Lol it's funny because in a later video she stated she started playing genshin ans got attached to it. We're having genshin in these video for a long time now.. and I aint complaining
Tip: If you don't like self-reflection, turn everything you don't like about yourself into a character (and possibly everything else into another character) and analyze them instead. It's unbelievably helpful.
He needs help, I won't lie. In the sereniteapot, Traveler says *"Oh so you love to drink to numb the pain Kaeya?"* and Kaeya gets all defensive and denies he uses alchohol as a coping mechanism. He need therapy!
Being someone who thought they conquered trauma, even now, I still have this void in me, it’s just there… I’m going to college, and seeing this video made me cry. I’m lost. Gone to a therapist, they told me I didn’t need therapy. I’m just… an emotional parasite? Is that a way of thinking about it? That’s how I’m thinking about it. I’m sucking all the emotions out of others in order to sustain myself, but as a result, I drain them. I turn to video games, but is it enough? Honestly, video games were my escape, but now I’m just lost. I’m crying in bed… lost as can be. Edit: Update 2 years later: Therapy helped a lot for me. Doing CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) and EMDR was incredibly transformative for me. Highly recommend. Therapy can help a lot with this. Doing much better now.
Your comment is literally me. I felt and done the same things you have, and I don’t know how to fix it. My therapist also told me that I was fine and now it just seems like feeling the way I feel is normal. This emptiness and constant need for affection has driven me down what many may consider a spiraling dark hole. People can just say “oh just look at the bright side of things” but that isn’t really going to stop me from feeling the drive to seek the validation of others. I try to find alternatives by playing games, running, or focusing on my college courses, but even then the thought of wanting constant attention never goes away. I don’t know how to fix it and I feel lost and that the world holds no meaning unless I can establish those connections with others.
You both should search for another therapist. This is definitely not normal and you need help and support from a professional therapist. Please search for one who will support you. Don't give up. I don't know how old you are. But when I was 17, they told me the same. Later I found out that they don't like to give people under the age of 18 a diagnostic. I wish i didn't gave up then. But I thought they are right and I'm just a bad person. Until I found a therapist, some terrible years later. So please don't give up and search for help. If you don't feel good or healthy, you have the right to go to a therapist. I'm so sorry your therapist was so incompetent. But there are some good ones out there. Just please don't give up. I know how it feels.
@@thomaslee7223 you both should search for another therapist. This is definitely not normal and you need help and support from a professional therapist. Please search for one who will support you. Don't give up. I don't know how old you are. But when I was 17, they told me the same. Later I found out that they don't like to give people under the age of 18 a diagnostic. I wish i didn't gave up then. But I thought they are right and I'm just a bad person. Until I found a therapist some terrible years later. So please don't give up and search for help. If yot don't feel good or healthy, you have the right to go to a therapist. I'm so sorry your therapist was so incompetent. But there are some good ones out there. Just please don't give up. I know how it feels.
My therapist said that emotional hunger (which i suffer from) may not only be because of the absence of love from your parents, but, surprisingly or not, due to the abundance of it. Which is true, my parents loved me a lot as a child and always protected me a lot, which of course I’m grateful for! However, part of my brain registered that as “if i’m not being loved 24/7 it makes me feel sad and lonely” recently I’ve learned to respect my own boundaries and others’ as well.
Sorry but is there any chance that you be able to give me some advices on how to fix emotional hunger(absence of love)? Or how to behave toward someone with another type of emotional hunger which you mentioned,(how to behave with those who had too much love or attention in their lives) If you know any videos on RUclips, I'd appreciate if you tell me the name
@@ali_mbe9732well, this channel has a lot of great resources, so you can go through and see what might work from you. From there, you’ll see other helpful channels recommended. Wish you all the best on your healing journey 💜
If you found their echo conch, Kaeya tries to reconcile with Diluc through their childhood memories. But Diluc being the closed off person he is, just brushes him off. It’s really sad I hope later on in the story they can make amends with each other.
This just made me realize that Venti is one of the most mentally stable characters edit: with the advent of all the new characters and catching up to the lore, i would like to change my opinion on that and say that Kazuha is much mentally stable than the others, and that's coz of the way he deals with it. he has a stoic personality and way of looking at life, and i personally vibe with it. yes i know that Amber and Barbara, and a lot of other characters are probably much more mentally in-tune, but im looking at this in terms of what they've all went through. and i doubt amber and barbara have gone through much of anything. idk about sumeru characters tho, i could be wrong
1. You adapt to others' wishes 2. You give yourself away 3. You depend on your social place 4. You lack boundaries 5. You use material items to feel emotion 6. You're overly clingy
I'm not sure if I'm emotionally hungry, but the last line reminded me of something else. My mum always shared all of her problem with me (maybe bc I don't talk much; prefer to listen), even the very personal stuff. I get that parents too have problems and hiding them from kids isnt particarully good, but telling a 14yo about your parenting problems that involve your siblings whom you love very much leaves very mixed feelings. She always talked so openly about her poor situation with money, so I felt guilty bc I was one of the things she had to spend money on. I'll have to make sure that I'm not that type of person in any relation bc it's really draining for the other person
I have mixed feelings about that kind of situation, honestly. Both of my parents shielded me from a lot of stuff until they divorced. I chose to stay with my mother for two reasons: because I wanted to remain in my family home to minimise the upheaval (I was quite sheltered) but also because I feel like she needed me more than he did, even though if I have to be perfectly honest, I was more attached to him. I'll never forget the times where I had to play counselor while she was drunk, and it was a dice roll whether she would even remember what I said the next morning or whether she would become irrationally ill-tempered or even violent and a danger to herself. I always told her that I would want for my parents to feel as open with me as I did with them, because I loved her and cared about her, but looking back I can't say that it didn't cause me any harm, either. That kind of thing is insidious, like a slow poison; I thought I was invulnerable at the time, but in the end I suppose that's just not how humans are. I don't regret any of my decisions (except for one that I made much later in life) but I still wish things had turned out a little differently, perhaps... if nothing else, at least you have an insight on how it feels to be in that position and what to avoid.
Yeah while that may be so, I think it shows that your mom was going through a lot too and just wasn't sure who to turn to. Don't judge her for that is my suggestion
He's not going to die. His rerun hasn't happened yet, they will also need to justify releasing and selling his future skin (just like they did with Jean). Moreover, I believe that what was shown in the trailer is his friend (or his friend's vision) saving him. Also, I'd ask everyone who keeps comparing Genshin to Honkai to stop.
How to give people pleasure through a video: 1) Narrate nicely. 2) Giving interesting informative great advice. 3) Using hilarious Genshin Impact reference.
Her gentle tone and approach is soothing. A calm and comforting approach is much easier to absorb than getting it thrown in your face by a loud and obnoxious one. Every time I watch one of these I think "this is nice" and keep watching.
To anyone who need to hear this, you're not a parasite or a bad person. Just capable of destruction like everyone else. Typically its best to reflect on how you can change the behaviors expressed in these steps. Moderation in drugs and sex and establishing limits and self respect for instance. You got this c:
I really needed to hear this because I was literally just thinking how I feel like a parasite. It feels very tough to realize that there is so much toxicity in my behavior in relationships. Thank you for saying this 💕
Everyone keeps talking about the genshin references but legit at 0:48 it is literally a WORLD IS MINE reference, a VOCALOID song during the golden age :DD
For me, exercise and gym are the most effective way to build self-esteem and self-respect. Whenever I feel low emotionally, I go for a run and later on I feel so much better about myself.
Pls tell me what to do when you try to go to the gym here especially in India and people sees you Inferior and hate towards you unnecessarily like they would like to beat you to the hell
@@aqdassyed6572 That is the expectation in America but the reality here is that most people are supportive of people that are actively trying to better themselves. Not sure if thats the same case in India or if people really are just that harsh about it there, id say just ignore them and do your workouts until you arent "inferior" anymore
@@aqdassyed6572 try to ignore them. This isn't about them, it's about you. You're doing this for yourself. Those people hate themselves so much they start hating on other people attempting to improve. One thing you have to understand is that a lot of people in your life will try to hold you back because when they see you out there grinding, it makes them feel like crap about themselves. Sorry for a long paragraph but I feel this is needed to be said.
I didn't think it could be called "Emotionally hungry" But kinda accurate. Last year I was getting crushes left and right. Honestly, I didn't really like any of them, I was just looking for something to get me going for the day. I wanted to be happy thinking about someone to get me up in the morning and out the door. I don't think that was good though. I haven't had a real crush in ages. Before I was just calling it "being a hopeless romantic". Which was also a bit accurate for what I was going through. But everyone goes through it at one point or another, especially now, since people are too scared to try and shoot their shot.
I believe I probably have been in love just once, and at some point it turned into emotional hunger . .. I just wanted to say it was nice to see your comment, I was feeling weird thinking that is not common to feel this way
yeah man i have going through the same thing as of late. im 24 and have never been in a relationship and im losing hope. Maybe Love is not somthing that is meant for me. I have lots of friends tho so its gonna be A OKAY
I found this video too late. I'm severely emotionally hungry, and I drained the energy out of one of my friends. They stopped talking to me. I miss them so much. But I have to respect them and try to make myself better.
I am... I am emotionally hungry for years. All I need is attention and not talking about toxic people in my life. Every signs here is resonates with me so well, and I need to fixed it 🤧
I came here to get ideas to better understand the behavior of a character I'm developing for a short story but instead found myself needing to take time to reflect about how my tendency to seek external validation relates to me being emotionally hungry. Thankyou for this insightful video. I'll take some time to reflect
Me: still emotional damaged from not drawing Kazuha in like a 100 draws. Psych2go: here have a picture of Kazuha in the thumbnail with the titel "Sign of Emotional Hunger" :'(
“Emotionally hungry” What I first thought of: “YOUR EMOTIONS ARE MINE GIVE THEM TO ME, I MUST EAT THEM ALL” Paimon must be hungry thinking about all those emotions to eat lol
I'm starting to understand my old wounds a lot better now than I ever did in earlier stages of my life, and this video honestly hit close to home a little... I know I'm not the only one who's been adopted and brought to America for a better life, and yet, living in the states for most of my life has made me feel different things at different points in time. I just didn't understand half of the things I was carrying with me at the time, whether it was abandonment issues that are related to me being adopted, or feeling like a wallflower in certain social situations back in high school l and struggling to speak up for myself. I definitely don't blame my parents now for how I've turned out, but if anything, I realize that my views in life and how I navigate it doesn't make having a relationship with them easy sometimes.
I didn't know exactly what it was until I watched this, but I feel this. I kinda realised that I was being incredibly needy and burning myself out emotionally trying to please others. I feel that I have gotten better at processing my emotions in a healthy direction with my brother and friends helping me get my emotional needs met.
I've recently gotten out of a relationship. One that has left me emotionally drained as it felt like I was the only one trying to do my best in it, but in the end, it left me feeling so empty. All these points hit me perfectly. I have a new group of friends, often wanting to meet more people, I'm overly joyous with them, and I am having an interest in someone, but even we both agreed not to do anything serious until we're both on stable minds. Thankfully, I have been working on making myself a better person, and keeping myself happy instead of relying on others. Working out is slowly getting added into my routine, so I can build some self-confidence as well, but not a day goes by where I feel so lonely and feel like I need someone by me to hug. I'm working on kicking that habit, but it is *very* difficult. I've got too much on my time to get help of sorts, so I'm doing what I can myself to at least lift some of my burden. Even before the relationship amplified my need for affection, I've sort of always been this kind of person. Someone that loves to be around others and gain enjoyment out of it.
@@User-hq6rr I really appreciate your truthful words. Over the last year, a lot has happened in my life, but I am finally the person I want to be with the one whom I am happy to spend my days with. I really appreciate you taking the time to say this on a year old comment of mine. Thank you kindly.~
@@sugarymess708 I know Im late to the party, but I just wanted to say that Im glad that you could recover from all that bad stuff and found a person who is stable and makes you happy! To be honest, Im still kinda down for lots of stuff, and the emotional hunger is even worse because I feel really deep and vocalize my feelings and that gets away potential partners for me. I hope one day I could grow just as you did. Cheers and hope you are doing ok!
Burnt out and emotionally hungry on top of being an introvert with anxiety and paranoia. The negatives keep piling up. Glad this channel exists. Thanks to this channel, I can give myself knock off therapy and make a list of what else is wrong with me.
I see almost all of these in myself. I've been dealing with ptsd for a large part of my life and it's just gotten worse by the manifestation of extreme depression (rather the realization it was always there), and worsening anxiety. A big catalyst for all of this was someone I loved more than anything whose trauma I internalized and their traumas ended up traumatizing me further. However I never knew emotional hunger existed until this video and I see myself in all but one of these symptoms as I prefer to isolate than be super social however I do rely on a tight knit group for companionship. I appreciate the video and anyone who bothered to read such a long randrandom stupid rant from a stranger, I really don't have anyone to talk to so i end up spilling my guts to anywhere I can without thinking.
You don’t have to feel bad about ranting, its okay, and it’s understandable to want to get it all out. Let me know if you want to talk more or if you want any help dealing with your ptsd/depression/anxiety. Good luck
I’m sorry to hear about that. I didn’t even know you could internalize someone else’s trauma, that sounds painful. Sorry you have to deal with that. Try to stay strong though, things can get better
You can train/condition yourself out of these behaviors and habits. Your brain associates things together. What fires together wires together. Associate healthy behavior and thoughts to your feelings. Train yourself out of it.
@@e99783 I think that's a gross oversimplification of how mental health issues work. To some degree you can "train" yourself to think or feel differently and reduce your mental health issues and neurotic habits, but you can only go so far with that as it is just a surface solution, and these issues are likely to come up again later if that is the only solution you use. All mental health issues and neurotic behaviours are there for a very good reason, whether you understand why or not, so you're not wrong for having them and you don't need to be trained or corrected out of them. These things stem from trauma and from being hurt in the past, and you need to address and work through this stuff and as you do the mental health issues will naturally dissipate as they will no longer being needed. Not trying to disrespect, I just find that people commonly underestimate the depth and the real causes of emotional issues, and so I want to mention that trying to train yourself out of them is just a surface solution and it won't really do much other than reduce your symptoms a bit, but the wound still exists deep down.
I'm definitely starved I'm in a relationship with a girl i love and I so want to be better for her but mainly myself.It is so hard to see myself being this way and not strong enough to stop before I do it, so to anyone who is also starved and trying to recover I have faith in you so please have faith in me too.
I am emotionally hungry. I left a relationship that spoiled me with attention and my last relationship after that didn't give me enough attention. It hurt me and her but I needed to let go before it would worsen as time goes on.
This is the earliest I've ever been! Just want to say that this channel has helped me through SO many hard times and I'm so thankful. I watch this channel when I'm feeling down, bored, or if I just feel like learning! Thank you again 💓
I kind of related to some of the signs. Especially about being clingy and doing whatever the other person wants me to do even if that went against my own values (for instance having sex everytime we met even though I wanted to go on dates and spend more quality couple time). I was actually surprised to see this video recommended to me when my recent 'relationship' ended up in a bad way. Now I think I have a better idea on what things I have to avoid and on what I have to start working on. I don't feel insecure about myself in a physical way, but usually more on the aspect of being worthy of someone. When I compare my dates/partners to myself I always value them higher because of their education, work, social life, financial situation, etc. I always have this nagging thought telling me: "Faruk, you're not worthy of this person". Eventually this thought always makes me anxious and put more effort, maybe too much effort, into maintaining a relationship. Until now I have never had a good relationship last over a year. The only one that lasted more than a year was my first and most toxic relationship 😅 I believe my first step will be to take a hiatus from looking for someone to fill the void, but instead focus on myself and really think about what love means to me and what I'm expecting to find. Maybe it's just foolish hope, but I really hope to come across true love spontaneously instead of having to rely on dating apps.
Im glad you could realize this! Better late than never. And I'm sure youll come across someone one day, life has it's surprises at every corner after all. Best of luck to you!
Wow, your self reflection is on point, you can be very proud of yourself! Also that you can be that honest with yourself. Much compliments :) What I want to recommend is to work on your sense of self worth ;D I work on that as well, it's huge work but extremely important!! It affects all aspects of your life and with bad self worth people tend to sabotage their own luck. Really it's hard work but totally worth it :) Many hugs from Switzerland 🇨🇭
@@lady_pink_kurama yeah I think I tend to do that as well sometimes when I think I'm not worthy of her/him or his/her time. Thanks for the compliments and good luck to you too :)
Strangely, I do relate to most of the categories, but, I can't see what I feel as emotional hunger I don't fell like the people around me get drained, and I always ask them Maybe it's just my feeling that everything is going to end up badly?
I can relate to some of this too, I think it's just how much its affecting your behaviour mostly; if you have enough self control or tend to bottle things (like suffering in silence) up it might not drain people around you, and for those who act upon it and frequently involve others it might drain people around them more. Ofc there's a lot of nuance depending on each person's situation, like having a very supportive friend compared to people who aren't as supportive and rather distance themselves when things aren't roses and sunshine
Wow, I know someone right now who is experiencing just this. It's crazy how much friction it can cause between those who want to help them, those who can provide what they think they want, and the emotionally deprived themselves.
It was nice to see credits at the end. Now I finally know the name of the voice over person. Amanda Silvera. I love her voice and find it so soothing and pleasant. Good job Amanda!
I just lost my best friendship due to my emotional hunger. Thank you for enlightening me on this topic! I wish I could tell her how sorry I am for what I unknowingly did to her
Serious question: this video's symptom is exactly me. What should I do as a first action? Not care about others? I'm at the point where I'm afraid to talk to others because I might accidentally say something I shouldn't have and hurt or make others go away. Is it just go on with nature and life? I'm at the point where I have to put on a mask with the most mundane personality that I don't like(and isn't healthy) to respond to every situation with a "normal" response. Having this personality is safe and painful, people will never reach out to an uninteresting person, i a lot of times wonder if the people i hold close think i have even any worth. I'm on this journey alone is what my daily high school routine has become. (Objectively speaking, my classmates are amazing, it's just my state of soul that's the problem)
Progress update: After a “conscious” mental breakdown(MB)(where you’re aware of your actions), I’ve convinced myself that I’ve hit rock bottom, I’ve lost important social circles, the value of my self esteem, and what it means to love. During my MB, I kept asking myself “why?”, and it dawned on me on what I was most afraid, emotional numbness, I was literally deprived of any emotions, and I believed that it was my subconscious sending his last attempt at saving my soul. I’ve realized that after more than 7 years of my life, I finally understood why my personality was in such shambles. I had all the pieces on why I am what I am, from the fact that I was emotionally hungry because I was beforehand bullied which resulted in me distancing from my family, and then that lead to a lot more complications… After that MB, instead of hitting rock bottom and going to the basement next, I thought to my self that I have nothing left to lose other than myself. so I decide to go back to square one, rebuild and train my personality with the great help of streamers(notably offlineTV and friends) where I can choose the healthy personalities to harbor. I have nothing left lose, only a world, my world, to conquer, win and build a foundation on top of it. If you lose something, it was never yours to begin with, and what is not yours does not belong in your heart but ambition instead. There is no risk when you have nothing left to lose. All that’s left is yourself and where you want to go. I was very scared at first to talk to my classmates with a brand new energetic personality , but don’t worry there’s always a first to everything except there’s a time limit(your life). You don’t have time to worry. “Progress” is not a waste of time. “My mind is like chess, each action represents a personality trait, each move an action, each game an experience.” -myself
I really just feel a need to feel loved and feel safe. And I thought I'd found that, but it was actually only a little taste. And I find myself clinging to it, but also feeling the need to be independent.
i’ve recently found this account and i seriously love it, it’s helping me find answers i’ve needed for so long but just haven’t been ready to accept until now, it may not be pulling me out of the dark place i’m in but it is really helping me understand it and that’s very helpful and somewhat comforting, the voice is soothing too i won’t lie, i’m very grateful this account exists :) thank you
when i say i’m in a dark place that’s over exaggerating it but there’s some tough thoughts i’m struggling to put up with right now and they hurt, but with this it’s like having a friend to go to whenever somethings troubling me and i really enjoy it :)
Whoever the artist is, thank you so much! Saw the thumbnail, immediately clicked because I just love Kazuha, and also because I'm scared of what's to come for him after seeing that stream for 2.1. Made me calmer!! Venti, Barbara, Childe, Kaeya (at the misuse of substances xd), Ganyu, ah, I love them all! Thank you dear artist! Also feel a bit called out on that first part, ehe.
I am so glad that I keep seeing genshin characters in these. My mental health revolves around finding information about dealing with my internal thoughts, then taking a break with video games. Genshin is really close to my heart and I always go long distances to put my character into pretty spots so that when I log in next, I can relax in peace for a few minutes while I look at, for example, the liyue mountains. Up in the sky, the adeptus stone at the highest point where you could sit above the clouds is my favourite place. Gentle music and a beautiful day to night cycle
*6 signs of emotional hunger* 1:05 - You seek approval, and adapt to what others want 1:32 - You give all of yourself 2:05 - You are dependent on social status 2:46 - You don’t have boundaries 3:07 - You solely use casual sex or substances to meet your emotional needs 3:51 - You are overly clingy ❤️ from *High Living - animated videos* 🚀🌙
Well the onr thing i adapt to is becoming the king of the school by idk just giving out gifts to people in exchange to being my friend including the school counselors who are also kids
"Each of your views, likes, comments, and shares makes psychology more accessible to everyone" Most of the comments: *Omg a Dsmp reference / Adventure time reference / Genshin impact reference / Skephalo reference / Dnf reference*
I feel this yet I don't, I'm an introvert who would rather watch movies and get depressed about their relationships then make my own. Then when I do see people, due to my isolation and urge to keep the Convo going. And I end up talking your ears off about myself and bug you if you want to talk. But I don't even know if I do the last part, I've been alone for a while... But I'm the end I'm left feeling worse as I stress about what you thought of the interaction, all the while keeping my flaws on full blast in the back of my head. Idk if I'm like this cuz I'm an Infp, a Virgo, or a Sylph of Space. Edit: Thanks for the first person who like this, it gave me a chance to edit the original text. Didn't change much just added like two sentences at the end and also changed a bit of extra text to make more sense.
I won't even pretend to understand what a Sylph of Space is, but I'll very nearly always give a virtual smile to a fellow INFP. I feel like I have a tendency to want depth and intensity in my relationships, and I simultaneously get very clingy and attached, but at the same time intermittently withdraw from the other person because I need my own space, and I worry about how to communicate that without seeming standoffish or jeopardising how they perceive me. I always wonder how much is too much, and generally spend too much time in my own head. I suppose in the end it is a boundaries problem. Trying to get better about it, but still. There's also a clear difference between the initial rush of finding a kindred spirit and the maintenance of a friendship or relationship over an extended period of time after the dust settles. A very patient friend has helped me to learn more about the latter, as looking back I have - intentionally or not - treated them quite poorly at times. I don't have many concrete answers, but they tend to be different from person to person anyway, so I'll wish you the best in finding yours.
Hmm, I would say to try loving yourself and believing others are on your level, that they're humans just like you, because they are. You don't need approval from others, if you love yourself and you approve of the things you do, then you won't feel as if you need validation. That's all I have to say cuz I have to go to bed, I'm not good with words so I hope I helped :)
The root of this stuff is always in childhood emotional trauma (like 0:24) so to heal this stuff completely you would need to address that. An easier but lighter solution is to learn how to work with your emotions better, to give them the love, understanding and validation they need. That will make it much easier to deal with them and your emotional hunger. (I teach about this stuff on my channel if you need resources for how to do this)
I was lost for a long time I used to just smoke and drink to not feel anything or even think about the past. Now looking back at my childhood I realize I was deprived of the love and attention we all need to be stable and well “normal” and when I finally got that form of attention I gave it my all, I was afraid of being alone again so I did everything to please her not knowing I was hurting myself at the same time just for us not to last. It’s funny how life works. Somedays your happy, somedays your sad, but for me it’s like I can’t feel anything anymore.
I'm definitely somewhat clingy, but I feel like that's just because I've had bad experiences with having friends not being how I thought they were initially.
I started getting better when I found real friends. We share our whole selves with each other all the time and I found after I was getting that part of me much more satisfied, I found that I wasn't "falling in love" with people that treated me like a human being. Unfortunately, that meant I was no longer interested in the person I was with anymore.
I’ve already known I’ve suffered from this for a long time. I think this stemmed from my mother being emotionally hungry as well and being emotionally manipulative my entire life. Periods of neglect to maybe a few hours of overbearing apologies where she forced me to accept them. Wish I could leave my house, sometimes I have fantasies of living with somebody else, being somebody’s well-loved little sibling in a perfect family. It’s not the best solution but it works
*“You’ll watch an entire Netflix series even when the first episodes are slow just because someone told you that ‘it gets better’, but what if you looked at your goals like that and watched your life get better instead?”* Love from a small RUclipsr💙
I recently realized that, for years upon years, I've been subconsciously (and mildly) manipulating people for the love I can't seem to give myself, but I don't know why I can't love myself. And this "emotional hunger" never stopped me from loving others, it just randomly drained them at times. I still do it sometimes, though I try really hard not to.
Pineapples on pizza? Do you agree or disagree?
Disagree
Personally, I disagree. But people each have their own likes and dislikes.
Agree, pineapples are so good on pizza, just my opinion though!
Nope
i agree tbh i sometimes like it sometimes i dont
Boss: What should we do to grow our channel?
Employee 1: Make more videos!
Employee 2: Make it pleasing!
Employee 3: *Genshin*
*all of them!*
Don't forget the Minecraft streamer references in some vids👌👌
employee 3 should get a raise
Lol it's funny because in a later video she stated she started playing genshin ans got attached to it. We're having genshin in these video for a long time now.. and I aint complaining
Employee 3 smort
I SAW THE THUMBNAIL AND CRIED, I APPRECIATE THIS ARTIST
ILY KUMA (The animator) I WANNA SEE YOUR ANIMATIONS AGAIN
OMG A HIT REPLY
Aww thank you! Kuma is one of our new animators!
@@Psych2go oh i didnt know kuma was your new animator
Chim was the only person that had been to her own personal life and the other girl are
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Tip: If you don't like self-reflection, turn everything you don't like about yourself into a character (and possibly everything else into another character) and analyze them instead. It's unbelievably helpful.
I do that all the time and i have fun doing it
@@shukomurao13 Yess
What do you mean??
@@merendoula All of the traits you don't like about yourself, shove them into a character. Then analyze the character.
@@starcycle4308 thank you! I will try this, it sounds very helpful
The fact they use Kaeya for sex and alcohol is hilarious.
He needs help, I won't lie. In the sereniteapot, Traveler says *"Oh so you love to drink to numb the pain Kaeya?"* and Kaeya gets all defensive and denies he uses alchohol as a coping mechanism. He need therapy!
@@loola8908 oh, I know. Kaeya's my favorite boy. But I still find it funny they used Kaeya
@@ashleyivie7183 Who else would they use? It fits him perfectly XD
Poor Kaeya, someone please help him have real love... 😦✌️
THEY KNEW WHAT THEY WERE DOING LMAO
The fact that Childe and Ganyu's profiles on "Tinder" were Tortilla and Cocogoat made me laugh
Cocogoat milk really has a different meaning now huh
@@bryannaing6316 what
@@bootao1671 you read what you read.
it was tortilla, i think
@@elinvierano924 oh, that was a typo. I fixed it tho
Being someone who thought they conquered trauma, even now, I still have this void in me, it’s just there… I’m going to college, and seeing this video made me cry. I’m lost. Gone to a therapist, they told me I didn’t need therapy. I’m just… an emotional parasite? Is that a way of thinking about it? That’s how I’m thinking about it. I’m sucking all the emotions out of others in order to sustain myself, but as a result, I drain them. I turn to video games, but is it enough? Honestly, video games were my escape, but now I’m just lost. I’m crying in bed… lost as can be.
Edit: Update 2 years later: Therapy helped a lot for me. Doing CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) and EMDR was incredibly transformative for me. Highly recommend. Therapy can help a lot with this. Doing much better now.
Ayo cheer up! Don't be lost. Just make sure you're doing things you love. :)
Your comment is literally me. I felt and done the same things you have, and I don’t know how to fix it. My therapist also told me that I was fine and now it just seems like feeling the way I feel is normal. This emptiness and constant need for affection has driven me down what many may consider a spiraling dark hole. People can just say “oh just look at the bright side of things” but that isn’t really going to stop me from feeling the drive to seek the validation of others. I try to find alternatives by playing games, running, or focusing on my college courses, but even then the thought of wanting constant attention never goes away. I don’t know how to fix it and I feel lost and that the world holds no meaning unless I can establish those connections with others.
You both should search for another therapist. This is definitely not normal and you need help and support from a professional therapist. Please search for one who will support you. Don't give up.
I don't know how old you are. But when I was 17, they told me the same. Later I found out that they don't like to give people under the age of 18 a diagnostic. I wish i didn't gave up then. But I thought they are right and I'm just a bad person. Until I found a therapist, some terrible years later.
So please don't give up and search for help. If you don't feel good or healthy, you have the right to go to a therapist. I'm so sorry your therapist was so incompetent. But there are some good ones out there. Just please don't give up. I know how it feels.
@@thomaslee7223 you both should search for another therapist. This is definitely not normal and you need help and support from a professional therapist. Please search for one who will support you. Don't give up.
I don't know how old you are. But when I was 17, they told me the same. Later I found out that they don't like to give people under the age of 18 a diagnostic. I wish i didn't gave up then. But I thought they are right and I'm just a bad person. Until I found a therapist some terrible years later.
So please don't give up and search for help. If yot don't feel good or healthy, you have the right to go to a therapist. I'm so sorry your therapist was so incompetent. But there are some good ones out there. Just please don't give up. I know how it feels.
heyy i hope you're doing okay and i hope you're doing fine
To think that venti and kazuha is here, just makes my day even better
I was only summoned by the Kazuha picture in the thumbnail bc I am a Kazuha simp
I thought it was just me! XD I saw the thumbnail and I was like... wait. That's a Genshin character lol
@@rinapplepie2118 Same ,hello another Kazuha simp 😀
Who the hell are this two
But looks like kazuha will die tho
The fact that they took the two most loneliness genshin characters is evil
Kaeya and ganyu? Kazuha?
too many genshin characters are cripplingly lonely, specify T-T
Well most of the anemo users and half of the rest pretty sure
@@lordofspaghetti5454 Yea exactly. They're all lonely asf, its just that they all have different ways of handling it
Xiao seems to be the most lonely one. And the others are more depressed or mentally unwell in my eyes. Or still unwell because of their losses
My therapist said that emotional hunger (which i suffer from) may not only be because of the absence of love from your parents, but, surprisingly or not, due to the abundance of it.
Which is true, my parents loved me a lot as a child and always protected me a lot, which of course I’m grateful for! However, part of my brain registered that as “if i’m not being loved 24/7 it makes me feel sad and lonely” recently I’ve learned to respect my own boundaries and others’ as well.
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Sorry but is there any chance that you be able to give me some advices on how to fix emotional hunger(absence of love)? Or how to behave toward someone with another type of emotional hunger which you mentioned,(how to behave with those who had too much love or attention in their lives)
If you know any videos on RUclips, I'd appreciate if you tell me the name
@@ali_mbe9732well, this channel has a lot of great resources, so you can go through and see what might work from you. From there, you’ll see other helpful channels recommended. Wish you all the best on your healing journey 💜
i cant go anywhere without seeing genshin… i’ll never be free from this game 😭
Same
same
i don’t wanna escape it honestly
Why would you want to be?
(also if you interact with Genshin content you’ll get more Genshin content)
Same I'm addicted
The Genshin art is so cute 😭
Buying the same as the original bible and I have to be inferior and the other girl
❌ *DONT READ MY NAME* ❌
❌ *YOU WILL REGRET IT* ❌
@@dontreadmypicture4835 Ok spammer
It really is!
@@dontreadmypicture4835 ok i won't ☺️
IKR 😭
If you found their echo conch, Kaeya tries to reconcile with Diluc through their childhood memories. But Diluc being the closed off person he is, just brushes him off.
It’s really sad I hope later on in the story they can make amends with each other.
THE HATSUNE MIKU AND GENSHIN IMPACT REFERENCE ARE PERFECT
IM SO GLAD SOMEONE ELSE NOTICED THE HATSUNE MIKU THING SJAJANAJAAAAAAAAAAAAA
@@batteryz9615 Relax girl😦
@@coconutmilk5929
no
@@batteryz9615 Damn why
@@batteryz9615 sEkAi dEeEe
Genshin? Vocaloid? Whoever is writing these storyboards needs a raise
Are people forgetting the cute transform blob on purpose?
OMGEEEEEEE
I know right- as soon as 0:52 came i was like "wait this is familiar-"
@@moltenicecream7508 SEKAI DE ICHIBAN OHIME-SAMA
@@Eosinophyllis
SOOOO IUUUUUU ATSUKAII
It's like I yearn for happiness. I don't feel happy or to confident about myself. I really feel like something is missing from my life.
To be happy is all that we desire
I was laughing when I read, “Tortilla”, and “Cocogoat”. Those genshin references I can’t-🤣
Same for me too.
How is tortilla a genshin reference?
@@makirollioo tartaglia = tortilla
@@tskiyori7954 oh okay
Left swiped haha
This just made me realize that Venti is one of the most mentally stable characters
edit: with the advent of all the new characters and catching up to the lore, i would like to change my opinion on that and say that Kazuha is much mentally stable than the others, and that's coz of the way he deals with it. he has a stoic personality and way of looking at life, and i personally vibe with it. yes i know that Amber and Barbara, and a lot of other characters are probably much more mentally in-tune, but im looking at this in terms of what they've all went through. and i doubt amber and barbara have gone through much of anything. idk about sumeru characters tho, i could be wrong
Him and Zhongli i'd say
@@dude8351 he still kinda suffers from loss of his acquaintances and friends
@@manavdevsingh5492 clearly, but if you confront him with the coping mechanisms of Baal... he seems in a pretty good place
I don't think drinking away like Kaeya is stable
@@fbichan9418 he's one of the "most" mentally stable, others are just worse
the fact that Childe’s tinder user was “Tortilla” made me laugh to hard 😹😹
"Hmm what should we draw now...??"
*smiles in corner* it begins with g and ends in enshin
garlic hension
How’s chat noir?
@@lemonmelon2612 depressed cause of his lady
gpedophiliaenshin
@@doodlyhoodly this made me laugh
1. You adapt to others' wishes
2. You give yourself away
3. You depend on your social place
4. You lack boundaries
5. You use material items to feel emotion
6. You're overly clingy
I'm not sure if I'm emotionally hungry, but the last line reminded me of something else. My mum always shared all of her problem with me (maybe bc I don't talk much; prefer to listen), even the very personal stuff. I get that parents too have problems and hiding them from kids isnt particarully good, but telling a 14yo about your parenting problems that involve your siblings whom you love very much leaves very mixed feelings. She always talked so openly about her poor situation with money, so I felt guilty bc I was one of the things she had to spend money on. I'll have to make sure that I'm not that type of person in any relation bc it's really draining for the other person
I have mixed feelings about that kind of situation, honestly. Both of my parents shielded me from a lot of stuff until they divorced. I chose to stay with my mother for two reasons: because I wanted to remain in my family home to minimise the upheaval (I was quite sheltered) but also because I feel like she needed me more than he did, even though if I have to be perfectly honest, I was more attached to him. I'll never forget the times where I had to play counselor while she was drunk, and it was a dice roll whether she would even remember what I said the next morning or whether she would become irrationally ill-tempered or even violent and a danger to herself.
I always told her that I would want for my parents to feel as open with me as I did with them, because I loved her and cared about her, but looking back I can't say that it didn't cause me any harm, either. That kind of thing is insidious, like a slow poison; I thought I was invulnerable at the time, but in the end I suppose that's just not how humans are. I don't regret any of my decisions (except for one that I made much later in life) but I still wish things had turned out a little differently, perhaps... if nothing else, at least you have an insight on how it feels to be in that position and what to avoid.
Yeah while that may be so, I think it shows that your mom was going through a lot too and just wasn't sure who to turn to. Don't judge her for that is my suggestion
I can relate wholeheartedly. Game set and match. Thank you. 🎉🎉🎉
The fact that Kazuha is referanced in this is warming my heart after seeing multiple people saying he might die ToT
Sadge
I really hope he doesn't die all my fav characters die
He's not going to die. His rerun hasn't happened yet, they will also need to justify releasing and selling his future skin (just like they did with Jean). Moreover, I believe that what was shown in the trailer is his friend (or his friend's vision) saving him. Also, I'd ask everyone who keeps comparing Genshin to Honkai to stop.
he isn’t gonna die
NO
How to give people pleasure through a video:
1) Narrate nicely.
2) Giving interesting informative great advice.
3) Using hilarious Genshin Impact reference.
The fact that they used Kaeya for the drinking part 💀
YES THIS!!!
4.) putting kazuha as the thumbnail
*t o r t i l l a*
*c o c o g o a t*
Her gentle tone and approach is soothing. A calm and comforting approach is much easier to absorb than getting it thrown in your face by a loud and obnoxious one. Every time I watch one of these I think "this is nice" and keep watching.
To anyone who need to hear this, you're not a parasite or a bad person. Just capable of destruction like everyone else. Typically its best to reflect on how you can change the behaviors expressed in these steps. Moderation in drugs and sex and establishing limits and self respect for instance. You got this c:
I really needed to hear this because I was literally just thinking how I feel like a parasite. It feels very tough to realize that there is so much toxicity in my behavior in relationships. Thank you for saying this 💕
Everyone keeps talking about the genshin references but legit at 0:48 it is literally a WORLD IS MINE reference, a VOCALOID song during the golden age :DD
I miss those times😔
I WAS SEARCHING FOR THIS COMMENT , YES YES YES
@@aetherssub4445 same bro ಥ‿ಥ
OMG MY TWO FANDOMS TOGETHER
Omg i recently started listening to the golden age songs again! Yoooo if u got a playlist, drop it here please!
I’ve never felt such a strange combination of emotional hunger, actual hunger, and sleep deprivation.
Bring it to me all the work that you can get a new song that he was in my room but
❌ *DONT READ MY NAME* ❌
❌ *YOU WILL REGRET IT* ❌
Sleeep please 😂, if you sleep well you Live well
@@ragedaniel5475 WHATS YOUR ADDRESS?
@Gucci Crimson what is that guy up to exactly? How do you have 5K subs with no content?
sleep hunger
Bless the person who chooses the story script
You keep drawing us in with the genshin thumbnails
lmaoyes
Burnout and I recentl to the caribbean that was the first place that you have
❌ *DONT READ MY NAME* ❌
❌ *YOU WILL REGRET IT* ❌
I love how they named Childe (tartaglia) Tortilla omg💀😂
And Ganyu to Cocogoat, that’s adorable!❤️
Yeah lol
Ah yes, my favorite harbinger, Tortilla
I love how the Genshin community just came together because of all the Genshin reference
as a kazuha main and someone who wants venti i cant stop smiling LOL
SAME
AGREE SAME
SAME
@Welcome to mcdonalds What is you order? ?
SAME??? I FOUND MY PEOPLE???
I've never clicked on a video faster
(It was mostly for Genshin. This animator is my favorite bc of the Genshin stuff)
That voice is the most soothing, beautiful and comforting sound I have ever heard.
For me, exercise and gym are the most effective way to build self-esteem and self-respect. Whenever I feel low emotionally, I go for a run and later on I feel so much better about myself.
Doesnt work for everyone. I can easily get depressed shortly after a workout
@@dreamthedream8929 yeah I feel the same after studying. It do be like that sometimes.
Pls tell me what to do when you try to go to the gym here especially in India and people sees you Inferior and hate towards you unnecessarily like they would like to beat you to the hell
@@aqdassyed6572 That is the expectation in America but the reality here is that most people are supportive of people that are actively trying to better themselves. Not sure if thats the same case in India or if people really are just that harsh about it there, id say just ignore them and do your workouts until you arent "inferior" anymore
@@aqdassyed6572 try to ignore them. This isn't about them, it's about you. You're doing this for yourself.
Those people hate themselves so much they start hating on other people attempting to improve.
One thing you have to understand is that a lot of people in your life will try to hold you back because when they see you out there grinding, it makes them feel like crap about themselves.
Sorry for a long paragraph but I feel this is needed to be said.
I APPRECIATE THE GENSHIN IN THIS VIDEO XD✨✨✨
Edit:
The “cocogoat” at 1:38!!!
I’M WHEEEEZINGGG
and t o r t i l l a
@@wolfhead8926
Y E S. The tartagtilla✨
ME TOO IT WAS SO FUNNY
AND THE TORTILLA
SLIEM
And then there's me, who has emotional hunger, but suppress it in my relationships because I don't want to be seen as "needy" or "clingy".
Hun there might be a time where you cant surpress it anymore i was like that before and now i dying for alot of emotional food rn
I didn't think it could be called "Emotionally hungry" But kinda accurate. Last year I was getting crushes left and right. Honestly, I didn't really like any of them, I was just looking for something to get me going for the day. I wanted to be happy thinking about someone to get me up in the morning and out the door.
I don't think that was good though. I haven't had a real crush in ages. Before I was just calling it "being a hopeless romantic". Which was also a bit accurate for what I was going through. But everyone goes through it at one point or another, especially now, since people are too scared to try and shoot their shot.
thank you, i'm think i'm going through the same thing right now and your comment is spot on.
I believe I probably have been in love just once, and at some point it turned into emotional hunger .
.. I just wanted to say it was nice to see your comment, I was feeling weird thinking that is not common to feel this way
Well said! We all must “shoot out shot”. I really needed to hear that :)
yeah man i have going through the same thing as of late. im 24 and have never been in a relationship and im losing hope. Maybe Love is not somthing that is meant for me. I have lots of friends tho so its gonna be A OKAY
What did you do to get out of that situation?
I found this video too late. I'm severely emotionally hungry, and I drained the energy out of one of my friends. They stopped talking to me. I miss them so much. But I have to respect them and try to make myself better.
I think I'm critically emotionally hungey and that's because i surpressed my desire feelings for toooooo longh
I love how they include fandoms in their videos, makes it a lot more entertaining!!
The Genshin Impact references made me love this channel. Also, pls give ditto at 1:05 some love
I agree, I'm not missing the cute transform blob.
I MISSED THAT AT FIRST
Ditto too smort for me 😊
I am... I am emotionally hungry for years. All I need is attention and not talking about toxic people in my life. Every signs here is resonates with me so well, and I need to fixed it 🤧
I'm not emotionally hungry, but I'm hungry for those *GENSHIN IMPACT THUMBNAILSSS*
*“You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending”*
Love from a small channel💙
I came here to get ideas to better understand the behavior of a character I'm developing for a short story but instead found myself needing to take time to reflect about how my tendency to seek external validation relates to me being emotionally hungry. Thankyou for this insightful video. I'll take some time to reflect
Well well well. Another new animator that immediately leaves an impact. Wondeful job :]
You mean a
Genshin
Impact
I’ll leave now
@@y2kayyy Aaaaaayyyy! I like puns
@@y2kayyy that was the joke -.-
Me: still emotional damaged from not drawing Kazuha in like a 100 draws. Psych2go: here have a picture of Kazuha in the thumbnail with the titel "Sign of Emotional Hunger"
:'(
And what 5* did you get? Qiqi? Diluc? Queen Kequing? Jean? Mona?
@@ReySatoshi Diluc
@@drey7459 I like him but not gonna lie, he fell outta meta if not well equiped.
THE THUMBNAILS ON THIS CHANNEL IS GORGEOUS
YES! MY BOI KAZUHA LET'S GOOOO
Hatin said the company was not a classic but a little baby and it will be a
❌ *DONT READ MY NAME* ❌
❌ *YOU WILL REGRET IT* ❌
“Emotionally hungry”
What I first thought of:
“YOUR EMOTIONS ARE MINE GIVE THEM TO ME, I MUST EAT THEM ALL”
Paimon must be hungry thinking about all those emotions to eat lol
Emotion gluttony
Ah yes, emotion. *Yummy.*
@@milkncookiesgacha3524 yummy emotions gotta eat them all
Lumine watching Psych2Go is now canon, hope ur doing well girlie
@@unoriginalname4544 Childe?! 🤨😟
I'm starting to understand my old wounds a lot better now than I ever did in earlier stages of my life, and this video honestly hit close to home a little... I know I'm not the only one who's been adopted and brought to America for a better life, and yet, living in the states for most of my life has made me feel different things at different points in time. I just didn't understand half of the things I was carrying with me at the time, whether it was abandonment issues that are related to me being adopted, or feeling like a wallflower in certain social situations back in high school l and struggling to speak up for myself. I definitely don't blame my parents now for how I've turned out, but if anything, I realize that my views in life and how I navigate it doesn't make having a relationship with them easy sometimes.
I didn't know exactly what it was until I watched this, but I feel this. I kinda realised that I was being incredibly needy and burning myself out emotionally trying to please others. I feel that I have gotten better at processing my emotions in a healthy direction with my brother and friends helping me get my emotional needs met.
I HAVE AN OBSESSION WITH VENTI SO WHEN I SAW THE FIRST SCENE I LITERALLY SCREAMED (but i am obsessed with almost every character )
I've been seeing therapists since February, but I really appreciate these tidbits
I've recently gotten out of a relationship. One that has left me emotionally drained as it felt like I was the only one trying to do my best in it, but in the end, it left me feeling so empty. All these points hit me perfectly. I have a new group of friends, often wanting to meet more people, I'm overly joyous with them, and I am having an interest in someone, but even we both agreed not to do anything serious until we're both on stable minds. Thankfully, I have been working on making myself a better person, and keeping myself happy instead of relying on others. Working out is slowly getting added into my routine, so I can build some self-confidence as well, but not a day goes by where I feel so lonely and feel like I need someone by me to hug. I'm working on kicking that habit, but it is *very* difficult. I've got too much on my time to get help of sorts, so I'm doing what I can myself to at least lift some of my burden.
Even before the relationship amplified my need for affection, I've sort of always been this kind of person. Someone that loves to be around others and gain enjoyment out of it.
@@User-hq6rr I really appreciate your truthful words. Over the last year, a lot has happened in my life, but I am finally the person I want to be with the one whom I am happy to spend my days with.
I really appreciate you taking the time to say this on a year old comment of mine. Thank you kindly.~
@@sugarymess708 I know Im late to the party, but I just wanted to say that Im glad that you could recover from all that bad stuff and found a person who is stable and makes you happy! To be honest, Im still kinda down for lots of stuff, and the emotional hunger is even worse because I feel really deep and vocalize my feelings and that gets away potential partners for me. I hope one day I could grow just as you did. Cheers and hope you are doing ok!
Damn, just calling Kaeya out on part 5 aren't you 😂 But in all seriousness I love this video. It's very informative and the crossover is wonderful.
This video caused one the worst meltdowns ive had all year.
Burnt out and emotionally hungry on top of being an introvert with anxiety and paranoia. The negatives keep piling up. Glad this channel exists. Thanks to this channel, I can give myself knock off therapy and make a list of what else is wrong with me.
I see almost all of these in myself. I've been dealing with ptsd for a large part of my life and it's just gotten worse by the manifestation of extreme depression (rather the realization it was always there), and worsening anxiety. A big catalyst for all of this was someone I loved more than anything whose trauma I internalized and their traumas ended up traumatizing me further. However I never knew emotional hunger existed until this video and I see myself in all but one of these symptoms as I prefer to isolate than be super social however I do rely on a tight knit group for companionship. I appreciate the video and anyone who bothered to read such a long randrandom stupid rant from a stranger, I really don't have anyone to talk to so i end up spilling my guts to anywhere I can without thinking.
You don’t have to feel bad about ranting, its okay, and it’s understandable to want to get it all out. Let me know if you want to talk more or if you want any help dealing with your ptsd/depression/anxiety. Good luck
I’m sorry to hear about that. I didn’t even know you could internalize someone else’s trauma, that sounds painful. Sorry you have to deal with that. Try to stay strong though, things can get better
You can train/condition yourself out of these behaviors and habits. Your brain associates things together. What fires together wires together. Associate healthy behavior and thoughts to your feelings. Train yourself out of it.
@@e99783 I think that's a gross oversimplification of how mental health issues work. To some degree you can "train" yourself to think or feel differently and reduce your mental health issues and neurotic habits, but you can only go so far with that as it is just a surface solution, and these issues are likely to come up again later if that is the only solution you use.
All mental health issues and neurotic behaviours are there for a very good reason, whether you understand why or not, so you're not wrong for having them and you don't need to be trained or corrected out of them.
These things stem from trauma and from being hurt in the past, and you need to address and work through this stuff and as you do the mental health issues will naturally dissipate as they will no longer being needed.
Not trying to disrespect, I just find that people commonly underestimate the depth and the real causes of emotional issues, and so I want to mention that trying to train yourself out of them is just a surface solution and it won't really do much other than reduce your symptoms a bit, but the wound still exists deep down.
Can I send virtual hug?
this voice is so delish & smooth
AS A KAZUHA MAIN THANK YOU FOR THE THUMBNAIL SO MUCH YOU MADE MY DAY KGDHJSKHJGDSF
also the way Childe was named Tortilla lmao that made me wheeze
i love that this channel constantly references games and other communities
I'm definitely starved I'm in a relationship with a girl i love and I so want to be better for her but mainly myself.It is so hard to see myself being this way and not strong enough to stop before I do it, so to anyone who is also starved and trying to recover I have faith in you so please have faith in me too.
I do
I am emotionally hungry. I left a relationship that spoiled me with attention and my last relationship after that didn't give me enough attention. It hurt me and her but I needed to let go before it would worsen as time goes on.
This is the earliest I've ever been! Just want to say that this channel has helped me through SO many hard times and I'm so thankful. I watch this channel when I'm feeling down, bored, or if I just feel like learning! Thank you again 💓
the artist is a wEEEEEEBBBBB.....and im living for it.........thank you.....
“The feels can’t get to me I’m drunk” “but you can get me anytime😉” not gonna lie that line is pretty damn smooth
I kind of related to some of the signs. Especially about being clingy and doing whatever the other person wants me to do even if that went against my own values (for instance having sex everytime we met even though I wanted to go on dates and spend more quality couple time). I was actually surprised to see this video recommended to me when my recent 'relationship' ended up in a bad way. Now I think I have a better idea on what things I have to avoid and on what I have to start working on. I don't feel insecure about myself in a physical way, but usually more on the aspect of being worthy of someone. When I compare my dates/partners to myself I always value them higher because of their education, work, social life, financial situation, etc. I always have this nagging thought telling me: "Faruk, you're not worthy of this person". Eventually this thought always makes me anxious and put more effort, maybe too much effort, into maintaining a relationship. Until now I have never had a good relationship last over a year. The only one that lasted more than a year was my first and most toxic relationship 😅 I believe my first step will be to take a hiatus from looking for someone to fill the void, but instead focus on myself and really think about what love means to me and what I'm expecting to find. Maybe it's just foolish hope, but I really hope to come across true love spontaneously instead of having to rely on dating apps.
Im glad you could realize this! Better late than never. And I'm sure youll come across someone one day, life has it's surprises at every corner after all. Best of luck to you!
Wow, your self reflection is on point, you can be very proud of yourself! Also that you can be that honest with yourself. Much compliments :)
What I want to recommend is to work on your sense of self worth ;D I work on that as well, it's huge work but extremely important!! It affects all aspects of your life and with bad self worth people tend to sabotage their own luck. Really it's hard work but totally worth it :)
Many hugs from Switzerland 🇨🇭
@@matiisme thank you! You're right and I hope the same for you too!
@@lady_pink_kurama yeah I think I tend to do that as well sometimes when I think I'm not worthy of her/him or his/her time. Thanks for the compliments and good luck to you too :)
@@farukmehmethanelmas8382 you are worthy, just say that to yourself even if it feels weird :)
Thanks, never give up!! 😊😊
I come back to this video every few months
Strangely, I do relate to most of the categories, but, I can't see what I feel as emotional hunger
I don't fell like the people around me get drained, and I always ask them
Maybe it's just my feeling that everything is going to end up badly?
sameeee
I can relate to some of this too, I think it's just how much its affecting your behaviour mostly; if you have enough self control or tend to bottle things (like suffering in silence) up it might not drain people around you, and for those who act upon it and frequently involve others it might drain people around them more.
Ofc there's a lot of nuance depending on each person's situation, like having a very supportive friend compared to people who aren't as supportive and rather distance themselves when things aren't roses and sunshine
Maybe your draining your own self
In all seriousness, I'm glad this was covered. I wanted to keep tabs on myself about this
0:25 IS THAT REX LAPIZ ON THAT WALL SIR- WHY IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT THIS?! Awesome video and topic btw, the genshin art just made it better!
Wow, I know someone right now who is experiencing just this. It's crazy how much friction it can cause between those who want to help them, those who can provide what they think they want, and the emotionally deprived themselves.
It was nice to see credits at the end. Now I finally know the name of the voice over person. Amanda Silvera. I love her voice and find it so soothing and pleasant. Good job Amanda!
💕ty Bella
I saw Kazuha in the thumbnail and now I follow everything you guys ever post
I just lost my best friendship due to my emotional hunger. Thank you for enlightening me on this topic! I wish I could tell her how sorry I am for what I unknowingly did to her
Serious question: this video's symptom is exactly me. What should I do as a first action? Not care about others? I'm at the point where I'm afraid to talk to others because I might accidentally say something I shouldn't have and hurt or make others go away. Is it just go on with nature and life? I'm at the point where I have to put on a mask with the most mundane personality that I don't like(and isn't healthy) to respond to every situation with a "normal" response. Having this personality is safe and painful, people will never reach out to an uninteresting person, i a lot of times wonder if the people i hold close think i have even any worth. I'm on this journey alone is what my daily high school routine has become. (Objectively speaking, my classmates are amazing, it's just my state of soul that's the problem)
@L What if im in a place where i cannot access therapy much less pay for it?
Progress update: After a “conscious” mental breakdown(MB)(where you’re aware of your actions), I’ve convinced myself that I’ve hit rock bottom, I’ve lost important social circles, the value of my self esteem, and what it means to love. During my MB, I kept asking myself “why?”, and it dawned on me on what I was most afraid, emotional numbness, I was literally deprived of any emotions, and I believed that it was my subconscious sending his last attempt at saving my soul. I’ve realized that after more than 7 years of my life, I finally understood why my personality was in such shambles. I had all the pieces on why I am what I am, from the fact that I was emotionally hungry because I was beforehand bullied which resulted in me distancing from my family, and then that lead to a lot more complications… After that MB, instead of hitting rock bottom and going to the basement next, I thought to my self that I have nothing left to lose other than myself. so I decide to go back to square one, rebuild and train my personality with the great help of streamers(notably offlineTV and friends) where I can choose the healthy personalities to harbor. I have nothing left lose, only a world, my world, to conquer, win and build a foundation on top of it. If you lose something, it was never yours to begin with, and what is not yours does not belong in your heart but ambition instead. There is no risk when you have nothing left to lose. All that’s left is yourself and where you want to go.
I was very scared at first to talk to my classmates with a brand new energetic personality , but don’t worry there’s always a first to everything except there’s a time limit(your life). You don’t have time to worry.
“Progress” is not a waste of time.
“My mind is like chess, each action represents a personality trait, each move an action, each game an experience.” -myself
@@monyvesdubois this is beautiful. Your self awareness is heartwarming. keep being you. Take care of yourself.
@@monyvesdubois that was a beautiful quote Yves❤
I really just feel a need to feel loved and feel safe. And I thought I'd found that, but it was actually only a little taste. And I find myself clinging to it, but also feeling the need to be independent.
Genshin references are making everything just better
This was so needed by me. I always feel like this. I relate to all of the signs I do all of that.
the more videos I watch, the more I fully believe I'm beyond fixing, and beyond being lovable or even having friends
i’ve recently found this account and i seriously love it, it’s helping me find answers i’ve needed for so long but just haven’t been ready to accept until now, it may not be pulling me out of the dark place i’m in but it is really helping me understand it and that’s very helpful and somewhat comforting, the voice is soothing too i won’t lie, i’m very grateful this account exists :) thank you
when i say i’m in a dark place that’s over exaggerating it but there’s some tough thoughts i’m struggling to put up with right now and they hurt, but with this it’s like having a friend to go to whenever somethings troubling me and i really enjoy it :)
Whoever the artist is, thank you so much! Saw the thumbnail, immediately clicked because I just love Kazuha, and also because I'm scared of what's to come for him after seeing that stream for 2.1.
Made me calmer!! Venti, Barbara, Childe, Kaeya (at the misuse of substances xd), Ganyu, ah, I love them all! Thank you dear artist!
Also feel a bit called out on that first part, ehe.
I am so glad that I keep seeing genshin characters in these. My mental health revolves around finding information about dealing with my internal thoughts, then taking a break with video games. Genshin is really close to my heart and I always go long distances to put my character into pretty spots so that when I log in next, I can relax in peace for a few minutes while I look at, for example, the liyue mountains. Up in the sky, the adeptus stone at the highest point where you could sit above the clouds is my favourite place. Gentle music and a beautiful day to night cycle
*6 signs of emotional hunger*
1:05 - You seek approval, and adapt to what others want
1:32 - You give all of yourself
2:05 - You are dependent on social status
2:46 - You don’t have boundaries
3:07 - You solely use casual sex or substances to meet your emotional needs
3:51 - You are overly clingy
❤️ from *High Living - animated videos* 🚀🌙
oh thanks i can’t watch the video right now so i was looking for this have a good night
Thanks, I have to go to bed so this helps
@@coralz7636 yeah fr sleep tight don’t let the bed bugs bite
@@carnage9935 Thanks, you sleep well also 😁
Well the onr thing i adapt to is becoming the king of the school by idk just giving out gifts to people in exchange to being my friend including the school counselors who are also kids
"Each of your views, likes, comments, and shares makes psychology more accessible to everyone"
Most of the comments: *Omg a Dsmp reference / Adventure time reference / Genshin impact reference / Skephalo reference / Dnf reference*
Screw it, your voice is just too nice I'm almost crying. That's it
I feel this yet I don't, I'm an introvert who would rather watch movies and get depressed about their relationships then make my own. Then when I do see people, due to my isolation and urge to keep the Convo going. And I end up talking your ears off about myself and bug you if you want to talk. But I don't even know if I do the last part, I've been alone for a while... But I'm the end I'm left feeling worse as I stress about what you thought of the interaction, all the while keeping my flaws on full blast in the back of my head. Idk if I'm like this cuz I'm an Infp, a Virgo, or a Sylph of Space.
Edit: Thanks for the first person who like this, it gave me a chance to edit the original text. Didn't change much just added like two sentences at the end and also changed a bit of extra text to make more sense.
I won't even pretend to understand what a Sylph of Space is, but I'll very nearly always give a virtual smile to a fellow INFP. I feel like I have a tendency to want depth and intensity in my relationships, and I simultaneously get very clingy and attached, but at the same time intermittently withdraw from the other person because I need my own space, and I worry about how to communicate that without seeming standoffish or jeopardising how they perceive me.
I always wonder how much is too much, and generally spend too much time in my own head. I suppose in the end it is a boundaries problem. Trying to get better about it, but still. There's also a clear difference between the initial rush of finding a kindred spirit and the maintenance of a friendship or relationship over an extended period of time after the dust settles. A very patient friend has helped me to learn more about the latter, as looking back I have - intentionally or not - treated them quite poorly at times.
I don't have many concrete answers, but they tend to be different from person to person anyway, so I'll wish you the best in finding yours.
Anyone got any advice on how you might be able to “heal” or “fix” this? I related to some but I’m not to sure where I should start to help myself TwT
Hmm, I would say to try loving yourself and believing others are on your level, that they're humans just like you, because they are. You don't need approval from others, if you love yourself and you approve of the things you do, then you won't feel as if you need validation. That's all I have to say cuz I have to go to bed, I'm not good with words so I hope I helped :)
Therapy's always a good start
Xeni rice has been the only one that had to go to a woman is a great deal to make was the first
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❌ *YOU WILL REGRET IT* ❌
The root of this stuff is always in childhood emotional trauma (like 0:24) so to heal this stuff completely you would need to address that.
An easier but lighter solution is to learn how to work with your emotions better, to give them the love, understanding and validation they need. That will make it much easier to deal with them and your emotional hunger. (I teach about this stuff on my channel if you need resources for how to do this)
@@TristanJames12 then how should I do that?
I was lost for a long time I used to just smoke and drink to not feel anything or even think about the past. Now looking back at my childhood I realize I was deprived of the love and attention we all need to be stable and well “normal” and when I finally got that form of attention I gave it my all, I was afraid of being alone again so I did everything to please her not knowing I was hurting myself at the same time just for us not to last. It’s funny how life works. Somedays your happy, somedays your sad, but for me it’s like I can’t feel anything anymore.
These definitely make me feel like I’m not alone! Luv you guys! 🤞💓
Hey fairieglow, with our 6+ million subscribers you're not alone :) We love you too
I'm definitely somewhat clingy, but I feel like that's just because I've had bad experiences with having friends not being how I thought they were initially.
I love this channel so much because of how many references they have from different fandoms and how they bring everyone together 😭💕💕
Ah yes, my favorite character in genshin impact. Tortilla and Cocogoat
If emotions were cookies, I would be a cookie monster.
I started getting better when I found real friends. We share our whole selves with each other all the time and I found after I was getting that part of me much more satisfied, I found that I wasn't "falling in love" with people that treated me like a human being.
Unfortunately, that meant I was no longer interested in the person I was with anymore.
I’ve already known I’ve suffered from this for a long time. I think this stemmed from my mother being emotionally hungry as well and being emotionally manipulative my entire life. Periods of neglect to maybe a few hours of overbearing apologies where she forced me to accept them. Wish I could leave my house, sometimes I have fantasies of living with somebody else, being somebody’s well-loved little sibling in a perfect family. It’s not the best solution but it works
Solipsistic?
*“You’ll watch an entire Netflix series even when the first episodes are slow just because someone told you that ‘it gets better’, but what if you looked at your goals like that and watched your life get better instead?”*
Love from a small RUclipsr💙
I recently realized that, for years upon years, I've been subconsciously (and mildly) manipulating people for the love I can't seem to give myself, but I don't know why I can't love myself. And this "emotional hunger" never stopped me from loving others, it just randomly drained them at times. I still do it sometimes, though I try really hard not to.
Omg... Venti and Kazuha... 😭😭😭😭
I never thought this would happen