HOW TO STOP SHOPPING || I bought NOTHING for a year || 9 tips for a NO BUY

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  • Опубликовано: 30 окт 2024

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  • @ivanaantic5613
    @ivanaantic5613 3 года назад +64

    I have just completed my second month of No buy/low buy and whenever I feel weak I binge your videos and I am fine, lol

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад +7

      Oh wow, that’s such a lovely comment and I’m so pleased you find my videos helpful! It’s so good to find like minded people on RUclips ... I watch a lot of low buy / no buy content myself to keep motivated 😁😁

  • @lo5338
    @lo5338 3 года назад +30

    You own 6 pairs of shoes. The admiration. I can't even.
    My problem is online shopping. I have a lot of 'down-time' at work to fill.

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад +3

      I’ve done a bit of online browsing recently but I’m a real over thinker when it comes to making purchases so I rarely hit the buy button. Maybe keep things in your trolley and revisit the items a couple of days later to be sure you still want them. Just a suggestion as I tend to do that and I find that it helps me feel sure about anything I buy 😁

    • @yubima
      @yubima 3 года назад

      I buy online things that arent in my country. Maibe you can put them in the shoping cart, think about them and see if you really need them or want them.

  • @shaunaburton7136
    @shaunaburton7136 3 года назад +8

    I’ve repaired almost every piece of clothes I down instead of purchasing new. I really like how the repaired clothes look. I hope it becomes a trend

  • @LaDonna-nl6dm
    @LaDonna-nl6dm 3 года назад +4

    I like how you spoke on “inspirational life.” That’s exactly how I shop. I buy things thinking I can wear it for events that aren’t planned or may not happen . I’m going to only clothes shop for things that are planned.

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад

      Yep, I was definitely guilty of that in the past and I think your strategy of only buying things that are already planned is a great way to move forward! Xx

  • @saranox7319
    @saranox7319 3 года назад +8

    I relate to the urge to spend in autumn and in spring for me. During summer and winter I don‘t get the same urge.
    I practice minimalism and frugalism but it became very tiring after a few years so
    I let myself of the hook a bit in 2020.
    I am excited to challenge myself again in 2021.

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад +2

      That’s so interesting as I’m starting to feel the same way about 2021.
      This past year has been so hard that I’m going to allow myself to make some purchases in the new year 😁
      I’m still intending to practice being minimal and frugal for the most part but will be relaxing on the intensity X

  • @Delkb89
    @Delkb89 2 года назад +4

    I’m so glad I have found your channel and this video. I’m incredibly inspired to do a no-buy low buy in 2022. Thank you so much!

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  2 года назад

      Thank you for such a lovely comment and good luck with your no buy! 😘 X

  • @ChrisTheAspergerGuy
    @ChrisTheAspergerGuy 4 года назад +13

    I think I've gotten pretty good at watching my spending even if I slip up once in a while, but I seriously need to do some decluttering. I have too much stuff I don't wear or use.

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  4 года назад +1

      Oh you should ... it’s life changing and makes your space feel so much more pleasant ... you know I can’t recommend it highly enough 😁😁

  • @kgaugelondala7604
    @kgaugelondala7604 2 года назад

    This is my new journey on 2022. I listen to videos, I have prayed about it and can't wait to start.

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  2 года назад

      Good luck! I wish you success 👏👏

  • @lenahamburg6776
    @lenahamburg6776 3 года назад +7

    Great video ! I really like how you speak! You have a lovely voice, I hope your channel will grow ❤

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад

      Thanks so much Lena - I appreciate your support 😁😘 xx

  • @ALifeFullofMeaning
    @ALifeFullofMeaning 2 года назад +1

    I found this video really inspiring. Thank you, and congratulations with your low buy / no buy success.

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  2 года назад

      Thank you for leaving such a kind comment 😁 xx

  • @Cabaill21
    @Cabaill21 4 года назад +5

    Most inspiring video I’ve watched in a while! Thanks for sharing 🥰

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  4 года назад

      Such a nice comment and I'm so pleased you found it helpful! x

  • @siancollins3142
    @siancollins3142 4 года назад +3

    Such a great video, thank you! This is the first video of yours that I've watched. I've subscribed and looking forward to watching more!! I'm starting my No Buy year tomorrow (my birthday!) and I'm really excited about the positive changes it will bring! 🤩

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  4 года назад

      Hey Sian great to meet you and really excited to hear about your no buy! It completely changed my life and I'm a huge advocate for it 😁 You'll save a lot and there's also so many mental health benefits (stops the guilt of over spending, prevents you from falling into the comparison trap etc etc). I have lots of vids on my channel if you need any help, tips or inspiration and there's a bunch of other great channels you should follow if you ever need more inspiration - Style Apotheca, Hannah Louise Poston and A Small Wardrobe are some of my favourites xx

  • @zoramendora877
    @zoramendora877 4 года назад +5

    You're such a well spoken person! :D
    I'm trying to do a no-buy month this janurary for RUclips.
    You just earned yourself a like and a new subscriber! I'm looking forward for more content! ♡

  • @rosieroberts6738
    @rosieroberts6738 2 года назад +1

    Please...do a lot of no buy videos.
    I would LOVE to hear how you talk yourself out of buying things!!!
    Definite goal...
    😊😀😁🥰👍

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  2 года назад

      I’ll be doing monthly budget videos this year and going into my finances where I will talk about making good financial decisions 😁😁 Thanks for watching and commenting xx

  • @louisemaris
    @louisemaris 2 года назад

    Just found you on RUclips. Love this, have subscribed and will watch all your vids! I can totally relate to it. Thank you!

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  2 года назад +1

      Thanks Louise! Great to meet you and I’m so pleased you’re enjoying my content 😁 X

    • @louisemaris
      @louisemaris 2 года назад

      @@simantha1686 it’s brilliant. It’s great to see such a great RUclipsr, with such great content, from the UK. Really useful and so inspiring. Loving all the minimalist vids and looking forward to checking out your other content. Thank you!!! 🤩

  • @user-cv2us3kj2s
    @user-cv2us3kj2s 3 года назад +3

    Hi, Love ur attitude and share factor. I so want to try the no buy quest. I need u! Thx for doing all! Love ur channel! Tonya

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад

      Ah, thanks so much Tonya for leaving such a nice comment! I'm glad you found the video helpful and lots of luck with your no buy quest - I'm sure you'll find it really fulfilling and great for the bank balance as well! 😉 x

  • @danimcg85
    @danimcg85 4 года назад +2

    Just came across your videos as I need some inspiration to stop impulse buying and surprisingly I noticed we both got married at the same venue in Scotland. It’s a small world!

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  4 года назад

      Ooh how cool ... it’s such an lovely venue isn’t it? You must be Scottish then? 😁 I hope you found the video helpful and thanks for watching! 😘 x

    • @danimcg85
      @danimcg85 4 года назад

      @@simantha1686 it is lovely. Yep, from central Scotland. I certainly did and I’ve subscribed to catch up on some more of your videos. Enjoying them all! X

  •  4 года назад +18

    You should have more subscribers for this quality content. I have also just started vloging, curious about the growth ;) keep up

  • @AkwaIbomDoll
    @AkwaIbomDoll 3 года назад +2

    I've been getting into minimalism more and this just inspired me to reduce my spending even more, thanks for such well produced content 👏🏽

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад

      Ah I’m so pleased you’ve found the video helpful 😁👍

  • @chocolateviolin2326
    @chocolateviolin2326 4 года назад +5

    Waiting out is so difficult! You notice an online sale. A dress costed 35, now it's down to 15. Click :D I'm starting "no buy" month today. A dress was my last purchase.

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  4 года назад +1

      Ooh good for you! Do let me know how it goes 😁 And I totally get it re waiting it out ... in the end I stopped going into shops and looking online altogether. Now I do allow myself to look occasionally but not buying stuff has become such a habit now that it has gotten a bit easier 😁 x

    • @chocolateviolin2326
      @chocolateviolin2326 4 года назад

      @@simantha1686 The dress is a hot pink, pop out colour, so I bought it to brighten up my winter days. It will be so distinct in my wardrobe, I will remember that this was my last purchase. I ran out of clothes hangers recently and this should have been a warning I've got too many clothes. Let's stay strong now. All the money needs to be saved for Christmas gifts for family. If I last a "no buy" month, I'll do a "no buy" year for sure.

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  4 года назад

      I loved my no buy year - I hope you save a lot of money on this no buy month because I found that ultimately saving money became a lot more addictive and rewarding than shopping 😉

  • @sawamichelle
    @sawamichelle 4 года назад +2

    I watch Tarable decisions. She is right up your alley, I think :)

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  4 года назад +1

      Oh yes! I watch her too and I like how she takes a look at the psyche behind shopping addiction ... she’s done brilliantly on her no-buy low-buy 😁

  • @helenapereira8547
    @helenapereira8547 2 года назад

    I let my hair grow since 2018 and only had 2 hair cuts ever since... that's a major money saving

  • @alanbirkner1958
    @alanbirkner1958 2 года назад

    I buy only new underwear and new shoes. Most clothes are given to me or I buy them at thrift shops. I get books and magazines from the library.
    I occasionally buy a new house plant. My husband of 49 years enjoys eating in local restaurants. I volunteer at local non-profits and do papercrafts and
    puzzles. We were able to retire early, when our youngest finished college. My tip is to find friends with similar values, also buy one of the smallest
    houses in the best neighborhood you can afford. Tina, Al's wife

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  2 года назад

      Great tips! Thanks for sharing xx

  • @JaneElinor
    @JaneElinor 4 года назад +3

    This is all amazing advice!! And your weddings look beautiful

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  4 года назад

      Ah thanks for watching 😁 Last year was very rewarding for sure and made me see my things very differently and appreciation for the smaller things in life shot through the roof! 😁

  • @ggreddy3568
    @ggreddy3568 3 года назад +2

    I am planning to do no buy for 6 months, rest of 2021… no matter what I made decision not to buy,.. I will only buy things I need and run out of.. I realized I have way too much stuff and don’t need anything,, I felt I was just wasting money by constantly buying stuff .

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад

      Good luck and you’re going to be so happy in the end when you see how much you’ve saved 😁👏👏

  • @paromita9941
    @paromita9941 4 года назад +3

    Thanks for making such helpful video.. Khub valo laglo ❤ valo basa roilo, From India 🇮🇳

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  4 года назад +2

      You're more than welcome and amar khub bhalo laglo je apnar bhalo laglo!
      😉 😍 🇬🇧 🇧🇩

  • @tamikabush9571
    @tamikabush9571 2 года назад

    I need to start with minimalizing and decluttering

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  2 года назад

      Good luck! I found it life changing x

  • @huss2172
    @huss2172 3 года назад

    Super inspired. Thanks so much!

  • @sabahatnaheed1435
    @sabahatnaheed1435 4 года назад +4

    Thank you for the tips. Mashallah you are very eloquent x

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  4 года назад

      Thank you for watching and I’m pleased you’ve found the video helpful! X

  • @ItsJustFashion
    @ItsJustFashion 3 года назад +1

    Amazing! I am still half way through of my year long break from shopping!

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад +1

      Well done! Going a whole year without shopping, especially during these times when we can't do much but stay at home, is really commendable! 👏

    • @ItsJustFashion
      @ItsJustFashion 3 года назад

      @@simantha1686 thank you, it's not that hard when you find something else to do that is equally satisfying as shopping! I actually started out on youtube recently because I wanted to push myself into appreciating things that I already have. It is super fun and time consuming to create videos so I just forgot about browsing online shops!

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад +1

      Well done! I’ll check out your channel and yep, RUclips definitely takes up a lot of time and effort so that’s a great way to focus your energy! X

    • @ItsJustFashion
      @ItsJustFashion 3 года назад

      @@simantha1686 thank you! ❤

  • @AprilKristel
    @AprilKristel 2 года назад

    I'm doing a low buy no buy this year.
    I'm not buying energy drinks, clothes, shoes, cosmetics, perfumes, jewellery, furniture, homewares.
    I can buy gifts for my children but on a budget.
    My goal is to save to fix my house

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  2 года назад +1

      That’s a great plan - you can use what you have already and I agree with getting your children gifts on a budget as I’ll be doing the same with my baby this year too 😁 Good luck- I’ll be cheering you on from this end 👍 xx

  • @mishralucky
    @mishralucky 2 года назад

    I want to for it but the biggest challenge is to know what i want and what i will stick to years and years like bags, shoes . i tend spending on them during winter sale

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  2 года назад +1

      That’s interesting. Do you think about saving for an investment piece that is timeless in style - then you can wear it for years and years and as you’ve gone for quality the pieces will last for years 😁 That’s how I tend to shop xx

    • @mishralucky
      @mishralucky 2 года назад

      @@simantha1686 will do thanks

  • @SurrenderedByGraceMinistry
    @SurrenderedByGraceMinistry 4 года назад +1

    Great content!!!! This has helped a lot!!!

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  4 года назад

      So glad to hear that! Especially in this climate as we’re all tightening our belts 😀

  • @theotherway1639
    @theotherway1639 4 года назад +2

    A fun mindfulness guide that has been floating around is "30 Days to Stop Being a Shopaholic" by Harper Daniels. Gets into why people REALLY develop a shopping addiction. Get to know yourself and detach from the material world. You'll feel so free from the need to shop.

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  4 года назад

      I’ll definitely check it out ... thanks for the recommendation! 😄👍

  • @Professicchio
    @Professicchio 4 года назад

    Happy new year Sim, hope 2020 will be just as cheap as 2019 for you 😆😁

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  4 года назад

      I definitely hope so! I’ll be keeping you updated that’s for sure 😂😂

  • @DC-ef8op
    @DC-ef8op 4 года назад +1

    Could you do a meal prep video please? The food you showed in your video looks so good, olives, etc. :)

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  4 года назад +1

      Ooh definitely - I never thought of my food as interesting as I always chuck a load of pre-made ingredients together! 😂 My husband and mum are the cooks in our family but once lockdown ends I could do a what I eat in a day type vid 😃

  • @chloep8485
    @chloep8485 3 года назад +1

    Could you share your spread sheet please ! I'm trying to figure out the best way to track my finances

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад

      Hi Chloe - I created a shareable version of the spreadsheet for you:
      bit.ly/2OtXh5l
      Let me know if you have any issues and hopefully it will help. I've kept in my January figures from my low buy no buy year if you were curious to see what I spent my money on :) x

  • @Inja101
    @Inja101 3 года назад +1

    "HOLIER THAN THOU" LMAO, I LOVE THAT

  • @oliviaknight1123
    @oliviaknight1123 2 года назад

    Omg. 6 pairs of shoes... last count I was on 247.... I'm not quite sure how I feel right now. Extravagant or completely OTT? Actually I think I feel very lucky and glad to spoil myself, I do have some really fabulous shoes. I'm excited to try this no buying business, I'm awful for shopping for clothes, make up and shoes (obvs!!) 2022 is going to be a no buy year and I'm off to make a plan and some rules. Wish me luck!

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  2 года назад +1

      Wow! 247? 😂 But no judgement here if they make you happy 😁 Good luck on your no buy year, I absolutely LOVED mine and it really helped out my bank balance 💷💰xx

    • @oliviaknight1123
      @oliviaknight1123 2 года назад

      @@simantha1686 thank you for your kind reply! You've definitely inspired me to do a "no buy", I'm actually sat here now typing up my "rules", I'm quite excited for this challenge and I plan to tell my mum and my friends about this to make sure I'm accountable for my actions and I know they'll keep me on the straight and narrow. Thank you again lovely lady, wishing you a fabulous 2022!😘💋❤🎉🎊❤🎊🎉

  • @ANDJELINA
    @ANDJELINA 2 года назад

    I just needs someone with me who.just throws stuff out of my hand when I want to buy it like the devil and angel on your shoulder concept 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @mehronesaahmed6997
    @mehronesaahmed6997 3 года назад +1

    You motivate me😘

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад +1

      So pleased you find the video helpful 😁 x

  • @makoshark3759
    @makoshark3759 4 года назад

    Simantha.. my daughter is Samantha too ,first Indians are very good with their money hands down ,second .. my girl is same , third is about not going shops I say the covid has done that for us any how ,, please give Covid 19 an Appluase cuase the one thing it held us in .. not going out and spending..

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  4 года назад

      Hi Mako, my heritage is actually from Bangladesh but I agree, I think Asians tend to be quite frugal in nature ... I certainly got my attitude to money from my parents who are very sensible when it comes to finances. Yep, if we’re looking for a silver lining when it comes to COVID-19, it certainly made it easier to avoid shopping! 😁

  • @harmony3395
    @harmony3395 3 года назад

    Lovely video. I am taking your advice and doing the low /no buy. Congratulations on saving enough for your deposit 💫
    PS your make up is just lovely
    PPS less lovely is the array of half used alcohol behind you

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад

      Thanks Harmony ... good luck with your low buy no buy 😁 Hahaha, it’s my father-in-law’s alcohol collection and I quite like how it looks but different strokes for different folks 😁 x

  • @kirstenbaron4344
    @kirstenbaron4344 2 года назад

    I really like you me videos! Will you be making more soon? :)

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  2 года назад +1

      Thank you and yes, in the new year 😁🤞 X

  • @mou6730
    @mou6730 2 года назад

    Hei...i am from Bangladesh ❤️ lots of love dear...

  • @marymartinez1672
    @marymartinez1672 2 года назад

    If you're a minimalist....what's all that stuff doing on the dresser behind you ? It looks cluttered to me.

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  2 года назад

      No. 1, it’s not my house and No. 2, I get to define what being a minimalist means to me. I’m also not one to be sucked in by the minimalist aesthetic so if you’re looking for all white, grey and bland you’ve come to the wrong channel.

  • @a.sydney5036
    @a.sydney5036 2 года назад

    70??? That's so small

  • @alisakaracic5041
    @alisakaracic5041 6 месяцев назад

    I assume that you don’t pay rent

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  6 месяцев назад

      What makes you think that? I didn’t for a while (my 20s and early 30s) before I married and moved out. I was frugal then but even more frugal now with rent and a child. My shopping habits have become even stricter.

  • @dorritaniuchi7671
    @dorritaniuchi7671 3 года назад +1

    You have a lot of "minimalism" glassbottles in the background😂

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад

      😂 they aren’t mine - I filmed this at my father in law’s house

  • @ErisstheGoddessofmanhwas
    @ErisstheGoddessofmanhwas 3 года назад

    Ok try minimalism with alcohol too

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад +2

      I’m filmed this at my father-in-law’s house. And I sense a bit of judgement in your tone. You need to relax.

    • @ErisstheGoddessofmanhwas
      @ErisstheGoddessofmanhwas 3 года назад

      @@simantha1686 sorry i can't what i hate the most is alcohol

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад +1

      🤷‍♀️ well each to their own

  • @heyitsjnae
    @heyitsjnae 3 года назад

    all that alcohol?

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад

      I was filming in my father in law’s house but if the implication is that there is a problem with alcohol I’ll be upfront and tell you right now that personally I have no problem with drinking alcohol - it’s not something I judge or look on with disapproval 👍

    • @heyitsjnae
      @heyitsjnae 3 года назад

      @@simantha1686 no implication I’m an alcoholic myself so that’s the first thing I noticed 🤦🏽‍♀️Nothing personal meant

    • @simantha1686
      @simantha1686  3 года назад

      Haha, OK cool - I didn’t mean to come across as over sensitive but people can make a lot of assumptions on the internet if you come from a certain background x

    • @heyitsjnae
      @heyitsjnae 3 года назад

      @@simantha1686 cool