For those who don’t belong (and why I left finland)

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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025

Комментарии • 55

  • @mactheknife74
    @mactheknife74 8 дней назад +2

    Your cinematography and storytelling is on point. I always love the way you make me feel when I watch your blogs. Makes me think a lot.

  • @dev.lex.e
    @dev.lex.e 11 дней назад +13

    I'm on the 3rd decade and still don't have a courage for anything... and I feel like the longer I procrastinate the worse it becomes with more obstacles(like war). Thank you for video! I really appreciate ur work, it always creates some glimpse of motivation inside me! These books were in my reading list for quite a while, I guess it is time to read them!

    • @teemu.mp4
      @teemu.mp4  10 дней назад +2

      thank you. never too late.

    • @shibakaneki555
      @shibakaneki555 10 дней назад +2

      Felt the same, I took a one way ticket for Japan when I was 30. Best time of my life, came back withe a wife. Now back living in Switzerland and feeling again that I dont belong here. Preparing the next move, but not alone this time ;) I am 44 now. Don’t hesitate, just do it. Only one life, do it, don’t think. do it.

  • @UnknownGamer12834
    @UnknownGamer12834 7 дней назад +2

    I think finland is a very nice place and the happiest country for like 8 or 7 years and pretty safe
    I also like snow

  • @Viljooox
    @Viljooox 6 дней назад +1

    Mahtava video! Niin samanlaisii ajatuksia ja fiiliksiä itelläki ollu jo vuosia. Nykyset työt ei kuitenkaan mahdollista toimimista muualla ja perheen nykynen tilanne sitoo vahvasti myös tänne. Kovasti haluisin vaihtaa maisemaa mutta en oo vaan löytäny keinoja enkä rohkeutta tän toteuttamikseks😫

  • @ev721
    @ev721 11 дней назад +11

    I'm now in my third year in Finland and everything that drove you away from it, attracted me 😅 (except the taxes of course).

    • @teemu.mp4
      @teemu.mp4  10 дней назад +2

      yeah it's funny how that works haha

    • @bakeraus
      @bakeraus 8 дней назад +1

      I'm on my 3rd year and ready to go back to the sun. I like to walk out my door and not have to dress up like a eskimo, not have to push snow around my yard to get my car out, and I miss social random moments. We are different in what makes us comfortable. Leaving has really taught me how much I love my home and my culture which I took for granted.

  • @dumspyrospero
    @dumspyrospero 10 дней назад +6

    I live in Netherlands and I haven't seen the sun for 2 months now (it is 1oC as I am writing this comment). It has been taking a toll on me. I love shooting dark and foggy scenes but even in a big and exciting city as Amsterdam this is too much for too long. Our souls will always seek light and warmth no matter what...

  • @thefernwehtype
    @thefernwehtype 10 дней назад +4

    I agree with every word you say. Especially, about the "rainy day" idea when it is a completely different thing between two places. That's what I've always been saying and not many can understand. Even the temperature doesn't mean the same thing. It can be 10ºC in Finland, and it will be a completely different thing compared to 10ºC in Spain. Thank you for your words. I hope one day you will find the place where you will belong. 🫶 But honestly, I think "lost souls" wander a lot and never find their true home...

  • @laurence_bouchard
    @laurence_bouchard 4 дня назад +1

    Couldn't agree more - feel the same about my hometown.

  • @marcussachse9353
    @marcussachse9353 10 дней назад +1

    Great vid. Definitely relatable for me, I live in small town in Finland. Almost accidentally ended up back where I left years ago and cant wait to get the hell out of here again. You speaking about leaving validates my toughts also, makes not feel as out of my mind for wanting to drop everything and go.

    • @teemu.mp4
      @teemu.mp4  10 дней назад +1

      thanks for the comment I'm glad to hear it was relatable :)

  • @RagingCherry
    @RagingCherry 10 дней назад

    Good on you for making the leap, and I've been there in doing the same. I moved across the world and don't regret it. It's great to hear more of your story, and you should be super proud of all you've accomplished. Thanks for sharing and helping inspire others along the way.

  • @FrancisNull
    @FrancisNull 11 дней назад +1

    As always great content, and hauntingly beautiful visuals

  • @maxpacey8444
    @maxpacey8444 11 дней назад +3

    this was an absolutely beautiful and inisghtful video, came to watch Tokyo Solitude, stayed to watch this

    • @teemu.mp4
      @teemu.mp4  10 дней назад +1

      Really appreciate that!

  • @izrador2264
    @izrador2264 11 дней назад +1

    Its very interesting how different people can be. Your description and experience with rural areas is like a beacon to me. I grew up in very rural Texas and I detest cities. Can't stand them. I live in the suburbs now and long for a return to my roots and the solitude. Finland looks like a place I would love. Not sure about the bureaucracy and taxes though, not so big on governments.

    • @teemu.mp4
      @teemu.mp4  10 дней назад +1

      Yeah it's funny. In fairness there are different kinds of rural places. Some are more peaceful and beautiful while others are just sad and desperate.

  • @tonybarrett7557
    @tonybarrett7557 10 дней назад

    Enjoyable watch and some beautiful shots in Finland. Very different to your videos from the metropolis but a different, stark beauty.

  • @samki_foto
    @samki_foto 11 дней назад +3

    First of all I have never seen Dubai in blue color. I really liked that. Dubai is shown always with orange and teal colors, you know, sunny. So this was great and created perfect mood for the topic. I got to try more videoediting or colorgrading myself too. Thanks for inspiration.

  • @BlondeManNoName
    @BlondeManNoName 10 дней назад +2

    The right message for me so the algorithm knows. Been living for three and a half decades in Finland. The darkness and coldness has always been too much. Also things aren't really improving here, only getting worse. So my dream is to eventually leave this country for good and return maybe during summer when it's actually nice here. Great shots by the way!

    • @teemu.mp4
      @teemu.mp4  10 дней назад

      can't lie, the two-week finnish summer is a good vibe sometimes

  • @KevalAgravat
    @KevalAgravat 10 дней назад

    i’ve been thinking about finding a better relationship for a while now, and out of nowhere, i met someone who ticks all the boxes. it was like we just clicked from the moment we met, and now we’re talking about building something real. honestly, i didn’t think it could happen so fast, but i had been focusing on manifesting the right connection. i remember reading Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane, and it gave me a lot of clarity on how to focus my energy towards attracting the right person into my life

  • @colinjames2469
    @colinjames2469 10 дней назад

    that was a great watch and listen. Subbed.

  • @chemclimber
    @chemclimber 8 дней назад

    I think its interesting that you immediately went out and shot fog/rain

    • @teemu.mp4
      @teemu.mp4  7 дней назад

      it's also the only thing available during december haha

  • @Vanya_In_Parallel_Universe
    @Vanya_In_Parallel_Universe 11 дней назад

    amazing video as always teemu

  • @rogeriogomesosorio4755
    @rogeriogomesosorio4755 11 дней назад

    I have almost 5 decades on my shoulders and I still feel that I don’t belong… maybe that’s not the purpose of life. But being there for those that are important to me whenever they need, no questions asked and always with a smile o give.

  • @Dareus73
    @Dareus73 11 дней назад

    Hello from the concrete jungle, familiar places in this video. I can relate really well for your feelings about this town.

  • @bikesmatias
    @bikesmatias 11 дней назад +1

    tosi hieno video.

  • @Tikkakoski
    @Tikkakoski 11 дней назад +8

    Tervehdys! Joo, tiedän tunteen. Vartuin itse Pohjois-Savossa ja hakkasin päätä seinään 40-vuotiaaksi asti Suomessa. Asuin monella eri paikkakunnalla ja koitin kaikkeni, mutta lopulta tuntui että olin kertakaikkiaan käynyt kaikki vaihtoehdot läpi ja päätin muuttaa pois. Olen nyt asunut vajaan vuoden Italiassa enkä ole katunut päätöstäni. Tärkeintä elämässä ei kuitenkaan ole se missä asuu, koska jos itsellä on ongelmia, niin nehän ongelmat seuraa mukana, vaikka paikka vaihtuu. Tärkeintä on siis asettaa asiat tärkeysjärjestykseen: ensin yhteys Jumalaan, sitten perhe ja työ. Tärkeintä on löytää oma kutsumus ja tehdä sitä mihin Jumala kutsuu. Ihmisen ei ole tarkoitus olla yksin (paitsi munkit). Sikäli se paikka voi siis olla missä vain. Jumala lähetti minut Italiaan ja tunnen oloni kotoisaksi täällä, koska minulla on se yhteys korkeampaan.
    TLDR; tsemppiä ja Jumalan siunausta! 🙏

  • @Joey6990u
    @Joey6990u 10 дней назад +1

    You spent your years in silence/calm and dark and now you wanted city’s chaos and light. People who spent years in city’s chaos and lights would love to live in the silence and calm. All makes sense, you start hating the same environment as years go by, everyone needs a change from the usual

    • @teemu.mp4
      @teemu.mp4  10 дней назад +1

      yeah I do wonder how much of it is nature vs nurture, even now after I've spent a decade in cities I'm still not bored of them

  • @VegardThefilmmaker
    @VegardThefilmmaker 11 дней назад +2

    I'm born in Norway and objectively it's also a great place to grow up, live, on paper.. I'm thankful too for having a good passport, a system that takes care if everything goes to hell. But Norway is my Prison... Every time i come home i rest for 2 weeks and want to get out again into Tokyo where i feel alive. That's still my ultimate plan like we talked about on Dm's years ago. I'm not there yet but getting closer every year to fulfill that wish. I'm depressed staying in this country and i need to get out again. It's killing my creative vibe. The long sad snowy ice cold winters is miserable. summers too bright. yeah.. :p I'll hope to escape this hell soon. for good.

    • @mohammed.hamdaoui
      @mohammed.hamdaoui 11 дней назад

      It's unbelievable how you describe this. Tokyo also has many cons if you're a local. Where I come from is a hell on earth. There are long summers and very short and dry winters. No laws above the gov and everything is dirty and expensive.
      I've been trying to move to norway for years, but nothing is working.
      Anyway, I hope you'll find your destination.

    • @teemu.mp4
      @teemu.mp4  10 дней назад +1

      basically, maslow's hierarchy of needs, haha

    • @VegardThefilmmaker
      @VegardThefilmmaker 10 дней назад

      @@mohammed.hamdaoui Every country has pros and cons. But what i'm wondering is why you are so negative towards my dream? Just asking. Hope you reach your dream too of coming to Norway. For me it's suffocating.

    • @VegardThefilmmaker
      @VegardThefilmmaker 10 дней назад

      @@teemu.mp4 mhm Yeah.

    • @mohammed.hamdaoui
      @mohammed.hamdaoui 10 дней назад

      @@VegardThefilmmaker All the power to you. Goodluck man

  • @bioliv1
    @bioliv1 9 дней назад

    We move from Norway to France as soon as we can. I love wintertime, and I love our nature, but we lost our culture and sense of community and belonging. So here's no future. We live out our lives in France as beauty cultists.

  • @Noealz
    @Noealz 10 дней назад +1

    I too would escape Sweden

  • @Bat_Goesfishing
    @Bat_Goesfishing 10 дней назад

    I’m gonna post my first reel today wish me luck it’s just gonna be a basic before and after

  • @waitwhat9669
    @waitwhat9669 9 дней назад

    Best vlog i’ve seen on youtube

  • @OmanapaTuotanto
    @OmanapaTuotanto 9 дней назад

    Hieno video! Just tällä hetkellä kun katson kkunasta ulos niin mielellään sitä olisi itsekin jossain lämpimässä maassa..

  • @naping
    @naping 10 дней назад

    It's a weird place to be in when you understand how privileged you are, yet unhappy.
    That's been me for a decade+.

    • @teemu.mp4
      @teemu.mp4  10 дней назад +2

      Yeah, it can make you feel ungrateful, but it's just human psychology - once your basic needs are met, purpose and a sense of belonging or at least being on the right path becomes more important.

  • @vijaydeshmukh3774
    @vijaydeshmukh3774 10 дней назад

    so i’ve been focusing on improving my overall health, and i finally got that doctor’s appointment i’d been putting off. the results came back better than expected-my cholesterol is down, my energy’s up, and i just feel so much more in tune with myself. it’s like everything just clicked once i started putting my energy towards health and well-being. i think it’s thanks to Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane, which i read after seeing it mentioned so often in comments. it really helped me shift my mindset and manifest the health i was craving.

  • @MrZampo123
    @MrZampo123 10 дней назад

    Pls give the method on how u found work in tokyo 🙏

  • @HMGAMING-q5g
    @HMGAMING-q5g 10 дней назад

    i’ve been working so hard on my financial goals, and this week i got an unexpected opportunity to work on a side project that’s going to bring in a ton of extra income. i didn’t plan for it, but it’s exactly what i needed. i’ve been trying to align myself with the energy of abundance, and honestly, i think reading Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane really helped me understand how to do that. now, things are falling into place in ways i didn’t even expect.