great insight man.. even at my gym it seems like my gym crushes are there for 6 months then I never see them again yet im still too afraid to say anything. Im moving countries next year so might as well just go for it like you said, thanks bro
doing cold approach and not be outcome dependant is the way to go. the most difficult part is to start. then it gets easier. same thing like practicing basketball, musical instrument, videogame, whatever. Straight up cooking, nice video man👌👌
I get rusty as fuck if I haven't approached in awhile. Even like a week. The hesitance and inertia come back. But it returns faster once I start again. Easy to get lazy and make all kinds of excuses not to go talk to her, even when I'm getting really obvious IOIs.
I usually will let her 100% know I’m very interested and they will usually try to Play me I then go cold As Ice not hurt just cold and move on like water off a duck. This makes them wonder did they miss out on the one the man. 50/50 they come back and act right. I don’t want a women to guess if I’m interested as a handsome man they are already intimidated and may never give us the right signals so I make it EZ on the one I like up front.
@ It works for handsome men they already know we have women checking for us as we know the same for them so if she don’t respond to my being interested she knows I can replace her EZ they usually respond but then they test they are going to test no matter what, I don’t BS around especially if I like what I see, let me add this only works when I remember that I’m Handsome and fit and I can bring in my Aura and get that glow up. I throw it right at her- it knocks most women right down- but some time I’ll drag things out after my first hit. Thanks for your comment.
I rarely ever cold approach women. Unless they're my usual type. I got a question because i noticed when men or women walk by me on my job they either look on their phones, look away or put their hands in their pockets what does that mean? I'm assuming it's a sign of intimidation from the men side and the women i do get choosing signals so from the women side it could be because they find my attractive and intimidating? I just want to hear your input bro
Yeah bro people do that when they intimidated. I mentioned this in another video but in regards to the women. They go out of their way not to look at you. Which means they notice you and unless you’re doing something attention grabbing, are dressed really flamboyant, or you’re 7’0 talk there’s no other reason for them to notice you and then go out of their way to pretend like they don’t. Now sometimes it could be that they were just on their phones anyways or they’re just a socially anxious person. But often times they were probably looking at you and once they get closer don’t want to seem weird so they look away to try and seem normal, even though it comes off weirder.
I got rejected by a girl once at work. (risky I know) I've had a few decent convos with her, said hi many times. And tbh I feel like I caught her staring many times. I asked her if she was single. After 4-5 seconds of just pure awkward silence, she said no. I wonder what she was thinking about. She was looking down at an ipad the whole time. No eye contact, that was her usual thing. I noticed that she only made eye contact if she initiated the conversation. If I started it she wouldn't make eye contact. She was unpredictable, some rare days she would say hi first. Then some days she would ignore me until I said something. It was good practice for me like you said in the video.
Good shit for going for it. Yeah she was most likely quiet and awkward cause she was thinking of lying about having a boyfriend but she decided to tell the truth lol.
Yeah I know I’m saying she probably paused cause she wanted to say no because she likes you. OR she’s not sure about you yet so she just wanted to avoid you asking her out. Just keep it brief with her now and see if she starts doing more to get your attention. Then we’ll know if she was lying or not. But don’t focus on her anymore the balls in her court. In the future with work situations try playing the long game. Either play cool until she makes the move on you or until she’s giving consistent signs that she’s interested. In work situations specifically just cause it could be risky. And because if you ask if she has a bf or if she will go out with you before she’s sure about you she’s going to say no to your advances because it’s not worth trying with a guy at work and it going wrong, thats going to be uncomfortable and she’s going to want to avoid that. But once she’s had the time to decide she into you none of that matters anymore.
Is it normal that people look down when they see you.I'm 6'8 with borad shoulders but not really massive.And i think i'm around 8/10 facially but people always look down when they see meor just start looking on their phone
With you it’s a little different cause you’re 6’8. So they may just be looking at you cause you’re extremely tall. People usually look at tall people. So it’s hard to tell to be honest. If I was you I’d wait for girls to stare and smile. Watch king68thegreat_ content. Just do what he does lol
great insight man.. even at my gym it seems like my gym crushes are there for 6 months then I never see them again yet im still too afraid to say anything. Im moving countries next year so might as well just go for it like you said, thanks bro
There’s nothing to lose bro
doing cold approach and not be outcome dependant is the way to go. the most difficult part is to start. then it gets easier. same thing like practicing basketball, musical instrument, videogame, whatever. Straight up cooking, nice video man👌👌
I get rusty as fuck if I haven't approached in awhile. Even like a week. The hesitance and inertia come back. But it returns faster once I start again. Easy to get lazy and make all kinds of excuses not to go talk to her, even when I'm getting really obvious IOIs.
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Thanks man 🙏🏾. Imma keep em comin
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I usually will let her 100% know I’m very interested and they will usually try to
Play me I then go cold
As Ice not hurt just cold and move on like water off a duck. This makes them wonder did they miss out on the one the man. 50/50 they come back and act right. I don’t want a women to guess if I’m interested as a handsome man they are already intimidated and may never give us the right signals so I make it EZ on the one I like up front.
Good point!
u gave away ur interest level now they pull away to make you invest more lol
@ It works for handsome men they already know we have women checking for us as we know the same for them so if she don’t respond to my being interested she knows I can replace her EZ they usually respond but then they test they are going to test no matter what, I don’t BS around especially if I like what I see, let me add this only works when I remember that I’m Handsome and fit and I can bring in my Aura and get that glow up. I throw it right at her- it knocks most women right down- but some time I’ll drag things out after my first hit. Thanks for your comment.
@@Rudmyster its mostly insecurity that causes this confident women dont cause this issue lol social media skyrocketed insecurity tho
@@Rudmyster actually handsome men recieve this treatment because of that 😂 insecure women are a pain
You’re right, I have a little fear talking to girls but for the most part I’m comfortable.
Nothing to fear. There’s always another one.
@ I’m confident for the most part. Just a small bit of fear, especially when I haven’t approached a woman for a while.
I rarely ever cold approach women. Unless they're my usual type. I got a question because i noticed when men or women walk by me on my job they either look on their phones, look away or put their hands in their pockets what does that mean? I'm assuming it's a sign of intimidation from the men side and the women i do get choosing signals so from the women side it could be because they find my attractive and intimidating? I just want to hear your input bro
Yeah bro people do that when they intimidated. I mentioned this in another video but in regards to the women. They go out of their way not to look at you. Which means they notice you and unless you’re doing something attention grabbing, are dressed really flamboyant, or you’re 7’0 talk there’s no other reason for them to notice you and then go out of their way to pretend like they don’t.
Now sometimes it could be that they were just on their phones anyways or they’re just a socially anxious person. But often times they were probably looking at you and once they get closer don’t want to seem weird so they look away to try and seem normal, even though it comes off weirder.
@@MarvOverMatter that makes perfect sense bro, thanks for the feedback! 💪
@shawnwilliams2381 for sure bro 💪🏾
I got rejected by a girl once at work. (risky I know) I've had a few decent convos with her, said hi many times. And tbh I feel like I caught her staring many times. I asked her if she was single. After 4-5 seconds of just pure awkward silence, she said no. I wonder what she was thinking about. She was looking down at an ipad the whole time. No eye contact, that was her usual thing. I noticed that she only made eye contact if she initiated the conversation. If I started it she wouldn't make eye contact. She was unpredictable, some rare days she would say hi first. Then some days she would ignore me until I said something. It was good practice for me like you said in the video.
Good shit for going for it. Yeah she was most likely quiet and awkward cause she was thinking of lying about having a boyfriend but she decided to tell the truth lol.
@@MarvOverMatter thank you 😀
@@MarvOverMatter she said she did have a boyfriend
Yeah I know I’m saying she probably paused cause she wanted to say no because she likes you.
OR she’s not sure about you yet so she just wanted to avoid you asking her out. Just keep it brief with her now and see if she starts doing more to get your attention. Then we’ll know if she was lying or not. But don’t focus on her anymore the balls in her court.
In the future with work situations try playing the long game. Either play cool until she makes the move on you or until she’s giving consistent signs that she’s interested. In work situations specifically just cause it could be risky. And because if you ask if she has a bf or if she will go out with you before she’s sure about you she’s going to say no to your advances because it’s not worth trying with a guy at work and it going wrong, thats going to be uncomfortable and she’s going to want to avoid that. But once she’s had the time to decide she into you none of that matters anymore.
@@MarvOverMatter thanks so much for the detailed feedback! I moved on from her. She said her answer.
No risk it, no biscuit.
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Is it normal that people look down when they see you.I'm 6'8 with borad shoulders but not really massive.And i think i'm around 8/10 facially but people always look down when they see meor just start looking on their phone
With you it’s a little different cause you’re 6’8. So they may just be looking at you cause you’re extremely tall. People usually look at tall people. So it’s hard to tell to be honest. If I was you I’d wait for girls to stare and smile. Watch king68thegreat_ content. Just do what he does lol