Pahah sadly 80% of humanity suffer from this experince to have those jokes only when the situation is over the other 20% are lucky express train brains.
haha I still remember back in school, a homophobic classmate (guy) was making offensive remark about another gay classmate. The final straw was when he said "eww i hope he doesn't like me". Another girl told him "Girls don't even like you, what makes you think gay guys will like you? Have you seen gay guys? Most of them are fit and clean up well." He stfu so fast 🤣
This reminds me of the time someone asked me if I would get turned on if a women undressed in front of me... I returned the question to her and asked would you get turned on if a man undressed in front of you? Trying to get her to see how uncomfortable it is to be asked that kind of question but she didn't get it and said yes I would and then asked again if I would get turned on if a women got undressed in front of me so I just told her no and she acted surprised. (in ftm bisexual but she only knew the second one cuz she walked in on me and my friend who is straight, holding hands and asked if we're lesbian. Even after we denied and the whole Convo mentioned above happened she walked out and yelled to the whole camp we were in at the time, there's a lesbian couple in that room)
The guy stated his boundaries from the beginning, the gay guy should have realised and not be too friendly, stay professional, like not taking someone's phone unless given....
@@enhybun Was that really something that needed to be explained, I believe the person being weird is you, to be so emotional over an observation is strange....
@@Dartist023 no, you felt the need to reply to more than one comment saying the same thing and justifying the way actor overreacted. it's an exaggerated act supposed to make ppl uncomfortable about the prejudice and show how ridiculous it is. it's supposed to show how small things can be seen in a bad light and reacted to in an aggressive way simply because someone is gay.
I always remember being on a date with a Korean guy in Seoul. The table next to us asked the staff to request we leave as they didn't want to see a gay couple talking or having a meal. And guess what, the staff asked us to leave. I was shocked!
@Based Adonis you literally go and comment homophobic things on all videos pls stfu nobody wants to hear your justification of why lgbt people are discriminated against
@Based Adonis but when a business chooses to not serve someone solely because of their sexuality, something they can't control, then that's discrimination. They may have the right to choose who they serve, but that doesn't make it right. You can't just deny someone basic human rights. Gay people have the right to eat at a restaurant just the same as straight people, and for straight people to be the ones who can dictate who can and can't be there based off sexuality is ridiculous.
It's sad that people can act this way out of a social experiment. I find that even if you do not like a person, simply choose to avoid them or keep your personal thoughts and opinions to yourself!
That's what I like about my parents (although I have no idea how they would react if I came out cuz I'm their child) but in public and in front of people they won't say anything. Only when we are at home and by ourselves do they voice they're disapproval
In another video of a Korean woman with a fullbody tattoo, a lot of Korean comments were of the mindset that if she has the right to be publicly be seen like that, then they apparently have the right to be publicly disgusted and share their public opinion. Which is dumb bc that mindset (even if tattoos in whatever culture matters differently) is still rude. Just show common courtesy and respect your fellow humans. But a lot of ppl will use "different culture" as an excuse.
@@TheKuroArisu different culture isn't an excuse. It's just a blatant fact, that if some one can choose how ever they wish to look, any one can choose to say what ever of that look. Call it rude, but if you really support freedom and expression, you have to acept the bad with the good.
both of the guys were a part of the prank so we were watching for the girl's reaction. he's not actually homophobic. but I agree for people who would actually react like that!
As a fellow lesbian, I just want to tell everyone at Shine teen that I really apreciate you guys! You have been dishing out so much LGBTQ+ content recently and giving the community a lot of support. Thank you💖🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 Edit: guys, just report the homophobic comments instead of replying to them cuz you're unintentionally adding fuel to the fire♥️
SHINE TEEN is literally PAYING TRIBUTE to the gay community these past couple of months. As a gay person myself, I just wanna say thank you, really! You earned a subscriber 🤍
@Based Adonis I’m not trying to be quirky damn it, it’s how I type .-. And since that I’m used to it I always have the urge to do so UNTIL I change again
Poor girl was ready to throw hands before she knew it was a prank. I was so frustrated watching even though I knew it was a prank, I wanted to throw hands too. Bless your soul my Eunji, keep standing up for people wronged.
Even though they seem to be really sweet and soft spoken they stood up for what's right. Eunji even looked like she was containing her anger to not throw hands. Awesome video, the world needs more people like them
There is this Korean dude that a friend of mine met when she was studying in Korea, and he was very well academically educated and seemed very polite, he gave a very chill, quiet type of vibe. He came to see my friend a couple of times and we all hung out, he seemed like he was such a kind person. Then, he went to the army, got extremely fit, and apparently got a new personality as well. Unbeknownst to her, my friend kindly invited him to spend Christmas with her and her family, and after having a dinner to which he was late because he was watching a movie, and didn't eat because he had already eaten prior to that, they went out and got drunk. He started saying the most transphobic, misogynist and homophobic things my friend had ever heard. Stuff like " if you're trans I will spit on you". Gays???? Ah no, don't give me that shit, I don't do that, they're disgusting. Women? Oh they're from a different species than men, we are literally so much better. " My friend is also a part of the LGBTQ+ community, and when she told him that he was like oh but you're a women, so that's fine, what's not okay are gay men ☠️☠️☠️☠️ The worst part is that when my friend asked to her other friends from Korea if they knew he was like that, they all told her they had known all along, that they saw his homophobia, transphobia and misogyny from a mile away. 🥲🥲🥲 Incredibly sad.
Oh girl.. one way to discover the truth of how people actually act is to see them drunk. I also got drunk with a “friend” of 5 years a few months ago, and she started saying the most homophobic things to me (I’m lesbian) like saying she don’t support me etc , etc. it’s disgusting.
yap. men accepting and excusing other men's behavior is the worst part. I saw a comment asking for a part 2 where they bring men to react to homophobia. and somehow I feel like if they're chosen randomly, this video might turn out not how we hope it will, cause they might end up silent, if not in agreement, so...
as a bisexual and closeted trans guy, I just want to really thank you for this kind of content too! even though a lot of the times our experiences may not be as expressively aggressive as this one, people have a lot of ignorance in their heart and that hurts to hear. so, thank you for spreading awareness ☺️💜!!
as a korean man, Korean ppl like to discriminate others. others based on university they graduated, regions where they are from , foreinger, of course sexual orientation, skin colour, poor ppl, etc etc. so there is this "discrimination law"차별금지법 that has been pending for years now to pass. the worst thing is korean ppl dont even realize they are discrimitory when they are actually saying and doing it
thats so sad... I mean, everywhere has discrimination to some degree and in some ways, but I do know its pretty bad in some parts of east asia, and that feels like such a suffocating environment to grow in. instead of accepting each other and assessing someone based on their personality and who they are, every little dry fact about you is a chance to lower you and see you as lesser than for no reason.
Bigotry and discrimination in highly collectivistic countries where people are generally expected to get along and maintain group harmony can be WILD. In Western countries where individualism, free speech, and direct communication are prioritized, things like these often do not go as unnoticed, thus, allowing people to speak their minds and stand up for one another (even if they're total strangers).
Although I am part of the LGBTQ+ community, I do have to mention that there are queers who dislike discrimination law too though. It's like the Affirmative Action system. It certainly has good purpose, but it doesn't abide by the constitution. It's more likely to do more harm than good, regarding the freedom of expression. *Even contempt is protected by the freedom of expression.* Discrimination law is prone to failure, and to not make it fail, we have to change the actual constitution.
I literally ended a friendship that was bordering on a relationship due to a person like this. It came out of left field with no warning too; I'd gone to visit them and we were walking around town. I saw a couple of guys walking the opposite way hand in hand and kind of giggled to myself; I like seeing people being open about themselves like that. Then he chipped in and was like 'I'm not homophobic but I hate it when they do that in public where I can see them. It makes me uncomfortable and they should do it elsewhere'. I'm not confrontational but that blew my mind, I immediately retorted with 'You can't say that!' We had a conversation a little later about why he felt that way and I was like 'Does it make you uncomfortable?' Yes, 'is it going to hurt or directly affect your wellbeing?' tried to say that just seeing it was enough of an excuse to say that 'those people' shouldn't be out in public. A few months later, things were still dicey, and then he dropped a freakin' atom bomb of 'I don't get Trans people they shouldn't exist. They just do it for attention'🙂🔪 Bro was lucky that he was the other side of the country otherwise I might well have committed homocide. My best friend is a trans man, my mom has a friend who is a trans woman that I clearly remember from my childhood prior to her transition. I spent most of my teen years horse riding and there were quite the number of LGBTQ+ people there. That's where it ended. I absolutely refused to associate myself with someone that would actively complain because they're uncomfortable or don't understand these kinds of things about people that don't even affect him! He tried to get in touch in the end but I blocked him. There's a lot of things that I'm uncomfortable with especially regarding social interactions but it doesn't give me an excuse to put other people down for it. Uh, he was also low key racist too. I don't remember much about that side of things because I was done.
HE IS SO PRECIOUS. I’D PROTECT THIS MAN AND THROW HANDS FR. You don’t deserve to bullied or hated for who you are or who you love. Just because you are a “straight man” doesn’t mean every gay man out there is attracted to you, its just like not all women are attracted to you.
@@joosh2313 ah, its satisfying seeing tiktok humour boys go raid youtube comments, because they are offended by someone's preferences and point of view
i know it’s hard to stand up against discrimination when it’s so unexpected, but I’m not kidding I would sock that dude in the face ~ sincerely, the B in LGBTQ
This one time I was in Korea and me and my boyfriend (now fiancé) were kissing goodbye at the subway station and this ajusshi started yelling at us, complaining that Korea wasn't like America and we couldn't do that. Then this one guy passing by with his headphones on literally jumped to our side, took them off, started arguing in a quiet and calm manner with the old guy and then turned to us and said "just ignore him" and walked away. It truly is the smallest of things that make a difference
Sexual preference is not a defining characteristic for a person. It's one aspect but it does not determine badness or goodness. I have gay friends and this made me choke up and cry a little. Be kind guys! And kudos to the ladies who stood up for what is right.
@@B4mbyeyesYou must be proud of your bigotry and ignorance. Just imagine a loved one of yours (like a close family member) being gay and getting mistreated by society for it, you wouldn't give a f*ck either?
WOW! I kind of forgot this was an experiment and I was getting upset… But, I’m glad he did not mean any of that, though I know there are actually people like this, which is why I praise those from the LGBTQ community who have already come out and been brave enough to do so, and then there is me, bisexual and not Brave enough to tell that I am bisexual… I hope soon people realize that those from the LGBTQ community have the right to love who they want as well and I also want to be able to live who I wanna love ✨
Honestly it’s sickening that people in real life actually think that homosexuality is “unnatural” and treats it like an infectious virus. As a homosexual myself, I absolutely have no tolerance whatsoever to any kind of behaviour like that from people in real life. We should all be allowed to live our lives as the people we are
I am an ally for the LGBTQ+ community, and I have a friend who came out to my friend group years ago as lesbian. One of our friends immediately showed their colors as very homophobic and insensitive, which we weren't expecting. They said things like "Just to be clear Im straight, don't get ideas, don't touch me, leave me alone". It absolutely pissed me off. The logic and offensive language makes no sense. That friend has a straight guy friend and he playfully hits her all the time and there's no issue, why not tell him not to touch you too incase he gets ideas?? Its such a double standard and very hypocritical. Just because someone is gay, bisexual, whatever doesn't mean they are attracted to everyone with that gender (ex: a gay person doesn't like every man in existence, a lesbian doesn't like every female). Just like how you as a straight individual may not like everyone of the opposite sex. Love is love, and people who want to get in other people's business and make it about themselves somehow and get offended and rude can just f*** right off.
It's really true!! I was kicked out of a summer camp lifeguard job when I was 18 (I'm 19 now) and before they had found me a way home, me and my friend one night were with a few of our other friends and since there was nowhere else to sit the two of us were laying on the floor and holding hands, as friends do. Another girl came in and asked us if we were dating and I said no, she is straight, so this girl started questioning me and asked me what I was so I answered honestly since I was already kicked out for it I told her I was bisexual and she asked me if I would get turned on my any girl undressing in front of me. I wanted her to understand how awkward and uncomfortable that question was so I directed it back at her and asked would you get turned on if any random man undressed in front of you? She didn't take the hint, answered yes seriously, and proceeded to ask me again a few more times. When I satisfied her with enough no's she walked out of the room and yelled to the whole camp, there's a lesbian couple in there. I was gone the next day. My parents still don't know the real reason I was kicked out.
@@shoshimonster5451 oh my gosh that’s horrible and honestly if it’s not illegal where you live it should be. Firing someone for their sexual orientation is both none of the employers business and also has nothing to do with work and is biased and prejudiced. As for your friend it’s ridiculous how she interrogated you and made you feel less than for something she answered yes too. That is also weird, like what if her uncle or a much older gentleman undressed infront of her - she’s saying that would automatically turn her on??
@@nataliesassano8976 it was New York so it's definitely illegal.... But I couldn't do anything or my homophobic parents would know what really happened and at this point it's too late. I was also there for seven years as a camper and then staff and the girl who told on me to the camp (a different girl) it was her first year there. They didn't even check to see if what she said was true, just notified me that I was kicked out.
@@nataliesassano8976 also, the other girl who interrogated me, I don't know who she is. She just walking in on me and a bunch of my other friends and after she left they were all like, she needs help
@@shoshimonster5451 Wow that camp is horrible. They’re acting like you offended or harassed someone there when you’re just being who you are. At least your friends had your back, I couldn’t imagine handling all that alone
You just earned a subscriber here. Keep up the good work. This topic about discrimination towards LGBTQIA or just discrimination in general regardless of gender needs to be discussed not only in South Korea but in other parts of the world as well.
Istg if I was in her position I would've scolded him so much lmao. I have a lot of friends who are part of LGBTQ and so am I. If in ever found out someone I knew was disrespecting anybody part of lgbtq I ouldve been so mad lol. Ty for making lots of lgbtq content for the past few months!!
Bro fr said “he’s gay so he’s attracted to all men” in this situation if I was Hongjoon I would have said: “You’re straight, doesn’t that mean you’re attracted to all women?” I know it was a prank but seriously I got so mad TT… meaning that Hongjoon and Joontaek were amazing actors!
I'm glad to see the concept of this video. At least these women's feelings reflect kindness and well understanding, even actually there would be 'some' other people in real life who still hate LGBTQ+ but hopefully it will get better and better soon.
I wonder if you guys could ever make a video like this but with guys. Girls are likely more sweet and understanding. I wonder how guys would react if put in that position, or I it was someone transgender, I’m so curious in these types of vids. thank you for posting 🏳️🌈💗
They’re doing an amazing job with shining a light on the gay community in South Korea whether it be discrimination or bias, I’ve started to love this channel more and more as a gay/les myself ❤
Yes. I have been kicked out of my job when someone who worked with me told them I was bisexual and they didn't even verify with me, they just kicked me out
It's heartbreaking to watch or hear about the painful experiences that you are forced to endure just because of who you love. It's good that such videos highlight the prejudices in society. I'm a straight woman, and I got backlash at work from older employees for not refusing to work with freelance gay staff - 2 guys in their 20s. One was my manager, who hated gay people because of his religious beliefs. He never promoted despite being very good at what I did. I moved on to another job, and I have no regrets for doing the right thing. Both guys were amazing humans, and they both had experienced rejection from close family members once they came out. I thought they were both very brave for living their lives on their own terms and not hiding in the closet.
As soon as dude started talking about AIDS, I would've turned on teacher-mode and given a long, boring lecture about HIV/AIDS. It's almost impossible to change the mind of a homophobe, but if I can at least educate the person on basic medical knowledge, maybe that person learned something.
If someone said something like that to me, I will cry immediately and just leave that spot ignore that guy. I don't understand why they always think something like that
I'm so happy that the woman stood up against the guy, most people would ignore or just be homophobic together, but she stood up! I don't usually see that much but seeing this makes my heart really happy ❤
it will in 3300yrs. nations with very strong cultures and national identities take multiple generations to make change especially ones with very strict social norms
luckily I've never been in a situation like this, the closest I can think of is someone saying "that's gay" and I asked why, they couldn't explain. I find that often when someone is so hateful to gay people they may be gay & hate themselves for it because of Christianity
Sapir-Whorf hypothesis, not everything means the same in between language, and each cultures have specific ways to speak about them. I would guess that because the Korean gay community is marginalized, this either mean lack of feminity, or that there is nothing wrong with being gay.
These girls are too patient. If that was me I would have already slapped some sense into him, I don’t stand for that crap. Maybe I’m just to hot headed but I would’ve been more rude
Let this be a lesson to EVERYONE! We are all human beings no matter what. The respect and aspect of friendships and peers don't change for the person that's gay or whatever. It just upsets me how two words can change people.
@Based Adonis It shouldn’t matter if it’s even a small touch, we are all human beings no one should be treated different based on what gender they are attracted to.
@Based Adonis I also get it if someone doesn’t want to be touched, but mentioning them being gay literally has nothing to do with it. It’s just random judging.
@Based Adonis people accidentally touch each other like brushing of hands/fingers or pat on shoulder etc since youre straight, does it mean every girl who does that to you likes you that way? NO. ridiculous. lgbt ppl have types too and they dont go around liking everyone of the same gender as them. get over your head
@Based Adonis if someone doesn’t want to be touched male or female they should be respected. But there is no reason to be homophobic, them being gay has nothing to do with physical contact.
Okay but In general I hate when there is a homophobic person that thinks a gay person is even interested in them💀like what makes them think that just because someone is gay they are automatically attracted to them?
As a queer person myself, I would have cried and ofc, stood up for him. Since I'm not Korean, I would be a little harder to shut his bullshit. I'm happy for the girls who defend him. ✨
If I was even in a situation where someone else was being jabbed at like that, I would stand up for them, even if my homophobic parents where around and I would get a talking to when I got home (my parents wouldn't say anything in public) it's worth it for me to stand up for someone else. Obviously, I'd my parents were not there I would bring up personal situations that happened to me as well for the argument
I think it's unnecesary to label people as straight or gay. People are people. That's it. What we do in our private life shouldn't be of anyone's concern.
I know this is supposed to be serious but I'll never get over the (EAST?)Asian (?) use of perfectionally matching soundeffects....at first I found them a bit silly and cringe but now I am so into the deep I literally wished to have that soundboard in real life.^^
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In this type of situation, a perfect go to line would be: "Being gay doesn't mean I don't have standards 🙃 ". A shot to the heart🤣
Pahah sadly 80% of humanity suffer from this experince to have those jokes only when the situation is over the other 20% are lucky express train brains.
I read a Tweet one time where a girl came out to her friends and they paused awkwardly. Her next line was "Don't worry, I only date pretty girls".
@@VeraExora That's pretty savage 🤣 but funny at the same time
Even that hurt me. Ouch.
haha I still remember back in school, a homophobic classmate (guy) was making offensive remark about another gay classmate. The final straw was when he said "eww i hope he doesn't like me". Another girl told him "Girls don't even like you, what makes you think gay guys will like you? Have you seen gay guys? Most of them are fit and clean up well." He stfu so fast 🤣
She should have told the straight guy, “im not attracted to you, just so we don’t misunderstand”
I though the same thing!
I thought the same thing!!
Sometimes even saying that doesn't work. They either get mad at you and say they can change you.
This reminds me of the time someone asked me if I would get turned on if a women undressed in front of me... I returned the question to her and asked would you get turned on if a man undressed in front of you? Trying to get her to see how uncomfortable it is to be asked that kind of question but she didn't get it and said yes I would and then asked again if I would get turned on if a women got undressed in front of me so I just told her no and she acted surprised. (in ftm bisexual but she only knew the second one cuz she walked in on me and my friend who is straight, holding hands and asked if we're lesbian. Even after we denied and the whole Convo mentioned above happened she walked out and yelled to the whole camp we were in at the time, there's a lesbian couple in that room)
Wait I'm confused, so the straight guy ain't part of the prank?
I'm so proud of the girls that they stood up and started to protect the guy, that needs courage! Komao
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The guy stated his boundaries from the beginning, the gay guy should have realised and not be too friendly, stay professional, like not taking someone's phone unless given....
@@Dartist0231. this was an act in case u didn't watch the video or understand the concept ❤
2. stop being weird in the comments it's embarrassing
@@enhybun Was that really something that needed to be explained, I believe the person being weird is you, to be so emotional over an observation is strange....
@@Dartist023 no, you felt the need to reply to more than one comment saying the same thing and justifying the way actor overreacted. it's an exaggerated act supposed to make ppl uncomfortable about the prejudice and show how ridiculous it is. it's supposed to show how small things can be seen in a bad light and reacted to in an aggressive way simply because someone is gay.
These women are so kind. The woman in beige was especially good at showing her disapproval.
yeah, when he said to him "i am straight" she was immediately getting weird vibes and asked "so what?" like why the fuck are you even saying that bro
I always remember being on a date with a Korean guy in Seoul. The table next to us asked the staff to request we leave as they didn't want to see a gay couple talking or having a meal. And guess what, the staff asked us to leave. I was shocked!
Wow that's a terrible thing! I would have kicked out the ones complaining. Obviously you two didn't do anything bad.
what the hell??? im so sorry :(
@Based Adonis you literally go and comment homophobic things on all videos pls stfu nobody wants to hear your justification of why lgbt people are discriminated against
That’s awful! I’m sorry you needed to go through that
@Based Adonis but when a business chooses to not serve someone solely because of their sexuality, something they can't control, then that's discrimination. They may have the right to choose who they serve, but that doesn't make it right. You can't just deny someone basic human rights. Gay people have the right to eat at a restaurant just the same as straight people, and for straight people to be the ones who can dictate who can and can't be there based off sexuality is ridiculous.
It's sad that people can act this way out of a social experiment. I find that even if you do not like a person, simply choose to avoid them or keep your personal thoughts and opinions to yourself!
That's what I like about my parents (although I have no idea how they would react if I came out cuz I'm their child) but in public and in front of people they won't say anything. Only when we are at home and by ourselves do they voice they're disapproval
In another video of a Korean woman with a fullbody tattoo, a lot of Korean comments were of the mindset that if she has the right to be publicly be seen like that, then they apparently have the right to be publicly disgusted and share their public opinion. Which is dumb bc that mindset (even if tattoos in whatever culture matters differently) is still rude. Just show common courtesy and respect your fellow humans. But a lot of ppl will use "different culture" as an excuse.
@@TheKuroArisu different culture isn't an excuse. It's just a blatant fact, that if some one can choose how ever they wish to look, any one can choose to say what ever of that look. Call it rude, but if you really support freedom and expression, you have to acept the bad with the good.
both of the guys were a part of the prank so we were watching for the girl's reaction. he's not actually homophobic. but I agree for people who would actually react like that!
Just stay away from children.
As a fellow lesbian, I just want to tell everyone at Shine teen that I really apreciate you guys! You have been dishing out so much LGBTQ+ content recently and giving the community a lot of support. Thank you💖🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Edit: guys, just report the homophobic comments instead of replying to them cuz you're unintentionally adding fuel to the fire♥️
Same as a gay guy
@Based Adonis shush😂
@Based Adonis same to u
@Based Adonis the guy who's Islamic messenger is a pedo is speaking LMAO 😹😹 god forgive muhammad for his disgusting pedo behaviour.
Me to 😇😇😋😋🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
SHINE TEEN is literally PAYING TRIBUTE to the gay community these past couple of months. As a gay person myself, I just wanna say thank you, really! You earned a subscriber 🤍
@Based Adonis No the only thing that is “cringe” is your comment. Like please gone somewhere with all that!
That’s why I subscribed as well.
@Based Adonis the one saying cringe stuff if you 💀
@Based Adonis …but I do that often with my friends-
@Based Adonis I’m not trying to be quirky damn it, it’s how I type .-. And since that I’m used to it I always have the urge to do so UNTIL I change again
Part 2? The one where men react to homophobia
THIS
Yeah!!👀
THIS WE NEED THIS
they'll probably agree
@@whyyjay u don’t know that
can we just appreciate how good at acting they are
Definitely acting
@@doritosmax5177 i meant the ones who were pranking the other two
@@markleesbruisedknee Only the woman was getting pranked.
Poor girl was ready to throw hands before she knew it was a prank. I was so frustrated watching even though I knew it was a prank, I wanted to throw hands too. Bless your soul my Eunji, keep standing up for people wronged.
Agreed. I knew it was a prank but seriously it made me so mad watching this TT
Acting was compelling and the girls were awesome with how they reacted to the situation and stood up for the mistreatment.
Even though they seem to be really sweet and soft spoken they stood up for what's right. Eunji even looked like she was containing her anger to not throw hands. Awesome video, the world needs more people like them
There is this Korean dude that a friend of mine met when she was studying in Korea, and he was very well academically educated and seemed very polite, he gave a very chill, quiet type of vibe. He came to see my friend a couple of times and we all hung out, he seemed like he was such a kind person. Then, he went to the army, got extremely fit, and apparently got a new personality as well. Unbeknownst to her, my friend kindly invited him to spend Christmas with her and her family, and after having a dinner to which he was late because he was watching a movie, and didn't eat because he had already eaten prior to that, they went out and got drunk. He started saying the most transphobic, misogynist and homophobic things my friend had ever heard. Stuff like " if you're trans I will spit on you". Gays???? Ah no, don't give me that shit, I don't do that, they're disgusting. Women? Oh they're from a different species than men, we are literally so much better. " My friend is also a part of the LGBTQ+ community, and when she told him that he was like oh but you're a women, so that's fine, what's not okay are gay men ☠️☠️☠️☠️ The worst part is that when my friend asked to her other friends from Korea if they knew he was like that, they all told her they had known all along, that they saw his homophobia, transphobia and misogyny from a mile away. 🥲🥲🥲 Incredibly sad.
Oh girl.. one way to discover the truth of how people actually act is to see them drunk. I also got drunk with a “friend” of 5 years a few months ago, and she started saying the most homophobic things to me (I’m lesbian) like saying she don’t support me etc , etc. it’s disgusting.
yap. men accepting and excusing other men's behavior is the worst part.
I saw a comment asking for a part 2 where they bring men to react to homophobia. and somehow I feel like if they're chosen randomly, this video might turn out not how we hope it will, cause they might end up silent, if not in agreement, so...
@@noone-gf5op Yes and even if they are not homophobic they can be silent for fear of being called gay
@@noone-gf5opStraight men make me very, very nervous...
I'd instantly step up to defend him. No matter who was saying shit about him.
as a bisexual and closeted trans guy, I just want to really thank you for this kind of content too! even though a lot of the times our experiences may not be as expressively aggressive as this one, people have a lot of ignorance in their heart and that hurts to hear. so, thank you for spreading awareness ☺️💜!!
I love your pfp!!! And I 100 percent agree, I am also bi and currently questioning orientation and I'm so happy they cover stuff like this
Ew
@@Eugene-tq2krhomophobic ass ;-;
im mlm and transmasc too !!
It's amazing that they stood up for him, it's so hard to handle it head on
I’d join the other guy
@@Eugene-tq2kr learn to shut up babe
as a korean man, Korean ppl like to discriminate others. others based on university they graduated, regions where they are from , foreinger, of course sexual orientation, skin colour, poor ppl, etc etc. so there is this "discrimination law"차별금지법 that has been pending for years now to pass. the worst thing is korean ppl dont even realize they are discrimitory when they are actually saying and doing it
thats so sad... I mean, everywhere has discrimination to some degree and in some ways, but I do know its pretty bad in some parts of east asia, and that feels like such a suffocating environment to grow in. instead of accepting each other and assessing someone based on their personality and who they are, every little dry fact about you is a chance to lower you and see you as lesser than for no reason.
Bigotry and discrimination in highly collectivistic countries where people are generally expected to get along and maintain group harmony can be WILD.
In Western countries where individualism, free speech, and direct communication are prioritized, things like these often do not go as unnoticed, thus, allowing people to speak their minds and stand up for one another (even if they're total strangers).
Although I am part of the LGBTQ+ community, I do have to mention that there are queers who dislike discrimination law too though. It's like the Affirmative Action system. It certainly has good purpose, but it doesn't abide by the constitution. It's more likely to do more harm than good, regarding the freedom of expression. *Even contempt is protected by the freedom of expression.* Discrimination law is prone to failure, and to not make it fail, we have to change the actual constitution.
I literally ended a friendship that was bordering on a relationship due to a person like this.
It came out of left field with no warning too; I'd gone to visit them and we were walking around town. I saw a couple of guys walking the opposite way hand in hand and kind of giggled to myself; I like seeing people being open about themselves like that.
Then he chipped in and was like 'I'm not homophobic but I hate it when they do that in public where I can see them. It makes me uncomfortable and they should do it elsewhere'. I'm not confrontational but that blew my mind, I immediately retorted with 'You can't say that!' We had a conversation a little later about why he felt that way and I was like 'Does it make you uncomfortable?' Yes, 'is it going to hurt or directly affect your wellbeing?' tried to say that just seeing it was enough of an excuse to say that 'those people' shouldn't be out in public.
A few months later, things were still dicey, and then he dropped a freakin' atom bomb of 'I don't get Trans people they shouldn't exist. They just do it for attention'🙂🔪
Bro was lucky that he was the other side of the country otherwise I might well have committed homocide. My best friend is a trans man, my mom has a friend who is a trans woman that I clearly remember from my childhood prior to her transition. I spent most of my teen years horse riding and there were quite the number of LGBTQ+ people there. That's where it ended. I absolutely refused to associate myself with someone that would actively complain because they're uncomfortable or don't understand these kinds of things about people that don't even affect him!
He tried to get in touch in the end but I blocked him. There's a lot of things that I'm uncomfortable with especially regarding social interactions but it doesn't give me an excuse to put other people down for it. Uh, he was also low key racist too. I don't remember much about that side of things because I was done.
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Very off topic, but Eunji is so adorable 😢💕
HE IS SO PRECIOUS. I’D PROTECT THIS MAN AND THROW HANDS FR. You don’t deserve to bullied or hated for who you are or who you love. Just because you are a “straight man” doesn’t mean every gay man out there is attracted to you, its just like not all women are attracted to you.
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@@joosh2313 we don't need a face reveal
@@joosh2313 ah, its satisfying seeing tiktok humour boys go raid youtube comments, because they are offended by someone's preferences and point of view
@@joosh2313 get a job
@@joosh2313 Here we go again, an insecure 13 year old boy
As a lesbian these kind words from the girls and boy made me happy. Thank you for this video.
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i know it’s hard to stand up against discrimination when it’s so unexpected, but I’m not kidding I would sock that dude in the face ~ sincerely, the B in LGBTQ
Toda la razón
xD Same Same, a fellow B
ur gay ass wouldn’t do anything 😭
Sign me up too!
Great video and great people! 💜
I think it would be interesting to see a counterpart like "Men reacting to homophobia" to see other points of view 🤩
This one time I was in Korea and me and my boyfriend (now fiancé) were kissing goodbye at the subway station and this ajusshi started yelling at us, complaining that Korea wasn't like America and we couldn't do that. Then this one guy passing by with his headphones on literally jumped to our side, took them off, started arguing in a quiet and calm manner with the old guy and then turned to us and said "just ignore him" and walked away. It truly is the smallest of things that make a difference
Sexual preference is not a defining characteristic for a person. It's one aspect but it does not determine badness or goodness. I have gay friends and this made me choke up and cry a little. Be kind guys! And kudos to the ladies who stood up for what is right.
I’ll be kind alright but not to homosexuals
@@B4mbyeyesYou must be proud of your bigotry and ignorance. Just imagine a loved one of yours (like a close family member) being gay and getting mistreated by society for it, you wouldn't give a f*ck either?
@@B4mbyeyes uhm? why would people care if you are a bad human? you will just face your own karma
@@maze_runner098 no I will not I’ve been getting luck my entire life no karma here 🦾
@@B4mbyeyessame but not to homophobes
even though I know it's a prank I felt angry HAJSJAJSJAHS
Same and it also brought me back to some of my own experiences...
I felt so happy until the prank was over then I was angry
@@Eugene-tq2krget reported 😍
i love eunji she was so real for this
Good to know those 2 guys are actually good friends!
WOW! I kind of forgot this was an experiment and I was getting upset… But, I’m glad he did not mean any of that, though I know there are actually people like this, which is why I praise those from the LGBTQ community who have already come out and been brave enough to do so, and then there is me, bisexual and not Brave enough to tell that I am bisexual… I hope soon people realize that those from the LGBTQ community have the right to love who they want as well and I also want to be able to live who I wanna love ✨
He played that part little to well 😔
Ikr. Made me so mad even though I knew he was acting. I got upset.
@@aishakhatib685 exactly (i dont why but i always feel something's off with him.....)
@@simonesaldanha7110 please separate the actor from the real person
@@pennify2079 i know that. I dont even know him to judge him. Its just what i have felt from the previous videos.
Which means he's a good actor
Honestly it’s sickening that people in real life actually think that homosexuality is “unnatural” and treats it like an infectious virus. As a homosexual myself, I absolutely have no tolerance whatsoever to any kind of behaviour like that from people in real life. We should all be allowed to live our lives as the people we are
Welcome to Thailand, we respect each other no matter what your gender ❤🇹🇭
I am impressed, They really are so closed , It was great how the girls acted .
I am an ally for the LGBTQ+ community, and I have a friend who came out to my friend group years ago as lesbian. One of our friends immediately showed their colors as very homophobic and insensitive, which we weren't expecting. They said things like "Just to be clear Im straight, don't get ideas, don't touch me, leave me alone".
It absolutely pissed me off. The logic and offensive language makes no sense. That friend has a straight guy friend and he playfully hits her all the time and there's no issue, why not tell him not to touch you too incase he gets ideas?? Its such a double standard and very hypocritical. Just because someone is gay, bisexual, whatever doesn't mean they are attracted to everyone with that gender (ex: a gay person doesn't like every man in existence, a lesbian doesn't like every female). Just like how you as a straight individual may not like everyone of the opposite sex. Love is love, and people who want to get in other people's business and make it about themselves somehow and get offended and rude can just f*** right off.
It's really true!! I was kicked out of a summer camp lifeguard job when I was 18 (I'm 19 now) and before they had found me a way home, me and my friend one night were with a few of our other friends and since there was nowhere else to sit the two of us were laying on the floor and holding hands, as friends do. Another girl came in and asked us if we were dating and I said no, she is straight, so this girl started questioning me and asked me what I was so I answered honestly since I was already kicked out for it I told her I was bisexual and she asked me if I would get turned on my any girl undressing in front of me. I wanted her to understand how awkward and uncomfortable that question was so I directed it back at her and asked would you get turned on if any random man undressed in front of you? She didn't take the hint, answered yes seriously, and proceeded to ask me again a few more times. When I satisfied her with enough no's she walked out of the room and yelled to the whole camp, there's a lesbian couple in there. I was gone the next day. My parents still don't know the real reason I was kicked out.
@@shoshimonster5451 oh my gosh that’s horrible and honestly if it’s not illegal where you live it should be. Firing someone for their sexual orientation is both none of the employers business and also has nothing to do with work and is biased and prejudiced.
As for your friend it’s ridiculous how she interrogated you and made you feel less than for something she answered yes too. That is also weird, like what if her uncle or a much older gentleman undressed infront of her - she’s saying that would automatically turn her on??
@@nataliesassano8976 it was New York so it's definitely illegal.... But I couldn't do anything or my homophobic parents would know what really happened and at this point it's too late. I was also there for seven years as a camper and then staff and the girl who told on me to the camp (a different girl) it was her first year there. They didn't even check to see if what she said was true, just notified me that I was kicked out.
@@nataliesassano8976 also, the other girl who interrogated me, I don't know who she is. She just walking in on me and a bunch of my other friends and after she left they were all like, she needs help
@@shoshimonster5451 Wow that camp is horrible. They’re acting like you offended or harassed someone there when you’re just being who you are. At least your friends had your back, I couldn’t imagine handling all that alone
I need that even just 1% of confidence that straight guy have in himself 🤷♀️🤷♀️
I cant believe koreans can be this vocal against homophobia I am so happy for this . i hope the world follows their footsteps
When I first came out, I had these interactions all the time. It became a social minefield. Thanks for shedding light on LGBT experiences
Sad thing is there are really people like this out there but I love the way the girls were ready to fight and stand for him!
How his behavior changed when he found out the other guy is gay. Like, what's wrong with being gay😭
THESE HANDS WOULD'VE FLEW. MY ANGER ISSUES CAN'T.
At first when I came out of my Korean mother about being bi she wasn’t accepting but after like a few years she finally accepted
It’s just like being straight- if I’m straight does that mean I have a crush on every girl I see? No. Same with being gay, (which I actually am)
I love this girl stood up for someone who can't do it themself❤
i didnt realize they were pranking two girls until the end wow haha
But it says in the title, "social experiment". Isn't it obvious this is all just an experiment?
Everyone of us want to have a friend like her who can defend everyone . Thats really an heroic move . I salute for her
Oh my God, every person has the right to personal happiness. Can’t interfere in someone else’s life and can’t judge someone else’s choices.
You just earned a subscriber here. Keep up the good work. This topic about discrimination towards LGBTQIA or just discrimination in general regardless of gender needs to be discussed not only in South Korea but in other parts of the world as well.
Imagine being so utterly TERRIFIED of a guy that likes other guys that you can't even compute with them being civil and giving you their hand.
The way Eunji looked like she was about to curse Joontaek out at any moment is so me 😅
I allways asked myself how the people who has to act as the “bad people” for the social experiments must feel… 😔😕
I was so focused on the story I forgot there was two girls n I didn’t realize they kept switching to the other 💀😭
Homophobia is real.Gay is not dirty.people should not label gay people with this word.
8:26 그는 그녀를 껴안으려 한다 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 너무 귀엽다 🥺🥺❤
i live for people normalizing lgbtq+ we need more like this 🏳️🌈
Keep up the good work more love from Nigeria
Istg if I was in her position I would've scolded him so much lmao. I have a lot of friends who are part of LGBTQ and so am I. If in ever found out someone I knew was disrespecting anybody part of lgbtq I ouldve been so mad lol. Ty for making lots of lgbtq content for the past few months!!
남자분이 연기 잘한다 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 난 진짜 열받았음 ㅋㅋㅋ
The way that there are ACTUALLY people like this in the world… 😭
Bro fr said “he’s gay so he’s attracted to all men” in this situation if I was Hongjoon I would have said: “You’re straight, doesn’t that mean you’re attracted to all women?”
I know it was a prank but seriously I got so mad TT… meaning that Hongjoon and Joontaek were amazing actors!
I'm glad to see the concept of this video. At least these women's feelings reflect kindness and well understanding, even actually there would be 'some' other people in real life who still hate LGBTQ+ but hopefully it will get better and better soon.
There is no korean comments, it tells a lot. Korea has a long way to go
I wonder if you guys could ever make a video like this but with guys. Girls are likely more sweet and understanding. I wonder how guys would react if put in that position, or I it was someone transgender, I’m so curious in these types of vids. thank you for posting 🏳️🌈💗
I'M SORRY BUT-THE HANDS TOUCHING GOT ME CACKLING.
The: "caus ur gay " was driving me craaaazyyyyy!! Even tho I knew it wasn’t real. So I imagine if this happens to someone in real life.
They’re doing an amazing job with shining a light on the gay community in South Korea whether it be discrimination or bias, I’ve started to love this channel more and more as a gay/les myself ❤
Thank you so much for the lgbtq+ videos💗💗💗
When straight men act like that, i normally would say "Don't worry, i'm only into hot guys".
I know it's not a nice thing to say but still...
unfortunately, this scenario happens in real life. with or without camera, harsh discriminations happen around the world.
Yes. I have been kicked out of my job when someone who worked with me told them I was bisexual and they didn't even verify with me, they just kicked me out
@@shoshimonster5451 wtf why? WTF thats something fuckup
@@shoshimonster5451 im sorry this happened to you. just want to know Which country are you living?
@@Angelo-qw7gn in new York in America
@@shoshimonster5451 I'm surprised, isn't America more progressive with LGBT? why did they kick u out
lmao, when they told her it was a prank and started cackling I started rofl 😂😂😂😂
I'm telling you laughing is contagious 😂😂😂😂
Joontaek: "Gay means man loves man right?"
Me: Yeah but doesn't necessarily you though. 🤣
I actually thought he was being serious of what he was saying but it was all just a prank I got teary eyed because I’m bisexual so it took me 😅
There's no way I would have reacted so politely like those girls cuz I would have already thrown hands and get very mad at him😅
It's heartbreaking to watch or hear about the painful experiences that you are forced to endure just because of who you love. It's good that such videos highlight the prejudices in society.
I'm a straight woman, and I got backlash at work from older employees for not refusing to work with freelance gay staff -
2 guys in their 20s. One was my manager, who hated gay people because of his religious beliefs. He never promoted despite being very good at what I did. I moved on to another job, and I have no regrets for doing the right thing. Both guys were amazing humans, and they both had experienced rejection from close family members once they came out. I thought they were both very brave for living their lives on their own terms and not hiding in the closet.
As soon as dude started talking about AIDS, I would've turned on teacher-mode and given a long, boring lecture about HIV/AIDS. It's almost impossible to change the mind of a homophobe, but if I can at least educate the person on basic medical knowledge, maybe that person learned something.
“Just because I’m gay doesn’t mean I don’t have a taste” would have been funny 😂
as a gay man i feel comforted that they have the strength to confront and help him understand he was wrong
I definitely want to see men's reaction
If someone said something like that to me, I will cry immediately and just leave that spot ignore that guy. I don't understand why they always think something like that
I think no one likes to be discriminated or persecuted for being gay so it's not a choice. It's who we are and God created me like this.
In this situation people like him are naturally CRAZY 😂😂
I'm happy to have a gay friend
Lol cuz he touches you?
I'm so happy that the woman stood up against the guy, most people would ignore or just be homophobic together, but she stood up! I don't usually see that much but seeing this makes my heart really happy ❤
hope korean society will be more open to the lgbtqia community
it will in 3300yrs. nations with very strong cultures and national identities take multiple generations to make change especially ones with very strict social norms
Joontaek and his voice is perfect for making situations uncomfortable 🤣🤣🤣
That guy was so good at acting like a JERK!
luckily I've never been in a situation like this, the closest I can think of is someone saying "that's gay" and I asked why, they couldn't explain. I find that often when someone is so hateful to gay people they may be gay & hate themselves for it because of Christianity
Hongjoon: Hi guys I am a normal gay
Me: What in the queer is a “normal“ gay??
Sapir-Whorf hypothesis, not everything means the same in between language, and each cultures have specific ways to speak about them.
I would guess that because the Korean gay community is marginalized, this either mean lack of feminity, or that there is nothing wrong with being gay.
shine teen always post LGBT stuff and im LOVING IT, thanks!
These girls are too patient. If that was me I would have already slapped some sense into him, I don’t stand for that crap. Maybe I’m just to hot headed but I would’ve been more rude
@Based Adonis hell yeah bae, smack that head off
@@satanslittleprince LMFAO
1:46 Eunjiiiii SLAYYY QUEEEN
Dang, they're both so good at acting thoughhh
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Let this be a lesson to EVERYONE! We are all human beings no matter what. The respect and aspect of friendships and peers don't change for the person that's gay or whatever. It just upsets me how two words can change people.
This video is truly 😐 showed how they(Straight) thinking, about gay is When we touch them are mean we like Him, 👏👏 lmao
isnt that what homophobes think tho
that gay ppl like every single man in the universe
its so stupid omg
@Based Adonis It shouldn’t matter if it’s even a small touch, we are all human beings no one should be treated different based on what gender they are attracted to.
@Based Adonis I also get it if someone doesn’t want to be touched, but mentioning them being gay literally has nothing to do with it. It’s just random judging.
@Based Adonis people accidentally touch each other like brushing of hands/fingers or pat on shoulder etc since youre straight, does it mean every girl who does that to you likes you that way? NO. ridiculous.
lgbt ppl have types too and they dont go around liking everyone of the same gender as them. get over your head
@Based Adonis if someone doesn’t want to be touched male or female they should be respected. But there is no reason to be homophobic, them being gay has nothing to do with physical contact.
결국 사람들은 성가신 여성이나 남성을 포함하여 다른 사람들의 선호도를 존중해야 합니다. 실제 생활에서 이런 장난이 일어나더라도 다른 사람들은 자신의 선택에 만족해야 합니다. bl커플 존경해요
Okay but In general I hate when there is a homophobic person that thinks a gay person is even interested in them💀like what makes them think that just because someone is gay they are automatically attracted to them?
Fr, they completely forget the fact that 'standards' exists.
the girl is so sweet stop😭😭💕💕
As a queer person myself, I would have cried and ofc, stood up for him. Since I'm not Korean, I would be a little harder to shut his bullshit.
I'm happy for the girls who defend him. ✨
If I was even in a situation where someone else was being jabbed at like that, I would stand up for them, even if my homophobic parents where around and I would get a talking to when I got home (my parents wouldn't say anything in public) it's worth it for me to stand up for someone else. Obviously, I'd my parents were not there I would bring up personal situations that happened to me as well for the argument
I think it's unnecesary to label people as straight or gay. People are people. That's it. What we do in our private life shouldn't be of anyone's concern.
I know this is supposed to be serious but I'll never get over the (EAST?)Asian (?) use of perfectionally matching soundeffects....at first I found them a bit silly and cringe but now I am so into the deep I literally wished to have that soundboard in real life.^^