Anyone whom got recommended this, you're automatically my friend. We all fight strenuous battles in this war we call life. It takes more courage to fight our demons day after day than it does to end it all. Stay strong, you're life may depend on it
It’s hard to believe that it’s been over a year since I stumbled upon this video. At that time, I found myself watching it multiple times a day, every day. I was trapped in a cycle of despair, questioning my worth and even contemplating ending my life. I gave myself a time frame of five years to make positive changes - and I can proudly say, I’ve made progress. Yet, there are still moments when shadows of doubt, self-loathing, and regrets creep into my thoughts. But now, instead of letting them consume me, I focus and allow myself to truly feel every emotion. I reflect on the progress I’ve made and remind myself of all the new things I’ve embraced. The thought of missing out on life’s wonders saddens me: the mesmerizing beauty, the joy, the laughter shared with friends and family, and the entire spectrum of emotions. They all play a crucial role in experiencing life in its entirety. To everyone grappling with challenges: I get it, it’s hard. But remember, you possess an inner strength, perhaps one you haven’t even discovered yet. Savor the good days. Commit to a routine and stay disciplined. Start with reading a single page every day, or exercise once a week. Gradually, once a week will become twice, and soon enough, you’ll crave more. Admittedly, my reading skills mirror that of an average 7-year-old, even in my twenties. Yet now, I aim to finish a book every month. Before turning 20, I’d only read a single book, not counting comics hahah I also faced physical challenges. After breaking a bone in my back from a skiing accident at 17, I refrained from rigorous activity. Fast forward to now, and I just completed a 6-mile uphill run just for the thrill of it. And I workout every day before work. Having spent years battling self-loathing and shying away from challenges for fear of failing, I now push myself to my limits, striving for growth and savoring the euphoria of truly living. I believe in you, and in time, you’ll believe in yourself. Allow yourself that time. Who knows what you will become.
@rasmusnatvig3186 I also came across this video a year ago and just like you I watched it several times a day, certainly to feel less alone, now I have progressed, I read and exercise all day and I have adopted a routine that helps me feel better and improve. What you say in your comment touched me deeply because it really looks like what I experienced and what I am going through. Today I am better even if I still have a long way to go but I am on the good see. I watch this video every time I feel alone, I don’t know if it’s your case but cinema has helped me a lot and has educational value for me. Thank you for your comment that makes good and good luck.
Thank you, I hope you keep moving forward. Any advice on books, I know I should read something about control of thoughts. As they more often then not decide to go down hill.
@Thomas @Thomas speak for yourself bro. I definitely think im morally superior then some guy who likes skinning kids alive, and if you assume you also share their flaws, sins, and temptations, give me your location, I gotta call the FBI on your ass.
@phantom.Vergil why, like if you do feel like these characters you dont understand the movie and if you think your cool because you think you are patrick bateman or etc. Go seek some help lmao
Here I am sitting in the kitchen again, alone, at 1 AM, without light in the darkness and remembering how I used to smile so much and now don't. Wondering why I'm still enduring this all... This video frames my mood pretty well
@@zackwaffen9210 I didn't meant the "without light in the darkness"-thing metaphorical, I meant literally sitting in the dark. Besides that you are telling me what I already know. But still thx for trying.
If you're reading this, I don't care what you're going through, don't give up. Yes, it's hard, but people need you, don't let them down, and don't let yourself down, do your best. Stay strong brothers.
I respect you my brother if you relate to these kind of videos. I know what you've been through, I know what you're going through, and I guess now you know what I've been through. At least you now know you're not alone. I believe in you you got this man! We will always have each other. Loneliness and hardships are the force that drives a man to be who he is. Choose wisely. Stay strong kings!
It's kind of incredible how so many prolific movies and male characters always have such a dark and looming presence rather it be their demons or themselves portrayed as one. It's almost like a subliminal portrayal of society and the emotions men harbor and how deep they can truly go.
@@paulbraunstein2290 and then called weak when we have the courage to do so because men are supposed to be strong although crying appears as being weak which is not the case
As my man Elliot Alderson said: "Fuck society". Society as a whole is just hypocritical trash of upholding morals that are broken when the same people who preach about upholding these morals have something to personally gain. Nobody talks about it because it exposes how hypocritical, selfish, and out of touch human beings truly are. It's not wrong when they do it, but it's wrong when we do it.
And if we show our feelings we are seen as weak even. I try not to care and let them be shown, life’s too short people can think whatever they want we shouldn’t care to be ourselves.
Whenever we become vulnerable, we're taken advantage of most of the times. Harsh reality but as a man if you have to cry : cry alone, in front of your parents or someone who you really trust.
I watch this about 30 times a day. Guys, you wouldn't get how much I relate to these people, especially K from the Bladerunner 2049. I don't feel like being a living being anymore.
Born 1993, when I was around 5/6 me and my family had to move to Germany, Osnabruck because my Dad was stationed there for being in the British Army. We stayed there until 2001. I can honestly say from what memories are still there in my head, are the best years of my life. If I could just relive those days, just for a few hours, I would be so happy. I spend hours crying happy/sad tears on Google Earth Pro with the time machine of the maps. Seeing my old Primary School before it was demolished. Seeing the Army barracks my dad was at before that too was sadly demolished. Seeing my old childhood home which I haven't seen since we left 22 years ago. It's even more saddening with how Germanys privacy laws are. Google Street view is practically none existent. So the buildings and the streets I fondly remember are mainly just these pixelated resemblances of buildings that I still vividly remember from my childhood but i can't see how are now or was a few years ago. I only have what I remember, and the odd remnants of videos here on RUclips which is extremely lacking and rare to find. The walks we went on, the Warner Brothers Movie Theme Park down south near Dorsten. Pony rides in the woods and picking the oldest one there who was called Boris. I picked him all the time because he liked to eat the grass a lot which made the ride last longer so I could spend more time with him. The little & big lake walk just behind the Nettebad. The traditional Christmas Markets in the town centre. Playing video games when my Dad finally came home on my Playstation 1, we would try and beat the games in one day but never could because I didn't have a memory card. Getting excited whenever Pokemon was on the TV. Friends round mine to share the big swimming pool I had. Watching Halloween Town before going out trick or treating. Finding our first ever pet, a kitten abandoned behind a grit bin while we were on a bike ride and taking her home, we named her Millie. So many memories. All lost to time. With only old VHS tapes & photographs to try and relive those memories at least just a tiny bit. Oh what Id do just to go back to those days. Nostalgia is such a beautiful but cruel mistress. I hate to love it and love to hate it. I Miss you Osnabruck. I miss you childhood. But. I have a baby daughter now. And I honestly can not wait to be the best father I can possibly be. And to make everlasting memories with her that she can look back on and smile just as much as I do looking back at the ones I made with my Mum & Dad. Oh Germany. Oh Osnabruck. Oh childhood. You were the best of days. I'll revisit you one day. With the whole family hopefully.
Hey man, I know you don’t know me and I also don’t know you, and yet the fact that you’ve decided to write some thoughts about your childhood time made me pour some tears… so Thanks for sharing Also I want to say that you’re going to be a great father, so live a happy and peaceful life with your family ✌️👨👩👧
I recently revealed the genders of my two girlfriends. It got a lot of hate and now has 30 times more dislikes than likes. I am really sad that people can be so mean. Sorry for using your comment to talk about my problems, dear twx
It's been almost a year when I used to watch this edit repeatedly. Today youtube recommended me this. I can say it is the best edit I have ever seen on internet. What a piece of art. Every second i can feel myself in it. You have perfectly added every single clip in a perfect order. You used right music for this which makes it 10/10. Thanks! Really loved this one, Man.
@@capmonkeyboy04 Damn okay, it became one of my favs movies along with Fight Club, I really liked it! I was not expecting the ending, and a lot of unanswered questions and really weird scenarios which I didn't understand but I got a quite understanding of what was happening, 9/10 for me.
@@dexplays3298 SAME. One of few movies where I didn’t know how the movie was going to play out and the mysteries stay unsolved for the most part. The ending scene really sold it for me. He just happened to be a kid that was supposed to be in the right place at the right time but wasnt
So, my wife asks me all the time, for the last 41-years: "How come you never smile?" And every single time I answer: "You remember the scene in "The Godfather" when Michael is talking to Don Corleone in the garden, just before Don Corleone dies, and the Don explains: 'I've spent my life trying not to be careless. Women and children can be careless, but not men.', that is why."
You can't go up and you can't go down you can't go left and you can't go right you could only go forward because there is no going back in life. if you can make it through the darkness and the heaviness of the turbulent and chaotic waters that have become you, you will undoubtedly be much more of a MAN because you can only grow above water not in it. Do not drown and you'll feet will touch the sand once again.
Yeah my man is right. I believe you that it hurts, like hurts a fucking lot. But the only way is forward, also when it seems that it doesn't go forward. If it helps you, you are not alone my friend. You are not alone and not unnoticed. You have already to people behind you. Zero and me. Keep your head up and if you need to say something off of your soul. Just write it here down, it may help.
I think these memes, (and I mean the literal definition of memes) are an easier way for men to convey how they feel. Even if they feel good throughout the day, at night things just change. A man doesn't have to be a serial killer, or a get away car driver to understand the way these fictional characters feel at their low. And I think it's a good way for people to express their deepest feelings.
I always smile when I can now because at some points in my life I couldn't smile. I remember trying to and I couldn't laugh or anything. I was so miserable. I now laugh and smile as much as I can and make jokes with strangers and friends. I'd rather die smiling rather to live unhappy.
How could she when she'll never live it, she'll never bear it, nor endure it, or resent it. She'll never know what it's like to to look in the mirror and stare into the monsters eyes. Its's cruel and addicting and no one can protect us from it because we're MEN.
Sometimes when I struggle to get results and finally get them, I am not happy, I feel useless even if I had worked a lot and sticked to my plans to achieve my goals. Only now that I am in vacation for few weeks I understand that all what I did was getting mostly distracted by my meaningful life, or at least it is what I think I feel right now seeing all of my friends and classmates going out with ppl and girlfriends. I wonder if it is my fault for being lonely or it is the other people that does not want to be with me. This edit just reminds me of the dark side of my life that I can't get rid of since I understood how hard is life during my teen age. I always have been very different from the others and I think only few appreciate me for who I really am.
The thing is, my friend, not many people may appreciate you as a person but you know that already. As you said you know the struggles and the dark side of life since you were a teen. To your question if it's your fault or not, I can't exactly give a answer on which I would completely stand behind. Simply because I don't know you and your situation well enough. But besides that I sympatize with you because I'm in a more or less similar situation. My answer, for now, would be a combination of both : the society has failed you and you kind of have a part about your situation, so that you even came in a one like that. The thing is we as humans have *always* a part about our situation because we have a own will and own choices. Special people like you, who may be with their heads many levels above others because of experience, knowledge or simply because their are reflective and realists, don't have it easy. You will not be happy when you are 'just with people'. Loneliness is not just a result of 'not being with people', it's often deeper. But you know that for sure already. Of you really want a 'true friendship' then you need such people who are similar to you. The only help I can offer you is to learn how to accept your own person as a guest. Try to connect with people who you interested in. They may be interested on you too. In the end everyone has a person or many persons who they feel connected with. You just need to have patience. I hope I didn't drift away too much and could somehow helped you. If I couldn't them excuse me, I at least have tried. Just know that you are not alone and not unnoticed. I wish you the best.
I remember i was into those kinds of edits a time ago, back then i considered myself an incel and really identified with those characters in some way, but i noticed how that was dragging me into a deep depression, cause those characters are really sad, they have plenty of reasons for that, and i also have my reasons but i just stopped trying to identify with those characters, i still like them, they made a huge part in my life, but i think i should love them for what they represent and not trying to imitate their way of life, i'm more positive now, still i have that kind of existential void inside of my brain, but it's something like that noise your ears make that's called "tinnitus", it's something that will exist forever in your life, but you can just choose to ignore it, why the fuck i'm saying all that lmao
These are all GOAT caliber actors breathing life into the male experience. Ryan Gosling, Joaquin Phoenix, De Niro, Edward Norton, Jake Gyllenhaal, and Christian Bale. It feels as if these scenes were made to be knit together to evoke the exact emotions we feel as we're watching this edit. Great edit and choice of music.
Understandably, everyone here seems to have a different interpretation about this video. Reading the varying perspectives has been refreshing and I wish to add to the pile. I personally saw this video as me looking into the mirror. Some poor dating decisions prompted me to have a bitter but icy heart. It’s left me hollow and that bothered me, but as the years went by, I stopped caring. I’ve grown even colder, maybe even more stoic. Their faces in that video, they seem like they’re never gonna be ok yet they choose to continue existing. There’s something relatable about that.
I just watched Joker last night. Avoided it when it came out, I was heartbroken when it came out, I felt for a year as if, absolutely nothing had taste, feel, or smell. I was void, numb, still am. Maybe less. But the pain lingers everyday. I finally watched joker last night. And for once in this stupid life, I feel seen.
As a boy who Has suffered a lot in life because of my goals I learned that my sadness was my enemy spreading his feelings unto me because I was achieving my goals😇❤️
@@Saymyname-kh7df я думаю к этому списку можно было бы привосокупить такие фильмы как Драйв и Иррациональный человек. Думаю их не добавили в клип, потому что актёры начали повторяться)
This is one of those unexpectadly gold edits you find mistakenly while browsing too deep at midnight, keep up the great work and stay unique Bqteman!
Are u a girl?
Watching this at 2 40 am lmao
@@razanlthr9093 lmao go somewhere else kiddo
@@razanlthr9093 are you 12?
Lol night it how it started now it’s 6:34 am
This is the "he's just like me fr" meme done unironically
They're just like me
"just be yourself bro"
"Which one?"
@@yazdan7774 fr
where do you think it came from?
Yes. Literally. They're me.
All of these movies and main characters, GOATED
@@Snowmeus pretty sure theirs fight club in there as well
@@Snowmeus pretty sure theirs fight club in there as well
Joker, American Psycho, blade runner 2049, taxi driver. I dont know the one with jake g.
@@coovv685 Danny Darko
What?
Anyone whom got recommended this, you're automatically my friend. We all fight strenuous battles in this war we call life. It takes more courage to fight our demons day after day than it does to end it all. Stay strong, you're life may depend on it
Hope you're winning against your inner demons bro
Man this edit is a masterpiece 🫡
I don't have any friends because they are ashamed of the videos I upload. Are they really that bad, dear dn
@@paulwaltersheherfeministvl521
No
Music name?
@@bookable18snowfall slowed reverb
Masterpiece of emptiness????
It’s hard to believe that it’s been over a year since I stumbled upon this video. At that time, I found myself watching it multiple times a day, every day. I was trapped in a cycle of despair, questioning my worth and even contemplating ending my life. I gave myself a time frame of five years to make positive changes - and I can proudly say, I’ve made progress.
Yet, there are still moments when shadows of doubt, self-loathing, and regrets creep into my thoughts. But now, instead of letting them consume me, I focus and allow myself to truly feel every emotion. I reflect on the progress I’ve made and remind myself of all the new things I’ve embraced.
The thought of missing out on life’s wonders saddens me: the mesmerizing beauty, the joy, the laughter shared with friends and family, and the entire spectrum of emotions. They all play a crucial role in experiencing life in its entirety.
To everyone grappling with challenges: I get it, it’s hard. But remember, you possess an inner strength, perhaps one you haven’t even discovered yet. Savor the good days. Commit to a routine and stay disciplined. Start with reading a single page every day, or exercise once a week. Gradually, once a week will become twice, and soon enough, you’ll crave more. Admittedly, my reading skills mirror that of an average 7-year-old, even in my twenties. Yet now, I aim to finish a book every month. Before turning 20, I’d only read a single book, not counting comics hahah
I also faced physical challenges. After breaking a bone in my back from a skiing accident at 17, I refrained from rigorous activity. Fast forward to now, and I just completed a 6-mile uphill run just for the thrill of it. And I workout every day before work. Having spent years battling self-loathing and shying away from challenges for fear of failing, I now push myself to my limits, striving for growth and savoring the euphoria of truly living.
I believe in you, and in time, you’ll believe in yourself.
Allow yourself that time. Who knows what you will become.
@rasmusnatvig3186 I also came across this video a year ago and just like you I watched it several times a day, certainly to feel less alone, now I have progressed, I read and exercise all day and I have adopted a routine that helps me feel better and improve. What you say in your comment touched me deeply because it really looks like what I experienced and what I am going through. Today I am better even if I still have a long way to go but I am on the good see. I watch this video every time I feel alone, I don’t know if it’s your case but cinema has helped me a lot and has educational value for me. Thank you for your comment that makes good and good luck.
Thank you, I hope you keep moving forward. Any advice on books, I know I should read something about control of thoughts. As they more often then not decide to go down hill.
it's a youtube video😭😭
@@bottomofthegreatgreatlake yeh and? a website with a wide range of content
This is a damn powerful story. thank u
goes hard…I feel some kind of pleasant anxiety
really does. love from kazakhstan
Music??
How TF can you be pleasant and anxious at the same time???
It's hard to fake a smile when there are no more reasons to be happy anymore.
or reason to live anymore
.......and this video is definitive proof of that........
this makes me feel so many things at the same time, i can't even describe it
your edits are amazing, keep it up
you feel a connection with actual serial killers??
@@photon2724 huh? that's not what i meant
@Thomas @Thomas speak for yourself bro. I definitely think im morally superior then some guy who likes skinning kids alive, and if you assume you also share their flaws, sins, and temptations, give me your location, I gotta call the FBI on your ass.
@@photon2724 i do
@phantom.Vergil why, like if you do feel like these characters you dont understand the movie and if you think your cool because you think you are patrick bateman or etc. Go seek some help lmao
0:22 the face i make with my life choices.
😭
Here I am sitting in the kitchen again, alone, at 1 AM, without light in the darkness and remembering how I used to smile so much and now don't. Wondering why I'm still enduring this all...
This video frames my mood pretty well
the universe won't give you what you are looking for, you need to step into the unknown to find new light.
@@zackwaffen9210 I didn't meant the "without light in the darkness"-thing metaphorical, I meant literally sitting in the dark.
Besides that you are telling me what I already know. But still thx for trying.
@@zackwaffen9210 trvth
try to get yourself out of that mood bro aslong as we are healthy and not in heavy debt it is possible to be at peace
Wow so emo bro 🖤
movie list
Blade runner 2049
JOKER
taxi driver 1976
donnie darko 2001
american psycho
Music?
Thank you
Thank you
Not fight club getting dogged on
How could you forget fight club
The male desire of melancholy, naturally drawn to darkness and isolation. sad
All is just temporary...
Weird that identical female characters don’t mesh with audiences
@@SigFigNewton womp womp
@@zyrusz37why womp womp? Dudes only lol?
If you're reading this, I don't care what you're going through, don't give up.
Yes, it's hard, but people need you, don't let them down, and don't let yourself down, do your best.
Stay strong brothers.
Shut up
Thank u brother
Man youre so sweat thx bro:))
I required that, had a mental breakdown just few mins ago. Thanks for all
I've already lost myself man😞
0:17 this shot with the music is somewhat calming and comforting.
Beautiful
It's gorgeous.
what movie is that scene from?
@@jokukkoainaki2028 donnie darko
Music name?
Never in my life have I felt something that touched my soul in the way this edit did :(
Self control is strength.
Right thought is mastery.
Calmness is power.
Keep grinding brothers 🪖
Why do I feel that I've read these lines?
@@psibarpsi Because grindcopers have been spamming them non stop.
@@centralintelligenceagency9003 Maybe. Or maybe these lines come from 'As a Man Thinketh'.
@@centralintelligenceagency9003 “grindcopers” nigga you like being broke? LOL
copium level high
The combination of the music and the clips just feels so emotional
bqteman in the feels today :( still sigma though
I respect you my brother if you relate to these kind of videos. I know what you've been through, I know what you're going through, and I guess now you know what I've been through.
At least you now know you're not alone. I believe in you you got this man! We will always have each other. Loneliness and hardships are the force that drives a man to be who he is. Choose wisely. Stay strong kings!
It's kind of incredible how so many prolific movies and male characters always have such a dark and looming presence rather it be their demons or themselves portrayed as one. It's almost like a subliminal portrayal of society and the emotions men harbor and how deep they can truly go.
Cuz we’re afraid to show our feelings and be ourselves
@@paulbraunstein2290 and then called weak when we have the courage to do so because men are supposed to be strong although crying appears as being weak which is not the case
As my man Elliot Alderson said: "Fuck society". Society as a whole is just hypocritical trash of upholding morals that are broken when the same people who preach about upholding these morals have something to personally gain. Nobody talks about it because it exposes how hypocritical, selfish, and out of touch human beings truly are. It's not wrong when they do it, but it's wrong when we do it.
And if we show our feelings we are seen as weak even. I try not to care and let them be shown, life’s too short people can think whatever they want we shouldn’t care to be ourselves.
Whenever we become vulnerable, we're taken advantage of most of the times. Harsh reality but as a man if you have to cry : cry alone, in front of your parents or someone who you really trust.
I watch this about 30 times a day. Guys, you wouldn't get how much I relate to these people, especially K from the Bladerunner 2049. I don't feel like being a living being anymore.
same I'd get a virtual gf if they were real bro
Stay strong 🙌❤️
wtf why did i say this
@@LittleHomieLightningtechI can feel ya dw
*this hit a little harder than I thought it would*
It's reality.
Yeah man it's just as Zero said, it's reality.
There are many more reasons to not smile than to smile.
Bro it did
This also hits a little harder than it should
Born 1993, when I was around 5/6 me and my family had to move to Germany, Osnabruck because my Dad was stationed there for being in the British Army. We stayed there until 2001. I can honestly say from what memories are still there in my head, are the best years of my life. If I could just relive those days, just for a few hours, I would be so happy.
I spend hours crying happy/sad tears on Google Earth Pro with the time machine of the maps. Seeing my old Primary School before it was demolished. Seeing the Army barracks my dad was at before that too was sadly demolished. Seeing my old childhood home which I haven't seen since we left 22 years ago.
It's even more saddening with how Germanys privacy laws are. Google Street view is practically none existent. So the buildings and the streets I fondly remember are mainly just these pixelated resemblances of buildings that I still vividly remember from my childhood but i can't see how are now or was a few years ago. I only have what I remember, and the odd remnants of videos here on RUclips which is extremely lacking and rare to find.
The walks we went on, the Warner Brothers Movie Theme Park down south near Dorsten. Pony rides in the woods and picking the oldest one there who was called Boris. I picked him all the time because he liked to eat the grass a lot which made the ride last longer so I could spend more time with him. The little & big lake walk just behind the Nettebad. The traditional Christmas Markets in the town centre. Playing video games when my Dad finally came home on my Playstation 1, we would try and beat the games in one day but never could because I didn't have a memory card. Getting excited whenever Pokemon was on the TV. Friends round mine to share the big swimming pool I had.
Watching Halloween Town before going out trick or treating. Finding our first ever pet, a kitten abandoned behind a grit bin while we were on a bike ride and taking her home, we named her Millie. So many memories. All lost to time. With only old VHS tapes & photographs to try and relive those memories at least just a tiny bit.
Oh what Id do just to go back to those days. Nostalgia is such a beautiful but cruel mistress. I hate to love it and love to hate it. I Miss you Osnabruck. I miss you childhood.
But. I have a baby daughter now. And I honestly can not wait to be the best father I can possibly be. And to make everlasting memories with her that she can look back on and smile just as much as I do looking back at the ones I made with my Mum & Dad.
Oh Germany. Oh Osnabruck. Oh childhood. You were the best of days. I'll revisit you one day. With the whole family hopefully.
Hey man, I know you don’t know me and I also don’t know you, and yet the fact that you’ve decided to write some thoughts about your childhood time made me pour some tears… so Thanks for sharing
Also I want to say that you’re going to be a great father, so live a happy and peaceful life with your family ✌️👨👩👧
Thank you for the kind words man, i hope you have a happy and peaceful life too@@alexbancu9384
I hope you're good man. Thanks for the kind words@@vincent.zsiv1
Freut mich das du so gute Erfahrungen in Deutschland gemacht hast. Alles gute und Liebe Grüße
Thank you man, i loved it there and miss it so much! @@dennisdreck563
one of my favorite edits you've made and I love all of them so equally...
I recently revealed the genders of my two girlfriends. It got a lot of hate and now has 30 times more dislikes than likes. I am really sad that people can be so mean. Sorry for using your comment to talk about my problems, dear twx
Life is not same for everyone
„I guess I'm a pretty sick guy.“😭
0:17 looks so eerie and depressing, honestly love this edit so much
donnie darko, really good movie. you just dont know what to expect and suddenly everything clicks, just like fight club a bit
@@zitsumo9140 daaamn, might give it a watch
It's been almost a year when I used to watch this edit repeatedly. Today youtube recommended me this. I can say it is the best edit I have ever seen on internet. What a piece of art. Every second i can feel myself in it. You have perfectly added every single clip in a perfect order. You used right music for this which makes it 10/10. Thanks! Really loved this one, Man.
What I would give to watch Donnie darko again for the first time. What an immaculate experience
I'm gonna watch it right now, wish me luck!
@@dexplays3298 you won’t regret it
@@capmonkeyboy04 Damn okay, it became one of my favs movies along with Fight Club, I really liked it! I was not expecting the ending, and a lot of unanswered questions and really weird scenarios which I didn't understand but I got a quite understanding of what was happening, 9/10 for me.
@@dexplays3298 SAME. One of few movies where I didn’t know how the movie was going to play out and the mysteries stay unsolved for the most part. The ending scene really sold it for me. He just happened to be a kid that was supposed to be in the right place at the right time but wasnt
@@capmonkeyboy04 That just makes it even more clear, holy shit. I'd like to study more on this movie, it has so much hidden meaning to it.
"A man doesn't cry because he's weak. He cries because he's been strong for too long."
I'm still not sure why some people relate to Patrick.
Damn. Only 5 words said in this entire 26 second montage of movie clips with music in the background and I’m already in tears. I need help
Weird how people who claim to care so much about mental health make fun of struggling young men who relate to these characters..
That's the whole point. "It's a crazy world out there" if you haven't heard that for the millionth time already.
Man can I hug you for this masterpiece?❤️
This just makes so much sense!
It's so beautiful.
You know your in a bad place when you have to compare yourself to these characters, Loneliness is cruel.
No
So, my wife asks me all the time, for the last 41-years: "How come you never smile?" And every single time I answer: "You remember the scene in "The Godfather" when Michael is talking to Don Corleone in the garden, just before Don Corleone dies, and the Don explains: 'I've spent my life trying not to be careless. Women and children can be careless, but not men.', that is why."
Life suddenly feels like this
Its not even a joke, it hurts bro, i just found this vid after some emotionally cathartic things and im fucking sad bro, fuck man FUCK
You can't go up and you can't go down you can't go left and you can't go right you could only go forward because there is no going back in life. if you can make it through the darkness and the heaviness of the turbulent and chaotic waters that have become you, you will undoubtedly be much more of a MAN because you can only grow above water not in it. Do not drown and you'll feet will touch the sand once again.
Yeah my man is right. I believe you that it hurts, like hurts a fucking lot. But the only way is forward, also when it seems that it doesn't go forward.
If it helps you, you are not alone my friend. You are not alone and not unnoticed. You have already to people behind you. Zero and me.
Keep your head up and if you need to say something off of your soul. Just write it here down, it may help.
hope it got better, a little at least
This never gets old
In the midst of tears, I found there was, within me, an invincible smile
-Albert Camus
which book?
lmao it's the misunderstood anti-heroes starterpack, the gang's all here. Hey you forgot Rick! :D
this is amazing roham
I feel like my own face is going to pop up next when I’m watching this
I think these memes, (and I mean the literal definition of memes) are an easier way for men to convey how they feel. Even if they feel good throughout the day, at night things just change. A man doesn't have to be a serial killer, or a get away car driver to understand the way these fictional characters feel at their low. And I think it's a good way for people to express their deepest feelings.
@@SeraphicPhantasm You wouldn't get it.
@@Sovakian 😂?
Everything in this edit is otherworldly...
Impressive, very nice. Let's see Paul Allen's depresso edit
but ryan gosling has a permanent involuntary smirk chronically plastered all over his handsome quarter-square-foot face
Brought a tear to my eye. Thank you for this. Stay strong brothers.
I always smile when I can now because at some points in my life I couldn't smile. I remember trying to and I couldn't laugh or anything. I was so miserable. I now laugh and smile as much as I can and make jokes with strangers and friends. I'd rather die smiling rather to live unhappy.
this is a certified sigma male classic
Stfu,,, it hurts af,, that constant pain and ache in your chest,,, it is really toughh to live with it
The dark side of it.
dude pls stop this sigma shit and grow up
Amazing brother, Great transitions of the sad faces
Although it may seem cool, don't aim to become like them.
Enjoy your life, smile, have fun as much as you can and more of it will come your way.
This edit is like finding gold in the midst of your nightly internet surfing adventures.
What are you talking about, Joker is the happiest man to ever live, he couldn't even make it past a single scene without laughing! So funny!
you wouldn't get it
How could she when she'll never live it, she'll never bear it, nor endure it, or resent it. She'll never know what it's like to to look in the mirror and stare into the monsters eyes. Its's cruel and addicting and no one can protect us from it because we're MEN.
I think they were being sarcastic
Sometimes when I struggle to get results and finally get them, I am not happy, I feel useless even if I had worked a lot and sticked to my plans to achieve my goals. Only now that I am in vacation for few weeks I understand that all what I did was getting mostly distracted by my meaningful life, or at least it is what I think I feel right now seeing all of my friends and classmates going out with ppl and girlfriends. I wonder if it is my fault for being lonely or it is the other people that does not want to be with me.
This edit just reminds me of the dark side of my life that I can't get rid of since I understood how hard is life during my teen age. I always have been very different from the others and I think only few appreciate me for who I really am.
The thing is, my friend, not many people may appreciate you as a person but you know that already. As you said you know the struggles and the dark side of life since you were a teen.
To your question if it's your fault or not, I can't exactly give a answer on which I would completely stand behind. Simply because I don't know you and your situation well enough. But besides that I sympatize with you because I'm in a more or less similar situation.
My answer, for now, would be a combination of both : the society has failed you and you kind of have a part about your situation, so that you even came in a one like that.
The thing is we as humans have *always* a part about our situation because we have a own will and own choices.
Special people like you, who may be with their heads many levels above others because of experience, knowledge or simply because their are reflective and realists, don't have it easy.
You will not be happy when you are 'just with people'. Loneliness is not just a result of 'not being with people', it's often deeper. But you know that for sure already.
Of you really want a 'true friendship' then you need such people who are similar to you.
The only help I can offer you is to learn how to accept your own person as a guest. Try to connect with people who you interested in. They may be interested on you too.
In the end everyone has a person or many persons who they feel connected with. You just need to have patience.
I hope I didn't drift away too much and could somehow helped you. If I couldn't them excuse me, I at least have tried. Just know that you are not alone and not unnoticed.
I wish you the best.
im not readin all that
Bro I can relate to you a lot……☹️
introduce Donnie Darko to people, goated movie and goated character
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I remember i was into those kinds of edits a time ago, back then i considered myself an incel and really identified with those characters in some way, but i noticed how that was dragging me into a deep depression, cause those characters are really sad, they have plenty of reasons for that, and i also have my reasons but i just stopped trying to identify with those characters, i still like them, they made a huge part in my life, but i think i should love them for what they represent and not trying to imitate their way of life, i'm more positive now, still i have that kind of existential void inside of my brain, but it's something like that noise your ears make that's called "tinnitus", it's something that will exist forever in your life, but you can just choose to ignore it, why the fuck i'm saying all that lmao
Jesus died so you could be rid of that tinnitus. Just saying, take it from someone who knows what you're talking about.
Nah bruh u valid
I completely agree
fully agree, but we all wanna have bateman's morning))))
Op avoids the right wing loophole
Perfect collection of something. Each one somehow connected. Wd
Song name is Snowfall
To all the depressed people out there, "you're not alone"
Bateman smiled alot tho
The subtle 4:3 aspect ratio sold it for me.
It's Christmas. This hits hard man
Have a good Christmas bro. 🖤
@@bqteman0 you have no idea how much this means to me. Merry Christmas for you too bruv
@@anonymoususer2764 I’m glad bro, genuinely wishing the best for you and your family this christmas have a good one dude.
perfect edit man! so good u gotta keep it up
These are all GOAT caliber actors breathing life into the male experience. Ryan Gosling, Joaquin Phoenix, De Niro, Edward Norton, Jake Gyllenhaal, and Christian Bale.
It feels as if these scenes were made to be knit together to evoke the exact emotions we feel as we're watching this edit. Great edit and choice of music.
what is that movie of Jake ?
@@marinchan6334 donnie darko
Wtf is the male experience lol
Understandably, everyone here seems to have a different interpretation about this video. Reading the varying perspectives has been refreshing and I wish to add to the pile.
I personally saw this video as me looking into the mirror. Some poor dating decisions prompted me to have a bitter but icy heart. It’s left me hollow and that bothered me, but as the years went by, I stopped caring. I’ve grown even colder, maybe even more stoic. Their faces in that video, they seem like they’re never gonna be ok yet they choose to continue existing. There’s something relatable about that.
I feel this.. every day as a man.
"You dont even smile"
"Theres nothing to smile about in my life"
Expected it to be a funny Sigma grindset meme instead found a Great and a Beautiful Edit which touched my heart
My life in summed up in 26 seconds.
I can't remember the last time I genuinely smiled actually ...
i was looking for video to use but i just got a whole bunch of fucked up memories after this
esse sentimento nunca sai de dentro de nois mesmo você estando com um pessoa que você ama abraçado com ela você sente esse sentimento no fundo.
I just watched Joker last night. Avoided it when it came out, I was heartbroken when it came out, I felt for a year as if, absolutely nothing had taste, feel, or smell. I was void, numb, still am. Maybe less. But the pain lingers everyday. I finally watched joker last night. And for once in this stupid life, I feel seen.
Bqteman is the GOAT
realest edit fr
Their is a sort of heavyness in this edit and I can feel it
Oh you don't even smile
😶
Me : proceeds to smile 😂
this is the best edit I've seen in a while thank you
I used to get compliments on having a nice smile. Can’t remember the last time I heard it.
Women are tired of men telling them to smile, men are tired.
Guys, you are not Ryan Gosling!
I'm Ryan Gosling!
God this edit was crispy. May I ask what software you use?
no.
@@moneywalrus2069 yeah well no shit, mf hasn't replied
@@moneywalrus2069 🤓
There are a lot of reasons to smile but It's like I lost the ability of smile.
Nothing to smile about in my life.
As a boy who Has suffered a lot in life because of my goals I learned that my sadness was my enemy spreading his feelings unto me because I was achieving my goals😇❤️
Why does it hit the way it hits being back memories that we’re hidden
Best sigma drama edit ever 😢❤
impressive, very nice.
These sad sigma edits are hitting hard 🤧
Behind every sigma , there is a corroding reality.
Saw this on discord around 1 am and this made me feel something I haven’t felt in a long while
You can be poor or rich, but loneliness will catch you.
Who else is suddenly finding it difficult to control their tears?
Я плачу в душе, видя эти кадры. Просто моя жизнь.
Что за фильм?
@@inessanceme3106 там их несколько: Бойцовский клуб, Американский психопат, Джокер, Таксист, Бегущий по лезвию 2049, Донни Дарко.
@@ravilfarhutdinov5470 оооо спасибо
@@Saymyname-kh7df я думаю к этому списку можно было бы привосокупить такие фильмы как Драйв и Иррациональный человек. Думаю их не добавили в клип, потому что актёры начали повторяться)
@@ravilfarhutdinov5470 Драйв*
Cant get enough of this video!
Very nice job with the editing
un édit incroyable avec une musique adaptée
Réel