I self sabotage my appearance because I’m scared of increased male attention. What do I do if some psycho won’t take no for an answer? It’s threatening to become more visible…
A bad man doesn’t care if your are dressed cute or if you are bumming it. Additionally, you are more likely to get protection when you are pretty so work the system.
I have gotten to this point as well. I used to love getting dolled up and looking my best , I still do but a low key version. The thing I have observed is that when you dress up , you just become more of a colourful prey for men. In these times they way how the dudes are reacting if you reject them low key is the way to go imo.
Thank you girls for sharing your experience 💕 I keep myself way fatter than I’d like to be because I’m terrified of men. Especially when you deem a man “safe” and then in closed spaces or when it’s dark after getting dinner at a restaurant he starts pushing for intimacy I just freeze. I just wanna stay in a safe protected bubble and be a skinny Barbie that doesn’t have to think about a man disregarding her boundaries. I don’t date anymore. It’ll be a long time until I agree to go on a date with any man again.
Omg!! I thought I was the only one doing that! I was self-sabotaging my looks scared of extra male attention ( especially old creepy men) and female jealous looks
I recently started working out again, wearing makeup and taking better care of my hair and making sure its done before work...and i get the questions... "Where you going wit that makeup on, who you trying to impress with that hair style"??? my answer is simply.... M Y S E L F!! 🌸💕
Most men make about 65kpy. They are broke. Better to build your own business, they will expect things in return for any dime spent and hurt you for it.
@niamhfranklin9261 On this channel, when we say "get paid," we're not talking about getting money from m¤les. We're talking about BUILDING OURSELVES by creating businesses that capitalize on our talents as well as our looks, by honing in on our gifts, our intelligence and talents, and the beauty that people already pedestalize. The way we feel is, if they're going to always be trying to bully us and humble us for our looks, while at the same time praising us, we might as well get paid by finding ways to capitalize off our own looks and our Exotical lifestyle. M&n are definitely NOT the "bag" we're after. Yes, they can add on to benefit us but we're not out here chasing them or their coins. We will get our "Exotical Taaaaaax" regardless. 😁😊🤑💛
What I love the most about myself is my ability to adapt and adjust to various situations and make the best of it. My foundation is strong like 20 thick layers of concrete. I'm determined to improve my life in every aspect.
To raise my self-esteem, I recently jotted down a ton of compliments I have received about myself in general. So later if I have any doubts, I can look at the list and it can be reassuring.
I SO LOVED this entire video!❤ It hit home in so many ways-most importantly it just reminded me that although through my life especially when I was younger-like school and college aged-people would go out their way to “knock” me off my pedestal but it NEVER worked. I am not perfect but I try and always tried to be a good human being…I can’t control how I look and how it made others feel but I knew all I needed to do to was keep my head held high-stay true to myself and keep reaching for the stars ✨…I’ve never been jealous of other women only admired and inspired by those doing and looking a certain way…I’m proud that I am this way!…again great video and keep up the GREAT work! 💋 ❤❤❤
I love this channel!!! Looking at my pretty daughter!!! That’s right!!! I did not know how to manage it when I was young!!!! I deleted one of my other comments because I’m not feeling sorry for people anymore!!! This channel is it!!!
Thats crazy, I know which news station your talking about b/c about 5 yrs ago, I tried to get a job there too! When you described it, I instantly knew💯
I love your content it's so relevant nd honestly freeing m in some of a way bcz as women we centre men who never thought about centrening us intentional love nd yess m not getting of my pedestal also🎉❤🙌🔥🙏❤️💯
God commands us to be strong and courageous Joshua 1:9. People misquote the Bible and take it out of context and that leads to religious bondage. Love your content exotical ❤️❤️
You will be at 100,000 by the end of the year.
I definitely see it coming !
Manifesting this for her! Yess❤
I hope so!!! 💯💯💯
I can see that💕😁
I hope so 😍 I hope we all blow up! when our content overlaps it boosts all of us in the algorithm!
I self sabotage my appearance because I’m scared of increased male attention. What do I do if some psycho won’t take no for an answer? It’s threatening to become more visible…
A bad man doesn’t care if your are dressed cute or if you are bumming it. Additionally, you are more likely to get protection when you are pretty so work the system.
I have gotten to this point as well. I used to love getting dolled up and looking my best , I still do but a low key version. The thing I have observed is that when you dress up , you just become more of a colourful prey for men. In these times they way how the dudes are reacting if you reject them low key is the way to go imo.
Thank you girls for sharing your experience 💕 I keep myself way fatter than I’d like to be because I’m terrified of men. Especially when you deem a man “safe” and then in closed spaces or when it’s dark after getting dinner at a restaurant he starts pushing for intimacy I just freeze. I just wanna stay in a safe protected bubble and be a skinny Barbie that doesn’t have to think about a man disregarding her boundaries. I don’t date anymore. It’ll be a long time until I agree to go on a date with any man again.
Omg!! I thought I was the only one doing that! I was self-sabotaging my looks scared of extra male attention ( especially old creepy men) and female jealous looks
This is so real
I recently started working out again, wearing makeup and taking better care of my hair and making sure its done before work...and i get the questions... "Where you going wit that makeup on, who you trying to impress with that hair style"???
my answer is simply....
M Y S E L F!! 🌸💕
I love that for you. ❤
They’re just jealous. Keep doing it. I’m sure you look beautiful ❤
@@sugarmcdoodles8462
Aww thx love💕
"Self steem and being unbothered is the biggest flex" Amennn
You will be put on a pedestal whether you want it or not.
I’m not mixed and part of this demographic but your messages resonate with me. I’m glad I’ve kept an open mind. I’m glad to be a subscriber.
✨This👏🏽title👏🏽is👏🏽EVERYTHING 👏🏽✨
Don’t get mad, get paid
Most men make about 65kpy. They are broke. Better to build your own business, they will expect things in return for any dime spent and hurt you for it.
THE MOTTO!
@niamhfranklin9261 On this channel, when we say "get paid," we're not talking about getting money from m¤les. We're talking about BUILDING OURSELVES by creating businesses that capitalize on our talents as well as our looks, by honing in on our gifts, our intelligence and talents, and the beauty that people already pedestalize.
The way we feel is, if they're going to always be trying to bully us and humble us for our looks, while at the same time praising us, we might as well get paid by finding ways to capitalize off our own looks and our Exotical lifestyle.
M&n are definitely NOT the "bag" we're after. Yes, they can add on to benefit us but we're not out here chasing them or their coins. We will get our "Exotical Taaaaaax" regardless. 😁😊🤑💛
@@sophiam9886 thank you! I was gonna reply explaining that they didn’t understand what I meant but didn’t have the energy to explain 😂
@@Yourrrr I got you, Sis! 😁🩷💛
What I love the most about myself is my ability to adapt and adjust to various situations and make the best of it. My foundation is strong like 20 thick layers of concrete. I'm determined to improve my life in every aspect.
That’s a wonderful quality to have!
Currently hot girl walking 🎧😊
Oooooh yay! 😍
This is ALCHEMY.
yes!
To raise my self-esteem, I recently jotted down a ton of compliments I have received about myself in general. So later if I have any doubts, I can look at the list and it can be reassuring.
@@anonamous6320 I'm sure it works just as much.
Wonderful!
I SO LOVED this entire video!❤ It hit home in so many ways-most importantly it just reminded me that although through my life especially when I was younger-like school and college aged-people would go out their way to “knock” me off my pedestal but it NEVER worked. I am not perfect but I try and always tried to be a good human being…I can’t control how I look and how it made others feel but I knew all I needed to do to was keep my head held high-stay true to myself and keep reaching for the stars ✨…I’ve never been jealous of other women only admired and inspired by those doing and looking a certain way…I’m proud that I am this way!…again great video and keep up the GREAT work! 💋 ❤❤❤
These ladies in the photos so gorgeous 😍
thank you! i try to find as many pics as I can use to represent us!
@@ExoticalsUnitedI love it and a lot of inspo styles too
May I send my photos to you ..? For your video clips ..?
I love this channel!!! Looking at my pretty daughter!!! That’s right!!! I did not know how to manage it when I was young!!!! I deleted one of my other comments because I’m not feeling sorry for people anymore!!! This channel is it!!!
Yes ma'am
Your analogies and self-awareness is unparalleled on the internet 👏🏻
I’m glad you learned to trust yourself, you’re an inspiration to me.
Hey pretty girls!!❤
Thats crazy, I know which news station your talking about b/c about 5 yrs ago, I tried to get a job there too! When you described it, I instantly knew💯
This video was really needed right now. Thank you ❤ you’re so positive
Aw thanks sis ❤️
As you should 👏👏👏! Keep going! Thank you for everything you’re discussing! ❤
This is actually really deep and introspective ❤
Another great video
Thank you for this reassuring message!
Thank you for creating this channel❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love your content it's so relevant nd honestly freeing m in some of a way bcz as women we centre men who never thought about centrening us intentional love nd yess m not getting of my pedestal also🎉❤🙌🔥🙏❤️💯
This video is all i needed thank you!❤️
LOVE all of this
This video is so helpful
Slay girl love your channel
God commands us to be strong and courageous Joshua 1:9. People misquote the Bible and take it out of context and that leads to religious bondage. Love your content exotical ❤️❤️
A good thing to center your life around is community.💜
Love it ❤
you are the only other entj woman I actually know
I’m one too.
Another one ❤ 🎉
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