In my experience time before social media was not peacefull, but it was direct. The violence nowadays is more digital and anonymous. Before social media, we just mostly knew who did the harressment.
Aaaannnd, this is why I haven’t had social media since 2014. No family drama, no stalkers, no bad news, no gossip, no workplace drama, no clingy Cluster B patients trying to be my new best friend (I’m an ER nurse), less depression & anxiety, no petty arguments, none of that. People know only what I choose to disclose, and it’s not a whole hell of a lot. Let’s go back to creating some mystery about ourselves-it makes people much more interesting than when they hop online to let everyone know they just took a piss.
The amount of people in the comments blaming the victims for being stalked is insane. It's SO EASY for y'all to say these things when you've clearly never experienced being stalked online or in person in your lives. BLAME THE ACTUAL PERPETRATOR WHO ENDED UP IN PRISON FOR HIS OWN REPEATED TERRIBLE ACTIONS, NOT THE VICTIMS.
They still need to take some accountability. They were adults. if you choose to post your life online then you open doors to all the weirdos and sick people in this world not saying they deserved it but actions have consequences you can't just live in a bubble and do what you want in this world unfortunately
Both the victim and the predator should take accountability, if you put yourself in certain situations that could be easily avoided you should hold yourself accountable
The imbalance of power here is mind blowing,,, arrested 10 times over 10 years until finally imprisoned,,, what these women went through was hell on earth,, shame on the police
He kept buying new phones, they couldn't block him when he kept cropping up,,he also stole their accounts and could use them at his will,,,, what an asshole
I feel bad for them but at the same time, people shouldn’t be so reliant for attention from social media. I especially lost it when one of them said she wanted to get away from it all and wanted to go on a trip, and in the end received a message on her instagram. I was like, “Girl, if you are being stalked through social media, you use your common sense and don’t go around using your instagram! Instead, you lay low from all sort of social media. Change your number, block unknown numbers, do anything you can to stop it! Stop seeking that attention if you really want to “get away from it all” like you said!” Sorry, just, god, stop looking for affirmation and just look out for your own safety first.
Omg what happens here in the comment-section… (“They deserve it…” ; “Why not just block” ; “I hate insta-girls too”) -> First of all it’s not the girls fault that the younger generation sees SM as part of their lives… Just delete the account means no connection to friends/ not beeing uptodate. Times changed & u no longer are friends with the nice neighbours-kids. They/ We need SM for a lot of things… -> Some of the cases are pretty old, don’t know when fb started the “block”-option but anyways you could not always do it PLUS he had their numbers as well, knew where they live… so just “block” would not have been enough. -> The hate here is why people “escape” to their own bubble in SM… (until something goes wrong!) JUST BE NICE and EMPATHIC these are young girls trying to fit in into a crazy world!
If I had a stalker online he'd be bored the first day and bugger off. It takes me weeks just to open friend's text messages 😅😅 Simples, don't put your whole life online and learn to use the block or delete button.
After watching the first episode all I cant stop wondering why they just didn’t close their page ? Go off social media when that happened ? Change the number ,change the phone if needed. Their safety is more important than then having a social media account . If I get messages from someone who I dont know and call me “babes “or “doll “ i report it straight away without even replying.Isnt it obvious is something wierd when strange people from people from internet call you like that ??
Thank you - y is it victim blaming to ask y the ppl jus wouldnt STOP responding completely ! He’d have no fun with me cause id ignore him like the plague … then again social media has never been serious for me so it would be easy for me to simply not even respond …
It literally sounds like a movie , they text him back “ why are you doing this ?!” Lmao 🤣 I’m sorry it’s sad but not one person thought of deleting their social media - or block the person they just kept crying and saying why is this happening to me …
These are the consequences you face when you say “you have nothing to hide” or become careless in regards to your privacy being infringed. All the things mentioned in this video can be avoided if people be careful about where they leave their personal data, having multi-factor authentication for every social media, 3 layers of protection against physical access of your personal computer, don’t install or download unauthorised software in your devices, always update your software in your devices. How hard is that? Can intruder still get in after all those precautions? Yes, but it will be extremely hard for them that they will give up eventually because they gonna need great effort to get your personal data.
What really pisses me off is when these mums get online and post tons of photos and videos of their kids and what schools they attend. Are they asking to have their kids killed???
@@TwoShedsJackson but they get pissed of when everyone isn’t liking every single pic of their boring little brats! Main reason I never set up SM accounts,people think their sad little lives are interesting and that everyone else should be tuned into them 24/7 🤮
@@Gos1234567 Too right, Gos. You know what used to simultaneously piss me off and amuse me (in a very schadenfreude sort of manner) the most, though? What I called “vague-booking.” People would post something mysterious like “What a horrible day.” Nothing else, just that, and they’d wait for people to fall all over themselves in the scramble to reply “OMG, Why? What happened?” Then they get pissed at the people who “didn’t care enough to ask what happened” to them. 😂
@@TwoShedsJackson the only good thing about SM is that you can find out who the absolute boring pathetic self obsessed assholes are and avoid them like the plague in real life! Which is a bonus
It's not really a song. Just some dude playing 4 notes over and over on a keyboard. If your little nephew played the same 4 notes on a piano at home would you call that a song? No, you'd call that 4 notes. LMAO, it's pretty funny that you call this a song though. When it's probably some dude they paid 50 bucks to slap together an intro.
@@michaels.330 The song they play on Netflix when the trailer is playing is not 4 notes. 🤣 Get your ears cleaned out. It's literally a woman singing. 🥴
The song they are playing on this trailer is 4 notes on a keyboard. If you want to argue with someone who works in the music industry then be my guest. IDC, I know what I heard on this RUclips video/Netflix trailer.
I was mugged in the late 90s, then again in 2004 (this time beaten). I feel bad for women walking in a dark street, but we get fked up too just because most men won’t think of hurting a woman, but another man yeah.
The show should have been called "What happens when you pretend to be a phoney baloney and use Social Media". Also to all the women out there who cant think for themselves, try to start thinking for yourself and stop idolizing these gross phoney people, who call themselves influencers. Those type of people are damaging to society. All they've done is manipulate your ability to think for yourself. Just like the face paint industry has done. The majority of women now actually believe they need face paint in order to look good. They should be called manipulators not influencers. The whole thing just makes me angry. That most people cant think for themselves anymore.
A normal person would have told the stalker to fck off and deleted their SM and got a new phone but no these idiots think the world has to see every minute of their fake lives. Fckn live instagram parties while being stalked 😂😂😂 Sentence was way too harsh,get less for murder
Women spewing their every moment on social media and wonder how the stalker "knows soo much about them"... stop turning to social media for validation... Stop letting social media run your life...
Very difficult to feel sorry for these women. People whose remedies are Ibiza & social media attention garner very little sympathy. They will see this post as abusive even, instead of actual reality.
Honestly each of these girls deserved everything.. what do you expect if you show all on social media acting like some kind of celebrity. What the hell is even a influencer.. i hope it will happen more and more. So sick of this instagram models generationand the look at me generation😂😂
Excerpt one of the women wasn't an influencer or a model. She was just a paralegal with a 9-5 job and like everyone else has a social media account of friends and family.
Zero sympathy for online addicts and their desperate need to be seen and heard. Switch off, and the PROBLEM goes away. Work for a living in a real job you won't have time to be hassled online
@@lllamaface3047 I watched the first episode it is very weak one absolutely I can’t call them a women they are absolutely little girls who’s looking for attention 😅
@@HaileyTheGermanShepherd ummm 🤔 is the stalker posting pictures and videos constantly looking for attention thinking the world needs to know what your doing at all times and being half naked while doing it
Maybe just delete your social media? Oh no god forbid you do that 😂😂 i have no sympathy whatsoever, you want to be an influencer this is what you get unfortunately
Omg as soon as they said Matthew Hardy had Autism it all made sense. Matthew didn’t get diagnosed until later in life he just knew he had social problems with the world. You put a lonely withdrawn autistic brain alone with social media he took his hurt and confusion and hurt others. What Matthew did was mean and horrible but I just hope he’s sent to a mental facility so he can learn healthy social skills and some sort of support system so when he gets out. A lot of people don’t understand the brain of someone with autism.
9 years was pretty harsh.Get less for murder these days.I mean he didn’t harm or steal from them,if they could stay off SM for 2 minutes they might have not been targets
why does Autism make sense for you? Very few individuals do not have the capacity to be vengeful and people with Aspergers are as diverse as any other group. In general, People with Aspergers wants the abuse to stop or hurtful ness of the other person to stop. If they think someone did something morally wrong- the frustration tolerance can be short, because they don't know how to handle that, reaction out of frustration or confusion . Fairness and clear communication not playing games, is quite important for most. ( I worked with young people and teenager with ADHD and or were on the Autism spectrum)
“I can’t imagine a world without social media “I can! It’s the world I grew up in. Much more peaceful and people were a lot more real.
Too bad man, the world evolves and this is the result sadly
I heard that and shook my head...
In my experience time before social media was not peacefull, but it was direct. The violence nowadays is more digital and anonymous. Before social media, we just mostly knew who did the harressment.
ok, boomer
It was the best life!!❤
Aaaannnd, this is why I haven’t had social media since 2014. No family drama, no stalkers, no bad news, no gossip, no workplace drama, no clingy Cluster B patients trying to be my new best friend (I’m an ER nurse), less depression & anxiety, no petty arguments, none of that. People know only what I choose to disclose, and it’s not a whole hell of a lot.
Let’s go back to creating some mystery about ourselves-it makes people much more interesting than when they hop online to let everyone know they just took a piss.
The amount of people in the comments blaming the victims for being stalked is insane. It's SO EASY for y'all to say these things when you've clearly never experienced being stalked online or in person in your lives. BLAME THE ACTUAL PERPETRATOR WHO ENDED UP IN PRISON FOR HIS OWN REPEATED TERRIBLE ACTIONS, NOT THE VICTIMS.
They still need to take some accountability. They were adults. if you choose to post your life online then you open doors to all the weirdos and sick people in this world not saying they deserved it but actions have consequences you can't just live in a bubble and do what you want in this world unfortunately
Both the victim and the predator should take accountability, if you put yourself in certain situations that could be easily avoided you should hold yourself accountable
✊
@@HardTalk_Ukbravo
The imbalance of power here is mind blowing,,, arrested 10 times over 10 years until finally imprisoned,,, what these women went through was hell on earth,, shame on the police
Ftp all day 💯
Can I tell you secret ?? Hell no !! Then block .. note to self .
He kept buying new phones, they couldn't block him when he kept cropping up,,he also stole their accounts and could use them at his will,,,, what an asshole
Some people are really really dumb😂😂😂😂
Lmaooo this is the best response ever.
I feel bad for them but at the same time, people shouldn’t be so reliant for attention from social media. I especially lost it when one of them said she wanted to get away from it all and wanted to go on a trip, and in the end received a message on her instagram.
I was like, “Girl, if you are being stalked through social media, you use your common sense and don’t go around using your instagram! Instead, you lay low from all sort of social media. Change your number, block unknown numbers, do anything you can to stop it! Stop seeking that attention if you really want to “get away from it all” like you said!”
Sorry, just, god, stop looking for affirmation and just look out for your own safety first.
Omg what happens here in the comment-section… (“They deserve it…” ; “Why not just block” ; “I hate insta-girls too”)
-> First of all it’s not the girls fault that the younger generation sees SM as part of their lives… Just delete the account means no connection to friends/ not beeing uptodate. Times changed & u no longer are friends with the nice neighbours-kids. They/ We need SM for a lot of things…
-> Some of the cases are pretty old, don’t know when fb started the “block”-option but anyways you could not always do it PLUS he had their numbers as well, knew where they live… so just “block” would not have been enough.
-> The hate here is why people “escape” to their own bubble in SM… (until something goes wrong!) JUST BE NICE and EMPATHIC these are young girls trying to fit in into a crazy world!
If I had a stalker online he'd be bored the first day and bugger off. It takes me weeks just to open friend's text messages 😅😅
Simples, don't put your whole life online and learn to use the block or delete button.
After watching the first episode all I cant stop wondering why they just didn’t close their page ? Go off social media when that happened ? Change the number ,change the phone if needed.
Their safety is more important than then having a social media account .
If I get messages from someone who I dont know and call me “babes “or “doll “ i report it straight away without even replying.Isnt it obvious is something wierd when strange people from people from internet call you like that ??
They were addicted to social media and the attention it brought them! Even during all this they were still posting every piece of their lives!
Thank you - y is it victim blaming to ask y the ppl jus wouldnt STOP responding completely ! He’d have no fun with me cause id ignore him like the plague … then again social media has never been serious for me so it would be easy for me to simply not even respond …
Can’t believe people are so thick to take any notice tell them to piss off
Or just fckn stay offline if it’s causing you disstress. But no they continue plastering themselves all over SM.
Stupid
Can you someone explain why he exposed himself?? During the insta live, his fake profile gave his name?
The second this man gets out of prison her will be right back at it.
Lets hope
Matthew Hardy is the epitome of an incel.
This is why I have:
1. Private account
2. Inactivated account until I log in
3. Never post selfies
4. No home address can be found
It literally sounds like a movie , they text him back “ why are you doing this ?!” Lmao 🤣 I’m sorry it’s sad but not one person thought of deleting their social media - or block the person they just kept crying and saying why is this happening to me …
anyone know the song name playing in the background when some girls start to tell about themselfs? it's in the beginning right after the trailer
i am glad i am not on social media.
These are the consequences you face when you say “you have nothing to hide” or become careless in regards to your privacy being infringed. All the things mentioned in this video can be avoided if people be careful about where they leave their personal data, having multi-factor authentication for every social media, 3 layers of protection against physical access of your personal computer, don’t install or download unauthorised software in your devices, always update your software in your devices. How hard is that? Can intruder still get in after all those precautions? Yes, but it will be extremely hard for them that they will give up eventually because they gonna need great effort to get your personal data.
These women were thick as planks.Even continued doing live insta while being stalked ffs 😂
What really pisses me off is when these mums get online and post tons of photos and videos of their kids and what schools they attend. Are they asking to have their kids killed???
@@TwoShedsJackson but they get pissed of when everyone isn’t liking every single pic of their boring little brats! Main reason I never set up SM accounts,people think their sad little lives are interesting and that everyone else should be tuned into them 24/7 🤮
@@Gos1234567 Too right, Gos. You know what used to simultaneously piss me off and amuse me (in a very schadenfreude sort of manner) the most, though? What I called “vague-booking.” People would post something mysterious like “What a horrible day.” Nothing else, just that, and they’d wait for people to fall all over themselves in the scramble to reply “OMG, Why? What happened?” Then they get pissed at the people who “didn’t care enough to ask what happened” to them. 😂
@@TwoShedsJackson the only good thing about SM is that you can find out who the absolute boring pathetic self obsessed assholes are and avoid them like the plague in real life! Which is a bonus
From where can i get the background music?
Could they possible just not use these apps? If it was me, i wd take a break from social media. Change my number, there's a way out.
If u call 911 cause someone's stalking u on the phone, they can charge u. You're stopping them from possibly saving somebody's life
What's the song name in the trailer? Please! 🙏🏻
It's not really a song. Just some dude playing 4 notes over and over on a keyboard. If your little nephew played the same 4 notes on a piano at home would you call that a song? No, you'd call that 4 notes. LMAO, it's pretty funny that you call this a song though. When it's probably some dude they paid 50 bucks to slap together an intro.
@@michaels.330 The song they play on Netflix when the trailer is playing is not 4 notes. 🤣 Get your ears cleaned out. It's literally a woman singing. 🥴
@@michaels.330😄
The song they are playing on this trailer is 4 notes on a keyboard. If you want to argue with someone who works in the music industry then be my guest. IDC, I know what I heard on this RUclips video/Netflix trailer.
@@michaels.330 Oh dear...this is not the song I'm talking about, but WHATEVER, Ace! 😂
I was mugged in the late 90s, then again in 2004 (this time beaten). I feel bad for women walking in a dark street, but we get fked up too just because most men won’t think of hurting a woman, but another man yeah.
How are you doing
The show should have been called "What happens when you pretend to be a phoney baloney and use Social Media". Also to all the women out there who cant think for themselves, try to start thinking for yourself and stop idolizing these gross phoney people, who call themselves influencers. Those type of people are damaging to society. All they've done is manipulate your ability to think for yourself. Just like the face paint industry has done. The majority of women now actually believe they need face paint in order to look good. They should be called manipulators not influencers. The whole thing just makes me angry. That most people cant think for themselves anymore.
A normal person would have told the stalker to fck off and deleted their SM and got a new phone but no these idiots think the world has to see every minute of their fake lives.
Fckn live instagram parties while being stalked 😂😂😂
Sentence was way too harsh,get less for murder
Have none of these vapid women heard of the BLOCK and DELETE features?
It seems that narcissism is at the heart of the whole affair. There is certainly a lesson to be learned here.
Women spewing their every moment on social media and wonder how the stalker "knows soo much about them"... stop turning to social media for validation...
Stop letting social media run your life...
Drama queens
Waste of time
Very slow storytelling it shouldn’t be more than 30 minutes
Exactly.
Thank you!! I was looking for a comment like this to see if I should continue watching but I’ve decided not to
Too much drama... gorls wanted too much fame...
I’m sick of watching this crap! I came to the comments to find the ending, this could have been 1 episode 😒
It's not ok to do what he did but i totally understand how annoyed u can get by this kind of attention seeking people.
😅😅😅
Very difficult to feel sorry for these women. People whose remedies are Ibiza & social media attention garner very little sympathy. They will see this post as abusive even, instead of actual reality.
They live in a totally different world than everyone else
People who are addicted to social media and post everything just have no clue 😂. These women are just as bad
Honestly each of these girls deserved everything.. what do you expect if you show all on social media acting like some kind of celebrity. What the hell is even a influencer.. i hope it will happen more and more. So sick of this instagram models generationand the look at me generation😂😂
Agree
Y’all are incels for believing that…. The dude had issues
@@beafoxxylady you have issues if you think instagram has something to offer
Excerpt one of the women wasn't an influencer or a model. She was just a paralegal with a 9-5 job and like everyone else has a social media account of friends and family.
@@Serenity113why didn’t she stop using Sm and get a new phone after the nutter stalked her,? He’d soon get bored of getting no responses
Watched the first episode, that's enough. Drama attention seeking queens.
I did the same lol how are you doing thou
So much drama… these women have nothing better to do in their lives as posting on Social Media.
Zero sympathy for online addicts and their desperate need to be seen and heard. Switch off, and the PROBLEM goes away. Work for a living in a real job you won't have time to be hassled online
Cheap ladies with cheap stories, please nexttttttt 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Watched it ... but was a very weak one. Too much crying about nonsense too...
@@lllamaface3047 I watched the first episode it is very weak one absolutely I can’t call them a women they are absolutely little girls who’s looking for attention 😅
This is what happens when your a narcissist and have to be on social media constantly sharing pictures of yourself
@@HaileyTheGermanShepherd ummm 🤔 is the stalker posting pictures and videos constantly looking for attention thinking the world needs to know what your doing at all times and being half naked while doing it
I think the majority of the victims were only fans sex workers, which doesn’t make it ok but with that line of work it comes up with dangers
Maybe just delete your social media? Oh no god forbid you do that 😂😂 i have no sympathy whatsoever, you want to be an influencer this is what you get unfortunately
Cry me a river 😂
Omg as soon as they said Matthew Hardy had Autism it all made sense.
Matthew didn’t get diagnosed until later in life he just knew he had social problems with the world.
You put a lonely withdrawn autistic brain alone with social media he took his hurt and confusion and hurt others.
What Matthew did was mean and horrible but I just hope he’s sent to a mental facility so he can learn healthy social skills and some sort of support system so when he gets out.
A lot of people don’t understand the brain of someone with autism.
9 years was pretty harsh.Get less for murder these days.I mean he didn’t harm or steal from them,if they could stay off SM for 2 minutes they might have not been targets
@Gos1234567 bingo
@@Gos1234567 someone should google femicide
why does Autism make sense for you? Very few individuals do not have the capacity to be vengeful and people with Aspergers are as diverse as any other group. In general, People with Aspergers wants the abuse to stop or hurtful ness of the other person to stop. If they think someone did something morally wrong- the frustration tolerance can be short, because they don't know how to handle that, reaction out of frustration or confusion . Fairness and clear communication not playing games, is quite important for most. ( I worked with young people and teenager with ADHD and or were on the Autism spectrum)
@@Gos1234567he does not really have much to do for 9 years, harass other women? Might as well spend it in prison, he deserves it anyways
It sounds interesting but I don't like the format. Having those girls "narrate" the whole thing is boring. Can't watch this...too boring
Yes it does 😊
Cry girl s