"Man's rejection is God's protection." At times we think we know it all but God is the author of our lives, he sees things we can't see and he will never take away what you need.
I remember my first rejection and I was so hurt because we had so much in common but later on in life he told me he didn't want to hurt me, he wasn't ready, & he still had feelings for his ex basically he was emotionally unavailable! Rejection is your protection be blessed!
I'm glad he was mature enough to tell you. A lot of guys are not going to tell a woman that, they just lie and use and hurt women. That's one reason that you have a lot of bitter angry women, because most of the time these guys are just lying to get whatever they want from you.
DestinyUplift: I can definitely relate to this. I am going through the same thing now. But thank God for Tony, I am getting through it and getting better. .
Thanks Tony for the message. I got to the end and as always I am totally enlightened on issues around rejection. So thankful I have grown past the list and a particular type!
Yes! So quoted Pastor R. C. Blakes as well: "Man's rejection is God's protection." It's the default: an epidemic of the mind to think it's about us. Healthy self-reflection has a place, but doesn't include self-blame.
I've been rejected many times and was told that my expectations are too high; when I lowered my expectation for a man, he took me to the cleaners. NO more.
Rejection is a big trigger for me. It does lead me to not understand the other side's perspective. It just hurts. I have heard that man's rejection is God's protection and now it is NOT *my* reflection! Thank you!
I’ve been dealing with this as a whole . Not just in romantic relationship but all my relationships . I didn’t grow up with a mother and that feeling of abandonment makes me feel rejected and not wanted . When a man does t want me , ignore me, Ghost me all feels like rejection and ultimately abandonment. In my job , when I’m constantly passed over I feel rejection . It’s definitely a big deal and I’m working on it . However in my love life I’m learning to move on faster and not blame myself in any kind of way . It still hurts but I’m encouraged
The only reason they reject you or do not try for you with you not having a mother in your life is because they scared. They think you will be stronger than most women because if you dont have a mother you may had a dad there that is teaching you the game like this young man on this channel. The grown boys like to reject or not try for the ones who has both a mother and a father also, mainly if they go there and see that the father is a good and strong man. They like those with broken down mothers because it shows them that the girl will be easily broken down too. The weak single mothers like to push their daughters to take any man who wants them just to have a man in their life. That grown boy can go to their house and be welcomed and praised just for being there. They become sick if that single mother is a strong woman who is teaching her daughters well and has that mean look on her face when he comes there. Be strong young lady.
Reflecting and knowing how you handle things & what works for you, is a Major step. So many of us, do not know how to be in relationships or what we should even expect. But taking the time to look inside and heal those wounds that we may have carried all our life, is a HUGE step. It is better to be aware at any point of your life, than to keep going with the patterns of hurts that we each experience. I wish you the best. Peace & blessings. Look to God & yourself. Love yourself Unconditionally
I want to say thank you to all of the CNA’s, LPN’s, RN’s, RT’s, Janitors and Physician’s. No matter what position you have in the medical field right now, it has been hard for everyone. Thank you Tony for being patient and unselfish. You don’t have to post video’s as much as you do or do the live. It isn’t easy, but you being unselfish will always bless you and your family. I always listen to the whole video because if I don’t, I will miss something. It’s like falling asleep in class. That’s just something that I won’t do. I am learning, growing and working on myself daily. Thank you again and be blessed.
This couldn’t have came at a better time. It’s been a month since a guy I was seeing ghosted me out of no where. I started questioning my looks, intelligence. My self esteem was rock bottom. But you’re right I was too good for him and he just couldn’t roll with me. Thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Yep, just broke up with one. He knew I wasn’t playing that bull again from no man. He told me several times that I was the total package, but he knew what my boundaries were and he knew I just wasn’t having the foolishness. We broke up within the 90 day timeline...
@@charmariah4766 been married several times is a red flag in itself..but lol for the TP..crazy ..I rejected /blocked men that im not necessary into but they were not honest or consistent.. I was. rejected for being honest too..and because my legs and home are closed until marriage
This is so true. I turned down a farmer because he made 40k a year five years ago and I didn’t want the lifestyle. Imagine the money this brother could possibly be making today. Imagine the body I could have today by eating healthy and exercising daily. I was so immature! Thanks Tony, I made it ⭐️
I agree with you with that light skin vs dark skin rhetoric. I am lighter and if I knew a man disliked dark skin women only because of their dark skin and he was the same race, I wouldn't want no dealing with that man. I never understood why women date men who treat other women like that. Whatever issue he has will surely backfire on them too. Plus, it's stupid.
Girl I’ve had guys tell me they’re “co-parenting” which is why they live together . Then wanted to come to my place because I live alone and have no kids 😑😑😑😑. Keep them standards high!
@@jessicawojcik336 God has someone much better in store for you. Don't limit yourself, be open to the possibilities. He will be just for you and you want have to share him with Suzzie Q and God knows who. 🙏
I just was ghosted by a woman I really liked man that pain cuts deep but it’s not me with the problem when someone does a move like that they are showing you how they feel about there self because they don’t have the decency to keep it 💯
No problem sis we as believers no matter what have to always stand on the truth and the truth is we are royalty we are that treasure hidden in the field and the only person that can find us is who God creates for us my eve or your Adam we will meet in the Garden
Tony, you was destined to be a life coach. You have the favor of God on you. You are fulfilling your purpose. I am blessed and grateful for your messages each day. I don't take any of this for granted. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I came into my purpose because of your testimony. I pray more blessings and manifestations to you and Sheri!!! I made it to the end of this video. Be blessed 🙏
I needed this video! Because I felt rejected by ex. I know I'm not perfect but I love unconditionally which can be my down fall sometimes. I never cheated, I didn't lie, I was loyal and faithful. So I never understood why he left me. And because I'm still single and he ran back to his baby mama I felt cheated because he's already in relationship and we haven't even been broken up a year after being together for almost 3. But I have to realize I would've never left because I don't believe in giving up so God had to step in and remove him and she could putting up with things that I wouldn't. It does hurt but with time I'll forget and move on. I can't numb the pain I have to go through it.
I’m currently dealing with this exact situation as well. I truly believe that God will deal with him accordingly. You don’t hurt the children of God. Trust and believe God will redeem you.
Writing my book right now and I needed this message. Being told your mom didn’t want you always makes me feel rejected in relationships when they ghost. I’ve come to the understanding my standards makes them ghost.
Tony I've been sitting here talking to myself all day long and you know what you are so right. That man didn't want me he didn't even want to talk about what happened and I should have known right away but I didn't pay attention to that I just kept pursuing him. But now I know better and I can't say it enough I am so grateful for you putting a foot in my ass. Thank you
God is amazing! I was literally just talking to my friend, telling her that I think it's something wrong with ME! Thank you Tony, for allowing GOD to use you!
This video is real. Explains alot about what is wrong in dating. Too much emphasis on preferences and not enough in standards. Thanks Tony this was for both men and women👍
I rejected a good loving man (not a perfect man) because I had “these standards” and was still holding on to a soul tie. He and I have maintained a friendship but we’ll never be together again. Ladies, don’t let height, or society determine who loves you. If u have a good man treat him well and serve god together
I watched this a while ago but I needed to come back and hear this again. Growing up I have always had a issue with being rejected. When the entire time, I was the chosen one and being blessed to be redirected. I had to change my mindset and have more FAITH in what GOD was trying to tell me. I had to realize that I am the PRIZE and It brought my tears to my eyes because I struggled with this and as a young woman, I'm just now being able to see the other side of what I thought was rejection. It amazing how GOD works. If your not a believer, I suggest you try him. He saves lives!!!!! He is life! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Be Blessed I made it again!!
Tony oh my goodness God has been speaking to me about my rejection issues. It’s been so difficult swallowing that pill. Thankyou Tony so much for your obedience in sharing this!
Accelerated healing here from 2 days of binge watching. I dealt with a grown boy for 2 years. He said I'm the best woman he's ever met, then he said he's not sure about us or our future. I felt really bad and I cried a lotttttttt. Your videos have been such a blessing to me. I've been kind, caring, supportive to someone who never deserved to set eyes on me. God will provide my perfect match in His good time. Thank you and bless you. I always watch the entire videos as I want to learn, change my mentality and grow... Much love ❤️
Thank you for clarifying,this,I needed to hear this, I married a person and he decided to walk away cause I stick up for myself. God Bless you and your family ❤️
This is so real! I recently asked a guy I was seeing could we step back and really take some time to get to know each other better and he avoided answering the question. Flip out on me and called my feelings bs. I dropped him for my protection!
Be blessed! I made it!! Please dont miss the forest for the trees people. Take what applies to you and learn from it, and let the rest fly. Thank you Tony!
I had to cut someone off who mentions his preference to me sometimes(he likes light skinned; I’m dark skin) so, I went ghost. Tony, once again thank you for this video!
Hey, I wanna ask your opinion about something, y do u think he would coach same sex relationships? I'm not a Bible thumper, but I thought homosexuality is a sin against God?🤔
I met an inmmature man who had the audacity of rejecting me and made racist slurs towards me due I am Hispanic(he's white). I was just being supportive of him since he was going through some problems but all his demons activated and it made me feel so bad.Sometimes people treat you how they feel about themselves! Thank you Tony for putting things is perspective🙏💖
Thank you so very much for all you do, you have me the strength to leave a toxic marriage of 9 years and now it's been one year of growth. Thank you for contributing your knowledge, it has blessed my life. I'm a living proof of all your advice. Tell the queen bless up n nuff nuff love, unno a di real deal.
Good looking out from my Lord, God! It’s refreshing to know that God is looking out for me and having my back even when nobody else was. Good teaching Tony G.!!!😊🙏🏾❤️💯
Be bless!! I made it! And thank you for your message! This is exactly the conversation I been having with a male friend. He's all about shape....looks...and everything else but character. He's by no mean perfect, but expects perfect. Its frustrating because I want him to see beyond that for the next person.
I had to watch this twice! Such a word!! Fantasia said it best.. go ahead and free yourself!! God is always looking out for us! Don’t get mad, get glad!!! ❤️ Thank you brother T! 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Tony thank you so much for this message. I needed to hear this. I've have felt rejection and find myself trying to prove my worth. I now realize it's God protecting me. 😊
I'm a RN. It tickles me when I hear that people think we make so much money. They must be broke as crap if they thinking RN money is a lot. We do ok, but we are not trying to support men with our few coins.
The problem is we live a life full of rejection and disapproval that people take it personally when you are just stating some examples. God Bless you Brother Tony for gift of wisdom and truth that you willingly share with us. 🙏
Be Blessed I made it... I was not Rejected... Just Re-Directed & Protected And I am Glad that person hasn’t chosen Me At this present moment he doesn’t have the Capacity to Deal with my Value His table a’nit Big Enough for me to sit at they Table I will no Longer loss any Sleep Thank you for the message Tony it was much needed...
I was married to a man that was 5ft9, I’m 5ft4. Ive always wanted 6ft and above but I changed my mindset to look at his heart. The problem I came across that there were red flags that I should have recognized early. It was a combination of thinking he’s a good guy I’m over thinking things and not having the training to spot those things early. I say that to say that tall men aren’t the only ones that can do you dirty. Still working on my healing. Thanks for for these videos.
Be Blessed - I made it! I always watch your videos all the way through! Most of which I've seen multiple times. In quarantine you've become my Zig Ziggler, lol, I just have you on in the background basically all day and night long!
Those who understand are with you Tony! Keep going because you have changed many lives in a positive way including myself. Satan get the behind me‼️ Keep calling it out. Thank you 🙏🏾 🙌🏾
Why are so many women saying that they want to be married but they still need to work on themselves? I have so many friends they come to me and say that they're looking for their husband but I'm thinking we all need work before God sends us anyone
A lot of women don't want God. And that's why "God" is not sending them a husband. God is the word, his word will not come back void. So if HE sends a man it is to a woman that is his, and he sends HIS sons. We have to open the word (learn how the Father operates) and believe the first commandment-- love God with all of you. The scripture "be not unequally yoked with unbelievers" tells you right there God is not hooking up anyone with anyone who is BOTH not his. .. The Holy Spirit gives much revelation. But again a lot of women don't want it.
Thanks Tony I must admit I was once a small minded woman who wanted the taller men only until I found out a lot of them weren’t worth much to be honest now I look at things much different now this video was an eye opener for me!!!!☺️☺️☺️☺️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙎🏽♀️🙍🏽♀️🙎🏽♀️
I am also getting comfortable in not going just accepting my type . Obviously I’m still single and my type hasn’t gotten me anywhere but broken heart . Gotta be careful about the my type . Yes attraction is a must but he doesn’t have to have everything I want physically . I’m concerned with what he looks like but I’m more concerned with what his character is
Noooo, please don't go to 7 minutes. We're blessed, I made it. Thank you for your wisdom. We have men old enough to be your father and still acting like they are in they're 20's. Along with the good Lord, you give us hope with a little humor and I love it. Thanks 👍❤
This is so true I had a roommate who had the features you described and guys would get with her then be deeply insecure and try to humiliate and shame her in front of their homeboys, etc.
God bless you Tony! 100% 🔥. Ive come to realize that God has a sense of humor. A friend of mine prior to her meeting her husband, she told me she told God that she is done with leaning on her own understanding of the type of guy she wanted and literally threw away her "list". When she did that, not long after he husband to be showed up. She is happily married today to a man who looks nothing like her preference of men she used to date when she was single and dating.
Hard to deal with rejection and not to blame yourself more than you should. The guit is always on both sides. The trick is to learn not to take all the blame on yourself, but to reflect a bit on your part of guilt.
I’m a PROUD LPN. I’m GRATEFUL that Tony and others took the time to EDUCATE themselves to know the difference between CNA, LPN, RN and other roles in the medical field and what they CAN and CAN’T do. I feel it’s IMPORTANT! Just because you have a PRESTIGIOUS title doesn’t make you a prestigious PERSON. There’s PLENTY of doctors, lawyers and CEO’S but how many of them can you say are genuinely kind hearted and selfless? How many of them do know would do their job for free?
Been binge watching videos over the holidays and it’s like I have never heard Tony say something wrong or misguided. I know he’s not perfect but when it comes to counsel, he’s definitely on point.
Tony you are speaking FACTSSS on this video. I wanted to be shouting because I used to act that way regarding rejecting ppl because I was immature minded. I'm thankful to God, that I have matured and focus strictly on a person's character. God look upon the HEART! Thank you for this video! May God continue to bless you and your family abundantly!
I had to paused the video and comment when I heard you say this video is a few lessons in one.... they all are! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Initially, I was viewing the ones I thought applied to me not realizing that all of them are GOLD! I'm so grateful for the help!
YOU WORKED THAT TONY!!!! ONE OF THE BEST EXPLANATIONS ABOUT THIS TOPIC EVER...YOU MADE IT SO SUPER PLAIN!!! EVERYONE WILL NOT UNDERSTAND IT UNTIL GOD GIVES THEM THE UNDERSTANDING & OPEN THEIR EARS TO HEAR...I APPRECIATE YOU!!! THANK YOU TONY!!!
I was with this person I didn't really liked and stayed with him for 5 years, and he was horrible nusty person pretending he loves me and he didn't care much about me when I became ill.
Be Blessed! I made it, and it was powerful! I look at my past rejections in career and personal life and they ALL were for my protection! I was hurt, I cried, then soon I could see that God protected me. Now I go into any situation knowing that God will protect me, Periodt!
Rejection today can be acceptance somewhere else tomorrow. God closes and open doors.
Amen
Amen
Heeey Chris..That was deep, Thanks Brother!🙏🏽
@@sanacole1543 Thank you Queen🙏👑
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"Man's rejection is God's protection."
At times we think we know it all but God is the author of our lives, he sees things we can't see and he will never take away what you need.
Amen 🙏🏾
Yes! I heard that quote from Pastor R.C. Blakes, who also has a great RUclips channel.
Psalm 84:11 For the Lord God is a sun and shield; the Lord will give grace and glory; NO GOOD THING WILL HE WITHHOLD FROM THEM THAT WALK UPRIGHTLY.
Amen!
PREACH SISTA QUEEN!
I remember my first rejection and I was so hurt because we had so much in common but later on in life he told me he didn't want to hurt me, he wasn't ready, & he still had feelings for his ex basically he was emotionally unavailable! Rejection is your protection be blessed!
I'm glad he was mature enough to tell you. A lot of guys are not going to tell a woman that, they just lie and use and hurt women. That's one reason that you have a lot of bitter angry women, because most of the time these guys are just lying to get whatever they want from you.
Needed this ....
DestinyUplift: I can definitely relate to this. I am going through the same thing now. But thank God for Tony, I am getting through it and getting better. .
“They may feel unworthy of you” - AMEN
Thanks Tony for the message. I got to the end and as always I am totally enlightened on issues around rejection. So thankful I have grown past the list and a particular type!
This was right on time! I spent a lot of time thinking something was wrong with me when guys would just disappear... Rejection is Protection 🤞🏽
You and me both! It’s hurtful and I know I was internalizing it all before.
Yes! So quoted Pastor R. C. Blakes as well: "Man's rejection is God's protection." It's the default: an epidemic of the mind to think it's about us. Healthy self-reflection has a place, but doesn't include self-blame.
I've been rejected many times and was told that my expectations are too high; when I lowered my expectation for a man, he took me to the cleaners. NO more.
Me too 😞
Me too! We’re divorcing right now...
Yep... True... Happened to me
Keep your expectations high and your head even higher.
expectations of closing your legs and home before marriage ?
You are never rejected. You are protected and redirected. Amen brother!
Rejection is a big trigger for me. It does lead me to not understand the other side's perspective. It just hurts. I have heard that man's rejection is God's protection and now it is NOT *my* reflection! Thank you!
I’ve been dealing with this as a whole . Not just in romantic relationship but all my relationships . I didn’t grow up with a mother and that feeling of abandonment makes me feel rejected and not wanted . When a man does t want me , ignore me, Ghost me all feels like rejection and ultimately abandonment. In my job , when I’m constantly passed over I feel rejection . It’s definitely a big deal and I’m working on it . However in my love life I’m learning to move on faster and not blame myself in any kind of way . It still hurts but I’m encouraged
You’re not alone
The only reason they reject you or do not try for you with you not having a mother in your life is because they scared. They think you will be stronger than most women because if you dont have a mother you may had a dad there that is teaching you the game like this young man on this channel. The grown boys like to reject or not try for the ones who has both a mother and a father also, mainly if they go there and see that the father is a good and strong man. They like those with broken down mothers because it shows them that the girl will be easily broken down too. The weak single mothers like to push their daughters to take any man who wants them just to have a man in their life. That grown boy can go to their house and be welcomed and praised just for being there.
They become sick if that single mother is a strong woman who is teaching her daughters well and has that mean look on her face when he comes there.
Be strong young lady.
I feel like this comment was for me. Thank you so much sharing❤️
BeauPho Masterpiece same here, he just looks through me like a running faucet with no chance at love at all so life goes on
Reflecting and knowing how you handle things & what works for you, is a Major step. So many of us, do not know how to be in relationships or what we should even expect. But taking the time to look inside and heal those wounds that we may have carried all our life, is a HUGE step. It is better to be aware at any point of your life, than to keep going with the patterns of hurts that we each experience. I wish you the best. Peace & blessings. Look to God & yourself. Love yourself Unconditionally
don't worry about who passing up on you, just focus on who gonna see you & make sure you see them!!!
Your right everybody not for you
I am taking someone's rejection as my motivation.
me too
Yup 🥹
I want to say thank you to all of the CNA’s, LPN’s, RN’s, RT’s, Janitors and Physician’s. No matter what position you have in the medical field right now, it has been hard for everyone. Thank you Tony for being patient and unselfish. You don’t have to post video’s as much as you do or do the live. It isn’t easy, but you being unselfish will always bless you and your family. I always listen to the whole video because if I don’t, I will miss something. It’s like falling asleep in class. That’s just something that I won’t do. I am learning, growing and working on myself daily. Thank you again and be blessed.
You're welcome! From an RN on the frontline
You're welcome from RN in North Carolina. His videos are helping me too.
Thanks from Behavioral Health on the front line.
Agreed 💯💯Keep The Post Coming ‘TG’
I Appreciate Your Heart Of Gratitude From A FrontLiner For God❤️🙌🏾✨
This couldn’t have came at a better time. It’s been a month since a guy I was seeing ghosted me out of no where. I started questioning my looks, intelligence. My self esteem was rock bottom. But you’re right I was too good for him and he just couldn’t roll with me. Thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼
You are better off and deserve better than that. Keep your head up Queen!
Stay strong cause he’ll be back
Same thing happened to me it’s been almost 3 months .
Yep, just broke up with one. He knew I wasn’t playing that bull again from no man. He told me several times that I was the total package, but he knew what my boundaries were and he knew I just wasn’t having the foolishness. We broke up within the 90 day timeline...
@@charmariah4766 been married several times is a red flag in itself..but lol for the TP..crazy ..I rejected /blocked men that im not necessary into but they were not honest or consistent.. I was. rejected for being honest too..and because my legs and home are closed until marriage
This is so true. I turned down a farmer because he made 40k a year five years ago and I didn’t want the lifestyle. Imagine the money this brother could possibly be making today. Imagine the body I could have today by eating healthy and exercising daily. I was so immature! Thanks Tony, I made it ⭐️
Just what I needed to hear again Tony. Thank you
Rejection is a blessing, but sometimes we don't understand God's grace. 🙏
You preaching church !
I needed this today. I'm feeling heartbroken after trying to escape the friend zone. It really feels like rejection.
How did it go
“Ain’t nothing wrong with dating potential, if potential is producing.” TG
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I agree with you with that light skin vs dark skin rhetoric. I am lighter and if I knew a man disliked dark skin women only because of their dark skin and he was the same race, I wouldn't want no dealing with that man. I never understood why women date men who treat other women like that. Whatever issue he has will surely backfire on them too. Plus, it's stupid.
I agree 100% in the same way. I don’t deal with colorist men.
I receive that protection not rejection 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I was rejected Becasue I told him I don’t want to be with him while he is living with the mother of his kids
Girl I’ve had guys tell me they’re “co-parenting” which is why they live together . Then wanted to come to my place because I live alone and have no kids 😑😑😑😑. Keep them standards high!
Very wise choice. You dodged a bullet and a headache.
Brigetta Russaw he is engaged to
Her now but let me on for 5 years
@@jessicawojcik336 God has someone much better in store for you. Don't limit yourself, be open to the possibilities. He will be just for you and you want have to share him with Suzzie Q and God knows who. 🙏
Brigetta Russaw thank you xxxxxx
I just was ghosted by a woman I really liked man that pain cuts deep but it’s not me with the problem when someone does a move like that they are showing you how they feel about there self because they don’t have the decency to keep it 💯
Thank you for stepping out with the experience that a man can also have in this.
No problem sis we as believers no matter what have to always stand on the truth and the truth is we are royalty we are that treasure hidden in the field and the only person that can find us is who God creates for us my eve or your Adam we will meet in the Garden
Brandon we love you , and we know God gonna send you a 'real' one. Keep bigging yourself up bro.
@@brandonhumble3595 Yes man, keep it high vibing and be fulfilled in the gift :)
True
"Rejection is your protection, not your reflection." (T.G.) 🙏🏾🔥💪🏽
Tony, you was destined to be a life coach. You have the favor of God on you. You are fulfilling your purpose. I am blessed and grateful for your messages each day. I don't take any of this for granted. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I came into my purpose because of your testimony. I pray more blessings and manifestations to you and Sheri!!! I made it to the end of this video. Be blessed 🙏
Be Blessed I am part of Tony's Gaskins Tribe
I was not rejection, I was redirected n protected! Thanks Tony!
"Man's rejection is God's protection." I couldn't have said it better!
I needed this video! Because I felt rejected by ex. I know I'm not perfect but I love unconditionally which can be my down fall sometimes. I never cheated, I didn't lie, I was loyal and faithful. So I never understood why he left me. And because I'm still single and he ran back to his baby mama I felt cheated because he's already in relationship and we haven't even been broken up a year after being together for almost 3. But I have to realize I would've never left because I don't believe in giving up so God had to step in and remove him and she could putting up with things that I wouldn't. It does hurt but with time I'll forget and move on. I can't numb the pain I have to go through it.
I’m currently dealing with this exact situation as well. I truly believe that God will deal with him accordingly. You don’t hurt the children of God. Trust and believe God will redeem you.
True. Preferences could block your blessings.
Be blessed I made it. Rejection is your projection.
Writing my book right now and I needed this message. Being told your mom didn’t want you always makes me feel rejected in relationships when they ghost. I’ve come to the understanding my standards makes them ghost.
I’m now look back at my rejection as protection. Thank God for this message.
Noooo!! Please continue doing the hour long videos. I am one the 4 people who’s grasping your messages. Please!!
I wish I knew that before I spent 10 years on this person!! It does feel personal.
I know that's right you and me both but you know what we know now be blessed.
Same sis. Your blessings on the way.
Facts but thanks to this knowledge I let it go yea yea yea
He kill me with them hand slaps🤣
It really does!!!
Tony I've been sitting here talking to myself all day long and you know what you are so right. That man didn't want me he didn't even want to talk about what happened and I should have known right away but I didn't pay attention to that I just kept pursuing him. But now I know better and I can't say it enough I am so grateful for you putting a foot in my ass. Thank you
Pray for what you NEED and not what you WANT 🙌🏼 Amen
Tony just made me realize how stupid I've been with this 6 foot nonsense !
Yes I have too.
Yes that height standard for women is tough
God is amazing! I was literally just talking to my friend, telling her that I think it's something wrong with ME! Thank you Tony, for allowing GOD to use you!
This video is real. Explains alot about what is wrong in dating. Too much emphasis on preferences and not enough in standards. Thanks Tony this was for both men and women👍
I love how Tony turns everything into a positive thing. Rejection = Protection 💪🏽
I rejected a good loving man (not a perfect man) because I had “these standards” and was still holding on to a soul tie. He and I have maintained a friendship but we’ll never be together again. Ladies, don’t let height, or society determine who loves you. If u have a good man treat him well and serve god together
This is so timely I have NO WORDS! WOW!!
I Thank you I am 59 I am never old to learn thank you again very enlightening 🥰
I watched this a while ago but I needed to come back and hear this again. Growing up I have always had a issue with being rejected. When the entire time, I was the chosen one and being blessed to be redirected. I had to change my mindset and have more FAITH in what GOD was trying to tell me. I had to realize that I am the PRIZE and It brought my tears to my eyes because I struggled with this and as a young woman, I'm just now being able to see the other side of what I thought was rejection. It amazing how GOD works. If your not a believer, I suggest you try him. He saves lives!!!!! He is life! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Be Blessed I made it again!!
Yup! Same here! Thx for sharing 🙏🏽❤️
Tony oh my goodness God has been speaking to me about my rejection issues. It’s been so difficult swallowing that pill. Thankyou Tony so much for your obedience in sharing this!
So have I sis
Be blessed I made it 🙏🏽. No please don’t stop these long videos! Us adult minded people that value substance enjoy them.
Accelerated healing here from 2 days of binge watching. I dealt with a grown boy for 2 years. He said I'm the best woman he's ever met, then he said he's not sure about us or our future. I felt really bad and I cried a lotttttttt. Your videos have been such a blessing to me. I've been kind, caring, supportive to someone who never deserved to set eyes on me. God will provide my perfect match in His good time. Thank you and bless you. I always watch the entire videos as I want to learn, change my mentality and grow... Much love ❤️
Thank you for clarifying,this,I needed to hear this, I married a person and he decided to walk away cause I stick up for myself. God Bless you and your family ❤️
I see my value as more valuable than gold! So what they see may be beneath what my value is so if he walks he walks.
This is so real! I recently asked a guy I was seeing could we step back and really take some time to get to know each other better and he avoided answering the question. Flip out on me and called my feelings bs. I dropped him for my protection!
DYINGGGG at the ending!! I'm an RN so I know about the grown boys all too well.
Be Blessed, I made it !!!
I was not rejected, I was being protected! Thank God!
Be blessed! I made it!! Please dont miss the forest for the trees people. Take what applies to you and learn from it, and let the rest fly. Thank you Tony!
I had to cut someone off who mentions his preference to me sometimes(he likes light skinned; I’m dark skin) so, I went ghost. Tony, once again thank you for this video!
That's a BOSS move! Congratulations!
God bless you Lakeshia! :)
Best thing to do, bow out gracefully
🗣Good morning Blessed Tribe family💕😌~
REJECTION is redirection for your 《PROTECTION》
👩🏫🙌💕💪
Happy Tuesday😌
Be blessed everyone
Hey, I wanna ask your opinion about something, y do u think he would coach same sex relationships? I'm not a Bible thumper, but I thought homosexuality is a sin against God?🤔
I met an inmmature man who had the audacity of rejecting me and made racist slurs towards me due I am Hispanic(he's white). I was just being supportive of him since he was going through some problems but all his demons activated and it made me feel so bad.Sometimes people treat you how they feel about themselves! Thank you Tony for putting things is perspective🙏💖
The honesty, clarity and openness of this messages is very meaningful n always on point
Thank you so very much for all you do, you have me the strength to leave a toxic marriage of 9 years and now it's been one year of growth. Thank you for contributing your knowledge, it has blessed my life. I'm a living proof of all your advice. Tell the queen bless up n nuff nuff love, unno a di real deal.
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*given. Talking with so much emotion, there are typos
Tony, honestly, most black men are colorist. They prefer light, bright or white🤷🏿♂️
EXACTLY ‼️‼️‼️
Facts
So damn true. But his colorist behind can have the light, bright and dull.
Very true
Good looking out from my Lord, God! It’s refreshing to know that God is looking out for me and having my back even when nobody else was. Good teaching Tony G.!!!😊🙏🏾❤️💯
Tony I love when you imitate women. Hilarious! Your words are the Saviour talking to me everyday. Thank you ♥
Me too. He cracks me up and makes my day!!!😊🙏🏾❤️
😂🤣 yes
Be bless!! I made it! And thank you for your message! This is exactly the conversation I been having with a male friend. He's all about shape....looks...and everything else but character. He's by no mean perfect, but expects perfect. Its frustrating because I want him to see beyond that for the next person.
I had to watch this twice! Such a word!! Fantasia said it best.. go ahead and free yourself!! God is always looking out for us! Don’t get mad, get glad!!! ❤️ Thank you brother T! 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Tony thank you so much for this message. I needed to hear this. I've have felt rejection and find myself trying to prove my worth. I now realize it's God protecting me. 😊
I'm a RN. It tickles me when I hear that people think we make so much money. They must be broke as crap if they thinking RN money is a lot. We do ok, but we are not trying to support men with our few coins.
The problem is we live a life full of rejection and disapproval that people take it personally when you are just stating some examples. God Bless you Brother Tony for gift of wisdom and truth that you willingly share with us. 🙏
Be Blessed I made it... I was not Rejected...
Just Re-Directed
& Protected
And I am Glad that
person hasn’t chosen Me
At this present moment he doesn’t have the Capacity to Deal with my Value
His table a’nit Big Enough for me to sit at they Table I will no Longer loss any Sleep
Thank you for the message Tony it was much needed...
Mr. Gaskins, thank you for all you do for us women who want to learn and listen.
I’m so glad tony gaskins does daily RUclips videos...
I was married to a man that was 5ft9, I’m 5ft4. Ive always wanted 6ft and above but I changed my mindset to look at his heart. The problem
I came across that there were red flags that I should have recognized early. It was a combination of thinking he’s a good guy I’m over thinking things and not having the training to spot those things early. I say that to say that tall men aren’t the only ones that can do you dirty. Still working on my healing. Thanks for for these videos.
Be blessed! I made it!
Be Blessed - I made it!
I always watch your videos all the way through! Most of which I've seen multiple times. In quarantine you've become my Zig Ziggler, lol, I just have you on in the background basically all day and night long!
Those who understand are with you Tony! Keep going because you have changed many lives in a positive way including myself. Satan get the behind me‼️ Keep calling it out. Thank you 🙏🏾 🙌🏾
Just want to take a moment to thank God for you and the messages you share. FYI you are hilarious 😂 I truly enjoy watching your videos.
Be blessed. I made it to the end and I needed to hear this message. I had to understand that it's not rejection if he decides I'm not a good fit.
Why are so many women saying that they want to be married but they still need to work on themselves? I have so many friends they come to me and say that they're looking for their husband but I'm thinking we all need work before God sends us anyone
A lot of women don't want God. And that's why "God" is not sending them a husband. God is the word, his word will not come back void. So if HE sends a man it is to a woman that is his, and he sends HIS sons. We have to open the word (learn how the Father operates) and believe the first commandment-- love God with all of you.
The scripture "be not unequally yoked with unbelievers" tells you right there God is not hooking up anyone with anyone who is BOTH not his. .. The Holy Spirit gives much revelation. But again a lot of women don't want it.
Yesss! You couldn't have said this better. This is powerful.
Thanks Tony I must admit I was once a small minded woman who wanted the taller men only until I found out a lot of them weren’t worth much to be honest now I look at things much different now this video was an eye opener for me!!!!☺️☺️☺️☺️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙎🏽♀️🙍🏽♀️🙎🏽♀️
I am also getting comfortable in not going just accepting my type . Obviously I’m still single and my type hasn’t gotten me anywhere but broken heart . Gotta be careful about the my type . Yes attraction is a must but he doesn’t have to have everything I want physically . I’m concerned with what he looks like but I’m more concerned with what his character is
Noooo, please don't go to 7 minutes. We're blessed, I made it. Thank you for your wisdom. We have men old enough to be your father and still acting like they are in they're 20's. Along with the good Lord, you give us hope with a little humor and I love it. Thanks 👍❤
Right! I appreciate the hour videos ! I don't need a few apples spoiling the bunch. I watch from beginning to the end.
Speak that sis! Amen!!!😊🙏🏾❤️
This is so true I had a roommate who had the features you described and guys would get with her then be deeply insecure and try to humiliate and shame her in front of their homeboys, etc.
Happened to me recently
. By my own husband
I made it!!! My mind shifted slowly and slowly. Thank you, sir.
God bless you Tony! 100% 🔥. Ive come to realize that God has a sense of humor. A friend of mine prior to her meeting her husband, she told me she told God that she is done with leaning on her own understanding of the type of guy she wanted and literally threw away her "list". When she did that, not long after he husband to be showed up. She is happily married today to a man who looks nothing like her preference of men she used to date when she was single and dating.
The problem is the men with potential have too much ego and pride and can't handle being with a woman who doesn't need them.
Tony your videos are slowly but surely changing my mindset and life.
God bless you and your family
Reporting for class!
Thank God for protecting me from what I thought I wanted versus what I needed! "Rejection is Protection"
Hard to deal with rejection and not to blame yourself more than you should. The guit is always on both sides. The trick is to learn not to take all the blame on yourself, but to reflect a bit on your part of guilt.
The devil sends people from church when you are trying to grow.
Facts
I’m a PROUD LPN. I’m GRATEFUL that Tony and others took the time to EDUCATE themselves to know the difference between CNA, LPN, RN and other roles in the medical field and what they CAN and CAN’T do. I feel it’s IMPORTANT!
Just because you have a PRESTIGIOUS title doesn’t make you a prestigious PERSON. There’s PLENTY of doctors, lawyers and CEO’S but how many of them can you say are genuinely kind hearted and selfless? How many of them do know would do their job for free?
Been binge watching videos over the holidays and it’s like I have never heard Tony say something wrong or misguided. I know he’s not perfect but when it comes to counsel, he’s definitely on point.
Thank you every time I think about calling him I listen to your videos and I get stronger what you say make so much sense thank you
I’m a LPN Tony, and I wasn’t offended at all. 😂
Tony you are speaking FACTSSS on this video. I wanted to be shouting because I used to act that way regarding rejecting ppl because I was immature minded. I'm thankful to God, that I have matured and focus strictly on a person's character. God look upon the HEART! Thank you for this video! May God continue to bless you and your family abundantly!
Thank you! Be blessed I made it 🙏
I had to paused the video and comment when I heard you say this video is a few lessons in one.... they all are! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Initially, I was viewing the ones I thought applied to me not realizing that all of them are GOLD!
I'm so grateful for the help!
I know! I love the information
YOU WORKED THAT TONY!!!! ONE OF THE BEST EXPLANATIONS ABOUT THIS TOPIC EVER...YOU MADE IT SO SUPER PLAIN!!! EVERYONE WILL NOT UNDERSTAND IT UNTIL GOD GIVES THEM THE UNDERSTANDING & OPEN THEIR EARS TO HEAR...I APPRECIATE YOU!!! THANK YOU TONY!!!
I was with this person I didn't really liked and stayed with him for 5 years, and he was horrible nusty person pretending he loves me and he didn't care much about me when I became ill.
Be Blessed! I made it, and it was powerful! I look at my past rejections in career and personal life and they ALL were for my protection! I was hurt, I cried, then soon I could see that God protected me. Now I go into any situation knowing that God will protect me, Periodt!
Be blessed I made it! 🙌🏽
Be blessed, I made it. Please do not shorten the videos.
I'm a cna/med tech and I absolutely love my job. If a man doesn't think that's enough of a job, I walk on by. I know my worth and my heart
Needed to here this💯 had to change my thinking and not take it personal
🙏🏿Be Blessed🙏🏿. I Made It.