He never said “thank you” for once. I was madly in love at that time and let him take advantage of me. But still… He was my first crush and he will always be in my heart🤣🤣🤣
@lemonssssssss4 not really, it's more like friends doing things together that could be seen as romantic but they're not acctually dating and aren't interested in dating eachother Edit: typo
@@littlewolf2330 YES she takes so many dance classes but I think shes taken since her ig is tagged on another girl so my lesbian heart is kind of broken-
I love their energy and I hope they do more videos like this and when it comes to the lgbtqia community we are here and we are not going anywhere.🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
@@derekb4977 well you say you're a gay man but how can you dismiss queer people and intersex people and asexual people or two spirited people as a whole or individual wise .
@@breeramsey899 queer is a homophobic slur it's not an identity or a sexuality and a sexual makes no sense it's just being single or low sex drive go look up the truth by Detrans and LGB Alliance then you will see how Soical media brainwashing has captured you into this narrative of labels.
No we not, if they live in this world just to be selfish without any contribution toward human population no one will support it!! That the problem with people nowdays, never see a bigger picture!! World has problem with human population, just look around you how many die after corona virus pandemic?!
Pureum seems so sweet! For bi/pan friends who need to hear it: Being in a relationship with a heterosexual person doesn't change your orientation, or make it any less valid. ❤️🏳️🌈
I'm a bisexual woman living in a conservative country as well .who has a masculine and feminine side . I could relate to all their stories alot . When they presented each story . I was like been there done that . And it hurts like shit .
It's interesting watching this like a foreigner. Many times they say generalizations and make me think that is difficult to be a LGBTQIA+ in Korea if u don't match with some stereotypes inside each group. It's like if I am a gay(or another) I need to act in a certain mode for . I feel that is really difficult to be yourself being a LGBTQIA in Korea.
@@centurybridgesky2452 @StormNite 017B He's right. For example, I've personally seen intersex activists trying to get people to stop including them, since birth defects don't have anything to do with sexuality, and their activism obviously focuses on medical abuse and malpractice. They literally have nothing to do with sexuality-based rights and campaigning. Maybe educate yourselves instead of telling people to die when they say something unfamiliar.
@@centurybridgesky2452 homophobic cult you are part of the problem by aggressive gender ideology labels Q+ is an invented cult online we have solid proof of this.
Ahhh. As a gay man who secretly had a crush on my close friend, it was so hard to not let my hurt show whenever I'd see him together with his new gf back then (who was also my friend). I was happy for them but also felt miserable at the same time.
Why is nobody talking about Pureum?? She looks like an interesting girl, is pretty, can dance very good especially moving her legs. But idea is also a good dancer. But girl I got my eye on you Pureum, hope to see more content
I really enjoy this series!! It was really eye opening that Yena had a bit of trouble with her friend’s transition to female both for getting surgery first and for sexuality reasons!! I only have one trans friend who is bi like I am so she didn’t have as hard of a time with her sexuality after her transition! And as a bisexual who discovered her sexuality because she had a crush on her straight middle school best friend, I get the where idea was coming from watching the girl you like crush on a guy 😂😂😂
This was so real and preciousT^T!!! Seeing other koreans in pride like me but in korea always gives me hope that Korea will 1 day be accepting. 🏳🌈 Ya'll are truly the country's next generation to take over and bring real equality 🙌
So cute, so lovely! I hope you will be happy where you'll be or when the time will be! As humans, we are always changing but even though I am wishing ,from me, to you to be happy and peaceful! I hope your fates are going to be bright. I loved all of you so much. You are making me cry (of happiness) because I am Turkish Bisexual (and kind of genderfluid). When I was growing up, they told me that my actions was different from other girls and boys. Like, I liked to play football and basketball that a ladylike never does but I like also singing, dancing, imagining dolls and playing with them... I was always outsider because boys didn't want girl's activities and neither girls wanted boy's activities. But I liked both and wanted to spend time with both but ended up as disaster. So, end of the day, me and my dad was playing some football and some basketball. I will be honest with you, I liked that times the most. I like my parents. They are my supporters! They never blamed me because of who I am. But I always friendzoned by my lovers. Because they were... Straight. Funny but I had partners. They were all good. They understood (some of the parts). And many memories like that... I am grown up now. I still don't understand why I am like this. Like I don't have clue, bro. But I love myself. I know that I am LOVER, not a LOSER or pervert! NEVER! I am praying a lot and I am peaceful. When I see you guys, I wished I had friends like you. Sweet ppl! LU! Bye~ 💖💜💗💝🏳️🌈🛐😇😊😎💅🏻👍🏻
@@derekb4977 That's queerphobic. Literally, every LGBTQIA+ identity was and still is used as a slur/in a derogatory way. Just because bigots use 'gay' as an insult doesn't mean being gay is a bad thing, it's just persecuted. Just because bigots use 'queer' as an insult doesn't mean being queer is a bad thing, it's just persecuted. Other non-straight non-cis identities existing is not homophobic. Please focus your energy on actual homophobia from bigots rather than attacking other marginalized identities.
@@This_Is_Just_To_Say no there is no queer phobia that's a made up phobia the word queer was wrongly added to the gay community LGB Alliance is the future now.
Please do an episode with their MBTIs! I’m interested to know what their MBTIs are. I know for a fact Terrah and Yena are extroverted, they’re the more talkative and expressive ones. But interested to see the results 🙏🏻
You guys are so cute and fun to watch & listen to. Ms. Yena is super pretty and i love to hear more stories from her. I'm curious hows it like for you guys to have a relationship. There are a lot of LGBTQ vloggers who shows their daily life but ofcourse its not always like how they portray it in their vlogs. Curious abt what you guys worries abt before and during being in a relationship. How you guys share it to your friends and does your friends always have a say to your partners? I mean, are they telling you guys if your partner is gud for u and such.. argh so many to ask 😊😍 love this kind of video that you made 😍😍
2:30 even though I'm familiar with LGBT, but I actually have no ideal what kind of sexual orientation is labelled to transgender, so thanks for the explanation. Now I know that since Lee Yena has officially changed to a female, then when she dates a man she can be considered heterosexual.
transgender people can be heterosexual or homosexual or bisexual or anything that non-transgender people can be, since being transgender doesn’t have anything to do with sexuality. yena likes men so she’s hetero but if she liked women she’d be a lesbian and if she liked both she’d be bi etc etc
People don't have to be "officially changed" to the gender they identify with. If someone is a trans woman and they like men then they are heterosexual, even before transitioning
@@nometoqueisloshuevos7544 Yes, thanks for the info, I acknowledged I didn't know much about this. However, since I live in Indonesia, a generally religious country oppossing LGBTQ+, I heard one or two times a situation like this: A is an "ex male to female transgender" (considered "repented" in religious terms) telling his experiences during the time he was a transgender and said he was dating woman at that time, and the interviewer said "oh so you're still normal, dating with a girl" Therefore it led me to more confusion about how to label the sexual orientation of a transgender, altough personally I didn't find it very important hence I never tried to google it before.
@@Jaidea Yes, thanks for the info, I acknowledged I didn't know much about this. However, since I live in Indonesia, a generally religious country oppossing LGBTQ+, I heard one or two times a situation like this: A is an "ex male to female transgender" (considered "repented" in religious terms) telling his experiences during the time he was a transgender and said he was dating woman at that time, and the interviewer said "oh so you're still normal, dating with a girl" Therefore it led me to more confusion about how to label the sexual orientation of a transgender, altough personally I didn't find it very important hence I never tried to google it before.
This was video was so great❤. I really related to his struggles with femmephobia, it's also a problem here all the way in South Africa. Though I'm grateful my experiences haven't been as bad as his
@@cammayburrell8117 It would be fine, I mean we're all just people also it would be a great learning experience for you, honestly just be respectful like you would to anyone else and open to learning
it helps to understand the community in better manner. i don't know the present generation understand it or not indeed for the future generation it is great milestone. love you all.🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
These group of people are amazing and I love how eloquent they are in expressing themselves especially the woman wearing a purple shirt ( I do not recall her name, I apologise). I think people who aren't Lgbtqi need to put not effort in ensuring that we create and curate a society that is safe for everybody so that more people can be free to be who they are. Saying things like "I have nothing against gay people but I just don't support them" is really lame, lgbtqi people are human beings and it's really weird to hear someone say that they don't support the human rights of another human being or that they are not invested in creating spaces that are safe and welcoming for everybody in the society.
I'm a closeted gay And I'm student and in the past I have also heard lots of insults of having a Feminine nature in a male. But, I have also drawn lines and kept them mouth shut with verbs. So yea-
That’s true that when your a gay man you often stick to other gays men usually switches with switches and tops with bottoms because bi men behave a bit more heteronormative and straight men may physically or emotionally hurt you so it can be dangerous to be too open when looking, it’s safe to stick with other gay men especially those that pair easily roles tend to be very important when it comes to male sex With girls it’s slightly different guys won’t be appalled if you hit on them and other girls are less violent and less likely to shame you over your orientation, they are also more open and slightly more fluid about orientation, additionally girls from what the male gaze flirt all the time, they have a lot more kinship then males and actively compliment and uplift each other all things if guys did to each other may have social repercussions Men tend to be disgusted by femininity where as the opposite isn’t as true, people are generally allowed to be more masculine regardless of gender, it’s just men being more feminine can be extremely taboo Edit: I write this as a trans girl
I feel it too... I have crush on a guy but he end up couple with my female best friend. We don't know each other at first but he suddenly some to me and ask me if i can help him to give my bestfriend a letter every day every morning and it's hurt me so much but im happy that he happy. It's been 5 years now and they still couple and i not really close to my bestfriend now but we still more to friend
I support💪 u man 😌💔💔 this so heartbroken 😔😭 story... Like it hard when ur crush writing letters for someone u jad crush and not ╥﹏╥╥﹏╥ ... This hurt 💔 I hope that gud have no happy ending
Terrah helping they guy he had a crush on write a letter to his girlfriend was literally so sweet and sad. 😔🙏
rip my guy lol
almost like the movie "the half of it"
@@mistyz0ne I was thinking the same thing!
He never said “thank you” for once. I was madly in love at that time and let him take advantage of me. But still… He was my first crush and he will always be in my heart🤣🤣🤣
@@terrahthebitch did he knew u were gay?
4:15 ive never seen someone explain this so well, ive had so many friendship where it is super close but still not a romantic relationship
I think she described a queerplatonic relationship :DDD
@@kiechau oh yeah, i forgot about the word xd
@@kiechau no queer labels it's LGB now
SHIHOOOO
@lemonssssssss4 not really, it's more like friends doing things together that could be seen as romantic but they're not acctually dating and aren't interested in dating eachother
Edit: typo
Am I the only one crushing on Idea?? She's just so pretty I can't not fall for her.
Yes yess she is so adorable
she’s so cool
LITERALLY FOLDING
she got both the cool charm and the cute charm omg iofhndiongv
Yes
I think many of us can agree that we're crushing on Idea
✨Yes✨
yes and she really good at dancing!!!
Absolutely crushing on her 🥲
@@littlewolf2330 YES she takes so many dance classes but I think shes taken since her ig is tagged on another girl so my lesbian heart is kind of broken-
@@juliane5632 what's her ig pls
Yena's point at 3:47 about violence (esp from men) being a real part of the experience was really insightful
I love their energy and I hope they do more videos like this and when it comes to the lgbtqia community we are here and we are not going anywhere.🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
No no no as a gay man stop saying QIAblahblah it's not a real sexuality it's LGB Alliance and we are not going anywhere
@@derekb4977 well you say you're a gay man but how can you dismiss queer people and intersex people and asexual people or two spirited people as a whole or individual wise .
@@breeramsey899 queer is a homophobic slur it's not an identity or a sexuality and a sexual makes no sense it's just being single or low sex drive go look up the truth by Detrans and LGB Alliance then you will see how Soical media brainwashing has captured you into this narrative of labels.
No we not, if they live in this world just to be selfish without any contribution toward human population no one will support it!! That the problem with people nowdays, never see a bigger picture!! World has problem with human population, just look around you how many die after corona virus pandemic?!
@@derekb4977 the AUDACITY. it is the LGBTQIA+ Community, period. Dont you dismiss other members of our community.
No but like Yena is so funny. I love her sm. I need more of this group!!! Their chemistry together is good.
Pureum seems so sweet! For bi/pan friends who need to hear it: Being in a relationship with a heterosexual person doesn't change your orientation, or make it any less valid. ❤️🏳️🌈
i love this group
yess!!
I love Yena, she has very good and insightful answers and a great personality lol
I'm a bisexual woman living in a conservative country as well .who has a masculine and feminine side . I could relate to all their stories alot . When they presented each story . I was like been there done that . And it hurts like shit .
I secretly have a crush on Idea.
It's not so secret anymore~
@@musicalcrazedunicorn1460 I 'accidentally' confessed!?!? 😦
me too
She is so pretty
Same
It's interesting watching this like a foreigner. Many times they say generalizations and make me think that is difficult to be a LGBTQIA+ in Korea if u don't match with some stereotypes inside each group. It's like if I am a gay(or another) I need to act in a certain mode for . I feel that is really difficult to be yourself being a LGBTQIA in Korea.
There is no Q++++ stop the labels nonsense
@@derekb4977 d!3 respectfully
@@derekb4977 why are you even here??💀
@@centurybridgesky2452 @StormNite 017B He's right. For example, I've personally seen intersex activists trying to get people to stop including them, since birth defects don't have anything to do with sexuality, and their activism obviously focuses on medical abuse and malpractice. They literally have nothing to do with sexuality-based rights and campaigning. Maybe educate yourselves instead of telling people to die when they say something unfamiliar.
@@centurybridgesky2452 homophobic cult you are part of the problem by aggressive gender ideology labels Q+ is an invented cult online we have solid proof of this.
I am a straight woman. I think all 4 of you are beautiful people. Please continue to do what is right for you. Know that you are loved. 🤗
I really love the energy of these four together! And I adore Yena...she has such a captivating way of telling stories! 💜
I love this channel so much, putting so much spotlight on LGBTQ+ people in Korea. Thank you for all you do 🏳🌈🏳🌈💖💖
🤮🤮🤮🤮
I love Yena so much! She is hilarious and has a great personality. She should start a RUclips channel or something
She's already Youbube channer. Her channer name is '쌀이없어요'. I lover her. she is really smart and speak very well logically.
Ahhh. As a gay man who secretly had a crush on my close friend, it was so hard to not let my hurt show whenever I'd see him together with his new gf back then (who was also my friend). I was happy for them but also felt miserable at the same time.
I can feel you sis 😔😔🖐️🖐️🖐️🖐️🖐️
@@mar35962 I'm confused as to why people use sis or girl with gay guys like they're guys
@@cammayburrell8117 It's slang
Yena is so funny ("nuclear pig" XD) but at the same time so informed. I would like to see more videos with her!
Imagine writing a love letter for the person you love to someone else… That would break my heart. I wouldn’t be able to do it 😭💔
Yena is so pretty in every video, I want to know her skincare routine
Why is nobody talking about Pureum?? She looks like an interesting girl, is pretty, can dance very good especially moving her legs. But idea is also a good dancer. But girl I got my eye on you Pureum, hope to see more content
If I dated Yena I would never be bored in my life
make this a series pls I love them!
I really enjoy this series!! It was really eye opening that Yena had a bit of trouble with her friend’s transition to female both for getting surgery first and for sexuality reasons!! I only have one trans friend who is bi like I am so she didn’t have as hard of a time with her sexuality after her transition! And as a bisexual who discovered her sexuality because she had a crush on her straight middle school best friend, I get the where idea was coming from watching the girl you like crush on a guy 😂😂😂
😂😂😂i burst a lung on "bottom+bottom=Britney spears choreo".
"Yes" I love Terrah oml ❤😍
I love Yena and all of them so much! All 4 always have great chemistry.
This was so real and preciousT^T!!! Seeing other koreans in pride like me but in korea always gives me hope that Korea will 1 day be accepting. 🏳🌈 Ya'll are truly the country's next generation to take over and bring real equality 🙌
This entire video was just Pureum flexing on the rest of them lmfao
So cute, so lovely! I hope you will be happy where you'll be or when the time will be! As humans, we are always changing but even though I am wishing ,from me, to you to be happy and peaceful! I hope your fates are going to be bright. I loved all of you so much. You are making me cry (of happiness) because I am Turkish Bisexual (and kind of genderfluid). When I was growing up, they told me that my actions was different from other girls and boys. Like, I liked to play football and basketball that a ladylike never does but I like also singing, dancing, imagining dolls and playing with them... I was always outsider because boys didn't want girl's activities and neither girls wanted boy's activities. But I liked both and wanted to spend time with both but ended up as disaster. So, end of the day, me and my dad was playing some football and some basketball. I will be honest with you, I liked that times the most. I like my parents. They are my supporters! They never blamed me because of who I am. But I always friendzoned by my lovers. Because they were... Straight. Funny but I had partners. They were all good. They understood (some of the parts). And many memories like that... I am grown up now. I still don't understand why I am like this. Like I don't have clue, bro. But I love myself. I know that I am LOVER, not a LOSER or pervert! NEVER! I am praying a lot and I am peaceful. When I see you guys, I wished I had friends like you. Sweet ppl! LU! Bye~ 💖💜💗💝🏳️🌈🛐😇😊😎💅🏻👍🏻
Terrah is hilarious “you okay? I love you, bastard” 😂
I secretly ship Pureum and Idea
Idea is so cute omg
Seriously love this group! A more open discussion and talk about everyday life would sound really good! Hoping to see more of them soon! :D
this is so lovely i like seeing them together
I love your contents...makes me so happy 😭
I'm in love with Pureum. just that
this group makes me so happy😭
This group is the best.I laughed so hard at Yena saying DMZ 🤣🤣😅
I really enjoyed hearing about the queer experience and community in SK. I always wondered about it
No queer is homophobic
@@derekb4977 That's queerphobic. Literally, every LGBTQIA+ identity was and still is used as a slur/in a derogatory way. Just because bigots use 'gay' as an insult doesn't mean being gay is a bad thing, it's just persecuted. Just because bigots use 'queer' as an insult doesn't mean being queer is a bad thing, it's just persecuted. Other non-straight non-cis identities existing is not homophobic. Please focus your energy on actual homophobia from bigots rather than attacking other marginalized identities.
@@This_Is_Just_To_Say no there is no queer phobia that's a made up phobia the word queer was wrongly added to the gay community LGB Alliance is the future now.
@@This_Is_Just_To_Say and no Cis is meaningless it's nothing
I'm crushing on pureum so hard omg
Please do an episode with their MBTIs! I’m interested to know what their MBTIs are. I know for a fact Terrah and Yena are extroverted, they’re the more talkative and expressive ones. But interested to see the results 🙏🏻
agreed!
Idea is so pretty~
I love Pureum so much! 💙💜💗
This is a really wholesome video I'd love to hear them sharing more experience!🥺
YENA GIVES ME LIFE!!! 😂🙌❤️
Yena is so attractive omgggg
Yesss this group!! More of them please
I love these four. They makes me feel less alone. 💖
i love how Idea is like the quiet one, because she's like giving in the stereotypes (and she's just like me ToT lol)
Idea is my type ♡
You guys are so cute and fun to watch & listen to. Ms. Yena is super pretty and i love to hear more stories from her. I'm curious hows it like for you guys to have a relationship. There are a lot of LGBTQ vloggers who shows their daily life but ofcourse its not always like how they portray it in their vlogs. Curious abt what you guys worries abt before and during being in a relationship. How you guys share it to your friends and does your friends always have a say to your partners? I mean, are they telling you guys if your partner is gud for u and such.. argh so many to ask 😊😍 love this kind of video that you made 😍😍
I'm loving this group so much but for sure Yena owns my heart.
2:30 even though I'm familiar with LGBT, but I actually have no ideal what kind of sexual orientation is labelled to transgender, so thanks for the explanation. Now I know that since Lee Yena has officially changed to a female, then when she dates a man she can be considered heterosexual.
transgender people can be heterosexual or homosexual or bisexual or anything that non-transgender people can be, since being transgender doesn’t have anything to do with sexuality. yena likes men so she’s hetero but if she liked women she’d be a lesbian and if she liked both she’d be bi etc etc
People don't have to be "officially changed" to the gender they identify with. If someone is a trans woman and they like men then they are heterosexual, even before transitioning
@@Jaidea exactly
@@nometoqueisloshuevos7544 Yes, thanks for the info, I acknowledged I didn't know much about this. However, since I live in Indonesia, a generally religious country oppossing LGBTQ+, I heard one or two times a situation like this:
A is an "ex male to female transgender" (considered "repented" in religious terms) telling his experiences during the time he was a transgender and said he was dating woman at that time, and the interviewer said "oh so you're still normal, dating with a girl"
Therefore it led me to more confusion about how to label the sexual orientation of a transgender, altough personally I didn't find it very important hence I never tried to google it before.
@@Jaidea Yes, thanks for the info, I acknowledged I didn't know much about this. However, since I live in Indonesia, a generally religious country oppossing LGBTQ+, I heard one or two times a situation like this:
A is an "ex male to female transgender" (considered "repented" in religious terms) telling his experiences during the time he was a transgender and said he was dating woman at that time, and the interviewer said "oh so you're still normal, dating with a girl"
Therefore it led me to more confusion about how to label the sexual orientation of a transgender, altough personally I didn't find it very important hence I never tried to google it before.
Oml idea has the CUTESTTT smile ever
Am I the only one who crushed hard on her gay friend, but then felt the hurt every time he talks about other men 💀
4:01 i think terrah meant "lesbian PHASE" instead of "lesbian FACE"
Hope they became friends after this.... best wishes to them
I was expecting Terrah to introduce himself as bottom again
Me too!
I'm pan I don't care what a person has as long as I connect and all of these people are beautiful I hope to see more from these 4
Can you cook?
@@Mrcleanfrfr Yes I can cook 😊
@@brittanysteinmann6720 Great, you are a true pansexual
@@Mrcleanfrfr 😂😂😂 that took me minute that is funny 🤣
@@brittanysteinmann6720 Lol I'm glad you liked it
My lesbian ass CANNOT handle all the fine women in this video😭
06:08 Love that energy ✨😭😭
This was video was so great❤. I really related to his struggles with femmephobia, it's also a problem here all the way in South Africa. Though I'm grateful my experiences haven't been as bad as his
Omg the NUCLEAR PIG ended me
4:02 Typo! Lesbian phase.
Am I the only straight person who would literally freaking LOVE to sit and talk there with them?🙈✨❤️🔥
I would feel out of place idk
@@cammayburrell8117 It would be fine, I mean we're all just people also it would be a great learning experience for you, honestly just be respectful like you would to anyone else and open to learning
@@cammayburrell8117 what they're human just like you
@@Mrcleanfrfr I'm actually not respectful to everyone who's NOT lgtbq+ if that's what u mean? But ok
@@cammayburrell8117 So you're an r-word, got it
4:01 I think Terrah is saying "lesbian phase" not face
I LOVE IT.
GIMMMEEEEE MORE, LIKE AT LEAST 10 EPISODES.
Thank You😊
i love this group!!!!! make this a series pls
Idea looks like I.N from stray kids
Idea is so pretty
oh god the not-dating dating between girl friends exhausted me when i was younger lol
Terrah is so funny when I love it his attitude & face expression including movement language while the group discussion😂😂😂
I need more videos from this group
it helps to understand the community in better manner. i don't know the present generation understand it or not indeed for the future generation it is great milestone. love you all.🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
i'm having crush on Pureum. She's so pretty and cute
love this group. more videos with them. :)
I`m kinda crushing on Idea haha
너무너무 귀한 영상이고 채널이에요! 네 분 다 너무 재밌고 멋져요! 쌀님 구독자인데 잘 봤습니당
they generalize a lot u can rlly tell they live in a close-minded society it must be tough for them :(
At this point im not even sure if im rly still straight or not 😂 For some reason im rly attracted to Idea
Yassss!!!! I was waiting for this😭😭😝😝😝🙌🙌
I LOVE YENA SO MUCH
These group of people are amazing and I love how eloquent they are in expressing themselves especially the woman wearing a purple shirt ( I do not recall her name, I apologise). I think people who aren't Lgbtqi need to put not effort in ensuring that we create and curate a society that is safe for everybody so that more people can be free to be who they are. Saying things like "I have nothing against gay people but I just don't support them" is really lame, lgbtqi people are human beings and it's really weird to hear someone say that they don't support the human rights of another human being or that they are not invested in creating spaces that are safe and welcoming for everybody in the society.
i kin terrah on that part we helped the one we loved to do something for someone they loved- that shit just hurts.
Idea, i think i love u
I'm a closeted gay And I'm student and in the past I have also heard lots of insults of having a Feminine nature in a male. But, I have also drawn lines and kept them mouth shut with verbs. So yea-
That’s true that when your a gay man you often stick to other gays men usually switches with switches and tops with bottoms because bi men behave a bit more heteronormative and straight men may physically or emotionally hurt you so it can be dangerous to be too open when looking, it’s safe to stick with other gay men especially those that pair easily roles tend to be very important when it comes to male sex
With girls it’s slightly different guys won’t be appalled if you hit on them and other girls are less violent and less likely to shame you over your orientation, they are also more open and slightly more fluid about orientation, additionally girls from what the male gaze flirt all the time, they have a lot more kinship then males and actively compliment and uplift each other all things if guys did to each other may have social repercussions
Men tend to be disgusted by femininity where as the opposite isn’t as true, people are generally allowed to be more masculine regardless of gender, it’s just men being more feminine can be extremely taboo
Edit: I write this as a trans girl
Okay but Idea is kinda fine tho... 👀
PLS TELL ME IM NOT THE ONLY ONE WITH A CRUSH ON IDEA (THE LESBIAN GIRL)
omg yesss
Yena님은 제 친언니였으면 좋겠어요^^
너무 귀여우시고 마음이 착한 것 같으세요ㅜㅜ
I feel it too... I have crush on a guy but he end up couple with my female best friend. We don't know each other at first but he suddenly some to me and ask me if i can help him to give my bestfriend a letter every day every morning and it's hurt me so much but im happy that he happy. It's been 5 years now and they still couple and i not really close to my bestfriend now but we still more to friend
YENA QUEEN
they are the best, more video together please
Yena is so hilarious lmao
Honestly I wanna be their friend they seem so funny
Others: crush on Idea
Me: yena is so beautiful
I support💪 u man 😌💔💔 this so heartbroken 😔😭 story... Like it hard when ur crush writing letters for someone u jad crush and not ╥﹏╥╥﹏╥ ... This hurt 💔
I hope that gud have no happy ending
Best series!