cleaning & organizing my space! 🌱 (adhd body doubling & motivation)

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  • Опубликовано: 29 июн 2024
  • I have found listening/watching other people chatting and cleaning while I clean has be hugely motivating and helpful! This is because ADHDers benefit from BODY DOUBLING!
    I'm planning to do body doubling live streams more consistently coming up! 🧼🌻
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  • @samanthadyck5214
    @samanthadyck5214 13 дней назад +64

    I get the random urges to clean as well, but sadly it's usually late at night, on days I need to sleep early for work. 😭

    • @maplecake
      @maplecake 13 дней назад +4

      Revenge bedtime procrastination woooo!

    • @samanthadyck5214
      @samanthadyck5214 13 дней назад

      @@maplecake It just makes me procrastinate cleaning, and getting ready for bed, and everything else. 😭💀😆

  • @notgettinganysleep
    @notgettinganysleep 12 дней назад +14

    As a teen with ADHD, OCD, Anxiety, Depression, Tics, and in the middle of a Autism assessment, your videos are SO SO helpful, i really relate to your videos and it helps me feel less alone. I dont really have any neurodivergent friends or people who can relate to me so your videos really help!

    • @hayley.honeyman
      @hayley.honeyman  11 дней назад +3

      That is so wonderful to hear!! 💛 thank you for being here!!!

  • @Amyjwashere
    @Amyjwashere 13 дней назад +11

    I’ve needed some “cleaning motivational” videos lately, I am trying to turn cleaning into a “hobby” so I can feel proud of my apartment! Now instead of only doing dishes and garbage, I now clean about 20 minutes a day working on different tasks.

    • @bonniepaora8664
      @bonniepaora8664 12 дней назад +1

      I love that!! I started paying myself to do the dishes by listening to audiobooks and only allowing myself to listen when im doing something i dont want to do. So now my dishes, showers, washing and general tidying get done a lot more frequently

  • @shortstuffchats
    @shortstuffchats 13 дней назад +27

    Love your content Haley! I am a counsellor and often recommend your content for my neurodivergent clients ^_^ Also your body doubling stream recordings are getting me through the random certificate I decided to pick up lol

    • @hayley.honeyman
      @hayley.honeyman  13 дней назад +3

      THATS SO NICE TO HEAR!! 💕 will definitely be doing weekly live streams again soon!!

    • @shortstuffchats
      @shortstuffchats 13 дней назад +1

      @@hayley.honeyman Woohoo! 🥳

  • @natpositive
    @natpositive 13 дней назад +12

    I love that format so much! Since we share so many things in common especially mentally I try to upload that type of honest friend talk as well more often because that what comes naturally and I do around my friends so much and we have amazing moments through that authentic exchange of ideas, struggles and solutions. RUclips is just perfect for that and I’d love to see your life through that lense so much!

  • @as_cole_as_a_cucumber8106
    @as_cole_as_a_cucumber8106 12 дней назад +8

    I would love a longer version of this in some capacity to clean to, even like less edited with quiet points where it's just cleaning or sorting laundry into piles or something. Your voice and the music is so regulating for me.

  • @just_peachy22
    @just_peachy22 11 дней назад +3

    I really like this format! Opening up like this about your experiences and your mental health is really relatable and real. The body doubling is also great! Like you mentioned it's like you're hanging out with your friend.

  • @klai_borne
    @klai_borne 13 дней назад +8

    This is wild... I've been cleaning my room for the past week and just finished today.😂

    • @hayley.honeyman
      @hayley.honeyman  13 дней назад +2

      PROUD OF YOU!!

    • @klai_borne
      @klai_borne 13 дней назад

      @hayley.honeyman That really means a lot to me right now. Thank you! 😁

  • @MsLizLane
    @MsLizLane 13 дней назад +8

    Hi, Happy Timezones!

  • @Mspigwidgeon13
    @Mspigwidgeon13 13 дней назад +4

    I freaking love this kind of video! I can’t really do anything without something in the background ( just realised it was a sort of body doubling) so I love this kind of stuff because it doesn’t distract me, and you are one my top 3 creators so it would be so so so awesome if you made more of these sort of things ❤❤❤

  • @lpdesigns2022
    @lpdesigns2022 12 дней назад +2

    i'm proud of you for sticking to the being single while you figure out your stuff. It's very inspiring to see. Love your positivity. :)

  • @Didi_reads
    @Didi_reads 11 дней назад +2

    I love theses types of videos they just feel so calming also I love your voice so I just binge your videos ❤😂

  • @tamiespe4164
    @tamiespe4164 6 часов назад

    Wow I had no idea how much playing your video while I got a wild hair to start cleaning would help!! Thank you!!
    I’m taking a small break and lining up another video to listen to or a podcast. That chattering helped me.

  • @madanium
    @madanium 12 дней назад +1

    This got me to finally put new sheets on my bed! Yay!!!!

  • @nightowl334
    @nightowl334 11 дней назад +1

    LOOVVEEEEEE the background cleaning!!!! I always watch cleaning channels for the dopamine haha

  • @Jailbreak619
    @Jailbreak619 12 дней назад +1

    This video was great for body doubling! Even mopped my bedroom floor 😅 Thanks!

  • @fungifugi1338
    @fungifugi1338 12 дней назад

    i love these type of videos! perfect to have on in the background while i’m working or cleaning 🔥

  • @mirrorballmusings
    @mirrorballmusings 13 дней назад +2

    I've been trying to clean my room all day! Your timing and chat were so perfect. Thank you :D

  • @caitlino.5127
    @caitlino.5127 9 дней назад

    I love this, sat here watching this making a bracelet while ignoring the very loud fireworks outside

  • @rubymoon9079
    @rubymoon9079 13 дней назад +1

    Love this kind of content :) I feel like so many things you say resonate with me. Thanks ❤

  • @misz3
    @misz3 10 дней назад

    I loved this body doubling! Helped me clean my kitchen lol. I've watched body doubling videos from other creators too and was psyched to see you made one! Would love to see more ❤

  • @KimberlyCox-TheNeuroCircus
    @KimberlyCox-TheNeuroCircus 13 дней назад +3

    I love all of your content. So super prod of you and grateful for your channel.

  • @helenaladeira534
    @helenaladeira534 9 дней назад

    Hayley, my psychologist is analyzing the hypothesis that I may have ADHD and your channel has been a real find for me, thank you for sharing! Love fom Brazil ♥

  • @keiraanderson5528
    @keiraanderson5528 12 дней назад +1

    I really appreciate your self reflection because it hits different than content creators who are like “you feel this way? Do this thing”. You’re so genuine and I relate a lot to the ND discoveries and therapy needs. This video was awesome and I hope you make more like this. Sincerely, queer hot girl with a big butt 😅

  • @OnlyinLA
    @OnlyinLA 12 дней назад +1

    I loved this video! The style of it, for some reason seeing you clean up your bathroom was satisfying and interesting (like how do other neurodivergent folks keep their clutter?, I use a color system among many other systems 🤷🏻‍♀️ the honesty and openness you displayed talking about how guys can’t even give some affirmations/reassurance when asked to ……SO relatable!!! I live in the US 😞 Canada is looking better everyday ❤ keep on keeping on, love your channel ✌🏼

  • @sarahmaryja9762
    @sarahmaryja9762 11 дней назад

    LOVE this video!!! It came at the perfect moment for me, I was just feeling that burst of motivation to tidy my very messy dorm rn when I saw it on my yt homepage :) I use your videos a lot for background noise to be productive to in that way, they put me in a mindset that motivates me to take care of myself so I rewatch/listen to them a lot in that way :)) I'd appreciate more content like this a lot and I love the thougths you shared and the thoughts they brought up for me

  • @Mybougiehippylife
    @Mybougiehippylife 12 дней назад

    Thank you for sharing this and your honest thoughts on life! This really helped me as a fellow neurodivergent person I can get very distracted and have a hard time fpcusing on one task. So it was refreshing to see you go from thing to thing as I went from cleaning task to cleaning task: I got my chores done that were urgent! So thank you for the company. ❤❤❤

  • @maplecake
    @maplecake 13 дней назад +3

    How did you know I needed this today? 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @alexiamcbride7441
    @alexiamcbride7441 12 дней назад

    Great video! I love the clean with me and talking overlay. I listen to a lot of your videos when I am working in the office to keep me company. I would love some new work with me body doubling videos! :)

  • @user-gd7ho8mv6j
    @user-gd7ho8mv6j 13 дней назад +2

    Thank you for being unapologetically you!! Beautiful voice by the way 💜

  • @emzixd
    @emzixd 11 дней назад +1

    loved this video x3 though I absolutely love all of your videos Hayley

  • @Emeliaphia
    @Emeliaphia 13 дней назад

    Love the format, it works really well for my audhd brain

  • @michellemachesney1487
    @michellemachesney1487 11 дней назад +1

    i love your videos❤ warm hugs!

  • @katiecassidy3540
    @katiecassidy3540 11 дней назад

    I’m going to go and clean my room now, thanks babes!

  • @ariaswany
    @ariaswany 13 дней назад +1

    Love this!!! Thank you Hayley 😊

  • @tonihudson4098
    @tonihudson4098 12 дней назад

    I got my evening skincare done watching this just because I felt like I could do a task with you. Thank you 🥰

  • @JaninaMaxine
    @JaninaMaxine 13 дней назад

    oooh perfect, my kitchen is a MESS I really need to get up and clean it, it's been a week already 🥲

  • @zarradsana5888
    @zarradsana5888 День назад

    Thank you for this video...

  • @erinrj
    @erinrj 2 дня назад

    And I need all the motivation and I'm the same way I like to just have even twitch videos on and in the background because it feels like I'm body doubling with people. As well, I'm gonna be moving in with a new roommate that I don't really know either but they're also ADHD and have a lot of sensory issues similar to mine so I'm super excited!

  • @Esandeech2
    @Esandeech2 13 дней назад

    You’re goals! I’m struggling with myself so much. You give me hope.

  • @samfairchild7273
    @samfairchild7273 13 дней назад

    Always love your content, but especially LOVE this style of video! Please do more! This is literally the perfect body doubling video.

  • @nicolette4681
    @nicolette4681 13 дней назад

    Loved this format video

  • @marilenacristea1290
    @marilenacristea1290 12 дней назад

    Yess love this style of video❤

  • @natc.5940
    @natc.5940 11 дней назад

    I need vids like this. Thank you.

  • @lavishjules1886
    @lavishjules1886 11 дней назад

    Was just thinking you should have a video for this and lo & behold! 🎉

  • @sarabalderrama1
    @sarabalderrama1 13 дней назад

    🤩 OMG! You are amazing! Thank you for another great video of content.

  • @princenocturnal2583
    @princenocturnal2583 13 дней назад

    I liked this video's style a lot! Perfect for getting my ass up to put the dishes away.

  • @baejay798
    @baejay798 13 дней назад

    Wonderful video! Thank you

  • @yssirhc296
    @yssirhc296 13 дней назад

    Thanks for this. I'm cleaning my art desk right now ❤

  • @mrfiddle7578
    @mrfiddle7578 13 дней назад +2

    U go Hayley , find your girl

  • @jademorgan5054
    @jademorgan5054 5 дней назад

    I'm using this to body double while I try to clean my space, so I'm not actively watching the video and I'm only listening. I like the story time, but since I can't see the visual cleaning cues I think would like to hear a narrative of the cleaning like going through your process or thoughts while cleaning so that I get auditory cues while body doubling. If that makes sense.

  • @TheShellemilyCrayon
    @TheShellemilyCrayon 11 дней назад

    that was super helpful, i find body doubling best when the person is doing the task in real time and talking at the same time instead of a voice over. Totally okay if thats too much for your brain to multitask doing though.

  • @christineoboyle4597
    @christineoboyle4597 8 дней назад

    Love it

  • @logann-mackenziefroste563
    @logann-mackenziefroste563 День назад

    How did you decide to become an adhd coach ? Awesome vlog💯‼️your videos have helped me so much 😊

  • @frostfang1
    @frostfang1 12 дней назад

    Dude everytime I unmask around people, I'm too much and they make it really clear that I am not a part of their group of people. I live with each half mask on at least at all times. I don't have the spoons to put myself back together anymore after unmasking and letting the mattress out to find out that's not a welcome home for me to sleep and having to pack it back up in the box and roam around sleeping in my car for who knows how long this time. I have two online friends of over ten years I can unmask "around" and i don't talk to them regularly.

  • @k-a-youtube
    @k-a-youtube 13 дней назад

    Hang on I’m packing my bags now!! 15:07

  • @user-xd5cb1tg7o
    @user-xd5cb1tg7o 11 дней назад

    Your personality is/are? (I'm so Afrikaans) very calming and fun. 😂❤😂 Really enjoyed everything about this video. Keep being you. 🎉
    You sounded like Celine D there for a moment 😮😂❤

  • @aro4cinglife
    @aro4cinglife 13 дней назад

    amazing video, I really connect with your struggle to accept and know yourself and all that
    but is that cuatriderm that you have on your bedside table? I hadn't seen it in years XD

  • @julietteferrars3097
    @julietteferrars3097 12 дней назад +1

    “Lookin’ for a girl with empathy. Real cute. Big butt.” Sounds like your ideal partner is yourself. 💜

  • @arniewhoact
    @arniewhoact 11 дней назад

    Me too Hayley injured me

  • @bonniepaora8664
    @bonniepaora8664 12 дней назад

    DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY TIPS ON HOW TO MAKE VACUUMING MORE LIKELY TO ACTUALLY HAPPEN?! ASKING FOR ME

  • @jonathanbrown6751
    @jonathanbrown6751 12 дней назад

    Does the dust from cleaning make your allergies go crazy? Lol I can't do too much at a time I will sneeze my head off

  • @gabrieladabrowska458
    @gabrieladabrowska458 9 дней назад

    and they were roommates :)

  • @MJ55319
    @MJ55319 13 дней назад

    What country do you live in?

  • @shia6746
    @shia6746 11 дней назад

    Where is the girlfriend application 😂

  • @wastelandkitten9698
    @wastelandkitten9698 13 дней назад +1

    Girl your so cute, Id love to talk I really relate to your personality. Hope you hear back from you ~Meghan

    • @hayley.honeyman
      @hayley.honeyman  13 дней назад +1

      You’re so wonderful thank you!

    • @wastelandkitten9698
      @wastelandkitten9698 11 дней назад

      You're welcome I'm going through a similar thing late life realizing I'm autistic and adhd, just got out of a relationship and am feeling this hot girl summer vibe myself.

  • @2000celina23
    @2000celina23 13 дней назад

    I recognized that with friendships as well! But my biggest problem is sometimes who is the real me? 🥲 and if you learn to unmask do you need new friends because the old ones keep you in your old role too 👀 sooo difficult