Once upon a time, only the ones who could afford marriage got married however, that "afford" word ment having enough food, clothes and a roof over your head. Today the word "afford" means something totally different. The last century has been very economically advanced because of interest/riba, people have had more opportunities to get married, have children and with the wealth and the technology(hospitals) most of the children survived. We are living on borrowed everything, upon that we try to find problems that don't even exist. Why you might ask? Because belly is full and watching girls dance on tiktok is where we have ended up. Also, who would want to be near a modern woman? Not me!
The way modern Muslim women are today is because they have been influenced by lack in men's gheerah and by a deficiency in masculinity. Without a religious father figure or a brother to guide and support them, they often feel adrift and vulnerable. Yet, it's common to solely blame women for their actions, neglecting to acknowledge the role men play in shaping their environment and responsibilities.
Idk why we're blaming the "modern woman". You are the problem, everything is your fault. It's your fault you can't find yourself a woman you are compatible with. I promise you there is a woman out there who will be perfect for you but another man will find her cus you gave up.
@@_zain1_ I do not aree with you he is true the Morden woman just talk say oh we can do the same as men but they are the same woman who do not want to have a job no shut up if you do not the society you live in
I’m not ready nor will I ever be ready. It’s easier to accept that I’m not good enough. 😐 there’s nothing about me which makes me stand out. So much to say but won’t bother 😂. The guys today are lacking, we are to blame.
You are the only person holding yourself back brother. You need to fix your beliefs and have tawakul in Allah. Go join our discord and the boys will help you out inshallah, or shoot me a DM on Instagram. (Links are in the description)
I've been thinking about it too The responsibilities of marriage is not to be taken lightly. As a man, I think it's best for you to focus on actually being a man first. Build your body and your self. You cannot grow without struggle, so embrace struggle and patience. You need to be strong physically and mentally to maintain and defend your family You need to have your own personality and absorb the values of the Prophets. Just grow as a man and increase your worth, value and character. If you need a spouse, put your complete trust in Allah. Allah will bring a woman of worth your way, Insha'Allah.
It's not true. Never is absolute , nobody in paradise is single. Truth is : if one were to see one of the women of paradise , it's like he has never seen beauty before. These girls on earth are playing a losing game . I advise believing men to stay strong , push for faith and break the devils associates whether it be men or women. The eternity is truly living as God said .
@@_zain1_ bro Man have to do themselves..they can do it...don't magnify negatives....do all that u can ... become loving n caring,,earn good money...many girls would be attracted to you and then pick the right one...be a man
@@_zain1_ Go and speak to you mother or family. I'm sure they can find you a good compatible match. This is how most people actually used to get married but now everyone has complicated the process thinking they'll find someone online. Eventually, most people do get married but everyone has a different timeline.
Marriage have become very hard for our youth, you have to do particular job and girls are demanding huge amount of mahr. There is so much pressure for boys.
@@adintalhaimam3871 Then get your testosterone checked out brother. There is no reason for a man to let his entire blood line just die because of some feeling. Make dua and inshallah Allah will help you.
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If you're worried about not getting married, it is not true that you are not getting married.
What you mean bro
This video was very well done👍 short and to the point. Left me wanting more bro😂👊
Don't worry bro I'll be making more HAHAHAHA
Very thought provoking, nice video bro 🙏
You right, I deserve 4
Relax G
@@_zain1_ Nah he right
Only an extremely pious and caring man can get 4, dont act arrogant
@@Cifteli Jazakallah kheir akhi, I think this is my sign to get 4 wives. May Allah bless you.
@@_zain1_ same Cifteli has opened my eyes, I will now be marrying 4 wives
Once upon a time, only the ones who could afford marriage got married however, that "afford" word ment having enough food, clothes and a roof over your head. Today the word "afford" means something totally different.
The last century has been very economically advanced because of interest/riba, people have had more opportunities to get married, have children and with the wealth and the technology(hospitals) most of the children survived. We are living on borrowed everything, upon that we try to find problems that don't even exist. Why you might ask? Because belly is full and watching girls dance on tiktok is where we have ended up.
Also, who would want to be near a modern woman? Not me!
The way modern Muslim women are today is because they have been influenced by lack in men's gheerah and by a deficiency in masculinity. Without a religious father figure or a brother to guide and support them, they often feel adrift and vulnerable. Yet, it's common to solely blame women for their actions, neglecting to acknowledge the role men play in shaping their environment and responsibilities.
Idk why we're blaming the "modern woman". You are the problem, everything is your fault. It's your fault you can't find yourself a woman you are compatible with. I promise you there is a woman out there who will be perfect for you but another man will find her cus you gave up.
Not me as well! Btw just to confirm what you mean by modern women? Like overpride and materialistic or something else?
@@_zain1_ I do not aree with you he is true the Morden woman just talk say oh we can do the same as men but they are the same woman who do not want to have a job no shut up if you do not the society you live in
I’m not ready nor will I ever be ready. It’s easier to accept that I’m not good enough. 😐 there’s nothing about me which makes me stand out. So much to say but won’t bother 😂. The guys today are lacking, we are to blame.
You are the only person holding yourself back brother. You need to fix your beliefs and have tawakul in Allah. Go join our discord and the boys will help you out inshallah, or shoot me a DM on Instagram. (Links are in the description)
The first reply is right, you should not be okay with this
Do not compromise
Have an Ambition to become something
I've been thinking about it too
The responsibilities of marriage is not to be taken lightly.
As a man, I think it's best for you to focus on actually being a man first.
Build your body and your self.
You cannot grow without struggle, so embrace struggle and patience.
You need to be strong physically and mentally to maintain and defend your family
You need to have your own personality and absorb the values of the Prophets.
Just grow as a man and increase your worth, value and character.
If you need a spouse, put your complete trust in Allah.
Allah will bring a woman of worth your way, Insha'Allah.
It's not true. Never is absolute , nobody in paradise is single. Truth is : if one were to see one of the women of paradise , it's like he has never seen beauty before. These girls on earth are playing a losing game . I advise believing men to stay strong , push for faith and break the devils associates whether it be men or women. The eternity is truly living as God said .
God wants you to have a wife bro relaxxxx😭Get Ur testosterone checked out
Watch the video first bro
Honestly idk why but i kinda starting to hate marriage and having a wife because of reasons i am not able to describe
"hating marriage" is a big statement. Everything has its pros and cons. Get Ur testosterone checked out
Everyone gets married bro... don't over complicate things..
Get me married then bro
@@_zain1_ bro Man have to do themselves..they can do it...don't magnify negatives....do all that u can ... become loving n caring,,earn good money...many girls would be attracted to you and then pick the right one...be a man
@@_zain1_ Go and speak to you mother or family. I'm sure they can find you a good compatible match. This is how most people actually used to get married but now everyone has complicated the process thinking they'll find someone online. Eventually, most people do get married but everyone has a different timeline.
Marriage have become very hard for our youth, you have to do particular job and girls are demanding huge amount of mahr. There is so much pressure for boys.
I always get a 100% discount on the mehr🤷🏽♂️
I will never get married due to social anxiety unless Allah has mercy over me and heals me. But I am content at the decree of my lord
Bro get Ur testosterone checked out and stop using your hand so much. Trust Ur social anxiety will get fixed up ASAP
@@_zain1_ by Allah I do not get engaged in such heinous activity
May Allah make it easy for you brother, have you sought professional help?
@@abysmal7000 no
@@adintalhaimam3871 Then get your testosterone checked out brother. There is no reason for a man to let his entire blood line just die because of some feeling. Make dua and inshallah Allah will help you.