@@corrinasnuggs3958 i admit immediately i walked out of unsatisfying relationship last year yes i do grief ,cry and at the same time hoping some day and soon i shall find a friend who shall appreciate me and love me for who i am i have learnt to stay in solitude for a while yes its tough but i thank GOD am alive,pushing on knowing my prayers shall be answered🙏
@Patricia: No. u missed the point. When a narc ghosts u, lock the door then - whether they move on to someone else or not. Never let a man tell u more than 1x he doesnt want you. Dont be a wimp or desperate enuf to let him settle for u UNTIL someone better looking or younger or more sexually flexible comes along. He'll do the same to the next lady. Let him lose u forever bc he showed he didnt love u by dumping you in the 1st place. Face it. You cant make him love you.
Always be compassionate and honest. If they return after no contact and you wish to test the waters do so. If you no longer care just move on. Sometimes a disordered person can learn from a compassionate ex after no contact. Either way just be true to what feels good for you in a healthy way.
@@RightToFreedomGirl Narc? You mean someone who was actually diagnosed as narc or someone you consider narc? I see back and forth women in internet calling men narc. This is pure gold.
When I’m done, I’m done. My ex contacted me out the blue a year later and I just let the phone ring. He left a msg asking me to call him. I never returned the call. When I say I’m done, I’m done!
That’s why the Fake ass b**** term originated ✨💯Yess BBL means mental illness want to look like someone else so bad ends real sad real bad empty 0 Nada
The ex narcissist thinks you're waiting on the shelf for them. They're not truly gone, just pure manipulation. Chasing the narc only gives them the power to use and abuse you more.
I pray that my next relationship is a forever home for my heart, with a loyal healthy stable ready to love and give love man …until then, activating that God-given discernment and weaving out the wolves in sheep clothing
The grass is not greener on the other side and I think people need to learn that... When you got something good keep it water it nurture it the minute u get too comfortable it's over
They need someone to abuse lie too and act a fool w. So they can behave for their other women. They can have him. He's sorry. There is no way a man can satisfy 5 or 6 women. Someone always gonna get the short end of a stick. ( No pun)
@@michaelpratchett4415 You OBVIOUSLY don’t know Hebrew. Helpmeet is a piss poor translation and male chauvinistic too. The proper translation is a “salvation opposite him” and the name Adam gave her AFTER the eating of the fruit of the tree means “speaking life”. You gotta do better sir, she is waaaaaaaaay more than some helpmeet!
@@Superlife1369 TIMOTHEUS RISHON (1 TIMOTHY) 2 11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. 12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
@@Superlife1369 00LASIYM (COLOSSIANS) 3 18 Women, submit yourselves unto your own men, as it is fit in YAHUSHA. 19 Men, love your women, and be not bitter against them.
@@Superlife1369 OORINTIYM RISHON (1 CORINTHIANS) 11 3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is HAMASHIACH; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of HAMASHIACH is YAHUAH.
mine contacted me a couple of times when she was with her new boyfriend. she thought she could walk back whenever she wants I just ignored her. her daughter said she's sick of them arguing everyday we never really argued but it sounds like she's not happy she thought the grass was greener somewhere else ohhh how wrong she was I think reality has kicked in and she regrets it..she's not coming back in my life now I know who she is a snake
We share a child so I have to see him. I still have boundaries n schedules so we know what to expect. He’s always trying to talk but I keep it lite n simple.
Good, because if you let her back she will leave again for the same reason she left before. She is just trying to show the other guy she has options. Her loss!
She won't contact bc she knows she overstepped one time too many ~ I have multiple chances with healthy structures we both agreed to HOWEVER she overplayed the structures agreed upon...this time love has escaped through the crevices.. There's no interest nor trust ~ any vacancies with be managed [ if you will ] with Self CARE Care / Self Love which in & of ItSelf is healing... Respect the experience
My ex moved on got married that failed they got a divorce now he’s back sniffing around but I’m not interested and not available 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Monica said: it’s funny how the tables turn now it’s you running back to me 😂😂😂😂😂😂 beat it
As Im writing this fresh out of a 31/2 year marriage,he cheated the whole time,played games right in my face,I been no contact,blocked all access,but right now,I want to find him and put some hurt on him,but Im a christian! I'll chill and allow God to fight for me.
Going through the same thing sis. I really could do some very bad things but I don't want that karma. I'm doing what I should have done all along...put my money time and energy into myself and what I want. They will get their due karma soon enough.
This is called spiritual warfare, and it works. Eventually, God will put another in his life, and maybe he will do right this time. If he gets together, God will send him back...if you want your husband. Sometimes, people need a minute to realize they are wrong. It's the one who know they are wrong but won't change. No one deserves to be done wrong. We are the children of God. We can choose how our life will be.... by the authority Jesus Christ.
@@begreat7593 Thank You So Much Im divorced moving forward,this experience shook me to my core,It woke me up,self love,my worth,set boundaries,no compromise,God is the only way. God Bless
As a woman, I'm 100% behind this. Not just for the reasons you mentioned, but because I was stalked by two of my exes, and I could have done without that sh!t.
King, why would my partner step across me to be sexually active with another, others, and who was available! I'm not chasing, my communication has been based on the those factors and the reality of who I am.When someone shows you that you are a momentary satisfaction the lips need not speak what their actions say! There is no need to be disappointed, sad or have feelings of rejection! The person is educating you via character identification, no need to be indifferent, just validation of self and understanding of where we will be going from here! Communication is and was and will always be the key via moving forward!
This is my 5th day no contact and yesterday I finally slept with no nervousness/anxiety pills. He just called and luckily I missed the call. Now I'm stuck on whether to get back to him. The last day I contacted him, he didn't pick up or get back to me by message or call. I feel better not talking to him so I'm better off not getting back him.
Either against you or incredibly selfish to where it's an one-sided relationship. I had to break up with my best friend because that's what our relationship turned into. Over 15 years down the drain.
@@brwnserenity2351 It can be difficult at 1st especially when you grew up with the person and shared good times. Know that it had to happen for you to receive better and what you deserve in time.☺️ People are in our lives for a reason, a season or lifetime. ( :
@@brwnserenity2351 You’re welcome no problem. Remember you’re ALWAYS ENOUGH the way you are never let anyone tell you different! May your 2023 be filled with joy, prosperity, peace & love! 💕
oh come on. they just want to keep your door open. Keeping you on hold.So can keep you in their stable. Don't pick up the phone.Take time to be good to yourself. hang out with friends and famiy.
Real facts. Experienced this. Wish my younger self heard this. Live and learn is what life about but you giving knowledge, lets hope they listen. God bless
If you have to play these games- this is a worthless waste of time. If you can’t be yourself and they get comfortable or bored or anything but happy for another opportunity to create a better relationship. Stay with no contact.
Plz listen to him and don’t make my mistake. My ex broke up with me through txt so easily and and broke my heart. I tried to speak to him in person but it was like I never existed to him. A year later he contacted me and I fell for it. He was so mean to me and I haven’t spoken to him since.
I use to love him so much till he blocks my number an act like he doesn't caring about me, it was hard at one point but I never beg him to unblock me I ignored him an go in No CONTAT guess what just today he is from calling me wanting to talk to me, but I fell so empty an don't love or want him anymore I can't allow him to keep hurting my feelings an keep saying sorry!!!!!
@@pokeyou4647 sorry, which other one got married? Broke up 5 times, and still got married? And you call it healthy relationship? They will still continue to break up. Don't get me wrong, quarreling, fighting and misunderstanding are part of a relationship. It should not deteriorate to breaking up. Fight and make up, but don't break up please.
An ex left you, you cried and begged for them not to go, all your pleading fell on deaf ears, yet they still went ahead and left you. After sometimes, the person came back, and you continued with the relationship. Later, they left again. You begged for them not to go and became heartbroken. They left you again. It's a cycle, if they loved you you, they would not leave you. They won't even do anything to deliberately hurt you.
Good. Online dating is filled with narcissists, sociopaths, psychopaths, dismissive avoidants, and so on. It's really not that easy. Good people are hard to come by. It's now their lesson to learn 🏌🏼♂️
@@ErikisOfficial Exactly 😩‼️ OmGosh, have you seen all of the horrible latest news stories about online dating ?? There have been sooo many tragic stories about women getting murdered, kidnapped, tortured & held hostage.. Super sad & scary out there. I am thankful to be content 85-90% of the time with my loneliness 🙏🏼😔
Narcissist... I did no contact and it will remain that way. I ♥ my peace too much I refuse to compromise that. Once you show me who you are I will never argue #NegativeEnergy
Such great advice... especially since I'm in the process of manifesting him back by using the law of assumption. It's mostly done by concept of self love... we all... everyone around us is a reflection of ourselves. Know your worth and value.
No contact for about 7 to months. Last night security knocked on Mt door and said there was a man downstairs and gave his name and should they let him in. I almost couldn't breathe. I told security no. I don't know what to do. I still love him. I have to play him off remember why I had to,walk away. If he transitions into the man God wants him to be. I know he's gonna come again and I'll be ready, I pray. I have boundaries now. It feels so good. Thank you for helping us. I'm so happy to lead me to you. You keep it real. Do you have anything of what to do when the ex resurfaces? 💖
@joycebonner3451• I always read Proverbs 26:11 It speaks about a dog returning to it’s own vomit 🤮 that’s how I look at going back to an ex. And that’s just Gross! I mean it has helped me for years. Stay strong don’t take them back they have had time to plot on how to draw you back In only to destroy you again. I hope this helps 🙏🏾
Look up coach craig kenneth or coach lee both super helpful in understanding why exes go completely cold and become cruel toward the end of the relationship
@os3688 Hey there good morning. I watched coach lee 0:26 a while back. I gained quite a bit of knowledge thanks to his teachings. It's still very difficult and and during my most difficult times I'll refer back to his videos even though I know i'm not getting him back. Thank you for the feedback though I really appreciate the suggestion. I hope you have a beautiful day today and a fabulous week❤
My ex lied and said that I was chasing him but he lied because when he reach out to me when he said something to me I responded but I never will ever chase anyone because no one is worth me chasing real talk 🤣🧬🤣🧬
Expose these down low ninjas!!!!! I'm telling you this world is so corrupt!!! people get pleasure out of living double lives, 2023 year of Exposure!!!!
This is so true. He made a big mistake and as yet still no contact. My love is real; his is now questionable. Going thru a healing period right now. Working on me. What happens now is in God's hands!
You can’t expect the person who broke you, to piece you back together. I walked away still deeply in love with my ex husband; but I want him to feel the absence of my presence! I left the state where we lived together, and blocked him from everything!
It’s true my ex left now his calling for what ever reason. I stood my ground no contact at all. He try’s to speak to me about his plants I tell him I am not interested we are not friends or enemies I love him but I love me more. Plus this whole break up he did it to himself.
They think that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. When mine tried coming back I shoved his butt right back to the other side like a skid mark. No thank u!!!!
I don't even remember breaking up with my girl i was drunk and i tried to explain that to her but to no avail 😞💔 i feel like she wants to stay broken up. Her family hates me and everyone keeps telling me to move on but i can't she's my everything.
Absolutely correct brother ❤ we was watering for dead plants 🏃♂ until the breakup 💔.... No contact rule is 100% true value medicine for love fever 😎..... The pain the memories the value everything they don't know it... But real one in love cross those bridges 🎁 ....
Well I can’t tell anyone else what to do but let’s be honest it’s a x for a reason why go backwards we broke up for a reason and for that reason you will always be a x it’s very obvious that something went wrong and you have to figure out what it was that made it go wrong either fix it or move on if we only knew how far we have come we would never be looking back at our pass God wants to bless you step into ur future it’s waiting for you
He spoke a mouth full, When I was contacting this Narcissist he got a kick out of me calling his phone he set there and seen me ringing his phone and txt messages. I got deep into the messages then he want to come out and start txt me bck trying to play the victim. And guess what I did, "I told him don't you ever in life contact me again undercover devil." Oh, he got in his feelings saying I wnt."🤣did he went looking for that text. He loves seeing a reaction out of me when he don't pick up! You don't play mind games. Ppl out here in the streets getting killed over that b******* playing mind games with women's and young girl's head for real. They just had on news last week ago some college dude kill girlfriend because she sat down seeing him calling and he didn't she didn't pick up so he went to her house and he killed but that was on news. But I love my freedom too much I'll let somebody else that crime. These streets out here ain't no joke now. He's going to f*** with the wrong person Mama or daughter they going to have a bro, crazy ex, I ex husband going to f*** his sissy blk a** up! F*** over there loves ones. Watch!🎤
PS. Thank You for the tips. I put my dolls away, a long time ago. When I was young, I did not know about a lot of things. Now, that I am older, I live life, doll houses is not my thing anymore and no one can play with my life. Ken, I never played with him and I did not care to play with him. My life comes with value. My every day is a blessing from God. The rest has no place, specially when, it is not of God or my good. I wait for no one but God, the rest, he will add and that is good enough for me.
He came to my house after 4 months of splitting up and couldn’t even tell me about his feelings he just came and started a petty fight made me feel so unsafe in my home I was told by close family members that he was wanting to meet with me to tell Me about his feelings towards me that he still loves me but he couldn’t even open up to me tell me so I know that he hasn’t changed he just wants to come back to what is comfortable for him but I’m no longer that person I deserve better
Yeah mine had a friend telling him to date 2-3 women while dating me naw I'm old school I've been married before when a man acts does that hes an unhappy nutt and his friend has a big secret main thing it's not my life block the number and stop the lying drama when a real man loves a woman nothing can stop him from doing right
When God removes someone, take it as a blessing and walk with peace in your heart that you are being protected 🙏 ✨️
Ur right but it's difficult
AMEN
@@corrinasnuggs3958 i admit immediately i walked out of unsatisfying relationship last year yes i do grief ,cry and at the same time hoping some day and soon i shall find a friend who shall appreciate me and love me for who i am i have learnt to stay in solitude for a while yes its tough but i thank GOD am alive,pushing on knowing my prayers shall be answered🙏
Who would want to break up with you, a God fearing woman? And your cute! Where have you been all my life?
Amen. The Lord said in Jeremiah 29-11
The lesson is in the mistake. Let them go if they moved on quickly to another person and then want you back later on. Shut the door and lock it
@Patricia: No. u missed the point. When a narc ghosts u, lock the door then - whether they move on to someone else or not. Never let a man tell u more than 1x he doesnt want you. Dont be a wimp or desperate enuf to let him settle for u UNTIL someone better looking or younger or more sexually flexible comes along. He'll do the same to the next lady. Let him lose u forever bc he showed he didnt love u by dumping you in the 1st place. Face it. You cant make him love you.
No matter how much you love her, it fking hurts like hell, move on
Always be compassionate and honest. If they return after no contact and you wish to test the waters do so. If you no longer care just move on.
Sometimes a disordered person can learn from a compassionate ex after no contact.
Either way just be true to what feels good for you in a healthy way.
@@RightToFreedomGirl Narc?
You mean someone who was actually diagnosed as narc or someone you consider narc?
I see back and forth women in internet calling men narc. This is pure gold.
@@nieczerwony haha yeah and these women are on a perpetual “healing journey” too. The lack of self awareness is astonishing.
Go no contact and stay no contact...
Period
Facts
This ain’t it chief😊
Absolutely! Walk away and don't look back. Don't ask why, who what or where?
Exactly !!
Go No Co
Stay No Co !!
That ex coming back is a test. Are you strong enough to move forward. Or you gonna break and relive the past and continue on this cycle.
Then why ru here this ain’t it chief
Am strong enough to move on my friend..i don't want to be hurt anymore.like he did to me .
I Promise Myself I'm strong enough to Move on
@@delf5724 what if that person has grown, realized there errors, and want to make amends?
@@elibenjamen8729 i will definitely watch his actions and that person needs to work on himself, i can work it out.
Your Ex is your Ex for a reason.
Keep looking forward in life.
Not backward.
Oh Dear your right on life is a journey so try your best to enjoy it in peace God Bless 🙏
Not all the time. Sometimes things can be worked out.
@@qadashchaayah7485 absolutely
The grass is not always greener on the other side .
The grass is greener where you water it!
@@shanicrystal8671 depends on what type of watering ur talking about lol financially is not worth it lol
@@snakemadness1439 what if he try to contact after 3 year in few times each. Year ?
@@shanicrystal8671💯💯💯
BIG FACTS! When they discovered the grass is not always greener on the other side they run back to slow down your progress....
You can never be good enough for the wrong person. Never go back to an ex. You've already know how is going to end. People don't change.
Facts
My boyfriend was forced to break up with me by his homophobic father and has gone no contact for a while because of that
people don't change. yikes that's a cynical world view. the ability to change is literally what defines humans as a species.
@@pauldurbin6586agreed. People can change.
@@pauldurbin6586Oh, please! It's the truth. You DON'T change your character. Deal with it.
You don’t need to chase no one if that person is for you.
Correct
The mistake is breaking no contact! Stay strong, it's for u not them.
He is saying if they contact you.
Never chase someone who says you are not the one!! Let him go!! You are so much more valuable!! The right one will not play games with you!!
It’s possible that you didn’t keep yourself valuable enough to keep. A woman must bring value if she wants a man to want her.
Silence and/or No contact is VERY powerful. You told a truth!!
When I’m done, I’m done. My ex contacted me out the blue a year later and I just let the phone ring. He left a msg asking me to call him. I never returned the call. When I say I’m done, I’m done!
You are not alone
did he reach out again after that?
Bravo! I have the same mindset.
Exactly
can I block my ex during the no contact period
Yes. Never reduce your dignity to chasing or begging.
Called me 18times today no caller ID bc they are blocked. Guess the chick with the BBL wasn’t all that was cracked up to be. God bless 🙏🏽
Her BBL isn't paid for. She needs help with the CareCredit payments. 😅😅
Damn!! That was ruthless!
Same here guess the girl with 8 kids and drama wasn't worth it lol
I'm ignoring and focusing on myself instead
Haha yes love this!
That’s why the Fake ass b**** term originated ✨💯Yess BBL means mental illness want to look like someone else so bad ends real sad real bad empty 0 Nada
The ex narcissist thinks you're waiting on the shelf for them. They're not truly gone, just pure manipulation. Chasing the narc only gives them the power to use and abuse you more.
I pray that my next relationship is a forever home for my heart, with a loyal healthy stable ready to love and give love man …until then, activating that God-given discernment and weaving out the wolves in sheep clothing
❤
The grass is not greener on the other side and I think people need to learn that... When you got something good keep it water it nurture it the minute u get too comfortable it's over
They need someone to abuse lie too and act a fool w. So they can behave for their other women. They can have him. He's sorry. There is no way a man can satisfy 5 or 6 women. Someone always gonna get the short end of a stick. ( No pun)
Not a Man’s job to “Satisfy” you, you are a helpmeet
@@michaelpratchett4415 You OBVIOUSLY don’t know Hebrew. Helpmeet is a piss poor translation and male chauvinistic too. The proper translation is a “salvation opposite him” and the name Adam gave her AFTER the eating of the fruit of the tree means “speaking life”. You gotta do better sir, she is waaaaaaaaay more than some helpmeet!
@@Superlife1369 TIMOTHEUS RISHON (1 TIMOTHY) 2
11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
@@Superlife1369 00LASIYM (COLOSSIANS) 3
18 Women, submit yourselves unto your own men, as it is fit in YAHUSHA.
19 Men, love your women, and be not bitter against them.
@@Superlife1369 OORINTIYM RISHON (1 CORINTHIANS) 11
3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is HAMASHIACH; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of HAMASHIACH is YAHUAH.
I've been no contact for 5 months. It's awesome!
We Peace in your life.😊
Bravo!😊
mine contacted me a couple of times when she was with her new boyfriend. she thought she could walk back whenever she wants I just ignored her. her daughter said she's sick of them arguing everyday we never really argued but it sounds like she's not happy she thought the grass was greener somewhere else
ohhh how wrong she was I think reality has kicked in and she regrets it..she's not coming back in my life now I know who she is a snake
We share a child so I have to see him. I still have boundaries n schedules so we know what to expect. He’s always trying to talk but I keep it lite n simple.
Good, because if you let her back she will leave again for the same reason she left before. She is just trying to show the other guy she has options. Her loss!
Are you a leo
@@cocoleluz 💯🎯
She won't contact bc she knows she overstepped one time too many ~ I have multiple chances with healthy structures we both agreed to HOWEVER she overplayed the structures agreed upon...this time love has escaped through the crevices.. There's no interest nor trust ~ any vacancies with be managed [ if you will ] with Self CARE Care / Self Love which in & of ItSelf is healing...
Respect the experience
This man has the absolute best, most concise advice there is. He should be taught in schools.
My ex moved on got married that failed they got a divorce now he’s back sniffing around but I’m not interested and not available 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Monica said: it’s funny how the tables turn now it’s you running back to me 😂😂😂😂😂😂 beat it
very true. two years and still tries to make contact. Eh no sir, you made your choice live with it.
Never go back never! Don't do it to yourself find the next one never ever go back
As Im writing this fresh out of a 31/2 year marriage,he cheated the whole time,played games right in my face,I been no contact,blocked all access,but right now,I want to find him and put some hurt on him,but Im a christian! I'll chill and allow God to fight for me.
Going through the same thing sis. I really could do some very bad things but I don't want that karma. I'm doing what I should have done all along...put my money time and energy into myself and what I want. They will get their due karma soon enough.
Karma knows every address !! I let God fight for me, He hits harder ♥️
@@galamoore6739 AMEN!!!
This is called spiritual warfare, and it works. Eventually, God will put another in his life, and maybe he will do right this time. If he gets together, God will send him back...if you want your husband. Sometimes, people need a minute to realize they are wrong. It's the one who know they are wrong but won't change. No one deserves to be done wrong. We are the children of God. We can choose how our life will be.... by the authority Jesus Christ.
@@begreat7593 Thank You So Much Im divorced moving forward,this experience shook me to my core,It woke me up,self love,my worth,set boundaries,no compromise,God is the only way. God Bless
I don’t want no exes back. PERIODT, Point, blank🚫 If it’s not God sent I refuse to entertain it.
Lmfao imagine actually having the arrogance to think that you can tell what god sends your way. What a narcissist.
Amen
As a woman, I'm 100% behind this. Not just for the reasons you mentioned, but because I was stalked by two of my exes, and I could have done without that sh!t.
And then the cycle begins again!!!! Such good advice. 👍
Ain’t nobody got time for that cycle. A period comes and goes..and so does stupidity.
Makes sense. My silence be killing him and I love it 😅
You sure its not The other way around?
King, why would my partner step across me to be sexually active with another, others, and who was available! I'm not chasing, my communication has been based on the those factors and the reality of who I am.When someone shows you that you are a momentary satisfaction the lips need not speak what their actions say! There is no need to be disappointed, sad or have feelings of rejection! The person is educating you via character identification, no need to be indifferent, just validation of self and understanding of where we will be going from here! Communication is and was and will always be the key via moving forward!
This is my 5th day no contact and yesterday I finally slept with no nervousness/anxiety pills. He just called and luckily I missed the call. Now I'm stuck on whether to get back to him. The last day I contacted him, he didn't pick up or get back to me by message or call. I feel better not talking to him so I'm better off not getting back him.
Just curious. I’m just watching this now but it was 10 months ago for you. Did yall get back together no judgement just wanting to follow your story.
I learned from that mistake 31 years ago. I've never looked back ever since.
Another important advice....think with your brain not with your heart
This also applies to so called friends people you thought were for you whole time they were against you etc. Go no contact & stay no contact!.
Either against you or incredibly selfish to where it's an one-sided relationship. I had to break up with my best friend because that's what our relationship turned into. Over 15 years down the drain.
@@brwnserenity2351 It can be difficult at 1st especially when you grew up with the person and shared good times. Know that it had to happen for you to receive better and what you deserve in time.☺️ People are in our lives for a reason, a season or lifetime. ( :
@@natoyam1994 I agree! Thank you so much for the response! I hope that you have a peaceful and prosperous 2023! 💖
@@brwnserenity2351 You’re welcome no problem. Remember you’re ALWAYS ENOUGH the way you are never let anyone tell you different! May your 2023 be filled with joy, prosperity, peace & love! 💕
oh come on. they just want to keep your door open. Keeping you on hold.So can keep you in their stable. Don't pick up the phone.Take time to be good to yourself. hang out with friends and famiy.
Agreed...they want to keep their ex as a safety net for when nothing goes according to plan after seeking and expecting greener pastures.
An Ex is an Ex for a Reason. Remember that!!
Real facts. Experienced this. Wish my younger self heard this. Live and learn is what life about but you giving knowledge, lets hope they listen. God bless
If you have to play these games- this is a worthless waste of time. If you can’t be yourself and they get comfortable or bored or anything but happy for another opportunity to create a better relationship. Stay with no contact.
Because there's no such thing as a second chance. Especially for men. She'll never give you a second chance anyways.
Truth and they fear not being able to control you or possess you.
Plz listen to him and don’t make my mistake. My ex broke up with me through txt so easily and and broke my heart. I tried to speak to him in person but it was like I never existed to him. A year later he contacted me and I fell for it. He was so mean to me and I haven’t spoken to him since.
🥺hope ur ok
You ok now.....I took mine back....three weeks he was gone.for good..got worse
I can relate. Shame on him.
I use to love him so much till he blocks my number an act like he doesn't caring about me, it was hard at one point but I never beg him to unblock me I ignored him an go in No CONTAT guess what just today he is from calling me wanting to talk to me, but I fell so empty an don't love or want him anymore I can't allow him to keep hurting my feelings an keep saying sorry!!!!!
It's a cycle, ex's that comes back, never stays.
ive seen where people brokeup more then 5 times with the same person and ended up in a healthy relationship and the other one got married
@@pokeyou4647 sorry, which other one got married? Broke up 5 times, and still got married? And you call it healthy relationship? They will still continue to break up. Don't get me wrong, quarreling, fighting and misunderstanding are part of a relationship. It should not deteriorate to breaking up. Fight and make up, but don't break up please.
An ex left you, you cried and begged for them not to go, all your pleading fell on deaf ears, yet they still went ahead and left you. After sometimes, the person came back, and you continued with the relationship. Later, they left again. You begged for them not to go and became heartbroken. They left you again. It's a cycle, if they loved you you, they would not leave you. They won't even do anything to deliberately hurt you.
@@pokeyou4647 sounds unhealthy that’s not something I would be apart of after the first break up I’m more than likely leaving
Don’t confuse feelings for a narc as good feelings.
If you walked away, good for you.
Never look back.
You saved your life right there
I did this and they ended back on online dating looking for a better option
Lofl 😂😂😂😂
9 times out of ten this is what they do
I did same I wasn’t begging but was too needy.
Good. Online dating is filled with narcissists, sociopaths, psychopaths, dismissive avoidants, and so on. It's really not that easy. Good people are hard to come by. It's now their lesson to learn 🏌🏼♂️
@@ErikisOfficial Exactly 😩‼️
OmGosh, have you seen all of the horrible latest news stories about online dating ??
There have been sooo many tragic stories about women getting murdered, kidnapped, tortured & held hostage..
Super sad & scary out there.
I am thankful to be content 85-90% of the time with my loneliness 🙏🏼😔
Narcissist... I did no contact and it will remain that way. I ♥ my peace too much I refuse to compromise that. Once you show me who you are I will never argue #NegativeEnergy
Such great advice... especially since I'm in the process of manifesting him back by using the law of assumption. It's mostly done by concept of self love... we all... everyone around us is a reflection of ourselves. Know your worth and value.
I told him straight up to his face what it is and what it will always be. I don’t believe in second chances and never will. Next
This has to be my first day of no contact. Three months later i will come back to this
How did it go?
It depends on the situation.. maybe u both needed time to realize that ur heart belongs to them
No contact for about 7 to months. Last night security knocked on Mt door and said there was a man downstairs and gave his name and should they let him in. I almost couldn't breathe. I told security no.
I don't know what to do. I still love him. I have to play him off remember why I had to,walk away. If he transitions into the man God wants him to be. I know he's gonna come again and I'll be ready, I pray.
I have boundaries now. It feels so good.
Thank you for helping us. I'm so happy to lead me to you. You keep it real.
Do you have anything of what to do when the ex resurfaces? 💖
@joycebonner3451• I always read Proverbs 26:11
It speaks about a dog returning to it’s own vomit 🤮 that’s how I look at going back to an ex. And that’s just Gross! I mean it has helped me for years. Stay strong don’t take them back they have had time to plot on how to draw you back In only to destroy you again. I hope this helps 🙏🏾
I hope he comes back. I miss him everyday. I cry myself to sleep wanting to know what I did so wrong to deserve his cruel and cold treatment 😢
I'm going through the same- It will get better ❤
@@60PleasantI'm thankful you reached out. I'm still struggling. I hope you're doing better. 🫂
Look up coach craig kenneth or coach lee both super helpful in understanding why exes go completely cold and become cruel toward the end of the relationship
@os3688 Hey there good morning. I watched coach lee 0:26 a while back. I gained quite a bit of knowledge thanks to his teachings. It's still very difficult and and during my most difficult times I'll refer back to his videos even though I know i'm not getting him back. Thank you for the feedback though I really appreciate the suggestion. I hope you have a beautiful day today and a fabulous week❤
Thanks 👍🏽❤️.. Week / two weeks no contact. He left because he doesn't understand me or 💕 love
Dating sounds like a waste of time
I made this mistake…..now she wants a break. Ffs ---she thought she lost me got me back only to say nah let’s have space. 😢
thats a common mistake for the left people by their ex...now you have learned how to handle it in the future! good luck
She was testing you. Exactly what dude told you they do. It’s okay. Don’t ever give her that chance again.
That’s not ever happeninnn because where we from we don’t bacc tracc it’s like the movie we don’t see dead people 😂😂💯
🤣🤣🤣😁 yep
BRUH... You are spot tf on my guy... Good rap Fam 💪🏿🔥🎯
I don’t chase them I replace them
You're fkn Awesome, dude...
My ex lied and said that I was chasing him but he lied because when he reach out to me when he said something to me I responded but I never will ever chase anyone because no one is worth me chasing real talk 🤣🧬🤣🧬
Expose these down low ninjas!!!!! I'm telling you this world is so corrupt!!! people get pleasure out of living double lives, 2023 year of Exposure!!!!
100 percent correct. Thank you for the reminder.
This is so true. He made a big mistake and as yet still no contact. My love is real; his is now questionable. Going thru a healing period right now. Working on me. What happens now is in God's hands!
You can’t expect the person who broke you, to piece you back together. I walked away still deeply in love with my ex husband; but I want him to feel the absence of my presence! I left the state where we lived together, and blocked him from everything!
I booted the ex and permanently blocked him. He better not come back! I'll have him removed from my presence.
It’s true my ex left now his calling for what ever reason. I stood my ground no contact at all. He try’s to speak to me about his plants I tell him I am not interested we are not friends or enemies I love him but I love me more. Plus this whole break up he did it to himself.
Delete their number and contact info. Therefore if they want you they will have to contact you. Don't reply
I NEVER go backwards, it'll start off where it left off...
They think that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. When mine tried coming back I shoved his butt right back to the other side like a skid mark. No thank u!!!!
I don't even remember breaking up with my girl i was drunk and i tried to explain that to her but to no avail 😞💔 i feel like she wants to stay broken up. Her family hates me and everyone keeps telling me to move on but i can't she's my everything.
Absolutely correct brother ❤ we was watering for dead plants 🏃♂ until the breakup 💔....
No contact rule is 100% true value medicine for love fever 😎.....
The pain the memories the value everything they don't know it... But real one in love cross those bridges 🎁 ....
If they are an ex…..keep it that way because there is no need to go back to that shitstorm again.
My ex is definitely not afraid of losing me since he didn’t even need one month after he left me to move on with someone new.
Great advice!!! Remain no contact
Nahh...i left him...he don't care. He will tho, but by that time.. I wont
- when X leave….. you get Challenger SRT Hellcat redeye …..the whinneeeeeee makes you forget about them
Well I can’t tell anyone else what to do but let’s be honest it’s a x for a reason why go backwards we broke up for a reason and for that reason you will always be a x it’s very obvious that something went wrong and you have to figure out what it was that made it go wrong either fix it or move on if we only knew how far we have come we would never be looking back at our pass God wants to bless you step into ur future it’s waiting for you
He spoke a mouth full, When I was contacting this Narcissist he got a kick out of me calling his phone he set there and seen me ringing his phone and txt messages. I got deep into the messages then he want to come out and start txt me bck trying to play the victim. And guess what I did, "I told him don't you ever in life contact me again undercover devil." Oh, he got in his feelings saying I wnt."🤣did he went looking for that text. He loves seeing a reaction out of me when he don't pick up! You don't play mind games. Ppl out here in the streets getting killed over that b******* playing mind games with women's and young girl's head for real. They just had on news last week ago some college dude kill girlfriend because she sat down seeing him calling and he didn't she didn't pick up so he went to her house and he killed but that was on news. But I love my freedom too much I'll let somebody else that crime. These streets out here ain't no joke now. He's going to f*** with the wrong person Mama or daughter they going to have a bro, crazy ex, I ex husband going to f*** his sissy blk a** up! F*** over there loves ones. Watch!🎤
Someone better? Good luck. What looks better seldom is what feels like a mistake always is. Look into why you do this to yourself over and over.
Confirmation from you! So True, no contact has been working for me!👋🏽👏🏽🙏🏽
It's a reason why they are an Ex !👍💯
The advice is vary we'll taken I think you for every word that you have said iwont ever chase a man thank friend
Thank you! This was definitely helpful.
In Mexico we have a saying that kind of goes like this: when I throw away flip flops 🩴 I don’t go back and pick it up😅.
PS. Thank You for the tips. I put my dolls away, a long time ago. When I was young, I did not know about a lot of things. Now, that I am older, I live life, doll houses is not my thing anymore and no one can play with my life. Ken, I never played with him and I did not care to play with him. My life comes with value. My every day is a blessing from God. The rest has no place, specially when, it is not of God or my good. I wait for no one but God, the rest, he will add and that is good enough for me.
I will never go backwards it's not me!
He came to my house after 4 months of splitting up and couldn’t even tell me about his feelings he just came and started a petty fight made me feel so unsafe in my home
I was told by close family members that he was wanting to meet with me to tell
Me about his feelings towards me that he still loves me but he couldn’t even open up to me tell me so I know that he hasn’t changed he just wants to come back to what is comfortable for him but I’m no longer that person I deserve better
Lol I'm sitting here thinking like damn is she watching the same videos as me
Thank you for speaking the truth brother.
Yeah mine had a friend telling him to date 2-3 women while dating me naw I'm old school I've been married before when a man acts does that hes an unhappy nutt and his friend has a big secret main thing it's not my life block the number and stop the lying drama when a real man loves a woman nothing can stop him from doing right
Thank you for this gem. I actually leaned this UNIVERSALLY
It’s crazy I seen this. An ex of mine contacted me today to tell me his mother passed away. She loved me and I loved her. We were like best friends.
My opinion, it's not a reason to go back please, for her sake, he should have cherished you
He try to contact me I chase him away not to cone back ever I dont forgive cheated let them go they dobt care about you he will cheated again
This guys is awesome man! Truly
It keeps me going!
Yes , thanks so much for this .... Genuine Truth!
I don't even answer....keep going son! I'm good
Yes so TRUE,THANK YOU FOR SHARING n that's what she does,so accurate you are...
Your info is amazing 👏🏼 thank you!
Amazing and TRUE.
Coach Blac you're nr 1!! 🏆 🏆👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻