How to Break A Generational Curse
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- Опубликовано: 19 сен 2021
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I just broke out of generational poverty and boy oh boy it hasn't been easy. Being the last child I have to observe all the jealousy from my other brothers with not even one of them congratulating me. It's hard when the toxicity in your family becomes clear as daylight.
@@EM-fz3hf this true.. but really sad that it is true
Jealous people won't stop until they destroy you. NEVER help your family!!!
Then those people are toxic. I hope not to ever make the same mistakes my parents made or get tied in with generational curses because people really hate seeing others rise. I will start my own path regardless because it is destined that you break free and find your purpose.
Congrats on breaking the curse!! That’s awesome 👏🏽
How did you break it?
Long line of alcoholics in my family. I’m 12 years sober. Toughest thing I ever did. Changed my life. Worth every sacrifice. Thanks for what you do PBD.
Congratulations Ben! The change is amazing, 33 years sober, went to college, raised a family, haven't had to sleep under a bridge for over 3 decades.
@@richq11 that’s a great to hear. What an accomplishment. Here’s to your future!!
Good for you!
@@bengrant8890 And to yours too, it sounds like yopu're doing great.
@@EM-fz3hf Congratualtions and keep it up, it gets better and better. Life still has its ups and downs but now you have the toold to deal with it.
It’s the people closest to you who don’t want to see you succeed.
They are blind as you are. Most people don't even SEE the chains.
couldn't agree more, jealousy is a disease
Misery Loves Company.
Yup the crab mentality
Our enemies can't hurt us
I'm trying to break a "curse" and im in the middle of trying to loose about 100 pounds so I can live a healthier life. I've always been a big guy and my parents have been in and out of bad health. Thank you for this and reminding/encouraging me of why I'm doing this!
Dude check out Athletes Ability’s RUclips channel.
@@jameshumphries5059 im on a very strict diet plan by Optavia and its been working good 2 weeks in. But thank you and I will look at that thank you
Im glad to hear that Mark. I've always been a big guy my self. At 5'11 i was 262 at 15. Had my heart broken by a chick and it motivated me to lose 95lbs in 8 months. Dated many beautiful girls after that lol. Then life happened and I gained 60lbs back in 5yrs. Then lost 50 in 6 months. Then i wrecked my back and needed surgery. That led to gaining almost 100lbs and I ballooned up to 276lbs. I first worked on strengthening my back and core to gain enough strength to perform moderate exercises. I'm down to 235 and want to lose another 50 atleast lol. Life is what it is you know, and we have to do our best to keep fighting both literally and figuratively. Stay strong brother you got this!!
@@marksanders6403 - Cool dude!
@@hamzafarooqi6725 I've been big my whole life and yes life throws some curve balls. I'm 37 6'4" and got over 300 lbs and recently got sick and lost weight from being sick and got down to 295lbs and once I got better decided this is a good as any time to loose the weight. Im in a good mental space and have alot of determination to get to my goal weight of 180lbs. This is a journey I need to do and will do 💪
Yup, I had to disown my entire "family" 20 years ago. They are all failures and they actually despise any ideas for self-improvement. I've also had to leave many friends behind for the same reason.
Same, I gave my family so many chances but whenever I made a positive change in my life to overcome a generational curse I was ridiculed by my own family and brought down and drained. 25 years of that was enough, it was either them or my own life, and even then I do it for them (my bloodline).
💯
Misery loves company ..
Hope you found new friends
You have every right to leave them.
It’s a battle of the mind that is constantly being waged. Excellent message!
It's a whole different dimension when your own family is against you. I don't even know how it's possible and I was stuck in negative thinking for so long thinking how I was even born/cursed into/with a dysfunctional family. In my 30s I realize now that it is what it is, existence is a harsh reality on its own and it's a miracle humans even made it as far as we have considering everything in this realm seeks to devour you.
@@fathom2732 I understand where you’re coming from. My family struggles with addiction, then I married into a family of addiction. My then wife and her family were terribly rotten people who tried desperately to drag me down when I tried to better myself. The things they did were purely evil. I endured their rottenness for over 20 years, but I stayed strong in my faith in Christ. I still have struggles to this day, but I will never give up. You can’t make your situation better if you don’t try, and that may mean every single day for s long time. Maybe your entire life. You can be the one to break this generational strong hold. Believe me, it isn’t easy. I think the most important thing I did was to separate myself from them. I forgave them then stayed far away. Best wishes to you! I’m going to write your username on my notepad and pray for you! Never give up!!!
@@klayvonisme Amen. Cheers brother Kalvin, indeed everything became much easier when I found Christ myself and started to pray in his name. Thank you I will accept your prayers and made one for you just now. As cheesy as the old saying goes, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. People like us can use this wisdom to really make a difference helping teens and young adolescences overcome their problems because we are essentially them from the future. I do my best to help but it is a whole different story understanding that some people just won't make it and it's up to them to break out. Gabor Mate has some good content on RUclips, he mentions in his long experience of helping others overcome addiction that only about 5% of them make it out.
indeed!
@@fathom2732 I have your name on my notepad, mind, and heart. I will continue praying for you. Stay strong in His name and never give up!
Jesus said “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” It’s easy to feel that it’s not true, but that’s a promise! He has always been there for me. It was always me who left Him. Stay strong, you got this!!
I left all my family in California to break the curse of being in debt. Now I’m in Texas, with my own content creation business, on route to be debt free by the end of the year.
Never look back, always move forward, not only for yourself. But for the new generational wealth you’re building for your future family.
big facts , stay blessed.
Awesome!
I faced family members who run always in debt and hate people who are debt free!!!
I ran my budget debt free since Dec 2007/January 08 and the Freedom is awesome!!!
Especially when you can apply yourself and be good at what you do! You don’t have to put up with mediocrity!
Beware,
Always keep good people around you.
Branch out and meet new people to learn from.
Beware of possible Cain’s and Judas’s.
The moment I decided I wasn't going to mingle with the lifestyle of that family I saw things changed
great!
So true! From as far back as I can remember my whole family is addicted to worry and good enough mindsets!
Truly becoming a son of GOD is the step to break generational ties because what the Father does the son does.
Yes!, there’s so much that we can do with our own strength, but we have a limit when demons are taking control of families for generations. That’s why Jesus came to destroy the works of the devil to set the captives free and to open the heavens to His children. I seen many people been delivered from demons and Jesus breaking generational curses and peoples lives been changed and finally been happy and at peace.
It's okay if you believe that, but don't say it as if it's facts. Everyone believes different things. I am glad you found something that helps and works for you. Bless you and all the best
Amen!!!! We got an awesome Father!
Thanks Pat! I'm from a third world country. My family and relatives are all very narrow minded, financially illiterate and uneducated in general. The culture is very toxic and unproductive. As much as I love my mum and dad, I just can't contribute to it. I will have to break free for my own sake and the sake of the generations that are to come from and after me. Incompatibility of values with my parents might hurt my relationship with them but it's a sacrifice I'm willing to make for I'm sure once they see the end result they will understand what it was all for.
Keep going! I’m kind of in the same situation and sometimes it’s hard to leave your loved ones behind but it’s either sacrifice the life of your dreams or make it a reality! Stay strong 💪
Fk you about to make me cry man😞😔 keep up the grind we got this !
Firstly - you are on the right track ...secondly you are not sacrificing anything. Believe me that your parents will love and respect you once they see results you are getting. That reconciliation may seem impossible for you to see now, but it is bound to happen ; remember that Indians always go into a closed loop. a few years into the future, your parents will be like - "I always know my son would so something great with his life". Happens all the time.
are you haitian ?
@@schleidenetienne7441 no mate, I'm from India
First gen college grad, moved from the projects to comfortably upper middle class. This has been my whole life. Thank you for putting words to it.
Thank you for this video. I was born to a low income family of six and I was the first person to earn a middle class income. It took alot of videos, books, meeting new people to change my mindset and realize that I can change my circumstances.
💪🏿 great work
You forgot the most important point, His name is Jesus! And he can not only set you free but change you in such a way, you would never think you could.
Exactly 🙌🏼✊🏼🤴🏻. I feel like many people don’t talk about Jesus because they haven’t really experienced Him and His love and the wisdom and power of His Holy Spirit. Jesus has the Power to change everything in us, starting with generational curses🔥 He definitely transforms the mind🙌🏼🤴🏻
apart from Christ predicting "brother against brother, child against parent", walking with Him really involves a break from old friends, old family, old town, and yes, from your old self. if you were ok & doing ok in the earthly day-to-day sense (plenty of non-christians are like that...), family is not going to understand. and of course, going with Christ involves breaking free from one's old sinful self. hard enough to break away from the old sinful self as is, without people in your life trying to reel you back in. and if family's thing is alcohol, drugs, or something else really dysfunctional, they are REALLY not going to understand.
Amen
Every single word of this message hits close to home. As an adolescent I was told to play the cards I was dealt. It made me question what game I was playing and what the rules were. Dependencies, including inherited state of mind, define the game, and when you break free of those you can determine your own terms
Good stuff PAT. "Be transformed by the renewing of your mind and not conformed...."
This battle you speak of - I believe - begins in our own thought processes - before the battle begins.
As you mentioned, our own observation of the problem and, the desire to free ourselves, starts the process.
Don't want to discourage anyone by talking about how long a battle that may be - but I'll say very recently I have felt a release from a destructive thought process (we'll see if it sticks), and I feel a great weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
Not Euphoric or excited - relieved, thankful, peaceful, quieter in the mind.
Makes me have confidence that it is a genuine milestone.
Thanks again, Brother Pat
Something we also may take for granted is being able to listen to great people like yourself repeating positive messages to stay on the right path. If all you hear and see is negativity, it's very hard to keep that inner fire burning against the darkness. But listening to podcasts and interviews from people on the right path, you can become a part of a community that does have their mind straight and it can help you to keep making the right decisions
In the wise words of Russell Westbrook “Do you!” Don’t put these people on a foooooking pedestal! Especially the losers. Most important thing is don’t get pulled back in to the boooool sheeeeit.
Exactly!
Stay clean, stay clear.
@@faizaanalap4 you need to go back to school, your reading comprehension is terrible! Now have a good day lil boy!
So great to hear you speak on this topic. I have been telling my husband this for years ... every one is stuck and they want you to be there with them. Let it go! It's been a battle for over 20+ years.
Yessssss - this video ..............AND..................the lighting and video quality YES!!!!!! Let's go! Always improving on VT!
PBD Evokes emotion in his audience like no other. Great stuff Pat.
You don't have any idea how the timing of this video was on point thanks a lot Patrick and god bless you all
On vacation with my parents right now and really needed to hear this. I keep telling myself “they are the way they are and they can’t be any other way”
amazing message Pat!! so many of us forget WE are our own hero---because WE ARE OUR OWN BIGGEST BARRIER to success!! the old self tries to pull us back!! GREAT WORK PAT! TYSM
I am deeply humbled by this message, thank you very much Patrick.
I look forward to Pats Monday video more than any other video on RUclips every week. I work so much it reminds me it’s Monday.
Pat is one of the most amazing influential people I've found on youtube. This guy's content isn't even content. It's fucking ART.
Patrick, you've changed many lives and your message doesn't seem to end, nor should it. Your work brings tears to my eyes it's so incredible. If I ever meet you I would literally be more star struck than if I met Ariana Grande.
You're the man Patty, but most importantly, your our man
Well said sir. You should see his other company, PHP. I joined it and am learning alot about how to help families and grow myself at the same time.
Wow Patrick! I was just talking to a friend this weekend about this. My so called family and others don’t talk to me. They went as far as messed with my kids and now they’re back into that curse and struggling…it literally kills me and my grandkids. Having Faith and moving forward and praying for them. 🙏🙏
@Valuetainment▪️ Small world Patrick!! We’ve met with PHP event in EPTx 🇨🇱👍
This is one of the best videos ever, because other sources taught me the same ... and I sometimes - rarely - pondered it myself. Congrats !
Never expected a video like this as always. Love and Respect!!!
NEVER AGAIN WILL ANYTHING BE CURSED.
This channel is the absolute best! So much life advice on top of business advice. *Honestly, you can’t find unique content like this anywhere else on RUclips.* I love learning from Patrick each week 😊🙌📚💡
Thank you Patrick,
My parents are gamblers and negative thinkers,
its only since covid i began searching for what would make me happy.
Becomeing financially free and forgiving everybody and not getting angry.
This is so good and confirmation. Thank you for sharing it. Blessings!
Wow great message. Thank you PBD for sharing this. Breaking my curses everyday in faith, truth and love. May God bless all the works of your hands
The greatest Victory, getting away from the narcissists
Thank you Pat needed to hear this.
Patrick from the bottom of my heart thank you for what you do. You truly have cha ged my life this past year.
I'm not the same person I came into 2021 as.
I spent the whole year educating myself and doing what I can to make tomorrow better then yesterday.
I love these videos Pat. So valuable
Thanks Big Bro! I needed this today.
Thank you so much, Patrick. I really needed this.
Some generational curses are spiritual and you’ll need someone with superior authority to break that curse because the unclean spirits are way stronger than you given the stronghold they have.
Let me introduce you to the all powerful Jesus Christ the Lord
It it is for freedom that Christ sets you free
Love these vidoes pat, you’re doing such a great job
Great tips!! It's always inspiring!! 👊
Love this video and thank you for the insight and encouragement to face our demons head on. Appreciate you!
always gotta face the demons head on, success takes character
Awesome video pat! It just adds on to my process of disrupting my familys culture. I wouldn’t say it’s a curse. But my beliefs and values are not aligned with those of my parents and i’m having a hard time dealing with it, but this video just came right in time! 👍
Good luck brother
Keep your head up bro👍
@@thefreeaussielad7292 Thanks 🙏
@@r.7530 You too 💪🙏
Hopefully you’re not a radical leftist…
It's the season of the Jewish High Holidays. The main motif of this time is self reflection and repentance.
Maimonides writes in his chapter on repentance, that in order to do full repentance, after confessing the sin, you need to change you environment. change how you dress, and move to another city. He probably his hitting on the point you are making about the environment that got you sinning in the first place.
Thanks for doing videos like this Pat!
The world needs its heroes. If you change 1 life or save 1 person that makes you a hero my guy.
Great work 👏 Great vibes 👏
So nice to see and hear more of your thoughts again :-). Thanks for that
Thank you for shedding light on this, Patrick.
You speak of the same value and enlightenment that Bob Proctor speaks of i.e. Changing paradigms and the law of vibration.
And it's a breakthrough epiphany.
I have intentionally disassociated from all toxic people.
It works.
I refuse any interaction with toxic people.
Once you experience this you will find peace and liberty.
@Valuetainment▪️ ?
❤️ Wow, this was great. Loved it. Thanks for the advice!
*Never stop, slow down sometimes but never stop!*
thank you. this is what i needed today.
Thank you Patrick.
Pat - thank you for this video
Speechless man!! This is the core of what is wrong with our society. Thanks!
For me it’s the family that always thinks negatively I’m so done with it and Im 💯 focused on me and I only feel free that way
Great video Pat
Awesome video, I need this !❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Great learning from your videos
Beautiful message Pat
thank you Pat !
This resonated with me 1000% 💯
My girlfriends family is very big into schooling, and the amount of pressure and questions they ask her is nuts. If you go against the grain in her family good luck. There’s like no strong men in her family and mostly women, straight gossip. I haven’t met one of her aunts before and the first question she asked me is what I do for a living, told her I was retired
Great video!
As always, a great 3 points conclusion as a reminder of one of the battles that must be faced and fought. Biggest victory in your life? Don't know, but the spirit that develops while doing that will be fearless.
Hi Patrick! As always GREAT video. I kindly ask you to PLEASE upload more of THOSE videos around FAMILY (courses), transgenerational traumas, and just in general HOW DO YOU AS AN ENTREPRENEUR HANDLE YOUR FAMILY'S NEGATIVITY.
This video is so Powerful 👊🏾
Legendary presentation. Very Apt
Brilliant topic brother
He seems so sincere.
Balance. Sometimes people go polar opposite to leave a generational curse - to then be unbalanced again. Center ourselves and our families - life is busier that way as you watch people swing through their pendulums of change.
Love this!!!!
I am about to break a huge generational curse 😅 it was very tough but I am so determined to do it no matter what
Wow this video needed to be made. Im sending this to all my family
Wow, this is a priceless message by a mile. Thank You 🙏 @Valuetainment.
Completely understand powerful insight brother
Thanks Patrick
Pat constantly dropping the best content on RUclips
This is true Valuetainment ! This goes for a healthy lifestyle as well.
Your right my man bless you and your family
THIS is the video I was looking for. One day we shall meet Patrick and then I shall say THANK YOU.
My generational curse is breaking! I'm at the toughest part, but Im close to breaking it!
So close, I can feel freedom and better living on my skin. And both feel amazing!
Thank you.
Great stuff
Until you see it as demonic you can’t really understand the curse
Straight to the point
Always on time!! Omg. Like how do you read my thoughts and post exactly what I'm struggling with. I'm having a hard time right now
Hold on! You can do it! Seek and you shall find…
@@klayvonisme thank you ❤
Thank you
Thank you pat
Deep bro, deeep!!!!
PAT you are preaching a Sunday morning message Sir!
Malo malo uso thank you for all the good videos manuia le Aso ❤
I loved this video sooooooo much and I love these comments even more 😮💨❤️
I realized this fact, hard way- 2 yrs late maybe 3, m not ashamed-m not the sharpest tool in the shed, but hearing this from an accomplished person ~ yes, SOME PEOPLE DONT CHANGE-THEY LOOK FOR SCAPEGOATS-THEY MAKE SOMEONE ELSE SCAPEGOATS ~ & you gotta fight it - HARD !!
Bcoz this is their fear : They can & could but they did not, Now you are a real thing-within that family-You are doing this now; choosing to & it eats them from the inside.
Cravings and to some extent memories good and bad can be passed through epigenetic inheritance. This is something that is important in the animal world for survival but can be a hang-up for humans if the craving is destructive. This physical component of the generational curse/blessing generally gets passed down 4 generations before becoming too dilute. Something to think about.
This is exactly what has and is going on in my life/family.
YOU are changing lives.
Yo, my man how did you figure that out?
Short, epic, prophetic, and utterly therapeutic.
On point.
Wow.
That's One of the best 4 plus minutes of my life.
This video is spot on. I am now the "black sheep" because I chose to not gossip, be a part of their drama, and not want people around my kids who are criminals. I'm a "snob", I think I'm "better", etc. Nope, I just want better. Now, I'm at the part where I'm battling with myself on a daily basis.