Asking My Mentors for Life Advice on My 30th Birthday
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- Опубликовано: 11 июл 2024
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I recently turned 30 so I asked some of my mentors to share some life advice for my 30s with me. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did! Enjoy x
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⌚️Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
01:06 - Mathew Hussey
04:56 - Marie Forleo
07:04 - Mark Manson
10:31 - Alok Kanojia
12:55 - Nir Eyal
15:25 - Sahil Bloom
20:57 - Dan Go
23:46 - Chris Ducker
26:18 - Noah Kagan
30:37 - Eric Partaker
32:39 - Daniel Priestley
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Hi Ali,
When I turned 30 I changed my life completely. I quit my job, move in another country, study a master and start a completely new career. There is almost nothing left from my own self from 10 years ago and my life from 30-40 has been substantially better, more exciting, happier and interesting than the one in my 20s. Happy birthday and welcome to Life!
awh thanks :) that sounds like an incredible journey!
Tell me and I forget, teach me and I may remember, involve me and I learn. Great video ❤
Since you asked about the subject KIDS, I'll share my personal experience: I knew very early in life I didn't want to become a parent. I stuck to my guns (it wasn't easy and it cost me to lose a couple of partners) but it was one of the BEST decisions of my life. Not everybody was born to be a parent. Period. It is not selfishness. There are plenty of ways to contribute to society. Parent or not, forget the noise around, listen to your heart, be true to yourself. Happy birthday AND THANKS FOR YOUR CHANNEL, ALI!😊❤🙏🏼✨
I'm okay as long as they don't push no child agenda in schools and any media directed at kids.
I’m so glad someone else said this before me!
As a 29year old mother of four (all under 6)
I absolutely 100% agree with Nir!
My kids are my absolute joy and love!
BUT you also have to raise them in a way where you want to spend time with them.
1. No iPad kids
2. Learn a notional regulation myself to teach them and work with them through their tantrums and problems
3. Respect them like tiny adults
4. Don’t get them everything you can and they want to have. Adversity in their life is good.
5. Don’t solve their problems for them, solve it with them.
Great advice.
just at the beginning but already pumped at how you said you're looking for advice from people who have a healthy work-life balance. your channel always helps me feel confident that I can work hard and still remember that my work is subordinate to my family and friends - that I don't have to choose between being a good friend but lazy at work or being a bad friend but good at work. thanks so much for sharing!
Hi Ali, I really appreciate the direction you have recently took the channel. It feels more authentic than before
i noticed the same, i like it!
I love the direction too
Happy Birthday! Having a mentor is something really amazing and we are also thankful for ours, you is one of them. We also started a channel to educate others and share knowledge.
Hello Ali, Happy Birthday,
I’m 36 now and still confused about many things. As an Asian, we might be a group of late bloomers who only realize what we want to do later in life. At least, this seems true for my generation, those born in the 80s.
So, I’m taking these life advices as ‘What I can do before my 40th birthday,’ and let’s see where it leads me.
Thank you, Ali.
I'm 36 and feel the same. I thought i would have figured things out by now.
thank you for creating such an uplifting, happy happy place for us, Ali, in this corner of the internet. i absolutely absolutely adore it. can't be more grateful for it. A veryyyy happy belated happy birthday to you, my man. may god bless you with enormous health, happiness, purpose and fulfillment. muchh love.
Happy Birthday Ali! Spent half of the year immersing myself in watching your videos as I was overwhelmed to do so last year. It feels like it has been one of the most influencial decisions I've ever made. I'm grateful to have you in my life 🎉❤
Regarding kids, I had my daughter at 18. How's that for early? Lol! And thank God I did. Yes, circumstances were very difficult, but she is my blessing, my world, my miracle. And now my life is all the more better for having her in it. ❤😊
Happy 30th, Ali! 🎉 Wishing you endless joy and growth. Remember, a strong body fuels a strong mind. 💪 Keep shining bright! ✨
I don’t think people understand how much value, wisdom and knowledge is packed in this video
Wishing you health, happiness and love, and may your new adventures continue to excite you throughout the year. May each day be filled with excitement for the next destination, the next unwrapped gift, and in anticipation of the thousands of wonderful wishes from your fans.
Hey Ali, happy birthday to you. Have been following you since the beginning of your RUclips journey. I am 30 too, and I have a one year old son, he's the best thing that has ever happened to me. Being a mother gave me immense power and happiness.
Good luck for the years ahead.
As a 29 year old, Father of a 1 year old, my son is the best thing thats ever happened to me. Love you're content Ali, and have taken alot advice off you over the years
I have two kids and I wish I had more. A friend once told me that you might regret not having more, but you will never regret having the ones you have.
I don't know why people wishing more kids... I have 3 elder siblings and I little one.. My age is 30...my parents ruined my life.. With wrong decision.. And so much partiality btw others siblings... So much boundaries and controlling my life.. Like a hell.. I am 30 but no marriage plan... So please parents take responsibility ..
@@shaistabano5517 If your parents decided to have only 3 kids you won't exist at all. Stop blaming others about your life and take your responsibility
I have two boys and would love to have a girl. Praying this happens for my wife and me one day. 🙏🏾
@@shaistabano5517 You're 30, not having marriage plans is on you. Actually, everything is on you, you're 30.
You're so right, @sarahfacio-davis31! Having kids is one of the few decisions almost no one regrets.
Happy bday Ali!! I turned 30 in March, this is great advice. I feel like one of the biggest things is to do the things that are important to you now if you’re able, especially with family. I have a close family member who is 35 and was just diagnosed with stage 3 rare appendix cancer. Live life fully and with authenticity!!
So many takeaways! Thank you Ali, happy happy birthday to you! I know this year will be your best of the best!
About kids - I've got one, and it's amazing! Life's so much more fun now. My daughter brings everyone closer. It's not just about me anymore, but about us as a family.
I'm excited for when you have kids too! I wonder how you'll change your productivity system then. It'll be a great adventure!
Thanks for sharing your life with us. Happy birthday, Ali! Hope it's a good one!
Happy birthday Ali, wishing you fruitful months and happiness every year of your life.
Hi Ali! i absolutely love all the advice that you got! Everyone was really genuine towards you and overall everything is extremly inspiring , mind opening . I wish you an amazing late birthday!! As a 22 year old, i m looking forward to such a wonderful era as your 30 with such a peace of mind and self work.
Happy belated birthday, Ali! So blessed to learn many great advices in one video clip. 😇
Hi Ali ! Happy 30 stay blessed and happy . This video of yours
is probably my most fav. Listening to your personal experiences is always a treat , it feels so relatable as im a junior doctor currently working in Pakistan who has recently discovered her new interests in other areas of life. It will be so nice if you can make a video like this for people navigating through their mid twenties , Thanks :)
Happy Birthday Ali !! Hope you have a great year and life ahead!
🥳🥳
Happy birthday Ali! This video is such a greater reminder !
On the topic of kids, its not a must for everyone. I personally didnt want a kid but gradually changed my mind because of my partner.
I have a 2 yo and seeing him smile, laugh, grow and develop is such a great blessing. Also, it allows you to prioritize whats truly important in your life which is relationships/ family and your health.
Thanks again for creating such amazing videos and being such a blessing. Happy bdae again! ❤
I just turned 30. And sometimes I regret that I wasted my 20s, and didn't achieve what I wanted to achieve.
But I guess I am not getting younger.
So for anyone who also turned 30 ish, let's keep pushing forward!
Mega useful - even for someone not even close to 30, the raw advice for everyone if you read between the lines is actually so interlinked and colossal - I always forget how much every piece of advice links and flows. Cheers man, highly useful!
Happy 30th Birthday Ali! 🎉Thank you for your work and for showing that at the end of the day: we are all humans. We all inherently seek advice, guidance, and inner self-actualization (even successful RUclipsrs, coaches, writers, etc.)
This is amazing timing; I turn 30 in two weeks and I really needed this reminder. Thank you so much for all that you do and the wisdom you share with us!
Happy birthday Ali 🎉❤ Wishing you a great, productive and happy year
I have one kiddo who is soon to be 15, and I absolutely wish I had more when I was younger, but a female at 35, I feel my biological clock ticking away. I wouldn't trade anything with the joy of being a mother!! Happy birthday, Ali!!
For those lucky enough to have kids, nothing is more rewarding. Like anything rewarding, the reward is equal to your input. Great video!
Ali I have to say I am so shocked you didn't cry(happy tears ofcourse) being 30 isn't getting old it's a new milestone in life, and its huge. Happy birthday!
Hbd! Can't believe we have the same birthday Ali! Thanks for the life advice!
It feels so amazing these personal and touching kind of video, i hope to see you in the era of kids, marriage and all of those beautiful and also productive things in life...
you have changed my life with this video, thanks.
Thank you sooooo much man.!!!
You keep changing my life.
in loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee with this idea/format!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you Ali...You are a gem of a person.Your videos truly helped me❤
Such a great and emotional video! Love it🎉❤
I loved this video, thanks for sharing such personal advice for everyone to benefit from. Perhaps a part 2 next year with the individuals that may have been left off this year :). Regarding children, I am in my early 30s and have recently had a baby. I have always been apprehensive as I have a busy senior role in the NHS however, it has been a real blessing to have a little boy and has made me view work life balance in a healthier way. In addition changed the way I view things in general ❤
Me encanto todo ❤ muchas gracias Ali!!! Feliz cumpleaños.
This is the video I'll keep coming back to! Thanks Ali
This is incredibly insightful. I'll most definitely rewatch it.
Happy Birthday! Thank you for sharing this advice with us!
agreedd
I do like this episode because of the questions you pose to your self base from your friend's advise is not just applicable for those in their 30s but for those older and continuously aging...
Dear Ali,
Happy Birthday! 🎁
24 years ago I was at your age.
I wish I had the digital possibilities of today when I was 30. My advice to you is to be happy with yourself and be careful not to become addicted to “self-improvement.”
Hi !! Ali ...wish you a very happy 3rd decade you are entering in 🎉....I enjoyed your video thoroughly even though I'm in my 50s ( work and a meaningful life led so far I feel like a 30s person )
Great video! Happy Birthday Ali🥰
you taught me many things Ali, Thanks!!
Happy birthday!! Your life and drive inspires us. Keep showing us the way forward 🎉🎉🎉
yes yes!!
You’re so great this was an epic vid
No me cansaré de agradecerte por traernos contenido en español. Eres lo máximo Ali, espero ser cómo tu. Gracias mil!!!!
Happybrthday ali, i always watch your videos since 2020
Happy Birthday! , So much to learn. I'll be 29 this August and I'm happy I watched this video.
Thanks so much for this video Ali! I'm turning 36 in a couple of days and still needed this advice!
I Am going to use some of this amazing advice... I much await a more exciting video(Desk Setup & Tech backpack Video)!!!
Happy birthday Ali and waiting for the Sunday surprise.
Hi !! Ali you have changed so many peoples thaught about time and you are going deeper into in. Love your job...🎉
A happy birthday Ali. I am proud mom of four and I would advise that one ought to have as many children as they wish and can take care of. And that as early as possible yes. You are an inspiration°°
Happy Birthday Ali🎉
Happy birthday Ali🎉❤❤
Happy Bday Ali!
So refreshing to hear you say you'd play more video games... makes me feel a tiny bit better about my unproductive lifestyle. Happy Birthday!
There is always something that you can learn from the people around YOU
Having mentors is the best decision you can make growing up.
Well done Ali👏
Happy birthday Ali🎉
And thank you for this video!!!
Packed with so many advice and action items to work on.
Would help if you could share the list with the action items and the journaling prompt from this video!
Have a good one 👍🏻
So many golden nuggets. Really liked what Sahil had to say. Solid vid.
I'm 34 and omg....... I was so excited and positive at my 30th birthday. I had so many exciting plans. Then, Mum was diagnosed with lung cancer and passed away at 58 (I wish I'd travelled with her more omg, it breaks my heart ), My grandfather was diagnosed with pulmonary fibrosis, passed away. I had anxiety about covid so bad, because I was scared to give it to both of them, as I was their primary carer and we were all living in the same house. My horse then passed away in a freak accident. Keep in mind I'm an only child with no Dad. My fiance of four years and myself broke up. Oh an I was served a pain in the ass legal drama FML. I now live in a house alone with two dogs. All of this taught me that great friends are so important and should be cherished and loved like family. Dogs are the best. And when you are in a vulnerable position you will tolerate behaviour, you otherwise would not. Seriously, hang out with your parents as much as you can because when they go, it's so sad! Go on holidays with your loved ones. You can't control everything, life simply doesn't allow it. Anxiety has become my norm and I've had to make friends with it, understand it, and co exist with it as peacefully as possible.
after all this i know you will come through. i could feel your pain as i could resonate with it but i still wasnt in your shoes. i hope you find the strength to keep going!!
You.are so incredibly strong. Really pushing prayers your way and we all know that life will get easier soon
@@pgfromfiji Thank you so much xxx Such kind words xx
Happy birthday incredible human 🥰
This was a fun video to watch 👏
Happy birthday, beautiful video 😇
Happy birthday Ali aka big brother❤🎉
I have 4 kids (which is way more than most people would recommend) and it’s the best decision I have ever made. ❤❤❤❤
Eric and Noah! 30s you accept yourself that allow you to put in those consistent efforts. I turned 40 last year and everything is paying off
Happy Birthday Ali!
Hi Ali and team (and friends), I love this video and it's holistic self-reflection Especially the aspect how you want to bring the advice for yourself to life! I enjoyed it. Very self-reflective.
@Ali: Happy Birthday, dear Ali! Did you give your mom some flowers for your birthday? Mothers did all the hard work on the day you were born.🎂🤩
Great video Ali. Thank you
Really good and insane selection of people here giving Ali advice, I've seen posts, content these people have produced over the years. Chockfull of value here
Happy birthday Ali!🎉
Ali you really tell meaningful things
Happy birthday Ali ❤
ugh this was a good one! thanks team ali + ali's mentors:)
Happy bday. I wish you the best :)
HAPPY BELATED BDAY!
Happy Birth Day Ali!
I'm a first time dad, have a 9 MO baby girl. I have never been happier and overworked at the same time. She's my stress buster. Utterly and truly grateful. I never really understood what is coolness of ones eyes until I had a kid. Definitely looking forward to more kids, God willing!
Happiest Birthday!!!
Happy birthday Ali abdaal you're channel has really changed me alot
Are you on telegram or WhatsApp
Happy belated birthday brother 🙏🏼
Happy Birthday! 🎉🎂
Happy birthday Ali Sir 🎉
HBD Ali! It was a very nice video idea. I know you like feedbacks, here is mine: I really like that you share with us a lot of content, but I like more when you are not following the typical Ali Abdaal videoscript. I think you can film anywhere use no effects, and you will still be Ali Abdaal guy who we follow for his journey. We like you for your genuinity. So keep up the good content.
Btw, nice to see your guitars in the background...🎶😊
Happy birthday!!!
Happy Birthday Ali
I’d be retiring or working less in 5 years, and curious to know how best people split their pay, how much of it goes into savings, spendings or investments, I earn around $250k per year but nothing to show for it yet.
get rid of any unnecessary purchases, especially things that cost you monthly, or better still, consider financial planning
Agreed, I'm quite lucky exposed to financial planning at an early age, started work full time at 19, purchased first home at 28. Going forward, got laid off at 36 amidst covid-outbreak, and immediately consulted an advisor to stay afloat. As of today, I'm barely 15% short of my $1m goal after subsequent investments.
@@M.Morgan that's great! retired in my 40s after inheriting money from a childless relative. I was making 6 figures at work but it was just a treadmill, traveled overseas and found a girl almost my age, happily married and only issue is how to grow or preserve our wealth... think your advisor can be of help?
'Karen Lynne Chess' is the licensed advisor I use. Just search the name. You’d find necessary details to set up an appointment.
curiously searched ‘Karen Lynne Chess’ on the internet, spotted her consulting page at once, and was able to schedule a free call session. Ive seen commentaries about advisors but not one looks this phenomenal
Happy Birthday Ali sir
I turned 30 on May 1st ❤ and I was waiting for this video 😍