"I've slept with a Girl ONCE" | Living as a LGBTQ+ in KOREA

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  • Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2024

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  • @annaliseray2028
    @annaliseray2028 2 года назад +2794

    Terrah helping they guy he had a crush on write a letter to his girlfriend was literally so sweet and sad. 😔🙏

    • @tommyblade8093
      @tommyblade8093 2 года назад +23

      rip my guy lol

    • @mistyz0ne
      @mistyz0ne 2 года назад +80

      almost like the movie "the half of it"

    • @DandyMcbasketball
      @DandyMcbasketball 2 года назад +6

      @@mistyz0ne I was thinking the same thing!

    • @terrahthebitch
      @terrahthebitch 2 года назад +125

      He never said “thank you” for once. I was madly in love at that time and let him take advantage of me. But still… He was my first crush and he will always be in my heart🤣🤣🤣

    • @tommyblade8093
      @tommyblade8093 2 года назад +13

      @@terrahthebitch did he knew u were gay?

  • @6012reasol
    @6012reasol 2 года назад +906

    4:15 ive never seen someone explain this so well, ive had so many friendship where it is super close but still not a romantic relationship

    • @kiechau
      @kiechau 2 года назад +56

      I think she described a queerplatonic relationship :DDD

    • @6012reasol
      @6012reasol 2 года назад +4

      @@kiechau oh yeah, i forgot about the word xd

    • @derekb4977
      @derekb4977 2 года назад

      @@kiechau no queer labels it's LGB now

    • @itwasntuna
      @itwasntuna 2 года назад +1

      SHIHOOOO

    • @v1nx481
      @v1nx481 2 года назад +8

      @lemonssssssss4 not really, it's more like friends doing things together that could be seen as romantic but they're not acctually dating and aren't interested in dating eachother
      Edit: typo

  • @n_mare463
    @n_mare463 2 года назад +573

    Am I the only one crushing on Idea?? She's just so pretty I can't not fall for her.

  • @onerainygal2780
    @onerainygal2780 2 года назад +1477

    I think many of us can agree that we're crushing on Idea

    • @midnight-glich8698
      @midnight-glich8698 2 года назад +52

      ✨Yes✨

    • @littlewolf2330
      @littlewolf2330 2 года назад +49

      yes and she really good at dancing!!!

    • @centipede1654
      @centipede1654 2 года назад

      Absolutely crushing on her 🥲

    • @juliane5632
      @juliane5632 2 года назад +77

      @@littlewolf2330 YES she takes so many dance classes but I think shes taken since her ig is tagged on another girl so my lesbian heart is kind of broken-

    • @Tay-zh8no
      @Tay-zh8no 2 года назад +14

      @@juliane5632 what's her ig pls

  • @gilliebeann
    @gilliebeann 2 года назад +372

    Yena's point at 3:47 about violence (esp from men) being a real part of the experience was really insightful

  • @breeramsey899
    @breeramsey899 2 года назад +1081

    I love their energy and I hope they do more videos like this and when it comes to the lgbtqia community we are here and we are not going anywhere.🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

    • @derekb4977
      @derekb4977 2 года назад +4

      No no no as a gay man stop saying QIAblahblah it's not a real sexuality it's LGB Alliance and we are not going anywhere

    • @breeramsey899
      @breeramsey899 2 года назад +28

      @@derekb4977 well you say you're a gay man but how can you dismiss queer people and intersex people and asexual people or two spirited people as a whole or individual wise .

    • @derekb4977
      @derekb4977 2 года назад

      @@breeramsey899 queer is a homophobic slur it's not an identity or a sexuality and a sexual makes no sense it's just being single or low sex drive go look up the truth by Detrans and LGB Alliance then you will see how Soical media brainwashing has captured you into this narrative of labels.

    • @Daniel_0778
      @Daniel_0778 2 года назад

      No we not, if they live in this world just to be selfish without any contribution toward human population no one will support it!! That the problem with people nowdays, never see a bigger picture!! World has problem with human population, just look around you how many die after corona virus pandemic?!

    • @Viomie143
      @Viomie143 2 года назад +11

      @@derekb4977 the AUDACITY. it is the LGBTQIA+ Community, period. Dont you dismiss other members of our community.

  • @raesnest
    @raesnest 2 года назад +351

    No but like Yena is so funny. I love her sm. I need more of this group!!! Their chemistry together is good.

  • @bluexwings
    @bluexwings 2 года назад +199

    Pureum seems so sweet! For bi/pan friends who need to hear it: Being in a relationship with a heterosexual person doesn't change your orientation, or make it any less valid. ❤️🏳️‍🌈

  • @desoxirribonucleico8896
    @desoxirribonucleico8896 2 года назад +1045

    i love this group

  • @6012reasol
    @6012reasol 2 года назад +101

    I love Yena, she has very good and insightful answers and a great personality lol

  • @youjustgowomen6176
    @youjustgowomen6176 2 года назад +90

    I'm a bisexual woman living in a conservative country as well .who has a masculine and feminine side . I could relate to all their stories alot . When they presented each story . I was like been there done that . And it hurts like shit .

  • @hawbaeoow4251
    @hawbaeoow4251 2 года назад +336

    I secretly have a crush on Idea.

  • @TheKrisMds
    @TheKrisMds 2 года назад +255

    It's interesting watching this like a foreigner. Many times they say generalizations and make me think that is difficult to be a LGBTQIA+ in Korea if u don't match with some stereotypes inside each group. It's like if I am a gay(or another) I need to act in a certain mode for . I feel that is really difficult to be yourself being a LGBTQIA in Korea.

    • @derekb4977
      @derekb4977 2 года назад +4

      There is no Q++++ stop the labels nonsense

    • @crxzystorm636
      @crxzystorm636 2 года назад +33

      @@derekb4977 d!3 respectfully

    • @centurybridgesky2452
      @centurybridgesky2452 2 года назад +48

      @@derekb4977 why are you even here??💀

    • @McDougal_
      @McDougal_ 2 года назад

      @@centurybridgesky2452 @StormNite 017B He's right. For example, I've personally seen intersex activists trying to get people to stop including them, since birth defects don't have anything to do with sexuality, and their activism obviously focuses on medical abuse and malpractice. They literally have nothing to do with sexuality-based rights and campaigning. Maybe educate yourselves instead of telling people to die when they say something unfamiliar.

    • @derekb4977
      @derekb4977 2 года назад

      @@centurybridgesky2452 homophobic cult you are part of the problem by aggressive gender ideology labels Q+ is an invented cult online we have solid proof of this.

  • @mindypowell3816
    @mindypowell3816 2 года назад +55

    I am a straight woman. I think all 4 of you are beautiful people. Please continue to do what is right for you. Know that you are loved. 🤗

  • @Ayalaula
    @Ayalaula 2 года назад +146

    I really love the energy of these four together! And I adore Yena...she has such a captivating way of telling stories! 💜

  • @lovebts
    @lovebts 2 года назад +123

    I love this channel so much, putting so much spotlight on LGBTQ+ people in Korea. Thank you for all you do 🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈💖💖

  • @atmosphericentry0
    @atmosphericentry0 2 года назад +42

    I love Yena so much! She is hilarious and has a great personality. She should start a RUclips channel or something

    • @jameso4053
      @jameso4053 2 года назад +7

      She's already Youbube channer. Her channer name is '쌀이없어요'. I lover her. she is really smart and speak very well logically.

  • @RV-rs5zr
    @RV-rs5zr 2 года назад +77

    Ahhh. As a gay man who secretly had a crush on my close friend, it was so hard to not let my hurt show whenever I'd see him together with his new gf back then (who was also my friend). I was happy for them but also felt miserable at the same time.

    • @mar35962
      @mar35962 Год назад

      I can feel you sis 😔😔🖐️🖐️🖐️🖐️🖐️

    • @cammayburrell8117
      @cammayburrell8117 Год назад

      @@mar35962 I'm confused as to why people use sis or girl with gay guys like they're guys

    • @Mrcleanfrfr
      @Mrcleanfrfr Год назад +1

      @@cammayburrell8117 It's slang

  • @o.lyandzberg2784
    @o.lyandzberg2784 2 года назад +54

    Yena is so funny ("nuclear pig" XD) but at the same time so informed. I would like to see more videos with her!

  • @Nameless_mixes
    @Nameless_mixes 2 года назад +82

    Imagine writing a love letter for the person you love to someone else… That would break my heart. I wouldn’t be able to do it 😭💔

  • @msb5775
    @msb5775 2 года назад +25

    Yena is so pretty in every video, I want to know her skincare routine

  • @MeryMeryem
    @MeryMeryem 2 года назад +7

    Why is nobody talking about Pureum?? She looks like an interesting girl, is pretty, can dance very good especially moving her legs. But idea is also a good dancer. But girl I got my eye on you Pureum, hope to see more content

  • @msb5775
    @msb5775 2 года назад +26

    If I dated Yena I would never be bored in my life

  • @dubulicious455
    @dubulicious455 2 года назад +34

    make this a series pls I love them!

  • @Pinksheepie42
    @Pinksheepie42 2 года назад +15

    I really enjoy this series!! It was really eye opening that Yena had a bit of trouble with her friend’s transition to female both for getting surgery first and for sexuality reasons!! I only have one trans friend who is bi like I am so she didn’t have as hard of a time with her sexuality after her transition! And as a bisexual who discovered her sexuality because she had a crush on her straight middle school best friend, I get the where idea was coming from watching the girl you like crush on a guy 😂😂😂

  • @ldonthrowhands9738
    @ldonthrowhands9738 2 года назад +15

    😂😂😂i burst a lung on "bottom+bottom=Britney spears choreo".

  • @vie9534
    @vie9534 2 года назад +14

    "Yes" I love Terrah oml ❤😍

  • @magnolia2
    @magnolia2 2 года назад +8

    I love Yena and all of them so much! All 4 always have great chemistry.

  • @YukiSatagawa
    @YukiSatagawa 3 месяца назад +1

    This was so real and preciousT^T!!! Seeing other koreans in pride like me but in korea always gives me hope that Korea will 1 day be accepting. 🏳‍🌈 Ya'll are truly the country's next generation to take over and bring real equality 🙌

  • @yuiiwasaki4932
    @yuiiwasaki4932 2 года назад +9

    This entire video was just Pureum flexing on the rest of them lmfao

  • @handehepyonar_
    @handehepyonar_ 2 года назад +30

    So cute, so lovely! I hope you will be happy where you'll be or when the time will be! As humans, we are always changing but even though I am wishing ,from me, to you to be happy and peaceful! I hope your fates are going to be bright. I loved all of you so much. You are making me cry (of happiness) because I am Turkish Bisexual (and kind of genderfluid). When I was growing up, they told me that my actions was different from other girls and boys. Like, I liked to play football and basketball that a ladylike never does but I like also singing, dancing, imagining dolls and playing with them... I was always outsider because boys didn't want girl's activities and neither girls wanted boy's activities. But I liked both and wanted to spend time with both but ended up as disaster. So, end of the day, me and my dad was playing some football and some basketball. I will be honest with you, I liked that times the most. I like my parents. They are my supporters! They never blamed me because of who I am. But I always friendzoned by my lovers. Because they were... Straight. Funny but I had partners. They were all good. They understood (some of the parts). And many memories like that... I am grown up now. I still don't understand why I am like this. Like I don't have clue, bro. But I love myself. I know that I am LOVER, not a LOSER or pervert! NEVER! I am praying a lot and I am peaceful. When I see you guys, I wished I had friends like you. Sweet ppl! LU! Bye~ 💖💜💗💝🏳️‍🌈🛐😇😊😎💅🏻👍🏻

  • @ineffablemars
    @ineffablemars Год назад +7

    Terrah is hilarious “you okay? I love you, bastard” 😂

  • @laiiaag7128
    @laiiaag7128 2 года назад +19

    I secretly ship Pureum and Idea

  • @rawrgoyle
    @rawrgoyle 2 года назад +9

    Idea is so cute omg

  • @mikemarkong
    @mikemarkong 2 года назад +3

    Seriously love this group! A more open discussion and talk about everyday life would sound really good! Hoping to see more of them soon! :D

  • @rosieposie2404
    @rosieposie2404 2 года назад +11

    this is so lovely i like seeing them together

  • @tiktokmovieanimereviews3881
    @tiktokmovieanimereviews3881 2 года назад +15

    I love your contents...makes me so happy 😭

  • @EstefiPonce
    @EstefiPonce 2 года назад +13

    I'm in love with Pureum. just that

  • @maimellodii
    @maimellodii 2 года назад +6

    this group makes me so happy😭

  • @BookNerd4Music
    @BookNerd4Music 2 года назад +22

    This group is the best.I laughed so hard at Yena saying DMZ 🤣🤣😅

  • @tonilou
    @tonilou 2 года назад +9

    I really enjoyed hearing about the queer experience and community in SK. I always wondered about it

    • @derekb4977
      @derekb4977 2 года назад

      No queer is homophobic

    • @This_Is_Just_To_Say
      @This_Is_Just_To_Say 2 года назад

      ​@@derekb4977 That's queerphobic. Literally, every LGBTQIA+ identity was and still is used as a slur/in a derogatory way. Just because bigots use 'gay' as an insult doesn't mean being gay is a bad thing, it's just persecuted. Just because bigots use 'queer' as an insult doesn't mean being queer is a bad thing, it's just persecuted. Other non-straight non-cis identities existing is not homophobic. Please focus your energy on actual homophobia from bigots rather than attacking other marginalized identities.

    • @derekb4977
      @derekb4977 2 года назад

      @@This_Is_Just_To_Say no there is no queer phobia that's a made up phobia the word queer was wrongly added to the gay community LGB Alliance is the future now.

    • @derekb4977
      @derekb4977 2 года назад

      @@This_Is_Just_To_Say and no Cis is meaningless it's nothing

  • @hellou73
    @hellou73 2 года назад +5

    I'm crushing on pureum so hard omg

  • @blsgivemethefeels299
    @blsgivemethefeels299 2 года назад +45

    Please do an episode with their MBTIs! I’m interested to know what their MBTIs are. I know for a fact Terrah and Yena are extroverted, they’re the more talkative and expressive ones. But interested to see the results 🙏🏻

  • @ryujins.smile.
    @ryujins.smile. 2 года назад +7

    Idea is so pretty~

  • @Nameless_mixes
    @Nameless_mixes 2 года назад +14

    I love Pureum so much! 💙💜💗

  • @chaneychane9339
    @chaneychane9339 2 года назад +2

    This is a really wholesome video I'd love to hear them sharing more experience!🥺

  • @Nameless_mixes
    @Nameless_mixes 2 года назад +27

    YENA GIVES ME LIFE!!! 😂🙌❤️

  • @Hellokitty_391
    @Hellokitty_391 Год назад +5

    Yena is so attractive omgggg

  • @roseandblackpinkblinkblink750
    @roseandblackpinkblinkblink750 2 года назад +11

    Yesss this group!! More of them please

  • @im_just_vidu
    @im_just_vidu 2 года назад +2

    I love these four. They makes me feel less alone. 💖

  • @phuyu5624
    @phuyu5624 2 года назад +29

    i love how Idea is like the quiet one, because she's like giving in the stereotypes (and she's just like me ToT lol)

  • @aleman_liss
    @aleman_liss 14 дней назад +1

    Idea is my type ♡

  • @aqkharius
    @aqkharius 2 года назад +6

    You guys are so cute and fun to watch & listen to. Ms. Yena is super pretty and i love to hear more stories from her. I'm curious hows it like for you guys to have a relationship. There are a lot of LGBTQ vloggers who shows their daily life but ofcourse its not always like how they portray it in their vlogs. Curious abt what you guys worries abt before and during being in a relationship. How you guys share it to your friends and does your friends always have a say to your partners? I mean, are they telling you guys if your partner is gud for u and such.. argh so many to ask 😊😍 love this kind of video that you made 😍😍

  • @mairaleao
    @mairaleao 2 года назад +1

    I'm loving this group so much but for sure Yena owns my heart.

  • @lukesusilo2112
    @lukesusilo2112 2 года назад +9

    2:30 even though I'm familiar with LGBT, but I actually have no ideal what kind of sexual orientation is labelled to transgender, so thanks for the explanation. Now I know that since Lee Yena has officially changed to a female, then when she dates a man she can be considered heterosexual.

    • @nometoqueisloshuevos7544
      @nometoqueisloshuevos7544 2 года назад +10

      transgender people can be heterosexual or homosexual or bisexual or anything that non-transgender people can be, since being transgender doesn’t have anything to do with sexuality. yena likes men so she’s hetero but if she liked women she’d be a lesbian and if she liked both she’d be bi etc etc

    • @Jaidea
      @Jaidea 2 года назад +8

      People don't have to be "officially changed" to the gender they identify with. If someone is a trans woman and they like men then they are heterosexual, even before transitioning

    • @nometoqueisloshuevos7544
      @nometoqueisloshuevos7544 2 года назад +2

      @@Jaidea exactly

    • @lukesusilo2112
      @lukesusilo2112 2 года назад +3

      @@nometoqueisloshuevos7544 Yes, thanks for the info, I acknowledged I didn't know much about this. However, since I live in Indonesia, a generally religious country oppossing LGBTQ+, I heard one or two times a situation like this:
      A is an "ex male to female transgender" (considered "repented" in religious terms) telling his experiences during the time he was a transgender and said he was dating woman at that time, and the interviewer said "oh so you're still normal, dating with a girl"
      Therefore it led me to more confusion about how to label the sexual orientation of a transgender, altough personally I didn't find it very important hence I never tried to google it before.

    • @lukesusilo2112
      @lukesusilo2112 2 года назад +1

      @@Jaidea Yes, thanks for the info, I acknowledged I didn't know much about this. However, since I live in Indonesia, a generally religious country oppossing LGBTQ+, I heard one or two times a situation like this:
      A is an "ex male to female transgender" (considered "repented" in religious terms) telling his experiences during the time he was a transgender and said he was dating woman at that time, and the interviewer said "oh so you're still normal, dating with a girl"
      Therefore it led me to more confusion about how to label the sexual orientation of a transgender, altough personally I didn't find it very important hence I never tried to google it before.

  • @juliaaa7194
    @juliaaa7194 2 года назад +7

    Oml idea has the CUTESTTT smile ever

  • @cloudyonimbus3751
    @cloudyonimbus3751 Год назад +3

    Am I the only one who crushed hard on her gay friend, but then felt the hurt every time he talks about other men 💀

  • @joy7367
    @joy7367 2 года назад +16

    4:01 i think terrah meant "lesbian PHASE" instead of "lesbian FACE"

  • @erikad0511
    @erikad0511 2 года назад +3

    Hope they became friends after this.... best wishes to them

  • @greencheese3717
    @greencheese3717 2 года назад +6

    I was expecting Terrah to introduce himself as bottom again

  • @brittanysteinmann6720
    @brittanysteinmann6720 2 года назад +3

    I'm pan I don't care what a person has as long as I connect and all of these people are beautiful I hope to see more from these 4

    • @Mrcleanfrfr
      @Mrcleanfrfr Год назад +1

      Can you cook?

    • @brittanysteinmann6720
      @brittanysteinmann6720 Год назад +1

      ​@@Mrcleanfrfr Yes I can cook 😊

    • @Mrcleanfrfr
      @Mrcleanfrfr Год назад +1

      @@brittanysteinmann6720 Great, you are a true pansexual

    • @brittanysteinmann6720
      @brittanysteinmann6720 Год назад

      @@Mrcleanfrfr 😂😂😂 that took me minute that is funny 🤣

    • @Mrcleanfrfr
      @Mrcleanfrfr Год назад

      @@brittanysteinmann6720 Lol I'm glad you liked it

  • @P3arls..
    @P3arls.. Год назад +3

    My lesbian ass CANNOT handle all the fine women in this video😭

  • @aprilias7400
    @aprilias7400 2 года назад +4

    06:08 Love that energy ✨😭😭

  • @abbliee5439
    @abbliee5439 2 года назад +1

    This was video was so great❤. I really related to his struggles with femmephobia, it's also a problem here all the way in South Africa. Though I'm grateful my experiences haven't been as bad as his

  • @eshabegum6483
    @eshabegum6483 2 года назад +6

    Omg the NUCLEAR PIG ended me

  • @onemore4775
    @onemore4775 2 года назад +15

    4:02 Typo! Lesbian phase.

  • @lilyanne609
    @lilyanne609 2 года назад +8

    Am I the only straight person who would literally freaking LOVE to sit and talk there with them?🙈✨❤️‍🔥

    • @cammayburrell8117
      @cammayburrell8117 Год назад

      I would feel out of place idk

    • @Mrcleanfrfr
      @Mrcleanfrfr Год назад +1

      @@cammayburrell8117 It would be fine, I mean we're all just people also it would be a great learning experience for you, honestly just be respectful like you would to anyone else and open to learning

    • @MoMotaroDaisuke
      @MoMotaroDaisuke Год назад +1

      ​@@cammayburrell8117 what they're human just like you

    • @cammayburrell8117
      @cammayburrell8117 Год назад

      @@Mrcleanfrfr I'm actually not respectful to everyone who's NOT lgtbq+ if that's what u mean? But ok

    • @Mrcleanfrfr
      @Mrcleanfrfr Год назад

      @@cammayburrell8117 So you're an r-word, got it

  • @reharm_reality
    @reharm_reality 2 года назад +8

    4:01 I think Terrah is saying "lesbian phase" not face

  • @lucstar49
    @lucstar49 2 года назад +2

    I LOVE IT.
    GIMMMEEEEE MORE, LIKE AT LEAST 10 EPISODES.
    Thank You😊

  • @eloysefernanda4892
    @eloysefernanda4892 2 года назад +2

    i love this group!!!!! make this a series pls

  • @jazminmejia8304
    @jazminmejia8304 2 года назад +4

    Idea looks like I.N from stray kids

  • @neodoyyoung
    @neodoyyoung 2 года назад +1

    Idea is so pretty

  • @idlenefelibata
    @idlenefelibata 2 года назад +1

    oh god the not-dating dating between girl friends exhausted me when i was younger lol

  • @crzbadp
    @crzbadp 2 года назад

    Terrah is so funny when I love it his attitude & face expression including movement language while the group discussion😂😂😂

  • @MirageOneiric
    @MirageOneiric 2 года назад +2

    I need more videos from this group

  • @jishoks6063
    @jishoks6063 2 года назад +1

    it helps to understand the community in better manner. i don't know the present generation understand it or not indeed for the future generation it is great milestone. love you all.🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

  • @vincristineleevin4043
    @vincristineleevin4043 2 года назад +1

    i'm having crush on Pureum. She's so pretty and cute

  • @sunbaeisthebest9844
    @sunbaeisthebest9844 2 года назад +6

    love this group. more videos with them. :)

  • @tia-l6h
    @tia-l6h 2 года назад +1

    I`m kinda crushing on Idea haha

  • @jameso4053
    @jameso4053 2 года назад

    너무너무 귀한 영상이고 채널이에요! 네 분 다 너무 재밌고 멋져요! 쌀님 구독자인데 잘 봤습니당

  • @dawnnn444
    @dawnnn444 2 года назад +4

    they generalize a lot u can rlly tell they live in a close-minded society it must be tough for them :(

  • @Ethrealia
    @Ethrealia 2 года назад +1

    At this point im not even sure if im rly still straight or not 😂 For some reason im rly attracted to Idea

  • @simonesaldanha7110
    @simonesaldanha7110 2 года назад +1

    Yassss!!!! I was waiting for this😭😭😝😝😝🙌🙌

  • @neodoyyoung
    @neodoyyoung 2 года назад +1

    I LOVE YENA SO MUCH

  • @thatorashford3690
    @thatorashford3690 2 года назад

    These group of people are amazing and I love how eloquent they are in expressing themselves especially the woman wearing a purple shirt ( I do not recall her name, I apologise). I think people who aren't Lgbtqi need to put not effort in ensuring that we create and curate a society that is safe for everybody so that more people can be free to be who they are. Saying things like "I have nothing against gay people but I just don't support them" is really lame, lgbtqi people are human beings and it's really weird to hear someone say that they don't support the human rights of another human being or that they are not invested in creating spaces that are safe and welcoming for everybody in the society.

  • @gintendou2937
    @gintendou2937 2 года назад

    i kin terrah on that part we helped the one we loved to do something for someone they loved- that shit just hurts.

  • @dani-qn4dl
    @dani-qn4dl 2 года назад +1

    Idea, i think i love u

  • @timeformoonlight
    @timeformoonlight 2 года назад +3

    I'm a closeted gay And I'm student and in the past I have also heard lots of insults of having a Feminine nature in a male. But, I have also drawn lines and kept them mouth shut with verbs. So yea-

  • @LaFemmFatal
    @LaFemmFatal Год назад

    That’s true that when your a gay man you often stick to other gays men usually switches with switches and tops with bottoms because bi men behave a bit more heteronormative and straight men may physically or emotionally hurt you so it can be dangerous to be too open when looking, it’s safe to stick with other gay men especially those that pair easily roles tend to be very important when it comes to male sex
    With girls it’s slightly different guys won’t be appalled if you hit on them and other girls are less violent and less likely to shame you over your orientation, they are also more open and slightly more fluid about orientation, additionally girls from what the male gaze flirt all the time, they have a lot more kinship then males and actively compliment and uplift each other all things if guys did to each other may have social repercussions
    Men tend to be disgusted by femininity where as the opposite isn’t as true, people are generally allowed to be more masculine regardless of gender, it’s just men being more feminine can be extremely taboo
    Edit: I write this as a trans girl

  • @Future_cat_lady
    @Future_cat_lady 2 года назад +1

    Okay but Idea is kinda fine tho... 👀

  • @MirageOneiric
    @MirageOneiric 2 года назад +7

    PLS TELL ME IM NOT THE ONLY ONE WITH A CRUSH ON IDEA (THE LESBIAN GIRL)

  • @LiciJamaicaLi
    @LiciJamaicaLi 2 года назад

    Yena님은 제 친언니였으면 좋겠어요^^
    너무 귀여우시고 마음이 착한 것 같으세요ㅜㅜ

  • @akio1489
    @akio1489 2 года назад

    I feel it too... I have crush on a guy but he end up couple with my female best friend. We don't know each other at first but he suddenly some to me and ask me if i can help him to give my bestfriend a letter every day every morning and it's hurt me so much but im happy that he happy. It's been 5 years now and they still couple and i not really close to my bestfriend now but we still more to friend

  • @sha4522
    @sha4522 2 года назад +3

    YENA QUEEN

  • @laemperatriz86
    @laemperatriz86 2 года назад +1

    they are the best, more video together please

  • @violetta698
    @violetta698 Год назад +2

    Yena is so hilarious lmao

  • @sofiarolfranco3381
    @sofiarolfranco3381 Год назад +1

    Honestly I wanna be their friend they seem so funny

  • @MSmdsgr
    @MSmdsgr 2 года назад +6

    Others: crush on Idea
    Me: yena is so beautiful

  • @blticketsbus4816
    @blticketsbus4816 2 года назад

    I support💪 u man 😌💔💔 this so heartbroken 😔😭 story... Like it hard when ur crush writing letters for someone u jad crush and not ╥﹏╥╥﹏╥ ... This hurt 💔
    I hope that gud have no happy ending

  • @AD-hs9su
    @AD-hs9su 2 года назад +1

    Best series!