Disclosing my HIV status to the guy I’m dating

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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 123

  • @RENELLEDABRAT
    @RENELLEDABRAT Месяц назад +43

    im sooooo happy you got your happy ending, Your story wasnt over and it still isn't!🥺 you are so strong and beautiful

  • @ms.santamaria3972
    @ms.santamaria3972 Месяц назад +42

    Im not even HIV+ and I love your videos and your stories!!!! Thank you for educating me so much!!!!!

    • @briannasanders4491
      @briannasanders4491 Месяц назад +1

      Same! 🫶🏽 she always manages to say something that’s like wait what, I had no idea! 🥰

    • @jacquelinedaughtry6981
      @jacquelinedaughtry6981 12 дней назад

      People are so uneducated it’s an disease it’s not her fault their an lot of diseases people get she told him that was the most important thing how the nerve of people sending her disgusting messages what if you had it if you had see how you will feel think about that or if someone in your family or your friend like get educated please just like cancer and other std this one you will die from show respect it could be you treat people how you would want them to treat you if you had an disease

  • @DivinesDoor222
    @DivinesDoor222 День назад +1

    I have been teaching people safe sex and not to return to the past and your video popped up thank you for being and remaining strong !!…You should never normalize HIV ..however what you can do and should do is educate and uplift like you are beautifully doing …and God bless you for helping those on fear and in hiding that it is not the end of the world

  • @ivettequezada7152
    @ivettequezada7152 Месяц назад +20

    I’ve followed your story and then it sparked my interest in seeing what this KingFace was about. He wasn’t a good person just seeing how he spoke about women. You on the other hand seem like a kind genuine person and you deserve all the happiness coming your way. You’re right about not lowering your standards because of a virus that you carry. You’re worthy of all good things. Stay healthy mentally and physically and mute all the negativity that comes your way. ❤ sending all good vibes your way.

    • @tobink4901
      @tobink4901 Месяц назад

      @@ivettequezada7152 kingface was hardcore MAGA... That's tells you alot. If he didnt die he would probably be in that Jan 6th crowd destroying capital property. I feel so sorry for her. He destroyed a beautiful woman's life. If she was my girl, she would be protected and loved

    • @Natu014
      @Natu014 21 день назад

      Wtf i just looked him up and he was wearing a MAGA hat and shirt

    • @Natu014
      @Natu014 21 день назад

      And he was hanging out at college parties as an almost 40 year old man??? 🤮

    • @Natu014
      @Natu014 21 день назад

      So a conservative, misogynistic creep. Who assaults women. Now the maga hat is starting to make more sense

  • @leecampbell8414
    @leecampbell8414 23 дня назад +3

    I grew up in care and the lady who was like a mum to me was hiv positive. So much respect for you and you family and hopefully your blessings multiple. Wishing health and happiness for your wee family. Also i volunteered at a hospice. Sending positive vibes to everyone who is going through anything right now. Take care from UK

  • @subhamoynandy1468
    @subhamoynandy1468 Месяц назад +6

    You are my hero. Thank you for being beside me in my hardest time when i was first diagnosed .❤

  • @rvintldance
    @rvintldance Месяц назад +7

    I don't have hiv. im healthy all around. however, you are truly a light and I have learned quite a bit from this video. subscribed! congratulations on your new chapter :)

  • @JoshuaBrown-p2y
    @JoshuaBrown-p2y Месяц назад +6

    It's A Sweet Deal That You Are A Beautiful Christian Woman Bianca🙂

  • @FlavoredGenuine
    @FlavoredGenuine 22 дня назад +3

    It’s better that someone disclose their HIV status than to hide it and endanger the health of their partner as a consequence.
    It’s done to help save lives on both sides.

  • @harmonymoody
    @harmonymoody Месяц назад +2

    I’m so sorry this happened to you, you are so courageous and beautiful in spirit and in the surface 💕

  • @withinthetropics
    @withinthetropics Месяц назад +13

    Love this for you girl! I wish you all the best in life!

    • @Bianca.Ordonez_
      @Bianca.Ordonez_  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you! Thank you! Same to you 🩷🩷

    • @TonyJackson-m9r
      @TonyJackson-m9r 20 дней назад

      ​@@Bianca.Ordonez_ stay strong beautiful women

  • @MattyRicardo
    @MattyRicardo 26 дней назад +2

    I do not care if you have HIV, DOES NOT BOTHER ME, REALLY ❤❤❤

  • @GodIsWithUs4LIFE
    @GodIsWithUs4LIFE Месяц назад +25

    Don't you think we should post those people's pictures who's doing it on purpose? So, others can be aware, just a question 🤔

    • @Bianca.Ordonez_
      @Bianca.Ordonez_  Месяц назад +8

      No

    • @kaddymngumi5674
      @kaddymngumi5674 Месяц назад +11

      It's against the law

    • @GodIsWithUs4LIFE
      @GodIsWithUs4LIFE Месяц назад +2

      @@Bianca.Ordonez_ Thanks

    • @Goldieslaxx9
      @Goldieslaxx9 Месяц назад

      ​@@kaddymngumi5674it shouldn't be. It would save people from contracting it. Especially now with all these iv drug users

    • @bjbrownbob
      @bjbrownbob Месяц назад +3

      Have you heard of HIPPA?!?!🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @melindapear4798
    @melindapear4798 Месяц назад +5

    I'm so happy that you found happiness.

  • @tobink4901
    @tobink4901 Месяц назад +3

    Your so lucky you're a beautiful woman..tbh most men wouldn't date you further so you really found a kind loving man. Stay away from Tyrones. This experience would be totally different if you were a dude :(

  • @sachaehn4924
    @sachaehn4924 Месяц назад +5

    Bianca, you're such an amazing, courageous, insightful, and inspiring woma. When I see you, I don't see a diagnosis, I see a survivor.
    Thanks for helping to end the stigma.
    My dad had HIV. He was afraid to share his status because of judgement.
    Thanks or the great video. I hope you and your daughter have a wonderful evening.

  • @Janellebersy24
    @Janellebersy24 19 дней назад +2

    Following Bible principles really keeps you clean and safe, waiting until marriage for sexual relationships, and marrying only in the Lord ❤.

    • @michellek1304
      @michellek1304 11 дней назад

      Marriage is not the answer to keeping you clean and safe. People still cheat! I hadn't been in a relationship for almost six years before I started a new one. I thought that I had found the love of my life. It turns out that he was lying, and he is already married. Also, he is a man of God. I feel for his wife because I know that I was not the only one that he cheated on his wife with!

  • @tobink4901
    @tobink4901 Месяц назад +3

    did dude seriously google if it was safe to have sex with you that day? I'm glad you put yourself out there and finally looking for a real and healthy relationship.

    • @Simba365
      @Simba365 27 дней назад

      That could have easily been one of the dumbest mistakes of his life. He didn't look to verify or check to make sure everything was indeed true or not because people can lie, like its good it worked out but that shows you how little some men care as long as they get some coochie .

  • @ReRe13-
    @ReRe13- Месяц назад +1

    Yaaaaaaasss thank you Bianca I was one of those annoying people asking how your husband found out

  • @Aristackz23
    @Aristackz23 Месяц назад

    Godbless you for being honest and caring 😊we need more people like you in this world 🌎 🙏

  • @jorjapeach2068
    @jorjapeach2068 Месяц назад

    I watched your not so great sorry two month ago after telling someone. To see this now you are truly blessed 💗and god makes a way for us all !! Congrats on your happy ending ☺️

  • @VITO_T4L2100
    @VITO_T4L2100 Месяц назад +4

    You're absolutely amazing 👏 may many blessings be upon you 🙏🏽

  • @mariobx7186
    @mariobx7186 Месяц назад +1

    Question what is like having hiv ?

  • @jessiedonique35
    @jessiedonique35 Месяц назад +2

    I'm so happy for you gorgeous better days to come❤

  • @alexanderrahl482
    @alexanderrahl482 2 дня назад

    0:24 You absolutely can do something about it. Date within the HIV pool.

  • @nativitalaurent9915
    @nativitalaurent9915 Месяц назад +1

    Wow. Your story is beautiful and courageous ❤🎉❤

  • @Bythebartalk
    @Bythebartalk Месяц назад +20

    So she waited until dude caught feelings for her and just before they were gonna have sex she told him….interesting

    • @mybestlifefortherestofmyli7137
      @mybestlifefortherestofmyli7137 27 дней назад +1

      That sounds crazy as idk what!! She had 5 years with it and 3-4 people. That's alot for someone who's infected.

    • @Tikaboo1187
      @Tikaboo1187 18 дней назад

      ​@@mybestlifefortherestofmyli7137 3-4 people that she told she was infected, not slept with.

    • @Crgb777
      @Crgb777 6 дней назад +3

      She told him the first time they linked up in person.... You catch feelings for women on the first link up?? They had only spoken for 2-3 hours when she met him before. You must be slow.

  • @Brandiisbeloved
    @Brandiisbeloved Месяц назад +8

    has your fiance accepted Christ as well? God really turned what the enemy meant for bad for good

    • @Bianca.Ordonez_
      @Bianca.Ordonez_  Месяц назад +15

      No not yet, but I’m praying for his salvation & believing for a miracle

  • @whitneybrown4067
    @whitneybrown4067 Месяц назад +3

    Yesss n This is Gonna b so Informative Bianca🔥🔥🔥👍n Happy Wednesday😀….

    • @Bianca.Ordonez_
      @Bianca.Ordonez_  Месяц назад +1

      Hope you like it! 🎀

    • @whitneybrown4067
      @whitneybrown4067 Месяц назад +1

      @@Bianca.Ordonez_…. Really Appreciate your Transparency Bianca👍 n I Remember 1 of your Early Vids where u said your Status out Loud in Back of a Cab 🚕…. Yesss🔥🔥🔥!!!….

  • @naemack1441
    @naemack1441 Месяц назад +2

    I love that you start your videos with a prayer ❤❤

  • @LP_reportinglive
    @LP_reportinglive Месяц назад +7

    Not thinking about telling a man about an HIV diagnosis is… just too irresponsible. I feel like ANYONE immediately thinks of the what-ifs. Before even the kissing etc, that was supposed to happen… being undetectable does not mean you don’t have it. I understand that she doesn’t want to glamorize the situation but it kinda is…

    • @Bianca.Ordonez_
      @Bianca.Ordonez_  Месяц назад +4

      People should think about the what ifs before kissing or bring intimate with a person they don’t know.

    • @hotboy80baby18
      @hotboy80baby18 Месяц назад +1

      @@Bianca.Ordonez_yeah but you said for a split second you almost ain’t tell him 😮 like 👍 good luck tho smh 🤦‍♂️

    • @hotboy80baby18
      @hotboy80baby18 Месяц назад +2

      I think she lying about some of this stuff too

    • @LP_reportinglive
      @LP_reportinglive Месяц назад

      Who did you know? The man who “gave you” HIV?

    • @alexanderrahl482
      @alexanderrahl482 2 дня назад

      ​@@hotboy80baby18That's what I'm saying. And she supposedly got infected by someone that didn't tell her.

  • @tajreewison539
    @tajreewison539 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your truth ❤️

    • @Bianca.Ordonez_
      @Bianca.Ordonez_  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you for being here and holding space for me

  • @krp935
    @krp935 Месяц назад +1

    I Admire Your Positivity, Openness and Confidence. Do You have any thoughts and/or opinions about Larry Kramer?

  • @mercyshere2366
    @mercyshere2366 Месяц назад

    I rarely comment, but I just have to say after watching your videos, God is so so Good! You are giving exactly what this world needs. You are light! Please keep your content coming for as long as God allows you. New sub.

  • @datkiddjophat4290
    @datkiddjophat4290 Месяц назад

    Awesome & you still found love awesome. Lucky you

  • @becomemoreprojecthqtrs931
    @becomemoreprojecthqtrs931 15 дней назад

    Thanks for sharing.you are courageous

  • @blank15053
    @blank15053 Месяц назад +4

    you should always disclose your status to your partner though. Not just for yourself but for your partners informed consent. Charlie shien did not disclose he had hiv to women and gave it to them knowing he had it.

    • @blank15053
      @blank15053 Месяц назад +3

      i know you are undetectable, but it doesn’t matter if you are undetectable or detectable, you should always disclose your status to someone you will be involved with for informed consent.

    • @blank15053
      @blank15053 Месяц назад +1

      oh sorry i got later into the video

    • @Goldieslaxx9
      @Goldieslaxx9 Месяц назад +2

      He molested Corey haim and I'm wondering if that's what Corey really passed away from

    • @angelaenochdiaz9247
      @angelaenochdiaz9247 Месяц назад +2

      ​@@Goldieslaxx9 i was thinking the same thing as well

  • @Kalpanamusicworld
    @Kalpanamusicworld Месяц назад +1

    Iam hiv positive😢😢 मेल

  • @gracesmurugi5591
    @gracesmurugi5591 8 дней назад

    Second day meeting n u wanna 😅😅

  • @sikosiko5703
    @sikosiko5703 4 дня назад

    Dr Sebi kids can cure you

  • @Swesttv
    @Swesttv Месяц назад

    You are a gorgeous woman.

    • @Imsodone92k
      @Imsodone92k Месяц назад +2

      she looks like a great value sanaa lathan.

  • @mariedames3240
    @mariedames3240 Месяц назад +2

    Good prayer ❤

  • @7beauti
    @7beauti Месяц назад

    Go girl ❤

  • @swazirebel7316
    @swazirebel7316 Месяц назад +4

    First mistake; meeting people in a club.

    • @hotboy80baby18
      @hotboy80baby18 Месяц назад

      Facts

    • @TarotAF11114
      @TarotAF11114 16 дней назад

      Not necessarily. Haven’t u been to one before? Ok then. So quick to judge others. STFU.

  • @kxngkaleb1684
    @kxngkaleb1684 Месяц назад +4

    The only reason u got a man is because your a beautiful but a man on the other hand would have a way harder time find love either that shit

    • @kingk.2547
      @kingk.2547 Месяц назад

      That’s your view point this is a huge deal breaker. For most ppl it’s deeper than beauty. It’s her personality or character amongst other things

    • @kxngkaleb1684
      @kxngkaleb1684 Месяц назад

      @@kingk.2547 yea but men already have a hard time getting women without hiv add hiv to the list and that’s a no go for 98 percent of the women so it’s not just my point of view it’s a fact and the truth

    • @kxngkaleb1684
      @kxngkaleb1684 Месяц назад +1

      @@kingk.2547then to add on to that how in the hell she already engaged and just two months age she was crying talking about it’s hard to find love think about that for a second this dude probably a creep or desperate or both

    • @kxngkaleb1684
      @kxngkaleb1684 Месяц назад

      @@kingk.2547yea but men already have a hard time without hiv find women add that on and 98 percent not giving u a chance

    • @wutzaking2agod657
      @wutzaking2agod657 Месяц назад +5

      That’s facts it’s most likely a man that couldn’t get beautiful women or defected himself. His only chance is to risk his life with one that is broken/contagious. (No offense) She probably wouldn’t even acknowledge the now husband if she didn’t have HIV bc her options would be greater and direct result of her external beauty… With that being said the conditions were perfect for the 2 happy they’re happy congratulations.

  • @idralewis6112
    @idralewis6112 Месяц назад +1

    ❤️🙌🏽

  • @coleworld904
    @coleworld904 23 дня назад +2

    Props to you but that sh!+ will never be normal. Glad you found someone cuz we don’t need yall out here

    • @TarotAF11114
      @TarotAF11114 16 дней назад +1

      Rudeness will never be normal either.

    • @coleworld904
      @coleworld904 16 дней назад +1

      @@TarotAF11114well I rather be rude then HIV+

    • @tatianasantiago3296
      @tatianasantiago3296 14 дней назад

      @@coleworld904hiv isn’t so big of a deal now there’s a pill you can’t pass it

    • @alexanderrahl482
      @alexanderrahl482 2 дня назад

      ​@@tatianasantiago3296Nah. That's cope. Shits not normal. And it shouldn't be mixed with regulars. And the lady that got HIV from dude(supposedly). Wouldn't have given him the time of day had he told her up front. She might've even ran.

  • @c.falcon5045
    @c.falcon5045 3 дня назад

    I don't believe her story! Something seems off about it. She's too cool and calm about it all!

  • @BlaqStar4524
    @BlaqStar4524 Месяц назад +6

    my goodness-why date when you are positive? cant u just be single and tackle your own problems without involving other people with that awful disease???

    • @NevaehBarber-mn6yv
      @NevaehBarber-mn6yv 29 дней назад +4

      Your life isn’t over after a positive statues. If you ever find yourself in this position with any positive statues I hope you can love yourself and find love which is what we all want and deserve. Nobody asked to be positive for something, it literally takes ONE time. Have some more compassion or do shut up.
      For anyone in a positive status and don’t feel comfortable on regular dating sites there are sites just for other positive+ people

    • @shaneldurham7399
      @shaneldurham7399 4 дня назад

      So diseased people just should go live off on an island somewhere alone for the rest of their lives? They’re not worthy of being loved? Think about how that sounds.

    • @alexanderrahl482
      @alexanderrahl482 2 дня назад

      ​@@shaneldurham7399They can find love within the HIV infected community.

  • @ReRe13-
    @ReRe13- Месяц назад

    Yaaaaaaasss thank you Bianca I was one of those annoying people asking how your husband found out

    • @ReRe13-
      @ReRe13- Месяц назад

      Thank you for what you do