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Proof sexuality isnt a choice: women wouldn't CHOOSE to be attracted to a man like that (this is a joke [kinda])
Little bit of truth in every joke 😆
She choose that male
@@WynnWynn-gl3fk She probably wasn't expecting her husband to treat her like a slave after marriage
Or if this was the husband being treated badly, he never expected his wife to treat him as a slave
The same for non heterosexual relationships
@@WynnWynn-gl3fk you realize that you don’t see how awful they are at chores and tasks until you live together and have kids? What do y’all expect, we’re intuitive, not fuckin psychic.
this is a joke... but also not really
Would love you to review “man or bear” memes. Men have been creating really bad memes and videos retaliating against women choosing the bear. It’s been hilarious.
Lol. I love that the 4B movement is going so strong.
Yeah its weird how pressed they are getting about it.just say what your choice is and move on instead of getting enraged
Could you let me know more about this?
I am not a cis woman, but I understand how bullshit those videos are. I have read to many news stories about dudes using the Trans Panic defense and it is so fucked up.
as a guy id choose bear myself.
Do straight men even like women?
No, and that's not straight...
No. Straight men wanna impress other men. That's their true love. Women are just objects to men.
Nope, ironically most think that is “gay.” 🤦♀️ 🤷♀️ 😡
Simping is gay frfr
@@WynnWynn-gl3fk fellas, is it gay to be straight?
The guy with the sick wife, who even then won't clean the dishes pisses me off so much.
In my house, if one of us is sick, some chores will pile up. Because the healthy one is doing them alone, in addition to taking care of the sick one. But by no means your sick partner should feel the need to get up and do the house chores. What a tool.
Same. I grew in a military family. If someone is sick we all chipped in & did what we could to help out even something as simple as getting them like a glass of water or bringing them their medicine. Anything to help out. This dude should feel bad & embarrassed that his wife has to do this while being sick because she knows he won't do anything unless he's forced to. She deserves a better spouse not one who acts like spoiled child who spouse has to basically be his mom
Fr this man brings nothing to the table. This woman deserves so much better. He's a douchebag who cannot avoid making snarky comments about his wife to strangers on the internet in an attempt to embarrass her. Its annoying
Nah, don’t call him a tool come on
Tools are actually useful
@@gilillustration7650 fair enough
Right? Like I get if you don't have the time to deep-clean, but regular, urgent chores should be a no-brainer, and doing the dishes is one of the most urgent and regular chores in the whole house!
If someone told me I was acting like my mom I’d break up with them. That is literally the worst thing someone could say to me. I’d rather be called a wh*re.
I've been called both (and also compared unfavorably to my dad), and I can sincerely confirm that being called a wh*re is preferable.
same here
I don’t understand why saying somebody is acting like their mom is a bad thing? Is there a bad connotation I’m missing?
If I was told I was acting like my mom, I would take it as a compliment, since my mom is a very nice person.
@@cloudyskyz2237 well, prob cuz theres sadly alot of bad moms out there . My mom is someone who should be in jail
@@cloudyskyz2237They're specifically saying it to a person whose mom is not a good person to be compared to (which can be anything from having a generally unpleasant personality, to being an actual murderer or rapist or something). You're very lucky that you have such a great mom that this insult couldn't be used on you! 😊
As someone who doesn’t have tiktok the phrase ’straight TiKTok isn’t really a thing anymore’ made me sigh in relief
Saaame lol
yes, it's all woke queer tiktok instead
@@deligeorgieva8535 nice that's much better, I rather see educated lesbians then heterosexuals in a loveless marriage
@@deligeorgieva8535 finally
@@deligeorgieva8535 hooray
Recently my dad told me a "joke".
A woman has three daughters. She decides to test their boyfriends before giving her blessing before they get married.
She invites the first one to dinner. All is going well and they're having a good time. After the meal, they're going to a park. The mother pretends to fall into a pond and drown. The boyfriend jumps in and saves her.
The next day, a BMW is in front of his house with a note. "Thank you for saving my life. You have my blessing to marry my daughter. your mother in law"
A week later, she does the same with the second daughter's boyfriend: Lunch, park, drowning. Again, the boyfriend saves her. Again, a BMW is in front of his house the next with a note giving blessings to marry the girlfriend.
Another week later, she invites her third daughter's boyfriend. Once again, she has dinner with him and goes to the park after. Once again, she pretends to fall into the pond. Only this time, the boyfriend doesn't save her and she drowns.
The next day, a Lamborhini is in front of his house. "Thank you for saving my life. You don't even have to marry my daughter. Your father in law"
And my dad was very confused why I didn't find this funny. 😯
Yeah it's that"I hate my wife" boomer humor
I’m not even sure what the punchline is
@@jojol.2630 Literally just "haha men hate their wifes so hilarious haha"
Which is so weird cause he's obsessed with my mom and would never in a million years "joke" about her like that so I don't understand how he can find this funny 😭
It says a lot of dark things about a person when they believe the only way out of their relationship is the partners death, especially when the law isn’t even holding you hostage. Very sick!
In terms of boomer humour the joke stinks. But in real life it's kind of fun. Because a woman deranged enough to repeatedly fake a life or death emergency and rewards the concerned victim with an expensive object? She can't be a loving and reliable spouse or parent. And the fact that apparently their daughters were in on it is worth warning their future husband about.
So good for hypothetical freed husband, boo for boomer husband and your dad
Ok but the CREEPIEST part of the robot wife tiktoks by far is the glitching and the "bonk her on the head to reset" bit
Like not only is he simulating domestic abuse there, the way the glitching is portrayed feels a little TOO much like sexualizing mental/speech issues, as someone who will regularly forget what they had to say/stutters often
Like that just creeped me the fuck out
Oh yeah, it's definitely icky 😬
Defimitely got Stepford Wives vibes from that video. So creepy.
People who don't know think it's a funny little joke. Women with epilepsy cringe at this harder then men when they see testicular trauma
I was kinda getting that too, like making light of stutters and vocal tics
Their attitude and behavior toward the robot shows exactly what they want and would expect from a woman- which is why no woman wants anything to do with them 🚩🚩🚩
Also with the robot one, the implication that you can just hit your partner when they don't act "correctly" is wild
True! It's more dehumanizing than a meme because he even talked her into participating in her own oppression. It's so sad.
So men, think that the first video where the wife is given the silent treatment is acting like a child but the third video where the wife had to clean after her husband “isn’t him acting like a child?”🙄 literally someone cleaning after you and doing everything for you it’s more childish than someone giving you a silent treatment.
I think their content is just intentional rage bait, they're both horrible actors lol. Still infuriating to watch, and these things are still problems in many marriages, but at least this specific man-child isn't real
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@@clatterslameven so, it's just perpetuating those ideals, it's valid to be mad at it all the same
@@booterfly6367 oh, for sure lol. I don't think it's really perpetuating much since I don't think they're some great role models who people would want to follow and act like in their own relationships, but it is still infuriating that people like this 100% do exist, and to me, it's super weird that some random couple is roleplaying as them and willing to make it seem like that's what they're actually like lol. Clout is a hell of a drug ig
I feel like how these guys think of Marriage is like that one SpongeBob meme
Boomers: Waaahh! I don't like marriage!!
Everyone else with a brain: Then why did you ask for it?!
Crazy how boomers thought a life time of misery was preferable to being gossiped about by church ladies
Boomers: CUZ GOD SAID MARRIAGE IS RIGHT AND GOD IS MY GUIDE
Everyone else with a brain: But, God never said that? Men said it by writing it in a book, actually...Does any of the religious scriptures genuinely say that???
@@Archiver_Studiono, no scriptures say that god created marriage. Marriage was created by man. Hell, even in the scriptures it says the Bible is the word of man, not god.
It's because they won't admit that they get all the benefits, including living longer. So they'll say they hate it but they don't actually mean that
Lol men didn't even write it in the Bible, they wrote it in Interview with My Best Friend Goddy who Happens to Agree With All My Opinions@@Archiver_Studio
Fun fact: married men live longer than single men, and single women live longer than married women. Tells you all you need to know about our current society
The best part of being married is having someone that's there for me. My husband and I HATE this kind of content. My first husband would have loved this content. I don't get marrying someone you OBVIOUSLY don't like.
Right? I would never even remotely consider marrying someone who I don't feel like I can trust with every aspect of myself. That was how I was with my former bf (we broke up due to life going in different directions, we're still best friends) and it's how I am with my current gf. The idea of living with and being with someone who doesn't care about your emotions or needs sounds like torture.
Usually they seem normal in the beginning and wait to be weird till after marriage. So you're legally connected to him and its harder to leave.
As a bi woman I thoroughly understand why woman give the silent treatment more often with men. We communicate constantly with them the same exact thing and at some point you realize there’s no point in trying to say anything. Literally get told you’re “nagging” for having to explain 10x how under helped you are with the chores. Literally communicate 10x that you’re tired of being insulted and they keep doing it. Most men are ridiculous and never listen to your boundaries.
That’s what i think too !
At some point you realize that talking doesn't help so you stop talking. It's better to be silent than to yell, because it has the same effect.
Whenever I give people the silent treatment, it's not to punish them, it's to preserve what little inner peace I have left.
@@justcallmeaj4105 for real if I’ve ever given the silent treatment it’s literally to help my mental health atp lol
let's remember that "silent treatment" isn't always a choice. Like you said some people just need time to calm down. Personally, I struggle with mutism in stressful situations. I have severe anxiety and PTSD and cannot control this trauma response.
There is a difference between taking a break to process and collect yourself, and deliberately ignoring someone for sometimes days or weeks specifically to "punish" them for some perceived wrong
As someone who did chores as a kid, helped keep house when I lived with my parents, and now lives alone and cleans house regularly, I can't wrap my brain around people (usually men) who act like cleaning is SO HARD. It's really not. Washing the dishes is one of the simplest tasks you could ever be asked to perform.
(feel like I shouldn't have to say this isn't about having ADHD and is about whining when your partner asks you to help out, but apparently I do have to say that)
It's hard if you have ADHD.
Because you have to motivate yourself to do a task.
The task itself is easy, actually convincing your brain that it's a good idea isn't.
@@Nerobyrnetrue. But most people don’t have ADHD. Aand ADHD was not the topic of this.
@@NerobyrneWas about to comment this. I have ADHD and executive dysfunction is fucking awful. However, there is a workaround, which is as simple as my partner gently pulling me to my feet and leading me to the task to be done. She acts as my executive function, which I do for her in return (we both have ADHD lol). So like, if your spouse knows about the ADHD issues and is willing to help you start tasks/remind you of chores that need doing, there should generally be no problem
Chores and tasks are super stupid difficult for me, but I have pathological demand avoidance, diagnosed by a therapist, so at least there's an explanation. I still have to do them.
@@cloudyskyz2237 but the majority of people who have it are men, and I've noticed that a lot of stereotypes about men are actually just ADHD symptoms
As incompetent as manchildren can be, I'm starting to suspect a lot of these videos are rage baiting because they know they can get hundreds of angry people in the comments, theres no way the "sick wife doing the dishes" clip was real, I refuse to believe she would calmly stand there and let him film her coughing all over the dishes like that while she clearly explains the situation and he just obliviously goes "is it just my wife?" Without acknowledging anything she said. It's so over the top it sickens me.
i think it probably started around the same time TikTok started paying creators
Quora has a similar problem where, depending on how many people answer your post, you get payed a certain amount
it's why Quora is filled with people saying "is it okay if i beat my child and lock them in our basement?" to get people to respond
"Where are you going dressed like that?!" is something a parent says to a child! 😡
Kiwi, your videos are a huge part of the reason my vows included "I promise to every day make you feel married WITH me, not married TO me."
NGL I felt so validated when Sav admitted to putting leftover pots in the fridge because I do that sometimes. I don't have nearly enough large Tupperware and I cannot be bothered to dish my leftovers into 3 separate containers. Pot's going in the fridge! Lmao
The one where he’s like “Say she’s acting like her mother” reminds me of the meme where the guy says “What to say to your girl when she’s mad: (the worst possible things)”
If I was ever told that it would take me out. Like in a puzzled way 😂, my mother is cool af
I spent years knowing that I was sexually/romantically attracted to men but not any of the men I met. Because this sort of "traditional" relationship is my nightmare. Thankfully I met my now husband who treats me as an equal partner.
I'm hosting a tea party today. He washed the dishes, wiped down the kitchen, swept all the floors, helped set up garden furniture, and asked if there is anything else he can help with. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thats literally dream like omg :3
these people are living my personal nightmare
I always tell my friends that if I got married I'd 100%, with my partners permission, answer "why did u get married?" with "tax benefits. And Love too."
Like, as a joke bc i obviously love them enough to get married and there's *tax benefits*
If they don't like it, then the more vanilla "love..... And tax benefits too" could work
I'll probably answer "Why wouldn't I? Have you looked at him?"
In every joke there is a bit of truth. All they seem to want is a bangmaid therapist?!😢 Why do you think all the mens are lonely and angry? Their wife appliances have been discontinued.😡
Telling me I'm "acting like my mother" is the highest compliment. My mom is the single most badass and amazing woman I've ever met.
The moving the chips/crisps situation. Did she really want crumbly chip/crisps hands touching her there?? What if they like jalapeño or bbq flavored ones 💀 Everything said of course, but I'd definitely not try to get that type of touch if I wanted intimacies with a partner 💀😅🫣
"25 ways to s p i c e up activities in the bedroom"
4 Years you say.....now I can say this. May the 4th be with you. Happy anniversary
May the 4th be with you! And yes, I know it's tomorrow 😅
To 4 years of painting innocent straight people as evil
@@JoseHernandez-Mendez A lot of them are tho.
9:00 she is not a wife, but a mother to her manchild she decided to marry.
Also she left the fridge door open.
I never do the dishes.
Simply refuse to.
It's because we have a dish washer 😂
Friend of mine always goes: I like my dishwasher. But he's over forty now. 😂
They just divided up housework though. She cooks and and he cleans up afterwards.
I think the other issue with the "eating crisps and then moving the crisps away from her crotch" video (lol didn't know what else to call it) is that I think the intention is less to imply that she has to trick him into touching her and more that she has to let him touch her to get attention. I think the video is implying that he only pays attention to her for sexual reasons and ignores her otherwise which just really adds on to all the things that you pointed out as well 😭 yuck
9:05 god.. this was my ex so much. he'd mess the entire house up and expect me to clean up the smallest simple things after him so he got to enjoy the nice clean house and i never did bc he wouldn't do the simplest things to clean up after himself. i'm so glad we finally broke up (apart from all the trauma he caused by cheating/lying, kicking me out and taking my cats that he now doesn't take care of properly) cos i will NEVER date another cishet man.
I hope you can get the cats back.
My ancestors didn't go all in on the Reformation just so people could go around not getting divorced when their marriages were miserable.
“straight tiktok” is just the biker/booktok thing now😭
i think straight people dont even label that on their video
One time I saw a Facebook post from a guy I used to follow and it was a mini story about a wife testing her husband and a lot of problematic gender roles were included like even at the end the husband told her to make him a meal which honestly is like wtf for me, and then the post asked for Bible quotes in the comments. Like BRO even the photo they used looked like an abusive situation like that post was not it and since then I’ve unfollowed that guy cause HE TYPED THAT POST IN HIMSELF and I’m like WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCKK
Thanks for justifying my being single...
Best part of marriage? Basically getting to have a sleepover with your best friend every day 😍 (I feel like I come to your videos and talk about my husband a lot but wow do these videos make me appreciate him so much)
Sometimes the silent treatment is the only thing you can do. For example, if you’ve been trying to communicate with someone pretty much since you could talk, and they still don’t listen to you treat invent. Then the best thing you can do is just stop talking to them. I know from experience as you probably figured.
If my husband ever told me I was acting like my mother…I hope one of you would be generous enough to bail me out 😂
The Tik tok with the sick wife that exact interaction happens in my household and I’m so tired of it. It’s my parents and that’s the dynamic that they have. I grew up that way and it’s the worst.
11:00 Consent does not allways need to be communicated explicitly and in the moment. In a relationship there may be very well be a level of intimacy that is by both parties deemed as allways ok. Maybe this understanding has been communicated with direct words, maybe it has been built by actions and the appreciation of them. Communication is important, but communication is not just words. Communication can also be a misplaced snack bag. As long as both partners style of communication is compatible this is ok.
Also, maybe the husband is a bit like me. I am resistant to change. Its a brain chemistry thing. When I am content in a moment I don't want to change a thing. Even if it would be a positive change, I don't feel it, and even an objective view on the things won't help. So asking me would not help in such a situation. I need to be metaphoriacally shaken a bit to be able to leave my current state. So yea I would appreciate bold communication by my partner when I am sunk into my world. I don't want to ignore my partner, but I can not help it to fall into my own world where nothing around me matters, so my partner has the permission to get me out of there when I don't meet their needs.
happy youtubiversary!! 🥳
As a bisexual person in a heterosexual relationship, there nothing. NOTHING I hate more than the “marriage is a ball and chain” jokes.
Like… do y’all even like each other?
An ad for Lego Star Wars popped up mid video featuring Chewbacca while I wasn’t looking at the screen and I just accepted it as one of the tiktotks
9:52 it's giving weaponized incompetence to me
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I suspect that a bi man can be in a gay relationship and have none of these issues but as soon as enters a heterosexual relationship it is only a matter of time before these things start happening.
(Either because if his misogyny or her trauma).
Using the silent treatment is often to avoid everything you say being manipulated. A LOT of women want to leave, but can't & they are just trying to survive.
OMG the guy who wouldn't do the dishes reminds me of when I was once preparing food with a coworker, an older man. I usually do the dishes that didn't get done yesterday once all the food is put out because I like to keep busy. I don't feel pressure to or anything; it's not my mess, I just like having something to do (and they DO have to get done).
One time I didn't do them right away when I usually do. As I walked by the kitchen, he gestured to the the sink, and this grown-ass professional man straight-up asked me, "So, how do you do these dishes?"
I had moment of wtf, and then I chose not to take the hint. I woke up and chose petty. I politely started to explain how to wash dishes, step by step, with gestures and everything, in the same tone I'd use during my Produce Clerk Era when training a newly-hired middle-schooler.
I'm no angel when it comes to diligently doing all the dishes in my own spaces right away, but I just don't get this entitled mindset. Why is this a thing in marriages omg just take turns or whatever. 'Husbands refusing to do dishes' shouldn't be such a meme; 'MEN refusing to do dishes' is none of my business, but they definitely aren't ready to be husbands.
Oooh happy anniversary! I hope there'll be many more :D
The "putting on a dress" tiktok is MILDLY understandable but not in the way he's viewing it. I'd personally not feel comfortable with my partner or even my FRIENDS going out alone especially at night because of how dangerous the world is, regardless of their clothing choices. The ownership part is just icky though
I wish whoever is looking for a forever partner will find the right person
I found you a couple months ago, and I have enjoyed every video since. This video (the TikTok’s) is just ridiculous. People like this really exist and it’s sad. Happy channel anniversary 🎉
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I am mesmerized by your eye shadow today. Love it!!
WHY IS PUPPYM SHIRTLESSS
Honestly, the first guy with the colouring book idea isn't entirely a bad concept, I mean he is clearly an ass for being such a douche about it but the idea of someone using a colouring book to release emotions is a good idea
If my male/nonbinary/non gender specific(But usually male oriented) partner was giving me the silent treatment, I would give them the colouring book and some coloured markers or pencils and tell them plain and simple
"Use this to release any of the emotions you've been harbouring, once you are finished or you have entered a more civil emotional state, come and talk with me so we can fix whatever problem we have, this silent treatment isn't healthy for either of us especially for our relationship"
Whatever they do afterwards if their choice, I'm not forcing my boyfriend or partner to talk with me about a relationship issue, that is something both of us should do WILLINGLY
my fiancé put an open pot in the fridge once. I told him next time he needed to put it in a container. He did it 2 more times after that, so that 3rd time I threw the food away and then when he asked where the leftovers were, I said “Oh I threw them away because when you put an open pot in the fridge it can grow mold and I didn’t want you to get sick. Guess we will have toast for dinner!” and yea he does it the right way now 😊
Explained to my partner that "don't worry about it, go rest" starts translating to "stop bothering me about your anxieties" when nothing gets pulled off my plate when I try to rest.
As a straight wife I can say my husband must be a rare breed? We share chores and share responsibility. It's not that hard to build a relationship off respect but these people seem to have forgotten this.
happy youtubiversary, qiwi!!! you’re one of my favorite content creators and i hope you keep doing well
Guys gals and Nonbinary pals??? Nah I’m changing it. It’s now kings queens and everything in-betweens!!!
😂😂 My hubby always asks me to find something for him, even if it’s right in front of his face!!
I binge your videos. Thanks for all the hard work you do.
Mentally construction a story line for the stuffie saga behind you
Congrats on your RUclips anniversary!
Thank you for making me once more feel glad and relieved that I am not straight.
I’m nonbinary but often get read as a woman, so a lot of people assume that I’m straight when I say I have a husband, and thus they also assume that I hate my husband, because apparently they hate their spouses and can’t comprehend that I don’t hate mine? And then they’ll make jokes at me where the punchline is basically “I bet your husband gets on your nerves” or “I bet your husband thinks you’re nagging him” or (my aspec self’s favorite) “I bet he only loves you for the s3x” and I just stand there like “I think you need a divorce…”
Happy anniversary!! 🥳 I’m so happy for you!
I started watching you on TikTok in May or June 2020, I remember when you started your RUclips channel. So happy I got to be here from the beginning of your journey 💜
what's wrong with acting "like your mother"? chances are mom's fed up as well and won't put up with bs as well. people just should stop marrying for a sake of being married
For some reason I thought you had been making content longer! I've been here since the beginning (:
Saw the notification of this video while watching a tv series where the main couple was getting a divorce and this video felt like a sign and i laughed so much
Happy four years!!!! I love your videos, watch them gladly as soon as they come out :D
Happy Anny, Savvy 😀
Happy anniversary, Kat!!! I’m glad you’re here too ❤
Great four years! I hope you keep doing this for a long time because you bring attention to important topics.
Congratulations on 4 years of RUclips! Good luck and bless! 🎉
happy anniversary! :D
Congrats on the 4 years, you're a big inspiration for me and i appreciate your videos
It's not the silent treatment if I've gone nonverbal and maybe we can learn sign language together to have our words anyway
Me and hubby both occasionally throw pots in the fridge. One of us will always move the food over when we are more awake the neclxt day, or when a suitable container becomes available, and its not always the same person doing it lols
Edit.I feel so sad for the lady who is sick. When Im sick, or tired, or struggling, my husband will tell me to go to bed, and when I wake up, theres more chance that the house is spotless than that the dishes are waiting for me. This makes me feel so happy with my relationship
As a straight person, I normally love straight relationship cringe, but I have a peer who has too many of these thought processes about relationships, and now these videos hurt. I just want to laugh and now I'm in emotional pain.
Heterophobes really got to you
Loved this video made my day I had finals this week and it was hellish but this made me laugh
The perfectly-time laundry launching towards the camera just as the video cuts makes it almost definitely be a bad skit
14:09 I feel like the way you expressed this slides down into the "choose better" slope.
starting to think my parents really are the exception; we have a rule of whoever does the cooking doesn't do the cleaning, so whichever parent cooks doesn't have to clear the table, empty and re-load the dishwasher, and put the kitchen back together. Yes, one of them likes cooking more than the other, so it's usually designated roles, but because they have the agreement it works both ways so when the other cooks the cleaning *still gets done*, it works because they both agree to it. Illness is the only exception, if one is ill then they don't infect the food-prep and they don't infect the clean dishes fresh out of the dishwasher, if they can they'll load the dirty stuff in because the whole purpose is that it's about to get cleaned, but with illness it can obviously vary so they play it by ear
Tiktok straight men literally crave Stepford Wives.
Happy anniversary!
Got so excited when I saw you on my feed not gonna lie 😄
We love you kiwi 🥝🫶 happy 4 years!
Happy 4rth Anniversary to your RUclips channel! 🥳🍾🎂🎉🎊🏳️🌈🥝
Being compared to my mother would be a magnificent compliment. She is a wonderful person.
As an autistic person who often can't speak when I'm upset the amount of people who assume I'm giving them the silent treatment no matter how many times I explain myself after is absurd
Happy Anniversary!!!
The chips and touching depends on your relationship, we know we can always touch eachother or joke about sexual stuff, if one of us is like no thanks, nobody gets upset and we don't continue, but that has never happend😅 but it's still consent cause we agreed to this togheter and its our combined personality and affection
honestly when i meet like married ppl and use this humour of "i hate my wife/husband" and they consistantly use it im like well get a divorce then..... like really and i feel that most of the times they dont think that but this is so normalized that ppl complain about their partners because they often are like no im just exageratting, it isnt like that or like my wife is actually very good etc etc and im like but why do you use that type of humour all the time
Happy channel day
Individual therapy for both me and my partner, PLUS couples therapy for us together has been the best thing we've done for ourselves and our relationship. Of course, therapy only works if everyone is open, honest, and actually gives a sh*t. Hope this helps somebody.
PS - You will never salvage a relationship with someone who publicly humiliates you. The guy who keeps popping up in this vid is NOT someone you should subject yourself to.
9:49 bro WHAT IS UP WITH THIS!?
These people are so wild to me. I can't wait to actually be married to the man i already call my husband and to live with him and do domestic things with and for each other