#IAmStillMe

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  • Опубликовано: 25 янв 2025

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  • @NozibeleQamngana
    @NozibeleQamngana  5 лет назад +1106

    Thank you SO so much for the love you have shown me and family. We're eternally grateful

    • @jeffreydahmer1035
      @jeffreydahmer1035 5 лет назад +2

      I would like to talk with you.. if you can send me your social media info so I can reach out to you... thanks..

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  5 лет назад +5

      Hi Jeffrey, you welcome to send me an email: noziqamngana@gmail.com :)

    • @GingerBreadMan76
      @GingerBreadMan76 5 лет назад +1

      How do you manage sex without husband getting infected?

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  5 лет назад +33

      @@GingerBreadMan76 He is on PreP. That has assisted to protect him. I'm on ARVs, my viral load and CD4 count is always on check. And we use a condom :)

    • @mildredkido9512
      @mildredkido9512 5 лет назад +4

      Tommy Hogan as one takes the meds, your viral load will drop and you will not be able to transmit the virus to anyone else. However, HIV or not- condoms should still be used. Just goodle/research U=U

  • @tabisabreakfast5020
    @tabisabreakfast5020 4 года назад +69

    "I was the good girl.." I felt that😭😭😭

  • @SisterInChrist-r3r
    @SisterInChrist-r3r 4 года назад +126

    She said she's living "Positively" with HIV, I like that perspective 🙌🏽you really are oozing with Confidence and Positivity. Thank you for sharing your story Nozibele❤️💯

  • @senseikea
    @senseikea 3 года назад +204

    When she said "I was a good girl",you can hear the pain in her voice. People are selfish ,you for sure can't be safe enough no matter how much you try...People will test you. Stay strong girl...side note its cute how your husband looks at you

  • @sekgaboseselamarumo7483
    @sekgaboseselamarumo7483 5 лет назад +1255

    I found this on my recommended😭😭 Iove the video! I'm a 24 year old in Botswana living openly with HIV too! There's Hope for love and marriage after all 🌸

    • @swiitdoll
      @swiitdoll 5 лет назад +14

      Sekgabo Seselamarumo u so beautiful don’t worry u can find love. There’s a dating website for positive singles. Look on there u could find someone. All the best.

    • @starringAlka
      @starringAlka 5 лет назад +16

      Sekgabo Seselamarumo hopefully the right one will come to her she shouldn’t have to go looking for a man should pursue his woman or wife to be. Thank you

    • @christinaradebe4487
      @christinaradebe4487 5 лет назад +9

      Its not easy though sis

    • @AoneDitirwa
      @AoneDitirwa 5 лет назад +4

      My favorite girl ❤️

    • @hdarith
      @hdarith 5 лет назад +4

      God bless u

  • @Alinaandmommy
    @Alinaandmommy 5 лет назад +145

    You’re inspiring. I wish my mom would’ve told us, but the fear of stigmatism kept her bound and in denial. She passed away in 2003, probably feeling alone. Thank you for being so courageous and big props to your husband for making you feel like the queen you are!

    • @niecy3854
      @niecy3854 5 лет назад +11

      Clarissa Smith omg. Same with me. My mom refused to tell anyone and we didn’t know she was positive until she was fighting for her life. By then it was too late. I’m struggling to understand why she chose to keep it secret. I can’t understand. I miss her.

    • @Alinaandmommy
      @Alinaandmommy 5 лет назад +2

      niecy3854 ❤️

    • @motheowalerato701
      @motheowalerato701 Год назад

      ❤❤❤

    • @AmandaJon-nc9qw
      @AmandaJon-nc9qw Год назад

      Grateful thankful to Dr Abiola on RUclips for curing me from HIV #drabiola ..😊🎉

  • @gyamfio
    @gyamfio 5 лет назад +724

    That quote, "I was the good girl..." that quote is a profound statement..... it touched my heart..

    • @albino_virgo2892
      @albino_virgo2892 5 лет назад +6

      Yes it did

    • @gracemat9474
      @gracemat9474 5 лет назад +12

      I wish she could have expended more on her parent’s reaction

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  5 лет назад +25

      @@gracemat9474 Hi Grace - please watch more on my videos :) There's a video I did on disclosing to family and friends. Be blessed.

    • @michellemogotsi4308
      @michellemogotsi4308 4 года назад +17

      The pressure of being a good girl💔

    • @kopanokatebela8842
      @kopanokatebela8842 3 года назад +11

      It also touched me, because I can say that iam that girl too who's currently in university and sometimes it's really hard when with are not going well.
      You know that you are not disappointing only your self but everyone who's looking up to you some waiting for your breakthrough and some for your downfall.
      But I told my self that whatever happens there is a reason for that.
      All we need to do is to try and live the best life possible my happiness comes first after all

  • @exaucemayer
    @exaucemayer 5 лет назад +329

    Every sad story has a happy ending. And I'm glad HIV didn't break you ... I wish you all the best.

    • @exaucemayer
      @exaucemayer 5 лет назад

      @Thembelihle *Lihle* thanks

  • @itumelengdikobe5811
    @itumelengdikobe5811 5 лет назад +221

    She’s such a great story teller

  • @lindiwejacobs8474
    @lindiwejacobs8474 4 года назад +74

    I'm really motivated, I'm also HIV+ and I'm struggling emotionally, I just have a lot of things on my mind.. But I'm getting there slowly but surely. Thank you so much Nozi. #Iaminpired

    • @thamanig9289
      @thamanig9289 4 года назад +3

      Hi Lindi. I have two close friends living with HIV and a lot of family members. One of my friends was diagnosed when we were 19, so they've been + for 8 years now and I will tell you what I learnt from my friends, the days are not the same at first and even after a while sometimes. One day is all shiny and happy and one day feels like it's gonna end by the middle of it but there more you open up about those feelings and share them with someone who understands and allows you to be at your lowest but helps you up again, then you get better. I hope you have or find someone you can trust that you can have these random it intentional talks with. Don't close yourself in your head for too long.

  • @callme_thandolwethu
    @callme_thandolwethu 3 года назад +236

    Found out i am HIV+ this year after 10 years of drinking medicine.( My parents didn’t tell me )
    Founding you makes me happy because I’m only 18 still so young .

    • @gayricardo6463
      @gayricardo6463 2 года назад +12

      Am sorry .you are beautiful

    • @1010109999999
      @1010109999999 2 года назад +4

      Honey chipper up you got your whole life ahead of you you're going to do well..❤

    • @Dollsfromlondon
      @Dollsfromlondon 2 года назад +3

      Oh my goodness. I’m so sorry.

    • @busayobanjoko
      @busayobanjoko 2 года назад

      I know you from tiktok!

    • @marshamcglothin8099
      @marshamcglothin8099 2 года назад

      May I ask what medications do you take

  • @thandekambhamali6074
    @thandekambhamali6074 5 лет назад +202

    Am i the only one chopping onion here,,, i wish i could hug her and tell her that i love her.

  • @mamaovie7506
    @mamaovie7506 5 лет назад +263

    I am hiv also with two kids who are negative with the medication you are good to go it is not a death sentence

    • @RyderGurlii
      @RyderGurlii 5 лет назад +1

      Mama Ovie ...anymore *

    • @carmenseguridad7105
      @carmenseguridad7105 5 лет назад

      God bless sister

    • @trizahmukei7107
      @trizahmukei7107 4 года назад

      Hi mama Ovie. Please explain how that's possible....

    • @namhlangcobo2372
      @namhlangcobo2372 4 года назад +1

      @Mama Ovie, God cares more about your health and well-being than you could ever be. Registration for the healing school with Pastor Chris in Johannesburg, South Africa is still open. No situation is hopeless with God and it’s never too late. There is absolutely nothing he can’t do or change.

    • @JimmiAlli
      @JimmiAlli 4 года назад +5

      It is not a death sentence but it is a life sentence

  • @princessdaweti
    @princessdaweti 4 года назад +87

    “How I met my husband 3 years ago” it’s the smile and happiness for me 😩❤️

    • @Y3172E
      @Y3172E 2 года назад

      🙏🏽

  • @lindatwala2977
    @lindatwala2977 4 года назад +15

    Now THIS is an HIV Story. Not the short edited versions in other videos. Thank you SOOOO much for sharing

  • @justinamusyoka4986
    @justinamusyoka4986 5 лет назад +185

    Very encouraging especially to those of us walking the same journey.Soon you will forget Hiv and move on with life.I've lived with the virus 30 years now and hardly remember the first shock,but on meds and faithful to my creator. Peace and Shalom.

  • @ccgcinkhosie2336
    @ccgcinkhosie2336 4 года назад +28

    Wow! I couldn't stop crying, am also HIV positive. I found out 2 yrs ago,am married to my prince charming who's HIV negative. Am watching u from Swaziland

  • @PM-xd6nv
    @PM-xd6nv 4 года назад +62

    "There's no greater agony than un untold story." Thank you.

  • @allegranya8593
    @allegranya8593 5 лет назад +176

    I never comment on ANY video but this one, I am compelled to comment. I was with a man whom 1. Literally Forced me to sleep with him or else he would break up with me & 2. He was mentally/emotional abusive. A year later in our relationship he broke up with me, out of nowhere. After months of contemplating of getting tested (he did cheat on me in the relationship) I was fearful for my life. The thought of my life changing in seconds made me even nauseous to go forward & get tested. This year 2020 I decided I needed to know, I went to get tested and it came out negative. I promised God I will not sleep with a man anymore until they married me (some married men cheat too, I know)
    Your story touched me, because I was just there, fearful. Listening to your story was sad to hear but your strength and courage to even share it with the world is beautiful & I admire you for that.
    Stay blessed.

    • @allegranya8593
      @allegranya8593 4 года назад +6

      Red Carded yes I made the mistake by staying in that toxic environment, but nonetheless I learned something from it; to love & value myself first. Trust me, it wasn’t easy looking back & acknowledging that I made the choice to stay over & over again. I put myself through that, I know. But God is good and so is my life.

    • @marthamoyo
      @marthamoyo 4 года назад +5

      Married man is just a title my dear, they are the ones who infect their wives bcoz they are busy out here chasing after these girls & ladies. It's so sad that they are after their own pleasure not realising the impact of doing so on their children & wife. I am so scared of a married man to death, I fear my fellow sista married to this unsatisfied so called married men

    • @Stirlingshirecastle
      @Stirlingshirecastle 4 года назад +6

      @@marthamoyo please do not paint all married men with the same brush. It is not all of us who're perennial hooked in a life of bed hopping. The way I'm so scared of getting sick, the thought of having sex with someone I don't share the same roof with it send shivers down my spine.

    • @ownyourafrica2722
      @ownyourafrica2722 4 года назад

      I share your sentiments. We worry so much about being single after a certain age and what people will say that we forget to be grateful for things that have not happened to us.

  • @chalitathiminkul5220
    @chalitathiminkul5220 5 лет назад +386

    I got hiv too, and I absolutely knows how you feel. Let me know if you need someone to talk to. We are still good as we used too. HIV don’t define me anything. Cheers up to you Nozi.

  • @olgagozo8124
    @olgagozo8124 5 лет назад +75

    This was soooo sad! It hit me when she said I was the girl parents used to discipline their children. How come all your life u try to do good and in a blink of an eye things can go south. Beautiful ending tho!!! May God bless your family!!

  • @NoraBrendas
    @NoraBrendas 11 дней назад +2

    I just discovered i am positive 2 weeks ago and i feel devastated 😢. My partner of 7 months tested negative and he's the only one I've seen since i met him. It still baffles me because June 2024 i tested myself and it came out clean, so I don't know how come i am positive i feel so devastated and I've not even started my medications yet. I can't tell my family, my partner is the only person aware and now I'm scared, what if he leaves, how do i scale through, I'm only hoping on God to walk with me .

  • @miss.h3778
    @miss.h3778 3 года назад +6

    i'm so glad idecided to click on this clip..i am also living with hiv for more than 20 years now and I'm still me..hiv will never defines me..its just a reminder to be more cautious about myself..Thank you for sharing your story..keep well and always pray to our living God💕

    • @AmandaJon-nc9qw
      @AmandaJon-nc9qw Год назад

      Grateful thankful to Dr Abiola on RUclips for curing me from HIV #drabiola ..😊🎉😊

  • @luvomahlasela383
    @luvomahlasela383 4 года назад +23

    Thank you for sharing your story❤
    I was very very irresponsible as a guy with a girlfriend as I slept around without using protection, I tested and the results came out negative but it easily could've been me.
    I have decided to change and stay loyal
    Stay safe and use protection. And remember to always test.

  • @nqabisakangeleni8285
    @nqabisakangeleni8285 4 года назад +19

    You saying you had to fight for your life, was a light bulb moment for me. I've decided to fight for my life! Thank you. 🙏

    • @Scrumptious_93
      @Scrumptious_93 6 месяцев назад

      I hope that your fight Is going well ‼️‼️‼️‼️Sending love 🫶🏾to you and your journey

  • @keat73
    @keat73 5 лет назад +202

    Indeed the moment we stop blaming the other person and taking responsibility is truly the start of a beautiful healing process ❤️

  • @zoelelwazoe9159
    @zoelelwazoe9159 4 года назад +42

    hi sisi, thanks for this video . i will send to my sister she is 15 and tested positive. She is going through the most as this is new it will her 2nd month to take ARVs next week and she is filled with anxiety and fear to die. I will ask her to follow you

    • @ZeeInterpretationz
      @ZeeInterpretationz 3 года назад +4

      Love and light to your sister. 💖

    • @cynthiamosala5907
      @cynthiamosala5907 3 года назад +3

      Sending you light and love to you and your sister 🕯️❤️

    • @nondumisomhlongo
      @nondumisomhlongo 3 года назад +3

      Love and light to your little sister ♥️

  • @thandohngunezi4224
    @thandohngunezi4224 5 лет назад +28

    I'm literally in tears and can't breathe because I tried putting myself in your shoes! Yoh, I'm so proud of you!

  • @sibusisodlamini7598
    @sibusisodlamini7598 5 лет назад +54

    The way you beam when you talk about your marriage I'm so proud of you ❤️

  • @maplewheat2010
    @maplewheat2010 4 года назад +26

    Thanks for the lesson in your story: If someone delays, makes excuses (i.e they already took and they are safe), declines taking an HIV tests - run for the Hills! Also, I saw another lady here on youtube whose Ex - boyfriend walked around with fake documentation stating he was negative, and infected her. So, the best way to test, is for both individuals to test at the same location, same time, so the documentation must look the same!

    • @lizzybeth428
      @lizzybeth428 4 года назад +10

      The devil walks amongst us. I can't begin to imagine how anyone would do that! It's selfish and heartless.

  • @thabosibanda4923
    @thabosibanda4923 5 лет назад +17

    Except for ur profession and that he was ur first, u basically narrated the story of my life exactly as it happened. I haven't bn in a relationship though.since 2016. Thank u for sharing ur story. U just gave me confidence, maybe I can date again

  • @sweetpeach4139
    @sweetpeach4139 4 года назад +17

    I’m balling my eyes out right now... I’m so scared to go. Thank you so much for telling your story. God bless you love❤️

  • @arlanalashea4930
    @arlanalashea4930 5 лет назад +32

    You are still that good girl and thank God you got to that place where you’re ok and comfortable. Praises to God! God bless you!

  • @keokhuto3408
    @keokhuto3408 4 года назад +17

    Omg! I love this, I needed to hear this. I always tell my fiance how I would hurt him if ever I'd find out that I'm infected. But watching this has really got me thinking differently.

    • @babydii3487
      @babydii3487 Год назад

      Don't be a fool for a man. Your health is more important than having a man

  • @trendygist8273
    @trendygist8273 5 лет назад +236

    Thank you for the story. I also have a story to tell. My story. I discovered I was HIV positive in 2014 when I approached my church marriage committee. Today is another story. God healed me in December 2014 and am married with two kids. May his name be praised. God is still healing people from deadly diseases today. Just have faith in christ's death and repentance from sin

  • @lreppy10
    @lreppy10 5 лет назад +12

    You are so eloquent! I am glad that you have found peace within yourself and happiness with your husband!

  • @pink_sugar_
    @pink_sugar_ 4 года назад +93

    Listening to this and hearing your voice on the verge of breaking but still going on🙏🏽 Bless you and more strength ❤️

    • @pumezaruneyi3934
      @pumezaruneyi3934 4 года назад

      Very sad 😭but with an happy ending...thank you for sharing your story.

  • @engr.nnoromokechukwuchukwu7369
    @engr.nnoromokechukwuchukwu7369 5 лет назад +35

    sincerely i envy your courage and i pray you continue in this courage of a lioness...you are bigger than life for you to go through all this alone silently.....you are wise and smart and still beautiful that your courage has got me thinking why and how could you go through all this and no 1 could noticed?...then u r smart...

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  5 лет назад +6

      While I was trying to be a hero and hide what I was going through, I was slowly dying inside. I was on the brink of committing suicide when I convinced myself to get help. It wasn't easy.

    • @antoinetteshambo7979
      @antoinetteshambo7979 5 лет назад +1

      God bless you baby i love you you beautiful and smart

  • @jamicamorson3337
    @jamicamorson3337 4 года назад +7

    I think I remember hearing your story on the radio here in Cape Town a few weeks ago, it really stuck with me. Thank you for telling your story

  • @xobontlane5931
    @xobontlane5931 4 года назад +12

    Sleeping with one person does not mean you are safe. It depends upon what status that ' so-called ' one person was. The only safety is protection . Love u girl.

    • @manuteemane2465
      @manuteemane2465 3 года назад +1

      The worst thing is that protection can break. We’re really not that safe

  • @Jujucandy84
    @Jujucandy84 5 лет назад +50

    I want to hug her. Such a sweetheart.

  • @Wisdomnuggetseveryday
    @Wisdomnuggetseveryday 27 дней назад

    I came across your channel this weekend, and I've just fallen in love with you and your husband & your son is adorable. God bless your hubby for being an honourable man, a man after God's heart. We need more men like him in society, and maybe he needs to start teaching men about being honourable and not being irresponsible sexuqlly and also sharing his testimony, I'm sure it will be well received & it will have a huge impact. God bless your family. Watching from the UK ❤

  • @siyethabakito
    @siyethabakito 4 года назад +84

    I love your story ❤️. I found it on my recommendations a few days ago. I recently found out I was HIV positive about 2 weeks ago. I could relate to your story all the way . I was shattered, maybe still am. I've never been involved, sexually before. Like, ever. I'm finding a way to move forward, taking it one day at a time. I just turned 19 a few months ago. Having a safe community has helped me. And prayer. Lots and lots of it. I love your story and your channel. Thank you for sharing. ❤️🌻

    • @judzam78
      @judzam78 4 года назад +2

      Sorry to hear that. Love you with the love of God. Be strong

    • @almightyg7222
      @almightyg7222 4 года назад +1

      Jesus love you ...pray...stay strong...repent

    • @iyanuolartv
      @iyanuolartv 3 года назад +2

      I love you
      HIV can happen to anyone whether you're sexually active or not
      May the good God heal you in Jesus name

    • @JikoLaKiswazi
      @JikoLaKiswazi 2 года назад +1

      You did not choose to be born with HIV. Stay strong!

    • @AmandaJon-nc9qw
      @AmandaJon-nc9qw Год назад

      Grateful thankful to Dr Abiola on RUclips for curing me from HIV #drabiola ..😊🎉

  • @bekaogoro7071
    @bekaogoro7071 5 лет назад +13

    Thank you Nozibele for sharing you story. Its truly inspiring, may God continue to guide you and be with you

  • @lelethuwilliams290
    @lelethuwilliams290 5 лет назад +14

    I love you girl thank you so much for coming out

  • @Liskhanyisele
    @Liskhanyisele 3 года назад +1

    The shake in her voice 💔💔💔💔💔 you are such a powerful woman Nozi.

  • @bmn6283
    @bmn6283 5 лет назад +23

    Continue to be strong and may God bless you. So sorry you had to go through this traumatic experience. Love you so much for your courage to speak out

  • @nandiphabaleni8474
    @nandiphabaleni8474 4 года назад +13

    It's my first time watching your RUclips videos, I usually watch your live videos on Facebook. This video brought me to tears 😭😭😭. I love you Nozi and you're bringing so much hope to people living with HIV who think being HIV+ is the end of the world.

  • @Jesuslovesme137
    @Jesuslovesme137 4 года назад +13

    What I find more fascinating is how you've found healing in the midst of it all. You're so happy and so free and you are smiling 🤗.

  • @taoufiklabriki5088
    @taoufiklabriki5088 5 лет назад +90

    For olmost 15 yers i had hepatites C after i did some piercings! But there is a amaizing god up there and in my dream i was healed i did not see Jesus but his Light shines so glorios that eaven hepatites c was gone! Now i m negative for 4 yers! ! God is able to save our souls and to heal our disease !!!!

    • @gracemat9474
      @gracemat9474 5 лет назад

      What prayer did u make?

    • @taoufiklabriki5088
      @taoufiklabriki5088 5 лет назад +2

      @@gracemat9474 a simple prayer I did not insist ! I hoppe son I get baptized în water! To born againe church! I live in italy and most are catolic!

    • @swiitdoll
      @swiitdoll 5 лет назад +1

      There’s now a cure for hep c

    • @jeriyahmackey7140
      @jeriyahmackey7140 4 года назад

      Amen

    • @mrsm1920
      @mrsm1920 4 года назад +1

      @@swiitdoll nothing is impossible with God, he still does miracles to this day.

  • @lisaskepe_Amisu
    @lisaskepe_Amisu 5 лет назад +12

    Am sooo in love with your story and how bold your are to share your status, realy it has made God to move and see your heart.

    • @lisaskepe_Amisu
      @lisaskepe_Amisu 5 лет назад

      Helo Nozie. I know u have a very busy schedule but when u have time please keep sharing stories. Am soo motivated.

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  5 лет назад

      @@lisaskepe_Amisu I will Lisa. I share a video at least once a week on my channel :)

  • @thatomashopha
    @thatomashopha 3 года назад +2

    "I'm living positively with HIV." Liked, subscribed, turned on the notification bell! Thank you for being open to sharing your story.

  • @leratogao2267
    @leratogao2267 5 лет назад +254

    You still a good girl!!! It's sad most people with HIV are good and innocent.

    • @tupikahielos4758
      @tupikahielos4758 5 лет назад +20

      IT can happened to anybody we're all exposed

    • @zusivemnyobe8767
      @zusivemnyobe8767 4 года назад +11

      It has nothing with being good innocent or bad ,if you don’t use protection during sexual intercourse you might get it

    • @leratogao2267
      @leratogao2267 4 года назад +17

      @@zusivemnyobe8767 it has people with with hiv are normally labeled bad or that they were sleeping around, which is never the case.

    • @angienkosi2764
      @angienkosi2764 4 года назад +2

      Well said

    • @Nandikamagezane
      @Nandikamagezane 4 года назад +4

      Thank you for highlighting that some of us were born with it!🙏🏾

  • @TheAvira123
    @TheAvira123 5 лет назад +6

    Why is HIV so common in Africa? Please people.. If you're going to sleep with a partner, insist on ascertaining their status. Please please.. Don't take things for granted.

  • @basetsanamokobo374
    @basetsanamokobo374 5 лет назад +9

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. It takes courage for one to share what you just did. I'm hiv negative and I wouldn't mind dating a person living with the virus... As long as they're open about it, they love me and I love them, we ride!

    • @iyanuolartv
      @iyanuolartv 3 года назад +3

      Currently dating one
      He disclosed it and we went for seminar together
      If your partner is on med, he can't pass it on cause the med suppresses the virus to its minimum
      When we both went for test its was negative, I have been negative and still negative he has been positive but now negative for almost 2years, the virus is still present but test can't detect it meaning he can't pass it on

    • @AmandaJon-nc9qw
      @AmandaJon-nc9qw Год назад

      @@iyanuolartv Grateful thankful to Dr Abiola on RUclips for curing me from HIV #drabiola ..😊🎉

  • @qhubekanincsmanlikeq7849
    @qhubekanincsmanlikeq7849 4 года назад +6

    It takes a lot of courage to tell your partner your status, with the pending fear of losing them..... how ever I love your family ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ this is a channel worth subscribing to....

  • @duduzilemadonsela1533
    @duduzilemadonsela1533 4 года назад +75

    Thanks for sharing your story it made me strong am 22years and am HIV+ i found out last year November.. I would be lying if i said i didn't think of killing myself ... But i thank you for sharing am now stronger than ever

  • @omeishamccalla7113
    @omeishamccalla7113 3 года назад +74

    I am 18 and I am a virgin I had thought about losing to my boyfriend whom I like but after watching both your videos about hiv I now feel more confident than ever that I should remain a virgin until marriage God sure do work in mysterious ways because I had that thought in mind that I should have sex and all and at the right time I saw your video thank you so much I basically wanted to cry when I watched it may God walk with you

    • @Kakwasi
      @Kakwasi Год назад +13

      Make sure you test before any sex engagement with whoever whether boyfriend or husband

    • @mhizzcatia9511
      @mhizzcatia9511 Год назад +2

      Use protection and get the prep pill as well

    • @omeishamccalla7113
      @omeishamccalla7113 Год назад +1

      Ok will do when I find that husband 👍

    • @Iknowyoumadnow
      @Iknowyoumadnow Год назад

      ​@@mhizzcatia9511.....imagine responding to a two year old comment, you two years too damn late

    • @AmandaJon-nc9qw
      @AmandaJon-nc9qw Год назад

      Grateful thankful to Dr Abiola on RUclips for curing me from HIV #drabiola ..😊🎉

  • @MasegoB
    @MasegoB 5 лет назад +15

    You are soooo amazing. And your purpose is going to heal those who are infected and affected by HIV. I think you took the "positive" and made it your purpose and strength. Continue to share your story. All best to you! xoxoxo

    • @AmandaJon-nc9qw
      @AmandaJon-nc9qw Год назад

      Grateful thankful to Dr Abiola on RUclips for curing me from HIV #drabiola ..😊🎉

  • @veatriceharrell
    @veatriceharrell 4 месяца назад

    She is bold, courageous and beautiful! God bless you sista, thanks for sharing!

  • @blessedbygod1658
    @blessedbygod1658 5 лет назад +13

    What a brave story.. Congrats on your marriage.May God bless you in your endeavors in this life...

  • @mantelekhitsane3490
    @mantelekhitsane3490 4 года назад +6

    I'm HIV positive I found in 2013 firstly I was mess after I heard but the love I have for Cresalda I took her story nd made mine nd tell myself I'm going to live for my kids,I'm going to protect myself from unprotected sex

  • @CELEBUTAIN
    @CELEBUTAIN 5 лет назад +10

    This has touched me in so many ways sis wami!!!! I'm going through my own hardships in life and the fact that you are surviving this and u on the other side of it. I'm so proud of you. Your story is keeping me strong. I love you

  • @dimphomotlhamme5033
    @dimphomotlhamme5033 4 года назад +1

    Wow! I came across ths video in passing. And mind you I was passing time just scrolling while in the toilet, "having some me time". It was abt 1am. And instead of going back to sleep I watched another video, thn another and next thing I knew it was morning and I just had to subscribe. Your story is so inspirational & I just fell in love with the originality.

  • @oxbrizzlemynizzlexo
    @oxbrizzlemynizzlexo 5 лет назад +79

    I'm crying. The ending was beautiful. Once you forgive them...you begin healing. I can relate so deeply with her story. This testimony has helped me get through the dark times. Thank you so much you beautiful woman ❤️

  • @julietledwaba124
    @julietledwaba124 5 лет назад +12

    Your hashtag #Iamstillme is as powerful as you!!! Keep going, sending love and light. ❤❤❤

  • @lelethumgayi7512
    @lelethumgayi7512 4 года назад +7

    I'm watching this video for the 10th time, I'm glad you overcame depression and you didn't commit suicide. Much love ❤️❤️❤️

  • @vuyogqola
    @vuyogqola 4 года назад +3

    Sisi le video yakho has really triggered me. I know a relative who had HIV/AIDS. She passed away a few years ago because she refused to take her medication. You've inspired me❤

  • @evensjean-pierre8463
    @evensjean-pierre8463 5 лет назад +11

    To hear your story made me have more courage and strength!

  • @3dtvwildlifeafrica886
    @3dtvwildlifeafrica886 2 года назад +2

    Wow. So encouraging. I am actually in this situation. I realised that my girlfriend is positive . In july i too relised that i am infected .i don't have the courage of even visiting the Doctor. The lady later on vanished after realising. Pray with me that it does not break me.

    • @loreenamata581
      @loreenamata581 Год назад +1

      Sending you hugs, I hope you are much better now.

  • @liahknowsbest5092
    @liahknowsbest5092 5 лет назад +18

    Your story is so Raw and bought me to tears. Your beautiful thank you your such a inspiration 🙌🙏💕👏💪🤗☺

  • @mduduzivilakazi4270
    @mduduzivilakazi4270 3 года назад +1

    This video is God sent. I love her. I'm here for your story and purpose. 😊😊

  • @mbalisa2148
    @mbalisa2148 5 лет назад +131

    But as it is written: “Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, Nor have entered into the heart of man The things which God has prepared for those who love.its proof gods plan can never be delayed by man or our lack of believe hence u have been places and recieved ur partner nothing phases God he always has a plan for us.

    • @Lanika1979
      @Lanika1979 5 лет назад +3

      You have made my day with these words as i am going through things in my relationship.

    • @BlackIsBeautiful-qg1lx
      @BlackIsBeautiful-qg1lx 5 лет назад +2

      Amen 🙏🏿

    • @AFlamingLily
      @AFlamingLily 3 года назад

      These words were so encouraging, thank you.

  • @nomathamsanqajoka4973
    @nomathamsanqajoka4973 2 года назад

    Wow it's so good having more people living openly with HIV in Thami from Cape Town,living positively with HIV it's been 6years now❤❤❤❤❤love u keep on sthandwa sam the Lord is with u,it is high time people knew it's not a death sentence to be positive u can still live a positive life❤❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥🔥Qhawekazi lam

  • @so.many.obstacles
    @so.many.obstacles 5 лет назад +6

    Thank for being transparent. I wish you and your love many moons together.

  • @candybrown2399
    @candybrown2399 3 года назад +1

    Everything about you is so beautiful I'm so happy you found love you are a very strong woman telling your story God bless you sister

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 5 лет назад +8

    Thank God for the goodie bags luring you to participate! Saved your life but not a great way to find out. So sorry girl. But good on ya for being positive about it and strengthening all of us.

  • @jacvasell7691
    @jacvasell7691 4 года назад +1

    You are still that good girl. You entrusted one person with you body and they betrayed you. But look at you now blessed happy and most of all alive. God always has a way for us. Stay blessed 👆🙏☝💞💞💞

  • @ainanelifas
    @ainanelifas 4 года назад +4

    This is what strength looks like. Love, light & healing to you Nozibele.

  • @sisandaluhlanga7005
    @sisandaluhlanga7005 3 года назад +1

    It's the way your face brightens when you talk about your husband for me ❤

  • @kimmthethwa750
    @kimmthethwa750 5 лет назад +20

    So touching, truly envious of your courage to tell your story on this platform 🤗, so glad it didn't break you to a point of destruction. It brought a smile to my face with how your face lit up when you were talking about your hubby🤗🤗. HIV is not a death sentence and you are living proof!

  • @sandiswamakapela3078
    @sandiswamakapela3078 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for shearing cc so proud and happy to receive this today

  • @QueenShanine
    @QueenShanine 5 лет назад +15

    Beautiful story/testimony. Many Blessings to you and your family.

  • @nm2mnano330
    @nm2mnano330 Месяц назад

    Thank you for sharing your story and your strength. Your courage is truly inspiring, and your words are a powerful reminder that we are all more than our circumstances.
    Your message speaks life and hope into the hearts of so many. It's a testament to resilience, faith, and the beauty of purpose, even in the face of challenges.
    May your journey continue to inspire others, and may God’s blessings overflow in your life. You are making a difference, and your voice matters. ❤

  • @serahdonald
    @serahdonald 5 лет назад +16

    Thanks for sharing Sis. Please do a story time on how you told your husband, and at what point? You are inspiring the world

  • @janicebrown-efionayi7831
    @janicebrown-efionayi7831 3 месяца назад

    You are a beautiful person with an inspiration story. Thank you for sharing. May God continue to bless you and your marriage 🙏🏾

  • @miliswapasiya2830
    @miliswapasiya2830 5 лет назад +10

    Thank you for sharing sisi. May God continue to bless you abundantly

  • @dreamcatcher3804
    @dreamcatcher3804 2 года назад +2

    Hello! While watching your video, i couldn't help but cry. I've just learned that I am an HIV positive. I tested positive with low range of viral load while he's negative in his 2 tests. I've been crying all day and night because I didn't know how and where I got it from. 1 month ago I had a surgery and 3 months prior to my diagnosis, I had rhinoplasty. Up til now, i only suspect that my recent surgery caused my HIV. I never slept with anyone except for my boyfriend. I hope this is another case of false positive. I will fly back to my country to get tested again😭😭

  • @slindokhulekhumalo2611
    @slindokhulekhumalo2611 4 года назад +6

    This teaches women and men, the Important of getting tested once in a while with they sexual partner because it's sad that one can have sexual relationship with one person and still get HIV because the other partner decides to cheat. This confess for me what I have also been told. I am still a virgin at the age 21 and thank you for sharing your story.
    Your strong, beautiful, smart and loved. God be with you ♥ ♥.

  • @yolandakupiso849
    @yolandakupiso849 4 года назад +1

    Wow Nozi..I'm in awe at the courageous woman that you are.Very painful story but look at the love of God towards you and how this has transformed you to the woman that you are today!I love you.God has not finished with you girl.

  • @nomvulandlovukazi9045
    @nomvulandlovukazi9045 5 лет назад +3

    Sthandwa Sam. Sisi wami, mngani wami... Thank you for sharing and don't stop sharing. You have such a beautiful spirit and mamela it's 2020 hiv or no hiv we love and appreciate you. Like you said, despite everything YOU WILL BE OKAY! I LOVE YOU NEH

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 4 года назад +1

    Thank my sister for your boldness. You are a blessing to many. Watching from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @TshepiVlogs
    @TshepiVlogs 4 года назад +4

    I’m crying while I’m watching this 😭😭 u are so brave I want all women and men who are going through this that life is more than this disease there’s so much what life can offer be happy live your life to the fullest and I wish everyone a very long life love you all 😇

  • @MJ_Solo
    @MJ_Solo 5 лет назад +49

    Slightly off topic, but you’re a very good speaker, very feed “um”s good sentence structure, good syntax

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  5 лет назад +4

      Thank you.

    • @Shaykcatoure
      @Shaykcatoure 5 лет назад

      What do you mean off topic?
      She's telling her story (what she went through)
      How can that be off topic!?💔

    • @nyreesimone1447
      @nyreesimone1447 5 лет назад +27

      @@Shaykcatoure He's saying he's going off topic by telling her she's a good speaker🙄

    • @MJ_Solo
      @MJ_Solo 4 года назад +1

      @@nyreesimone1447 I'm a girl, btw, but thank you

    • @nyreesimone1447
      @nyreesimone1447 4 года назад

      @@MJ_Solo My bad❤

  • @IamNtombizandile
    @IamNtombizandile 5 лет назад +9

    Thank you for sharing. There's a negative stereotype towards people who are infectect bengathi they've been around. Leyo iyadina. With so much information yet we still ignorant and refuse to get tested.

  • @its_dowleem1182
    @its_dowleem1182 4 года назад +2

    I love that you open enough to share your story and as young as i am ,i'm really learning,And the biggest thing i've learnt is not to be prejudice upon people livibg with Hiv #YourStillYou❤

  • @katlegomhlauli8423
    @katlegomhlauli8423 4 года назад +4

    “I was the good girl” 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔 ao bathong

  • @rhondaprater7361
    @rhondaprater7361 Год назад

    I enjoyed Yu!! Your story was so gripping touching !!! May. Gid ever bless you my sister. My sister. Gloria and l were out at breakfast and she had stated she sure would love to go to. Africa!!! Rhonda. Prater .

  • @Ceci_x0
    @Ceci_x0 5 лет назад +42

    Miracles really do happen like this. If I would have watched this while I was suicidal I would have said no way. Now that I made it through I am so happy. I didn’t find anyone but I found other ways to make me happy. Things popped up that were god sends. Believe this shit.

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  5 лет назад +5

      "But I found other ways to make me happy", that's what's important Cecilia. And that is SO profound! Thank you!

  • @tuphelo
    @tuphelo 4 года назад +1

    When you started crying and wiping your face 🥺💔 I FEEL YOU!