While I'm practicing abstinence as well & definitely know that it cuts the risk dramatically, there are unfortunately people's spouses that are infecting them as well. 😓 Some spouses are tragically worse than strangers, because they intimately know you, entered into covenant with you, and yet still do you dirty. Dirtier than sometimes even a stranger would, smh. So big ups to your dad! I LOVE that! That's a kind of protection I wish all daughters could experience from their dads. 🤍
@KelahCash yes so true.. I actually heard a story from my friend.. she was taking care of a young lady in a nursing home because she got aids from her husband so I definitely agree. But by practising abstinence atleast if it happens we can say we didn't do anything wrong and not feel guilt or regret. Also it lowers chances of getting hpv etc
I'm happy she is a realistic face to HIV. So many people think you can tell if someone is positive and never believe someone so beautiful would be positive.
Make up is beautiful, got it. Her hairline is further back than mine Too much fake beauty these days. Now with AI I feel for all ya gullible people. Getting scammed on the daily
Condoms condoms condoms people, protecting yourself will always be your responsibility. I always hear people claim they get tested for HIV and other STIs often, but my question is always: but that will not stop you from catching HIV if you’re gonna sleep with people you didn’t get tested
@@rainmaker6434 when there are growing cases of men removing condoms or purposely damaging them without her knowing, choking without her consent and accidental pregnancies, it makes no sense to continue advocating to sleep with men. Why is rare pleasure (because majority of women dont even orgasm with men) more important than your safety and well being? stop doing that with men if you care about your safety.
@@zooweellama You obviously are attracted to dangerous and irresponsible men, the Pookies and the Ray Rays will always chock you and remove condoms because they have nothing to lose. They are not afraid of prison, STIs and getting you pregnant, and even bailing on you after they get you pregnant. There’s a lot of good guys there, don’t let your poor choice in men paint all men with the same brush
@@zooweellama plus the fact she went ahead and slept w him so quickly…… well like they say to prevent stds is abstinence especially in this type of situation.
Why are ppl on here trying to refute this ladies story on how she got HIV? WHO cares how many times she’s sharing it. Kudos to her for actually sharing it. It’s ppl out here knowingly spreading it without disclosing they have it. Damn ppl are never satisfied in this world. Damned if you do damned if you don’t.
That makes me sad. Your so Beautiful and it's very hard out there and he should have been honest with you. There was a guy in Wisconsin that gave it to my sisters friends sister. Like 15 yrs or so ago. Now. By the Good Grace of God 🙏 there is medication for it. Now. None of us know, if we sleep with someone if they would be honest and tell a person they have HIV. There is a girl on you tube that I follow and I need to look up her name. BRB.
because everybody's got a grift. we all need one actually. wouldn't surprise me if this was hers. she's on here like hiv is new. hiv ain't new. it's been around since the 70's, but everybody's STILL slinging juice like it don't matter. those involuntary spasms FEEL good, but they can get you KILLED.
@@LollyMadikiza-xw4okRight. If anything, I would question how the ex boyfriend got it. If he wasn’t born with it, or contracted it intravenously, I would bet 1M dollars he’s DL. (Caught it from a dude). It’s not impossible, and should NEVER be tested, because you CAN… but it’s VERY hard to get HIV from a woman. Not that many women out here having anal sex. He got it from a dude and he did a TERRIBLE thing knowingly infecting her like that. Every story I’ve come across thus far where some raggedy azz man gave a woman HIV, it eventually came out that he was in fact DL. They get exposed by the partners. Crazy. I like this gal. She has a beautiful mind set.
My sister died from AIDS. Contracted from a man in and out of prison… when we found out, doctors gave her 30 days… she lived 34 days…. Well fortunately for him, they give you meds in prison. RIP sis!!! Protect yourself because others won’t
This type of stuff actually happens all the time. I worked in public health as an RN for years. Men are on the DL having sex with HIV positive men then unprotected sex with their gf’s/wives. Absolutely horrible.
@@janecampbell5021 Condoms are far from 100% effective. The only way that is 100% effective is to not have sex with someone that has _____ (whatever) STD. Abstain, and if that's not possible, don't engage in promiscuity, especially within demographics where the incident rates are highest. Test yourself and your next partner prior, along with having open and honest communication about sexual history etc..
@@rarity-bo8pk True. And considering he was spreading it like wildfire, it's safe to assume he was not taking care of the virus and taking the immunosuppressants.
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ yea Ik you didn’t cheat I’m just saying overall, sleeping around with multiple women which what kingface did, was disgusting on his behalf, your so beautiful you didn’t deserve to be manipulated like that, he wasn’t a real man
People only bring up the Lord after they have committed so many sins. Having many partners, drinking, parties, so after they contracted an incurable disease is when the Lord comes in. Garage.
@@godleads1 I am sorry I am not a religious person that was the point I was trying to make is that people go to religion once they have fallen in deep waters. It's not ok if you're a grown person to use that as a pass to righteousness. Man up or woman up and say I was bad that's why I got HIV with no excuse.
I’ve never been so happy to be celibate! People in this world don’t care, especially if you’re not taking precautions yourself. I thank God daily that God kept me through my life making these types of careless decisions and that this wasn’t my story. I do pray for this lady and other people dealing with these situations.
It's hard...Very hard being celibate especially when you were smashing before. But I have been for one year now and it's not like I don't wanna get smashed again. But when you meet fine people you are cool with and vibing and just ask for a test, they bolt off. I can't force anyone to do it either. So I keep to myself and take my mind off smashing in the meantime.
I thank GOD I'm 12 years celibate it was very hard at first but what made it easier I got fill with the Holy Spirit Now GOD told me I'm about to meet my GODLY Husband thanks GOD ❤️🙌
He must have been very good looking. We have a superficial society that causes people to chase after good looking people while not valuing character and moral virtue. And this causes so much pain and suffering. It's a lesson some have to learn the hard way.
An unfortunate situation (there's plenty of ppl living with HIV/AIDS but they literally do everything in their power to make sure their partner is safe because they love & care for their partner)
You should do a day in the life of a woman with HIV. Or self care videos. How you eat any supplements you take to stay healthy and your skincare routine cause you have really great skin
This is so disturbing what this man did. I’m grateful she is sharing her story. I work with young men and women that are dating. Education in this area, as well as discernment is so crucial. Thank you for sharing this with us.
Bianca you're absolutely inspiring. Sharing this in a world so full of ignorance is such a breath of fresh air. Rooting for you and your journey educating others about HIV!
I was so pleasantly surprised by the prayer at the end. I’m so happy that you are part of the body of Christ. May God continue to bless and use your voice for His glory! 🙏🏽
It’s the fact that every time my status comes back negative for HIV. It makes me want to know the realization of what it’s like for someone else to have it. Teaching myself a lesson I’m thankful for these stories.
The good news is being HIV positive is not the death sentence that it used to be when I was a teenager. You can live a long healthy life with treatment. Be well and be awesome! 👍
Go girl!!! Some ppl take this diagnosis and let it ruin them. Just seeing you shine your way through it and not let it define you, is amazing. God is definitely using you❤❤ ive never known anyone personally that has HIV but you just seem amazing!! Amen sis❤
Keep warning people because what they're not talking about. it only takes one time. we love you sis. sorry this happen. i believe for your miracle healing, people do heal.
That’s not true, HIV AIDs is a sexually transmitted disease. Anyone having sex is at risk for contracting the virus even if you abstain from sex until marriage. There’s no guarantee that in marriage partners will be faithful. Im a christian & know plenty of ppl in & outside the church who have had infidelity issues in their marriage. Abstinence doesn’t guarantee faithfulness in marriages, for Christ sake remember we’re all sinners, but by the grace God we’re saved and made anew. We’re human beings with flaws. It does teach great values in faith in God, self worth & self control though. But abstinence isn’t the only way to by itself. Choosing partners wisely, couples coaching and urging couples to get 6 months STD testing aids in the education of sexual health. The church needs to be more transparent and truthful when it comes to sex & sexual health; half the church is sleeping around with each other anyways. But that’s common with any large group of ppl in any organization, unfortunately that’s human nature.
My mom was HIV positive during time before we had social media. You are beautiful and helping other people especially black women. You are such bright soul. He gone get his. ❤
I’m so proud of you Alchemizing this into love , strength and using it as a testimony to help others. He expected it to take you out and destroy your self esteem but it didn’t. God was with you the whole time. Your angels. Forces of evil truly sets traps for us to suck the light out of us. Thank you for your resilience. You are a being of light.
I have to applaud you young lady you got tough skin. I also respect that fact that you are not making excuses for what happened to you. Thank you for your honesty
Men (narcissists)sleep around with many people to cover up their insecurities, inadequacies, and brokenness. They don't care about catching diseases nor giving them to you. I was afraid I would catch something from my last husband who was a malignant narc. My mom used to tell me to use protection with him but I was afraid of how he would react if I had. I ended up leaving him. It was a horrible relationship even after I left him. I'm sorry that happened to you. God bless you!
@@lyricimaniiatp, HIV should not be hippa protected. The only things that should be hippa protected are non transmutable viruses. All STIs should be public cuz this is just wrong
My little sister told me she was with a guy who told her after they had sex that he thinks he has HIV/AIDS and she freaked out, BUT never got tested. Now she’s seeing someone and I told her you need to get tested and she said she won’t. I kept telling her to, and she won’t listen to me. So right now I’m not talking to her and I feel like she needs to get tested to know her status and find out for sure. I asked her if she was going to call the cops on him and she said no. So he’s still out there and she keeps seeing guys. It’s ridiculous and horrible.
@@sunildadelossantos6583 I live in a different state and I have no clue who the guy is she’s with now. I wish she would get tested to know for sure, but unfortunately because I know my sister she won’t and she won’t tell him about it. She already has Herpes and one of her ex boyfriends got it from her and she was laughing about it and he hung himself because of it. She’s completely psycho.
@@Justthefurofusfind out who her boyfriend is, echoed her social media page, whatever you can do, also call the police out of state and tell them she is intentionally spreading STDs. You must stop her!
That's crazy your sister should've want to the E.R and told them what the guy told her so she could've got medication , if she had taken the medication within 72 hours it would prevent HIV infection if the guy did happen to be HIV positive. Just wow and sad .
@@Stevengomez-j6q can’t be any more uncomfortable than the conversation of being told u have HIV and then having to tell everyone u sleep with? SURELY?
Jesus you’re so beautiful too 🥺 I’m so sorry you’re going through this. What a horrible person to even do that! I don’t understand how people are okay with playing with peoples lives like that. God have mercy on him. I pray you get to live a long life and still live it normally and have a husband and family ❤
Things have changed so much with HIV/AIDS treatments, I see people with this virus living long, healthy, and happy lives. This horrible virus killed my great aunt, she had it for 15+ years without knowing and wasn't receiving treatment. By the time they caught it, it was too late. Thankfully it is NOT like that anymore if a person stays compliant with treatment. You're absolutely radiant and I'm wishing you a long, happy, and fulfilling life ❤
I am sooo happy you have a man, my brother has this and I want him to know he can still find love after the fact...people can be soo much better characters than we are to ourselves with how they love us more than we love our own selves.
@keelahcovington4185 that’s the point about the medical tests of it being undetectable- undetectable it’s not active at a level it can be spread. You can be 99.999999% or more of not contracting it. I personally if I was faced with the choice would consider being intimate unprotected for having a child - I’d not have the peace of mind in other scenarios personally but there’s couples who’ve been safe for many years with regular tests and of course continuous retro viral therapy
Nevermind the comments of people asking how many times are you going to make the same video! I have watched 2 and scared straight! This story needs to be pounded into the heads of both men and women! This could have happend to anybody! Keep telling your story so it doesn't become their story 💯
Absolutely. This is so important for people to hear. If she wants to make a video daily saying the same thing, GOOD! Again, people NEED to listen to this message.
I don't think people care anymore and I think videos like this push that narrative. The way she is talking as if she just had a bad day. People make it seems as though it's just another seasonal cold and no big deal. Odd times we live in.
I respect her so much , because a lot of people are not honest with there status so for her to be brave like this ! It’s nothing but respect and blessings ❤️
Thank you for the prayer i enjoy your story i went for my HIV test last week and im negative i am grateful to God for giving me another chance in life God bless you always queen ❤❤🎉
Sharing your story is important, there’s a lot of stigma around HIV. but lowkey, I hated patients who didn’t want to disclose the names of their partners. That was definitely the most stressful part of my job as a contact tracer because I went super hard when it came to stuff like this. I could have a username, a nick name, and with a phone number, we searched up whatever we could find to locate people. People want to “protect” people who didn’t protect them and I literally wanted to fight the air.
Omg I can't believe he was intentionally going to college parties to infect innocent young people, that's actually disgusting and evil. Well done for sharing and alerting it to health professionals, wish you love❤.
Oh wow! I learned so much by just watching this video. Had no clue that there were multiple variations of HIV. Your story is beyond touching and you’re such a light in a dark world. I’m so sorry you went through this. The thing is you’re choosing to be victorious through your situation. Millions more people need to hear your story. ❤❤❤
@@LivingOrganismFromMarsAndVenus Father God we come to you in the name of Jesus your son Lord we lift up your name, you are the King of Kings, the alpha, the omega and we stand in agreement and pray for Misiu, please refresh her spirit lord grant her a fresh anointing and let her know she is never alone, you will never leave her or forsake her because you love her God. You love her, you love her children you love her family. In every hard time you are standing with her, in every moment of pain you are close to the broken hearted. Father God you promise that your yoke is easy and burden is light please carry her burdens for her lord, when her spirit is tired let her know you are there and you are listening to every prayer. Please bless her financially Lord so that she may provide for her family and testify about the goodness of God. Lord heal any sicknesses in her body mind or spirit and allow your peace to rest upon her. In Jesus name. Amen ❤️
The takeaway lesson is that informed consent is a real thing. Especially when someone mainly a woman is intoxicated/drunk. In 2024, if you can't recall having sex but know or feel like you did, then insist on him getting tested that day or start the process of reporting it as a high-risk sexual exposure to the health clinic. This way you can be put on medication to STOP an HIV INFECTION from taking hold in your body.
You could have called the Police and let them know he's positive for HIV and spreading it to other women and he could have gotten some kind of murder charge, and it depends on what state you live in!
Sorry my sister. U will be OK as long as U take care of yourself. I've been hiv since 89. U can do it 👍🏾4 me, APTTMH, or u may know him as GOD 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾✌🏿
You blessed so many people with this, not only with your illness but anyone who is facing a unfavorable medical diagnosis. you are amazing for your boldness and for giving HIV a new face. Be blessed!! I’m so glad you took this trial and made it into triumph
Thank the universe for protecting me amongst my ho days. Also when I was dating my ex for 4 years and who was on hard drugs and cheating on me. My new boyfriend and I get our bloodwork done ever year, not because we don’t trust each other but we do it for ourselves to stay healthy.
So beautiful to see such a lovely woman shedding light on a topic that is so taboo to talk about. I hope in some way he is exposed and stopped. May God continue to be glorified through your story❤God bless you beautiful
2020 came and ended him. 2020😘 | 2024😘 and 2025😘 ..... planet pluto returns 😘 =play no games. The spin is he died from kidney / covid related illness WHAT I DONT understand ; he is on RUclips and other media outlets talking about MAGA in 2019 ( bandwagon for trump re-election in 2020) with a 💍💍wedding ring on. so people who knew him in media see he was married.🙅♂🙅♀ he also had all the signs of narcissism + those who know eyes of a DL man. anyways there is a "young and naive" tax out there. that people like him take advantage of in Hollywood and in real life
I would never have intimate relations with anyone even my partner without protection. People lie all the time, even if they pretend they "love you". Rather be safe than sorry.
He had a lot of nerve to turn things around on you and say you’re negative…god some people are just literal scum ..you holding yourself together well thanks for sharing this
Very manipulative!! I had someone do the bs to me… caught him with another woman thank god I left that and got myself tested… I was lucky cause now that I think about it he could’ve been with multiple women but he was such a good manipulator
You’re amazing! The prayer at the end was beautiful. May Jesus continue to strengthen you and heal your body from within. You are truly a beautiful light in this world!!❤
I’m really surprised that America doesn’t test for HIV before treating other diseases. I’ve watched many HIV stories from America and they’re all the same… In South Africa, the first thing they do is a mandatory HIV test. It’s absolutely criminal that they wait until you’re in the AIDS stage to detect it. Glad you’re doing better now! ❤
@@Funnyguyhithere That’s very scary and unacceptable! I think it has to do with the stigma of HIV and the false idea that “it isn’t that common” in America.
@@Funnyguyhithereif you ask to be tested they will test. Every time I’m in emergency room or at a clinic I make sure to ask for HIV testing I don’t care how many times I have been tested already I still ask because you never know
That’s what they do for everything. Even cancer, they deny symptoms till the cancer spreads everywhere in your body and then they wanna do something and then it could be too late.
I took a test 3 yrs ago and it was negative after that I decided to just fall back haven't had sex in 3 years but I'm watching hella porn people can say what they want about porn but its keeping me safe and healthy
Exactly! P0rn and toys are 100 times safer , it’s scary out here with these people who don’t GAF about you. They will infect you , simply bc they are miserable.
You are incredible, thank you for sharing your story. You know, you didn’t create HIV, innocent people of all ages can get it and do get it, you will still have a beautiful life, this is your time your life if you choose to look at the bigger picture, HIV will be so minuscule.
You are very brave coming out to tell your story and share advice. I will pray for you and ask God to give you the strength to carry on giving you courage to keep being positive
You deserve to be on this earth. Thank you for making this video. You are such a warrior for your testimony. And after sharing you prayed god bless you Bianca’s you keep sharing your strength.
Keep speaking your truth, a lot of people going to come out of the closet with diagnosis they are hiding your beautiful god bless you on ur journey bringing light to this subject takes hella courage these key board warriors a joke in comment section.
The hardest thing for me has been getting mental health treatment and housing. I live in West Virginia and I’ve been homeless for over a year. I receive my treatment at the Ryan White center in Charleston and there’s supposed to be moneys allocated from the RWI to help me with expenses however getting the assistance is evidently a super secret undercover operation. lol hence my name… I rotate between couches of my last 2 close family members. It’s hell. I am 52 years old and retired from teaching kindergarten and have found myself in a place I never ever thought I would be. Alone, no vehicle, no place to call my own and running out of hope. I ask for your prayers please and any advice or information about resources that are impossible to obtain.
Stop commenting on the internet looking toward a narcissist for answers she just getting a check off us all I’m done disliking her videos. Go look for a good job.
@@JanesBlonde-007 go back to teaching and get back to living. Most people won’t stigmatize you in 2024. And it’s also no one’s business. These kids are bad as hell and teachers are in desperate need.
A God ordained marriage when God is the center. Let's be honest you can be married to someone in the church and he or she give you HIV it is about the heart of a person and their love for God and the word .
I started following you after someone i was dating revealed they were HIV positive after we broke up. I would love to see videos on living with HIV, how it has changed you, the stigma of being positive and how it affected your relationships with people, do you disclose to everyone, is dating harder. It seems like you upload this same video all the time and keep repeating the same topic
You had a feeling that death warmed over. It's an awful scary feeling. But 🙏 even anything can cause that feeling. Maybe take anti depression meds. You may need that and anti anxiety med. 🙏
I’m sorry for what happened to you and you are so brave to share your story…We need to go back to doing our own background check on a potential future spouses. Growing up in the late nineties early 2000s. I was getting tested religiously and anyone who declined was a Hell no! My motto because it was push in our young minds so much “Know your status” and anyone who did not practice the same you got to go. Now, I see that a lot of young people are so willing to take the chance without a second thought. 5 seconds of pleasure is not worth the rest of your life time being on medication!! Please, people it’s not the end “KNOW YOUR STATUS!!!❤
Omg I’m so sorry. What a horrible person !!! He needs to be punished. He lied about his name, his diagnosis and was still spreading it like candy. Omg 😱
Thank you for sharing your story and your strength. Your courage is truly inspiring, and your words are a powerful reminder that we are all more than our circumstances. Your message speaks life and hope into the hearts of so many. It's a testament to resilience, faith, and the beauty of purpose, even in the face of challenges. May your journey continue to inspire others, and may God’s blessings overflow in your life. You are making a difference, and your voice matters. ❤
There are public health programs that test for HIV and STDs for free. If you're living in Texas, seek your local dshs offices, and Vincent health in Austin provides free testing.
i once had the flu n right away they did an hiv test. i was like huh? but thank god they did because it gave me a peace of mind. i do testing so often and i been with the same person for decade but i always think its better to get tested no matter what. plus i work in a place that i deal with body fluids so im scared of that too
You look well, girl. Happy to see you have a man. So sorry for everything that happened to you. Your story helped me being extra cautious. From now on, before I'm intimate with anyone, they need to get tested for everything.
I don't even know if testing is always good enough because sometimes someone has and it doesn't show up on the test I think. Some sichos pull the condom off at the last second just to infect other people
I just want to say that you're extremely beautiful and I'm really sorry that man put you through this. I appreciate you being bold and brave and showcasing how life doesn't end after a positive diagnosis! But most importantly I truly appreciate your honesty. I hope young ppl can learn from this since they seem to be more reckless with sex.
My dad made sure my husband got tested before we got married. I was a virgin. Its stories like this that make me see the importance of abstinence.
Good job papa! You have a great dad.
God bless your dad
While I'm practicing abstinence as well & definitely know that it cuts the risk dramatically, there are unfortunately people's spouses that are infecting them as well. 😓 Some spouses are tragically worse than strangers, because they intimately know you, entered into covenant with you, and yet still do you dirty. Dirtier than sometimes even a stranger would, smh.
So big ups to your dad! I LOVE that! That's a kind of protection I wish all daughters could experience from their dads. 🤍
@KelahCash yes so true.. I actually heard a story from my friend.. she was taking care of a young lady in a nursing home because she got aids from her husband so I definitely agree. But by practising abstinence atleast if it happens we can say we didn't do anything wrong and not feel guilt or regret. Also it lowers chances of getting hpv etc
Awesome ⭐
I think a lot of teens and young adults need to watch this for educative purposes
Absolutely agree. Might show my daughters.
Educational
yeah
We did in middle school 😂
It's not just teens and young adults who need to watch this for educational purposes. 🙄
I like how she jumped right into it.
Yes!! And without saying “let’s jump right into it” after they’ve talked for 3 mins 😂😅
Yaass
@@tessa7778she was on point and that’s what it should be, don’t need all these long drawn out stories
@@melissajones5053 exactly
Same
1 night of passion can cause a lifetime of PAIN......This is what Momma told me and i hear her voice in my ears......Thank you momma Rip 🙏🏿
My mom told me this too! 😮
my mom said this too. I believe it was a slogan for a while.
My mom told me the same thing! Thankfully I listen to her wise advice!
She literally said she was in a relationship with him
I'm happy she is a realistic face to HIV. So many people think you can tell if someone is positive and never believe someone so beautiful would be positive.
Exactly!!!
The devil was the most beautiful angel...let's not forget all things that glitter ain't gold. N no, I didn't call her a devil
Make up is beautiful, got it. Her hairline is further back than mine
Too much fake beauty these days. Now with AI I feel for all ya gullible people. Getting scammed on the daily
nah, u can tell, it shows in their skin, its a reason she cakes her face in make up
Is he in jail? Because intentionally infecting people with HIV is a crime.
He passed away.
His name was King Face, he was a coconut and now he is in the ground
@ChocolateBabe_
She wanted a high value man like all the rest of you women. She got what she wanted.
@@SimplyLetitaaahow he passed
@@baddboo8866 think about it.
Wow the fact that he said don’t worry you can’t get me sick. Is sad and disgusting knowing what he did and had no remorse.I have no words
Yeah can’t get him sick because he already is 😕 awful
Condoms condoms condoms people, protecting yourself will always be your responsibility. I always hear people claim they get tested for HIV and other STIs often, but my question is always: but that will not stop you from catching HIV if you’re gonna sleep with people you didn’t get tested
@@rainmaker6434 when there are growing cases of men removing condoms or purposely damaging them without her knowing, choking without her consent and accidental pregnancies, it makes no sense to continue advocating to sleep with men. Why is rare pleasure (because majority of women dont even orgasm with men) more important than your safety and well being? stop doing that with men if you care about your safety.
@@zooweellama You obviously are attracted to dangerous and irresponsible men, the Pookies and the Ray Rays will always chock you and remove condoms because they have nothing to lose. They are not afraid of prison, STIs and getting you pregnant, and even bailing on you after they get you pregnant. There’s a lot of good guys there, don’t let your poor choice in men paint all men with the same brush
@@zooweellama plus the fact she went ahead and slept w him so quickly…… well like they say to prevent stds is abstinence especially in this type of situation.
Why are ppl on here trying to refute this ladies story on how she got HIV? WHO cares how many times she’s sharing it. Kudos to her for actually sharing it. It’s ppl out here knowingly spreading it without disclosing they have it. Damn ppl are never satisfied in this world. Damned if you do damned if you don’t.
DR ABIOLA ON RUclips CURED ME PERMANENTLY FROM HIV #DRABIOLA ...
@trice....U are talking nonsense!who in de comment is refuting dis lady s hiv story?
That makes me sad. Your so Beautiful and it's very hard out there and he should have been honest with you. There was a guy in Wisconsin that gave it to my sisters friends sister. Like 15 yrs or so ago. Now. By the Good Grace of God 🙏 there is medication for it. Now. None of us know, if we sleep with someone if they would be honest and tell a person they have HIV. There is a girl on you tube that I follow and I need to look up her name. BRB.
because everybody's got a grift. we all need one actually. wouldn't surprise me if this was hers. she's on here like hiv is new. hiv ain't new. it's been around since the 70's, but everybody's STILL slinging juice like it don't matter. those involuntary spasms FEEL good, but they can get you KILLED.
@@LollyMadikiza-xw4okRight. If anything, I would question how the ex boyfriend got it.
If he wasn’t born with it, or contracted it intravenously, I would bet 1M dollars he’s DL. (Caught it from a dude). It’s not impossible, and should NEVER be tested, because you CAN… but it’s VERY hard to get HIV from a woman. Not that many women out here having anal sex. He got it from a dude and he did a TERRIBLE thing knowingly infecting her like that.
Every story I’ve come across thus far where some raggedy azz man gave a woman HIV, it eventually came out that he was in fact DL. They get exposed by the partners. Crazy.
I like this gal. She has a beautiful mind set.
My sister died from AIDS. Contracted from a man in and out of prison… when we found out, doctors gave her 30 days… she lived 34 days…. Well fortunately for him, they give you meds in prison. RIP sis!!!
Protect yourself because others won’t
@@mrsoatzinc me to, no meds for her out here but he was taken care of. This was the early 90's and fortunitly this have changed.
@@cappykarma1754 ❤️💜
My deepest condolences. I’m so sorry.🙏🏽😢
@@jazminivery2519 thank you for your kind words, stay safe out here🙏🏽
You’re so welcome.❤
This type of stuff actually happens all the time. I worked in public health as an RN for years. Men are on the DL having sex with HIV positive men then unprotected sex with their gf’s/wives. Absolutely horrible.
Yup this is true! That’s how it’s spreading and then they don’t be wanting to wear a condom.
Terrible criminals
@@janecampbell5021 Condoms are far from 100% effective. The only way that is 100% effective is to not have sex with someone that has _____ (whatever) STD. Abstain, and if that's not possible, don't engage in promiscuity, especially within demographics where the incident rates are highest. Test yourself and your next partner prior, along with having open and honest communication about sexual history etc..
You mean women having sex with 3-2 at once
YEP!!!!!!!!!
That man should be in jail for life
I'm almost positive that he's passed. His family said it was from complications with COVID, but maybe the complications were in conjuction w/ HiV
@@IcyTechNique Probably both since HIV weakens the immune system
@@rarity-bo8pk True. And considering he was spreading it like wildfire, it's safe to assume he was not taking care of the virus and taking the immunosuppressants.
so he lied about his name, uou knew where he lived though.
🙏🫶
I am so happy that you didn’t let HIV definying you, that’s the right thing to do girl ❤
This why cheating is disgusting, this is why you don’t cheat
My story has nothing to do with cheating, however, yes it is immoral and outside of God’s will.
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ yea Ik you didn’t cheat I’m just saying overall, sleeping around with multiple women which what kingface did, was disgusting on his behalf, your so beautiful you didn’t deserve to be manipulated like that, he wasn’t a real man
People only bring up the Lord after they have committed so many sins. Having many partners, drinking, parties, so after they contracted an incurable disease is when the Lord comes in. Garage.
@@TheStpeteboy But that's exactly why Jesus died on the cross. For us sinners! We have HIM to turn to and it's never too late to turn to Christ.
@@godleads1 I am sorry I am not a religious person that was the point I was trying to make is that people go to religion once they have fallen in deep waters. It's not ok if you're a grown person to use that as a pass to righteousness. Man up or woman up and say I was bad that's why I got HIV with no excuse.
This was sad to hear , she is so strong for sharing this story 🤦🏾♂️
I’ve never been so happy to be celibate! People in this world don’t care, especially if you’re not taking precautions yourself. I thank God daily that God kept me through my life making these types of careless decisions and that this wasn’t my story. I do pray for this lady and other people dealing with these situations.
It's hard...Very hard being celibate especially when you were smashing before.
But I have been for one year now and it's not like I don't wanna get smashed again.
But when you meet fine people you are cool with and vibing and just ask for a test, they bolt off.
I can't force anyone to do it either.
So I keep to myself and take my mind off smashing in the meantime.
@stanleynzerue8705 wow that's weird who bolts off from getting tested
@@stanleynzerue8705 oh wow if they don’t want to get teated and run off, count your blessings.
@@zalinawashington7446 I've had people who bolted at the mention of us getting tested.
I thank GOD I'm 12 years celibate it was very hard at first but what made it easier I got fill with the Holy Spirit Now GOD told me I'm about to meet my GODLY Husband thanks GOD ❤️🙌
You were fooled by a narcissist. He never cared about you.A person who loves you doesn't HARM you.Its beyond Abuse.
He must have been very good looking. We have a superficial society that causes people to chase after good looking people while not valuing character and moral virtue. And this causes so much pain and suffering. It's a lesson some have to learn the hard way.
An unfortunate situation (there's plenty of ppl living with HIV/AIDS but they literally do everything in their power to make sure their partner is safe because they love & care for their partner)
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Thank you Captain Obvious!
Just sounds like a person who doesn't care
You should do a day in the life of a woman with HIV. Or self care videos. How you eat any supplements you take to stay healthy and your skincare routine cause you have really great skin
@@Beauutyy1 yess ty boo! I want to transition to vlogging I’m just highkey nervous 🙈
So blame yourself nobody else
Hope you learned your lesson
@@nilsahernandez2974why be mean??
@@mariejane1567 is jot being mean
You can do wrong and ecpect prople to feel sorry for yiu
@@nilsahernandez2974 wrong how?
A 37 year old man still going to college parties? I am losing hope for this generation 😢
It’s so common unfortunately. Older men stay around college areas even living in affiliate housing and lying about their age.
Lmao how is a 37 year old man apart of this generation? Y'all say anything. I bet that's closer to your age... that's your generation!
@@stevenwilliams8931they love projecting everything on us 😂. Don’t even make sense.
This is so disturbing what this man did. I’m grateful she is sharing her story. I work with young men and women that are dating. Education in this area, as well as discernment is so crucial.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
He's a predator
This story is wild, glad you’re thriving in spite of it all!
Bianca you're absolutely inspiring. Sharing this in a world so full of ignorance is such a breath of fresh air. Rooting for you and your journey educating others about HIV!
Man, this story really breaks my heart. I got anxiety just hearing the build up to getting the result. I hope the best for this young lady.
No same so scary
@@jaydapinkett7606😂 women who work at the. Club are nasty SALOPPPP
I was so pleasantly surprised by the prayer at the end. I’m so happy that you are part of the body of Christ. May God continue to bless and use your voice for His glory! 🙏🏽
Just because she prayed doesn't mean she is born again though I hope she truly is.
It’s the fact that every time my status comes back negative for HIV. It makes me want to know the realization of what it’s like for someone else to have it. Teaching myself a lesson I’m thankful for these stories.
Y'all still be smashing raw though
The good news is being HIV positive is not the death sentence that it used to be when I was a teenager. You can live a long healthy life with treatment. Be well and be awesome! 👍
I keep hearing that it's not a death sentence. It's a chronic illness that you can drop dead from live with the rest of your life.
Go girl!!! Some ppl take this diagnosis and let it ruin them. Just seeing you shine your way through it and not let it define you, is amazing. God is definitely using you❤❤ ive never known anyone personally that has HIV but you just seem amazing!! Amen sis❤
Keep warning people because what they're not talking about. it only takes one time. we love you sis. sorry this happen. i believe for your miracle healing, people do heal.
Abstinence is best safety precaution if you are not sure you have a truly faithful spouse.
I was sexually abused growing up and now I’m terrified I may have some sort of disease that I don’t know of even tho I’ve never had sex
I know someone who was infected by a “faithful spouse”. 😕
@@HeavenlySunset24why arent u grtting tested??
@@HeavenlySunset24 it is important u get checked out if you have been in contact with semen
That’s not true, HIV AIDs is a sexually transmitted disease. Anyone having sex is at risk for contracting the virus even if you abstain from sex until marriage. There’s no guarantee that in marriage partners will be faithful. Im a christian & know plenty of ppl in & outside the church who have had infidelity issues in their marriage. Abstinence doesn’t guarantee faithfulness in marriages, for Christ sake remember we’re all sinners, but by the grace God we’re saved and made anew. We’re human beings with flaws. It does teach great values in faith in God, self worth & self control though. But abstinence isn’t the only way to by itself. Choosing partners wisely, couples coaching and urging couples to get 6 months STD testing aids in the education of sexual health. The church needs to be more transparent and truthful when it comes to sex & sexual health; half the church is sleeping around with each other anyways. But that’s common with any large group of ppl in any organization, unfortunately that’s human nature.
My mom was HIV positive during time before we had social media. You are beautiful and helping other people especially black women. You are such bright soul. He gone get his. ❤
He already did he passed a year after infecting her from a kidney infection. His name is king face aka Larry Henry he was known in the music industry.
@@jessicahonorat5970I looked him up. This guy looks charming. Geez.
@@jessicahonorat5970what!!! Let me look that up
@@jessicahonorat5970 the ex bf from vid died?
*women. Why blk women when she is clearly not blk.
That guy needs to be dealt with that evil. Sorry this happened to you.😢.I admire your bravery to bring awareness and stand in courage to fight it.
I’m so proud of you Alchemizing this into love , strength and using it as a testimony to help others. He expected it to take you out and destroy your self esteem but it didn’t. God was with you the whole time. Your angels. Forces of evil truly sets traps for us to suck the light out of us. Thank you for your resilience. You are a being of light.
I have to applaud you young lady you got tough skin. I also respect that fact that you are not making excuses for what happened to you. Thank you for your honesty
Men (narcissists)sleep around with many people to cover up their insecurities, inadequacies, and brokenness. They don't care about catching diseases nor giving them to you. I was afraid I would catch something from my last husband who was a malignant narc. My mom used to tell me to use protection with him but I was afraid of how he would react if I had. I ended up leaving him. It was a horrible relationship even after I left him. I'm sorry that happened to you. God bless you!
Men be sleeping w men.
@@Fever_Dreamz Yes, some do. And? HIV is not only spread between men who sleep with men. This isn't the 80s.
It is People, not men!
If they sleep with a lot of women that means there's lot of women willing to sleep with them, it takes two to tango
Found the misandrist
They need to have a website or record list like sex offenders list for people spreading without consent.
It wouldn't matter 1 bit. Rso's hav more protection than u could every imagine. Don't ask me how I know...
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that’s against hippa
@@lyricimaniiatp, HIV should not be hippa protected. The only things that should be hippa protected are non transmutable viruses. All STIs should be public cuz this is just wrong
I'm glad she had the strength to talk to everybody about this . This is real thank you for for your inspiration and strength. God bless you
God bless you too!! 🩷🩷
Really appreciate breaking down the signs and symptoms as this needs to be taken seriously!
So strong of you to educate those who need educating 🙏🏾
I love that so many young people get online and tell their stories, it’s so important.
My little sister told me she was with a guy who told her after they had sex that he thinks he has HIV/AIDS and she freaked out, BUT never got tested. Now she’s seeing someone and I told her you need to get tested and she said she won’t. I kept telling her to, and she won’t listen to me. So right now I’m not talking to her and I feel like she needs to get tested to know her status and find out for sure. I asked her if she was going to call the cops on him and she said no. So he’s still out there and she keeps seeing guys. It’s ridiculous and horrible.
Omg! 🤦🏾♀️ is there something you can do? That is crazy.
@@sunildadelossantos6583 I live in a different state and I have no clue who the guy is she’s with now. I wish she would get tested to know for sure, but unfortunately because I know my sister she won’t and she won’t tell him about it. She already has Herpes and one of her ex boyfriends got it from her and she was laughing about it and he hung himself because of it. She’s completely psycho.
@@Justthefurofusfind out who her boyfriend is, echoed her social media page, whatever you can do, also call the police out of state and tell them she is intentionally spreading STDs. You must stop her!
That's crazy your sister should've want to the E.R and told them what the guy told her so she could've got medication , if she had taken the medication within 72 hours it would prevent HIV infection if the guy did happen to be HIV positive. Just wow and sad .
@@Desireexhoneyit takes only ONE intimate session.
HIV tests are also available over the counter at your local pharmacy. I really do not understand why people refuse to test with partners.
Bc it's an uncomfortable conversation
@@Stevengomez-j6q True but I rather have an uncomfortable conversation for 10 minutes Vs then having an uncomfortable life for the rest of your life.
I didn't know this
@@heycris5833 people get angry and defensive when you bring up std
@@Stevengomez-j6q can’t be any more uncomfortable than the conversation of being told u have HIV and then having to tell everyone u sleep with? SURELY?
Jesus you’re so beautiful too 🥺 I’m so sorry you’re going through this. What a horrible person to even do that! I don’t understand how people are okay with playing with peoples lives like that. God have mercy on him. I pray you get to live a long life and still live it normally and have a husband and family ❤
Things have changed so much with HIV/AIDS treatments, I see people with this virus living long, healthy, and happy lives. This horrible virus killed my great aunt, she had it for 15+ years without knowing and wasn't receiving treatment. By the time they caught it, it was too late. Thankfully it is NOT like that anymore if a person stays compliant with treatment. You're absolutely radiant and I'm wishing you a long, happy, and fulfilling life ❤
You’re beautiful. Glad to see he didn’t break your spirit.
I am sooo happy you have a man, my brother has this and I want him to know he can still find love after the fact...people can be soo much better characters than we are to ourselves with how they love us more than we love our own selves.
So long as it’s undetectable he can have a safe healthy relationship and can even have children ❤ wish your brother a happy future !
Yeah HIV+ isn't as bad as AIDS which is like stage 3 or 4 cancer in comparison
@keelahcovington4185 that’s the point about the medical tests of it being undetectable- undetectable it’s not active at a level it can be spread. You can be 99.999999% or more of not contracting it. I personally if I was faced with the choice would consider being intimate unprotected for having a child - I’d not have the peace of mind in other scenarios personally but there’s couples who’ve been safe for many years with regular tests and of course continuous retro viral therapy
Undetectable means it can’t be spread! Even HIV+ women who are undetectable can carry a baby without passing on the virus.
No. If you are UNDETECTABLE you can have unprotected sex. You can also take medication that will PREVENT infection.
Nevermind the comments of people asking how many times are you going to make the same video! I have watched 2 and scared straight! This story needs to be pounded into the heads of both men and women! This could have happend to anybody! Keep telling your story so it doesn't become their story 💯
Absolutely. This is so important for people to hear. If she wants to make a video daily saying the same thing, GOOD! Again, people NEED to listen to this message.
I don't think people care anymore and I think videos like this push that narrative. The way she is talking as if she just had a bad day. People make it seems as though it's just another seasonal cold and no big deal. Odd times we live in.
@@naturelove831🤔
@@naturelove831and so many variations of the story on her page
WE NEED JUSTICE FOR HER!! WE NEED HIM JAILED FOR LIFE!!! Please he will do this to someone else!!
Apparently on another comment somebody said he died in 2020.
Wth. Dude sounds like he literally had demons 🥵
You’re so strong & brave for sharing your story on this platform. It will help so many people. You’re turning your story into power & knowledge.
I find it so inspiring that you are so positive and remain motivated to spread awareness around HIV.
What a wonderful lady you are xx
I respect her so much , because a lot of people are not honest with there status so for her to be brave like this ! It’s nothing but respect and blessings ❤️
😂 it’s good she admitted but I don’t respect her. Women who work at the club are nasty they sleep with everyone then play innocent
Thank you for the prayer i enjoy your story i went for my HIV test last week and im negative i am grateful to God for giving me another chance in life God bless you always queen ❤❤🎉
Sharing your story is important, there’s a lot of stigma around HIV. but lowkey, I hated patients who didn’t want to disclose the names of their partners. That was definitely the most stressful part of my job as a contact tracer because I went super hard when it came to stuff like this. I could have a username, a nick name, and with a phone number, we searched up whatever we could find to locate people. People want to “protect” people who didn’t protect them and I literally wanted to fight the air.
Omg I can't believe he was intentionally going to college parties to infect innocent young people, that's actually disgusting and evil. Well done for sharing and alerting it to health professionals, wish you love❤.
Oh wow! I learned so much by just watching this video. Had no clue that there were multiple variations of HIV. Your story is beyond touching and you’re such a light in a dark world. I’m so sorry you went through this. The thing is you’re choosing to be victorious through your situation. Millions more people need to hear your story. ❤❤❤
HIV1 most common and treatable. HIV 2 difficult to treat.
This popped up on my suggested. You're so beautiful. Thank you for sharing. I pray your life is so good.
thanks to dr abiola for curin me completely from hivthanks to dr abiola for curin me completely from hiv
No one has ever prayed for me. Thank you.❤
Are you serious I always pray for you
I'll pray for you right now, but know that Jesus is always praying for you, too. ❤
This comment broke my heart 😭 what’s your name?
@@AlessandraHernandezz I'm Misiu.
@@LivingOrganismFromMarsAndVenus Father God we come to you in the name of Jesus your son Lord we lift up your name, you are the King of Kings, the alpha, the omega and we stand in agreement and pray for Misiu, please refresh her spirit lord grant her a fresh anointing and let her know she is never alone, you will never leave her or forsake her because you love her God. You love her, you love her children you love her family. In every hard time you are standing with her, in every moment of pain you are close to the broken hearted. Father God you promise that your yoke is easy and burden is light please carry her burdens for her lord, when her spirit is tired let her know you are there and you are listening to every prayer. Please bless her financially Lord so that she may provide for her family and testify about the goodness of God. Lord heal any sicknesses in her body mind or spirit and allow your peace to rest upon her. In Jesus name. Amen ❤️
One word PROTECTION!!! Now repeat after me PROTECTION. Thank you. Goodnight.
I’m so livid just listening to this. How cruel men can be. Makes me want to keep staying single. I’m sorry you went through that
Even more cruel than this. Let's not miss this part!
Women do it too!
@@reddj002 I never said they don’t
The takeaway lesson is that informed consent is a real thing. Especially when someone mainly a woman is intoxicated/drunk. In 2024, if you can't recall having sex but know or feel like you did, then insist on him getting tested that day or start the process of reporting it as a high-risk sexual exposure to the health clinic. This way you can be put on medication to STOP an HIV INFECTION from taking hold in your body.
These women given up the raw pussy to quick
You could have called the Police and let them know he's positive for HIV and spreading it to other women and he could have gotten some kind of murder charge, and it depends on what state you live in!
She reported him to department of health but he was using a fake name the entire time.
@@SA-ju5rn But wasn't he a reasonably well known social media star? Should have been easy to find.
@@SA-ju5rnshe knew his address, he could've been easily found
@@Kristin2885exactly .. or find his name through the podcaster who was blackmailing her. idk
Sorry my sister. U will be OK as long as U take care of yourself. I've been hiv since 89. U can do it 👍🏾4 me, APTTMH, or u may know him as GOD 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾✌🏿
You blessed so many people with this, not only with your illness but anyone who is facing a unfavorable medical diagnosis. you are amazing for your boldness and for giving HIV a new face. Be blessed!! I’m so glad you took this trial and made it into triumph
Wow, my motto is "No STD test= No unprotected sex". Thank you for sharing.
You need to get tested every 3 months twice to know.. because the person may have got the virus a few days before the test and it won’t show 🥴
@@jedidjab4346 The other issue is that there is no test for men when it comes to HPV, which can cause cancer if you get the wrong strain.
Thank the universe for protecting me amongst my ho days. Also when I was dating my ex for 4 years and who was on hard drugs and cheating on me. My new boyfriend and I get our bloodwork done ever year, not because we don’t trust each other but we do it for ourselves to stay healthy.
The universe didn't protect you, Jesus Christ did.
GIRL you and me BOTH! I had HPV and almost had a heart attack! It cleared up but still.
Definitely God , universe had nothing to do with it. He was protecting me too in my hoe phase and mine lasted a long time
I thank God for protecting me, teenages can be so naive.
I can't believe how stupid i use to be. I would never in my life risk my health like that.
So beautiful to see such a lovely woman shedding light on a topic that is so taboo to talk about. I hope in some way he is exposed and stopped. May God continue to be glorified through your story❤God bless you beautiful
I think number one rule is be careful who you trust, and use protection all the time even with your partner.
Protection????
The only things that protect you are Prep/similar medicines and, uhmm- eh hem- self-care (lotion)!!!!
@@New__TranZ__Order yup its called a condom, don't know if you heard about it
Agreed
@@New__TranZ__Orderbut there’s no female prep right 😭😭😭
@@dasedworld Why are you triggered????
What about my comment do you derive gender biasing????
Girl, you're gorgeous, you're strong and so intelligent! Thank you sharing your experience so openly!
He was really trynna end you 😩😩 I’m so glad you have the confidence to be so open.. may god continue to bless you and uplift you ❤️
2020 came and ended him. 2020😘 | 2024😘 and 2025😘 ..... planet pluto returns 😘 =play no games.
The spin is he died from kidney / covid related illness
WHAT I DONT understand ; he is on RUclips and other media outlets talking about MAGA in 2019 ( bandwagon for trump re-election in 2020) with a 💍💍wedding ring on. so people who knew him in media see he was married.🙅♂🙅♀ he also had all the signs of narcissism + those who know eyes of a DL man.
anyways there is a "young and naive" tax out there. that people like him take advantage of in Hollywood and in real life
The fact u got tested the day before you met him is nuts
that's good cuz you should get tested with every new person you are active with👍
She’s lying
He should have tested too before intercourse
I would never have intimate relations with anyone even my partner without protection. People lie all the time, even if they pretend they "love you". Rather be safe than sorry.
@@DavejrJr-pf2ddyeah can’t trust anyone nowadays 😭
While i feel bad for you, i'm very VERY HAPPY that you HAVE SOMEONE in your life. It doesn't have to be a lonely trip.
He had a lot of nerve to turn things around on you and say you’re negative…god some people are just literal scum ..you holding yourself together well thanks for sharing this
Very manipulative!! I had someone do the bs to me… caught him with another woman thank god I left that and got myself tested… I was lucky cause now that I think about it he could’ve been with multiple women but he was such a good manipulator
You’re amazing! The prayer at the end was beautiful. May Jesus continue to strengthen you and heal your body from within. You are truly a beautiful light in this world!!❤
I’m really surprised that America doesn’t test for HIV before treating other diseases. I’ve watched many HIV stories from America and they’re all the same…
In South Africa, the first thing they do is a mandatory HIV test.
It’s absolutely criminal that they wait until you’re in the AIDS stage to detect it.
Glad you’re doing better now! ❤
I 100% agree with you. In America is the last thing they test for and I’ve never understood this. They will run every other test, except and HIV test!
@@Funnyguyhithere That’s very scary and unacceptable! I think it has to do with the stigma of HIV and the false idea that “it isn’t that common” in America.
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@@Funnyguyhithereif you ask to be tested they will test. Every time I’m in emergency room or at a clinic I make sure to ask for HIV testing I don’t care how many times I have been tested already I still ask because you never know
That’s what they do for everything. Even cancer, they deny symptoms till the cancer spreads everywhere in your body and then they wanna do something and then it could be too late.
I took a test 3 yrs ago and it was negative after that I decided to just fall back haven't had sex in 3 years but I'm watching hella porn people can say what they want about porn but its keeping me safe and healthy
It keeps you std free, but it doesn’t seem to keep you spiritually free, that’s the only thing with watching porn.
@@lovellestinnette maybe u right I rather be std free and unspiritially then have STDs and be spiritually
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Don't forget Toys, shit save lives 🎉
Exactly!
P0rn and toys are 100 times safer , it’s scary out here with these people who don’t GAF about you. They will infect you , simply bc they are miserable.
You are incredible, thank you for sharing your story. You know, you didn’t create HIV, innocent people of all ages can get it and do get it, you will still have a beautiful life, this is your time your life if you choose to look at the bigger picture, HIV will be so minuscule.
You are very brave coming out to tell your story and share advice. I will pray for you and ask God to give you the strength to carry on giving you courage to keep being positive
Thank you, may God bless you for your kindness!
You deserve to be on this earth. Thank you for making this video. You are such a warrior for your testimony. And after sharing you prayed god bless you Bianca’s you keep sharing your strength.
Keep speaking your truth, a lot of people going to come out of the closet with diagnosis they are hiding your beautiful god bless you on ur journey bringing light to this subject takes hella courage these key board warriors a joke in comment section.
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Thank you for the ending prayer, that was deep, needed to hear that.
It actually wasn’t. Just nonsense. She’s got HIV.
The hardest thing for me has been getting mental health treatment and housing. I live in West Virginia and I’ve been homeless for over a year. I receive my treatment at the Ryan White center in Charleston and there’s supposed to be moneys allocated from the RWI to help me with expenses however getting the assistance is evidently a super secret undercover operation. lol hence my name… I rotate between couches of my last 2 close family members. It’s hell. I am 52 years old and retired from teaching kindergarten and have found myself in a place I never ever thought I would be. Alone, no vehicle, no place to call my own and running out of hope. I ask for your prayers please and any advice or information about resources that are impossible to obtain.
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Prayers Lifted for you
Stop commenting on the internet looking toward a narcissist for answers she just getting a check off us all I’m done disliking her videos. Go look for a good job.
@@davesatire who is your comment about?
@@JanesBlonde-007 go back to teaching and get back to living. Most people won’t stigmatize you in 2024. And it’s also no one’s business. These kids are bad as hell and teachers are in desperate need.
37 and going to college parties should have been the biggest red flag!
that was after he gave her HIV....
That's why Holy Marriage is important. Especially if both parties honor their vows until death. Zero cheating for life. Love for God first. Always.
Former HIV case manager here… you can still get HIV in marriage. Plenty of married people cheat on each other and bring STDs into each others lives
Yes, someone who truly loves you
why do people keep bringing up cheating lol you can get HIV as a single person too
A God ordained marriage when God is the center. Let's be honest you can be married to someone in the church and he or she give you HIV it is about the heart of a person and their love for God and the word .
😂😂😂. Omg you a really naive you actually think married people don’t cheat???? Wow 😂😂😂
You are so strong and not to mention you are gorgeous
I started following you after someone i was dating revealed they were HIV positive after we broke up. I would love to see videos on living with HIV, how it has changed you, the stigma of being positive and how it affected your relationships with people, do you disclose to everyone, is dating harder.
It seems like you upload this same video all the time and keep repeating the same topic
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lol look at those videos sooo many view telling how she got it
Well yes. It's same topic because of her symptoms
And she is having inner fear
That person should be in jail that gave it to her honestly
You had a feeling that death warmed over. It's an awful scary feeling. But 🙏 even anything can cause that feeling. Maybe take anti depression meds. You may need that and anti anxiety med. 🙏
@lifeIsaRetreat and did you get tested after they revealed?
No matter how many times you made this video, keep sharing it for people to hear.
God kept you for a reason
Incredibly strong woman, imagine having this 1% of your positivity.
I’m sorry for what happened to you and you are so brave to share your story…We need to go back to doing our own background check on a potential future spouses. Growing up in the late nineties early 2000s. I was getting tested religiously and anyone who declined was a Hell no! My motto because it was push in our young minds so much “Know your status” and anyone who did not practice the same you got to go. Now, I see that a lot of young people are so willing to take the chance without a second thought. 5 seconds of pleasure is not worth the rest of your life time being on medication!! Please, people it’s not the end “KNOW YOUR STATUS!!!❤
Not only are you very beautiful, but you are very brave! These videos are very educational. Hope you're doing well 💗 ❤
Omg I’m so sorry. What a horrible person !!! He needs to be punished. He lied about his name, his diagnosis and was still spreading it like candy. Omg 😱
I would’ve exposed his name cause wtf
Thank you for sharing your story and your strength. Your courage is truly inspiring, and your words are a powerful reminder that we are all more than our circumstances.
Your message speaks life and hope into the hearts of so many. It's a testament to resilience, faith, and the beauty of purpose, even in the face of challenges.
May your journey continue to inspire others, and may God’s blessings overflow in your life. You are making a difference, and your voice matters. ❤
It so backwards how society feels that anything that's real or truth is considered "negative"....stay strong lady
I think they should always test for HIV soon as you go to the ER , America is sad
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Who's gonna pay for that shit?
There are public health programs that test for HIV and STDs for free. If you're living in Texas, seek your local dshs offices, and Vincent health in Austin provides free testing.
i once had the flu n right away they did an hiv test. i was like huh? but thank god they did because it gave me a peace of mind. i do testing so often and i been with the same person for decade but i always think its better to get tested no matter what. plus i work in a place that i deal with body fluids so im scared of that too
@@lexyfox9598 yes
You are a beautiful being inside and out. Your prayer touched my heart, so sincere and thoughtful. Take care of yourself and keep shining! 💫💪🏽❤
Prayers Up 🙏🏾‼️ Sorry that this happened to you, take care stay prayed Up,be Blessed ❤️
I cried listening to her story. Could happen to anyone of us. Thank you for having the courage and fortitude to share your testimony beautiful one
Thank you for sharing your story , sad to hear people like him exist 😢
You look well, girl. Happy to see you have a man. So sorry for everything that happened to you. Your story helped me being extra cautious. From now on, before I'm intimate with anyone, they need to get tested for everything.
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At the end of the day, a test doesn't really matter. Too many people lie and cheat: married, single, DL.
I don't even know if testing is always good enough because sometimes someone has and it doesn't show up on the test I think. Some sichos pull the condom off at the last second just to infect other people
I am so sorry that happened to you. Genuinely sending you love and strength
🫂🩷 thank you. Honestly the other side of that pain has been so beautiful. Thankful im no longer there
Thanks for sharing. Sorry for what you went through . You're really strong
I will never understand how people fuck strangers raw. Disgusting. 🤢
You're so brave for sharing your story. Peace and light to you babe.
Thank you for sharing. Thanks for taking accountability. Thanks for speaking about God and reminding others a positive diagnosis isnt the END. 🙏🏾
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I just want to say that you're extremely beautiful and I'm really sorry that man put you through this. I appreciate you being bold and brave and showcasing how life doesn't end after a positive diagnosis! But most importantly I truly appreciate your honesty. I hope young ppl can learn from this since they seem to be more reckless with sex.
Your hair is soooo pretty 😍 so sorry about your situation. You look amazing!