The Celebrity + “Normo” Romance Boom - Normal is the New Fairytale

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    There’s a renewed interest in the “celebrity-normo” relationship, as we can see in recent stories like Marry Me, Station 11, and Starstruck. And it’s striking that the tone of modern celebrity-normo stories is shifting to give a lot more power and glamour to the normo character.
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  • @thetake
    @thetake  2 года назад +25

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      @craonbox 2 года назад +8

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    • @Chris-rg6nm
      @Chris-rg6nm 2 года назад +1

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    • @xerces27
      @xerces27 2 года назад

      Way too much airtime

    • @MaddHouseMovies
      @MaddHouseMovies 2 года назад

      @@Chris-rg6nm rite lol

    • @mjjjuly
      @mjjjuly 2 года назад +1

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  • @kristenmosquera6803
    @kristenmosquera6803 2 года назад +1392

    How do I get Chris Evans to watch this and fall in love with me?

    • @Shalinisrinath
      @Shalinisrinath 2 года назад +22

      😭😭 yes please

    • @maggiemcfly5267
      @maggiemcfly5267 2 года назад +13

      I wanna know that too!

    • @Agrover112
      @Agrover112 2 года назад +71

      Step 1: Don't put them on a pedestal.
      Failed 😂

    • @Shalinisrinath
      @Shalinisrinath 2 года назад +22

      @@Agrover112 like it would actually happen if I take him off the pedestal. Righhhhhht lol

    • @samf.s.7731
      @samf.s.7731 2 года назад +8

      Ladies... Chill!!

  • @thehapagirl92
    @thehapagirl92 2 года назад +672

    These so-called normos aren’t normal at all. They look like models. For example, Zoey Deschanel dating a guy from Property Bros isn’t her dating a normal guy. He’s rich and famous in his own right.

    • @SMoya-bc6tw
      @SMoya-bc6tw 2 года назад +63

      They're doing my man Jonathan dirty 😔

    • @ionokiero5141
      @ionokiero5141 2 года назад +26

      I know! If anything she's the one dating up!

    • @smarterperson16
      @smarterperson16 2 года назад +13

      kind of doesn't count because he's in the industry, but her ex husband is a movie producer so technically a ~non celeb

    • @lulubelle65
      @lulubelle65 2 года назад +33

      According to the Google, he is worth about four times as much as her. 100 million vs 25 million. Also, I guarantee that there are a ton of 50-year-old women who know who he is and have no idea who she is.

    • @cv8499
      @cv8499 2 года назад +28

      Exactly what I came here to say. How is a super-rich Property Brother with several TV shows a "normo"?

  • @snowflakes7344
    @snowflakes7344 2 года назад +318

    It's not really about being 'normal', but rather about not being in the same line of profession. Two rich people in the same profession can lead to clashes and jealousy if one becomes more successful than the other. For example, marriage of an actor with another actor has a high chance of failing. But marriage of an actor with someone equally rich and famous in a completely different profession has a higher chance of success.

  • @camilatz4956
    @camilatz4956 2 года назад +591

    Messi also married his childhood friend, Antonela Rocuzzo.
    They were together since the beginning. What a love story 🧡

    • @samf.s.7731
      @samf.s.7731 2 года назад +41

      That's actually an exceptionally wholesome one 😊

    • @chamuelolivier1594
      @chamuelolivier1594 2 года назад +31

      Ed Sheeran married his first love.

  • @willisthrilled
    @willisthrilled 2 года назад +495

    The Wattpad fanfic *Trapped in a Island With Josh Hutcherson* is the gold standard of this trope and no one can convince me otherwise.

    • @maytabangin5349
      @maytabangin5349 2 года назад +39

      the literary masterpiece of our time 😫

    • @ambiguoussarcasm
      @ambiguoussarcasm 2 года назад +11

      💀💀💀

    • @UdeMiwa
      @UdeMiwa 2 года назад +16

      wait why this I just know about this THANK YOU for sharing

    • @cyn1clcynide
      @cyn1clcynide 2 года назад +2

      Good lord

    • @t0tally3rica
      @t0tally3rica 2 года назад +15

      Jenny Nicholson 4ever

  • @gabrielleduplessis7388
    @gabrielleduplessis7388 2 года назад +237

    I always like stories like Kevin Jonas meeting his wife and how she did not know who he was. I think it is a good foundation because you don’t have to worry about if they are with you because of they see you as a celeb because they were not a fan first.
    Also, I just love seeing fun and genuine love stories between people who connect, who are happy when they don’t worry about games or the perfect checklist.
    I just love love. I know cliche but it is true.

    • @JB-ys2cp
      @JB-ys2cp 2 года назад +12

      Well his wife is just like us coz I could have a 10 minute conversation with that guy and not know he’s the third Jonas brother

    • @kilimanjaro5537
      @kilimanjaro5537 2 года назад +2

      Tbh most times when I hear people say they didn’t know their spouse was famous I don’t believe them because we live in a social media driven society and most people will google the person or find their socials upon meeting and exchanging info. However, I don’t know when they met so if it was during the early 2000’s(also known as pre-social media)then it is possible she’s telling the truth.

    • @gabrielleduplessis7388
      @gabrielleduplessis7388 2 года назад +6

      @@kilimanjaro5537 i feel in days before Facebook became a big thing or before social media was prevalent, i can believe it.
      Now and days, maybe not so much.
      I also think it depends on who you follow. I don’t know every celebrity out there because I only focus on only a few fandoms. I don’t keep up with politics and what not. I don’t keep up with award ceremonies either.
      Not everyone pops up on my feed so there is that.
      Also, with more people quitting social media, they are back in this bubble where they don’t know everyone or everything.
      So I am still in the middle on this subject.

    • @kilimanjaro5537
      @kilimanjaro5537 2 года назад +1

      @@gabrielleduplessis7388 that’s also true. RUclips is my only means of social media so I can attest to that as well 😅.

    • @gabrielleduplessis7388
      @gabrielleduplessis7388 2 года назад +1

      @@kilimanjaro5537 i still have facebook, but it is limited. Not everyone talks about tabloids and stuff. I only use it for book club.
      Pinterest is mostly dedicated to fan art and dIYs so RUclips is my only source for information so I am with you there too.

  • @AshleighLeeann_1_1_1_1
    @AshleighLeeann_1_1_1_1 2 года назад +185

    In my understanding, celebrities rarely mix outside of their class, So their partners although not in the fame, are still rich and successful. I wish society stopped treating celebs like greek gods. Or is it in our dna to have to worship someone

    • @patriciazandilencube4597
      @patriciazandilencube4597 2 года назад +31

      I think most people are wired to worship something/someone. God, celebrities, new diet, self-help gurus, writers, possessions...
      I don't have any philosophical or smart argument for 'why' though. Just an observation.

    • @pillbugm8914
      @pillbugm8914 2 года назад +8

      I believe it is in our DNA. We all need an anchor in some way.

    • @rsync9490
      @rsync9490 2 года назад +5

      People treat celebs like royalty and aristocrats of the previous centuries.

    • @kiwimaracuia9834
      @kiwimaracuia9834 2 года назад +1

      I worship nature

    • @tazhienunurbusinezz1703
      @tazhienunurbusinezz1703 2 года назад +2

      It's part of the human need to gossip. We prop people up & put them on pedestals only so we can enjoy tearing them down later. It's a gross sort of entertainment nowadays but gpssip wasn't always for that purpose. Back when gossip helped humans & was more for evolutionary purposes it worked quite well for our species; such as a dude picking a mate who you heard didn't have any other entanglements because DNA wasn't a thing you could test back then & the guy's family needed to make sure that their wealth was going to go to an actual heir or even further back where gossip would tell people where food was, what the tribe on the other side of the river was like & if there was a land bridge you could cross to expand your hunting area if there wasn't enough where you were.

  • @grapeshot
    @grapeshot 2 года назад +296

    Yeah it's definitely one of those it mostly happens in fantasyland. Most people kick it with people that have the same education level and the same economic level.

    • @AxxLAfriku
      @AxxLAfriku 2 года назад +4

      I was a boy. They were two girls. Can I make it any more obvious? I am RUclips's ALPHA MALE. Acknowledge it, dear sno

    • @catalinagatita
      @catalinagatita 2 года назад +3

      Sounds boring

    • @adrianghandtchi1562
      @adrianghandtchi1562 2 года назад

      @Personal Jesus and it will be still boring

    • @EA-by2he
      @EA-by2he 2 года назад +23

      @@catalinagatita why is it boring? The fact you're with someone that is compatible on you're less likely to end up with a dead beat? Boring life is a stable life, don't get why people want to mess it up by looking for excitement in other people

    • @zitronentee
      @zitronentee 2 года назад +11

      This is mostly famous and not-famous people, not rich and average people.

  • @potatopahato3542
    @potatopahato3542 2 года назад +160

    Shocking that people like other people. You can have different professions and still be happy. Most of these couples are from the same socio-economic backgrounds, so still not very far out of reach.

  • @limerence8365
    @limerence8365 2 года назад +111

    Just realised that because of the subject matter, this is the first wholesome The Take video I've watched in a while. I don't just learn something but am also happy something in the world is the way it is.

  • @Angi3_6
    @Angi3_6 2 года назад +116

    When I heard Starstruck, I was hoping it was the Disney movie.

    • @rishitachakraborty9783
      @rishitachakraborty9783 2 года назад +8

      Same! 😂😂

    • @aidafuentesv
      @aidafuentesv 2 года назад +6

      Starstruck
      Camera flashes
      Cover of magazines
      Starstruck
      Designer sunglasses
      Living the dream as a teen

    • @catherinebova4556
      @catherinebova4556 2 года назад +1

      Me too me too!

    • @Angi3_6
      @Angi3_6 2 года назад +2

      @Nang Lei I’m a Millennial. 🤣

  • @marinaserina2658
    @marinaserina2658 2 года назад +108

    this one is a bit of a reach to me. The story of the celeb achieving a simpler fairytale life has been a popular idea for centuries, and it will not wind down any time soon, it's not a "boom". Also, celebs dating smaller celebs and slightly less privileged people is not really shocking

  • @hannahohno
    @hannahohno 2 года назад +83

    At about the mark of 15 minutes is when the word “normo” started getting on my nerves, now I hate it with a red hot passion.

    • @samf.s.7731
      @samf.s.7731 2 года назад

      I like it 😊

    • @Snazzy12341
      @Snazzy12341 2 года назад +4

      Normies

    • @merry_christmas
      @merry_christmas 2 года назад +2

      15 minutes? You're certainly stronger than me. I choked on it the first time, thinking I heard wrong.

  • @janecenufer9097
    @janecenufer9097 2 года назад +42

    I have zero desire to ever date someone famous, but it's fun to watch the fairytale play out.

    • @dance_ofThaDEAD
      @dance_ofThaDEAD 2 года назад +3

      Yeah, too many paparazzi horror stories to make me wanna ever do that

    • @kilimanjaro5537
      @kilimanjaro5537 2 года назад +10

      @Rainbow Rose Princess Mishti honestly, just being a regular person with money seems like a better life than being FAMOUS and rich. I do not desire celebrities lives, most of them seem miserable and honestly I can see why. I much prefer being a normal/regular person 😭

  • @justinmoore8934
    @justinmoore8934 2 года назад +45

    I don’t consider rich people normal they aren’t if we use the actual definition of normal it works like majority rules middle class people getting a celebrity would be impressive not millionaires 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @witchplease9695
    @witchplease9695 2 года назад +30

    A lot of these people aren’t really “normal” just less famous lmao. I mean, the Property Brothers??

  • @KariTalks
    @KariTalks 2 года назад +58

    Baker and the Beauty is a great take on the whirl wind romance of a “normo” and a celebrity along with the pitfalls (I’ve only seen the American version, not the original)

    • @zachryder3150
      @zachryder3150 2 года назад +2

      Why was it cancelled though!?

    • @KariTalks
      @KariTalks 2 года назад +5

      @@zachryder3150 because we can’t have nice things

  • @AlexaGoldSoul
    @AlexaGoldSoul 2 года назад +47

    Good to know “Normo’s” are still props in the lives of celebrities 😒 As a “Normo” (🤦🏽‍♀️🤣), trying to live up to the romantic and spiritual ideals of someone in the spotlight is a kind of pressure too. If you (as a celebrity) don’t have a moral compass or a sense of spirituality or common sense when I meet you, something is wrong to begin with. That statement might be a bit pessimistic but the reality is, or rather my question is, why do we give “Celebrities” so much power?! And on the issue of power imbalances - I wouldn’t call Amal and George Clooney’s relationship imbalanced. But if I had to choose who was more powerful, it damn sure wouldn’t be George.
    Also, I don’t need the validation of someone in the public eye to make me feel seen, worthy or capable of great achievements. It’s really depressing that we place so much importance and emphasis on gaining notoriety and public acclaim. It’s cool but it doesn’t make a person who they truly are…I honestly think some of these films are weird in their portrayal of a “glamorous” vs “average” life. Just because my life isn’t Public doesn’t mean I’m not living fabulous!

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive 2 года назад

      Popularity can be an indicator for how much money a person has, sometimes. Not always, but yeah it is the money.

  • @WhelmedButReady
    @WhelmedButReady 2 года назад +110

    It's these types of videos that gives us guys and gals confidence to think that our celebrity crushes MIGHT JUST fall in love with us some day.

    • @samf.s.7731
      @samf.s.7731 2 года назад +21

      No, it reminds us of the dangers of writing/reading too much "fanfiction". In our heads or on the internet.
      I think one day everyone grows out of the phase of thinking that they can possibly date a celebrity, and are able to just enjoy art instead.
      Plus, the realization that these re real people with problems of their own also kicks in, and you definitely start to empathize rather than behave in a predatory manner.
      You see that some of them are just regular people trying to do their best and are passionate about their jobs.
      I love George and Amal because they do come from different backgrounds and were somehow able to make it work. For example, the age gap is the least of concern there, there's so much more that could have gone wrong. The media definitely liked to portray their relationship initially as "Oh she's so lucky"; the truth is, I actually think she could have done better. He's the lucky one that's for sure. But there's something to be greatly admired about him not feeling knocked down by this one peg, in fact, he's proud rather than threatened, and in that sense, she helped bring out the best in him. This is an insanely attractive quality.
      In addition, I think it's so much more fulfilling for one to chase after a better version of themselves than to fantasize about seeking that kind of validation from someone else.
      Unpopular opinion, but I think that it's constantly downplayed how you can be very happy through achieving self-fulfillment/actualization, even if no romantic relationship follows that.

    • @rockinggirl0610
      @rockinggirl0610 2 года назад +1

      @@samf.s.7731 super trueeee

  • @alyzu4755
    @alyzu4755 2 года назад +20

    Just came here to say that "Coming to America" is brilliant.
    That is all.
    Carry on.

  • @zoiisite6741
    @zoiisite6741 2 года назад +121

    But my question is, does it make the relationship between a "fan" and the celebrity more complicated? As in, maybe a little more toxic where in the pursuit of getting that wish fulfillment, as a normal person, may lead some to behave questionably. Though some celebrities also have this weird problem of not being able to set boundaries in the relationship with their fans, making the fans go to extremes to be around their idols. I don't know, the situation just becomes really absurd sometimes.

    • @ssh1487
      @ssh1487 2 года назад +3

      If you actually watched the video before commenting, you'd know that they covered this and differentiated relationships with fans from relationships with people who aren't fans/aren't a fan of the industry they work for/aren't bothered about fame

    • @zoiisite6741
      @zoiisite6741 2 года назад +3

      @@ssh1487 I did watch the full video before commenting and wanted to allude to the questionable or toxic approach of some fans that might spring up by latching onto this kind of idea.

  • @XenoRaptor-98765
    @XenoRaptor-98765 2 года назад +30

    In my book “Normal is nothing more but a funny word”.

  • @irismentor7985
    @irismentor7985 2 года назад +5

    OMG I'm so glad Starstruck is getting some attention here on RUclips! I can't see anyone talking about it and it's literally my comfort tv.

  • @FlamingButterfly1
    @FlamingButterfly1 2 года назад +48

    I was sort of watiting for Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn to be mentioned in this. While Joe is not exactly unknown (he is a successful actor himself), he is nowhere near the level of fame and net worth Taylor is at. This is a good deal for both of them, as Taylor herself said that Joe is living a very normal, grounded life and it appears their relationship works much better than Taylor's relationship witth high-profile celebrities.
    I think this is a great tendency overall.

    • @loulicious5882
      @loulicious5882 2 года назад +13

      Yea true but well he is still an actor also there relationship isnt norma celbrity as they literally met in Met Gala most glamours event and hoth have now won grammy together so not really that good example for this video

    • @edithputhy4948
      @edithputhy4948 2 года назад +14

      huh? they're literally both celebrities, even if one of them is way more famous than the other

    • @muskannath1521
      @muskannath1521 2 года назад +1

      Well it’s like zoey deschanel marrying the property brothers guy or Adele with her sports agent boy friend/ fiancé who were both mentioned in the video they are famous in their respective fields but no where near the global fame that their partners have same is the case for Taylor and joe

    • @lamb9770
      @lamb9770 2 года назад +3

      @@edithputhy4948swifties ALWAYS have to mention taylor even when the topic doesn’t apply to her

    • @MegaBabro
      @MegaBabro 2 года назад +1

      Agreed, was scrolling to look for this comment! He was barely just starting out when they started dating in 2016 and she's said so herself how she liked being part of his "normal, stable" family life.

  • @harmanagrawal5781
    @harmanagrawal5781 2 года назад +31

    As always, Call my agent gas already made a satire about this in its episode with Monica Belluci. She wishes to date somwone "normal" and even goes to a book store so that she'll meet someone like in Notting Hill

  • @zoelopez1426
    @zoelopez1426 2 года назад +6

    One of my fave irl versions of this is Dolly Parton and Carl Thomas Dean

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 2 года назад +65

    ‘Notting Hill’ set unrealistic expectations for me that one day I’ll be hot and fabulous and find a cute, charming and polite British guy (men across the spectrum are welcome) to live a cozy life with.

    • @brucasroxx
      @brucasroxx 2 года назад +3

      Same 😭 me being on the lookout when I visit London next year 😅

    • @QUARTERMASTEREMI6
      @QUARTERMASTEREMI6 2 года назад +2

      British/Irish/Scottish guys are my weakness! 😍

    • @bennyton2560
      @bennyton2560 2 года назад +1

      come to the uk then. I'm dating one☺

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive 2 года назад

      Polite British guy is an oxymoron

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 2 года назад +17

    ‘Starstruck’ sounds like a fun subversion of ‘Notting Hill’. Noice. Nikesh Patel seems cool.

  • @mecheva9098
    @mecheva9098 2 года назад +8

    The reason this version of fairytale is so appealing is b/c we 'normos' are watching all these celebrities scold us for our values and real-life sense while exposing their own virtue signaling and echo-chamber ignorance. So the 'normo' romance is actually showing that real people have a value even beyond riches and fame.

  • @oxurrr
    @oxurrr 2 года назад +4

    from power couples and diversity to celeb+normo it is all was manifested in fanfiction culture bsck in 10s

    • @oxurrr
      @oxurrr 2 года назад

      @Rainbow Rose Princess Mishti yeah..Y/N character often seemed to be annoying and Mary Sue ish but I don't mind if helped tweens feel better

    • @oxurrr
      @oxurrr 2 года назад

      @Rainbow Rose Princess Mishti aww

  • @gabrielleduplessis7388
    @gabrielleduplessis7388 2 года назад +13

    Have not seen Mary Me yet, but what intrigued me was the modern take on “arranged marriage” so to speak.
    While I now it is not technically arranged, it still has that fantasy of falling in love in times versus dating and failing or marrying for love first but end up in a horrible marriage and get divorced.
    Not all arranged marriages are bad and some even realize that their parents dis an incredibly great job of finding their perfect match.

  • @LunaPraun
    @LunaPraun 2 года назад +31

    Would be nice if there was a list of the works mentioned on the videos!

    • @JC-yy8iv
      @JC-yy8iv 2 года назад +3

      They used to do that, idk why they stopped

  • @Deroliebe
    @Deroliebe 2 года назад +158

    Marriage Story: She gave up career and agency. He gave up… sex. Poor baby.
    EDIT: He gave up sex with OTHER people.

    • @samf.s.7731
      @samf.s.7731 2 года назад +5

      Y'know it took me a while to see that this can end a marriage, lack of sex or just a decline in quality and frequency.
      It's hard to feel sexy when you're swamped with marital duties and caring for your child. But some guys can't take it, and when you don't know that that's a fact, it's hard to see the consequences coming and be outraged by them.
      I am a woman, and I gotta say if I'm marrying someone they better tmhave a lot of sex with me, and only me. I don't expect to put that on an extended hiatus for any reason.

    • @Deroliebe
      @Deroliebe 2 года назад +26

      @@samf.s.7731 I meant he gave up sex with OTHER people. It didn’t seem to be a sexless marriage but his breakdown that he didn’t get to fuck around versus she gave up her whole being for me and somehow equating is what’s wrong with some men today. Sex is important but it’s not THAT important especially in comparison to someone’s worth and career.

    • @samf.s.7731
      @samf.s.7731 2 года назад +1

      @@Deroliebe Hahaha I dated the variety, they're something!
      Worst part is, he got jealous whenever I called other guys hot. Meanwhile we were on and off according to his whims and I'm pretty sure he's sadistic tbh.
      Good riddance! Never looking back.
      Bet he still goes around trying to @#$k. Damn, those insecure guys are the worst.

    • @ninjadude971
      @ninjadude971 2 года назад +5

      @@Deroliebe he does say she wouldn’t sleep with him during the last year, which is when he cheated on her
      Still, though, it was really stupid to bring up in the argument and tbh I actually like that scene because up until then we see Charlie as a “good guy” but that’s when the goggles begin to come off and you start to see him as much more of a soft boy villain

    • @Deroliebe
      @Deroliebe 2 года назад

      @@ninjadude971 lol “soft boy” villain. I’ve never heard that! Although I wonder… this was based on the director’s marriage and obviously he doesn’t see himself badly so are we, as an audience, supposed to feel sorry for Adam Driver’s character?

  • @KazumiShiunsai
    @KazumiShiunsai 2 года назад +26

    wait...at the beginning you are comparing normies with Hollywood producers and millionares. wth

  • @Svengali764
    @Svengali764 2 года назад +10

    Fame is such a nightmare to me. Can't ever think of marrying a famous person. 😂😂

    • @joycezale5433
      @joycezale5433 2 года назад +3

      I know right? Like, why would you marry a celebrity? Unless you knew them on a personal level, like as a childhood friend. Otherwise , a celebrity is one of the most unwise choices as a marriage partner. Especially if you want a private life.

    • @Svengali764
      @Svengali764 2 года назад +4

      @@joycezale5433 exactly.. like literal strangers passing judgement because you happen to marry a famous person. Nope.

  • @qnnnnn3557
    @qnnnnn3557 2 года назад +1

    I think this relationship dynamic also greatly benefits the celebrity. For people who “live vicariously through their favorite artist” it adds that little bit of common/normal traits to a life that we wish we had but also would be totally unused to. It’s like getting the glitz and glamour and money but also an honest, down to earth love which is often the more desired form of love :)
    you wouldn’t be the rich celebrity who marries for more money but the rich celebrity who is so rich and fulfilled that you marry for real love. We don’t just identify as the “civilian” in the relationship but because of celebrity culture we also identify with the celebrity and sometimes look up to them to live a similar life one day

  • @roh8727
    @roh8727 Год назад +1

    Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn are a good example. Joe is not a real celebrity because of his work but because of his relationship with Taylor (not bashing his acting or anything, it's just the truth). However, that's something that Taylor has said that she loves about him: his grounded and normal life. And they've been together for almost 7 years now. He gives her the sense of normalcy that her life lacked and she's introduced him to her famous contacts which I'm sure have helped him with his career. I think they found a nice balance where they both help each other get what they needed and/or wanted.

  • @madnessarcade7447
    @madnessarcade7447 2 года назад +17

    Happens a lot in the movies it’s a lot more rare irl I wish I got that lucky where a celebrity was like you date me

  • @bellaknightR597
    @bellaknightR597 2 года назад +17

    Every fanficton ever:

  • @apscoinscurrenciesmore7599
    @apscoinscurrenciesmore7599 2 года назад +17

    Forget romance. Try getting a signed pic. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @firefly5571
    @firefly5571 2 года назад +19

    This is why I don't have celebrity worship. I don't follow any celebrity on instagram or tik tok because I am not invested in their lives when I have a life of my own. It is nice to have a fairytale but, let's face it.... IT'S A FAIRYTALE. Anyone can have normalcy, it depends on the couple who wants normalcy. Look at Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively, even though they are both A-list actors, they still keep each other grounded and down to earth. I think it just depends on individuality who wants privacy or not.

    • @kilimanjaro5537
      @kilimanjaro5537 2 года назад +2

      Sis, same. When I was little I probably wanted to marry a celebrity but at my age today I would not want that. Especially because it seems like it comes with too many litigations and also most of them seem to be involved in some weird ish and I don’t mess with that 🙅🏾‍♀️.

  • @reannagordon
    @reannagordon 2 года назад +29

    Ariana marrying a real estate agent was something I didn’t expect but he makes her happy so good for her.

    • @anto4380delaguaridaa
      @anto4380delaguaridaa 2 года назад +8

      I mean he sells mansions but yeah

    • @itsybitsy999
      @itsybitsy999 2 года назад +2

      @@anto4380delaguaridaa Does he know somebody in real estate? He was with a very prestigious agency in his very early 20s.

  • @madnessarcade7447
    @madnessarcade7447 2 года назад +10

    Baker and the beauty should be on here
    That’s a great example
    Starstruck too
    Ps: I meant the Disney version

  • @gabrielleduplessis7388
    @gabrielleduplessis7388 2 года назад +4

    Last one, when the “normo” sees the true self of the celebrity, I think it is mainly the celebrity wanting to show that especially when they trust that person.
    It is trust, loyalty, and give and take, some things every relationship requires.

  • @evilcleiton3768
    @evilcleiton3768 2 года назад +3

    I think that also this type of relationships come out of boredom of been with the same people all the time and they look for someone with a different opinion, a new perspective or a value system that is totally different from what they know.

  • @UnboxingAlyss
    @UnboxingAlyss 2 года назад +9

    Interesting take, though I don't watch romance movies. Part of the reason is this trope. It just isn't realistic. Yes, there were some examples, but many of those "normos" (or "normies?") were still fairly well-known in their fields, or from wealthy families. I never had this belief, as it's so unrealistic , it's laughable.

  • @pinkmoon831
    @pinkmoon831 2 года назад +23

    Ariana Grande's husband kinda looks like Natalie Portman 😆

  • @blondefisk
    @blondefisk 2 года назад +4

    Good morning from New Zealand!!!

  • @inescastellano7960
    @inescastellano7960 2 года назад +4

    "Coming to America" deserves its own video analysis.

  • @fortune_roses
    @fortune_roses 2 года назад +5

    It seems like this would *make more sense* ... celeb + celeb seems *notoriously* difficult

  • @lilil9752
    @lilil9752 2 года назад +17

    new? wattpad had it since 2006

    • @deryasonmez330
      @deryasonmez330 2 года назад +1

      Actually it’s always been a trope.

  • @londongirl6711
    @londongirl6711 2 года назад +4

    But it's perpetuating the idea that beautiful successful women should settle for average to prove that they're down to earth. Where are the uber handsome men with below average/obese/anti charismatic women???

    • @toomuchinformation
      @toomuchinformation 2 года назад

      Pierce Brosnan, Hugh Jackman. It's a short list.

    • @deryasonmez330
      @deryasonmez330 2 года назад

      No one is asking anyone to prove anything.

  • @VidWatcher01
    @VidWatcher01 8 месяцев назад

    There was a sitcom back in the early 2000s about this very thing. I think it called, "I'm with Her"

  • @angelmushahf
    @angelmushahf 2 года назад

    Anybody remember that movie with Mark Ruffalo, Keira Knightly and Adam Levine? It had that song about “hunting season” and how Keira Knighty’s character was with Adam Levine’s character

  • @bexyPTX
    @bexyPTX 2 года назад +3

    The first example of this I could think of was the DCOM Starstruck. I feel like calling Jonathan Scott a "normo" is a bit of a stretch but sure, I guess.

  • @ndiekwere6027
    @ndiekwere6027 2 года назад +2

    Movies mentioned; Marry me, station 11 and star struck.

  • @klabkebash
    @klabkebash 2 года назад

    You could have used the series Beauty and the Baker as an example. It fit this trope perfectly.

  • @KayleighAnnWilliams
    @KayleighAnnWilliams 2 года назад +5

    What in the Wattpad 😆

  • @joycezale5433
    @joycezale5433 2 года назад +13

    That's the thing. Most Celebrities have married 'normal' people who are rich and successful, but without the fame. Are there any celebrities other than matt Damon who has married a poor person?

  • @silverfoxchain
    @silverfoxchain 2 года назад

    I love this type of content! 💖
    Thank you so much!
    You are all the best 👌

  • @kayleighdriessen
    @kayleighdriessen 2 года назад +1

    I don't know if you guys still make videos about tropes but if so can you talk about the Damsel in Distress?

  • @DCMarvelMultiverse
    @DCMarvelMultiverse 2 года назад +1

    Being shocked by this is like being shocked by reporters dating big business types.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 2 года назад +4

    Stans, as explained earlier on this channel, are still represented in a one-dimensional manner.

  • @Hallows4
    @Hallows4 2 года назад +6

    I think one reason George and Amal work so well is because their personalities are not as different as you might think. He’s always been very involved in philanthropy and doing good things for people. It’s not hard to see how a personality like that would pair with a with a high-powered human rights lawyer.

  • @paulojrneto
    @paulojrneto 2 года назад +1

    In Notting Hill, Will thinks that Leonardo Di Caprio is an Italian director but he knows that Anna Scott is a big moviestar.

  • @misscocobellemamabolo7133
    @misscocobellemamabolo7133 2 года назад +1

    Wish you guys could give a list of all the movies that you reference in each of your videos. Some I haven't watched and would love to

  • @ariadneschild8460
    @ariadneschild8460 2 года назад

    The classic in this trope is princess Mary, Frederick had to tell her he was the crown Prince of Denmark when they met.

  • @joycezale5433
    @joycezale5433 2 года назад +3

    Station eleven looks interesting

  • @123.45-d
    @123.45-d 2 года назад +19

    The thumbnail doesn't match the topic, Ariana's husband is from a rich family

    • @Missmagazinebura
      @Missmagazinebura 2 года назад +5

      But he isn’t famous

    • @123.45-d
      @123.45-d 2 года назад +3

      @@Missmagazinebura It's still not a simple life tho

  • @itsactualaimee
    @itsactualaimee 2 года назад +5

    The question is why are these celebrity women settling down for a normal guy when it should be the opposite? 🤔

  • @musayriven
    @musayriven 2 года назад +3

    We saw how celebrity + celebrity relationships end up but anyway...

  • @unityedits3722
    @unityedits3722 2 года назад +2

    When you said "Starstruck" I thought... Nvm

  • @TheSingingEater1.0
    @TheSingingEater1.0 Год назад

    HOW COULD YOU FORGET Jack/Rose from Titanic???!!! Other examples of celeb/normies forgotten to mention are Joe Alwyn/Taylor Swift, Noah/Allie from the Notebook & Kim Kardashian/Kris Humphries!! Or even Prince Harry/(arguably) Meghan Markle, Bill Clinton/Monica Lewinsky, John Legend/Chrissy Teigan, Justin Bieber/Hailey, GORDON RAMSEY!

  • @michalkarniel1640
    @michalkarniel1640 2 года назад

    Can you PLEASE cover Netflix's "lies and deciet"?? Especially the ending? Pleaseeeee

  • @emilyplunkett6034
    @emilyplunkett6034 2 года назад

    NGL, between this video, and your one today about tall women/short men, you're giving my hidden rock star groupie a bit of hope. 😋

  • @kaylaclark3660
    @kaylaclark3660 2 года назад +2

    It’s like when Ricky didn’t want a famous wife so he could feel like there’s a break between the home life and show biz

  • @jamiecrucefix4078
    @jamiecrucefix4078 2 года назад

    I wish you'd included " The Long Shot " too

  • @yz4043
    @yz4043 2 года назад +1

    I think another example is taylor swift and joe alwyn because he was an unknown before her

  • @passiveaggressive6175
    @passiveaggressive6175 2 года назад +3

    Why have never heard of Station 11? I love Gael Bernal. Where can I watch it in the UK?

  • @XxMyvxRocksx382xX
    @XxMyvxRocksx382xX 2 года назад +1

    now i just need to slow motion walk by Timothee chalamet in my best outfit 😩

  • @MarioLanzas.
    @MarioLanzas. 2 года назад +6

    I still don't understand why Crazy Rich Asians is so praised. It's just a long ass Singapore promotional video with all the rom-com cliches

  • @m.garrett2609
    @m.garrett2609 2 года назад +5

    Not necessarily ideal to me. Seems like the imbalance in life style would eventually make the marriage burn out. If I am a "normo" what will happen to my career or dreams? Is everything going to revolve around my super famous partner? The exposure would be forever. It is a whole different world. And people in the arts get that. I as a "normo" may never assimilate to that life.
    Perception. And do not get me started on the money situation. Man or woman you look like a gold digger LOL. But if you are a dude it can seem pretty emasculating, from the outside looking in. Example, Jennifer Lawrence and her husband. He may very well come from a wealthy family or whatever BUT it is not the same a being famous. We will see how that plays out.
    Not saying it is impossible, but you would have to be mature, totally great communicators, and dedicated to that relationship.

  • @mariapaz6379
    @mariapaz6379 2 года назад

    i just want to point out, that at the current time, the idea of normal people being better than celebrities, is quite popular. So this might factor in with this "new" versions of the normos&celebrities

  • @daniellesve5595
    @daniellesve5595 2 года назад

    I saw that slick James Franco diss

  • @LauraSomeNumber
    @LauraSomeNumber 2 года назад +12

    European football? You mean the football that is played by th rest of the world.

    • @deryasonmez330
      @deryasonmez330 2 года назад +1

      Literally ball that you play with your foot and not hand like the Americans haha.

  • @bbrbbr-on2gd
    @bbrbbr-on2gd 2 года назад

    It's not about "Normins", it's about how celebrities are a different kind of messed up. Lmao

  • @SkinnyNala
    @SkinnyNala 2 года назад +1

    I want to get togther with my favorite celebrity, not for his wealth but for his cute way of laughing. Nobody makes me so happy just watchimg them love.
    I'm sure plenty of ppl know who I'm talking about XD

  • @chesirecat2969
    @chesirecat2969 2 года назад

    Celebrities. They're just like us. We all have them. Who needs them?

    • @deryasonmez330
      @deryasonmez330 2 года назад

      We need to be entertained by people who objectify themselves for money.

    • @chesirecat2969
      @chesirecat2969 2 года назад

      @@deryasonmez330 What I said was a reference, I wasn't actually asking "Who needs them?"

    • @deryasonmez330
      @deryasonmez330 2 года назад

      @@chesirecat2969 that’s okay.

  • @dimplesd8931
    @dimplesd8931 2 года назад

    I’ve gotta see Station 11 because I can’t figure out why these people got together? She hates what he does for a living? Weird. The “real world” version of this is how women fantasize about marrying a doctor,lawyer… any guy who makes a lot of money.

  • @letoII
    @letoII 2 года назад

    Love Starstruck!

  • @foxesofautumn
    @foxesofautumn 2 года назад +9

    Good vid but really hoping “Normo” doesn’t catch on as an expression. It sounds like an insult.

  • @alexisatkinson7420
    @alexisatkinson7420 2 года назад +1

    Loved this and I love a mutual fairytale. Both sides should feel like they’ve won the lottery and have met someone who sees them truly. 🥰

  • @P3tra63
    @P3tra63 2 года назад +2

    Calling LeBrons agent a normo is...weird. He is not celeb per se but still he is in celeb world. He is not some guy doing regular corporate job

  • @senister14
    @senister14 2 года назад +2

    I got my wife by just showing up and talking to her, it's all about knowing you want and go getting it.

    • @senister14
      @senister14 2 года назад +1

      @Rainbow Rose Princess Mishti thanks, it is a cute story, and we're happily still together, got twins on the way.

    • @senister14
      @senister14 2 года назад +1

      @Rainbow Rose Princess Mishti yeah I know, I'm a very lucky guy, we're handling it ( me and my wife) the best we can, I'm lucky it's not my first but this is the first double dose of joy. Boys too, so harder in the beginning, but I'm up for the challenge.

  • @raphaelmarquez9650
    @raphaelmarquez9650 2 года назад +2

    The term "normo" seems redundant because "normie" already exists to fulfill the same definition.

  • @chanzy8613
    @chanzy8613 2 года назад

    Can you list the works used in ur videos pls ? (Tv shows and films)

  • @packnetadaija
    @packnetadaija 2 года назад

    I honestly had no idea that Zoey got with one of the property brothers, hunh TIL I guess haha

  • @rsync9490
    @rsync9490 2 года назад +1

    Jonathan scott being a 'normie' is a huge stretch. He is just not as famous as Zoey.

  • @aevi09
    @aevi09 2 года назад

    im happy for hor atair