What People Think About Before Dying
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- Опубликовано: 9 апр 2024
- Death - it is something we will all experience. There are some patterns to what people think about, and also to the regrets they have before dying. Today we will talk about how we can change our lives to have LESS regrets, and how we can also understand what we will think about while dying. There is amazing information about near death experiences - and we will keep it LIGHT HEARTED AND EXISTENTIAL!
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My dog Comet died last month. I can't get over it. I think we bonded so much that when he passed away a piece of me went with him. He was my constant loyal companion throughout the last decade of chaos and I couldn't have made it to were im at without him. Seeing these subject gives me a little hope I'll see him again. I posted a few videos of him before he passed away as tribute to him
Sorry for your loss. The death of a well loved pet can leave a huge gap, especially a dog or a cat when they've been an exceptional companion. I've lost several over the years and it was always very hard. Each and every one still lives in my heart. It can take a long time to shift over from grief to gratitude. All the best to you.
I know and have felt that pain. I’m so very sorry that you lost your best friend. I went through the worst, hardest and saddest parts of my life from October 1, 2019 to August 2023.
I won’t do details because I’ll be typing a book and it’ll be really long.
October 2019 my best girl of 15 years, Cocoa my mini poodle passes away from cancer. I was in a severe deep depression until…
October 12,2019. I Happen to find a stray mini poodle that had no collar or tags, no chip and nobody replied to the posters I put up, the ads I placed on every website dealing with lost and found doggies. I took this as a divine intervention. He immediately fell in love with me and me to him.
March 2020. My Shiba Inu girl we had for 18 years passes away from old age. Cleopatra was the whole family’s dog. Still broke my heart. But my new buddy, Mr Carrot, named by my eldest granddaughter, helps me cope.
April 2020, my mom’s health starts getting worse and moves in with us so I’m close just in case. She had the “widow maker” heart attack in 1999 that weakened her heart and nearly took her.
August 2020. Maximus the family Shiba Inu develops colon cancer. We decide to euthanize him. Because of stupid covid the family could not be with him. Staff assured us they would care for him like we would. He was 17 and was very depressed after Cleo passed away. He would run from one end of the yard to the other, non stop all day, looking for his wife.
October 2020, 1 week, 7 days from being with me for 1 year, Mr Carrot passes away from something wrong in his gastrointestinal system. Vet thinks most likely cancer. I have no idea how old he was. He was no spring chicken. This devastates me. Back to severe depression and thinking of unaliving myself.
Did have something good happen during this timeframe I forgot to put in because this is relevant. June 2 2020 my 3 grandchild is born. Since I was not working during this time waiting for disability, I was helping my daughter and at the time son in law with the new baby girl. I’ve always had a special way or connection with both children and animals. I worked as a respiratory therapist in a pediatric hospital for 15 years. The baby bonds with me and I try to spend as much time watching her as possible. This helps my depression. Anyway, back to the bad parts…
February 12, 2021 my 69 year old mom passes away. I was super close with my mom from when I could remember, about 4 years old until I got to be about 10. She put her boyfriend and the bottle before me. My childhood was so bad it gave me PTSD from the stuff I went through with both her and my dad. When she had her bad heart attack and she nearly died, she woke up. She stopped drinking and drugging. She put me and my 5 children first with her. We got to be very close. I was not even caring about all the lost years. She had a doggie that I used to joke around that she loved him more than me. His name is Chico. He was a little terrier. I made a promise to her I’d take care of him if anything ever happened to her. She brought it up one day a couple weeks before she passed away. She told me to just euthanize him since he was getting old and “nobody can care and love him like me”. While I agreed that was true, I told her I could not and will not put a perfectly healthy dog down because she wasn’t around anymore. I told her I love him and would care for him properly.
August 2023
Chico stops eating. He slows down on his drinking. He’s not moving around as much as he normally would. He goes several days without eating and he was barely taking any water. I took him to the vet fully knowing he was in the process of dying. I was right and we decided to help him on his journey to meet my mom at the rainbow bridge. That one hurt bad as the other dogs and maybe a bit more in a certain way. I felt like I was also losing a piece of my mom.
If anyone actually read through this wall of text thank you and I appreciate you.
I guess I just wanted to let anyone reading through this posting that you are not alone. The pain has not gone away and hasn’t even diminished a tiny bit. I’m a broken human being. I’ve gone through heroin addiction and treatment, work related mental illness, and trying to stay alive as long as I can. I see both a psychiatrist and a psychologist as well as a social worker type therapist once a month for each. I was having to see them both weekly for a while. There are some times I do see one or all of them twice a month.
This life isn’t easy. My life has been a 💩 show from the start. The person I grew up thinking my dad wasn’t my biological father. My mom cheated on my dad with some guy. She got pregnant and told my dad it was his or maybe he just assumed it was his being they were married after all.
Sorry, I’m going off the rails.
I am sorry you lost your best buddy. I’m sure we will get to see our loved ones again and most importantly our beloved pets again!!
My aunties dog passed..and we lost her 7months later they were both my best friends I been feeling this void in my life ever since every day is just one long day
I really can relate to what you say. My 16 years old Yorkshire Biscuit died in december. Time will help a little. Comet is in another universe, but the bond you two have is still there and will always exist... ⭐💗
So sorry for your loss
An animal can absolutely be a close friend. When they die, it's the death of a close friend.
Guys, 90% of those nuggets of wisdom from the dying are things we discover just by paying attention and getting older. You ever meet an elderly person who so knows who they are and what's important, and so not bothered by some annoyance that's been driving you nuts?
This is what we miss in our preoccupation with youth and beauty. And guess what, the more you cling to youth and beauty the less chance you have of discovering the important stuff that'll pile up as regrets when you're dying.
❤ love this take
Yes. Getting older and wiser is amazing. Thanks for your words.
Well said.
I feel smarter even just listening to these guys. 😌 I’ve watched ASAP for years and somehow missed they have a Podcast.
I hope my mom felt peace 🕊️ ❤
She did.
She scientifically did.
Yes she did🫡🕊
Yes she did. Rip mom ✨🫶🏽✨
5:59 I'm a composer and I listen to like... the same things over and over again, and when I find something new I like, I tend to obsess over it. It would probably shock most people to know how little new music I listen to. But then it's like... when I'm working, it's not like I can just have other music on in the background, which is how most other people listen to music
try to not say "like" in every other sentence challenge
@@frkgast0 try not to have an anime pfp like a pedo incel freak challenge
I write music and do the same thing! I hate when people play any music at work that isn't instrumental. It's really distracting.
People hate on me everyday cause I work really hard when I’m working and relax really hard when I’m not there’s no point in working hard if you don’t relax cause the only goal is to work hard enough to get a peace of mind to take time for yourself if you never take that time you’re only living to exist as a cog
Amen
The challenge comes when you have some momentum to your being; what I mean is sometimes when I relax hard my work the next day is more relaxed, and when I work hard the relaxation that follows is tense from work. I completely agree though, hard work and equally dedicated relaxation is the path to success.
I do this too! Tomorrow is my "stare into the abyss day". My fave thing to do is just cuddle my kitty and listen to this kind of stuff.
Ok so just thinking out loud here. The number one regret was living or heavily focusing on the expectations of others instead of being yourself.
I would argue that this feeling has nothing to do with, say, common responsibilities like being a husband or wife, father, mother, a hard worker, etc, or not doing something like travel the world because you had to work in order to earn money to survive. I believe the regret is this: focusing or even obsessing on what others think of you or how they perceive you. You've worried so much about "looking dumb" or being seen as poor, unsuccessful, or unperfect. Such worries lead to codependencies that are always degrading. I feel when you "live for yourself", you are able to find true happiness DESPITE being poor, unpopular or unsuccessful in others' eyes. When you live for yourself, you no longer need the approval of others in order to feel safe and accepted. You no longer are your own worst critic. You instead strive to improve for YOU instead of exclusively for the approval and praise of others.
It's one thing to do something in order to hear applause and be showered by compliments of others. It's entirely different to do that same thing only for yourself because it brings you your own happiness. I absolutely promise that living for yourself with your family feels infinite better than all the praise of the world. It's true freedom. You no longer need a huge house or that CEO millionaire title. You only need you.
Well said.
I look forward to dying . I’m not suicidal & I’m enjoying my life, for the most part. But I believe death is really wonderful. I was with my mother when she died, the expression on her face at the moment she left her body, was of pure ecstasy! This woman barely smiled in her life. Then her facial expression changed within 5 minutes such that you could no longer see any ecstasy, it faded fast. I was SO hoping one of my sibs would show up, but dang, they missed it. I really love the opportunity to be with someone when they pass.
I agree. It's an honor and a privilege to sit with a dying being. It's the closest to god I've ever felt.
I'd like to respond to that, but I'm not sure how. I was with my mother-in-law when she passed. It was seriously unpleasant. She was badly abused as a child, and she kept calling out for her childhood friend in the days before she died. She was on hospice, so she was sent home to die. She was noisey, and difficult, and when she was finally quit, we realized she wasn't breathing. My sister-in-law kind of panicked and quickly took hold of her. She opened her eyes because she was startled, then she closed them and ... and that was all.
I've heard so many different stories that the only thing I know for sure is that there is no one way people die, even when they pass naturally. It's all so horrific that it seems a mercy when the elderly lose their mind to dementia. At least then they don't know what's happening to them.
We might as well accept dying as part of life experiences. We are born, we live and then we die. Death is unavoidable. It's the only solution for a body that is no longer able to sustain itself. That goes for everything on this earth except for the dirt and rock it's made off. Everything created has a beginning and an end. You buy a new car, it is used and driven and the parts it's made of wear out. The cars life is over when it is no longer operable. Vegetation comes to life in the spring when the weather gets warmer then dies in the fall when the weather gets cold as winter approaches. I'm nearly 70 years old. My body has aches and pains. I don't feel like doing the things I used to do. My body is wearing down. People don't regard age 70 as being old anymore and I agree but just look at a newspaper and read about the deaths in the obituary column. Everyday the paper comes out it prints that a number of people have died. Some of those people are younger than me, some are close to my age and some are a number of years older but they all had one thing in common. They all died and are no longer a part of the world we see. They are no longer seen or heard by the living. Time passes so quickly. You look at a calendar. A calendar is the way we keep track of time, as well as a clock. A calendar is made up of days, weeks and months that combined make a year. We see how quickly the days, weeks and months pass and another year is quickly finished never to return. Perhaps I, being near 70 years of age, may live 20 years or more, maybe even 30 years or near 30 years. When I was younger I never gave any thought about death. It seemed like something very far away but as I've grown older I take note of time that has quickly past and realize every day I'm getting closer to the time when I will no longer be here to experience this thing called life. For me I feel like the best years for me are long gone. I've experienced friends and family members pass away one by one leaving me here without them. I miss them. For me life no longer seems complete. I feel alone. Somehow I think that helps me more easily accept my own demise and death is not such a bad thing because I won't be leaving anyone behind to grieve or miss me. Whether or not you think of death as a good thing or something bad it's the end of the life cycle.
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I can see your words come from a lot of wisdom and life experiences you've had over the years. Thank you so much for sharing with us! And indeed, even if i am young, i agree with death being a part of life. Our experience as people on Earth is how we choose to express our soul to others.
The body is made our of earthly materials, while the soul out of spiritual ones. I feel like it's very importat for people to know that even if we do pass... we leave a part of us behind, good or bad, even what we think of can influence those around us.
This is why i'd like to tell you something that you may have tought of before... that this life is not our own, but it is a gift! God gave us this gift and now, to all of those who place their trust in Him, he gives them peace, here on earth and eternal life, after we die.
You are an amazing being and i am so happy to have met you in my path ❤
I wish you may continue to bring joy, peace and love to everyone around you, let people see you shine! Thank you again and, God bless!
My mom had a similar experience. We walked in the moment she died and she was never so beautiful despite being only 85 lbs and with the most stupid hairstyle that the nurses gave her. She was truly joyous - 100 times more joy than I'd ever seen on her face before. Radiant .
Don’t miss out on any opportunity to dance!!
Let conversations exceed your biased timeline!!!
Don’t be late!!!!
Forget bad things easily, and hold onto the positives!!!
Come as you are, as you were, as i want yo to be, as a friend, as a know enemy, take your time,hurry up, choice is yours, don't be late.
Such an underrated podcast
I’m wiping after a poo
I have come to terms with those regrets already: most of what I do is beyond my control, I am not to blame for not following my wants and desires because I'd likely earn less as a result of what I wanted to do. I've done everything I wanted so far and have been privileged not to come from a poor background: I may not be a millionaire but I am contempt no matter what the future holds I did everything possible. I cannot prevent death, but I want to be with someone that can hold my hand before I get there.
My only advice is for people to let go of that fear and focus on living your best life instead - you will be far less depressed and you will no longer fear it happening.
I'm 46 but my soul is old. I've always been quirky and crazy and funny, but I had a filter and was super capable of adjusting my professionalism and being in interview mode... A few years ago I kind of just made the decision to go full on filterless batshit crazy. I have 2 degrees and am now super happy delivering pizza 3 days/wk. I now live with minimal regret and feel so much better. I highly suggest everyone stops holding in their crazy
I love this lol. I wish I knew you!
You should mind your own business. Believe me, the world doesn't want me to stop holding in my crazy.
Only truely crazy around the people I love, I would feel to judged in public or random people but I bet you feel so much better then me 😂
I am very misunderstood. It hurts me. Ppl are mean
@@MichelleDespres but would it hurt more to not be yourself?
Perfect timing! I love side note ❤️
I wish I could like double thumbs up your videos. I always give it a like half way and then at the end I want to do it once more. This podcast rocks and I love you guys
That’s a specific way to go about liking videos but I like it😂
Brooooo, yall really brought this up at the right time haha
Yes! My experience with lucid dreaming is the similar to Gregs. I had like zero lucid dreams, had one by accident, kept a VERY consistent dream journal (that even detailed what I ate/drank before going to sleep, how tired I was and my intentions for that night) and I started having one or two lucid dreams a month. At some point I filled up my dream journal and never replaced it and stopped lucid dreaming altogether as a result. I think if I remained consistent about it I would be able to lucid dream more frequently. I also have trouble believing people when they say they can just "lucid dream whenever they want"
very interesting talk, thanks
Love the pod! I want to hear about lucid dreaming
That's the way I was with my dad. I was anxious about expressing feelings with my dad. My dad was not a touchy feely emotional guy, but wish I expressed myself to my dad before he passed suddenly. I get it that it wasn't me that died, but a part of me died when he passed.
"Spirituality is the antidote to existentialism"
Congrats on the painting thing man thats sick
Interesting conversation. You guys are funny! I think in some ways, regrets are easier to face when you can't act on them. I think it's easier to forgive someone you don't like when you'll never see them again. I'm approaching 70, and I know my time is limited. I daily try to dispel regrets, with daily backsliding. Progress, not perfect.
what should we do the podcast about today?
how about DEATH
I LOVE these REAL conversations. I would love to do a podcast kind of thing like this but i let my obstacles stay in my way :/
What the brain is doing during/just after death is fascinating. I mean the human brain et al is fascinating.
Im 4 years post liver transplant.. multiple comas, had my last rights given by a priest. I was DONE... 6 months after i had a full blown out of body experience and went through a light and saw myself from another place. But I was able to feel what my body was feeling in the physical world as i watched it from the other place. Call it a spiritual awakening or mental break. But i changed.. my mind and view on life and myself... EVERY SAID IN THIS POST IS TRUE... ESP THE REGRET PEOPLE SAID.. We are told school, college, family, kids, and retirement and a grandparent is the ONLY RIGHT CORRECT WAY OF LIFE, and if you have sex before marriage you're a horrible person whos gonna burn in hell.. 🤦🏻 its not like that and NOBODY EVER QUESTIONED when told all of this. But when inwent through that light and felt the energy, it was pure LOVE AND BLISS and ENERGETIC. I left the church and now consider myself spiritual but raised catholic.
PLEASSEEEE do an episode on shifting and your thoughts and stuff!!
Very interesting.
I mean, there was a whole movie about this also. Although im sure it is far from scientifically based. I think its called flatliners? Flat liners? Something like that. 23:36
Greg, I relate when you talk about people projecting how you're a happy person. I asked myself the same questions you ask Mitch many many times. Am I a happy person in general? I think so? Sidenote: You fart in meetings, I burp 😂 #unapologeticallyMe
My lucid dreams happen after I am dreaming I see a mirror and look into it and see myself then I know I am dreaming and I can take control of the dream. But it never really seems to last for very long. But it is fun while it lasts because you can do just about anything.
I like that when beard man jokingly sd hed almost want to get his by a car to experience NDE and frosted tips immediately jumped in and said NOOOOoooo! Dont Say That!
He knows we can create the energy we put out there.
I love the way these two interact so much 🥰
I want to talk about my experience with lucid dreaming. I only recall a handful of times over the past 7 years, I don't recall any lucid dreams before then. My control is really limited. Like I can't build dreamscapes or create things I think, I can only work with whatever the dream has already generated. The moment I become lucid I feel super pressured to make a snap decision about what I want to do. A few times I've just lost lucidity right after it starts because I can't decide what I want to do in my lucid dream, and other times I can feel myself drift into the next dream and the lucidity ends without much excitement. I can rarely decide what to do. One time I screamed profanities at someone and ran away, it felt so relieving. I've definitely had sex before in a lucid dream, but after I made the lucid decision to do it then I lost lucidity and the dream took over. In my most recent lucid dream I remember saying the phrase "this is the most real lucid dream ever." I did a reality check by pushing my hand into my thigh and it stretched my thigh super far so I realized I was dreaming. I was in a high rise building on a high floor and slipped out the window. I started floating upward and saw really weird stuff like squirrels with messed up faces. And I kept going up until the dream ended and I was in a new dream somewhere else. I tend to have more vivid non-lucid dreams most of the time though, and I remember them much better than my lucid dreams.
One question... is the painting of a head of lettuce?
I'm planning to die soon and these videos help me become more comfortable to it. I was always scared of death as a child but it's not any different from going to sleep. I hope this video gets more attention and I hope more people like me will finally find peace.
why are you planning to die?
@@lolbajset Because I've lived to see everything
@@hotel_arcadia17iq individual 😂
@@seanlee2528 yeah bro, doing the world a service
Are you terminally ill?
You guys are fun.
How many people regret that they focus on regrets?
I lost my childhood best friend of 36 years 4 weeks ago. We found her dead and alone.
Interesting podcast. Thanks for sharing. Sounds like the guy in the hat is either a Scorpio or has Scorpio in the 8th house, which is very common in people who are fascinated with and by the death & dying process.
I had a dream that my dog died Infront my house in the Caribbean and I live in the states ATM. I dreamed my cousin was picking him up and the next day I told my mom and she was shocked . She told me that he did die but Infront my neighbors yard and my cousin did bury him😢 I love you Doce-Adolphus ❤ I love you my little monster dog
You guys are setting off my gaydar really strong, especially little Blondie there on the right. Watching and hearing him talk is more interesting than the subject of dying.
Du lipa got me rolling 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😁👍
i am not washing dishes i’m high asf eating frosting listening to this
Whoah whoah whoah coming hard for classical music (which is definitely an aspect of culture).
I know I'm going to think..."I should've eaten that damn cake."
Our soul either goes to Heaven or hell when we die
God gets rid of the fear of death Perfect Love casts out all fear 😊
The consequences of sin is death but Jesus paid the price for our sins on the cross He didn’t have to He wanted to He did it out of Love so we can be made right with Him and have a relationship with Him and have Eternal Life with Him spend Eternity with Him and we do not have to live with sickness or pain or anxiety or depression or anything bad like that Jesus took all of that on the cross and He has the Power to Heal us and help us but He also gave us freewill so we have the choice to ask for help or not 😊
He is Truly the Greatest Father and the Bestest Friend who always knows and wants what is best for us you should get to know Him 😊❤
Condencer mics are not for handheld and pointing to your face 😂 ❤
Can you do a video on bed rotting?
Glad that becoming a SAHM has made me realize my own desires and needs are way different than what anyone else imagined for me
Why does bird shirt man have his arm in the air like he is waiting to be called on? 😂 was that just random? Its funny bc i do the same thing without realizing it - glad to find another weirdo 😂❤
Fake it till you make it babyyyyy😂
Is this a contest of who can say “like” the most times before the video ends?
I enjoyed being disturbed by this macabre video ☠️ ⚰️ 🪦
and I just emailed y'all 'bout lucid dreaming 👍 🧠💭🌙
21:18
"Their brains where going absolutely slay all over the place"🤣
That could be one of the gayest remark ive heard. You guys are hilarious with your self awareness xD
know thyself. work too little and you won't self actualize work too much and you'll not apply that actualized-self.
My 2 favorite Gay Podcatians.. I'm enjoying your channel guys, really insightful
I only ever recall the sad/scary dreams. Never jad a sex dream or a rollercoaster dream 😂
Bruh magic powers this guys dreams rock lmao
There's a Rick and Morty episode about the family doing a full day of work at night, hilarious
CURRENT MAINSTREAM NARRATIVE:
a. The singular big bang theory is really true.
b. Space itself is expanding.
c. The entire universe and all in it will end in a 'big freeze'.
d. Unless there is a way out of this universe into some sort of existence that never ends. (Of which currently it appears, there isn't).
WHAT APPEARS TO BE REALLY TRUE THOUGH:
a. The singular big bang theory is not really true. The universe always existed in some form and never had a beginning.
b. Space is not expanding like it is currently claimed. (Note also: 'They' do not even know what 'space' actually is nor how it could actually expand).
c. The entire universe and all in it will not end in a 'big freeze'. BUT, our spiral shaped galaxy, and possibly all galaxies collapse in upon themselves. Galaxies possibly 'bang' to then eventually generate a 'new' galaxy with possibly 'new' life it in. Process repeats, eternally.
d. Outer space is not only dangerous, but deadly. Species it currently appears are limited to their own planet and basically their own backyard. (FERMI Paradox also solved: Most probably much life 'out there', but it cannot safely get across the vast space).
e. Unless life can find a way to get out of a collapsing spiral shaped galaxy into a universe that never ends. The universe will always exist in some form.
CURRENTLY, EITHER WAY THOUGH:
a. All life in this universal existence are going to die and go extinct. Will forget everything they ever knew and experienced, and will be forgotten one day in future eternity as if they never ever existed at all in the first place. It does not even ultimately matter that life itself even actually exists much less how it exists while it exists. All of life itself is ultimately meaningless in the grand scheme of things and all of life itself is ultimately a waste of spacetime in this current existence. We come into existence, we exist, we cease to exist for all the rest of future eternity. Life itself only matters to life itself, only as long as life itself still exists. It's just that life itself is not always going to exist. It will end, one way or another.
b. Unless life itself can find a way out of this universe (with the main stream narrative way above) OR life itself can find a way out of it's galaxy that it is currently in and can find a way to continue to exist in this eternally existent universe. Possibly then even throughout all of future eternity.
c. We truly do not know what we do not know, and even what we know and believe to be really true maybe isn't. The above is subject to revision as new pertinent information might dictate. This is just basically were I am at in my current analysis.
d. But currently, for every moment that passes, one less moment being alive and one moment closer to being not alive.
* You have been lied to, either unintentionally or intentionally. Be an honest sincere truth seeker and follow the facts wherever those facts might lead.
I play videogames if I wanna have a lucid dream.
How many people don't regret anything when they are dying?
"I want to be happy" "i kind of want someone to strike me with their car" "-rAdicAL... OPtimism?? It's like OMG, no offense but go back to the drawing board". Idk who youre talking about but it sounds like you could use some more mental optimism exercises to *establish* axon, axioms
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... are you two good? You two should re-watch this, pretending you are a relationship therapist & evaluate your interactions...... I hope all is/will be well
I was expecting people experience seeing loved ones, their pets, God, and spirit guides.
As a Buddhist I practice P’howa in preparation for death. A very important practice. Even though, I’m still curious of the feelings that occur. When my friend passed away, beforehand she was very agitated. I read that the body in an effort to survive will put out a hormone that causes this. She finally got to the place where it was ok to use the P’howa practice and left her body. Then we made prayers and special practices to help her on her journey 🙏🏽🙏🏻🙏🙏🏿🙏🏼❤️
I’ve had 2 nde. I’m now learning the ways of Buddhism 🤗.
We do not exist -> We exist -> We cease to exist.
Applies to all individuals,
Applies to all species,
Even apparently applies to this very Earth.
Not true at all. Energy can't be destroyed, only changed.
This was a great video! Just found you guys. As for lucid dreaming, I've been a frequent flyer off and on my whole life; by accident and intentionally. Usually when sleep deprived or meditating on my back before bed. I found a technique from Robert Waggoner's book "Lucid Dreaming: Gateway to The Inner Self" to be helpful. You pick a behavior, like turning on a light switch or something, and each time you do this you can ask yourself if you are awake or dreaming, and observe your environment. At some point you'll be in a dream doing this and come to realize some detail about your environment is off, like you can't read the time on the clock, and you'll know! The excitement of the realization can be overwhelming, and might wake you up! You can train yourself to regulate that over time and stay in the dream longer, and sometimes manipulate the environment. I've been able to change things in my dream environment but somehow never get exactly what I want and can't have total control. You can also ask figures in the dream questions (some people believe they represent parts of the subconcious) but in my experience the answers are not clear or always coherent.
A "near death experience" is a near experience about death. Thumbnail literally incomprehensible without a hyphen.
*HOW TO SAVE YOUR LIFE* Death is absolute. But study's reveal that people who put their faith in God tend to go peacefully. And believers who experience near death moments and survive commonly talk about feeling an overwhelming Peace. This is opposite with people who choose not to believe. They go bitterly, fighting to hold on to life because there is no hope for anything after. In choosing to believe there is no Creator, there is no winning when you die period. If you believe that because there is design that there must be a creator, at the very least you have a 50/50 chance at living in paradise forever. At the very least you wont lose anything by giving Christianity a try. No pressure or judgment just wanted to spread hope.
My biggest regret is not spending more time at work, mindlessly pursuing my career instead of spending quality time with family. I mean, family's okay, but I really wish I had just a little more money to leave in the bank so I can feel more like a winner.
Dripping sarcasm?
Adhd on the right
Number 3 does not relate to me lol. I will totally tell you how I feel. Lost friends this way and family hated me but if you’re a pos then I have to tell you lol
HA!! GAAAAAYS!! Good podcast tho
I will not and cannot stand for the rant about Dua Lipa 😂😂😂😂
Feelings are fake. Because they change when the facts change.😊
Old interviewed people also lived in different conservative times, where they felt more obliged to do what everyone want them to, moral restrictions, propaganda, censorship, not much access to different information and opportunities. So i think when we get old, our society would feel not so oppressed. I think we are lazy enough 😄
Gay 👏🏼 guy 👏🏼problem 👏🏼
Like, just like for fun, you should, like, count the number of times you say “like” in this podcast. Fuuuuuuuuuck.
Very interesting topic.. But listen to these guys make me realize how fake and force their voices sound, it's like they're doing extraeffort to sound like that 🤷🏻♂️ I don't know, it's like a performance, or simulation of exaggerated expressions...