Asking Disrespectful Questions To Lesbian🌈🌈
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- Опубликовано: 19 окт 2024
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when i always talk with my guy friends about lgbtq+ topics, they get really stereotypical and it's hard to talk through to them, they won't even ask me about things and i AM gay like totally gay, so i wish people actually asked those questions, so that they become aware of how things really work. i wanted to just express my mind because it's always frustrating how narrow-minded some people can be
Hi again..you can possibly be a man bruh..youre possibly a straight man..youre not a gay..no such thing as gay woman..all women are bi
pls be respectful or get out of here. it's rude not to respect someone's pronouns or identity. and no, i'm not a gay man, just gay and awesome af thank u
oh also, imposing a gender term on someone is literally putting them in tge closet and invalidating their identity so please learn more about it or just don't comment at all, wish you a good day
@@scaramouchessimp3744 Im not disrespecting anyone..prove me wrong if you can..I had a conversation with a relative who is an ftm transman..starting with me asking about what makes him think he is a man..and that conversation ended up with me giving up accepting 2 facts I never accepted..1- all women are bisexual..2- people can actually be born in the wrong body..
I swear My attention wasnt to offen you in anyway on the contrary..if you are only attracted to women and never been with a man and never ever want to be..it means youre a man born in s woman's body..nothing is disrespectful about this at all..
@@scaramouchessimp3744 go ahead prove it wrong..educate me..
I'm bisexual and nobody is interested in me. So, I kind of understand you, Taesang.
Same here i can understand too
Same 🤌🏻
How old are you?
Yes same here 🥺I can understand your feeling
@@misssumi3637 I'm 17
Empathy IS Intelligence !!!
Thanks again GIGGLE
As a lesbian I must say I've heard every single one of these questions.
Most of the time, if I'm close to the person or if I feel like they're just curious, I'll answer it. But if I feel like they're just being rude, I'll ignore them or give them a rude answer.
Some guys always asks if I want have sex with them. "You never slept with a man? How can you know you're a lesbian?" And I answer: "Well, have you slept with a man to know you're not gay?"
A guy from my old university would ask me if I wanted to have sex with him and his girlfriend everytime he got a new girlfriend.
everybody knows that when you start with "as a lesbian", then you're not a lesbian, you have more r word fantasies with men than fantasies about leather purses.
seriously I've never heard Ellen ever start by saying "as a lesbian" lol it's like you're trying to convince yourself or something.
Giggle is so good at addressing these social situations with respect and poise! Keep up the great work, Giggle!!
Thank you so much for the LGBTQ content! It's so refreshing and important to see acceptance from all over the world. I am a lesbian and it makes my heart happy! 🥰
Stfu get lost thuiii 🤮
Yeah u are right iam also Lesbian 🙃
Yup I like it too 😌
I like that Jihoo is here too.
If Yumi had a chance she could've hit on her 🤣🤣🤣
They're so cute
"Why do people ask these kind of questions?"
-For the same reason bisexuals or homosexuals are never interested in heterosexual affairs, REPRESENTATION. Media representation, for example, has had a tight leash on lgbtq news or has always steered away from it until very recently. Five years? Maybe ten, at the most. That's how long it's been since lgbtq has started to become ACTUALLY normalized. In the future, people will no longer ask these questions because they already know the answer.
LGBTQ will never be normalized
If u get out of ur filter bubble ,more than 90% of people will always be heterosexual
I love the LGBTQ content here! As a bisexual, this made my heart happy.
Mine too
She's not a lesbian, she's bisexual. Maybe the crew didn't know before the question came up, but you could have titled the video accurately.
she introduced herself at the beginning of the video as lesbian,, maybe she feels it aligns with her overall preference more. She did say she would have to consider it first before dating a man.
@@CheeryCherri She calls herself bisexual IN THE VIDEO. Also you don't get to decide if you're a lesbian or not, it's something you are or aren't. She's willing to date men and she didn't hesitate to say so, she's not a lesbian.
Yeah, I feel like she thinks that the word lesbian is an umbrella term rather than a strict term overall I think she's not educated enough on lgbt labels and topics...
@@McDougal_ I was recently watching videos of Miss Grand Thailand 2022 her name is Engfa and she is in love with one of the other contestants name Charlotte, they were a shipped couple during the contest, but when questions were asked to her by the media about dating experience she seem not to know the difference between studs and tomboys. And I have been reading comments where it is said that many Asian countries doesn't distinguish. LGBTQ+ labels well. So maybe it might be a culture thing. Go search for videos with the title ( Englot ) which is a blending of their names.
@@goodysmarts This woman and the crew know the difference, because the woman used the term bisexual herself and explained it within the video. Stud isn't a sexuality and neither is tomboy, those are nicknames for personal styles. IDK if you're gay or not but it's shocking that you think slang is the same thing as a sexuality. Especially since slang is different in every language and sexualities are the same globally.
As a les myself....I still dunno so many things about my own community so I'm glad that I'm getting to learn watching this vid....thanks to Giggle 🥰
your community loves straight women, your girlfriend will always imagine kissing her secret straight girl crush while kissing you, also your community struggles with self love, a woman will never be happy until she loves herself, and a lesbian can never love herself because her favorite woman will never be herself, it will always be another woman
is that enough info about your community?, yw..God Bless. NOT
Read my about, you'll see all the information you need about your community 😂
Jihoo is so handsome, I'd give her my number hopefully she'd take it and I wouldn't even make her "come out" to me like she said she usually does because I don't care either way... My heart fluttered so everything else we can talk about later but it wouldn't change anything
Great content..I knew i love this channel for a reason
I just want to say I'm so happy that you told her that if any question makes her too uncomfortable to answer to just skip it. When doing these sorts of videos, it's so important that the person answering the "rude" questions feels comfortable being there.
out of topic but taesang is so pretty 😭
Thank you for this interview..it helps is to explore the things that we don't know..bt some curious questions were harsh so don't ever ask that type of questions to any other ones
i loved the video but i really wish you guys had titled the video correctly and made sure that during the conversation there was a distinction. lesbian is not the same thing as bisexual and bisexuals calling themselves lesbians can do a bit of harm and spread misconceptions. this is something the lesbian community is trying to work against because when you are calling yourself lesbian, it should mean you are actually a lesbian, you do not like men. that distinction has to be made. thank you.
I haven't watched you guys in so long omg anyways let's see what we have today
Jihoo is so attractive 😍
Love the diversity and LGBTQ content! From an Aroace Lesbian.
Excuse me for asking but how can you be aroace and lesbian at the same time? Not trying to be disrespectful, just want to understand.
@@snowbyul if I'm not mistaken they can be in a platonic relationship, yeah that kind of thing
@@Hellokitty_391 but if it is platonic then lesbian is not a suitable label, because it describes romantic and sexual attraction. platonic attraction does not apply to lesbianism or gay people in general, or else every girl who is friends with other girls would be considered lesbian.
@@snowbyul yeah you're right, I'm also curious bcz I only know about ace lesbian but aroace lesbian is kinda... makes no sense
@@Hellokitty_391yes it does, actually. First, both aromantism and asexuality are a SPECTRUM. meaning not everyone has 0% of these attractions. Also, queerplatonic and, Alertous attraction also exists. It’s pretty rude to say someone’s whole identity “makes no sense” when you are clearly ignorant. There’s nothing stopping you form saying you don’t know and just leaving it at that.
Came out in 2015 as a Lesbian, I'm 17 rn, I tried to fit in the "lesbian stereotype" bcs as a very femme lesbian, everyoneeee tells me I look straight and it gives me the nerves, but I hated trying to "fit in"..... Like, it wasnt me yk???? And sadly mostly men try to flirt with me and it's rare to have girls around me 😭😭 I always have to be the first one to take action
You knew you were a lesbian at the age of 9 and actively came out? Asking out of curiosity! I don’t even remember thinking about love and such a lot at this age.
@@jelena946 A lot of straight girls have had childhood boyfriends at very young ages, and I had the same with a girl. I was a very online child, so I had known about the lesbian movement afterwards, but i was still very young. i assume it was similar for sealah 🤷♀however i still didnt think i was a lesbian until i was a teenager, so it isnt weird youre surprised!
I feel you, related. 🥲
"my God"?, what God are you talking about bro?, your only God is that straight girl you imagine kissing while kissing your lesbian girlfriend and are willing to dump her for that straight girl, funny that girl does't even know you exist, and even if she does, she doesn't give a f if you disappear while you secretly dedicated your soul for her lol...yeah its funny why aren't you laughing :/
so proud of coming out 2015 as a low value woman who hates herself, you start to be attracted to women because you get tired of competing against them since you're not genetially well equipped to, and you start that Journey of self-loathing where you can never feel happy not just because God promises to Sabotage your projects for happiness as he made it clear "not letting the sinner enjoy", but also because of your inability to love and accept yourself because your favorite woman will never be yourself it will always be another woman, mostly a straight friend who doesn't give a f you exist.
I don't understand the idea of calling yourself a lesbian and then saying you're bi???
probably because she's a lesbian youtuber, as in, her content is about her lesbian relationship with her girlfriend and doesnt include men at all (so it'd be misleading if she'd promote herself as a bisexual youtuber)
Bi people do this all the time. 🙄
Yumi 😍
8:36 agree. Most people are on the spectrum with more preference to one side or just following the accepted majority even without thinking so.
I am here because Yumi ♥️
Hello giggle~~giggle 😍
Jihoo please come back to giggle you are so charming, and handsome/beautiful
Lots of fresh contents. Thank you
This is the humor i like
wait i love how she talks about spiritual love and physical love. i'm so gay. i love being a lesbian
The video is very good but why is the title "lesbian" if she said she's bisexual
She's a lesbian lol. I think you're confused by the subtitle. The "possibly" bisexual one is the guy.
Jihoo so handsome love to see him in a drama
Her*
idk how many times i've been asked "how do you know you don't like men if you haven't been with them?" my response lately is just "i don't like their hardware" lol because they don't except any other answer from you, then they're always like "its not all about sex!!" .... like that's clearly what you were insinuating.
Of course, by nature, people are curious, but I think it is far more important to ask questions that will help break stereotypes and help people to learn to ask questions that are not rude or offensive.
as long as you can like the same and opposite gender, you can identify as bisexual
Iam A Straight Girl But I always support LGBTQ coz in my view love is love nothing else is matter like gender, nationality, anything coz we should desire for love not gender and yumi said in Christian they through stone in LGBTQ but iam a Christian and Iam not dumb like them 🤣
The question "have you ever liked a straight girl" well "when i did my final blow she said it won't work" that's cuz nowadays especially people like acting gay for who knows what reason and maybe she just thought the person was just being friendly or close or being comfortable so she may have accepted the "jabs" and stuffs like small flirts as in a friendly way so if they knew the person was les or gay from the beginning then they may or maynot have kept their boundaries and stuff so they wouldn't misunderstand... So basically if it was a guy giving small flirts.. if she liked him maybe would've dated or something but since it was a girl the Person must've just thought of it as nothing and being casual...
respect 🥰🥰🥺
Repent
Aretha Franklin. ruclips.net/video/RTXszRHc0qs/видео.html
Yes respect
2:39 you can't always tell if someones gay because not all gay guys are feminine, as some might think. and tbh i dont like how even if a guy is feminine ppl assume they're gay when they might not me. So tbh i don't think u can recognize eachother unless they come out themselves
Ngl yumi looks like sae-byeok with her hair short
She said she's bisexual. WTH. She's not a lesbian.
Amazing video 👍
What is Kim Jihoo’s channel?
I'm gay and love it
Lesbian for Yumi
The question of who is the "man" during intercourse is because in gay couple there is top bottom.. and that is where this question usually stem from n, as typical couple is generally "men and women" kind of relationship such as butch and famme so its not suprising that question will arise as gay or straight people wont fully understand the relationship between lesbian.. my rude question will be, will a lesbian couple with a transgender? will the lesbian couple with a guy who become a girl? Or will she couple with a guy who is once a women? 🤔🤔
Omg, i have never hear about it. Sorry if u had to hear that phrase from a Christian😔💜
Oh that’s cool hehe😅
lesbian and bisexual are two different sexualities, i don't know if that got lost in translation but just so you guys know
I was recently watching videos of Miss Grand Thailand 2022 her name is Engfa and she is in love with one of the other contestants name Charlotte, they were a shipped couple during the contest, but when questions were asked to her by the media about dating experience she seem not to know the difference between studs and tomboys. And I have been reading comments where it is said that many Asian countries doesn't distinguish. LGBTQ+ labels well. So maybe it might be a culture thing. Go search for videos with the title ( Englot ) which is a blending of their names.
04:45, have you ever liked a straight girl?
me as straight male have a question: "have you ever liked or loved a lesbian?" 3 times! yes 3 times. I had 3 ex-girlfriends who actually a lesbian.
its hurt, confuse and funny also. there was a time when we were jealous to a same girl.
last week, when one of them broke up with her girlfriend, she called me and cried almost 2 hours until my phone run out bat.
we are still good friend (or friend with benefit? ah I don't know).
Ummm who’s krystal 😂
6:08 I gasped. "You people"?!?!?!? That's so, so disrespectful. I know this is supposed to be disrespectful questions but the phrasing of that is just so incredibly rude. I hope nobody ever sees this video and thinks that it's okay to refer to any group of humans as "you people". Maybe it's just a translation thing, but that way of saying it is super impolite. I wasn't expecting it because a lot of these questions can be asked nicely between friends with different wording, but that specific combo is just insane.
You do realize that it's "translated" right?
Why I just realized the guy looks a little like Song Joong Ki? Or is it just my eyes 😅
He does
I see it, too!
Jihoo says she is a RUclipsr but I search her for a long time but still I ccouldn't find it...
She's everywhere
What's the point of this video?
#YouGuysAreFromDaLeft
Wait she is lesbian or bisexual?
That over statement please correct it.
Why Yumi using Nerd as a negative term still ;_;
I'm curious why she cuts her hair so short and it appears she wants to look like a guy. But I have no clue if that is a bad thing or good thing or maybe it is a nothing!
But why
Why it has to be male huh lesbians means two women that's it where the men comes from?such a weird stereotypes
wait 90-80% bisexual are not right that is a stereotype fake answer dont lie plz if u love and feel love say the Truth only people who feel the love say the truth.
The truth is we don't really know the actual ratio. And it's also possible that the real meaning is just lose in the translation (she doesn't mean like that)
Who’s the male in the relationship ship, basically asking if you hear some noises in the middle of the night who’s gonna be the one to investigate while the other stays in the room safe
That still portrays a very typical stereotyping gender view though. Why should it be the man that is gonna investigate?
@@annanymous1527 seriously, unless the girl is 6ft tall and taking steroids she wouldn’t last long if there was a robber compared to a guy
@@orochimain I know men who wouldn't stand a chance against a robber and girls, not 6ft tall taking steroids, who could easily take on a robber.
They should just both go together imo. It would be two against one, right? It doesn't matter if it's two men, two women or a man and a woman. Just go and check together.
@@annanymous1527 typically in a relationship the guy is taller and stronger than the girl so they stand a better chance against an intruder I mean just ask an couple you happen to come across I guarantee you that the guy is gonna be the one to check it out
여자로써 여자를 좋아한다고 주장하면서 왜 남자의 외형을 하는거지??? 반대로 남자처럼 만든 외형을 좋아하는건 뭐지?
I really don't understand. Does this Person now identify as a male or female?
Is this Person a transgender and went from female to male?
If this Person is now a male and likes women, how are they not straight?
I have so many questions lol
they’re just lesbian nothing else. To me she’s a woman, but just dresses herself masculine. Not a transgender. She never stated identifying as male she said she’s more masculine, which does not make you a man.
@@ariel8535 so from my understanding, she's a woman but dressed masculine.
Which makes her a lesbian since she likes women, right?
I was kinda confused because here in the west, I've never seen a biological woman, dressed up as a man and not identifying as one. I thought she was now a male because of her looks so her saying she's lesbian made it 10x more confusing. But I think I get it now.
It's not that confusing. She's a lesbian. She identifies as a woman. Using her terminology from the video, she is a "butch" lesbian, which explains her hair and how she dresses.
In the last video, she mentiones that she identifies as a woman, she simply dresses like she wants, and she is lesbian.
@@dontray5547 the way she dresses does not make her lesbian. There are biological women who like to dress up more masculine, but are still straight. But yes she dresses masculine and likes women. But if a woman is lesbian it does not mean she’s gonna dress masculine or if she’s a lesbian does not mean she’ll be masculine. Gender and sexuality are two different things.
P.s it’s ok to be confused ppl.
Christian’s are the one religion out of all them that accepts lgb.. even pastors priest and bishops have been accepted
Wrong, Christians don't accept lgbtq. If you see a pastor that supports lgbtq then he's not Christian. Lgbtq is a lifestyle that's of the world that man invented not God so it's natural that Jesus will follow the commandments he told us to keep. Therefore that's a false statement God loves the man but jot the sin. That's why he calls us for repentance.
@@ic3koldkilla527 bruh every religion has people that do support lgbt and also don’t. I’m Christian and I believe in it
@Brenna The cat lover I'm Christian myself, yes you can believe in it but you can't support it. Because then that's not keeping what Jesus said, Jesus says if you truly love me you will keep my commandments and he also says you need to reject yourself and be born again in him. God doesn't support those actions if he did then he wouldn't have destroyed sodom and gomorrah and to add to that. God laid us out a simple plan. He wants us to do things that have meaning so we procreate if we decide to follow the action and emotional love in our hearts then we are disobeying him he finds us an abomination and will Judge us by saying he never knew us because he knows what the real us is but the one standing before him isn't that person.
@@ic3koldkilla527 bruh using religion to hate on lgbt people is bs. Idc if u support it or not but don’t hate
@@ic3koldkilla527 nope I’m a real Christian and I support it so stfu about religion tells us to hate on it bs cuz it’s wrong
the most importan question and she didnt answer what a waste of time!
Can you please re phrase what yumi said that Christian killed by stoning a lesbian? That was'nt true I'm Christian we do not exercise such things , in fact we respect and open the LGBTQ society here in our country, we believe that they had a huge contribution in society and the world, beside that they are nice and happy to be with and we like to be with them as close friend and ally.
It's what she heard lol. Lots of christians actually think like that. Especially because the old testament's Sodom story.
But gays is forbidden and this is mentioned in the Bible .gays are killed in your religion and this is according to your book
Quite frankly, I found Yumi's statement at 1:16 truly offensive. I'm not sure where she heard Christians saying "gays have to be killed with a rock," but that was either centuries ago, or someplace in the world that is much less developed than most of the world. True Christians show compassion for gays, like all sinners, even if their lifestyle is contrary to God's will as it is put forth in the Bible. We all have our own sins that are contrary to God and are in need of forgiveness. Some sins are less obvious than others to those around us. To say that Christians are calling for the stoning/murdering of gays is inaccurate and prejudicial against Christians. In fact, in recent history, the only murdering of gays for their sexuality that I've heard of is amongst RADICAL Islamists, e.g. ISIS - and they are a very small minority of Muslims.
she does have some "moments" here and then in some videos, such as 8:56 too. that "joke" kinda stings on the confidence side of things and we already know he struggles "a bit" with his romantic life... hearing something like that it's either going to be neutral or possibly damaging (little by little) to him. I can't come up with a scenario where that's a positive thing to hear as a straight guy. it's an uncalled for, "should have kept it in the drawer" kind of moment... for all it's worth, he always seems to keep a positive mindset tho 💪
She isn't saying anything offensive. She is saying what Christian Koreans have said and continue to say about homosexuality. You have a very sheltered world view to believe there aren't still people like this. It isn't uncommon in Korea to be homophobic.
Korea has a shocking amount of both radical christians and christian cults. While the west may be beyond that point in general, Korea (and other eastern countries) are only since very recently working to bring down homophobia. What you say was centuries ago was in parts of the world 20 years ago, in in other parts it is current day. You are lucky to live in a part of the world that doesn't hate homosexuality, but the reality is not as beautiful as you think. There are countries where even the suspicion of being gay can have you executed. If anything the one being offensive here is YOU.
Yumi is speaking about the tragic reality of Korea. Every year during pride in Korea hundreds of Christians come out to protest against homosexuality. They do everything in their power to stop the parade from happening. These are not minority cases. It is a reality you have failed to open your eyes too.
@@wiiboiwill What you're telling me serves to educate me to the reality in Korea that I was unaware of. For that I say "thank you." I'll be the first to admit that I don't know everything and appreciate when someone informs me in a way that helps to dispel my ignorance. I'm sorry to hear that there may be Christians in Korea who are so harsh in their judgement.
Please also keep in mind that calling out behaviors that are sin is not the same as calling for people to be stoned to death for their sin. That Christians object to homosexuality as sin and the celebration of that sin (such as gay pride parades), or any other sin for that matter, is appropriate. I realize that you disagree with that supposition, however, it is our responsibility to point it out, regardless. It's like when a parent needs to call out their child for something they are doing that is wrong and will eventually lead to serious harm or death. It would be wrong of them not to try to correct their child before it's too late. I know that's not necessarily the best analogy, but I just wanted to help provide insight into the thinking of the Christian mind. Sadly, it doesn't get done with sufficient love or compassion as much as it should.
I don't say any of this to offend, although I'm sure there will be some who are offended nevertheless. If I've been harsh, then I apologize for that and hope that we can help open the communication for better understanding on both sides of this issue. Thanks for hearing me out and for sharing your point of view and your knowledge. It is appreciated. ❤🤝🤙
I guarantee you that stuff was not only centuries ago. I'm in my 40s and I heard similar stuff growing up in the US and still hear it from time to time. Fundamentalist Christians can and still do hold very negative views about homosexuality. A lot think it is deserving of a death penalty. They dont have the power that radical Islamists do, but if they did, you can bet they would be acting in a very similar way
I’ve noticed lesbians are many times looking like men so maybe they feel like men?
They still realize they're a woman. It's just what they like to wear, doesn't mean she wants to be a man. She also said that she likes to look like a man but don't really do masculine things btw.
There is also women and men who look feminim but their activity is masculine.
Men’s clothing is designed with practicality and comfort in mind. Women’s clothes are designed to be decorative-think the colorful feathers of a male peacock or the bright colors on certain species of male tarantulas. If a woman, who is primarily interested in attracting other women, is going to get dressed for the day, what reason does she have to dress uncomfortably to attract the attention of men? She simply doesn’t.
I dont think asking the "whos the male role" ofeensive at all... its only natural to ask that, because a normal reproduction, aka sex, is supposed to happen between a male and a female... It's only natural for someone not gay to assume that there are "roles" during intercourse
It's just weird overall to ask about that stuff😭 and most of the time when people say that they're trying to be homophobic
it's weird because it's like asking a straight couple which position they prefer during sex. it's a personal question, and really weird to ask strangers something like that
so this is a woman now? ok then :/