i'm honestly fucking scared for Bella. they've shown us how fucked up a past they had, with a few self-unalive attempts. mattie seemed to keep bella happy. now mattie has just *hurt* them, and not really showing much regret. all the while bella has been just left to rot. i just can't get over how seriously worried for bella's health i am. i send them all the best wishes for a recovery. cheating is shit.
@@gxlleditss_ that’s how they trick us to get close enough to hurt us sadly! That’s why you have to take everything slow and protect yourself cuz you never really know someone!
Honestly I could kinda see it happening cause in a lot of tiktoks Mattie would like talk about how they saw a hot guy or hot girls and being super like into them....
@@naurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr 100%. I had the same thought that she was implying bella did something and then it hit me about the lyrics, and that maybe it was the other girl. I also was not surprised that mattie cheated, she always talked about hot girls and how she wanted to flirt or ask them out.
Is it just me or is Mattie smiling in most of these while Bella looks truly depressed and like they're having such a horrible time dealing with the break up while Mattie looks like they're making a joke out of it. edit: I had respect for you Mattie, but you've lost it. Keep your chin up Bella, shit sucks and that's ok. You deserve so much more, and I'm sure you'll get it one day, when the Universe thinks you're ready. Much love from your fans
@pihu7795 MATTIE ADMITTED TO IT!!!! THEY BOTH KNOW WHAT SHE DOD AND CARTER DIDN’T TELL BELLA!!!! If ur gonna comment about this, then at least get ur facts straight💀💀
Wanna know something funny, in a somewhat grim way, that gives us a glimpse into the side of Mattie that did this? Majority of the videos, Mattie is out and about, clearly not at home, or with someone that doesn't live with them. They're flailing their body and synching with the song, but the emotion comes across as being rigid in amongst controlled contortions to their mouth and dancing eyes. A part to the song, not a cry from the heart. They look like they're composed, dressed up for the world. And Bella is home alone with their dogs, emotions fluid, seeping, and raw as they spiral into a twisting dance with the song they mouth and bleeding into it after building into a bubbling caphecony they cannot suppress, and they've not once appeared like they're over it, that they're composed, or that life is continuing on in any sense since the breakup beyond having a fashion sense and basic skill with makeup. These aren't just clips, or videos, or a little part for them - it's holding a lit flame, and them being rendered incapable of doing anything as it continues to burn. I don't know if Mattie genuinely is feeling anything with this, if that was all an act, but whatever is being felt is nowhere near what Bella is. This slammed into Bella like a freight train, but it feels like Mattie is treating it like a car or particularly speedy bike instead. I understand why Mattie has an off edge to me, now - and I feel so bad that Bella was drawn into it. It's like a siren call. Never notice it til you're in. Edit: had a comparison to weird vibe that was similar to Carter to me. Carter, however, just seems to be a hit or miss guy that might have stiffer body language and throw some folks off. It's kind of similar, but not. He's just existing, and Mattie's is more contextual and directed and feels more concerning. As far as I'm aware, Carter's a cool guy, just rather off-putting, but I cannot criticize him for that, being an off-putting guy myself. Not trying to attack him or imply he's done anything.
@@Emma-ls8xm As far as I'm aware, nothing. But the edge that I was trying to describe with how weird Mattie feels body-language and behaviorally thus far in the clips is one that I know more people pick up in Carter than they do Mattie. He's someone that has a hit or miss kind of vibe to him, and that vibe had me falling away from his content after a month or so. Mattie has a similarly weird feeling about them, only within context rather than in general like he does, but it's harder to pick up on without some sort of comparison, I think. Was using his vibe to kinda explain it more since my brain's soup and I can't quite put it into words in of itself. Not trying to imply he has any sort of foul behavior or is a bad person, though I probably failed in avoiding that. He's fine, though, and I edited it to remove that.
just bc maddie cheated on someone doesnt mean shes a sociopath a lot of ppl get cheated on, there are a lot of ppl who get cheated on so, cheating is sometimes a mistake so it was probably just a mistake, have you made mistakes, yes, how do i know, i know bc no one is perfect and it was a honest mistake, so if you think every cheater is a sociopath then your the sosciopath 😒
Maybe she isn't denying it because its nobody's buisness. I honestly don't think they did. Maybe they think nobody will believe them. Or they want whatever happened in the past only. Or maybe they did and they regret it deeply and just want to.forget about it. We won't know unless Mattie and Bella desire to tell us. Together because you need both sides to make a true story.
BRO it was hurtful on both sides!! Bella hurt Mattie too. It's hard to be stuck with something that hurts you. Mattie didn't know how to escape, so yes, they cheated. I know it isn't good but you have to see things on both sides.
Even if Bella isn’t a good person, NO ONE deserves to get cheated on. I was shocked to find out what Mattie did when I first saw Bella’s video. In fact, I didn’t want to believe it. It just really shows that you never know what someone is like off of the internet. Another thing that gets me is when you go onto Mattie’s social media pages, people are slamming them for what they did, but not the friends that knew what they were doing but didn’t tell Bella. It’s like sentencing the murderer and not the people who knew of the murderer’s plan that didn’t do anything about it. I hope this situations blows over soon and Bella can find someone who will treat them better soon. This was truly shocking news.
The friends never told Mattie to cheat. It wasn’t their place to tell Bella either. Yes, they should’ve but that’s why they’re not friends anymore. And again it wasn’t their place. Mattie should've expected this outcome as an influencer. Her cheating should not be justified. The “disrespect” she’s getting is well deserved and quite honestly a lesson for her to never do it again. She should've never done it in the first place.
@NameNoneExistent somethin to do with her and this other dude Bassicly she texted something she shouldnt have (A slur I think she apologized but idk Cant remembur If ya want you search it up
Even if you cheat you have the right to go damn human emotions and I’m sick of people saying that, like no what they did want okay but they’re allowed to feel sad, like Jesus Christ I’m so sick of people like this
I will really miss bella and mattie. At first they were so strong so healthy so happy. Then mattie couldnt hold it in anymore. One night and she broke everything she could ever want. Bella didnt deserve her and it is so dissapointing how she took bellas love for granted.
Mattie being able to smile rn while all of Bella’s videos are her pouring out her (very pulverized) soul and Mattie is smiling?! No. That’s crazy to me
She could just not be posting what emotions she's going through with the break up. Break ups are hard even if your the thing that caused it. I understand that what Mattie did was wrong but they don't have to put it all over their social media for everyone to see. It's their personal life not yours. You don't need to know ever emotion Mattie has about the break up so stop acting like their a bad person just because they aren't posting videos about the break up.
I don’t wanna sound one sided but matties probably covering up any negative feelings, I’ve done it and seen it and unless you personally know the person it can be really hard to tell ❤
6:05 the fact that Mattie is just trying to blame it on Bella even though she knows what she did and everyone else knows it too. Best wishes to Bella ❤
It's so sad and interesting and poetic to see this from an outside perspective, with no biases and no prejudice because I don't personally know any of those people, I can't judge Mattie as a bad person although cheating is obviously wrong in any situation because I don't know Mattie, but seeing the impact it caused on Bella shows a lot about them too... Idk, maybe I'm too into sociology
From all the comments I could read, yours was far the most interesting to me. I personally don’t know both of them and I quite don’t like their content as well so I didn’t know what happened until recently. And all of this made me hate Mattie so much, cheating is very much forbidden for me and I’m really empathetic to Bella. Like, you can even see how Mattie doesn’t really care about hurting Bella, the only thing she’s sad/angry is about her cheating revealed to Bella. These videos are really interesting to watch, especially if you’re focusing on their body language. But yeah, honestly she shouldn’t have cheat, it’s really sad even tho I also pretty don’t care.
@@daisy3869 Right, that’s not sociology but psychology. But instead of making fun of their mistakes, you can show them the difference ? Because yeah, they will do the same mistake and there’s no point to making fun of them dumb*ss. Especially when sociology is a form of psychology so you obviously don’t know what you’re talking about. For op : sociology is when you study the social relation, social action and social representations to understand how society works. Sociology is about the relation between individuals and society. Psychology study the behavior, the emotions and the way they think of a person or a group of people to understand what’s their characteristics. Honestly, no wonder why you made this mistake, the two are kinda similar, except one is about society and the other about people, and when I was in high school, I was doing sociology but it became psychology at one point (so you know, kinda hard at one point to know the difference when you’re confuse). You can say sociology is a form of psychology.
@@daisy3869 yeah that would be psychology since sociology focuses on how people interact with the world and society (hence the name) whilst psychology focuses on the psyche and how the mind works and how chemistry affects it. I studied a bit of sociology in university for design and it's really interesting but this is not sociology. And I'm interested in mental health since I classify as mentally disabled (I'm on the ASD and have ADHD)
“Why did you hurt yourself? Why did you go crazy?” “ sometimes there’s just no why I just did” that….people need to understand that more like idk why I did it I just felt it
The fact I understand Bella's pain. I wouldn't have understood the pain when it happened. It wasn't until I experienced that pain for myself. But if Bella gets more time for her to get the closure and she heals from this, and she will. Bella we're all in your corner❤
I never liked them. Watching their videos before and not even knowing who they were I found them very irritating and just their personality (yeah only based off of videos) didnt sit right with me for whatever reason
We should’ve seen this coming with all the videos Mattie would post of like “I saw a cute girl in the coffee shop or in the car garage and I’m trying not to be weird.” And stuff like that. A lot of her videos were red flags but we all just ignored it thinking “she’s just being funny.” Well she wasn’t. As far as we know, she never had any intentions to stay with Bella.. On the other hand all of Bella’s videos were about.. Mattie.. no other girls at all. They seemed genuinely happy with Mattie but of course, Mattie didn’t. Bella made everything about Mattie in almost every video. While Mattie was out flirting with other girls? And it’s probably worse then that. We know they’ve kissed and probably more. Considering this, it’s easier to imagine how she feels. This person she loves so dearly and has spent multiple years of their life with just breaks up with them for no reason. And figuring out that her friends knew??? So all of her friends are traitors and her beloved boyfriend cheated on her. Considering all of this, you can clearly see how bad this is. It should not be brushed off with videos of dancing and being happy. Mattie clearly broke Bella’s heart and is acting like nothing happened. What she did is pure evil especially for the sweet little girl she made herself out to be.. and as far as we know she could’ve done this with many other girls. Even in the early stages of their relationship. Although Bella told us not to give her hate. She has clearly done something very wrong and something has to be done. Possibly even unsubscribing from Mattie because, personally, I don’t think somebody like her deserves anything good. Thank you for reading my rant.
I noticed that to!! I saw the videos and would think “Isn’t she with Bella?” because it all seemed weird to me and gave me bad vibes. I hope Bella will be alright and knows how much we love her.
I do think you should be able to feel attracted to other people, because that's not really something you can control, but Mattie didn't really show any interest in their relationship to the point that I didn't even know they were dating until I found a video about it from Bella's channel.
As someone who has faced a similar situation, I feel Bella. My bf of more than a year decided to ghost me out of nowhere, and I knew something was wrong. I used to tell my bestie that he had never stopped texting without telling me beforehand. I thought maybe he was bucy with smth important, and didn't think much even though there was a nagging feeling. I didn't had Instagram at the time but my BFF did, and saw that he had put stories and all.. That hurted me. He had time to upload stories but none to see my messages? That moment of betrayal, when everything that you had built together comes crashing down is.. Brutal. Heartbreaking. And I didn't even know why he ghosted me. I finally got the courage to tell him that I wanna break up (over text, we were in a ldr), and he pretended as if he didn't just ghosted me for a week. So technically I was the one who verbally initiated it, but he did it first through his actions. I said screw it, it hurted yes, but you gotta do what you have to do. And the thing is, I was processing all this without knowing why he technically decided to break up. After almost 10 months later I learnt it was for a girl he had studied with in hsc. He did mention about her to me and even asked me if he could be friends with her... What a joke. So I know exactly how much it must've hurt Bella. To be kept in the dark. It took me well over a year to finally get over him. But no way I'm going to be in a relationship anytime soon. I deserve a true break, and freedom. I hope Bella finds peace
Wdym? She doesn’t look sad. She’s playing sad audios with a straight face and even smiling in some parts. Bella looks depressed. It seems they’re trying to force a smile. You can see in the one clip where Bella is sad while Mattie is making a TikTok. Tho I don’t have much conflict with your comment. She does seem to be playing the victim.
@@pihu7795 there are a lot of red flags in Mattie's own videos. Talking about flirting with others videos etc and making it seem like a joke when it was not a joke. I personally don't like bella. In fact, I liked Mattie. But as someone who was cheated on, all the signs are there. I just cannot overlook this action.
Gotta say though, this whole way of dealing with relationships is so weird. First off, showing it online and showing the breakup online and making weird tiktoks about it while crying, whether you were cheated on or the one who cheated, like maybe its a coping mechanism but its just so weird to me in general.
For everyone concerned for Bella's mental health and safety from herself. STOP. You can care for her but for someone who struggles with commiting dying, constantly being told not to feel that emotion makes them feel like they're doing one more thing wrong. You really want to help, let them feel hopeless, let them cry themselves to sleep. Your worry is a slap in the face to their strength and personal growth. Life gets nasty, and overwhelming, and frustrating and it's okay to feel hopeless. You want to help take that burden and turn it into something better then honor the process of feeling and healing. Stop pitying and suffocating someone who's angry and feels like they're drowning. It worsens the frustration. They can't catch a break because people "care" unfortunately these are also the people who make it worse. Those are the suffocating "think about how WE feel when you're gone" people and you're actually the worst. If you care, you ask them how they are and how you can help, you don't assume you have the answers because they have one too and it's permanent. Don't disrespect a human being's strength when you only know what they've shared with you. Bella made it through before, they will make it through again.
bella deserved WAY better than mattie like on mattie's channel WHILE THEY WERE STILL A THING talked abt everyone she saw and was like ''yo their attractive'' like wtf its okay to have crushes before and while (not gaining them whilst) dating someone but talking abt them constantly is kinda trashy plus cheating just isn't okay
... I have no words yet I do- I feel like there is never going to be a happy ending for them like ''those'' kinds of stories where they end up forgiving each other. If Mattie ends up breaking up with her new ''partner'' and runs back to Bella- then I hope Bella rejects her and breaks her heart as much as Mattie did to Bella. I hope Bella finds someone she will love even more than Mattie, even if deep down... She still cares... This is all I wish to share for my comment.
It is estimated at the time jayus got her hair cut while Mattie was down in Washington Mattie cheated on jayus I have the name of the person they are speculated to have cheated on and it matches the discrimination of jayus saying in a comment that they cheated with a Victoria secret model it is also known that many friends of Mattie who where also friends of jayus knew Mattie cheated but didn't say anything once jayus found out she told some virtual friends and either Mattie or the side chick found out about it and are sueing jayus for telling the virtual friends (Mattie or the side chick also made it clear that they wanted a apology letter and a list of names of the people jayus told to which jayus manager said no) Mattie made some videos that was hinting at the fact that she cheated with songs like "it was not your fault but mine it was your heart on the line I really fucked it up this time" which have since been deleted. And people to this day are still defending Mattie I saw a comment on a fan page of Mattie's and jayus relationship when I 1st heard of this trying to get all the Info I could on what happened and I kid you not one of the comments literally said "yeah well there relationship is non of my business and I've followed Mattie for longer so" to which I replied at a sate of being so shocked at this utterly foolish comment "they made there relationship our business by posting about it on line how could you still follow someone after they cheated on someone they said they loved? I think somebody cheating on somebody they said they loved tells you enough about there character." I think if Mattie wanted to cheat on jayus she should have just broken up with her. It will take us all time to come to terms with the fact that this "clumsy nice girl" Maddie is playing is all a act and that this version of her never existed in that cold hearted gaslighting manipulative body we see here today. I genuinely don't like to be rude to people but when somebody is hurt is another story.(this is a copy and paste of my replies to other people's comment of the same question.)
For Bella if she ever comes to this vid and sees this I want you to know that they did not deserve you. And you are a absolute amazing person and you TRULY deserve better and deserve all the love and support in the world.💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 Ps: pls do not hate on Mattie it is not going to help the situation
The sad fact is that bella has told us already that mattie has dine this ti so many partners already. The fact that people get mad at the people defending bella and saying that she should get over it is so bizarre to me and shows they don't know what being cheated on by someone so important to you feels like. I watched years of my parents fight because of cheating. I have uine through the heartbreak the tesrs and the hurt because of cheating. Its not easy to get over. And now that mattie is suing bella for speaking out and not even bashing them while doing that, shows how much of a bad person mattie is. To the last one, does anyone know who they were talking about cause I'm going to unfollow them since i was subscribed to the entire group
Bro it’s messed up that Mattie and Bella just slowly push the TikTok’s they had away AND that they are posting somewhat emo TikTok’s. Also it was very unexpected of what Mattie did and was very foul,
Okay like I just passed this again and realized that Mattie did the water fountain song like girl you were the one that cheated my guy said the opposite
Crazy how Mattie was playing the victim like she didn't make the conscious decision to cheat on someone and dares to act all sad and depressed like it wasn't their fault. Pisses me off so much. Worse she has the audacity to sue her? What the actual fuck, fucking acting like Bella was the one who did something wrong
I only just found out about all of this drama, but i really think that what mattie did was really bad. Like, who just posts tiktoks eluding to the fact that they cheated, then breaks up with the person they cheated on with out telling why they are breaking up.I truly feel bad for jayus. I watched a video where jayus said now she will try to be single because of what happened to her. I also fell bad for jayus even more because a lot of her friends knew what mattie was doing and didn't tell her. Unbelievable.
Yall did liv know Mattie was cheating? Cuz Ik she lived with them but in all her recent videos she’s with her other friend and idk she seems so genuinely sweet I can’t imagine her doing that :(((
But think about it. Everyone thought mattie was nice. Until they saw her true face. I dont know if her sister knew or not but don’t be fooled by nice people. They’re usually hiding behind a mask until it slips off.
A year ago i didnt like Bella and felt bad for Mattie for having to deal with Bella's problems and how she made the community mad at her. Now i feel bad for Bella and hate Mattie because wtf, Bella loved Mattie so much yet Mattie took that love and destroyed any trust Bella had left with anyone, if i was a friend of Mattie i would instantly drop him/them ( idk really) because cheating is despicable and honestly Mattie doesnt deserve a relationship after this because what if they do the same thing all over again and pretend to be the victim
Not wanting to be in a relationship anymore is one thing but CHEATING ON SOMEONE (ESPECIALLY SUCH A LOVELY PERSON LIKE BELLA) Its disgusting behaviour i had respect for mattie but now that has been reduced. Poor bella We all have moments in our lives where we lose feelings and or cant continue in a relationship any longer for different reasons and thats ok but if thats the case you tell them and you end it YOU DONT CHEAT. HOPE BELLAS OK❤
... Tbh I will never forgive Mattie for what they did to bella, Bella didn't deserve this...bella has been through so much.... I hope she is doing little better
The fact Mattie just plays the victim in all of this and walks it all off when they truly physically and mentally fucked someone up so Bella I'm on your side
I can't believe what Mattie did. they were a very loving couple and I would never expect them to break up! like, Bella cared about her so much that she took the time and posted about Mattie on her TikTok and RUclips... this is so messed up. first of all, Mattie should be grateful she has Bella. who knows, she could be with someone else and not give a crap about Mattie! second, did you see how depressed Bella was? like- she was laying on the couch with her dogs crying all day then, Mattie does and posts how she's so sad and it doesn't feel the same even though they went and cheated on Bella- THAT WAS HER CHOICE- and continued to joke around about it and say they're so sorry even though it was their choice and they chose wrong. I always looked up to Mattie and thought they were a great person and would always be there for Bella. I guess I was wrong. like, now I just feel bad for Bella because that was so messed up. Mattie, if you see this, I mean no hate to you but what you did it straight up WRONG.
1. Respect Bella's wish of not trash talking Mattie 2. One thing is clear we are missing something. Something has not been said that is important. We still dont have all the pieces put together. We have Bella's side but, we have nothing really from anyone else. And something abt Mattie's tiktoks seems off. Like yeah they cheated but, something isn't adding up. Cause we we're told all of their friends knew abt it but, when we ask them they say nothing? To me it doesn't make sense. And sure Mattie's feelings could be regret but, there is something else. Like they'res are more controlled like they were practiced over and over again. Whild Bella is just pouring out emotions to us. The math ain't math'n at least not for me... Edit: I do believe that they both need a break from the internet and us. To recoup... cause both Mattie and Bella were a little off even before the breakup.
I loved Mattie but what she did to Bella after she knew what bella has gone through is just fucked up and then she implied BELLA did something like...WHAT?!
i couldnt believe it it had to be a prank right?? they were literally made for each other but mattie just wanted more. mattie should learn that you cant improve something thats already perfect. it hurts me to not watch mattie anymore, hell i looked up to mattie, but matties the bottom of the barrel. jayus deserves way better.
damn they were so entirely cute togehter, how did this even happen??? even when they're apart it looks like they're meant to be together. "maybe this thing was a masterpiece till you tore it all up"
Life happens .. and they both are young, not saying cheating is okay , but life happens.. this is a lesson.. a learning experience, they both can do better in their next relationship
@corge DAMN that's messed up 😭 thank you for telling me, i hope Bella is doing better now! they're definitely better off without that person in their life.
Bro, I really thought Maddie was a good person but now to find out that she just cheated on Bella is crazy bro. I feel so bad for Bella. I’m literally unfollowing Maddie right now.
You can really see how hard it hit Bella. In some videos, the bags under their eyes just keep becoming worse and worse and they're always in a dark or at home setting, their videos feel raw. I can't say much for Mattie, I don't see anything in their eyes.
Posting about what happened makes things worse. Like just don’t post about someone else’s drama. I know the people who are in the drama probably posted about it, but just leave the drama alone. There’s no reason to try to get in what’s happening.
@@ladybug_katie I’m just talking about the people in the comments fighting about who is wrong and who is right. I’m also talking about the people who are adding to the drama making people confused. I wasn’t talking about this video.
3:01 is this the girl Mattie cheated on Bella with..? Bella said that they wanted to tell us who it was but couldn’t cause of the lawsuit or something, but they DID said that it was a girl who we’d know..
@@ladybug_katie it could still be the girl who Mattie cheated on Bella with because of the fact that Bella said that whoever this person was, we’d know her. And, the TikTok where Bella said “You knew I got cheated on without telling me” could be talking about Carter or this other roommate.
I have always knew love never ends with an happy ending cuz even if it's called happy it will always be sad and these two have proofed it so badly to me to a point I would never love again.
I know this is sad, and hearts were broken, BUT.... Can we address the fact two content creators are talking to each other through art! I mean, it's kinda cool.... they're expressing and communicating using their passion. The rest of us text like crazy... call and scream if we have to.... these two.... they make videos. 💙
Watching mattie's snap stories make me so disgusted, she played the part of being the victim and had her friends lie to jayus and its sickening that after everything, no one will ever consider just how MANY red flags there were
matties “woe is me” face looks like someone who is proud and trying to hide a laugh while acting sad hoping they can win back the best person they couldve ever lost and even tho they pretend to act like they know what they did was wrong, theyre amused by the fact they did what they know theyre not supposed to
What Mattie did was traumatizing to Bella and not good at all. I’m sure one day everyone will grow past this, since that’s what you do when you grow up. I don’t condone anything Mattie did here and it clearly had a gigantic impact on thier ex, that will probably last a long long time. But what I’m saying is that I want to hold Mattie accountable without labeling them as unredeemable. Even though they are making really crappy decisions right now. We all need to send some love to Bella and the other ones involved who were hurt
Matties sadness isnt fake. Its very real. Theyre sad they lost an amazing person. Mattie really was my idol. I hate them. When my mom talks abiut hie my dad cheated on her, its almost like she loses all happiness she had; just like when it happened. Cheating is a disgusting thing.
Mattie: playing the victim and acting sad
Bella: *Agressively washes dishes*
Edit: THIS WAS AN ENTIRE YEAR AGO WHY ARE YALL STILL ARGUING
Lmao yeah but idk why it looks like Mattie is trying to sync his vid with Bella's
dude wtf maddie finna flim a fake apology video about how Bella cheated and keep blaming Bella instead
And I believe from one of onlyjayus's videos on RUclips Mattie wanted a public apology 💀
(I think so but I might wrong)
@@Vilhelm1229 Mattie for sure, kept checking to see their new TikTok's and copied with a response lol
@@Vilhelm1229ikrr
i'm honestly fucking scared for Bella.
they've shown us how fucked up a past they had, with a few self-unalive attempts. mattie seemed to keep bella happy.
now mattie has just *hurt* them, and not really showing much regret. all the while bella has been just left to rot. i just can't get over how seriously worried for bella's health i am.
i send them all the best wishes for a recovery. cheating is shit.
And they have shut themself from everyone…
One thing you can be assured of is that this is nowhere near the worst thing Bella's ever been through. They'll be okay, they know how to cope
Unalive?
moral of the fucking story, never trust anyone even if they seem like a innocent and cutest person alive
@@gxlleditss_ that’s how they trick us to get close enough to hurt us sadly! That’s why you have to take everything slow and protect yourself cuz you never really know someone!
mattie posting emo tiktoks as if they're not the one that cheated 🤨
Ikr???
Honestly I could kinda see it happening cause in a lot of tiktoks Mattie would like talk about how they saw a hot guy or hot girls and being super like into them....
Bro Bella said to not talk bad abt Mattie
@@Bonfafah i'm not, i'm just saying it's weird how they're acting all sad, when they're the reason this happened
trying to be the vitctim
not mattie implying bella did something 💀
Mattie was saying she did something
@@ladybug_katie ive realized imagine cheating someone and acting like they cheated you
@@circe8777 what if its the other girl mattie is talking about? Like the water fountain? Bella said the other girl did it for clout...
@@destinyu2144 still shouldn’t have hurt bella and not address it-
@@naurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr 100%. I had the same thought that she was implying bella did something and then it hit me about the lyrics, and that maybe it was the other girl. I also was not surprised that mattie cheated, she always talked about hot girls and how she wanted to flirt or ask them out.
Is it just me or is Mattie smiling in most of these while Bella looks truly depressed and like they're having such a horrible time dealing with the break up while Mattie looks like they're making a joke out of it.
edit: I had respect for you Mattie, but you've lost it. Keep your chin up Bella, shit sucks and that's ok. You deserve so much more, and I'm sure you'll get it one day, when the Universe thinks you're ready. Much love from your fans
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
@@pihu7795 mattie admitted it themselves SHUT UP.
@@pihu7795 she*, mattie is genderfluid and Bella literally posted proof in their channel about it
That’s exactly why I’ve never like mattie
@pihu7795 MATTIE ADMITTED TO IT!!!! THEY BOTH KNOW WHAT SHE DOD AND CARTER DIDN’T TELL BELLA!!!! If ur gonna comment about this, then at least get ur facts straight💀💀
Wanna know something funny, in a somewhat grim way, that gives us a glimpse into the side of Mattie that did this? Majority of the videos, Mattie is out and about, clearly not at home, or with someone that doesn't live with them. They're flailing their body and synching with the song, but the emotion comes across as being rigid in amongst controlled contortions to their mouth and dancing eyes. A part to the song, not a cry from the heart. They look like they're composed, dressed up for the world.
And Bella is home alone with their dogs, emotions fluid, seeping, and raw as they spiral into a twisting dance with the song they mouth and bleeding into it after building into a bubbling caphecony they cannot suppress, and they've not once appeared like they're over it, that they're composed, or that life is continuing on in any sense since the breakup beyond having a fashion sense and basic skill with makeup. These aren't just clips, or videos, or a little part for them - it's holding a lit flame, and them being rendered incapable of doing anything as it continues to burn.
I don't know if Mattie genuinely is feeling anything with this, if that was all an act, but whatever is being felt is nowhere near what Bella is. This slammed into Bella like a freight train, but it feels like Mattie is treating it like a car or particularly speedy bike instead. I understand why Mattie has an off edge to me, now - and I feel so bad that Bella was drawn into it. It's like a siren call. Never notice it til you're in.
Edit: had a comparison to weird vibe that was similar to Carter to me. Carter, however, just seems to be a hit or miss guy that might have stiffer body language and throw some folks off. It's kind of similar, but not. He's just existing, and Mattie's is more contextual and directed and feels more concerning. As far as I'm aware, Carter's a cool guy, just rather off-putting, but I cannot criticize him for that, being an off-putting guy myself. Not trying to attack him or imply he's done anything.
Mattie has been posting old videos on snap they been posting sad stuff. Bella has been out on her snap story
@@ladybug_katieI didn't know Mattie was on Snapchat, what they been posting? What sad stuff?
what did carter do? I'm not caught up on any tea or drama on the internet.
@@Emma-ls8xm Carter didn’t do anything in fact Bella is still friends with him
@@Emma-ls8xm As far as I'm aware, nothing. But the edge that I was trying to describe with how weird Mattie feels body-language and behaviorally thus far in the clips is one that I know more people pick up in Carter than they do Mattie. He's someone that has a hit or miss kind of vibe to him, and that vibe had me falling away from his content after a month or so. Mattie has a similarly weird feeling about them, only within context rather than in general like he does, but it's harder to pick up on without some sort of comparison, I think. Was using his vibe to kinda explain it more since my brain's soup and I can't quite put it into words in of itself. Not trying to imply he has any sort of foul behavior or is a bad person, though I probably failed in avoiding that. He's fine, though, and I edited it to remove that.
Mattie has taught the whole world that even the most innocent-looking people can hide dark truths
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
@@pihu7795 they haven't once denied it. They just kinda brushed it off in a video and tried to move on
just bc maddie cheated on someone doesnt mean shes a sociopath
a lot of ppl get cheated on, there are a lot of ppl who get cheated on so, cheating is sometimes a mistake so it was probably just a mistake, have you made mistakes, yes, how do i know, i know bc no one is perfect and it was a honest mistake, so if you think every cheater is a sociopath then your the sosciopath 😒
Maybe she isn't denying it because its nobody's buisness. I honestly don't think they did. Maybe they think nobody will believe them. Or they want whatever happened in the past only.
Or maybe they did and they regret it deeply and just want to.forget about it.
We won't know unless Mattie and Bella desire to tell us. Together because you need both sides to make a true story.
BRO it was hurtful on both sides!! Bella hurt Mattie too. It's hard to be stuck with something that hurts you. Mattie didn't know how to escape, so yes, they cheated. I know it isn't good but you have to see things on both sides.
Even if Bella isn’t a good person, NO ONE deserves to get cheated on. I was shocked to find out what Mattie did when I first saw Bella’s video. In fact, I didn’t want to believe it. It just really shows that you never know what someone is like off of the internet. Another thing that gets me is when you go onto Mattie’s social media pages, people are slamming them for what they did, but not the friends that knew what they were doing but didn’t tell Bella. It’s like sentencing the murderer and not the people who knew of the murderer’s plan that didn’t do anything about it. I hope this situations blows over soon and Bella can find someone who will treat them better soon. This was truly shocking news.
The friends never told Mattie to cheat. It wasn’t their place to tell Bella either. Yes, they should’ve but that’s why they’re not friends anymore. And again it wasn’t their place. Mattie should've expected this outcome as an influencer. Her cheating should not be justified. The “disrespect” she’s getting is well deserved and quite honestly a lesson for her to never do it again. She should've never done it in the first place.
@NameNoneExistent tyere was drama behind her recently
@NameNoneExistent somethin to do with her and this other dude
Bassicly she texted something she shouldnt have
(A slur
I think she apologized but idk
Cant remembur
If ya want you search it up
@@lumity2812 exactly, she literally said that like in 2016, get over it
Why isn't Bella a good person bc she said "N" ? Please hunny
what mattie did was so unexpected.
What happened ?!
Nvm I found out
@@tristindevon8574 ok good.
Ik 😢😢
Ye... You would never expect a innocent cinnamon roll to do something like that...
The amount of second hand embarrassment I get from Mattie posting emo "aww I'm so sad" tiktoks as if they weren't the one that cheated.. 💀
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
@@pihu7795they both admitted to it....
Even if you cheat you have the right to go damn human emotions and I’m sick of people saying that, like no what they did want okay but they’re allowed to feel sad, like Jesus Christ I’m so sick of people like this
@@Discombobulated-melancholy okkkkkaaaaaayyyyyy? and I’m sick of cheaters ☠️
I will really miss bella and mattie. At first they were so strong so healthy so happy. Then mattie couldnt hold it in anymore. One night and she broke everything she could ever want. Bella didnt deserve her and it is so dissapointing how she took bellas love for granted.
Yeah mattie been posting stuff on snap that she feels bad and stuff
@@ladybug_katie yeah I highly doubt she actually feels bad. From most people I see who cheat never actually feel bad or never change.
You typed Bella didn't deserve her that's a mistake
@@Safi-Zargar How is rear a mistake
@@ladybug_katie huh
Mattie being able to smile rn while all of Bella’s videos are her pouring out her (very pulverized) soul and Mattie is smiling?! No. That’s crazy to me
She could just not be posting what emotions she's going through with the break up. Break ups are hard even if your the thing that caused it. I understand that what Mattie did was wrong but they don't have to put it all over their social media for everyone to see. It's their personal life not yours. You don't need to know ever emotion Mattie has about the break up so stop acting like their a bad person just because they aren't posting videos about the break up.
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
Well maybe they got over it or she is hiding the pain. Don't judge just because of that
I don’t wanna sound one sided but matties probably covering up any negative feelings, I’ve done it and seen it and unless you personally know the person it can be really hard to tell ❤
6:05 the fact that Mattie is just trying to blame it on Bella even though she knows what she did and everyone else knows it too. Best wishes to Bella ❤
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
@@pihu7795mattie is a she .
Always with bellas side ❤
@@pihu7795have you seen the proof?
It's so sad and interesting and poetic to see this from an outside perspective, with no biases and no prejudice because I don't personally know any of those people, I can't judge Mattie as a bad person although cheating is obviously wrong in any situation because I don't know Mattie, but seeing the impact it caused on Bella shows a lot about them too... Idk, maybe I'm too into sociology
From all the comments I could read, yours was far the most interesting to me.
I personally don’t know both of them and I quite don’t like their content as well so I didn’t know what happened until recently. And all of this made me hate Mattie so much, cheating is very much forbidden for me and I’m really empathetic to Bella. Like, you can even see how Mattie doesn’t really care about hurting Bella, the only thing she’s sad/angry is about her cheating revealed to Bella. These videos are really interesting to watch, especially if you’re focusing on their body language.
But yeah, honestly she shouldn’t have cheat, it’s really sad even tho I also pretty don’t care.
that....that is not sociology lmfao
@@daisy3869 Right, that’s not sociology but psychology. But instead of making fun of their mistakes, you can show them the difference ? Because yeah, they will do the same mistake and there’s no point to making fun of them dumb*ss. Especially when sociology is a form of psychology so you obviously don’t know what you’re talking about.
For op : sociology is when you study the social relation, social action and social representations to understand how society works. Sociology is about the relation between individuals and society.
Psychology study the behavior, the emotions and the way they think of a person or a group of people to understand what’s their characteristics. Honestly, no wonder why you made this mistake, the two are kinda similar, except one is about society and the other about people, and when I was in high school, I was doing sociology but it became psychology at one point (so you know, kinda hard at one point to know the difference when you’re confuse). You can say sociology is a form of psychology.
Agreed, the analysis of individual motives is as far from sociology as you can get 😅
@@daisy3869 yeah that would be psychology since sociology focuses on how people interact with the world and society (hence the name) whilst psychology focuses on the psyche and how the mind works and how chemistry affects it.
I studied a bit of sociology in university for design and it's really interesting but this is not sociology. And I'm interested in mental health since I classify as mentally disabled (I'm on the ASD and have ADHD)
watching all of matties tiktoks now knowing what really happened .... it was so obvious, they basically confirmed it from day 1
Mattie trying to guilt tripping bella after cheating on them is going so ignored. That isnt fair at all.
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
@@pihu7795 mattie acknowledged it aswell. It is confirmed true.
“Why did you hurt yourself? Why did you go crazy?” “ sometimes there’s just no why I just did” that….people need to understand that more like idk why I did it I just felt it
I literally was on that video right when I scrolled to this comment!!!😦
@@__dollyep same
There is always a reason but often people do not realize why at the time.
The fact I understand Bella's pain. I wouldn't have understood the pain when it happened. It wasn't until I experienced that pain for myself. But if Bella gets more time for her to get the closure and she heals from this, and she will. Bella we're all in your corner❤
I’m sorry that happened to you. Anyone who gets cheated on deserves better. Just hang in there. You’ll find the piece to your puzzle.
mattie had pain too you know
@user-ge5on1df5b bruh it's literally been 8 months💀
This is so embarrassing. Mattie always gave me docuhey vibes
RIGHT?
Me two
bro mattie trying to be the victim is so embarrassing
I never liked them. Watching their videos before and not even knowing who they were I found them very irritating and just their personality (yeah only based off of videos) didnt sit right with me for whatever reason
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
We should’ve seen this coming with all the videos Mattie would post of like “I saw a cute girl in the coffee shop or in the car garage and I’m trying not to be weird.” And stuff like that. A lot of her videos were red flags but we all just ignored it thinking “she’s just being funny.” Well she wasn’t. As far as we know, she never had any intentions to stay with Bella..
On the other hand all of Bella’s videos were about.. Mattie.. no other girls at all. They seemed genuinely happy with Mattie but of course, Mattie didn’t. Bella made everything about Mattie in almost every video. While Mattie was out flirting with other girls?
And it’s probably worse then that. We know they’ve kissed and probably more. Considering this, it’s easier to imagine how she feels. This person she loves so dearly and has spent multiple years of their life with just breaks up with them for no reason. And figuring out that her friends knew??? So all of her friends are traitors and her beloved boyfriend cheated on her.
Considering all of this, you can clearly see how bad this is. It should not be brushed off with videos of dancing and being happy. Mattie clearly broke Bella’s heart and is acting like nothing happened. What she did is pure evil especially for the sweet little girl she made herself out to be.. and as far as we know she could’ve done this with many other girls. Even in the early stages of their relationship.
Although Bella told us not to give her hate. She has clearly done something very wrong and something has to be done. Possibly even unsubscribing from Mattie because, personally, I don’t think somebody like her deserves anything good.
Thank you for reading my rant.
I noticed that to!! I saw the videos and would think “Isn’t she with Bella?” because it all seemed weird to me and gave me bad vibes. I hope Bella will be alright and knows how much we love her.
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
I honestly thought the girl in the coffee shop was Bella..
@@pihu7795 why are you comment this on every comment on this comment section
I do think you should be able to feel attracted to other people, because that's not really something you can control, but Mattie didn't really show any interest in their relationship to the point that I didn't even know they were dating until I found a video about it from Bella's channel.
As someone who has faced a similar situation, I feel Bella. My bf of more than a year decided to ghost me out of nowhere, and I knew something was wrong. I used to tell my bestie that he had never stopped texting without telling me beforehand. I thought maybe he was bucy with smth important, and didn't think much even though there was a nagging feeling. I didn't had Instagram at the time but my BFF did, and saw that he had put stories and all.. That hurted me. He had time to upload stories but none to see my messages? That moment of betrayal, when everything that you had built together comes crashing down is.. Brutal. Heartbreaking. And I didn't even know why he ghosted me. I finally got the courage to tell him that I wanna break up (over text, we were in a ldr), and he pretended as if he didn't just ghosted me for a week. So technically I was the one who verbally initiated it, but he did it first through his actions. I said screw it, it hurted yes, but you gotta do what you have to do. And the thing is, I was processing all this without knowing why he technically decided to break up. After almost 10 months later I learnt it was for a girl he had studied with in hsc. He did mention about her to me and even asked me if he could be friends with her... What a joke. So I know exactly how much it must've hurt Bella. To be kept in the dark. It took me well over a year to finally get over him. But no way I'm going to be in a relationship anytime soon. I deserve a true break, and freedom. I hope Bella finds peace
7:50 they did not just use THAT audio as the one who freaking cheated!
Love how mattie is more sad in the videos then bella but she knows damn well it wad her fault.
Honestly mattie just looks more like they're faking unlike Bella who actually looks depressed
Wdym? She doesn’t look sad. She’s playing sad audios with a straight face and even smiling in some parts. Bella looks depressed. It seems they’re trying to force a smile. You can see in the one clip where Bella is sad while Mattie is making a TikTok. Tho I don’t have much conflict with your comment. She does seem to be playing the victim.
thats ts that’s lowkey pissing me off
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
@@pihu7795 there are a lot of red flags in Mattie's own videos. Talking about flirting with others videos etc and making it seem like a joke when it was not a joke. I personally don't like bella. In fact, I liked Mattie. But as someone who was cheated on, all the signs are there. I just cannot overlook this action.
Mattie was my favorite youtuber and seemed so caring, kind, and lights up my day. You cant trust anyone, ive lost my faith in humanity.
I used to love Mattie’s videos but I guess it’s true no matter how much you love someone, you’ll always choose popularity over them
THEY did not just sing the water fountain when THEY CHEATED wth
FR
Gotta say though, this whole way of dealing with relationships is so weird. First off, showing it online and showing the breakup online and making weird tiktoks about it while crying, whether you were cheated on or the one who cheated, like maybe its a coping mechanism but its just so weird to me in general.
Finally, someone who feels this way.
For everyone concerned for Bella's mental health and safety from herself. STOP. You can care for her but for someone who struggles with commiting dying, constantly being told not to feel that emotion makes them feel like they're doing one more thing wrong. You really want to help, let them feel hopeless, let them cry themselves to sleep. Your worry is a slap in the face to their strength and personal growth. Life gets nasty, and overwhelming, and frustrating and it's okay to feel hopeless. You want to help take that burden and turn it into something better then honor the process of feeling and healing. Stop pitying and suffocating someone who's angry and feels like they're drowning. It worsens the frustration. They can't catch a break because people "care" unfortunately these are also the people who make it worse. Those are the suffocating "think about how WE feel when you're gone" people and you're actually the worst. If you care, you ask them how they are and how you can help, you don't assume you have the answers because they have one too and it's permanent. Don't disrespect a human being's strength when you only know what they've shared with you. Bella made it through before, they will make it through again.
No one is saying anything about that…..
Plus bella is doing great Now
@@ladybug_katie yeah she has a new gf :D
5:31 imagine having the audacity after cheating on someone to do this.
I feel dumb for not knowing that onlyjayus's name was Bella. This whole time I've been calling her Jayus.
Sammee
bella deserved WAY better than mattie
like on mattie's channel WHILE THEY WERE STILL A THING
talked abt everyone she saw and was like ''yo their attractive''
like wtf
its okay to have crushes before and while (not gaining them whilst) dating someone but talking abt them constantly is kinda trashy
plus cheating just isn't okay
... I have no words yet I do- I feel like there is never going to be a happy ending for them like ''those'' kinds of stories where they end up forgiving each other. If Mattie ends up breaking up with her new ''partner'' and runs back to Bella- then I hope Bella rejects her and breaks her heart as much as Mattie did to Bella. I hope Bella finds someone she will love even more than Mattie, even if deep down... She still cares... This is all I wish to share for my comment.
Bella singing to I’m not okay was the gem I didn’t know I needed
Edit holy smokes this is the most likes I’ve ever gotten
you got 32.
the fact that mattie had the audacity to do water fountain. i can't believe that they would stoop so low with all of this
It is estimated at the time jayus got her hair cut while Mattie was down in Washington Mattie cheated on jayus I have the name of the person they are speculated to have cheated on and it matches the discrimination of jayus saying in a comment that they cheated with a Victoria secret model it is also known that many friends of Mattie who where also friends of jayus knew Mattie cheated but didn't say anything once jayus found out she told some virtual friends and either Mattie or the side chick found out about it and are sueing jayus for telling the virtual friends (Mattie or the side chick also made it clear that they wanted a apology letter and a list of names of the people jayus told to which jayus manager said no) Mattie made some videos that was hinting at the fact that she cheated with songs like "it was not your fault but mine it was your heart on the line I really fucked it up this time" which have since been deleted. And people to this day are still defending Mattie I saw a comment on a fan page of Mattie's and jayus relationship when I 1st heard of this trying to get all the Info I could on what happened and I kid you not one of the comments literally said "yeah well there relationship is non of my business and I've followed Mattie for longer so" to which I replied at a sate of being so shocked at this utterly foolish comment "they made there relationship our business by posting about it on line how could you still follow someone after they cheated on someone they said they loved? I think somebody cheating on somebody they said they loved tells you enough about there character."
I think if Mattie wanted to cheat on jayus she should have just broken up with her. It will take us all time to come to terms with the fact that this "clumsy nice girl" Maddie is playing is all a act and that this version of her never existed in that cold hearted gaslighting manipulative body we see here today. I genuinely don't like to be rude to people but when somebody is hurt is another story.(this is a copy and paste of my replies to other people's comment of the same question.)
4:31 is the most relatable for almost every person that has ever lived
The fact matties acting all sad and the victim when they are the one who cheated and ruined the relationship. It angers me so much
I really hope Mattie was more hurt
I think it’s hilarious how at 5:56 Mattie makes a vid making it sound like Bella cheated and not herself ironic right
For Bella if she ever comes to this vid and sees this I want you to know that they did not deserve you. And you are a absolute amazing person and you TRULY deserve better and deserve all the love and support in the world.💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
Ps: pls do not hate on Mattie it is not going to help the situation
Im trying so hard but i cant take it seriously with all the bojack horseman audios💀
mattie singing a song about someone cheating as if they didn't cheat themself...
(5:58)
The sad fact is that bella has told us already that mattie has dine this ti so many partners already. The fact that people get mad at the people defending bella and saying that she should get over it is so bizarre to me and shows they don't know what being cheated on by someone so important to you feels like. I watched years of my parents fight because of cheating. I have uine through the heartbreak the tesrs and the hurt because of cheating. Its not easy to get over. And now that mattie is suing bella for speaking out and not even bashing them while doing that, shows how much of a bad person mattie is.
To the last one, does anyone know who they were talking about cause I'm going to unfollow them since i was subscribed to the entire group
I'm so glad Bella is healing and found someone new
5:56 & 7:40 Mattie is acting like it was Bella's fault. That really pissed me off.
Bro it’s messed up that Mattie and Bella just slowly push the TikTok’s they had away AND that they are posting somewhat emo TikTok’s.
Also it was very unexpected of what Mattie did and was very foul,
Okay like I just passed this again and realized that Mattie did the water fountain song like girl you were the one that cheated my guy said the opposite
Crazy how Mattie was playing the victim like she didn't make the conscious decision to cheat on someone and dares to act all sad and depressed like it wasn't their fault. Pisses me off so much. Worse she has the audacity to sue her? What the actual fuck, fucking acting like Bella was the one who did something wrong
that just shocks me that mattie is suing bella. it just makes me so angry that they cheated on them, and making things worse for bella.
3:08
I- I- I cant. Who tf. Why. What. How. 😭
It’s not who Mattie cheated on bella with
@@ladybug_katie ok ok ok I got scared for a second
I only just found out about all of this drama, but i really think that what mattie did was really bad. Like, who just posts tiktoks eluding to the fact that they cheated, then breaks up with the person they cheated on with out telling why they are breaking up.I truly feel bad for jayus. I watched a video where jayus said now she will try to be single because of what happened to her. I also fell bad for jayus even more because a lot of her friends knew what mattie was doing and didn't tell her. Unbelievable.
I'm genuinely disappointed in Mattie
She did the cruelest things to Bella like she cheated on Bella and then pretended like she was the victim
Yall did liv know Mattie was cheating? Cuz Ik she lived with them but in all her recent videos she’s with her other friend and idk she seems so genuinely sweet I can’t imagine her doing that :(((
Carter also knew D:
@@mars_has_autism yea Ik:”) where did Bella say liv knew tho
But think about it. Everyone thought mattie was nice. Until they saw her true face. I dont know if her sister knew or not but don’t be fooled by nice people. They’re usually hiding behind a mask until it slips off.
Bro how is everyone so respectful in these comments?
Cheaters deserve no peace💀
You know this would be a crazy prank if it was a prank
Yeah but at the same time it’s like why would they make up all this stuff
@@ladybug_katie yeah agreed 😅
These girl need therapy. Like a real therapist.
A year ago i didnt like Bella and felt bad for Mattie for having to deal with Bella's problems and how she made the community mad at her.
Now i feel bad for Bella and hate Mattie because wtf, Bella loved Mattie so much yet Mattie took that love and destroyed any trust Bella had left with anyone, if i was a friend of Mattie i would instantly drop him/them ( idk really) because cheating is despicable and honestly Mattie doesnt deserve a relationship after this because what if they do the same thing all over again and pretend to be the victim
They were one of my favourite couples😢
Not wanting to be in a relationship anymore is one thing but CHEATING ON SOMEONE (ESPECIALLY SUCH A LOVELY PERSON LIKE BELLA)
Its disgusting behaviour i had respect for mattie but now that has been reduced.
Poor bella
We all have moments in our lives where we lose feelings and or cant continue in a relationship any longer for different reasons and thats ok but if thats the case you tell them and you end it YOU DONT CHEAT.
HOPE BELLAS OK❤
i can’t even look at mattie the same anymore. at first i saw a sweetheart. now i can’t help but see a liar and a sociopath.
0:37 the dog casually attacking Bella
5:57 this is so ironic knowing the situation now
I can't believe Mattie would do something this terrible to bella sure she's done some bad but NO ONE should have to deal w/ this 😔
I can't believe Mattie would do such a thing, it was so unexpected.
... Tbh I will never forgive Mattie for what they did to bella, Bella didn't deserve this...bella has been through so much.... I hope she is doing little better
The fact Mattie just plays the victim in all of this and walks it all off when they truly physically and mentally fucked someone up so Bella I'm on your side
I can’t believe this happened, I love them both so much 😢
i dont have snapchat can someone tell what mattie posted abt the breakup?
Nothing
Ok so people at matties channel forgot what they did ig?!! Like what...
I can't believe what Mattie did. they were a very loving couple and I would never expect them to break up! like, Bella cared about her so much that she took the time and posted about Mattie on her TikTok and RUclips... this is so messed up.
first of all, Mattie should be grateful she has Bella. who knows, she could be with someone else and not give a crap about Mattie! second, did you see how depressed Bella was? like- she was laying on the couch with her dogs crying all day
then, Mattie does and posts how she's so sad and it doesn't feel the same even though they went and cheated on Bella- THAT WAS HER CHOICE- and continued to joke around about it and say they're so sorry even though it was their choice and they chose wrong.
I always looked up to Mattie and thought they were a great person and would always be there for Bella. I guess I was wrong. like, now I just feel bad for Bella because that was so messed up. Mattie, if you see this, I mean no hate to you but what you did it straight up WRONG.
1. Respect Bella's wish of not trash talking Mattie 2. One thing is clear we are missing something. Something has not been said that is important. We still dont have all the pieces put together. We have Bella's side but, we have nothing really from anyone else. And something abt Mattie's tiktoks seems off. Like yeah they cheated but, something isn't adding up. Cause we we're told all of their friends knew abt it but, when we ask them they say nothing? To me it doesn't make sense. And sure Mattie's feelings could be regret but, there is something else. Like they'res are more controlled like they were practiced over and over again. Whild Bella is just pouring out emotions to us. The math ain't math'n at least not for me...
Edit: I do believe that they both need a break from the internet and us. To recoup... cause both Mattie and Bella were a little off even before the breakup.
I-
I’m just now getting into all this mfin’ drama man….
I shoulda stayed out. This all got nothin’ to with me man
I loved Mattie but what she did to Bella after she knew what bella has gone through is just fucked up and then she implied BELLA did something like...WHAT?!
i couldnt believe it it had to be a prank right?? they were literally made for each other but mattie just wanted more. mattie should learn that you cant improve something thats already perfect. it hurts me to not watch mattie anymore, hell i looked up to mattie, but matties the bottom of the barrel. jayus deserves way better.
jeez this had got to hurt bella a lot more than you can see in their videos, mattie is in the wrong and the tiktoks just looked like guilt trips to me
damn they were so entirely cute togehter, how did this even happen??? even when they're apart it looks like they're meant to be together. "maybe this thing was a masterpiece till you tore it all up"
Not Mattie making Bella out to be the bad guy
Life happens .. and they both are young, not saying cheating is okay , but life happens.. this is a lesson.. a learning experience, they both can do better in their next relationship
i don't know who these people are but this is the messiest shit i've ever seen and now i'm invested. someone tell me the full story please
@corge DAMN that's messed up 😭 thank you for telling me, i hope Bella is doing better now! they're definitely better off without that person in their life.
Bro, I really thought Maddie was a good person but now to find out that she just cheated on Bella is crazy bro. I feel so bad for Bella. I’m literally unfollowing Maddie right now.
You can really see how hard it hit Bella. In some videos, the bags under their eyes just keep becoming worse and worse and they're always in a dark or at home setting, their videos feel raw. I can't say much for Mattie, I don't see anything in their eyes.
Well if you are watching mattie on RUclips she is posting old videos
Posting about what happened makes things worse. Like just don’t post about someone else’s drama. I know the people who are in the drama probably posted about it, but just leave the drama alone. There’s no reason to try to get in what’s happening.
I made a edit and someone asked me for the videos from it so I did. Maybe don't go starring drama cause you assume something
@@ladybug_katie I’m just talking about the people in the comments fighting about who is wrong and who is right. I’m also talking about the people who are adding to the drama making people confused. I wasn’t talking about this video.
What Mattie did was sick it’s hard for me to see their videos without being disgusted.
3:01 is this the girl Mattie cheated on Bella with..? Bella said that they wanted to tell us who it was but couldn’t cause of the lawsuit or something, but they DID said that it was a girl who we’d know..
No it’s one of there roommates
@@ladybug_katie it could still be the girl who Mattie cheated on Bella with because of the fact that Bella said that whoever this person was, we’d know her. And, the TikTok where Bella said “You knew I got cheated on without telling me” could be talking about Carter or this other roommate.
Mattie:Acting sad and as if it wasn’t his fault
Jayus:
5:56 Funny. Really funny. Of course Bella is the one that made the relationship fall apart. Let's just skip the part when Mattie cheated on them.
4:37 what's the song called?
It is TROUBLE by Jaxten
Thank you, ive been curious as well
@@ladybug_katie thank you so much for replying
I have always knew love never ends with an happy ending cuz even if it's called happy it will always be sad and these two have proofed it so badly to me to a point I would never love again.
I know this is sad, and hearts were broken, BUT.... Can we address the fact two content creators are talking to each other through art! I mean, it's kinda cool.... they're expressing and communicating using their passion. The rest of us text like crazy... call and scream if we have to.... these two.... they make videos. 💙
huh
@darlbabe5528 huh what?
Lip syncing to audios, yeah what a medium of art! 💀
Watched/ stared at this vid for a min & half with absolutely no sound 🫠
I blame it on the Mary-Jane
Watching mattie's snap stories make me so disgusted, she played the part of being the victim and had her friends lie to jayus and its sickening that after everything, no one will ever consider just how MANY red flags there were
I always liked Bella’s content and I’m so sorry for their hurt
Not the Chase Atlantic 😭, like bfr don't bring them into this
There is no excuse for anyone to cheat
matties “woe is me” face looks like someone who is proud and trying to hide a laugh while acting sad hoping they can win back the best person they couldve ever lost and even tho they pretend to act like they know what they did was wrong, theyre amused by the fact they did what they know theyre not supposed to
What Mattie did was traumatizing to Bella and not good at all. I’m sure one day everyone will grow past this, since that’s what you do when you grow up. I don’t condone anything Mattie did here and it clearly had a gigantic impact on thier ex, that will probably last a long long time. But what I’m saying is that I want to hold Mattie accountable without labeling them as unredeemable. Even though they are making really crappy decisions right now. We all need to send some love to Bella and the other ones involved who were hurt
Matties sadness isnt fake. Its very real.
Theyre sad they lost an amazing person. Mattie really was my idol. I hate them.
When my mom talks abiut hie my dad cheated on her, its almost like she loses all happiness she had; just like when it happened. Cheating is a disgusting thing.
I'm sorry but Bella in that second clip has me deceased it just looks so silly 😭
Somehow I went from Searching up a video on how to switch colors in crocheting to watching this😂