’s fine to just wash it next time she can and put it aside for us. My mom was petrified, she said that she was terribly sorry and that she would take it off immediately. To her, it felt wrong to wear her son-in-law‘s shirt. Because it’s her daughters husband. She just thought that it was disrespectful and kind of weird So to think that her mother would wear her daughter-in-law‘s wedding dress, the scope of that grossness is off the charts
The fiancé is not emotionally invest in the wedding nor his fiancé. He really don't care. Nobody deserve to be in love with somebody who doesn't care. It's a big thing, so what about the littles one?
I’m so glad emotional incest is being talked about more because my exs sister crossed so many boundaries she treated him like her boyfriend would literally sleep in his bed without his consent and it creeped me tf out
My "friend" asked to try my fiance's ring to see how big his fingers are, and she tried it on every finger and just held it for a minute. If this happened I would have lost my mind
Watching Sarah's reactions are always so cathartic like Morgan is so chill and nice all the time and we love her for it, but having Sarah just scream out what I'm thinking feels really good
This IS definitely theft. The dress was her property and her fiancé took it without her knowledge. Even if he brought it back later, it’s still theft. CALL. THE. POLICE. They damaged your property. They’re ALL liable.
It's the disrespect for me, the relationship was over the minute he went behind her back to bring the dress to his mommy. Then allowed his mommy and sister to wear it. No it's all over, they crossed a boundary that he should have NEVER allowed to be crossed to the point where its so disrespectful and inconsiderate. If he is STILL listing and obeying everything mommy says as a GROWN MAN, he will always be listening to mommy. I don't know who needs to hear this but when a mother-in-law over steps your boundaries and she doesn't get checked by her son, be prepared to always get shoved to the side because he will ALWAYS put his mom first.
How can you marry a man who thinks so little about your wedding and feelings overall that he thinks it’s okay to take your dress and let his family try it on? And then just trash it?
I think they keep missing the most important point which is that they stole something, they broke it, and now they are refusing to reimburse her for it. Everything else is just symantics. But this is theft.
What the hell. First of all how did the fiancé think it’s appropriate to take the dress to show the MIL?? If they wanted to see it so bad she could get a picture or something but other than that she can wait for the wedding and also the wedding dress is something so personal nobody else should wear it unless you sell it again
This! Like they even could have come over when the future husband isn't there, so it's still a surprise for him and they can see it. And she could've supervised them with the dress so this didn't happen. So respectless 🤬
That guy is no man to marry how could he do that to his fiance absolutely disgusting wedding dress is sacred what kind of man disrespects his lady like that
If I were her I’d leave that relationship. He doesn’t respect her enough to leave her dress alone and purposely leave it under grocery bags. MIL and SIL sound like they wanted to ruin OPs wedding by any means and wearing her dress would be just the start of things. MIL and SIL would make life miserable and disrespectful. I’d leave if I were them.
They ruined that dress on purpose. They DO NOT want her to marry the son. They try to constantly disrespect, manipulate and sabotage her plans. This is but a glimpse into what life will be like if she decides to marry into this family. Call off the wedding and NEVER speak to them again. This isn't a dodged bullet, but a whole shit-show-missile. I really hope she left that situation. This is a nightmare. If they're behaving this way at the beginning stages of a wedding, imagine how horrible they will be on the wedding day and after. Makes me shudder.
Imagine if she didn't know, getting compliments from you're partner how sexy or beautiful you look in something his family TRIED ON before he ever saw it on you 🤢
it's honestly sad to hear so many MIL stories. i can't imagine having to deal with someone that is so emotionally involved with their son to the extent of wanting to hurt you. it's even worse that the son RARELY stands up for their gf/fiancé/spouse. i would leave before it gets worse. if you think this is bad, the disrespect will only get way more out of hand from here
For me, the coming to terms moment with my ex's family - I finally realized they were always going to see him as "misunderstood" and as the victim. They were never going to accept that he was abusive to me and my kids. So just moving on was the only thing I could do.
My roommate and I are the same size so we share clothes at times; but when any of us buys clothes, the other can't wear it until the owner has worn it a couple of times. So I can't even fathom wearing someone's wedding dress before them. But we have to know if this girl married that guy
I honestly believe he doesn't want to marry her and is too much of a coward to say it. His family clearly doesn't want the marriage to go through either. It's the only logical explanation as to why they would behave so outrageously. It's more than just a momma's boy, leaving the dress under the grocery bags is so passive aggressive.
Even is this poor girl does marry him. It will not a marriage of two people. He will involve everyone even in the smallest thing. And it will be worse when or if you have children.
Omgggg why is this the first time I’m seeing a video with the girl on the right? She is so GOLD. She’s saying everyyyything we are thinking. LOVE HER HAHAHAH
Someone please let me know if there’s ever a continuation for this story. I can’t find out what she did after or what happened after this post. Hopefully OP was able to get away from this toxic family.
i would be lividddddd oh my god. i cant imagine how the bride must feel. i hope she doesn’t get married to him and into that family because it will truly only get worse
YES! I love this Sarah girl! Love her reaction to this. Some of your other guests let people off sooooo easily and it’s so frustrating as a listener. YES SARAH! Preach the nasty incest to us! 😂
I'm on team "it's just a dress," but this shit is ridiculous. It doesn't matter to me, but it clearly matters a lot to others and I'm willing to respect that. My brother just got married, and I loved my SIL's dress - ON HER.
It's also the fact that they broke it. You can try on clothes and instantly know it's not going to fit and not fucking break it. It's just so goddamn disrespectful.
It’s one thing to try on the sample dress in the shop - even that I’d personally be uncomfortable with, but the actual, finished, altered dress? Fuck that. Get out of there.
why are they treating the wedding dress like a hand me down?! if the seams and zipper and strap is busted, it doesnt even sound like they tried it on. they straight up sabotaged the dress and wedding. it’s pretty hard to break a zipper (even the hidden ones without pinching your skin).
Bruh, if my MIL and SIL even LOOK at the wedding dress before the wedding day, it's an instant cancelation (or at the very least, if it's just them, they are uninvited).
It's like the episode of Viva La Bam where she knew that he'd ruin her dress being an ass so Bams wife had to plant a fake dress so he'd ruin that one and not the real one
I found out my mom tried on my wedding dress without my permission and I was livid. My own mother! So I can’t even believe how upset she is that her MIL and SIL tried it on!
I would go to jail over someone messing with my wedding dress. Could it also be possible that the fiancé had another motive and knew this could cause a huge fight and potentially split the relationship?
He should’ve left the dress where it was cuz the groom shouldn’t see the bride in the dress before the wedding at all or the dress before the wedding. I can’t believe how messed up this is
When I first dated my bf he told me that him and his sister were close because They went through a lot of traumatizing things during their child hood. I understood and tried my best to get along with her. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 months going on 10 and she’s said the most out of pocket things. First thing she called me by his ex’s name :/. Second thing was when she said in front of a group of people “when me and Phillip(which is my bf) go out in public people think we’re dating.” I was astonished by this. His sister in law who has my back and trust while heartedly said “ well if they think that maybe you shouldn’t be doing the things you’re doing” since then myself and my boyfriend have had countless arguments about it and when I talked to the sister about it she said and I quote “ I think I just get jealous that he has out with you more than me” . We have pushed ourselves from his sister because he finally opened his eyes. I forgot to mention that she’s getting married in November. Her fiancé was there the entire time everything happened including what she said out loud.
Yeah ditto what Sarah said! Lol WOW…. He’s so disrespectful to his fiancé. He values his mothers advice/ opinion over his wife to be. He took her dress which the groom isn’t supposed to see anyway and allowed his mother & sister to try it on. Even if the dress wasn’t ruined this is still problematic. He has no respect for her and just by this one post he will always side w him mommy and his wife will always come second & mommy will always be right in any situation.
RUN girl RUN! I had an awful MIL and the marriage didn’t work out. 99% of my ex and it’s fights were about her over stepping boundaries and playing the victim. And he didn’t stand up for me. Byeeee!
This is crossing over boundaries!!! Why the mom did that?!! Why did he brought the dress to them? I am livid! This is beyond wearing the dress. Like I am not a tradition person (ex: fiance can't see the dress) but... This is so disrespectful, inconsiderate, egotistical move ever the fiancé and the rest did to her!!!is mom a narcissist?
It's a start of a toxic relationship between her and him and his family. If i was her, i'll run away, sent the dress to his family. As much as i love him if he didn't respect me and didn't put me before his family, i won't marry him.
RUN! Before there's a chance you may have children. That MIL will make life miserable, and your fiance obviously doesn't have enough balls to stand up to her.
The disrespect in all of this came from the husband first for not even asking to take HIS WIFE'S dress , more so knowing damn well she didn't want to tale the dress to her MIL. Then he managed to agree to let his mom and his sister try on the dress as it was nothing... Just the thought of seeing them in his wife's wedding dress should have made his sick... But then he went even further and put the dress under the things he bought... I can't imagine how all of them thought this is a good idea... I can't imagine what was in those women's mind when they tried on the dress... It makes me sick
I would leave the guy for these attitudes. 1 for taking my dress 2 for going to the supermarket and not freaking coming home right effing now and 3 for bit even taking care of it after taking it.
The red flags that I missed with my ex husbands family are so many I couldn’t list them here. My ex went for coffee with a high school friend, my ex MIL felt it necessary to tell me she was the “one that got away” because she married someone else. But the fact he invited “the one that got away” to our wedding should have been my red flag from him but I still married him. Biggest mistake
I wish there was more collabs with her, I love her unfiltered opinions on these Reddit posts & it’s refreshing! Please have her on the podcast more often (I don’t know her name, first time viewer)
Girl could file a civil suit against everyone to recuperate the money for the dress. And she could possibly have fiance arrested for theft. He had absolutely no business going anywhere near that dress.
What gets me the most is how the mother wanted to basically pick out the dress! Which honestly makes this worse because that’s when you KNOW something isn’t right. She’s definitely not the asshole that’s her actual wedding dress.In the end she should leave him and his nasty family.
I did not let my future mother-in-law at my wedding dress appointment. My dress is also staying at my parents house so NO ONE will be able to see it or put it on. My fiancé would never let his mother anywhere near my dress. He knows I don’t trust her and he respects that.
My sister got mad when she forgot she gave me a pair of socks and saw me wearing them. That's my blood sister, we share both parents, over socks. She accidently put them in a bin of socks she didn't want anymore and when she asked me if they were hers I told her and she vehemently denied it.
I’m sorry but it doesn’t even have to be a WEDDING dress. If my partner took any of my clothing without my permission to let someone else wear??? That is not his fucking decision to make. Ew. That’s theft and we’re going to claims court for the damages.
My bf, who is almost 20 and who is not a minor, went to the hospital bc he was not well and his doctor said so, and bc of Covid, the nurses said his mother couldn’t stay with him. She threw a trantrum and stayed, to the point they had to threaten her to call security. She responded : okay, then we’re leaving. And she left with him. And I was like, girl what? Your son is ill, the doctors say he needs to stay, and you are taking him out? Most of all, my bf knew it was in his best interest to stay, he tried to get his mom to leave for hours, unsuccessfully. I understood there was some serious shit going on then, like attachment issues or idk what but, man, if you can’t leave your adult son with DOCTORS and you feel the need to stay with him all the time… what’s next?
Me and my ex of three years recently broke up, and my red flag was his mom was super coddleing. I just kind of tried to ignore it. A little after we broke up though, his little brother (who had recently started working at the place I was working) decided to quit. BUT his mom wrote the notice, the notice was for less than a week, and when the family conviently got covid the next day she called in to let my boss know. This was also not the first time she has called in and talked to my boss instead of him calling in himself. I just hope she gives them more responsibilities soon because my ex is in college now and the brother discussed in this story is going to be a senior in high school next year.
The dress is the tip of the iceberg. As someone who had a mother-in-law and sister-in-law who did not respect me whatsoever, you will be dealing with this for the rest of your life. My in-laws didn’t like the name that I chose for my daughter. And yes my husband was very much involved and agreed. They did not like the nursery theme that I had chosen. They lectured me because I was feeding her tofu instead of chicken nuggets, and it’s because she liked the tofu. She likes Pho.And they said I was depriving her of a normal childhood existence. They literally have been making every single possible thing hell for years. When I had family holidays with them, I had to eat what they eat as a family. We were married and I was not invited to bring in my own family traditions. These women are going to find way after way after way to diminish her, and to be openly disrespectful and sabotage something that’s important to her and then play dumb. And that’s not even talking about triangulating any children they might have, spoiling them and going against her well in the future to find favor not only with baby boy but all the grandkids. And her husband is going to let it happen. If he already does not honor her, she better buckle up. This sounds like communions narcissism or gaslight by tribe.
I read the cover and thought oh this should be a good one and made me SO MORE MAD then u thought it would!!! I feel so bad for her and she clearly spent a lot on it
Why tf would you put on someone’s wedding dress, especially before the wedding without their consent?!?! Especially when you’re bigger than the person who owns it?!?! Wtf those people need Jesus.
I love family drama too😂 biggest red flag: many of them said ‘I love you’ on the first/second/third times meeting me. Not even just the mom! Extended family too! Everytime it caught me off guard and being the logical person I assumed it wasn’t meant for me. I told his mom ‘thank you’😂😂 later apologized and said it to her (mistake). Some family I never said it to. Others I said it to to not be rude. I don’t say it if I can avoid it, and I purposely don’t say it to BIL or his gf because 1) it’s weird ash and 2) the gf clearly says it because she knows it’s the family tradition- she seemed just as awkward. I realized by doing this, they were trying to get me attached and comfortable, so I would lower my boundaries and allow inappropriate behavior like using me or saying harsh things to me or excluding me because we’re ‘family and we still love eachother, right?’ Wrong. They’re my in-laws, my love for them is solely conditional on how I am treated and will go if I’m not treated right. Hard rule for them to follow apparently, but it’s how every normal in-laws relationship works.
It's like blowing the candles on other person's birthday, doesn't matter if it's a little thing, like, it's symbolic, JUST DON'T DO IT
I apologize to my older brother for thinking candle blowing was a game to prevent the wax from getting on the cake, and ruining his 5th birthday party cake candle blowing.
I also apologize for assuming going to the bathroom during your birthday party made you a "party pooper"
Honestly child me was unhinged with his logic
One of my ex's did this to me with my birthday cup cake and I cried and told him he stole my wish. I got it anyways when he moved out a week later cause I'm a "child".
that’s a perfect way of putting it
@@L3onking 😂😂🤣💀
Except then they also smash the cake right after and refuse to buy a new one or pay you for it
I personally wont continue that relationship. He was dead ass wrong to even touch that dress when he wasnt supposed to even see it.
Thank you! Someone said it! 👏🏽
I REALLLY hope she cut it off
Oh yes, I would call that wedding off! If they would sink that low to try on a wedding dress before the bride? That is emotional damage! Get out! Run do not walk to the nearest blocking everything you have to get rid of them!!!! Who does this crap?? I will tell you, mental retardation!!
I HADN'T EVEN THOUGHT OF THAT PART! You're so right.
Sell the dress, dump the guy, and thank the gods above that you never have to be a part of such a weird family.
And sell the ring!!!!!!!
@@romigomez282 oh I love this
Who lets their mother and sister try on their fiancé’s wedding dress? That’s so ridiculous and insane that I’d literally tell him the wedding is off. If he’s going to do this shit I can only imagine how it’ll be when they’re married and also when they have children… oy vey. This poor woman…
Morgan, I LOVE this co-host. She’s definitely one of my favorites to listen to. Please have her on more! Love love love her perspective ♥️
YES 100% agree
She'd be the kind of grandmother who teach her grandchildren to call her Mommy "HerName" and deauthorized the mom at every turn.
True Sarah’s hilarious
I JUST AM SO FLABBERGASTED WHY WOULD ANYONE (after alterations and in general) EVER WANT TO TRY ON ANOTHER PERSONS WEDDING DRESS, TUXE ETC?!? Like…. If bitches is so pressed about someone else getting married like take yourself to try on wedding dresses w ur friends… the mother and sister are projecting
Agreeed
My brother showed my mom and I the engagement ring he got for his now wife before he proposed. I went to get a closer look, and my mom thought I was going to try it on (which I wasnt), and she nearly screamed at me. That's the appropriate reaction, we respect them too much to want to taint something like that
She broke her shit on purpose dude, so they could pick the dress or they didn’t like it and did it on purpose
It's not about the dress at all. You have to look past the dress and focus on the behavior and relationships. Use this as a way to see what the rest of the marriage would be like. What it would be like when you have children. What holidays will be like. The fiance, his mother, and sister have shown how things will go. Believe me when I say, it will get worse.
100%
Yup mommy will always get her way
Omg are you a therapist this was good!
Yep! MIL and SIL have the actual audacity to gaslight you before you’ve even tied the knot? Dump ‘em all!
That girl has to realize she has to live with that family for the rest of her life. Imagine when they have a kid. None of her rules would ever be respected. She is not being respected as a person right now. Her dress is a symbolic thing. This is some emotional fuckery at its finest. This guy isn't a winner.
Oh, that family would be the type to ignore and disrespect her parenting.
Exactly. And it’d be one thing if the guy actually stuck up for his fiancée and had nothing to do with his mother and sister trying her dress on, as then they could just cut his family off, but he freaking PARTICIPATED and DELIVERED her dress to them knowing full well their intentions, and saw NOTHING wrong with it! Not only is she not respected by the MIL and SIL, but her own soon-to-be husband disrespected her in such a horrible way that you just can’t forgive and forget. What he did is a symptom of a WAY bigger problem that will only get worse with time. That guy will never choose his wife over his mother and sister if they get married, and adding kids will make it an even bigger nightmare. This isn’t the kind of guy you want to grow old with. Absolutely disgusting behavior!
The mom, fiancé, and sister are CRAZY!! Leave that family in the rear view
Who does that? Trying the wedding dress of other person?? Bride should thank to the fiance cause he warn her that hes family is crazy and should run away..
Let them all marry one another at this point lmaoo cause what. I’d throw hands at all of them😩
So…the wedding is off, the relationship is over, the mother in law is catching these hands, the sister is catching these hands and the fiancé is catching a lawsuit for emotional distress. Also, Alexa, play “sweet home Alabama”
ALL OF THIS!!!!!! Yes, this is so creepy! OP should dump him and use whatever is left of the party to celebrate she dodged a bullet!
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LMAO YES TO ALL OF THIS
@@teenelf THIS !!!
Lmfao 🤣🤣🤣! Yeah I'd choose violence too! Hilarious
Im personally cancelling the wedding, engagement, and the entire relationship if my fiance doesn't put his mother and his sister in their place.
Nah I would cancel the whole relationship either way even if fiance puts mother and sister in their place cause he doesn't know his place either. It's not like they came in in the middle of the night, stole the dress and tried it on, the fiance literally took the dress to them IN A BLOODY GROCERIES BAG ALONG WITH ACTUAL GROCERIES ON TOP OF IT. Shows absolutely no respect towards the woman.
It's kinda too late i think... He should have put them in their place before trying on the wedding dress
What's wrong with the fiance?
No, I'd cancel that shit. It's disturbing that he saw both his mom and sister in his partner's dress... that's messed up on so many levels.
First it starts with the dress... wait til they have kids (if they continue with this marriage)...
Thank God I have the MIL and FIL I do... man, I got lucky.
My husband and I once visited my parents, and some of my husband‘s laundry got mixed up with my younger brothers. They have similar sizes so we didn’t notice. A few days later I visit my mother and see that she is worn my husbands shirt thinking that it is her sons (she uses his old Ts every now and then) I point this out to her, and I tell her that it’s fine to just wash it next time she can and put it aside for us. My mom was petrified, she said that she was terribly sorry and that she would take it off immediately.
To her, it felt wrong to wear her son-in-law‘s shirt. Because it’s her daughters husband. She just thought that it was disrespectful and kind of weird
So to think that her mother would wear her daughter-in-law‘s wedding dress, the scope of that grossness is off the charts
Exactly. Also, the thing with your mom was an accident, something she never intended to happen. The MIL in here was deliberate, which is even worse.
The fiancé is not emotionally invest in the wedding nor his fiancé.
He really don't care.
Nobody deserve to be in love with somebody who doesn't care.
It's a big thing, so what about the littles one?
I’m so glad emotional incest is being talked about more because my exs sister crossed so many boundaries she treated him like her boyfriend would literally sleep in his bed without his consent and it creeped me tf out
“I know you like divorce” 😂
“YESSS”
THATS SO FUNNY STOP
I thought girls trying on a bride's engagement/wedding ring is weird, but this is WORSE!!! Absolutely disgusting of the mom 🤢
My "friend" asked to try my fiance's ring to see how big his fingers are, and she tried it on every finger and just held it for a minute. If this happened I would have lost my mind
@@amandacooper8122 wtf that's so creepy!!!
@@amandacooper8122 that’s really weird lmao. How did you move away from that friendship if you have? and did you not invite her to the wedding?
Watching Sarah's reactions are always so cathartic like Morgan is so chill and nice all the time and we love her for it, but having Sarah just scream out what I'm thinking feels really good
No matter how much you love a guy - don’t marry into this level of crazy. No one is worth it.
The way Sarah loses her mind over this really sent me
Your guest is hilarious. She is just like me. That rant she went on after you told the story cracked me up bc it’s so me 😂
Wait AND she’s a lesbian?! Same girl. No wonder I like her 🤣
Sarah Schauer. Her RUclips channel is great too
@@L3onking totally agree absolutely love her always makes me laugh and smile
I adore Sarah 😂
Lol me too
This IS definitely theft. The dress was her property and her fiancé took it without her knowledge. Even if he brought it back later, it’s still theft. CALL. THE. POLICE. They damaged your property. They’re ALL liable.
It's the disrespect for me, the relationship was over the minute he went behind her back to bring the dress to his mommy. Then allowed his mommy and sister to wear it. No it's all over, they crossed a boundary that he should have NEVER allowed to be crossed to the point where its so disrespectful and inconsiderate. If he is STILL listing and obeying everything mommy says as a GROWN MAN, he will always be listening to mommy. I don't know who needs to hear this but when a mother-in-law over steps your boundaries and she doesn't get checked by her son, be prepared to always get shoved to the side because he will ALWAYS put his mom first.
How can you marry a man who thinks so little about your wedding and feelings overall that he thinks it’s okay to take your dress and let his family try it on? And then just trash it?
Legal action can actually be taken against them for the wedding dress
I think they keep missing the most important point which is that they stole something, they broke it, and now they are refusing to reimburse her for it. Everything else is just symantics. But this is theft.
What the hell. First of all how did the fiancé think it’s appropriate to take the dress to show the MIL?? If they wanted to see it so bad she could get a picture or something but other than that she can wait for the wedding and also the wedding dress is something so personal nobody else should wear it unless you sell it again
This! Like they even could have come over when the future husband isn't there, so it's still a surprise for him and they can see it. And she could've supervised them with the dress so this didn't happen. So respectless 🤬
That guy is no man to marry how could he do that to his fiance absolutely disgusting wedding dress is sacred what kind of man disrespects his lady like that
If I were her I’d leave that relationship. He doesn’t respect her enough to leave her dress alone and purposely leave it under grocery bags. MIL and SIL sound like they wanted to ruin OPs wedding by any means and wearing her dress would be just the start of things. MIL and SIL would make life miserable and disrespectful. I’d leave if I were them.
They ruined that dress on purpose. They DO NOT want her to marry the son. They try to constantly disrespect, manipulate and sabotage her plans. This is but a glimpse into what life will be like if she decides to marry into this family. Call off the wedding and NEVER speak to them again. This isn't a dodged bullet, but a whole shit-show-missile. I really hope she left that situation. This is a nightmare. If they're behaving this way at the beginning stages of a wedding, imagine how horrible they will be on the wedding day and after. Makes me shudder.
This fiancée is a mama’s boy seems like he’s never stood up to her and will continue to placate her
Imagine if she didn't know, getting compliments from you're partner how sexy or beautiful you look in something his family TRIED ON before he ever saw it on you 🤢
it's honestly sad to hear so many MIL stories. i can't imagine having to deal with someone that is so emotionally involved with their son to the extent of wanting to hurt you. it's even worse that the son RARELY stands up for their gf/fiancé/spouse. i would leave before it gets worse. if you think this is bad, the disrespect will only get way more out of hand from here
For me, the coming to terms moment with my ex's family - I finally realized they were always going to see him as "misunderstood" and as the victim. They were never going to accept that he was abusive to me and my kids. So just moving on was the only thing I could do.
My roommate and I are the same size so we share clothes at times; but when any of us buys clothes, the other can't wear it until the owner has worn it a couple of times. So I can't even fathom wearing someone's wedding dress before them. But we have to know if this girl married that guy
I honestly believe he doesn't want to marry her and is too much of a coward to say it. His family clearly doesn't want the marriage to go through either. It's the only logical explanation as to why they would behave so outrageously. It's more than just a momma's boy, leaving the dress under the grocery bags is so passive aggressive.
She should definitely take his family to court and not get married!! Also YAY SARAH!! Would love for you guys to collab more!!
So...do we know how this story ends?? I want an update. Hopefully she canceled it.
Even is this poor girl does marry him. It will not a marriage of two people. He will involve everyone even in the smallest thing. And it will be worse when or if you have children.
If it was me, i'd canceled the wedding. That's a red flag.
That's the mother of red flags
That's SEVERAL red flags😖
Same! Run away from that family!
Hell no, it's like having to wear some else's used underwear. She should escape while she can, divorce cost money 😂
Omgggg why is this the first time I’m seeing a video with the girl on the right? She is so GOLD. She’s saying everyyyything we are thinking. LOVE HER HAHAHAH
Someone please let me know if there’s ever a continuation for this story. I can’t find out what she did after or what happened after this post. Hopefully OP was able to get away from this toxic family.
You shouldn’t touch other peoples clothes let alone WEDDING DRESS I’m dead throw away that whole family lol
She’s a great co-host oh my gosh I love her
i would be lividddddd oh my god. i cant imagine how the bride must feel. i hope she doesn’t get married to him and into that family because it will truly only get worse
YES! I love this Sarah girl! Love her reaction to this. Some of your other guests let people off sooooo easily and it’s so frustrating as a listener. YES SARAH! Preach the nasty incest to us! 😂
I absolutely love when Sarah is a co-host please make more video with Sarah I love her!!!! I feel like she literally takes the words out of my mouth!
🤮🤮🤮 aw hell naw. Nope. Goodbye. We ain’t doing this.
MIL and SIL needs to pay up and I won’t marry that man, period.
I'm on team "it's just a dress," but this shit is ridiculous. It doesn't matter to me, but it clearly matters a lot to others and I'm willing to respect that. My brother just got married, and I loved my SIL's dress - ON HER.
It is weird af right?! No one would wanna do that!!!
It's also the fact that they broke it. You can try on clothes and instantly know it's not going to fit and not fucking break it. It's just so goddamn disrespectful.
Call the wedding Off and sue for repayment of the dress. Property was stolen and damaged
It's weird. Fiance can go marry his mom, OP deserves so much better
It’s one thing to try on the sample dress in the shop - even that I’d personally be uncomfortable with, but the actual, finished, altered dress? Fuck that. Get out of there.
fiance, mil, and sil are crazy. i'd call off the entire relationship. imagine what would happen if the couple have a child?
It's one thing to pass down a dress through the women in a family, like wearing your mother's dress, but this is sooooooooooo unhinged
It would never cross my mind to try on someone's wedding dress.....exception would my mom/grandma's dress if I were getting married in it.
why are they treating the wedding dress like a hand me down?! if the seams and zipper and strap is busted, it doesnt even sound like they tried it on. they straight up sabotaged the dress and wedding. it’s pretty hard to break a zipper (even the hidden ones without pinching your skin).
Bruh, if my MIL and SIL even LOOK at the wedding dress before the wedding day, it's an instant cancelation (or at the very least, if it's just them, they are uninvited).
i little much but i get where you’re coming from 😂
It's like the episode of Viva La Bam where she knew that he'd ruin her dress being an ass so Bams wife had to plant a fake dress so he'd ruin that one and not the real one
Throw the entire family away! That's not the person she should be marrying, period.
I like to imagine the op sending this videos to the ah in their life and then crying because the whole internet knows they’re disgusting
The swiftness of this whole conversation ♥️
Sarah is a riot
I found out my mom tried on my wedding dress without my permission and I was livid. My own mother! So I can’t even believe how upset she is that her MIL and SIL tried it on!
I would go to jail over someone messing with my wedding dress. Could it also be possible that the fiancé had another motive and knew this could cause a huge fight and potentially split the relationship?
He should’ve left the dress where it was cuz the groom shouldn’t see the bride in the dress before the wedding at all or the dress before the wedding. I can’t believe how messed up this is
When I first dated my bf he told me that him and his sister were close because They went through a lot of traumatizing things during their child hood. I understood and tried my best to get along with her. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 months going on 10 and she’s said the most out of pocket things. First thing she called me by his ex’s name :/. Second thing was when she said in front of a group of people “when me and Phillip(which is my bf) go out in public people think we’re dating.” I was astonished by this. His sister in law who has my back and trust while heartedly said “ well if they think that maybe you shouldn’t be doing the things you’re doing” since then myself and my boyfriend have had countless arguments about it and when I talked to the sister about it she said and I quote “ I think I just get jealous that he has out with you more than me” . We have pushed ourselves from his sister because he finally opened his eyes. I forgot to mention that she’s getting married in November. Her fiancé was there the entire time everything happened including what she said out loud.
I am continuing to stay with him but I don’t know how things are going to be in the future.
I’d be out there handing out lawsuits to the three of them. Fuck that, makes me so mad
Yeah ditto what Sarah said! Lol WOW….
He’s so disrespectful to his fiancé. He values his mothers advice/ opinion over his wife to be.
He took her dress which the groom isn’t supposed to see anyway and allowed his mother & sister to try it on.
Even if the dress wasn’t ruined this is still problematic. He has no respect for her and just by this one post he will always side w him mommy and his wife will always come second & mommy will always be right in any situation.
Yeah, that girl needs to end that relationship ASAP. She’ll be stuck with a toxic family for the rest of her life…
RUN girl RUN! I had an awful MIL and the marriage didn’t work out. 99% of my ex and it’s fights were about her over stepping boundaries and playing the victim. And he didn’t stand up for me. Byeeee!
This is crossing over boundaries!!! Why the mom did that?!! Why did he brought the dress to them? I am livid! This is beyond wearing the dress. Like I am not a tradition person (ex: fiance can't see the dress) but... This is so disrespectful, inconsiderate, egotistical move ever the fiancé and the rest did to her!!!is mom a narcissist?
It's a start of a toxic relationship between her and him and his family. If i was her, i'll run away, sent the dress to his family. As much as i love him if he didn't respect me and didn't put me before his family, i won't marry him.
OOP! SARAH, yessssss gurl. She just went for it and I totally agree with her!!
My in laws didn’t come to the wedding due to family drama. Cue 6 years of drama and feeling second fiddle in my marriage. Divorcing now!
RUN! Before there's a chance you may have children. That MIL will make life miserable, and your fiance obviously doesn't have enough balls to stand up to her.
The disrespect in all of this came from the husband first for not even asking to take HIS WIFE'S dress , more so knowing damn well she didn't want to tale the dress to her MIL. Then he managed to agree to let his mom and his sister try on the dress as it was nothing... Just the thought of seeing them in his wife's wedding dress should have made his sick... But then he went even further and put the dress under the things he bought... I can't imagine how all of them thought this is a good idea... I can't imagine what was in those women's mind when they tried on the dress... It makes me sick
That MIL and SIL have no respect for her snd I’m doubting her fiancé does. Makes my heart hurt. Not ok!
I would leave the guy for these attitudes. 1 for taking my dress 2 for going to the supermarket and not freaking coming home right effing now and 3 for bit even taking care of it after taking it.
The red flags that I missed with my ex husbands family are so many I couldn’t list them here. My ex went for coffee with a high school friend, my ex MIL felt it necessary to tell me she was the “one that got away” because she married someone else. But the fact he invited “the one that got away” to our wedding should have been my red flag from him but I still married him. Biggest mistake
I’m so addicted to your channel/TikTok’s.
I wish there was more collabs with her, I love her unfiltered opinions on these Reddit posts & it’s refreshing! Please have her on the podcast more often (I don’t know her name, first time viewer)
Girl could file a civil suit against everyone to recuperate the money for the dress. And she could possibly have fiance arrested for theft. He had absolutely no business going anywhere near that dress.
What gets me the most is how the mother wanted to basically pick out the dress! Which honestly makes this worse because that’s when you KNOW something isn’t right.
She’s definitely not the asshole that’s her actual wedding dress.In the end she should leave him and his nasty family.
I agree with your friend SOOO much, oh hell no.
I did not let my future mother-in-law at my wedding dress appointment. My dress is also staying at my parents house so NO ONE will be able to see it or put it on. My fiancé would never let his mother anywhere near my dress. He knows I don’t trust her and he respects that.
My sister got mad when she forgot she gave me a pair of socks and saw me wearing them. That's my blood sister, we share both parents, over socks. She accidently put them in a bin of socks she didn't want anymore and when she asked me if they were hers I told her and she vehemently denied it.
EXACTLY
@@camicarpenter2999 right?!?! And when I refused to give them back she said my stinky feet ruined them anyway... sisters...
I’m sorry but it doesn’t even have to be a WEDDING dress. If my partner took any of my clothing without my permission to let someone else wear??? That is not his fucking decision to make. Ew. That’s theft and we’re going to claims court for the damages.
Omg now you guys HAVE to do a whole video on the Taylor Swift Kanye thing
My bf, who is almost 20 and who is not a minor, went to the hospital bc he was not well and his doctor said so, and bc of Covid, the nurses said his mother couldn’t stay with him. She threw a trantrum and stayed, to the point they had to threaten her to call security. She responded : okay, then we’re leaving. And she left with him. And I was like, girl what? Your son is ill, the doctors say he needs to stay, and you are taking him out? Most of all, my bf knew it was in his best interest to stay, he tried to get his mom to leave for hours, unsuccessfully. I understood there was some serious shit going on then, like attachment issues or idk what but, man, if you can’t leave your adult son with DOCTORS and you feel the need to stay with him all the time… what’s next?
Me and my ex of three years recently broke up, and my red flag was his mom was super coddleing. I just kind of tried to ignore it. A little after we broke up though, his little brother (who had recently started working at the place I was working) decided to quit. BUT his mom wrote the notice, the notice was for less than a week, and when the family conviently got covid the next day she called in to let my boss know. This was also not the first time she has called in and talked to my boss instead of him calling in himself. I just hope she gives them more responsibilities soon because my ex is in college now and the brother discussed in this story is going to be a senior in high school next year.
Sarah said everything I was thinking lmao
Morgan heard the word enmeshment once and decided that it was her favorite and applies to everything.
It applies here. Normal people don’t wear their future daughter in laws clothes
The dress is the tip of the iceberg. As someone who had a mother-in-law and sister-in-law who did not respect me whatsoever, you will be dealing with this for the rest of your life. My in-laws didn’t like the name that I chose for my daughter. And yes my husband was very much involved and agreed. They did not like the nursery theme that I had chosen. They lectured me because I was feeding her tofu instead of chicken nuggets, and it’s because she liked the tofu. She likes Pho.And they said I was depriving her of a normal childhood existence. They literally have been making every single possible thing hell for years. When I had family holidays with them, I had to eat what they eat as a family. We were married and I was not invited to bring in my own family traditions. These women are going to find way after way after way to diminish her, and to be openly disrespectful and sabotage something that’s important to her and then play dumb. And that’s not even talking about triangulating any children they might have, spoiling them and going against her well in the future to find favor not only with baby boy but all the grandkids. And her husband is going to let it happen. If he already does not honor her, she better buckle up. This sounds like communions narcissism or gaslight by tribe.
She should sue and leave
I read the cover and thought oh this should be a good one and made me SO MORE MAD then u thought it would!!! I feel so bad for her and she clearly spent a lot on it
Don't postpone, leave him NOW!
Why tf would you put on someone’s wedding dress, especially before the wedding without their consent?!?! Especially when you’re bigger than the person who owns it?!?! Wtf those people need Jesus.
I know they would be my future family but I would’ve rocked their shit if they messed with my wedding dress. That’s just so low
I love that Lil redheaded firecracker 😂💖🙌
I love family drama too😂 biggest red flag: many of them said ‘I love you’ on the first/second/third times meeting me. Not even just the mom! Extended family too! Everytime it caught me off guard and being the logical person I assumed it wasn’t meant for me. I told his mom ‘thank you’😂😂 later apologized and said it to her (mistake). Some family I never said it to. Others I said it to to not be rude. I don’t say it if I can avoid it, and I purposely don’t say it to BIL or his gf because 1) it’s weird ash and 2) the gf clearly says it because she knows it’s the family tradition- she seemed just as awkward. I realized by doing this, they were trying to get me attached and comfortable, so I would lower my boundaries and allow inappropriate behavior like using me or saying harsh things to me or excluding me because we’re ‘family and we still love eachother, right?’ Wrong. They’re my in-laws, my love for them is solely conditional on how I am treated and will go if I’m not treated right. Hard rule for them to follow apparently, but it’s how every normal in-laws relationship works.