Former HIV case manager here. There’s a lot of men on the down low (claims hetero but goes both way) that’s spreading it. Legit, I’ll be asking them in clinic which way they swing and they always say women but when it comes to the question of which they have sex with, they say both
I applaud u for your courage and telling your story. My sister dated a man that knew he had HIV. He gave it to her. She was 18 living on her own with him. People started telling her the rumors they heard. She got tested and she was positive. This was in 1995. She died in 2013. It turnt full blown AIDS and there was nothing that could be done. She was 36 when she passed and I miss her every single day. Continue to pray and serve GOD. Keep your head up beautiful and thanks so much for sharing ❤
@@FF-by6cinot really. In the 80’s when it started doctors didn’t know much and people were dying from it fast. Even into the 90’s. Maybe around late 90’s medicine was getting better at treating the virus but it wasn’t as good as known. Now you can live very long “IF” you take care of yourself. So her sister probably was taking her medicine but everyone different and responds differently. Even though medicine is better now I still know 4 people who passed away between 2010-2022 from the aids and one still living since she was infected 2009. So 🤷🏽♀️
My mom didn’t look like she had hiv either. My brother’s dad who was on the dl gave it to her, he died 3 years before her from a tumor that came from the virus. She would have chills, skin issues, cold sweats, thrush. All these symptoms would come and go. She finally succumbed to respiratory failure that came from having HIV when I was 10. We now live in a time where there are meds that help it become undetectable back in the 90s there was no meds to help my mom. I feel for you, sending you love and light.
Wow bby, so incredibly sorry for your loss and what you had to experience...I can't even imagine what that might have been like. RIP to your beautiful mother. There is not a day that goes by that I don't thank God for allowing me to be diagnosed in 2019.
My story and your story are similar your absolutely right in the 90’s there wasn’t the meds they have now. It’s not a death sentence. Sending love and light your way ❤
You can date with out opening your legs or kissing hehe I date but I don't do physical relationship until I am married and my man has to go to clinic with me and criminal back ground was married in past gotten cheated and I stopped sleeping with my ex husband but I was using condoms I will use condoms until I die 🙃 hehe I don't trust men never did never will
Man I know the devil walk among us but reading some of these comments is beyond insensitive and heartless. This is why I believe wholeheartedly in the Lord and I need him everyday this world man is crazy. Who can make it without him? Lord have mercy on us.
It definitely was an uphill battle…fighting anxiety and deep moments of depression, but God got me through. I got myself through it, and if I can do it, anyone can, no matter what their situation is!❤❤
@Bianca-cq2ig you going to be fine, just be mindful and take care of yourself and stay on top of shit. HIV isn't what it used to be and in the coming future I'm sure even better meds if not a cure will be found. I bet you in like 20 years there will be a cure. There actually is a "cure" but it involves a whole stem cell transplant, which is invasive, time consuming and complicated. It's easier to just be on meds and monitor. It's too bad they don't give people that option tho, for the transplant. Anyway, you look awesome. Your going to be OK 👍
It’s baffled me how they didn’t even test you for HIV the FIRST TIME! Literally every doctor/hospital I’ve been too will ask/run a test if they suspect it. Like this virus literally could’ve killed you especially the way it took over so quickly and your immune system begins to weaken. I pray God continues to cover you! And yes you’re right! Things don’t happen to us, they happen FOR US! Why? Only God knows the answers but just know HIV ain’t stopping nothing 🙏🏾❤️
It baffled me too trust me. At the end of the day, I feel like it happened for a reason. If I had gotten tested and it had come back positive, I would have left KF and probably would have had such much anger and resentment in my heart. But because I fell in love with him and consequently me in the journey...I can't say that I would have wanted things to be any different than exactly how they were. ❤️🩹
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ I pray God’s blessings on you and that you continue to do well. We all need God’s mercy. Get to know Him in pardon of your sins, if you don’t.
Thank you Bianca for your transparency. im sorry your boyfriend was so careless. HIV isnt a death sentence. Be encouraged and stay strong. #Knowyourstatus
I remember asking to get tested for HIV years ago and the nurse really gave me a hard time about it. She said “you don’t have HIV!” I was stunned,because I guess she’d seen plenty of cases. We didn’t order the test, but I couldn’t believe it!
Thank you for sharing your story, even if the last minute of it was unbelievably heartbreaking 💔 I wish you all the happiness and health in the world mama. You are an inspiration!
I’m a nurse and some places will NOT test you for HIV unless you ask. If I remember correctly you have to sign a waiver too, at some places. It’s been nearly 21 years I’ve been in this field and they can be a bit backwards.
*youre an angel. continue to live proudly & loudly. your status doesnt define you. you got this! I just KNO somewhere, there is a cure.. either somewhere globally, that we gotta dig for that only locals know, the rich only have the cure, OR it will be released soon.... I also heard of someone being cured by blood transfusion or some shit idk*@@Bianca.Ordonez_
I have several invisible conditions autoimmune and disabilities my oldest son has pretty severe autism if I had a dollar for every person who said oh he doesn't look autistic I would be a billionaire
I teach young men and this is going to be my next lesson the dangers of STD’s. I want them to look at you without hearing your voice and look at you as the beautiful person and I know they will say she don’t look like have HIV. I want them to hear the symptoms and I will then tell them how important it is to have safe sex. I thank this woman for her transparency and I’m sorry this happened to you but GOD got you
I had a cough, went to the hospital and the doctor told me “u need to get an HIV test first before I can proceed”. In my country they’ll test for HIV first before any other thing. They need to rule it out before, then know where to begin 😆
Girl thanks for sharing your story... I saw in your Instagram stories you're from NYC and this whole thing is so appalling to me that they wouldn't have tested you for that earlier on...like wtf?! You looked like you were suffering...now you look so healthy and thriving and beautiful. Much love ❤
We aren’t mandated to do so. NYS IS A STATE WHERE THEY USUALLY DO ASK IN THE ER. Also the ER IS WHERE U CAN GET TESTED, NOT WHERE U SHOULD BE TESTED IF THAT IS WHAT U NEED. Symptoms of HIV ARE SIMILAR IF NOT THE SAME AS MANY OTHER DISEASE PROCESSES.
Well, if people with HIV looked different from those without, then fewer people would get it as they would either avoid the person or use 'protection.' Magic Johnson looks like the average person, as do most people with HIV. This should not be surprising, given that the life expectancy of a person living with HIV is similar to those who are HIV-negative, provided they are diagnosed early, have access to good medical care, and stick to their HIV treatment.
I’m glad there’s still individuals out there who are leveled headed like you, me on the other if someone screwed me like that we’re going to be together in a dark wooded or dungeon like place for a few days. Still to this day I don’t trust anyone I need to see some recent documents fr. May Jah bless you with a long healthy life 🙏🏿.
This took so much courage and was very informative. You are beautiful inside and out it shows .I pray that God continues to bless and cover you and what was meant to harm you WILL work together for your good.
Thank you for sharing. We’ve definitely come a long way with HIV/AIDS research and treatment, and people can live long and full lives. Very very VERY brave. This is helpful information for people.
Girl I thank God every day I was diagnosed in 2019 and not 1980. I get emotional thinking about everything they had to go through back then. Like literally becoming guinea pigs to come up with a cure. Taking cocktails of up to 20 pills that made them even more sick than before. It breaks my heart...yet im so thankful for their sacrifice😔🥺
Everybody's asking about why the medical staff didn't test for it. Why didn't she request it, knowing she participated in risky behavior? My ex-husband caught it being on the DL and every time I went for my yearly, married or not, I got all of those tests because i cannot watch that bastard 24/7 to see what or who he's doing. Only trust the person in the mirror. I'm not trying to call her out of her name by saying risky. It's risky just having unprotected sex in a supposedly monogamous relationship/marriage. You don't know what your partner is doing.
Hello Mrs Bianca my name is Anthony Robinson. This is my first time watching your videos and I really want to say thank you so much for being so honest and transparent. I'm so sorry that you went through that terrible experience because you deserve that. Another thing that attracted me to your videos was you. Mrs Bianca you are so beautiful and attractive. I don't care if you have HIV I really wish I had a chance to get to know you sweetie ❤️😘❤️. You are most definitely my type babe. I pray that God blesses you with someone who will love you unconditionally and treat you like the queen that you are baby. You deserve it hun.
I find it so interesting because my doctors are ALWAYS poking me for HIV tests. I have an autoimmune disorder so I get random fevers. At a point, I thought it actually was HIV. I think doctors test more often for it now which is good. Can't believe they overlooked that
First of you all, you are a very brave human being and may god provide all the help and support that you need. Second, if we read medical literature available online, looks like modern science has indeed made a great progress in tackling HIV. Please avail best medical help possible. May god bless you!!
I wish Nonye(God rest her soul) saw this video. She was a very beautiful woman. The stigmatisation got to her and she took her life. One of the most prettiest lady i ever came across... Continue to rest pretty woman
Wow ❤️🩹 this is why I felt compelled to speak on this and literally put my life online to be picked apart by strangers. If God can use me to even change one life, I consider it completely worth it 🩷 Glory to God
did you have swollen lymph nodes at all?? i’m scared i might have hiv from being raped from a guy i used a condom with for 10 months. we always used protection because it’s what i was taught and i like to be safe and then one day he raped me without one, i kept telling him no no no no and was pushing him off me but he put it in and now i’m ashamed of myself for letting it happen after 10 months of us using protection. he told me he is clean but i always wanted to use protection anyways, i wish i just fought him off me even if i’m not infected it was horrible and i’ll never forget what he did to me. i haven’t saw him since that day. it’s been 6 months. i’m scared it might be lymphoma if it’s not HIV because the stress from the rape ate me up and the symptoms of lymphoma is the same as HIV. i’m only 25. i’ve been so scared also planned parenthood denied me of PREP 3 years prior after i asked them because i’ve always been weary of illness. they told me i’m not gay or a sex worker so it’s not recommended for me. this world is so fucked up and i’m sad. i’m glad you shared your story i feel better if i do have it i’ll still live a long life.
I’m so sorry that happened to you! I also have had a swollen lymph node for years and my HIV tests were negative and I’m terrified of the thought of it being lymphoma
Mane all of this is scariest ASF and worst problem is there's no way to really know unless you get tested and waiting for that call is even more scary I go more than normal even when I haven't had sex because I'm sorry they say u can't catch things a certain way at one moment but a month a year or two years and so on goes buy u find out different u find out there is other ways of getting shit u didn't think u can get something from better safe than sorry idk but I know I gotta go get tested again just because I watched this and I'm so sorry for everyone going threw this and I only can pray that I never have to experience this and I have a daughter who I will always pray to never experience this cuz I will do so much over her protection I will always teach her but the people in this world is so manipulative
Please get tested 🙏🏼 Don't feel shame, don't focus on what you could've done different. Focus on what you can do now to love yourself and care for yourself, be the owner of your destiny now. Get tested and you'll be OK 🙏🏼🙏🏼
That's the first time I see someone with hiv with such a positive atittude. Here in my african country, when you get hiv, you are not part of society anymore...you become "persona non grata"
A doctor once told me it can take up to 7 years for HIV to be detected.. this was many years ago not sure if thats still the same or they have better testings now to detect right away..
6 months for results to come back but they do have “rapid testing”. You would know in a matter of hours but you still have to go back in 6 months to test again
you are so strong, learning from mistakes and trying to warn and educate others is a sign you are strong and you really care. God bless you and I believe one say the cure will be available and you’ll be able to completely heal ❤
🦋John 3:16❤ For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
There is so much I want to say. I admire you sooo much for your realness.This must have been hard for you but you're still going... I respect that. I love what you said, show up for yourself, choose life!!That hit me hard in my soul. Keep doing your thing and spreading awareness and your testimony. God bless you ❤️❤️. Oh, and I see that rock on your finger 👑💪❤️😁.
Thanks for being one of Gods messenger. I don’t think people really focus on this topic. It’s a blessing to have someone to remind them to take care of themselves and Get tested. 💪🏾💪🏾 I watch someone my whole life live with the virus and I just want to understand I just want to learn more it’s something to learn everyday. So bless your sweet heart ❤️
@@nikiastafford7778look up the 1992 study of Univ of South Florida where it speaks about the medicinial effects cannabis for hsv2...and find a great naturopathic doctor😊
I have HSV 1 & 2. It feels like I have the flu as well. Sore throat. Fatigue. Sometimes when im leaking down there, it feels like poison. Anal bleeding. You're not alone. Let's be happy!
I'm surprised they didn't automatically test her for HIV. When I go to the doctors they test me for EVERYTHING. When I did my blood work up they asked me if I wanted that test. Even though I'm celibate I still say yes.
B, Thank you for taking the time to post your story. You are helping people with your experience. The thing that i find really aggravating is your BF just sat there and watched you struggle with finding a diagnosis, knowing he had HIV himself?? I mean....WTF kinda sociopath does that? A coward. He must have had some kinda shame or fear. I can't imagine what was going thru his head watching you battle this mysterious flu and symptoms, and he's sitting there with his hand up his ass playing dumb. Unreal. Also, when they finally diagnosed you, was your TCells super low?
I agree with you. Every last word. My t cells were so low...i was this 👌🏽 close to an aids diagnosis. Had I waited a week, my experience would have been entirely different.
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ I'm glad you pulled thru all that. Even tho this happened, I see you've had so many blessings also. It seems you met a nice man, you had a beautiful healthy child, you were diagnosed in a time where this is a highly manageable condition vs a death sentence years ago. So you are lucky! About your immune system: it just goes to show that HIV can really bring a person down in just 1 year. You hear how it takes 5/10 years to destroy the immune system but in your case it was 1 year :-(
I get tested every time I have a new partner even if I always use a condom. But you never know if the person puts the condom wrong way at first and then flips it since it won't protect me from diseases anymore in that case (the tip of the condom might have bacteria/viruses then), there's always a risk too that the condom slips out and the person doesn't tell you that.. There's always a risk that they touch their junk before putting the condom and put it on with dirty hands... (I know I'm a little paranoid but that's just for my safety). I usually try to be the one to put on the condom just to know it's put on right. And I also demand the other person to get tested too, if they want to continue the relationship. I'm terrified of getting HIV. But these videos help me understand that it's not the end of the world. But the thing is that I also have MS (multiple sclerosis, autoimmune disease) which means that my white cells attack the myelin of my nerves (the protective layer over nerves and if that gets damaged the nerves won't work properly anymore and might cause symptoms like blindness in one eye or loss of mobility). I have to use medication that lowers my white cells and adding HIV to the mixture could mean that I couldn't use the meds that I need for MS and for it to not progress. I'm so far lucky that I don't have any symptoms because because of my illness and even if I've had any symptoms, I have always bounced back. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I wish you all the best in the world. ❤
@@amritghuman1243 MS has nothing to do with HIV, they are separate diseases. MS is an autoimmune disease where your white cells attack your own nervous system (cause is unknown). HIV is an autoimmune disease caused by a virus where your white cells die which makes you very prone to get diseases and die from them if you don't get treated.
I'm just worried of getting HIV besides MS because I would imagine that treating two kinds of autoimmune diseases that work completely different ways would be an issue. They actually do test HIV before every treatment so I'm assuming that it would be an issue and I would have to consider treatment options if I had it.
@@amritghuman1243 Well I think they recommend waiting 3 months before testing to have the most reliable results but I've been told that it's very very unlikely that if you have negative results after 3 weeks that it would be positive after 3 months. This one nurse told me that she's never seen anyone get positive results after 3 weeks of negative results. I would recommend getting tested after 3 weeks and then after 3 months just to be sure if that's possible. I think all the meds have their side effects. I'm not sure what side effects HIV meds have since I don't have HIV and I'm not on those meds. MS meds side effects are weakened immune system and that's the issue with having two differently working autoimmune diseases at the same time.. With one you need to weaken your immune system for it not to progress and for the other you need to boost the immune system to stay alive and healthy...
I can’t believe they didn’t test you for HIV right away. Years ago I was losing a lot of weight and had extrema nausea for weeks so they tested me for HIV, but it came back negative. I had a hormonal imbalance. I tested myself last week because I’m sexually active right now with my boyfriend, and have been feeling a lot of fatigue, but it came back negative again thankfully. Thank you for sharing your story. I don’t think people are educated enough on illnesses and side effects to look out for so they don’t get themselves tested or go to the doctor whenever something seems off.
I've really enjoyed watching this video. You look pretty and healthy. If you are enlightened and have acess to the best of care, you would unlikely look like the horrendus face of HIV that we knew of a few years back. Some people in the South, where corruption is at the highest and stigma still exists, some people still look like that face, dying young, because they do not have access to the right treatment or are ashamed to go to the chemist and purchase what could save their lives. A lot of people do not know their status too.
Your story is like mine and I was also with my bf he said the same thing I found out at the age of 23yrs he was already diagnosed with aids I was in disbelief
Bianca, I appreciate your strength, honesty and courage in enduring this sickness. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone at all no matter if I love em or hate their guts. I’ve been so paranoid about not just HIV/AIDS, but std’s and infections in general for years.. to such a degree that I have only had sex four times in the last fifteen years. Even though sex isn’t the only way to contract it, I’ve pretty much sworn off of it. People tend to become selfish and angry over a decision they made on their own and now they wanna make others suffer the same. Kind of like a revenge f ck. It should be nothing to get tested. A few moments out of a day won’t hurt anything just to have peace of mind. I’ve been with over 150 women throughout my early life with no real fulfillment from it and therefore I have been celibate the past nine straight years and six straight before that. I’m constantly getting tested to the point where doctors are telling me that I no longer need to worry but my paranoia won’t let me rest. I got dumped twice by two different women because I asked them to take a test with me before we engage each other. Although I already had my most recent paperwork showing I was clean, the women were offended when I offered to take it with them. The resentment from some and ridicule from others is sometimes unbearable but I’m sure I did right. Back to you though. Instead of you being bitter about your situation, you’re out here educating and making people aware. HIV/AIDS is no longer a death sentence for many but that shouldn’t cease the necessary awareness needed to help keep this sickness at bay. You asked what an infected person looks like? After seeing you? (Still beautiful) I honestly don’t know anymore. I thought I knew because every infected person that I’ve witnessed in my life had at least some telling signs of it. Pasty white inside of the mouth and tongue, swelling in certain parts of the body, crazy weight loss, I’ve seen those little dots you spoke of on some people, and let’s not forget that scary right eye. Most of the people I’m describing were in by comparison the later stages of HIV leading into AIDS and we still didn’t fully know. We were speculating and gossiping among supposed friends and acquaintances. Me taking a look at you will surely help me in gaging my behaviors and perceptions of what I only thought I knew. Thank you Bianca for your informative insight and in my case, reeducation. I’ve dodged a lot of bullets and thanks to you.. I’ll dodge a few more God willing. Take care of yourself.
I can truly understand your emotions. I am a victim of sexual abuse. Later, I came to know that my culprit was HIV positive. I was in shock and trauma. I couldn't forget all of this. I couldn't sleep at night. It took me 16 months to gather courage and get tested. I came out negative. ❤
I did some research and found out how many HIV patient their are in and around ATL and its upsetting. You are a person who comes from a small down and try to venture out to date and meet new women unaware that you are in the epicenter of an HIV and STD apocalypses. Some of them even know they are infecting others. You don't want to come off rude or impolite when asking for a STD check but you are gambling with your health and life as well as your children's when you bring in new lovers and future partners. I have enough problem to worry about and do not want to risk the only thing I have left physically. I applaud your honesty and putting a face that represents honesty and sickness but now i am more steadfast than before. The medical community as a whole to consider every patient you come across as a whole to be infected. Take no chances with people who come into the hospital or on your ambulance and protect your health as well as your patients and their families. You as a provider can also be sick and infect the patient or their family bc they are immunocompromised due to HIV. Thank you for your bravery. Take care
There is another YT channel showing a clip of you saying that you don't have to disclose that you have HIV to a man who wants sex because they *should ask questions and use protection!?!?* How are you not any different than the person who gave you this disease? Just because someone should take precautions does not mean you should not inform them. I can not believe she said this.
Thank you for this video. ive had a light cough after being with a woman and ive been very scared. You saying how bad it really if assures me im good but i will still get checked. Also ive been eating like a fatty so im sure im just sick. The man who gave you HIV is a horrible human being and should be jailed.
Thank you so much for being open, honest and transparent in order to educate all of us. You are an absolutely beautiful person inside and out. You’re living your truth and helping others. I have so much respect for you. Thank you.
You a whole lie ain't no good man gonna date her she has AIDS and no real man wants that.... Just say you would date her sadly she still wouldn't want you.. Stop coming on people pages talking crazy.
I am.so VERY sorry this happened to you. It sounds like your PARTNER knew he had it. You are so pretty and that was such an EVIL thing he did to you. I am glad you are okay.
@@memorylane936 I ordered a few herbs but not any of his systems. I’m waiting to receive my order now. I like how he has science to back up his claims and now I’m gonna test out some of his herbs. I can wait
Honestly you can't trust anyone and today with all the sex addicts the men be lying like crazy stay safe ladies
This 💯
Just the men? Women lie to, and that’s why I stay abstinent.
So true. Men lie in my experience.
Former HIV case manager here. There’s a lot of men on the down low (claims hetero but goes both way) that’s spreading it. Legit, I’ll be asking them in clinic which way they swing and they always say women but when it comes to the question of which they have sex with, they say both
I applaud u for your courage and telling your story. My sister dated a man that knew he had HIV. He gave it to her. She was 18 living on her own with him. People started telling her the rumors they heard. She got tested and she was positive. This was in 1995. She died in 2013. It turnt full blown AIDS and there was nothing that could be done. She was 36 when she passed and I miss her every single day. Continue to pray and serve GOD. Keep your head up beautiful and thanks so much for sharing ❤
Sorry for your loss, but why did she not take the medication? Its been available since the 80s.
Hey did the guy end up dying? Did he infect other women besides your sister? I’m so sorry for your loss. Montg
Two of my neighbors across the street died from aids in 1997 her husband came home from prison and gave it to her
@@FF-by6cinot really. In the 80’s when it started doctors didn’t know much and people were dying from it fast. Even into the 90’s. Maybe around late 90’s medicine was getting better at treating the virus but it wasn’t as good as known. Now you can live very long “IF” you take care of yourself. So her sister probably was taking her medicine but everyone different and responds differently. Even though medicine is better now I still know 4 people who passed away between 2010-2022 from the aids and one still living since she was infected 2009. So 🤷🏽♀️
Damn that horrible 😢
This is so important. To see a fine woman w/ HIV tell the story is a reminder. Thanks for being so brave.
@@ronpolk1937 how are you all doing today?
My mom didn’t look like she had hiv either. My brother’s dad who was on the dl gave it to her, he died 3 years before her from a tumor that came from the virus. She would have chills, skin issues, cold sweats, thrush. All these symptoms would come and go. She finally succumbed to respiratory failure that came from having HIV when I was 10. We now live in a time where there are meds that help it become undetectable back in the 90s there was no meds to help my mom. I feel for you, sending you love and light.
Wow bby, so incredibly sorry for your loss and what you had to experience...I can't even imagine what that might have been like. RIP to your beautiful mother. There is not a day that goes by that I don't thank God for allowing me to be diagnosed in 2019.
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ thank you so much you beautiful soul. Just remember you are loved and you are light. ❤️
My story and your story are similar your absolutely right in the 90’s there wasn’t the meds they have now. It’s not a death sentence. Sending love and light your way ❤
@@Iambecoming1111 thank you sis and I’m sending lots of love and light back your way🫶🏽
This is why I'm done dating. I've always been a prude and I'm thankful to God. Thank you for sharing your story. Blessings to you. ❤️
You can date with out opening your legs or kissing hehe I date but I don't do physical relationship until I am married and my man has to go to clinic with me and criminal back ground was married in past gotten cheated and I stopped sleeping with my ex husband but I was using condoms I will use condoms until I die 🙃 hehe I don't trust men never did never will
People's spouses are giving it to them
i'll never have a boyfriend or man i hate everyone
REPENT AND FOLLOW JESUS CHRIST BEFORE ITS TOO LATE.
Man I know the devil walk among us but reading some of these comments is beyond insensitive and heartless. This is why I believe wholeheartedly in the Lord and I need him everyday this world man is crazy. Who can make it without him? Lord have mercy on us.
Best of luck to ya. You’ll be just fine. I’m from the era HIV / AIDS equaled GAME OVER. A lot of advances in medicine have totally changed the game.
Just because someone doesn't look sick doesn't mean they aren't
...the point is not make decisions solely based off of someone's appearance
@@brendabrooks6731 how are you ?
@ this moment, im honoring myself. Not seeking outside of self but god. Celibacy. Peace. Discernment. God bless all❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing your story 💛. It’s beautiful to see that you didn’t let this stop your life.
It definitely was an uphill battle…fighting anxiety and deep moments of depression, but God got me through. I got myself through it, and if I can do it, anyone can, no matter what their situation is!❤❤
@Bianca-cq2ig you going to be fine, just be mindful and take care of yourself and stay on top of shit. HIV isn't what it used to be and in the coming future I'm sure even better meds if not a cure will be found. I bet you in like 20 years there will be a cure. There actually is a "cure" but it involves a whole stem cell transplant, which is invasive, time consuming and complicated. It's easier to just be on meds and monitor. It's too bad they don't give people that option tho, for the transplant. Anyway, you look awesome. Your going to be OK 👍
Get tested even if you don't think you've been exposed.
It’s baffled me how they didn’t even test you for HIV the FIRST TIME! Literally every doctor/hospital I’ve been too will ask/run a test if they suspect it. Like this virus literally could’ve killed you especially the way it took over so quickly and your immune system begins to weaken. I pray God continues to cover you! And yes you’re right! Things don’t happen to us, they happen FOR US! Why? Only God knows the answers but just know HIV ain’t stopping nothing 🙏🏾❤️
It baffled me too trust me. At the end of the day, I feel like it happened for a reason. If I had gotten tested and it had come back positive, I would have left KF and probably would have had such much anger and resentment in my heart. But because I fell in love with him and consequently me in the journey...I can't say that I would have wanted things to be any different than exactly how they were. ❤️🩹
Thank you for your love though, I felt every word 🩷🩷🩷
Things happen to us because of the choices we make. Nothing just happens.
@@rosamaundallen1035 that was deep 😶
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ I pray God’s blessings on you and that you continue to do well. We all need God’s mercy. Get to know Him in pardon of your sins, if you don’t.
It's the confidence for me live life to the fullest you're brave for even sharing this with the world stay positive and keep faith much love
Thank you Bianca for your transparency. im sorry your boyfriend was so careless. HIV isnt a death sentence. Be encouraged and stay strong. #Knowyourstatus
I remember asking to get tested for HIV years ago and the nurse really gave me a hard time about it. She said “you don’t have HIV!” I was stunned,because I guess she’d seen plenty of cases. We didn’t order the test, but I couldn’t believe it!
I’ve had similar experiences “you’re not a whore you don’t have it”
Thank you for sharing your story, even if the last minute of it was unbelievably heartbreaking 💔 I wish you all the happiness and health in the world mama. You are an inspiration!
@@spicypickle666 hope you all having a good day today
You are so strong thank you for sharing your story with us god got you 🙏🏾💯
Ty so much beautiful for being here 🥹🩷🩷
*God is upper case not lower case symbolizes anything you make a god.
I’m a nurse and some places will NOT test you for HIV unless you ask. If I remember correctly you have to sign a waiver too, at some places. It’s been nearly 21 years I’ve been in this field and they can be a bit backwards.
That part made no sense to me...but I guess it was all part of the Plan...🙏🏽🦋
Thank you for your work 🩷
**GOD BLESS U FOR BEING BRAVE ENOUGH TO SPEAK ABOUT THIS!!!!*
The least I can do 🩷
*youre an angel. continue to live proudly & loudly. your status doesnt define you. you got this! I just KNO somewhere, there is a cure.. either somewhere globally, that we gotta dig for that only locals know, the rich only have the cure, OR it will be released soon.... I also heard of someone being cured by blood transfusion or some shit idk*@@Bianca.Ordonez_
You are strong, bold, courageous, amazing! God bless you. Thanks for educating folks out here!
Have you ever thought about becoming a hiv educator? Young people don't believe that they can get it.
Honestly too, some people could have cancer and not even know it.
I have several invisible conditions autoimmune and disabilities my oldest son has pretty severe autism if I had a dollar for every person who said oh he doesn't look autistic I would be a billionaire
I teach young men and this is going to be my next lesson the dangers of STD’s. I want them to look at you without hearing your voice and look at you as the beautiful person and I know they will say she don’t look like have HIV. I want them to hear the symptoms and I will then tell them how important it is to have safe sex. I thank this woman for her transparency and I’m sorry this happened to you but GOD got you
I love the work you do! That sounds amazing!! Let me know how it goes!
I had a cough, went to the hospital and the doctor told me “u need to get an HIV test first before I can proceed”. In my country they’ll test for HIV first before any other thing. They need to rule it out before, then know where to begin 😆
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See that’s weird …
I’m rooting for you queen. Keep being strong
Thank youuu🩷🩷🩷🩷
Don't ever give up, you're an Angel in disguise, 🙏🏾♥️🌹💐✝️💪🏾 GOD will heal you in 2024,
Girl thanks for sharing your story... I saw in your Instagram stories you're from NYC and this whole thing is so appalling to me that they wouldn't have tested you for that earlier on...like wtf?! You looked like you were suffering...now you look so healthy and thriving and beautiful. Much love ❤
We aren’t mandated to do so. NYS IS A STATE WHERE THEY USUALLY DO ASK IN THE ER. Also the ER IS WHERE U CAN GET TESTED, NOT WHERE U SHOULD BE TESTED IF THAT IS WHAT U NEED. Symptoms of HIV ARE SIMILAR IF NOT THE SAME AS MANY OTHER DISEASE PROCESSES.
Well, if people with HIV looked different from those without, then fewer people would get it as they would either avoid the person or use 'protection.'
Magic Johnson looks like the average person, as do most people with HIV.
This should not be surprising, given that the life expectancy of a person living
with HIV is similar to those who are HIV-negative, provided they are diagnosed early, have access to good medical care, and stick to their HIV treatment.
Calling all virgins, STAND TALL SOLDIERS
still smashing.... that like button
THIS
I’m glad there’s still individuals out there who are leveled headed like you, me on the other if someone screwed me like that we’re going to be together in a dark wooded or dungeon like place for a few days. Still to this day I don’t trust anyone I need to see some recent documents fr. May Jah bless you with a long healthy life 🙏🏿.
This took so much courage and was very informative. You are beautiful inside and out it shows .I pray that God continues to bless and cover you and what was meant to harm you WILL work together for your good.
Thank you for sharing. We’ve definitely come a long way with HIV/AIDS research and treatment, and people can live long and full lives. Very very VERY brave. This is helpful information for people.
Girl I thank God every day I was diagnosed in 2019 and not 1980. I get emotional thinking about everything they had to go through back then. Like literally becoming guinea pigs to come up with a cure. Taking cocktails of up to 20 pills that made them even more sick than before. It breaks my heart...yet im so thankful for their sacrifice😔🥺
Thank you for being here 🥹🫶🏽🪄🩷
I will pray God heals you miraculously today. I admire how secure you are in yourself. Youre quite legendary 😊
Wow such a high compliment!!! Thank you!!!
Welcome
@@Bianca.Ordonez_So do you know who gave it to you???
@@champion4lyfe hope you all having a good day today?
Everybody's asking about why the medical staff didn't test for it. Why didn't she request it, knowing she participated in risky behavior? My ex-husband caught it being on the DL and every time I went for my yearly, married or not, I got all of those tests because i cannot watch that bastard 24/7 to see what or who he's doing. Only trust the person in the mirror. I'm not trying to call her out of her name by saying risky. It's risky just having unprotected sex in a supposedly monogamous relationship/marriage. You don't know what your partner is doing.
shutup
@@redturtle1727 truth hurts troll🤷🏾♀️ and you're probably one who's spreading it
@@redturtle1727 oh I just saw your replies... You made your page JUST to target blacks 😂
Happy Tuesday Bianca😀n This is Gonna b so Informative🔥🔥🔥👍….
I hope so! Thank you for being here! :D
Thank you for sharing. You are a beautiful person for giving us the opportunity listen to you. It is very much appreciated.
I’m soo sorry that happened to you! I do believe that God can heal you from anything
I believe the same thing 🩷🩷
@@micahwinfield6716 how are you all doing today
Hello Mrs Bianca my name is Anthony Robinson. This is my first time watching your videos and I really want to say thank you so much for being so honest and transparent. I'm so sorry that you went through that terrible experience because you deserve that. Another thing that attracted me to your videos was you. Mrs Bianca you are so beautiful and attractive. I don't care if you have HIV I really wish I had a chance to get to know you sweetie ❤️😘❤️. You are most definitely my type babe. I pray that God blesses you with someone who will love you unconditionally and treat you like the queen that you are baby. You deserve it hun.
@@anthonyrobinson1705 hi how are you ?
I find it so interesting because my doctors are ALWAYS poking me for HIV tests. I have an autoimmune disorder so I get random fevers. At a point, I thought it actually was HIV. I think doctors test more often for it now which is good. Can't believe they overlooked that
It's cause your darker
First of you all, you are a very brave human being and may god provide all the help and support that you need.
Second, if we read medical literature available online, looks like modern science has indeed made a great progress in tackling HIV. Please avail best medical help possible.
May god bless you!!
Girl we all rooting for u
Im sending you love
Im positive that a cure will be found in the couple next years🎉
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🦋🦋🦋🩷🩷🩷🩷
I wish Nonye(God rest her soul) saw this video. She was a very beautiful woman.
The stigmatisation got to her and she took her life. One of the most prettiest lady i ever came across...
Continue to rest pretty woman
Wow ❤️🩹 this is why I felt compelled to speak on this and literally put my life online to be picked apart by strangers. If God can use me to even change one life, I consider it completely worth it 🩷 Glory to God
did you have swollen lymph nodes at all?? i’m scared i might have hiv from being raped from a guy i used a condom with for 10 months. we always used protection because it’s what i was taught and i like to be safe and then one day he raped me without one, i kept telling him no no no no and was pushing him off me but he put it in and now i’m ashamed of myself for letting it happen after 10 months of us using protection. he told me he is clean but i always wanted to use protection anyways, i wish i just fought him off me even if i’m not infected it was horrible and i’ll never forget what he did to me. i haven’t saw him since that day. it’s been 6 months. i’m scared it might be lymphoma if it’s not HIV because the stress from the rape ate me up and the symptoms of lymphoma is the same as HIV. i’m only 25. i’ve been so scared also planned parenthood denied me of PREP 3 years prior after i asked them because i’ve always been weary of illness. they told me i’m not gay or a sex worker so it’s not recommended for me. this world is so fucked up and i’m sad. i’m glad you shared your story i feel better if i do have it i’ll still live a long life.
Bless you. I pray God will heal you❤️
I’m so sorry that happened to you! I also have had a swollen lymph node for years and my HIV tests were negative and I’m terrified of the thought of it being lymphoma
PRAYERS.
Mane all of this is scariest ASF and worst problem is there's no way to really know unless you get tested and waiting for that call is even more scary I go more than normal even when I haven't had sex because I'm sorry they say u can't catch things a certain way at one moment but a month a year or two years and so on goes buy u find out different u find out there is other ways of getting shit u didn't think u can get something from better safe than sorry idk but I know I gotta go get tested again just because I watched this and I'm so sorry for everyone going threw this and I only can pray that I never have to experience this and I have a daughter who I will always pray to never experience this cuz I will do so much over her protection I will always teach her but the people in this world is so manipulative
Please get tested 🙏🏼 Don't feel shame, don't focus on what you could've done different. Focus on what you can do now to love yourself and care for yourself, be the owner of your destiny now. Get tested and you'll be OK 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Bless you. I admire you for coming out with your story and information. Stay well
@@minapane how are you all doing today
That's the first time I see someone with hiv with such a positive atittude. Here in my african country, when you get hiv, you are not part of society anymore...you become "persona non grata"
That’s unfortunate we all deserve love and community
That's rough, yet also part of the reason HIV transmissions are so high. Stigma does not end the spread, it increases it 💔
I think u are so brave I'm in NYC I would like to speak with u more in private
@MyUndetectableLife if u have time of course
@@Bianca.Ordonez_👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
A doctor once told me it can take up to 7 years for HIV to be detected.. this was many years ago not sure if thats still the same or they have better testings now to detect right away..
No 3 to 6 months babe
May the Doc meant first symptoms can take upto 7 years
6 months for results to come back but they do have “rapid testing”. You would know in a matter of hours but you still have to go back in 6 months to test again
I know male & females body are different, but Did you ever notice if king face had any symptoms while you were with him?
you are so strong, learning from mistakes and trying to warn and educate others is a sign you are strong and you really care. God bless you and I believe one say the cure will be available and you’ll be able to completely heal ❤
Thank you for being here 🩷 means the world to me 🩷
🦋John 3:16❤
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
Amen 🙏🏾🥹💙
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There is so much I want to say. I admire you sooo much for your realness.This must have been hard for you but you're still going... I respect that. I love what you said, show up for yourself, choose life!!That hit me hard in my soul. Keep doing your thing and spreading awareness and your testimony. God bless you ❤️❤️. Oh, and I see that rock on your finger 👑💪❤️😁.
I have a huge smile on my face because of your comment!! 🫂🫂🫂 #chooselife
Thanks for being one of Gods messenger. I don’t think people really focus on this topic. It’s a blessing to have someone to remind them to take care of themselves and Get tested. 💪🏾💪🏾 I watch someone my whole life live with the virus and I just want to understand I just want to learn more it’s something to learn everyday. So bless your sweet heart ❤️
Thank you for being here! I hope it was insightful! 🩷
Bianca this was everything I needed to stay celibate cause hell tf no 🫣 I can’t even imagine that is so scary
I feel her pain in so many ways my son’s dad gave me Hsv2 and it’s painful 😣 and hurtful 😢
@@nikiastafford7778look up the 1992 study of Univ of South Florida where it speaks about the medicinial effects cannabis for hsv2...and find a great naturopathic doctor😊
I have HSV 1 & 2. It feels like I have the flu as well. Sore throat. Fatigue. Sometimes when im leaking down there, it feels like poison. Anal bleeding. You're not alone. Let's be happy!
wow
I'm surprised they didn't automatically test her for HIV. When I go to the doctors they test me for EVERYTHING. When I did my blood work up they asked me if I wanted that test. Even though I'm celibate I still say yes.
why? lol. i guess u can never be too sure
@alejandromoreno5056 Just because I guess. You are charging me... might as well get my monies worth.
@@alejandromoreno5056is inter course the only way it can be spread? I doubt it
You are so strong thank you for sharing your story with us God bless you stay strong
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Make your life matter young lady. Be good to yourself 💐.
Thank you, my life mattered then and it does now.
You have a great positive attitude! Keep healing and stay blessed!
Thank you! I appreciate you being here! ✨
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ you're welcome; I'd love to have a conversation with you; how would I get in touch with you?
This story has been very impactful .
They didn’t test her for that because she wasn’t dark and dirty enough. More doctors need to be screened and sued
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@@Bianca.Ordonez_ 🌹🌹🌹🎈🎈☃️
Or a gay man
They do not test u for hiv
😂😂username tho
B, Thank you for taking the time to post your story. You are helping people with your experience. The thing that i find really aggravating is your BF just sat there and watched you struggle with finding a diagnosis, knowing he had HIV himself?? I mean....WTF kinda sociopath does that? A coward. He must have had some kinda shame or fear. I can't imagine what was going thru his head watching you battle this mysterious flu and symptoms, and he's sitting there with his hand up his ass playing dumb. Unreal. Also, when they finally diagnosed you, was your TCells super low?
I agree with you. Every last word. My t cells were so low...i was this 👌🏽 close to an aids diagnosis. Had I waited a week, my experience would have been entirely different.
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ I'm glad you pulled thru all that. Even tho this happened, I see you've had so many blessings also. It seems you met a nice man, you had a beautiful healthy child, you were diagnosed in a time where this is a highly manageable condition vs a death sentence years ago. So you are lucky! About your immune system: it just goes to show that HIV can really bring a person down in just 1 year. You hear how it takes 5/10 years to destroy the immune system but in your case it was 1 year :-(
I see many articles where different men have done this to many women. It’s just horrific and tragic!
REPENT AND FOLLOW JESUS CHRIST BEFORE ITS TOO LATE 🔴
JESUS CHRIST IS THE ONLY HOPE ✝️
Negative 👎! Only within your vivid imagination. Seek help! 😳
This guy give it to you?He already know what happened.
I hope you overcome everything
God bless, I hope things get better in your life pooh. I'm praying for you.
I get tested every time I have a new partner even if I always use a condom. But you never know if the person puts the condom wrong way at first and then flips it since it won't protect me from diseases anymore in that case (the tip of the condom might have bacteria/viruses then), there's always a risk too that the condom slips out and the person doesn't tell you that.. There's always a risk that they touch their junk before putting the condom and put it on with dirty hands... (I know I'm a little paranoid but that's just for my safety). I usually try to be the one to put on the condom just to know it's put on right. And I also demand the other person to get tested too, if they want to continue the relationship.
I'm terrified of getting HIV. But these videos help me understand that it's not the end of the world. But the thing is that I also have MS (multiple sclerosis, autoimmune disease) which means that my white cells attack the myelin of my nerves (the protective layer over nerves and if that gets damaged the nerves won't work properly anymore and might cause symptoms like blindness in one eye or loss of mobility). I have to use medication that lowers my white cells and adding HIV to the mixture could mean that I couldn't use the meds that I need for MS and for it to not progress. I'm so far lucky that I don't have any symptoms because because of my illness and even if I've had any symptoms, I have always bounced back.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I wish you all the best in the world.
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Ms is 3 month after exposure symptom of hiv ? Please reply
@@amritghuman1243 MS has nothing to do with HIV, they are separate diseases. MS is an autoimmune disease where your white cells attack your own nervous system (cause is unknown). HIV is an autoimmune disease caused by a virus where your white cells die which makes you very prone to get diseases and die from them if you don't get treated.
I'm just worried of getting HIV besides MS because I would imagine that treating two kinds of autoimmune diseases that work completely different ways would be an issue. They actually do test HIV before every treatment so I'm assuming that it would be an issue and I would have to consider treatment options if I had it.
@@herpderpina7599 in how much days you get your positive results? After exposure ? Can you face any side effects of Art medicine?
@@amritghuman1243 Well I think they recommend waiting 3 months before testing to have the most reliable results but I've been told that it's very very unlikely that if you have negative results after 3 weeks that it would be positive after 3 months. This one nurse told me that she's never seen anyone get positive results after 3 weeks of negative results. I would recommend getting tested after 3 weeks and then after 3 months just to be sure if that's possible.
I think all the meds have their side effects. I'm not sure what side effects HIV meds have since I don't have HIV and I'm not on those meds. MS meds side effects are weakened immune system and that's the issue with having two differently working autoimmune diseases at the same time.. With one you need to weaken your immune system for it not to progress and for the other you need to boost the immune system to stay alive and healthy...
What a gift to the world to share you’re stories! Blessings🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💕…. I learn so much for my patients.
Means the world!! I appreciate you!!🩷
I can’t believe they didn’t test you for HIV right away. Years ago I was losing a lot of weight and had extrema nausea for weeks so they tested me for HIV, but it came back negative. I had a hormonal imbalance. I tested myself last week because I’m sexually active right now with my boyfriend, and have been feeling a lot of fatigue, but it came back negative again thankfully. Thank you for sharing your story. I don’t think people are educated enough on illnesses and side effects to look out for so they don’t get themselves tested or go to the doctor whenever something seems off.
All of this!! I'm so glad you still maintain your negative status! 🩷🩷
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ thank you! 🧡🧡🧡
LOOKS ARE DECEIVING YOU DON'T KNOW WHO GOT WHAT AND WHO'S SLEEPING WITH WHO LOOKS DON'T MEAN NOTHING
Facts!!!
You’re gorgeous never be embarrassed about who you are.
This video made me teary eye ..you are so strong Bianca and beautiful ❤
Thank you 🥹🩷
I've really enjoyed watching this video. You look pretty and healthy. If you are enlightened and have acess to the best of care, you would unlikely look like the horrendus face of HIV that we knew of a few years back. Some people in the South, where corruption is at the highest and stigma still exists, some people still look like that face, dying young, because they do not have access to the right treatment or are ashamed to go to the chemist and purchase what could save their lives. A lot of people do not know their status too.
Thank goodness it's not the same outlook as it was in the 80's/early 90's. I wish you well Bianca x
Your story is like mine and I was also with my bf he said the same thing I found out at the age of 23yrs he was already diagnosed with aids I was in disbelief
I'm sorry to hear of your situation. So are you now living with full blown aids and how long since its been?
@@jamesapt66🤦juss be quiet please
@@bailawer7810 go tell ya mama to be quiet
U juss dumb if this lady juss said she had a bf n found out wtf don’t think imbasule
Hey Bianca,love your videos, you're an amazing and strong Woman ❤
Thank you so much…i appreciate you being here 🥹🫶🏽
Very courageous of you! Thanks for sharing your story ❤
Thank you for being here 🩷🩷
Bianca, I appreciate your strength, honesty and courage in enduring this sickness. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone at all no matter if I love em or hate their guts. I’ve been so paranoid about not just HIV/AIDS, but std’s and infections in general for years.. to such a degree that I have only had sex four times in the last fifteen years. Even though sex isn’t the only way to contract it, I’ve pretty much sworn off of it. People tend to become selfish and angry over a decision they made on their own and now they wanna make others suffer the same. Kind of like a revenge f ck. It should be nothing to get tested. A few moments out of a day won’t hurt anything just to have peace of mind. I’ve been with over 150 women throughout my early life with no real fulfillment from it and therefore I have been celibate the past nine straight years and six straight before that. I’m constantly getting tested to the point where doctors are telling me that I no longer need to worry but my paranoia won’t let me rest. I got dumped twice by two different women because I asked them to take a test with me before we engage each other. Although I already had my most recent paperwork showing I was clean, the women were offended when I offered to take it with them. The resentment from some and ridicule from others is sometimes unbearable but I’m sure I did right. Back to you though. Instead of you being bitter about your situation, you’re out here educating and making people aware. HIV/AIDS is no longer a death sentence for many but that shouldn’t cease the necessary awareness needed to help keep this sickness at bay. You asked what an infected person looks like? After seeing you? (Still beautiful) I honestly don’t know anymore. I thought I knew because every infected person that I’ve witnessed in my life had at least some telling signs of it. Pasty white inside of the mouth and tongue, swelling in certain parts of the body, crazy weight loss, I’ve seen those little dots you spoke of on some people, and let’s not forget that scary right eye. Most of the people I’m describing were in by comparison the later stages of HIV leading into AIDS and we still didn’t fully know. We were speculating and gossiping among supposed friends and acquaintances. Me taking a look at you will surely help me in gaging my behaviors and perceptions of what I only thought I knew. Thank you Bianca for your informative insight and in my case, reeducation. I’ve dodged a lot of bullets and thanks to you.. I’ll dodge a few more God willing. Take care of yourself.
I can truly understand your emotions. I am a victim of sexual abuse. Later, I came to know that my culprit was HIV positive. I was in shock and trauma. I couldn't forget all of this. I couldn't sleep at night. It took me 16 months to gather courage and get tested. I came out negative. ❤
@@nailanoorkhan7370 hope you have peace of mind.
I did some research and found out how many HIV patient their are in and around ATL and its upsetting. You are a person who comes from a small down and try to venture out to date and meet new women unaware that you are in the epicenter of an HIV and STD apocalypses. Some of them even know they are infecting others. You don't want to come off rude or impolite when asking for a STD check but you are gambling with your health and life as well as your children's when you bring in new lovers and future partners. I have enough problem to worry about and do not want to risk the only thing I have left physically. I applaud your honesty and putting a face that represents honesty and sickness but now i am more steadfast than before. The medical community as a whole to consider every patient you come across as a whole to be infected. Take no chances with people who come into the hospital or on your ambulance and protect your health as well as your patients and their families. You as a provider can also be sick and infect the patient or their family bc they are immunocompromised due to HIV. Thank you for your bravery. Take care
U favor sanaa Latham
May God strengthen you as you empower others!!!
@@petunia9436 how are you ?
There is another YT channel showing a clip of you saying that you don't have to disclose that you have HIV to a man who wants sex because they *should ask questions and use protection!?!?* How are you not any different than the person who gave you this disease? Just because someone should take precautions does not mean you should not inform them. I can not believe she said this.
The ignorance is mind blowing. My friend is HIV positive+. When she told me she doesn’t disclose, I lost all respect. Nah, you’re just as dirty IMO.
Yep....that reoccurring hard to treat yeast inf..is definitely the new tell tell sign
There is life in the power of the blood 🩸 of Jesus Christ 🙏🏾
Amen (:
Amen
Thank you for this video. ive had a light cough after being with a woman and ive been very scared. You saying how bad it really if assures me im good but i will still get checked. Also ive been eating like a fatty so im sure im just sick. The man who gave you HIV is a horrible human being and should be jailed.
U look like Sanaa Lathan ❤
She sure does
No she does not
I almost checked out in 2020 but I survived and it’s a amazing story and probably one of a kind I had dual bilateral pneumonia
Thank you so much for being open, honest and transparent in order to educate all of us. You are an absolutely beautiful person inside and out. You’re living your truth and helping others. I have so much respect for you. Thank you.
Keep you faith sweet heart ..dont know how this came down my news feed ..God bless you in Jesus name 🙏🙏🙏
She is such a beauty that any man will care less abt her health issue and be wit ❤
You a whole lie ain't no good man gonna date her she has AIDS and no real man wants that.... Just say you would date her sadly she still wouldn't want you.. Stop coming on people pages talking crazy.
AIDS and hiv are different
@@Judah_Mafia_074 so🤔
@@octaviawilson9155she’s already married with a child
@@octaviawilson9155 she's also efing annoying as sh*t
The ex is evil once the ex don’t worry you can’t give me what you have narcissistic
God please continue to give her straight ❤❤she is such a strong queen ❤
God got me, thank you for your prayers 🪄🩷
Be strong girl ❤ lots of love
🩷🩷🩷 God is my strength. I feel stronger than ever.
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ 😊👍
Thank you for sharing Queen! You gave the most educational video with pictures to help💕
Bless you bianca sista sending you positive energy.😍
I am.so VERY sorry this happened to you. It sounds like your PARTNER knew he had it. You are so pretty and that was such an EVIL thing he did to you. I am glad you are okay.
He knew and it was evil, yes. I forgave him though.
Wow, you forgave him? You’re too nice. Girl, you could of died.
@@fitnessbabe7958 forgiveness has nothing to do with being nice
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ Then why did you forgive him?
@@fitnessbabe7958because holding on to resentment is like hitting yourself with a hammer and wanting the other person to feel the pain…
the way you speak about this so non-chalant is wild
How should I be speaking about it?
Exactly 💯
She accepted her diagnosis so leave her alone some people take it better than others. I work in the health department and see it all the time.
@@lifewiththejonesfamily897 🤍🤍
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I second this.. what we’re told is it’s incurable. Check him out for sure. Yahki awakened
Have you purchased from his website I’m thinking about getting some detox for gut health but I’m nervous cuz there no refund 😢
@@memorylane936 I ordered a few herbs but not any of his systems. I’m waiting to receive my order now. I like how he has science to back up his claims and now I’m gonna test out some of his herbs. I can wait
I Just Watched The Gena Tew Girl. Hope Yall Are Doing Extremely Good
Did you get him arrested and have you confronted him? His response?
He's dead
Do you think face was intimate with men as well because I remember a male coming out saying they was involved 🤔
Never heard of that.
@Ezio-ic5vc oh wow you were there too?
@Ezio-ic5vc how you know my business better than me?! 😂 you had to be there bc idk what fwb ur talking about 🤨