I said no to the rest and as soon as I said no to the rest the one I was loyal to dumped me to be with a zoo animal Now I regret not keeping the other women but that would have made me a cheater unless I had known that the girl I was loyal to was going to dumped me while I was absent at her concerts
Listening to this video had me in tears. I'm 36 years old and I'm just learning this stuff. Been with the same woman for 14 years because I thought she was the best I could do. Told her things that I've never told anyone else and she used them as weapons against me. Now that I'm trying to reclaim my self worth all of a sudden I'm a bad guy
@@damianhaynes3181 just went through this exact thing. Separated from my wife of 13 years, mother of 4 of my kids. Once I started going to therapy Aunt and thinking about my mental health and peace, our relationship started to fall apart. I no longer allowed her to gaslight me or make me feel guilty for communicating my feelings. I blame myself because I took entirely too long to acknowledge when it was time to move on.
@@letsboogie4408 very very true, exercising is much more important, I have been there before and the gym and listening to music did it though I made alot of mistakes during the process of reclaiming my self,
Proverbs 31 is no joke. Put God first and He will get you a good woman. A God fearing woman. She'll be a blessing to you and your household. As the Bible says, "She will do you no evil all the days of your life". God first❤
True. It will be good if people can understand that such advice works if one is not interested in being a pure Christian. The devil is very manipulative when it comes to pulling us to his side. As @noahtacker5156 has mentioned. Let's trust in the Lord and He will give us a God fearing woman. Same to ladies. First you must be a true christian. You must trust the Lord our God completely, through Jesus. If you find a God fearing woman my friend you won't worry about emotions. Both of you will be focused on God and the feelings towards each other will be mutual.
This is totally so true and simply amazing!!! While I was a kid, my Dad always told me this, but I never listened. Learned it the hard way.😩 Thank you for sharing Jessy🥰❤️🫶🙌🙏
Remember, brother: don't be afraid to have options thinking this is disonest behavior, because the woman you're interested in has many more options than you will ever have.
Time spent listening to your words of wisdom is one of the best times of my day. I was slowly getting wrecked. Now you have slowly and patiently pulled me out of the wreckage. God will bless you and give you more wisdom.
Never invest on a person you'll lose value in yourself,n total respect from the ones who respected you n then they start walking all over you you'll always be the yes guy to everyone.cause of one person
Thanks Jessica, its been a while i saw your video on my feed, and to think that this video came my way just few minutes after i had the thought to start having more than one girlfriends, to avoid emotional truama. Its just mind blowing. It can only be God sending me his confirmation
This is a Master piece Jessy. A lot of weight has been lifted off.( Keeping ur options open doesn't mean sleeping with every skirt, but rather, keeping ur energy in check.) Paraphrased.
Jessica i am an ardent follower of your videos but this video is one of the very best i have listened to. thanks a lot. you deserve a kiss for this tips....
I have been listening to your advice always and my life changed and I really love your talk.. I realize how much money have been wasted and now I’m doing fine and better than the past
Good video Jessie but in my case I've found it's often difficult to switch off your heart and use brain instead,strong feelings of love and attraction are powerful so it's hard to think logically about such stuff,keep up good work though ❤️🔥xx
@JessicaOS great video there. But I want to ask… does this go for guys who are now searching and also those in serious relationships? I’d love to get a feedback. Thank you
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I said no to the rest and as soon as I said no to the rest the one I was loyal to dumped me to be with a zoo animal
Now I regret not keeping the other women but that would have made me a cheater unless I had known that the girl I was loyal to was going to dumped me while I was absent at her concerts
Thank you Soo much,so deeper than deep.❤
Listening to this video had me in tears. I'm 36 years old and I'm just learning this stuff. Been with the same woman for 14 years because I thought she was the best I could do. Told her things that I've never told anyone else and she used them as weapons against me. Now that I'm trying to reclaim my self worth all of a sudden I'm a bad guy
Just take care of yourself man don't get attached deeply.
@@damianhaynes3181 just went through this exact thing. Separated from my wife of 13 years, mother of 4 of my kids. Once I started going to therapy Aunt and thinking about my mental health and peace, our relationship started to fall apart. I no longer allowed her to gaslight me or make me feel guilty for communicating my feelings. I blame myself because I took entirely too long to acknowledge when it was time to move on.
@@nawar6124 he is already attached man. He needs to just dettach and believe in himself.
Stay strong 💪🏾 brother, make sure you’re in a gym, take care of your finances and watch these videos and you’ll be alright.
@@letsboogie4408 very very true, exercising is much more important, I have been there before and the gym and listening to music did it though I made alot of mistakes during the process of reclaiming my self,
Proverbs 31 is no joke.
Put God first and He will get you a good woman. A God fearing woman.
She'll be a blessing to you and your household.
As the Bible says, "She will do you no evil all the days of your life".
God first❤
@@noahtacker5156 I totally agree to this and pray God gives me a Godly woman am putting my trust on God
Amen brother.. Amen!
@@noahtacker5156 my mother is a living testimony
That's God's promise to men!
True. It will be good if people can understand that such advice works if one is not interested in being a pure Christian. The devil is very manipulative when it comes to pulling us to his side. As @noahtacker5156 has mentioned. Let's trust in the Lord and He will give us a God fearing woman. Same to ladies. First you must be a true christian. You must trust the Lord our God completely, through Jesus. If you find a God fearing woman my friend you won't worry about emotions. Both of you will be focused on God and the feelings towards each other will be mutual.
Dear Jessica, I thank you for posting this video. You cannot imagine how much I need this message.
Thank you for making my day…..
This is totally so true and simply amazing!!!
While I was a kid, my Dad always told me this, but I never listened.
Learned it the hard way.😩
Thank you for sharing Jessy🥰❤️🫶🙌🙏
Finally we the male fans are getting something 😂
@@TrueYarn ‼️
Am surprised as well😂
Ah 😂😂
You guys don’t follow Jess. There’s been so many keys for men 😂😂
Remember, brother: don't be afraid to have options thinking this is disonest behavior, because the woman you're interested in has many more options than you will ever have.
Very true
I really needed to hear this, especially after what this one girl did to me. Thank you 🙏🏼😊
Why can't it just be loving relationship from both sides , why always have to be mind games 😢
That’s nowadays life sad
I wish it would, but it can never be
Life is not fair
You have to play the game unfortunately
@@agee7777 no. one might have to play her game. Entirely different thing. Period.
It's life happening brother just life happening
Blessings Auntie Jess, you are the best.
Time spent listening to your words of wisdom is one of the best times of my day.
I was slowly getting wrecked.
Now you have slowly and patiently pulled me out of the wreckage.
God will bless you and give you more wisdom.
I'm in 20s and I'm learning a lot from Ms Jessica that my dad didn't know... every video is an eye opening to me
Every word in his video points my past mistakes to me literally one by one. And now I’ve learned my lessons.
You are really talking for us❤🇬🇭
Never invest on a person you'll lose value in yourself,n total respect from the ones who respected you n then they start walking all over you you'll always be the yes guy to everyone.cause of one person
This has really touched the hearts of many thanks Jessica.
😢😢
Who told you my story 🥹
This is so me
Thank you so much mam ❤
when you know better, you do better
@@JessicaOS Very True Ma'am 👌
@@JessicaOS exactly thanks for the eye opener 🙏🙏
True Jessica, thanx for sharing, am helped 👌🏾
I stumbled on this and i don't regret It. Frankly speaking , You hit harder once again 😅😅.
Thank you so much Jessie, I can't stop loving you 🎉
Thanks Sister Jess, sending love from South Africa🔥
Vice versa, also applies to ladies! Great video. Nice one! 👍
Wow, exactly what happened to me. I am just getting out of heartbreak. I gave her all my attention and love but broke my heart. Tnx Jessica 🎉
@JesseOs.. you are just giving me a new energy everyday and a Renewed hope..am putting all of this into practised and it's working out
Thank you God for speaking to me through this woman
Thank you for this... I was getting it wrong before now.
One of the best videos i’ve watched recently. Talk to me directly.
Jessica, this message is a pot of gold 🎯💯
This message is really for me,it helps me a lot,thank you for this video
God bless Jessica for speaking for us🎉❤
Much respect..u never disappoints
God bless you Jess 👍🏾👏🏾
This is so timely & it was for me exactly
Lessons learnt
And we move!
this jesica is just genius
Thank you so much for this message . I learnt this after a serious heartbreak
My mom, a whole Pastor's wife, gave me the same advice.
My eye opener ...🙌🏾🌹🌹 more flowers to you while you're still giving us food for souls. ❤️💛🍎
only if this video comes a month ago.. thank you Jessica for take care of us. ❤
Jessica thank you for this message.
I really needed this thanks
Thanks for sharing Jessica OS
Thanks Jessica, its been a while i saw your video on my feed, and to think that this video came my way just few minutes after i had the thought to start having more than one girlfriends, to avoid emotional truama. Its just mind blowing. It can only be God sending me his confirmation
Since I started listening to your videos have understood alot about the female psychology,you're always on point
Today you're talking to is men directly. Thanks Jess❤
This is a Master piece Jessy. A lot of weight has been lifted off.( Keeping ur options open doesn't mean sleeping with every skirt, but rather, keeping ur energy in check.) Paraphrased.
This is directly to me 😢😢😢it hurts so much but I finally told her it's over between us 😔
Thanks Jess.
I feel like I'm being baptised right now!!! 😮
Jessica, you are amazing 🎉🎉🎉
Thanks for this ❤
You're so welcome!
Indeed Sister
Always a great pleasure watching your channel always a positive vibes
Thank you for making this video
It's like you knew I was going through this
Thanks for the advice 🙏
God bless you Jess.
damn.... this video is spot on bruh!!
Jessica i am an ardent follower of your videos but this video is one of the very best i have listened to. thanks a lot. you deserve a kiss for this tips....
Thanks Jess
I have been listening to your advice always and my life changed and I really love your talk.. I realize how much money have been wasted and now I’m doing fine and better than the past
Thank you Jessica for sure this is one way to live a healthy life..........thank you
Focus on your purpose. Women will come and go but it won’t break you.
Thank you so much
U speak out my mind every now and then
Thank you so much
May God Almighty continue to strengthen your health and more wisdom
Thanks I don't miss any video from u.❤
The best dating coach in the market🎉🎉🎉
Thanks jess❤❤❤❤❤
That's Beautiful, Ur Making Elite Man Out Of Us, Ur Advices And Coaching Spot On...
👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
Good video Jessie but in my case I've found it's often difficult to switch off your heart and use brain instead,strong feelings of love and attraction are powerful so it's hard to think logically about such stuff,keep up good work though ❤️🔥xx
You have said it all 😊
My uncle told me this first
I'll always appreciate those words
This resonates with me , I will never do that again .
I love you Jessica indeed you are a very smart woman I love your content and you advise most of us men keep goingb😊
Content worthy of my bundles ..as one said" finally we male fans are getting something"
I'm here again , Jess.
It's True Madam Jess 📌 having One Lover before Marriage You suffer alot You've hit the Nail My Pretty Teacher 💙💙💪💪
I needed this video🙏❤️✨
Hi jessi I love you, thank you for this.
No problem 😊
Needed this advise two years ago had to leave a relationship because it went downhill. Still never too late to learn new info
You will lose money chasing women, but you will never lose women chasing money.
This is exactly what happened to me 😢😢😢.
Thanks for your help...😊
If ever i have to date many women to be happy much rather be alone
This perfectly explained my last relationship. The worst part is I knew it was happening but I got to lost in it all.
Why this is my situation now but thank God i pulled back
Well noted ❤
Thank you
Respect Sister..
Mom always on point.may you never lock in your life.
This video made my day 😢
Thanks... Really helpful
Thank you very helpful
“Until she shown you she’s serious, never stop dating or meeting other women.”
Keep your options open ❤
THANK YOU ❤
Any time!
I see the caption p3, i have to stop whatever am doing and and come hear what de go on for here 😅
@@senamalexander2313 same here, brother
I just one girl and be happy 🤷🏽♂️
@JessicaOS great video there. But I want to ask… does this go for guys who are now searching and also those in serious relationships? I’d love to get a feedback. Thank you
This is so true
Mama your contents are so real
Every moment you spent obsessing over her is a another moment you're drifting away from your own goal/life😢
Finally someone said it..
I have never skip any of her Videos
Jessica made me the Man I'm
Guys keep listening to her