@@tania5344 girl do u want war(asking multi man is like declaring war between man, we). Anyways tell me. Who will be father than. If woman has assume 5man, 5 child. How will she manage. Where will she stay.
Musulman men usually marry with lies ..she will find out is another wife ..he sleeps with and that's not love ..and musulman men take them children...that woman will suffer all her life ...no matter the money without having to rights to decide as a woman...weak man sleeps with 2 woman...in the same time
I'm a muslim, but I dont wanna share my husband to other women. My husband is only mine. But if that girl (in this video) has her own thought and wants to allow her own husband to do that, that's okay. I still respect everyone's decision.
I’m a women but I also think she needs help or she’s just joking or she doesn’t love her husband. It’s natural for women to be jealous in this regard if someone who your in a relationship with is happy that you go around with other people they don’t love you it’s as simple as that even the wives of the prophet Muhammad SAW were jealous of one another but they would try to control it as best as they could. Aisha RA even said that she only ever fought with the prophet SAW because of her jealousy. It’s completely normal and okay for women to not want their husbands to have another wife even Fatima RA was scared that Ali RA would get a second wife.
Maybe nowadays it is not true for all nations anymore, but there were times when a large percentage of men were slaughtered in wars and left many widows and orphans behind.
@@ceeotter no but the reality is that men usually want to have benefits for supporting someone by giving charity or providing shelter. And this is only halal by marrying them. At least they have then the full status of a legal wife.
@@MrSupermeisi in china it is actually reverse. more men than women. some specific parts of india also has more men than women. but when you look at russia, more women than men. even in the western countries, female population is slightly more (but negligible at current time). so, we can't just throw away what she is saying. anyway, have a nice day.
@@minhazulislam4682 I fully agree with you. But according to my knowledge the number of men is outweighing the number of females in China and India because of selective abortion. Many embryos are killed when having the wrong gender.
Haha laugh all you want Butchs but reality is she deserves better than others like you making fun of her and already women run for money and when someone is super rich you won't care about how many partners he's having 😁
@@retrogamingfrenzy2373 ahhaha why?are you also one of da wives?i mean yeah people marry for money...but atleast 97% do care about sharing their husbands lmao
In Quran that 4 is conditional where it also says in Quran verse 4.3: (part) // “…But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one…” // Aren’t these self proclaimed Sect preachers Spreading culture and calling it religion? These Sect /Firqa preachers took the desert clothing that is needed in sand storms and called it religion. The OTHER religious groups were ALREADY wearing it in the desert. The word HIJAB is used in the Quran but NOT for Ladies in Quran 24.31. The word is KHIMAR. Khimar just means COVERING (They’ve added head, hair, face to the word “covering”) Quran 24.31 (part) //… put forth the KHIMARs over the JAYBs …// Meaning: Put forth the COVER over the Jayb. Please notice it just gives importance to: “Cover the Jayb” Jayb means OPENING (Like an opening in a shirt for creating a pocket - some translate it as Bosoms coz that’s where the Jayb is) They will then point out Quran 33.59 So READ that verse also and notice closely what it says: “…JILBAB over themselves…” JILBAB - means outer clothing (wearing of DECENT clothes over the underwears as OUTER CLOTHING, there is NO 3rd layer requirement found -called burqa etc) (Please NOTICE:- No head, hair, face cover even in this verse) Please READ THE QURAN and VERIFY -- Reference below-- transliteration of Q24.31: “yadribna bi’Khumur’ihinna ala juyoob’ihinna” [Plurals : khumur, juyoob] //Quran 33.59 O Prophet! Ask your wives, daughters, and believing women to draw their JILBAB over themselves . In this way it is more likely that they will be RECOGNISED and not be HARASSED. And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful// -- Notice it’s only talking about properly covering themselves - there is NO emphasis on head, hair, face covering in this verse also.
From personal observation though there seem to be way more men who are single than women though. It's just that many of these men aren't ready for a real relationship with a woman. Leading women to be single as well as they choose not to be with them.
I agree, so desperate for male validation. She’s just doing it for views, and pretending to be this obedient, self-sacrificing, happy to do whatever wife.
@@retrogamingfrenzy2373 Then let your sister marry someone who doesn't have money and cannot even feed her ....... Cannot take care of her when is pregnant and taking care of the house and has not his own house . Obviously nobody would want that .
@@nevermind7383 it's not my problem my sister is none I'm alone but if there was she can marry any one idc I will be side with her If she want any help but she could marry her choice whether rich or poor or with more wife's or single. But in general women want money full man🤑💰 and they won't care about how many partners he's having 😁 unless he has money 💰💰💰. If that is so man can marry more women than 1 too
@RetroGamingFreNzY🏳️🌈⃠ I don't want that type of man who is rich and all I earn enough to provide my family I mean if my husband wanted to be a house husband or help me in home its still okay for me
Alhamdulillah. A True muslim womens maintain their Modesty and purity by being pious to god's command. And not liberalise oneselves with the society. They don't even like speaking to a men other then family members and spouse. Understanding. Loving( cuz they been patience for someone to marry them). Sometimes we felt pity on those who advice them to give up those ideology and live life like other womens do (Dating and then getting dumped after use, being stared by mens with lusty sights, etc evil acts). They more care about their account on the day of judgement and so is muslim mens no matter what society says. That's the reason disbelievers trying hard to oppress us yet fails.
@@user-mc5ih5oe8h and half of women assult cases are fake. And in muslim society, if women are assulted, they can't speak against their husbands because according to islam, muslim men have the right to beat his wife if needed.
@@Magical-Melonno in fact god says in a verse that our existence is based on believing in god and Omar bn El khatab explained this as that our existence is based on knowing god . And serving ur husband is a must for a calm life when ur husband is serving u
If you think that than keep it to yourself this is our values and you have your own this is a religious practice which the minority of the muslim practice and we are proud of it you guys are most likely non muslims so you are no scholar or student of knowledge about islam to give your opinions keep your opinions To yourselfs
@@surojeetchatterjee they teach to follow Islam without asking any questions, in a lot of Islamic countries there is a death penalty if you leave this sick religion
@MKAY Does someone teach u in madrassa how many countries has less girl child than 1000 boy child birth? Chinese r looking for girls. Help China sending extra Muslim girls. 🤣
Ooohh... U mean to become public property. 😝😝 With no family no kids no future care from kids n husband. N earning n getting used by BOSSES. IS THAT WAT U PREFER. IF MY ALLAH SAYS ITS BETTER. DEN ITS BETTER. NO ONE CAN SUGGEST ANYTHING BETTER THAN ALLAH
@marieyaan Accept the fact !diot. Am an Indian and its still happening. Take the survey all around the world🤡Dont beleive your whatsapp forward message
@@bow-bow7083r u low iq or what, something that use to happened 1400 year have no longer any impact on this like even if they were not buried there would be still more men bcz they wouldnt be alive by now. Also Men goes and dies in war more then women being buried ,does it change anything?
Sister not everyone is like you. If it were me, I dont want my husband to marry again. Im Chinese, I married pakistani but his family forced him to marry another woman, I was already broken because when I married him, he told me that he only wanted one wife, love me and take care of me for the rest of my life with my 2sons. They said the woman was nice and kind, just a little older than us. I know he doesn't want to marry again but he was forced. We were not in Pakistan at that time and his family helped him get those materials, signatures and then held those weddings at their home. He was very angry and almost committed suicide, I was crying and ignored my husband. A few months later his father suffered a heart attack and passed away. My husband asked what was the reason and they said that because his second wife quarreled with his family everyday, swearing badly and saying bad things about others and she knowing that my husband's father was sick, she still want to angry with him everyday. My husband was so angry and he said why everyone forced me to marry her. Now that it has become like this, you are very happy? My husband became weak and fainted. Now that they are divorced, my husband and I are very happy, he hug me and say sorry my wife, it wont happen next time, and his family also happy, everyone healthy now, no problem everything, Alhamdullilah!
After reading just some lines and knowing your husband was forced to marry second wife i was so shocked started crying immediately.. cause i am a girl and if it would happen happen to me idk what i would do...i felt so bad for you like how could they do that...i can't explain how sad i was after knowing that..that's so bad...i didn’t have the courage to read more but when i read the whole comment i am really happy that you are happy now! I guess i should had read the whole sooner lol
@@MashAllahMari there are many things which haram but people use to do that..even things made by kafirs are haram but you are using phone to net made by kafirs ..so instead of being focus on haram n halal ,so for morality
Listen to a man marrying four wives only, on the condition that he be a fair person and bear responsibilities only, and if he is unable to do so, he should marry one wife.
@@moustafa7682 yes people often forget about the conditions for marrying more than one woman and the permission of their first wife is needed too. what i meant by my comment is her statement about "sharing her man with her friends" and i personally can't agree with that, for myself. if other women agree to do it then Alhamdulillah who am i to say anything. i just stated my opinion, brother/sister
@@mohammedmeyaki4002 this logic is just hilarious and doesn't even make sense but you're free to give the best to your friends 😐 i clearly said i can't agree with her i'm not saying this rule is wrong or smth, it's my preference that's it.
Heyy.. u selfish women.. plzzz.. pray for me as well. That my husband will also marry another 3 women so that I n my husband togather can take care of those poor divorced or left alone women ❤️ I would love to take care of my sister's in Islam. ❤️ Alhumdulillah we r not self centred n selfish like u. Allah has gave us a big heart n humanity more than u. 😎
@@taskin._.101 i live in a muslim country where men marry multiple wives, now I don’t know where you see these happy sister wives but in all my years on this earth I’ve never seen any happy wife married to a husband like that. Hundreds of live examples.
@@norealname8697 its all about the mentality of the wives and how the husband treats all his wives. If the wives are jealous and ungrateful and behave in a posessive way they can never be happy.
@Rachel greene who said I can't look at woman when they are talking to me?. I lower my gaze when I'm walking but when a woman talks I might look eye contact for little bit then look down. Your argument is weak like your knowledge of Islam
@Jaye Why Pee if I was to guess she is a Muslim and she think a man should have 1 wife for here opinion but that's in Quran. She is worried about Islam and she has no hijab full of red lipstick and makeup on like wtf happened to so called Muslims so don't follow Islam just Muslim by name like her wallah.
@@baruwankuinaruwanku3187 No iam not married, but i know I'll be happy with one, Even the number "one" Has its own beauty, God is one, Prophet is one, Holy book is one... And so on, So I'll marry one who will know all secrets and sides of mine
@@carljohnson2194 I can. If that thing affects my mental health and I can fall sick, then my husband surely can't put me through it. And yes, the husband is ought to give me my mehar right? I'll just write it on the nikah nama that I don't want my man to marry another woman, even look at one. Islam promotes polygamy/multiple marriages when the woman is okay, like really okay and when she has seen it happen in her family. Some women are not capable of handling it and hence men should consider asking her before. This is what men don't realise. The whole world practiced polygamy when our verses were revealed. Women accepted it. Today it is very difficult and only practiced in some cultures so the women approving of it have been reduced as they haven't seen it happen for a long time.
@@carljohnson2194 they can actually because to marry a second person you need permission of your first wife. So technically they can stop. But the whole idea of marrying someone else while being married to someone already is already f**ked up, so please don't support this shit.
@@carreviewer6345 Try to write Allah with a capital ‘A’. Yeah, we're supposed to love Allah the most but if something is depressing us and making us hate Him, we should find a permanent solution to it. Just marry a woman who understands you and your desires; as simple as that. Let others marry those who understand them; even simpler.
I would like to be single rather then marrying someone else's husband so sister stop worrying abt other women's they are totally fine and happy without your husband 😂😂😂😂😂
@@retrogamingfrenzy2373 those women are called gold-diggers. And that's the exact kind you deserve, that is if you have any gold. Women who love their husbands can't see him with another woman.
I will not follow this.i have the freedom to follow what I need. If I go with another guy he can't give me a place in his heart.All are human not only men. All have their own feelings
@@zirwasiddique7658for every 100 women on the planet, there are around 102 men. Source: my brain has a lot of random facts because I like random facts. Numbers may be a little off.
@@hanyuufurude740 it's saitanic to be alone 🙄old age no one will be there 😂have to be alone 🙄 never think such foolishness It's always family that makes man complete 💯👍🏽
@@Gjakdjruknownhpjs 🙄maryam was chosen to be women of honour she had to go through more struggle To receive isa pb 👍🏽 Evryone had duty to perform so they where fulfilling commands by Allah What do you have 🙄 Yousuf married later bro 👍🏽study history 👍🏽
@@Gjakdjruknownhpjs he married it's little weird I just got from a book 👍🏽 It's the queen who was obsessed by him she was old but she changed to Young beautiful wife they had children's also 👍🏽 The queen was so obsessed with him prayed to get him etc Don't know it's authentic don't ask resources 😀 Bro matrix is making young boys nit to marry it's really saitnic 👍🏽 He don't want men to have children stoping human race 😭by giving wrong information It's your choice bro but you have a role to play Allah lives those who obey his rules 👍🏽anyway stay blessed 👍🏽
@@mikedj9025 "What you have an issue just that we worship god?without iduols and sons?" And they say The most merciful(Rehman) gave birth to a child, tell them that if sky's mountains rivers and heaven earth and everything between them(those who not have feelings) if they had feelings they would get destroyed and would say *What?? They made a son of The most merciful(rehman)" " tehy says yeshua(isa[jesus] is god ask them what's the proof? Actualy you don't have proof but you're in a error
@@user-dr3js8zf9c As of 2024, there are 4,079,164,815, or 4,079 million, or 4.08 billion males in the world, representing 50.24% of the world population. The population of females in the world is estimated at 4,039,671,184, or 4,039 million, or 4.04 billion, representing 49.76% of the world population.....may be you guys living in your imagination. Or you guys dont have the guts to check the facts.
There is no sunnat before asar ,educate yourself. And if it is permissible by rasool allah then who are you to say somthing about it. This is the reason because of ehich muslims don't have any value in this world, thier value is like garbage because they have their own opinion other than religion
Iblis places his throne upon water and sends his groups (helpers) to do evil deeds. The closest to him are those who tempt people to commit the most grievous of sins (fitnah). They come to him to tell him about what they did. One of them says, ‘I have done such-and-such.’ However, Iblis tells him, ‘You have done nothing.’ Another one comes and says, ‘I did not leave a man until I caused him to leave his wife and divorce her.’ Iblis becomes very pleased and calls him close to his throne and says to him, ‘How good you are!’” (Muslim, Munafiqun 67; Musnad, 3/314).... Allah said: (2:256) famously declares "There is no compulsion (forcing) in religion... You take about sunnah, start with your fard also Muslim brothers ignore the sunnah of fasting on mondays and Thursdays, they ignore the sunnah of praying 2 Rakats before fair, they forget that Tahajjud is a sunnah. The only sunnah they remember is to marry 4 wives... as Muslims we must fear Allah swt and not change the deen to suit our needs, unless we want Allah punishment to come upon us, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then one [marry only] from Quran... And you will never be able to be equal just between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. From quran from Quran... Allah said Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded. Surat An-Nahl 16:90 And Allah says O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do. Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8 “A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196) A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to. It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it. No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter. By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law.
That population she is talking about is not correct for every country and in every era Quran is for all mankind and timeless In Quran that 4 wives is conditional and there is a mention of Orphans in that verse -. Quran also says in Quran verse 4.3: (part) // “…But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one…” // Aren’t these self proclaimed Sect preachers Spreading culture and calling it religion? For example: These Sect /Firqa preachers took the desert clothing that is needed in sand storms and called it religion. The OTHER religious groups were ALREADY wearing it in the desert. The word HIJAB is used in the Quran but NOT for Ladies in Quran 24.31. The word is KHIMAR. Khimar just means COVERING (They’ve added head, hair, face to the word “covering”) Quran 24.31 (part) //… put forth the KHIMARs over the JAYBs …// Meaning: Put forth the COVER over the Jayb. Please notice it just gives importance to: “Cover the Jayb” Jayb means OPENING (Like an opening in a shirt for creating a pocket - some translate it as Bosoms coz that’s where the Jayb is) They will then point out Quran 33.59 So READ that verse also and notice closely what it says: “…JILBAB over themselves…” JILBAB - means outer clothing (wearing of DECENT clothes over the underwears as OUTER CLOTHING, there is NO 3rd layer requirement found -called burqa etc) (Please NOTICE:- No head, hair, face cover even in this verse) Please READ THE QURAN and VERIFY -- Reference below-- transliteration of Q24.31: “yadribna bi’Khumur’ihinna ala juyoob’ihinna” [Plurals : khumur, juyoob] //Quran 33.59 O Prophet! Ask your wives, daughters, and believing women to draw their JILBAB over themselves . In this way it is more likely that they will be RECOGNISED and not be HARASSED. And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful// -- Notice it’s only talking about properly covering themselves - there is NO emphasis on head, hair, face covering in this verse also. In Quran that 4 is conditional where it also says in Quran verse 4.3: (part) // “…But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one…” // Aren’t these self proclaimed Sect preachers Spreading culture and calling it religion? These Sect /Firqa preachers took the desert clothing that is needed in sand storms and called it religion. The OTHER religious groups were ALREADY wearing it in the desert. The word HIJAB is used in the Quran but NOT for Ladies in Quran 24.31. The word is KHIMAR. Khimar just means COVERING (They’ve added head, hair, face to the word “covering”) Quran 24.31 (part) //… put forth the KHIMARs over the JAYBs …// Meaning: Put forth the COVER over the Jayb. Please notice it just gives importance to: “Cover the Jayb” Jayb means OPENING (Like an opening in a shirt for creating a pocket - some translate it as Bosoms coz that’s where the Jayb is) They will then point out Quran 33.59 So READ that verse also and notice closely what it says: “…JILBAB over themselves…” JILBAB - means outer clothing (wearing of DECENT clothes over the underwears as OUTER CLOTHING, there is NO 3rd layer requirement found -called burqa etc) (Please NOTICE:- No head, hair, face cover even in this verse) Please READ THE QURAN and VERIFY -- Reference below-- transliteration of Q24.31: “yadribna bi’Khumur’ihinna ala juyoob’ihinna” [Plurals : khumur, juyoob] //Quran 33.59 O Prophet! Ask your wives, daughters, and believing women to draw their JILBAB over themselves . In this way it is more likely that they will be RECOGNISED and not be HARASSED. And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful// -- Notice it’s only talking about properly covering themselves - there is NO emphasis on head, hair, face covering in this verse also.
Yes I think you should go to school because you are not the main character and your religion is not the main religion of anyone they can do whatever they want if they are following their faith they are 100% allowed to
The only person who needs education is you for not realising that they are the same word. Also, all the Muslims are reeling from what the women said but the average whatsapp twitter keyboard yapper andbakht will just say "Very much Buslim indeed saar, real Buslam values saar!" like the knowitall
@@retrogamingfrenzy2373 Same for men. If a woman is beautiful they won't see how many other men she has slept with. They will just go for her. No self respect 😂
Allah said: (2:256) famously declares "There is no compulsion (forcing) in religion... You take about sunnah, start with your fard also Muslim brothers ignore the sunnah of fasting on mondays and Thursdays, they ignore the sunnah of praying 2 Rakats before fair, they forget that Tahajjud is a sunnah. The only sunnah they remember is to marry 4 wives... as Muslims we must fear Allah swt and not change the deen to suit our needs, unless we want Allah punishment to come upon us, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then one [marry only] from Quran... And you will never be able to be equal just between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. From quran from Quran... Allah said Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded. Surat An-Nahl 16:90 And Allah says O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do. Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8 “A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196) A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to. It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it. No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter. By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law.
Iblis places his throne upon water and sends his groups (helpers) to do evil deeds. The closest to him are those who tempt people to commit the most grievous of sins (fitnah). They come to him to tell him about what they did. One of them says, ‘I have done such-and-such.’ However, Iblis tells him, ‘You have done nothing.’ Another one comes and says, ‘I did not leave a man until I caused him to leave his wife and divorce her.’ Iblis becomes very pleased and calls him close to his throne and says to him, ‘How good you are!’” (Muslim, Munafiqun 67; Musnad, 3/314).... Allah said: (2:256) famously declares "There is no compulsion (forcing) in religion... You take about sunnah, start with your fard also Muslim brothers ignore the sunnah of fasting on mondays and Thursdays, they ignore the sunnah of praying 2 Rakats before fair, they forget that Tahajjud is a sunnah. The only sunnah they remember is to marry 4 wives... as Muslims we must fear Allah swt and not change the deen to suit our needs, unless we want Allah punishment to come upon us, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then one [marry only] from Quran... And you will never be able to be equal just between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. From quran from Quran... Allah said Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded. Surat An-Nahl 16:90 And Allah says O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do. Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8 “A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196) A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to. It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it. No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter. By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law.
Still it is better than sleeping with thousand males before marraige and giving it a culturised name dating🤣. It is better to be fuc*ed by thousands but not married by one🤣
@yosefpatel9386 Alhamdulillah most of the young women are being educated so that they'll be financially independent and won't need men if they don't want to have one ;)
Being a Muslim Woman, I Don't Understand How She's Soo Happy and Relaxed While Sharing This Thing, My Husband has also Demanded a Second, But Wallahi I'm Completely broken, as If My World Has been Destroyed, it's agonizing, It's piercing CX i love my husband and i can't see him With another woman, even if it is allowed.. This woman doesn't Love Her Husband That's Why She's Soo Calm otherwise That jealousy element is Only Present Where Love exists... Edit: My Husband Married Another Woman without Even letting me know & I decided To leave CX he is not taking all the responsibilities and not giving me even 0.001% respect! Please make dua for me, I'm struggling!
@@Maperator it's not Islam that's terrible, it's men, They never talk abt other things in Islam, like Other good things, they only talk About is Second marriage, even if it is not obligatory, these men , they're not responsible, pious, they're careless, they'll tell you that it is allowed & they've to do this, they Don't do it to protect other woman or to take their responsibilities, they just want different women for sex it's natural, at the end Of the day a man is man & he gets bored with one woman & there are a lot of good men in Islam who are good at controlling themselves and they've got only one wife, they live peacefully & do other acts of worship not Just marriage, my goodness! It Kills 😩 I'm diagnosed with depression just because of this thing, hwy can someone be soo selfish and think about himself only, his sexual desires? Can't they have it with only one, am i not enough to satisfy him, let's say thrice or 4 times a day! I'm not saying him to control! Isn't this enough? Vot abt me? my unconditional love, my emotional crackup? My children? He shattered my dreams 😔 and I'm staying wd him just for almighty allah! Otherwise i would've Kicked him Out 😔
@@thbnkk that girl is a good Muslim woman. A girl who is completely devoted to God doesn't mind if her husband marries another woman as long as he is fair to his wives and does not neglect his responsibilities as a husband
@minadabunny to begin with azwaj e motahharat, than the Sahabi Radi ALLAH ajamieen, than tabaieen, than taba tabeen than taba taba tabeen more and more people down that same stream, and woman in Africa, Arabs, Indonesia, and certainly woman who know Deen. Who can see the greater good.
@editz_x True, there a Muslim countries who are killing women at a very high rate and women population is declining. In Pakistan, men don't marry widows, men don't marry a women without dowry, men don't want to marry a divorced women, men don't want a women with opinion, men don't want an educated women, men don't want a women who cannot earn and feed him, men don't want a women who doesn't take care of their parents and siblings, men don't want a women who talks to other men (just talk). A women will likely be killed before getting divorced if she falls in the above category.
Muslims hardly take responsibilities but mostly rely on welfares, they think kids are given by Allah but monthly support should be from government, why not rely on Allah for that? Hypocrites
Tell you don't know rules of Islam without telling me you dk the rules of Islam women run for money unless guy has super rich 🤑🤑🤑 they won't care how many partners guy has 🤣😂😂
L Miranda Imagine your daddy has only one wife and come to see your mom every night but fights. Then you will know the pain. Pain exists regardless of what we choose to do.
It’s also not based on reality, she might want to check the UN World Population Prospects report. As of 2021, there were 3.97 billion males in the world (50.42% of the world population) vs 3.905 billion women (49.58% of the world population.), I.e. more men than women. Even if we broke that down by age groups, the males to females ratio is: - 103 for the group aged 15-64. - 81.8 for those over 65. The whole argument is patently false for humans of reproductive age. So unless the man is marrying women older than 50, the argument is nonsense…
That's true tho ,there are more women than men and always will be , because males generally die young because of their courage or w@rs i think . Even boys child's are more wanted but in the end in earlier times didn't make past 30
Remember, F Allah swt says something then definitely there is reason,, it's all muslim faith and He is the best planner,,and it only understand by momin
@@stephenwilson4931 well that marrying just for having sex doesn't make you better in fact it makes you worse than the person who is being honest about what they are doing
If I was a man and my wife wanted me to marry another woman I’d be suspicious. Like do you not like me, or love me enough that you want to push me away towards another woman???
Show me one man in USA who has only one women ???? He got his secretary his hidden girlfriend his other girlfriend from Washington that he will meet once a month and so forth. So ???? What if women have the right to control all that???
I would disagree with you on that one, prophet sallallahu alaihi waalihi wassalam had many wives, do you think they didn't have self respect for themselves?
@@kamalzmanis8240 how can someone be fair as well as emotionally attached with both women please describe me sir and now some people will tell me that men should not be emotional so this is also one of my question how does a living being live without emotion?
You are absolutely right brother. Leave it bro there is no use of making them understand about such a pure religion ,they don't even have proper knowledge about there own religions🤣😂and they wanted to delete Islam seems very funny that they are teaching us our religion .They don't have that much level of understanding, typical small mindsets they're having .
It's hilarious how many men have no idea monogamy was invented to benefit them. If polygamy was the norm across societies, most women would be marrying the same subset of wealthy and successful men. The average man, such as yourself, would be screwed, even more so the poor man.
It was narrated that: Sulaiman bin Amr bin Ahwas said: “My father told me that he was present at the Farewell Pilgrimage with the Messenger of Allah. He praised and glorified Allah, and reminded and exhorted (the people). Then he said: 'I enjoin good treatment of women, for they are prisoners with you, and you have no right to treat them otherwise, unless they commit clear indecency. If they do that, then forsake them in their beds and hit them, but without causing injury or leaving a mark. If they obey you, then do not seek means of annoyance against them. You have rights over your women and your women have rights over you. Your rights over your women are that they are not to allow anyone whom you dislike to tread on your bedding (furniture), nor allow anyone whom you dislike to enter your houses. And their right over you are that you should treat them kindly with regard to their clothing and food.' ” -Sunan Ibn Majah 1851
This isn’t true. You don’t have to spend the same on each women for example, if you have paid for all the food and clothes and so on. You can buy gifts and things that aren’t necessary like extra clothing, special food given you have already provided what is necessary to both or all wives. Furthermore what you do have to do equally is spend your nights with them. However you don’t have to love each equally. You don’t have to have spend Time in the day equally as long as you spend sufficient time with each. Wallahi it is not difficult as long as you have the financial ability.
@@misterbk1791 not true, dont twist Allahs words by things you’ve seen on the internet. Treating the women equally is what it says. Equally doesnt mean provide only equally, it means in every aspect. Love treatment= equally split amongst them Provide=equally split amongst them Sexual contact=equally split amongst them. Nicknames for instance, you cant have one for one wife, you also have to have them for the other three. So no, what you said is false. Equally means in every form. We don’t follow what harems did a while ago, this isnt a form of harem. Its a form of the ruling of the quran.
@@misterbk1791 and it is necessary, a husbands money is a wifes money. If a wife asks for a gift, and you have money, you have to buy that gift for her. A man has rights over his wives, and a wife has rights over her husband- one of the major rights of the wives are the finances. You have to give gifts equally if one asked for it.
@@misterbk1791 i do agree with the last one, you might not love each one the same- but the treatment of love should be equally spread- you cant kiss one wife, and not give the other wives kisses- or spend a whole week with one wife, and only spend a day in that week with the other wife
A lot of people in the comments as muslim said they'd rather have one husband or one wife but for different people u gotta respect what they want at the end of the day this comment isn't gonna change how she feels
yall got no problems with lgtbq,people being dogs,cats....but when a girl says she is fine with her husband marrying 2,3,4 girls(treating everyone equally) then theres the problem,yall dont have problem with one night stand,yall dont have problem with drunk nd had with some random xYZ girl
@@IceflowfaygoAnd your comment isn't going to change the way they feel either bc no one is required to respect someone else's opinion if they don't agree. I don't respect this woman's opinion or yours so...
It's hilarious how many men have no idea monogamy was invented to benefit them😂. If polygamy was the norm across societies, most women would be marrying the same subset of wealthy and successful men. The average man would be screwed, even more so the poor man.
"why would you want that for your sister that you love?" .... Dude, I could never love ANYONE enough to want them to marry MY husband 😅 (btw as another muslim woman, hijabi I can say that in the countries I've lived in - Serbia, Bosnia, Turkey and Malaysia - women wanting or allowing this is very very very rare)
It’s a fake argument, so she has malicious intent or someone gave her bad numbers and she didn’t do any fact-checking. 🤷🏻♂️ As of 2021, there were 3.97 billion males in the world (50.42% of the world population) vs 3.905 billion women (49.58% of the world population.), I.e. more men than women. Even if we broke that down by age groups, the males to females ratio is: - 107.142 for the age group 15-19. - 103 for the group aged 15-64. - 81.8 for those over 65. The whole argument is patently false for humans of reproductive age. The world only has more women than men aged above 65. So there are a lot of grandmas who're alone. I agree, why would we we wish that all grandmas were alone? They should all be married off to her husband
Iblis places his throne upon water and sends his groups (helpers) to do evil deeds. The closest to him are those who tempt people to commit the most grievous of sins (fitnah). They come to him to tell him about what they did. One of them says, ‘I have done such-and-such.’ However, Iblis tells him, ‘You have done nothing.’ Another one comes and says, ‘I did not leave a man until I caused him to leave his wife and divorce her.’ Iblis becomes very pleased and calls him close to his throne and says to him, ‘How good you are!’” (Muslim, Munafiqun 67; Musnad, 3/314).... Allah said: (2:256) famously declares "There is no compulsion (forcing) in religion... You take about sunnah, start with your fard also Muslim brothers ignore the sunnah of fasting on mondays and Thursdays, they ignore the sunnah of praying 2 Rakats before fair, they forget that Tahajjud is a sunnah. The only sunnah they remember is to marry 4 wives... as Muslims we must fear Allah swt and not change the deen to suit our needs, unless we want Allah punishment to come upon us, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then one [marry only] from Quran... And you will never be able to be equal just between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. From quran from Quran... Allah said Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded. Surat An-Nahl 16:90 And Allah says O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do. Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8 “A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196) A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to. It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it. No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter. By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law.
In my state there are more men than women. So it's ok for woman to marry more than one man. We don't want any men to be leftout. This is really a good idea. Thank you sister 😇
There is no state where there is more men than women unless the fetus which is identified as a female is being aborted, and number two, there’s only one captain of the ship
In Haryana there is "statistically" more men than women so women too should marry more than one men right? A man should not let his brothers to stay alone forever 😇😇. And dear humans till the end of your life you sail you own ship,nobody should do that for you whether you are single, monk, commited or married coz in the end only you pay for your karma no one else. 👍
@@Series_here12 yeah its haram but most young muslim men dont care about that. Thats reality. They want to be single to enjoy a lot of haram relationships lol
I’m Muslim and I don’t under stand this subject until this day . But let me till you sister if you really loves your husband you will never ever say what you just said .
I’m not disrespecting ur religion But ours makes more sense the only season I’m saying this is cuz ur disrespecting mine I would never say this without a reply but I’m being honest I never go and disrespect ur religion but if u do it I’m happy to give u a million reasons of why Islam this and that and in ur religion u changed the Bible ur god wouldn’t be happy I’m sure he won’t say oh yea I said taht but they don’t like it so they changed it it’s not about what u feel it’s about ur orders given heaven is only granted by hard work and no convenience also some people don’t follow all teh Islamic rules but at least they don’t change the whole religion
If Allah allowed this and prophets had many wifes, then it's people's fault for staying together and making problems to each other, Islam is the greatest religion
@@ultrameraj2600 hazrat Muhammad (PBUH) HAD more than 4 wives 😂 Don't worry I love Muslims but I don't like when you hurt my sentiments 😢 Islam ❤ Sanatan dharm
@@Shubham-et8qk yeh but we are humans and as a girl I don't think there is any women who will be happy on his husband 2nd marriage not all women but 99% women's won't be happy and a man suppose to make his wife happy
@@Shubham-et8qk come on if you read the religion very well you'll know that quran clearly says to marry one woman... don't be stupid like people on ticktok 💀
That's why proper education is important
Yea😂
women run for money unless guy has super rich 🤑🤑🤑 they won't care how many partners guy has 🤣😂😂
Haaa boo gaaay ko mummy nhi kaheti
Exactly
Yeah people in hassam really need education their wife's have more than 1 husband mostly 7
She took sharing is caring to an whole other level...
😂
Nah, she is very humble and logical
@@Randomtiger007 what logical
how many men stay single too why not muslim marry more men than 1
Lmao. Toooo funny. But yeah I agree
@@tania5344 girl do u want war(asking multi man is like declaring war between man, we). Anyways tell me. Who will be father than. If woman has assume 5man, 5 child. How will she manage. Where will she stay.
That's why education is important!
And that's why brain is important 😂
More than education they need to have self respect sharing is cool not when it comes to ur man and ur body
western education? so we can all be transgender feminists and legally mutilate our bodies and kill babies in the name of science? Lol
Yes. Education is important
Lol
Education doesn't necessarily correlate to intelligence.
i am Muslim man.... but one is enough
Musulman men usually marry with lies ..she will find out is another wife ..he sleeps with and that's not love ..and musulman men take them children...that woman will suffer all her life ...no matter the money without having to rights to decide as a woman...weak man sleeps with 2 woman...in the same time
I'm a muslim, but I dont wanna share my husband to other women. My husband is only mine. But if that girl (in this video) has her own thought and wants to allow her own husband to do that, that's okay. I still respect everyone's decision.
What If One Day Your Husband Married A Very Poor Orphan Girl. What then
@@MohammadJunaid212Haram ya akhi!
@@MohammadJunaid212Are you good? If i were you i would rather check on yourself at the doctor if your mentality is still good. Man seek help.
Ikr.....I'm also a muslim and I respect everyone's decisions but this is just yk....I would never share my husband
Allah says in quraan 1 wife is better than 4 wives!
I'm a man and I believe she needs help
Someone kill me this is wayy too funny
😂😂
I’m a women but I also think she needs help or she’s just joking or she doesn’t love her husband. It’s natural for women to be jealous in this regard if someone who your in a relationship with is happy that you go around with other people they don’t love you it’s as simple as that even the wives of the prophet Muhammad SAW were jealous of one another but they would try to control it as best as they could. Aisha RA even said that she only ever fought with the prophet SAW because of her jealousy. It’s completely normal and okay for women to not want their husbands to have another wife even Fatima RA was scared that Ali RA would get a second wife.
I'm a man and I believe liberalism had blinded you.
Nope! She's following ISLAM and have a big heart MAASHAALLAH
Whoever is giving her those statistics needs to be arrested
Maybe nowadays it is not true for all nations anymore, but there were times when a large percentage of men were slaughtered in wars and left many widows and orphans behind.
@@ceeotter no but the reality is that men usually want to have benefits for supporting someone by giving charity or providing shelter. And this is only halal by marrying them. At least they have then the full status of a legal wife.
@@MrSupermeisi in china it is actually reverse. more men than women. some specific parts of india also has more men than women. but when you look at russia, more women than men. even in the western countries, female population is slightly more (but negligible at current time). so, we can't just throw away what she is saying.
anyway, have a nice day.
@@minhazulislam4682 I fully agree with you. But according to my knowledge the number of men is outweighing the number of females in China and India because of selective abortion. Many embryos are killed when having the wrong gender.
@@MrSupermeisi yes, they have this crazy idea of killing female child.
Just like the barbaric times.
She thinks that every woman wants to marry and we will die without a husband
What?
@@AbuBakar-rk5fqshe thinks all women want to be married, they won't die if they aren't married (the original comment gave me a stroke reading it)
don't marry, it's your choice.
Yes this is peacefull mumtaj love mal mal Taj mal ultra pro under hindus shoe damned community
@@user-ou8qk6mo3yOkay, so doesn't that contradict the woman's point.
I hope she'll continue smiling like this when her husband marries her friends in future 🤣🤣🤣
Lol
hahaha she will tho
🤣🤣
Haha laugh all you want Butchs but reality is she deserves better than others like you making fun of her and already women run for money and when someone is super rich you won't care about how many partners he's having 😁
@@retrogamingfrenzy2373 ahhaha why?are you also one of da wives?i mean yeah people marry for money...but atleast 97% do care about sharing their husbands lmao
This girl has so much compassion for single people
In Quran that 4 is conditional where it also says in
Quran verse 4.3: (part)
//
“…But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one…”
//
Aren’t these self proclaimed Sect preachers Spreading culture and calling it religion?
These Sect /Firqa preachers took the desert clothing that is needed in sand storms and called it religion.
The OTHER religious groups were ALREADY wearing it in the desert.
The word HIJAB is used in the Quran but NOT for Ladies
in Quran 24.31. The word is KHIMAR.
Khimar just means COVERING
(They’ve added head, hair, face to the word “covering”)
Quran 24.31 (part)
//… put forth the KHIMARs over the JAYBs …//
Meaning:
Put forth the COVER over the Jayb.
Please notice it just gives importance to:
“Cover the Jayb”
Jayb means OPENING
(Like an opening in a shirt for creating a pocket - some translate it as Bosoms coz that’s where the Jayb is)
They will then point out
Quran 33.59
So READ that verse also and notice closely what it says:
“…JILBAB over themselves…”
JILBAB - means outer clothing
(wearing of DECENT clothes over the underwears as OUTER CLOTHING,
there is NO 3rd layer requirement found -called burqa etc)
(Please NOTICE:- No head, hair, face cover even in this verse)
Please READ THE QURAN and VERIFY
--
Reference below--
transliteration of Q24.31:
“yadribna bi’Khumur’ihinna ala juyoob’ihinna”
[Plurals : khumur, juyoob]
//Quran 33.59
O Prophet! Ask your wives, daughters, and believing women to draw their JILBAB over themselves .
In this way it is more likely that they will be RECOGNISED
and not be HARASSED.
And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful//
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Notice it’s only talking about properly covering themselves - there is NO emphasis on head, hair, face covering in this verse also.
U being sarcastic?
🥺
From personal observation though there seem to be way more men who are single than women though. It's just that many of these men aren't ready for a real relationship with a woman. Leading women to be single as well as they choose not to be with them.
U must be fucking joking
I'm getting the pick me vibes from her !! she's just seeking men's validation
OR she just don't the man at all so she like lemme share the burden 💀
I agree, so desperate for male validation. She’s just doing it for views, and pretending to be this obedient, self-sacrificing, happy to do whatever wife.
@@fatehaali106 for real and also stating wrong facts
That's why she's married and you're not
Don't be Islamophobic
Statistically there are MORE MEN now.
Idk why she has a weird psychotic look in her eyes
Prob some drugs
She is u should see the other videos
U think u the one who being weird here... 🤔
I think u the one who being weird here... 🤔
@@DonTom-qo6jzIslam
Muslim or not, no woman would ever share her husband with another woman. I know I can't.
women run for money unless guy has super rich 🤑🤑🤑 they won't care how many partners guy has 🤣😂😂
@@retrogamingfrenzy2373 Then let your sister marry someone who doesn't have money and cannot even feed her ....... Cannot take care of her when is pregnant and taking care of the house and has not his own house . Obviously nobody would want that .
@@nevermind7383 it's not my problem my sister is none I'm alone but if there was she can marry any one idc I will be side with her If she want any help but she could marry her choice whether rich or poor or with more wife's or single. But in general women want money full man🤑💰 and they won't care about how many partners he's having 😁 unless he has money 💰💰💰. If that is so man can marry more women than 1 too
@RetroGamingFreNzY🏳️🌈⃠ I don't want that type of man who is rich and all
I earn enough to provide my family I mean if my husband wanted to be a house husband or help me in home its still okay for me
Your a kufar then because you disagreed with the companions of the prophet and the prophet had many wives. Your westernised don't be a kafir
Quality is better then quantity
lol so true
😂😂
Alhamdulillah. A True muslim womens maintain their Modesty and purity by being pious to god's command. And not liberalise oneselves with the society. They don't even like speaking to a men other then family members and spouse. Understanding. Loving( cuz they been patience for someone to marry them). Sometimes we felt pity on those who advice them to give up those ideology and live life like other womens do (Dating and then getting dumped after use, being stared by mens with lusty sights, etc evil acts). They more care about their account on the day of judgement and so is muslim mens no matter what society says. That's the reason disbelievers trying hard to oppress us yet fails.
@@InquilabIntifada
the only oppressors has always been Muslim man towards their wifes and their "possessions".
@@user-mc5ih5oe8h and half of women assult cases are fake. And in muslim society, if women are assulted, they can't speak against their husbands because according to islam, muslim men have the right to beat his wife if needed.
I am a Muslim woman, and I honestly totally extremely find this idea unacceptable
@@Magical-Melonno in fact god says in a verse that our existence is based on believing in god and Omar bn El khatab explained this as that our existence is based on knowing god .
And serving ur husband is a must for a calm life when ur husband is serving u
So you object to الله allowing man to have multiple wives???
Because it is unacceptable and not at all condoned by God. His design is for 1 man and 1 woman.
That's what you're Quran teach in your books 😂😂😂
@@sirdadream3268 of course. It's a betrayal of the spirit.
I don't know but sometimes I feel that this woman roasts her own religion
Trueee
Not just women everyone of them Roast there own religion 😂😂
Me too😀
If you think that than keep it to yourself this is our values and you have your own this is a religious practice which the minority of the muslim practice and we are proud of it
you guys are most likely non muslims so you are no scholar or student of knowledge about islam to give your opinions keep your opinions To yourselfs
@@muneeb8888 keep your value with you don't even want to be a scholar in your religion and I am keeping this to myself 😌
Sis must have failed her statistics test
Hornny nigga basket
They don't teach statistics in madrassas. 🤷♂️🤣
@@surojeetchatterjee they teach to follow Islam without asking any questions, in a lot of Islamic countries there is a death penalty if you leave this sick religion
@@justyna3455 exactly
@MKAY Does someone teach u in madrassa how many countries has less girl child than 1000 boy child birth? Chinese r looking for girls. Help China sending extra Muslim girls. 🤣
It's better to be single then marrying a married men
Wowwww❤❤❤❤
Same
Your opinion doesn't matter if the Qur'an says yes to it.
Ooohh... U mean to become public property. 😝😝
With no family no kids no future care from kids n husband. N earning n getting used by BOSSES.
IS THAT WAT U PREFER.
IF MY ALLAH SAYS ITS BETTER. DEN ITS
BETTER.
NO ONE CAN SUGGEST ANYTHING BETTER THAN ALLAH
@@AbdulAhad_313 what you gonna do about it force us 💀
There are over 80 million more men than women in China and India combined, what is she talking about?
Its because girl babies were buried
@marieyaan Accept the fact !diot. Am an Indian and its still happening. Take the survey all around the world🤡Dont beleive your whatsapp forward message
@@bow-bow7083damn...
@@bow-bow7083r u low iq or what, something that use to happened 1400 year have no longer any impact on this like even if they were not buried there would be still more men bcz they wouldnt be alive by now. Also Men goes and dies in war more then women being buried ,does it change anything?
India and China need to make more women.
Sister not everyone is like you. If it were me, I dont want my husband to marry again. Im Chinese, I married pakistani but his family forced him to marry another woman, I was already broken because when I married him, he told me that he only wanted one wife, love me and take care of me for the rest of my life with my 2sons. They said the woman was nice and kind, just a little older than us. I know he doesn't want to marry again but he was forced. We were not in Pakistan at that time and his family helped him get those materials, signatures and then held those weddings at their home. He was very angry and almost committed suicide, I was crying and ignored my husband. A few months later his father suffered a heart attack and passed away. My husband asked what was the reason and they said that because his second wife quarreled with his family everyday, swearing badly and saying bad things about others and she knowing that my husband's father was sick, she still want to angry with him everyday. My husband was so angry and he said why everyone forced me to marry her. Now that it has become like this, you are very happy? My husband became weak and fainted. Now that they are divorced, my husband and I are very happy, he hug me and say sorry my wife, it wont happen next time, and his family also happy, everyone healthy now, no problem everything, Alhamdullilah!
After reading just some lines and knowing your husband was forced to marry second wife i was so shocked started crying immediately.. cause i am a girl and if it would happen happen to me idk what i would do...i felt so bad for you like how could they do that...i can't explain how sad i was after knowing that..that's so bad...i didn’t have the courage to read more but when i read the whole comment i am really happy that you are happy now! I guess i should had read the whole sooner lol
Even in Islam it is Haram to force marriage thats so sad
@@MashAllahMari there are many things which haram but people use to do that..even things made by kafirs are haram but you are using phone to net made by kafirs ..so instead of being focus on haram n halal ,so for morality
Your story made me cry dear.
May Allaah bless u
Very nice to hear..! For 1 men 1 womn is the very good relationship..!
I'm a muslim woman and I try to follow my religion as much as I can, but I really find it hard to agree with her 💀
@a.firdous140al_islamfebs3 yeah and what about it?
Listen to a man marrying four wives only, on the condition that he be a fair person and bear responsibilities only, and if he is unable to do so, he should marry one wife.
@@moustafa7682 yes people often forget about the conditions for marrying more than one woman and the permission of their first wife is needed too. what i meant by my comment is her statement about "sharing her man with her friends" and i personally can't agree with that, for myself. if other women agree to do it then Alhamdulillah who am i to say anything. i just stated my opinion, brother/sister
@@bread288 why are friends with them if u can't want the best for them
In this case the best is your husband
@@mohammedmeyaki4002 this logic is just hilarious and doesn't even make sense but you're free to give the best to your friends 😐 i clearly said i can't agree with her i'm not saying this rule is wrong or smth, it's my preference that's it.
I swear there are more men than woman in the world
This is why education and general knowledge is important rather than marraige
True 👍 cool
typical pajeetttt response
@@akiogood4712 Tbh pajeets are more educated and liberal than madarsachaaps
@@happyman6844 yeah that's why pajeettss worship cow shyt and that's why pajeetts look like shytty monkys and are undesired
@@zuki7776 education is not degrees and literacy
I really really sincerely from the bottom of my heart hope that her future husband does exactly that. Let’s see if she’ll have the same big smile.
Many men have done that and their wives are more than happy and together as sisters n friends😂
@@Li-wm9ew whatt? 😂 who said that to u? Hes the best example u hv no idea!!!
Heyy.. u selfish women.. plzzz.. pray for me as well. That my husband will also marry another 3 women so that I n my husband togather can take care of those poor divorced or left alone women ❤️ I would love to take care of my sister's in Islam. ❤️ Alhumdulillah we r not self centred n selfish like u. Allah has gave us a big heart n humanity more than u. 😎
@@taskin._.101 i live in a muslim country where men marry multiple wives, now I don’t know where you see these happy sister wives but in all my years on this earth I’ve never seen any happy wife married to a husband like that. Hundreds of live examples.
@@norealname8697 its all about the mentality of the wives and how the husband treats all his wives. If the wives are jealous and ungrateful and behave in a posessive way they can never be happy.
Such an open minded woman .... Fine for you not for me
First go put hijab on before you talk about Quran
@@SpartansRiseUp first lower your gaze and stop looking at women and then talk
@Rachel greene who said I can't look at woman when they are talking to me?. I lower my gaze when I'm walking but when a woman talks I might look eye contact for little bit then look down. Your argument is weak like your knowledge of Islam
@Jaye Why Pee if I was to guess she is a Muslim and she think a man should have 1 wife for here opinion but that's in Quran. She is worried about Islam and she has no hijab full of red lipstick and makeup on like wtf happened to so called Muslims so don't follow Islam just Muslim by name like her wallah.
@@SpartansRiseUp 🤔 whom are you calling a muslim ? Me ? Ohhh thank God im not born into this religion filled with fanatics. Im not a Muslim
As A Muslim Man, One Wife is Enough. Who Agrees?
👇
Muslim man can marry more than 1 wife
@@IzNab06 Typical Islamic mindset. They use 4 women as babymakers.
@@IzNab06go on, finish the sentence bud, dont be shy, finish the whole sentence, we want to eat the whole cake, not half
disagree
@@afifahputri559 it’s in the Quran and Quran tells us that you can marry more than 1 but treat them equally
Being a man I'll not marry more than one, I'll be happy with one and do my best to keep her happy
If you are not married yet, wait until you are married before saying so.
@@baruwankuinaruwanku3187 No iam not married, but i know I'll be happy with one, Even the number "one" Has its own beauty, God is one, Prophet is one, Holy book is one... And so on, So I'll marry one who will know all secrets and sides of mine
@@muzammilqureshi950 Let see if you will maintain your position after marriage
@@baruwankuinaruwanku3187 Yes iam sure I will & Allah will bless me with loyal and understanding partner InshaAllah
What if she not allow? Will you force or divorce her?
As a muslim woman, HELL NAH GIRL I AM NOT SHARING MY HUSBAND!
In Islam husband decides that and he can marry up to 4 wives you can’t force him not to
@@carljohnson2194 I can. If that thing affects my mental health and I can fall sick, then my husband surely can't put me through it. And yes, the husband is ought to give me my mehar right? I'll just write it on the nikah nama that I don't want my man to marry another woman, even look at one. Islam promotes polygamy/multiple marriages when the woman is okay, like really okay and when she has seen it happen in her family. Some women are not capable of handling it and hence men should consider asking her before. This is what men don't realise. The whole world practiced polygamy when our verses were revealed. Women accepted it. Today it is very difficult and only practiced in some cultures so the women approving of it have been reduced as they haven't seen it happen for a long time.
Yes we possessive but that's a man's right. If he can provide for more than one family, them surely can. It's the Sunnah sis
@@carljohnson2194 he can marry more women if he got.And his wife can divorce him
@@carljohnson2194 they can actually because to marry a second person you need permission of your first wife. So technically they can stop. But the whole idea of marrying someone else while being married to someone already is already f**ked up, so please don't support this shit.
As a Muslim 1 wife is enough>>>>>>>
I totally agree!
Appreciated....🤝
Indeed, my dad is pretty rich and he could have married more but he just stayed loyal to my mother until he died at 63. Kindest man alive
As a Muslim, 4 wives is better >>>>>>>>
Any one can know total number of men and women by Google.
If your wife is ok with you marry another woman you better rethink your relationship.
R u a muslim?
Honestly i love my husband more than my sisters...🙄😌
Sværg?
You don't love allah the most? Aren't you supposed to love allah the most
@@carreviewer6345 Try to write Allah with a capital ‘A’. Yeah, we're supposed to love Allah the most but if something is depressing us and making us hate Him, we should find a permanent solution to it. Just marry a woman who understands you and your desires; as simple as that. Let others marry those who understand them; even simpler.
@@carreviewer6345 you can love both
@@fatmaiox *Marry someone who you love not relevant if they're of the same sex fyi don't "marry" kids like Muhammad did
If your husband truly loves you he won’t even think of marrying another one.
@@hamzamohamed1872 kuch bhi
@@hamzamohamed1872 dimagh set hy? Omfg Pakistanis embarrass themselves every where
@@hamzamohamed1872 she has the right to leave if she wants to and can’t handle it. Divorce is allowed.
Read quran
@@fatehaali106 Read Quran
The lady took sharing is caring seriously 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
women run for money unless guy has super rich 🤑🤑🤑 they won't care how many partners guy has 🤣😂😂
This woman need help
Quran says you can marry upto 4, there isnt a single verse that discourage it. Say it loud if you have probelm with quran
O god, she is so much concerned about her friends/ sisters happiness🤭 🤣🤣
And also concerned for her husband's happy penis😂😂
women run for money unless guy has super rich 🤑🤑🤑 they won't care how many partners guy has 🤣😂😂
@@retrogamingfrenzy2373blah blah blah
I would like to be single rather then marrying someone else's husband so sister stop worrying abt other women's they are totally fine and happy without your husband 😂😂😂😂😂
women run for money unless guy has super rich 🤑🤑🤑 they won't care how many partners guy has 🤣😂😂
@@retrogamingfrenzy2373 those women are called gold-diggers. And that's the exact kind you deserve, that is if you have any gold. Women who love their husbands can't see him with another woman.
I'm a Muslim women,if my man marry another girl definitely I will divorce him.. self-respect is more important
What if he marries without your knowledge and place her in some other place? It is allowed in Islam, read about Mutah Nikah and Nikah Misyar.
I will not follow this.i have the freedom to follow what I need. If I go with another guy he can't give me a place in his heart.All are human not only men. All have their own feelings
@@majidaabdulmajeed4942 If you are not following these you are not a complete Muslim.
@@AS-wu2dr polygamy is not compulsory in Islam.If he is okay with me ,what is your problem?
@@majidaabdulmajeed4942 Polygamy is sunnah, so if your husband is trying to be truly like prophet(pbuh) he will marry multiple wives.
Dude there are women who don't wanna marry and there are homosexuals....
I WILL NEVER SHARE MY HUSBAND. but if he eventually falls for someone else then I might let him go n choose seperation than sharing.
exactly
Me too.... 🙁
I see no loss
@@mayankshukla3036 in what sense?
@@rubainashaikh9548 what if your husband is a very nice man and God fearing who will take a bullet for u
Statistically speaking there are more men than women, maybe you can marry your husband's friends too😂. Gotta make the homies happy 😝
Yaaa exactly what I was thinking...
Where the hell did you get that "statistic"? It's not true. The opposite is true.🙄
@@zirwasiddique7658 Google it
I like the damn idea. Let's do it!
@@zirwasiddique7658for every 100 women on the planet, there are around 102 men. Source: my brain has a lot of random facts because I like random facts. Numbers may be a little off.
As a man I disagree with this women bcz it is more important to marry the right person otherwise it is better to stay single
🙄there is no right stuff like it's like understanding eachother love respect from eachother side 👍🏽makes difference
Yeah i tough that too. Ita better to stay single instead to share a husband or a wife.
@@hanyuufurude740 it's saitanic to be alone 🙄old age no one will be there 😂have to be alone 🙄 never think such foolishness
It's always family that makes man complete 💯👍🏽
@@Gjakdjruknownhpjs 🙄maryam was chosen to be women of honour she had to go through more struggle
To receive isa pb 👍🏽
Evryone had duty to perform so they where fulfilling commands by Allah
What do you have 🙄
Yousuf married later bro 👍🏽study history 👍🏽
@@Gjakdjruknownhpjs he married it's little weird I just got from a book 👍🏽
It's the queen who was obsessed by him she was old but she changed to
Young beautiful wife they had children's also 👍🏽
The queen was so obsessed with him prayed to get him etc
Don't know it's authentic don't ask resources 😀
Bro matrix is making young boys nit to marry it's really saitnic 👍🏽
He don't want men to have children stoping human race 😭by giving wrong information
It's your choice bro but you have a role to play Allah lives those who obey his rules 👍🏽anyway stay blessed 👍🏽
Its called brainwashed
Did i asked you about your beleifs
@@flyingrobin1893 not at all sir
@@mikedj9025 *You follow your religion I'll follow my path"
Quran
@@flyingrobin1893 your path is wrong my friend Jesus is the way but continue on.
@@mikedj9025
"What you have an issue just that we worship god?without iduols and sons?"
And they say The most merciful(Rehman) gave birth to a child, tell them that if sky's mountains rivers and heaven earth and everything between them(those who not have feelings) if they had feelings they would get destroyed and would say *What?? They made a son of The most merciful(rehman)"
" tehy says yeshua(isa[jesus] is god ask them what's the proof? Actualy you don't have proof but you're in a error
But statistically there are more men thn women 😂
Oh... like in Ukraine?
😂😂😂@@journeylife7491
Which world R U living in , parallel universe?
No there isn't but the husband would have to Mary a 60+ year old chick
@@user-dr3js8zf9c As of 2024, there are 4,079,164,815, or 4,079 million, or 4.08 billion males in the world, representing 50.24% of the world population. The population of females in the world is estimated at 4,039,671,184, or 4,039 million, or 4.04 billion, representing 49.76% of the world population.....may be you guys living in your imagination. Or you guys dont have the guts to check the facts.
Some men are not willing to pray 4 sunnahs before asar but they want 4 wives as sunnah
There is no sunnat before asar ,educate yourself. And if it is permissible by rasool allah then who are you to say somthing about it. This is the reason because of ehich muslims don't have any value in this world, thier value is like garbage because they have their own opinion other than religion
valid point
Iblis places his throne upon water and sends his groups (helpers) to do evil deeds. The closest to him are those who tempt people to commit the most grievous of sins (fitnah). They come to him to tell him about what they did. One of them says, ‘I have done such-and-such.’ However, Iblis tells him, ‘You have done nothing.’ Another one comes and says, ‘I did not leave a man until I caused him to leave his wife and divorce her.’ Iblis becomes very pleased and calls him close to his throne and says to him, ‘How good you are!’” (Muslim, Munafiqun 67; Musnad, 3/314).... Allah said: (2:256) famously declares "There is no compulsion (forcing) in religion... You take about sunnah, start with your fard also Muslim brothers ignore the sunnah of fasting on mondays and Thursdays, they ignore the sunnah of praying 2 Rakats before fair, they forget that Tahajjud is a sunnah. The only sunnah they remember is to marry 4 wives... as Muslims we must fear Allah swt and not change the deen to suit our needs, unless we want Allah punishment to come upon us,
two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then one [marry only] from Quran...
And you will never be able to be equal just between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. From quran from Quran...
Allah said
Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded.
Surat An-Nahl 16:90
And Allah says
O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do.
Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8
“A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196)
A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to.
It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it.
No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter.
By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law.
I mean being single isn’t a curse-
That population she is talking about is not correct for every country and in every era
Quran is for all mankind and timeless
In Quran that 4 wives is conditional and there is a mention of Orphans in that verse -. Quran also says in
Quran verse 4.3: (part)
//
“…But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one…”
//
Aren’t these self proclaimed Sect preachers Spreading culture and calling it religion?
For example:
These Sect /Firqa preachers took the desert clothing that is needed in sand storms and called it religion.
The OTHER religious groups were ALREADY wearing it in the desert.
The word HIJAB is used in the Quran but NOT for Ladies
in Quran 24.31. The word is KHIMAR.
Khimar just means COVERING
(They’ve added head, hair, face to the word “covering”)
Quran 24.31 (part)
//… put forth the KHIMARs over the JAYBs …//
Meaning:
Put forth the COVER over the Jayb.
Please notice it just gives importance to:
“Cover the Jayb”
Jayb means OPENING
(Like an opening in a shirt for creating a pocket - some translate it as Bosoms coz that’s where the Jayb is)
They will then point out
Quran 33.59
So READ that verse also and notice closely what it says:
“…JILBAB over themselves…”
JILBAB - means outer clothing
(wearing of DECENT clothes over the underwears as OUTER CLOTHING,
there is NO 3rd layer requirement found -called burqa etc)
(Please NOTICE:- No head, hair, face cover even in this verse)
Please READ THE QURAN and VERIFY
--
Reference below--
transliteration of Q24.31:
“yadribna bi’Khumur’ihinna ala juyoob’ihinna”
[Plurals : khumur, juyoob]
//Quran 33.59
O Prophet! Ask your wives, daughters, and believing women to draw their JILBAB over themselves .
In this way it is more likely that they will be RECOGNISED
and not be HARASSED.
And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful//
--
Notice it’s only talking about properly covering themselves - there is NO emphasis on head, hair, face covering in this verse also.
In Quran that 4 is conditional where it also says in
Quran verse 4.3: (part)
//
“…But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one…”
//
Aren’t these self proclaimed Sect preachers Spreading culture and calling it religion?
These Sect /Firqa preachers took the desert clothing that is needed in sand storms and called it religion.
The OTHER religious groups were ALREADY wearing it in the desert.
The word HIJAB is used in the Quran but NOT for Ladies
in Quran 24.31. The word is KHIMAR.
Khimar just means COVERING
(They’ve added head, hair, face to the word “covering”)
Quran 24.31 (part)
//… put forth the KHIMARs over the JAYBs …//
Meaning:
Put forth the COVER over the Jayb.
Please notice it just gives importance to:
“Cover the Jayb”
Jayb means OPENING
(Like an opening in a shirt for creating a pocket - some translate it as Bosoms coz that’s where the Jayb is)
They will then point out
Quran 33.59
So READ that verse also and notice closely what it says:
“…JILBAB over themselves…”
JILBAB - means outer clothing
(wearing of DECENT clothes over the underwears as OUTER CLOTHING,
there is NO 3rd layer requirement found -called burqa etc)
(Please NOTICE:- No head, hair, face cover even in this verse)
Please READ THE QURAN and VERIFY
--
Reference below--
transliteration of Q24.31:
“yadribna bi’Khumur’ihinna ala juyoob’ihinna”
[Plurals : khumur, juyoob]
//Quran 33.59
O Prophet! Ask your wives, daughters, and believing women to draw their JILBAB over themselves .
In this way it is more likely that they will be RECOGNISED
and not be HARASSED.
And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful//
--
Notice it’s only talking about properly covering themselves - there is NO emphasis on head, hair, face covering in this verse also.
The way she is smiling creepy af
That's why education is important. Go to school not madarsa
Care for a talk, I'm ex-muslim.
Yes I think you should go to school because you are not the main character and your religion is not the main religion of anyone they can do whatever they want if they are following their faith they are 100% allowed to
The only person who needs education is you for not realising that they are the same word.
Also, all the Muslims are reeling from what the women said but the average whatsapp twitter keyboard yapper andbakht will just say "Very much Buslim indeed saar, real Buslam values saar!" like the knowitall
@@Rg-nk3rc why did you stop doing tawaf round the Jamarat every Rabi Ul Awwal
@@user-us7el6ss2l The same reason you would stop learning to fly at child.
That's why therapy and education is important
women run for money unless guy has super rich 🤑🤑🤑 they won't care how many partners guy has 🤣😂😂
@@retrogamingfrenzy2373 Same for men. If a woman is beautiful they won't see how many other men she has slept with. They will just go for her. No self respect 😂
This is why women education is very important
Woman education? ??? Not agreeing with the woman in the video but try wording what your trying to say better
Damn man, "women" education? Pardon me, but your idea should be abolished, no more than a speck of "nothingness".
Allah said: (2:256) famously declares "There is no compulsion (forcing) in religion... You take about sunnah, start with your fard also Muslim brothers ignore the sunnah of fasting on mondays and Thursdays, they ignore the sunnah of praying 2 Rakats before fair, they forget that Tahajjud is a sunnah. The only sunnah they remember is to marry 4 wives... as Muslims we must fear Allah swt and not change the deen to suit our needs, unless we want Allah punishment to come upon us,
two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then one [marry only] from Quran...
And you will never be able to be equal just between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. From quran from Quran...
Allah said
Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded.
Surat An-Nahl 16:90
And Allah says
O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do.
Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8
“A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196)
A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to.
It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it.
No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter.
By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law.
@@amonaanona9724 because if she was educated she would know what she is saying is false ..
Iblis places his throne upon water and sends his groups (helpers) to do evil deeds. The closest to him are those who tempt people to commit the most grievous of sins (fitnah). They come to him to tell him about what they did. One of them says, ‘I have done such-and-such.’ However, Iblis tells him, ‘You have done nothing.’ Another one comes and says, ‘I did not leave a man until I caused him to leave his wife and divorce her.’ Iblis becomes very pleased and calls him close to his throne and says to him, ‘How good you are!’” (Muslim, Munafiqun 67; Musnad, 3/314).... Allah said: (2:256) famously declares "There is no compulsion (forcing) in religion... You take about sunnah, start with your fard also Muslim brothers ignore the sunnah of fasting on mondays and Thursdays, they ignore the sunnah of praying 2 Rakats before fair, they forget that Tahajjud is a sunnah. The only sunnah they remember is to marry 4 wives... as Muslims we must fear Allah swt and not change the deen to suit our needs, unless we want Allah punishment to come upon us,
two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then one [marry only] from Quran...
And you will never be able to be equal just between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. From quran from Quran...
Allah said
Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded.
Surat An-Nahl 16:90
And Allah says
O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do.
Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8
“A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196)
A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to.
It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it.
No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter.
By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law.
Isn't this the same women who said her husband don't let her meet her friends but she treats him like a king?
Yaaaa....she is😮💨
She is his slave
Yes! 🤣 Alas I'm not the only one getting the stupid sigma male shorts
Still it is better than sleeping with thousand males before marraige and giving it a culturised name dating🤣. It is better to be fuc*ed by thousands but not married by one🤣
@@swetha5asr what does this have to do with sigma male?
Honestly that's the woman who landed on the sun in night😂
I would too! But he has to divorce me first 💀😭
😂😂
Exactly ...
that's what i was about to say... 😂👍
@yosefpatel9386
Alhamdulillah most of the young women are being educated so that they'll be financially independent and won't need men if they don't want to have one ;)
😂😂
Thats exactly what my wife says to me 😂🤣
she looks hypnotized 😂
She needs therapy 😭🤣
🤣🤣🤣
Her husband manipulated her
yes totally brain washed
women run for money unless guy has super rich 🤑🤑🤑 they won't care how many partners guy has 🤣😂😂
Being a Muslim Woman, I Don't Understand How She's Soo Happy and Relaxed While Sharing This Thing, My Husband has also Demanded a Second, But Wallahi I'm Completely broken, as If My World Has been Destroyed, it's agonizing, It's piercing CX i love my husband and i can't see him With another woman, even if it is allowed.. This woman doesn't Love Her Husband That's Why She's Soo Calm otherwise That jealousy element is Only Present Where Love exists...
Edit: My Husband Married Another Woman without Even letting me know & I decided To leave CX he is not taking all the responsibilities and not giving me even 0.001% respect!
Please make dua for me, I'm struggling!
I m so sorry for u , put ur boundaries u r worth more than being a second wife u deserve to be the only one
I feel really sorry for you. Islam truly is terrible
@@Maperator it's not Islam that's terrible, it's men, They never talk abt other things in Islam, like Other good things, they only talk About is Second marriage, even if it is not obligatory, these men , they're not responsible, pious, they're careless, they'll tell you that it is allowed & they've to do this, they Don't do it to protect other woman or to take their responsibilities, they just want different women for sex it's natural, at the end Of the day a man is man & he gets bored with one woman & there are a lot of good men in Islam who are good at controlling themselves and they've got only one wife, they live peacefully & do other acts of worship not Just marriage, my goodness! It Kills 😩
I'm diagnosed with depression just because of this thing, hwy can someone be soo selfish and think about himself only, his sexual desires? Can't they have it with only one, am i not enough to satisfy him, let's say thrice or 4 times a day! I'm not saying him to control! Isn't this enough? Vot abt me? my unconditional love, my emotional crackup? My children? He shattered my dreams 😔 and I'm staying wd him just for almighty allah! Otherwise i would've Kicked him Out 😔
@@sawdasawda0009 wow I wish you the best honestly. I do advise at the very least you talk to a therapist/friend or someone
@@Maperator thanks sister For Your Love & support!
There’s something seriously wrong with her! Honestly who’s ok to share their husband?
A good righteous woman wouldnt mind her husband marry more than 1 wife
He making love with someone else ...it means he doesn't love her simple
@@minadabunny Any woman who actually fears Allah and dosent want to commit kufr by calling something he made halal for men oppresion.
@@thbnkk that girl is a good Muslim woman.
A girl who is completely devoted to God doesn't mind if her husband marries another woman as long as he is fair to his wives and does not neglect his responsibilities as a husband
@minadabunny to begin with azwaj e motahharat, than the Sahabi Radi ALLAH ajamieen, than tabaieen, than taba tabeen than taba taba tabeen more and more people down that same stream, and woman in Africa, Arabs, Indonesia, and certainly woman who know Deen. Who can see the greater good.
She just don't want to do all the housework on her own.
brilliant! 😂😂
There's nothing wrong with being a traditional woman
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I’m crying 🤣🤣🤣
Having one wife is already hard, plus tons of responsibility. Not many person can afford mentally or physically more than one
i think the problems are coming from women, they want everyhing. is a mental issue. So.
These are view hungry people.. They would say anything for attention
@editz_x True, there a Muslim countries who are killing women at a very high rate and women population is declining.
In Pakistan, men don't marry widows, men don't marry a women without dowry, men don't want to marry a divorced women, men don't want a women with opinion, men don't want an educated women, men don't want a women who cannot earn and feed him, men don't want a women who doesn't take care of their parents and siblings, men don't want a women who talks to other men (just talk).
A women will likely be killed before getting divorced if she falls in the above category.
@editz_x well people in those country do kill female babies.
Muslims hardly take responsibilities but mostly rely on welfares, they think kids are given by Allah but monthly support should be from government, why not rely on Allah for that? Hypocrites
Imagine your daddy having several wives and doesn't even have time to come see your mom...
Then you will know the pain!
Tell you don't know rules of Islam without telling me you dk the rules of Islam women run for money unless guy has super rich 🤑🤑🤑 they won't care how many partners guy has 🤣😂😂
@@retrogamingfrenzy2373 not everyone is like this true love exists
L Miranda Imagine your daddy has only one wife and come to see your mom every night but fights. Then you will know the pain.
Pain exists regardless of what we choose to do.
world is more than your stupid pain.
@@retrogamingfrenzy2373you know nothing 😂😂😂
SHE DOES HAVE A F*CKING POINT!!! RESPECT!
She don’t love her husband 😂😂 that why she don’t care if I was her I won’t care too like gtfo my face
Two Some.
🤣😂🤣 shes sick n tired of his bs
Naah she wanna share the misery hell naah sister you can have him all to yourself
It’s also not based on reality, she might want to check the UN World Population Prospects report. As of 2021, there were 3.97 billion males in the world (50.42% of the world population) vs 3.905 billion women (49.58% of the world population.), I.e. more men than women.
Even if we broke that down by age groups, the males to females ratio is:
- 103 for the group aged 15-64.
- 81.8 for those over 65.
The whole argument is patently false for humans of reproductive age. So unless the man is marrying women older than 50, the argument is nonsense…
“Statistically, there are more women than men”
Source: Trust me bro
That's true tho ,there are more women than men and always will be , because males generally die young because of their courage or w@rs i think . Even boys child's are more wanted but in the end in earlier times didn't make past 30
Bro skipped biology class or chapters /:
@@justicethedoggo3648 bro nowaday men are more than women 101 men to 100 men individual
@@justicethedoggo3648 Get some help immediately. Please 🙏
@@justicethedoggo3648 Yes but the difference isn't meaningful, 50,42% of people are men. Or a ratio of 101:100.
The bigger question is how long her friendship, her love & her smile will LAST !!😂
Sister you're a Muslim you shouldn't be saying that at least
Sister you're a Muslim you shouldn't be saying that at least
Remember, F Allah swt says something then definitely there is reason,, it's all muslim faith and He is the best planner,,and it only understand by momin
of course you've a choice but it doesn't mean you should oppose what's halal. have some shame & watch your words!
😂😂yesss
That's why brain 🧠 is important
If she realises her husband is touching, making love with someone else.. impossible to love her 😂
It is better to be single than sharing partner.
Yes but unless the guy is super rich then these women who don't want Thier husband to have second wife will not even bother just see Andrew Tate
@@retrogamingfrenzy2373 most women who share husband are in it for the money and not love and there’s nothing wrong with that
I think the stone age just knocked on my door
yes modern age sleep with any number just without marrying....
@@stephenwilson4931 well that marrying just for having sex doesn't make you better in fact it makes you worse than the person who is being honest about what they are doing
I don't like sharing my husband with other women .. my man is mine
That’s fine, Muslim women don’t have to share
Dont be greedy. give him to me 🙂
@@Mp900-z5c😂😂
agreed !
No he’s not yours he belongs to Allah 🥰
If I was a man and my wife wanted me to marry another woman I’d be suspicious. Like do you not like me, or love me enough that you want to push me away towards another woman???
She lost some brain cells
her remaining ones are dysfunctional
Show me one man in USA who has only one women ???? He got his secretary his hidden girlfriend his other girlfriend from Washington that he will meet once a month and so forth. So ???? What if women have the right to control all that???
This is reason why education is important for her generation 🙂
You sleep around with random dudes so 🤷🏻♂️
This is called polygamy...
If someone like it...then it's her choice...
@@ashharbilal7307 stop going to madarsas😂
@@legend9646 Why?
@@proplayertoyslayer4226 illiterate
I thought I had no self respect until I met this girl
because you think you own your man?
@@user-ou8qk6mo3y yes
I would disagree with you on that one, prophet sallallahu alaihi waalihi wassalam had many wives, do you think they didn't have self respect for themselves?
@@ibrahimshah3378 yes , they didn't
@@ibrahimshah3378Yes, they didn't
This goes against normal human instincts
You cannot go around marrying anyone.... There are many conditions and rules for marrying more than one woman!!!
Logical & fair to both men/women
No logic Islam should be deleted
@@tyyyuuuhunngra618 do u even know anything about Islam??
@@kamalzmanis8240 how can someone be fair as well as emotionally attached with both women please describe me sir and now some people will tell me that men should not be emotional so this is also one of my question how does a living being live without emotion?
You are absolutely right brother. Leave it bro there is no use of making them understand about such a pure religion ,they don't even have proper knowledge about there own religions🤣😂and they wanted to delete Islam seems very funny that they are teaching us our religion .They don't have that much level of understanding, typical small mindsets they're having .
She Don't Want To Suffer Alone with Her Abusing Husband
It's hilarious how many men have no idea monogamy was invented to benefit them. If polygamy was the norm across societies, most women would be marrying the same subset of wealthy and successful men. The average man, such as yourself, would be screwed, even more so the poor man.
Typical Islamic mindset LoL
It was narrated that:
Sulaiman bin Amr bin Ahwas said: “My father told me that he was present at the Farewell Pilgrimage with the Messenger of Allah. He praised and glorified Allah, and reminded and exhorted (the people). Then he said: 'I enjoin good treatment of women, for they are prisoners with you, and you have no right to treat them otherwise, unless they commit clear indecency. If they do that, then forsake them in their beds and hit them, but without causing injury or leaving a mark. If they obey you, then do not seek means of annoyance against them. You have rights over your women and your women have rights over you. Your rights over your women are that they are not to allow anyone whom you dislike to tread on your bedding (furniture), nor allow anyone whom you dislike to enter your houses. And their right over you are that you should treat them kindly with regard to their clothing and food.' ”
-Sunan Ibn Majah 1851
@@JayaRadharaniPojeetni😂
@@JayaRadharaniTu math sikha mindset😂
I can't tell if she's joking or not
Its a real thing believe it or not.
If you look at the US and the western world you will see husbands cheating
i laughed while still knowing she's not joking
Her eyes say truth..
@@justsayalhamdulillaah9720 it's legal?
Is she ok?
There is nothing wrong on being single than sharing husband
I totally agree
You are hindu and it is not for you ...
Problem: you have to treat all the wives equally, which will be difficult
Edit: HOW DID I GET 44 REPLIES
Edit 2: WHAT ON EARTH!?!
That's why it's not that easy to marry in more wife's, or marry even one
This isn’t true. You don’t have to spend the same on each women for example, if you have paid for all the food and clothes and so on. You can buy gifts and things that aren’t necessary like extra clothing, special food given you have already provided what is necessary to both or all wives.
Furthermore what you do have to do equally is spend your nights with them. However you don’t have to love each equally.
You don’t have to have spend Time in the day equally as long as you spend sufficient time with each.
Wallahi it is not difficult as long as you have the financial ability.
@@misterbk1791 not true, dont twist Allahs words by things you’ve seen on the internet.
Treating the women equally is what it says. Equally doesnt mean provide only equally, it means in every aspect.
Love treatment= equally split amongst them
Provide=equally split amongst them
Sexual contact=equally split amongst them.
Nicknames for instance, you cant have one for one wife, you also have to have them for the other three.
So no, what you said is false. Equally means in every form. We don’t follow what harems did a while ago, this isnt a form of harem. Its a form of the ruling of the quran.
@@misterbk1791 and it is necessary, a husbands money is a wifes money.
If a wife asks for a gift, and you have money, you have to buy that gift for her.
A man has rights over his wives, and a wife has rights over her husband- one of the major rights of the wives are the finances.
You have to give gifts equally if one asked for it.
@@misterbk1791 i do agree with the last one, you might not love each one the same- but the treatment of love should be equally spread- you cant kiss one wife, and not give the other wives kisses- or spend a whole week with one wife, and only spend a day in that week with the other wife
Stupidity on another level.... that shows their incapability towards their husband.
A lot of people in the comments as muslim said they'd rather have one husband or one wife but for different people u gotta respect what they want at the end of the day this comment isn't gonna change how she feels
Are you sure they are the denatured ones and not the western world 😂
Forcing 1 wife its like forcing you to have 1 friend 😆
yall got no problems with lgtbq,people being dogs,cats....but when a girl says she is fine with her husband marrying 2,3,4 girls(treating everyone equally) then theres the problem,yall dont have problem with one night stand,yall dont have problem with drunk nd had with some random xYZ girl
@@IceflowfaygoAnd your comment isn't going to change the way they feel either bc no one is required to respect someone else's opinion if they don't agree. I don't respect this woman's opinion or yours so...
It's hilarious how many men have no idea monogamy was invented to benefit them😂. If polygamy was the norm across societies, most women would be marrying the same subset of wealthy and successful men. The average man would be screwed, even more so the poor man.
This woman is a joke
No... U are the joke.. 😌
No you are the joke, this woman is stupid and brainwashed
"why would you want that for your sister that you love?" .... Dude, I could never love ANYONE enough to want them to marry MY husband 😅 (btw as another muslim woman, hijabi I can say that in the countries I've lived in - Serbia, Bosnia, Turkey and Malaysia - women wanting or allowing this is very very very rare)
Ne seri bolan...
@bosnatuzla Yes, men can marry up to 4 wives. But, it is not like it's encouraged.
Did your prophet think about the feelings of his wives when he married more and kept sex slaves and even had women donate their bodies for him?
It’s a fake argument, so she has malicious intent or someone gave her bad numbers and she didn’t do any fact-checking. 🤷🏻♂️
As of 2021, there were 3.97 billion males in the world (50.42% of the world population) vs 3.905 billion women (49.58% of the world population.), I.e. more men than women.
Even if we broke that down by age groups, the males to females ratio is:
- 107.142 for the age group 15-19.
- 103 for the group aged 15-64.
- 81.8 for those over 65.
The whole argument is patently false for humans of reproductive age. The world only has more women than men aged above 65.
So there are a lot of grandmas who're alone. I agree, why would we we wish that all grandmas were alone? They should all be married off to her husband
Iblis places his throne upon water and sends his groups (helpers) to do evil deeds. The closest to him are those who tempt people to commit the most grievous of sins (fitnah). They come to him to tell him about what they did. One of them says, ‘I have done such-and-such.’ However, Iblis tells him, ‘You have done nothing.’ Another one comes and says, ‘I did not leave a man until I caused him to leave his wife and divorce her.’ Iblis becomes very pleased and calls him close to his throne and says to him, ‘How good you are!’” (Muslim, Munafiqun 67; Musnad, 3/314).... Allah said: (2:256) famously declares "There is no compulsion (forcing) in religion... You take about sunnah, start with your fard also Muslim brothers ignore the sunnah of fasting on mondays and Thursdays, they ignore the sunnah of praying 2 Rakats before fair, they forget that Tahajjud is a sunnah. The only sunnah they remember is to marry 4 wives... as Muslims we must fear Allah swt and not change the deen to suit our needs, unless we want Allah punishment to come upon us,
two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then one [marry only] from Quran...
And you will never be able to be equal just between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. From quran from Quran...
Allah said
Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded.
Surat An-Nahl 16:90
And Allah says
O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do.
Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8
“A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196)
A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to.
It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it.
No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter.
By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law.
She just needs therapy and medication.. and the she'll be fine..
Why for being dumb or cause she is Muslim
In my state there are more men than women. So it's ok for woman to marry more than one man. We don't want any men to be leftout. This is really a good idea. Thank you sister 😇
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😂😂😂😂😂😂 I hate you
There is no state where there is more men than women unless the fetus which is identified as a female is being aborted, and number two, there’s only one captain of the ship
In Haryana there is "statistically" more men than women so women too should marry more than one men right? A man should not let his brothers to stay alone forever 😇😇.
And dear humans till the end of your life you sail you own ship,nobody should do that for you whether you are single, monk, commited or married coz in the end only you pay for your karma no one else. 👍
@@mpkmix7712 lmao, check China there is Like 100 milions more MEN then women
Was she at gun point while saying this ???
This woman needs therapy.
Nah she needs education
@@Ashishsah69 Not Gobarbakht education...
Even muslims know that she is dumb
If it's gonna happen anyway, she's gotta convince herself she likes it somehow 👀
This woman has said alot of very questionable things ngl she seems psycho
I was thinking the same
How do you know? It’s clear she wants this
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@Ali A No dont encourage divorce, it is the most searched upon method of fitna with shaytaan, iblees feels good when divorce happens.
Meanwhile in every classroom of mine, boys more than girls 💀🗿
That's the reality. In 2021, the global sex ratio at birth was 106 male births per 100 female births
Your classroom doesnt reflect the world
Also your school is probably in the area of only girls schools
@@monsieurpatate1573it was a joke
lol I our class 51 girls 17 boys only lol
For the ones saying they can't share their men!! Ya'll share them but you're just in denial. Them side pieces???
If your husband is rich, I wanna marry your husband. Please encourage it❤️
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This is such a dope comment!🔥🤣
1st, become less of a gold digger then talk sis 😆
haha
@@Randomtiger007it's a joke dumba...
There are so many single mens out there too. So sistah go and find a single man than my husband.
Don't tell them we just need a guy harem shhh 👀 time to be Muslim to marry 4 wife will benefit me
Yeh lol
They are single bec most of young muslim play arround and are not serious about marriage
@@carmeng1922 that's why dating is haram. Lol
@@Series_here12 yeah its haram but most young muslim men dont care about that. Thats reality. They want to be single to enjoy a lot of haram relationships lol
I see marriage, I click :)
Nikah Mubarak Then
Fr
@@golpogil4127😂😂
Actually there are more men than women in the world, so it's a whole different story when it comes to the girl and the man
@@muslimgigachad4546 Aren't All Muslims Giga Chad?
I’m Muslim and I don’t under stand this subject until this day . But let me till you sister if you really loves your husband you will never ever say what you just said .
Society needs to be saved
I’m not disrespecting ur religion
But ours makes more sense the only season I’m saying this is cuz ur disrespecting mine I would never say this without a reply but I’m being honest I never go and disrespect ur religion but if u do it I’m happy to give u a million reasons of why Islam this and that and in ur religion u changed the Bible ur god wouldn’t be happy I’m sure he won’t say oh yea I said taht but they don’t like it so they changed it it’s not about what u feel it’s about ur orders given heaven is only granted by hard work and no convenience also some people don’t follow all teh Islamic rules but at least they don’t change the whole religion
@@samha.macchio give a sourse that we changed Bible and the Torah 😂😂
If Allah allowed this and prophets had many wifes, then it's people's fault for staying together and making problems to each other, Islam is the greatest religion
@@yolomuhanad tell the authors of bible....read the study bible watch sheikh uthman
@@MK414 why though ?
Blink three times if you need help
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She’s crazy 🤣🤣
She needs Ruqiya.
👁️ 😣 👁️ 😣 👁️ 😣
Being single doesn't mean that you're unhappy 😅
"one second wife, the other second a knife"- my mom
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Hindu's Krishna had 8 wife
@@ultrameraj2600 8 Wife with 8 Separate Krishna forms
Could a normal person do it
@@ganixditz 😂💀
@@ultrameraj2600 hazrat Muhammad (PBUH) HAD more than 4 wives 😂
Don't worry I love Muslims but I don't like when you hurt my sentiments 😢
Islam ❤ Sanatan dharm
This statement is so absurd...😂😂I can't stop myself from laughing
Hamara itna bada dil nhi hai bhai apna husband sirf apna hai 😂👍🏻
Fear Allah
If Allah make it halal you are no one to question it
It's the husband choice not yours
women run for money unless guy has super rich 🤑🤑🤑 they won't care how many partners guy has 🤣😂😂
@@Shubham-et8qk yeh but we are humans and as a girl I don't think there is any women who will be happy on his husband 2nd marriage not all women but 99% women's won't be happy and a man suppose to make his wife happy
@@Shubham-et8qk come on if you read the religion very well you'll know that quran clearly says to marry one woman... don't be stupid like people on ticktok 💀
@@HYQ_MLK ole mera bacha, its islam live with it 🥴
I'm not Muslim but I don't see the issue.
A happy family is a happy family
She should consult a doctor