You used to be nice... | Vent
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- Опубликовано: 1 апр 2024
- Little vent to clear of my mind and remind me why it didn't work, i was putting effort into a relationship when the other person ended up not doing the same.
I always felt like a dog, which i thought it was cute at the beginning but it's not specially when you start taking hits and still wagging your tail when they come around. Don't accept less than what they should be giving you and i know it's hard specially when you're already deep in a relationship but it's not too late to do what's right for yourself. It would only keep burning you.
I have nothing against them besides I don't believe someone wakes up saying "let's be toxic today" no, they were one of the greatest people i met, they were kind to all their friends and cared about how i felt. I just realized they changed that as time went by and they chose the best path for themselves rn, I don't blame it, it's practically not worth it. You can't change people that know they're wrong and yet don't change. Im just sad it was them... 
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I'm in a similar situation, the way you drew this is so beautiful and comforting. I really really hope the best for you, and you should be so proud of choosing what's best for you! That's a very honorable thing to do :DD
Oh man... this comment section is making me want to cry ( in a good way) Thank you for that. And pls if you are in a similar situation reach out to someone, u can even reach out to me ( discord: Velvetsden ). Dont accept the love you don't deserve alright? We're all special in our own way don't let anyone take that from you pls, again thank you ❤
@@moonvelvet_4954 that's so sweet of you to say, thank you so much :'DD
@@moonvelvet_4954 I don't mean to overshare or anything, but I thought I'd let you know that I left the situation! Never felt better. I guess sending a silly comment to a stranger on a youtube post can really help :'D
But seriously thank you! Doing much better and wishing you the best
@@snowmind14 yooo thats so fricking awesome dude! Im really proud of you, im glad you looked for a better way. And dont worry, i dont mind whatsoever, it makes me happy people were able to work it out in the end ❤️ your welcome no worries
@@moonvelvet_4954 thank you!!
Watching this made me tear up. The beauty and sorrow mixed together is so emotional. I am so sorry, I understand how you feel. I know we can all go through hard times and trials in our life, but we can push through them by thinking positive and doing the right thing. Do what you feel is right for yourself and whatever makes you happy because that is what you deserve. I know this is hard for you, I sincerely hope you feel better soon! Stay strong and have an amazing day/night! 🫶
Aawww man, u guys are warming my heart with your comments, without really knowing i needed this I think most of the hurt comes from lack of self love for the fact that i didnt realize i didnt deserve what was happening sooner but this helps. I am so thankful for your comment, realizing ur not alone in this situation is truly calming and i feel understood. Thank you, you take care of yourself, have an awesome day/night ❤️
@@moonvelvet_4954 You are so sweet! I’m so glad this comment helped! Have a great one! 😊
I am so sorry that happened to you. This actually happened to me recently. It was a bit different, as they were cheating on me and the person they were cheating with. I broke up with them last night though with that bf. Now me and the bf are friends. I knew them for 8-9 years. I am a bit sad, but I feel free from that relationship. I am poly. I made it so easy to date other people. I just had safety precautions as boundaries after getting hurt too many times. Even though the situations are different. I feel this so hard. I hope that you are feeling better and that one day you're able to heal from it all. I can promise you that it gets easier. I used to have trouble breaking up, but that time I did it all by myself. With no help. Recovery takes time. As long as you put in the effort and have support, you'll be able to recover. It just takes patience and time. Take care of yourself. So many people care about you.
Oooh man im sorry that happened, im glad ur recovered and were able to fight for urself and choose a better way for yourself. Boundaries are one pf the most important things a relationship needs(ofc also communication and understanding), never stop putting them, and when people disrespect it more than twice you know they're not meant for you. Thank you for commenting this, it feels good not feeling alone in the world or that this is hard but not just for me, for a lot of people too. Thank you, i am taking care of myself now, the worst part about the breakup is over now it comes the healing which i will be getting not only with me and others but with professional support so im really happy for that. Thank you again so much for your comment ❤️
@@moonvelvet_4954 of course! Bro was cheating for 5 months and tried saving themselves. But I got receipts. I broke up with them on April 1st this month funny enough. 😎
They weren't slick either. I knew before they cheated.
@@moonvelvet_4954 also. Glad it made you feel better. I hope you are doing better nowadays
I hope your doing better, and I'm glad you made the choice to end your relationship with that person, since it's not good to be in a relationship in which the other person isn't treating you right, even if it's a tough choice to make to finish it.
Thank you really ❤️ it was a pretty tough decision and situation but once it's done u realize its better this way even if it hurts. Thank you for the support, i appreciate it ❤️
@moonvelvet_4954 You're welcome, and I hope you have a good day or night.
im so sorry that happened…
It's alright, sometimes that's just how the world works, but i'm finding my way to come back, thank you :]
FEEL BETTER SOON!❤
Thank you, rn that means the world to me ❤
this is so relatable- I have trust issues because half of all friendships i've had were like this.
i hope you are doing good and if you are suffering with this, I hope you get better!
I am mostly getting better, i dont think im crying for the relationship but the person they could've been and what we could've had i think thats harder to accept but overall i am realizing its just non sense of my brain. Thank you so much for commenting, i know its hard to trust people but trust yourself and believe me someday you'll find a trust worthy person, they are out there :] take care ❤️
i understand the feeling of someone just… changing. if you ever need anything, let me know 💞
Thanks bro, ur awesome take care! ❤️ u too okay?
@@moonvelvet_4954 i am
Get better!
I am ❤️ thank you i appreciate it 🫶🏻
Great animation!
100th like!
Ahah yoo thats dope, thanks!
Hello :[ sorry
Heyy! It's alright, i like to believe stuff happen for a good reason ❤️ thank you
Hey, here’s this, 🫱
Aaaww thats cute, thank you, my heart warms up ❤️
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