Would an INFJ and an ESFP make a good couple? | CSJ Responds
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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
- CS Joseph Responds to the Acolyle monthly member question would an INFJ and an ESFP make a good couple.
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INFJ here. Sister is an ESFP. She's one of the few family members I still talk to. We get along really well actually. When we were kids she was a bitch. Kinda selfish and immature. But she's matured a lot as an adult.
Only thing I took issue with was the idea that INFJs need contact over long periods. I don't think this is necessarily true. What we need is assurance that the relationship is "ok". That you're not mad at us or whatever. That the relationship will be stable even if you don't get our face time. If I have that assurance, I can go months or even years without direct contact just fine. I don't need continual contact for that.
Exactly, it’s “the idea” we need, not the action, because we can sustain our needs we just need to know we are loved and important (as a fact) now we don’t need to worry and just focus on our lives.
They would argue all the time.
My mother is an ESFP, and my sister an INFJ it's non stop arguing.
I dated an esfp girl for over a year, we argued like twice. It was just a fun and loving time. Any two types can experience that if they’re into each other. If a girl is hot, then she’s hot. Kinda hard to argue with a hot girl who you fuck
INFJs self righteousness can be blinding
@@kiaadams104 it's also her unwillingness to accept external information (TE trickster) though i often remind my mother that she needs time to process (TI child)
You should do one on if an ESFJ and INFJ make a good couple. I'm curious to see what you would say.
No, terrible couple. Completely opposite wavelengths.
Esfj and infj couples kinda common. I think cause infjs tend to have high social status which esfjs attracted to that.
I’m curious what you would say about the ENTJ x INFJ couple, since you have Ethan and Hila Klein typed as ENTJ and INFJ on your typing famous people list, and their relationship has been lasting pretty long for an incompatible couple if they’re typed correctly.
I’ll say there’s much more to people than their type. Id rather date a beautiful infj woman then a fat ugly enfp chick, obviously.
Duhhh @brian we in this community get that. But beyond that. There's an aspect that cognitive type plays. And that's what we're discussing
Yeah, as a UD/SF INFJ man that grew up with an INFJ father and an ESFP mother, NO.
My father never could trust my mother, and my mother got resentful of that and did what she wanted anyway. the fights were destructive.
They kept making the mistake of trying to work it out due to their emotional compatibility, but generally, I think it'd a pretty bad idea for Ni and Se doms to get together, and same with Si and Ne doms.
You don’t understand how much I appreciate you -infj
Thanks CSJ.❤ Doing "the Lord's work"😂 warning us from stepping on this landmine. Humor aside, I think you are saving lives man. Whether you know it or not. Commendable.
my infj uncle divorced with his esfp while she was cheating and revealed also that their daughter is not his
The short answer is no.
It's a relationship you have to learn to tolerate and work on if they are family...
Would never consider a relationship with them.
A lot of the things you said are spot on, especially the authoritative part. It's for their own good.
Although I've learnt they best learn by playing with fire figuratively. They are the less cautious type, hence why they need their freedom.
They only thing I disagree with is being on top.
If ur in that position most of the time u get sick and tired of it.
I've typed everyone in my family correctly apart from my son, I really want to know why our relationship is more smooth sailing.
Perhaps I need to book a session with you.
What about an ISFP and an INFJ?
Isfp is an Ni user too
Curious about this also
I think this is an amazing work and learning relationship, and these two types are emotionally compatible, but it shouldn't be anything more than a fling because, like with all Se/Ni users, they need someone that can trust them and will be loyal to them, which other Se/Ni users can't really provide( especially INxJs and ESxPs)
Yea. Idk. INFJs low-key manipulative. Slippery lil things. I don't think it would be a good match. Hasn't worked for me in the real world. But I've been with an INTJ for 5 years. So crazier things have happened. -ISFP 4W5
@@kiaadams104 that is crazy. Conflict types are typically the worst relationship
My dad infj said that he married my mom esfp due to his logic. Ni dom and ni inferior always limits each other wants and neither parties ever feel loved the way they want to be loved.
My dad wont listen to anyone due to ti child and my mom guilt trips my dad everyday due to fe critic. Fun times
makes a lot of sense.
@@glodazkaloopablenakirium3692this was my parents relationship to a t.
Your dad’s probably salty he’s dating one 40-50 year old woman when he should be dating as many hot young girls as he can. Hot girls are hot girls, type barely even matters
@@moondust128 uhh the same reason I can say “men like sex with hot girls” without meeting every single man.
Great video. Would like to see ISFJ and INFJ compatibility.
This is another one where they completely misunderstand each other.
I'm an INFJ. I spent years with an ESFP. TRUST ME, NO GOOOOO.
Find an ENTP(DEF NOT ENFP) or an INFP.
I disagree, tho, sex was amazing was my esfp
xNxP for INxJs in general.
Could you please make this kind of video about an ISTP and INFJ?
I'm hearing a lot of enneagram type 8 overlap with the ESFP
I think there would be a clash with the Se Ni the judging functions might work
10:13 “produce rings?” What does that mean
When was this video from
Doubt it lol
Infj and infp?
Excuse me?!💀
If you believe this you are in a cult. Any type can be with any type if they are mature enough not obsessed with superficiality.
False since the beginning of time.
How new are you to this?
If you believe this comment, you are ignorant and prefer judging than educating self, which makes you come off as an idiot on the world wide web
@@cynthiajuma9006 not new at all. CSJ is not good at typology generally. Thinks he knows a lot, but no wisdom. His model is a mish mash of different models that don't go well together, and his biases are awful
@@davecross4493 Well i think you need more knowledge and experience with each of the 16 types and you'll agree with him
Next time, could you please zoom in more?