Most INFJS are considered “empaths” and the popular advice I hear is “Observe not absorb.” Easier said then done, but remember brain and psyche is a muscle that we have total control over and we must sweat the brain to grow. Love you!
Spot on. I hope this INFJ can find a path to healing, and a way to detach from the negativity. Sometimes, solitude can help in the meantime. When you aren't able to detach physically, you can detach mentally to preserve the growth you've already made. Meditation or focusing on improvement/learning also helps. Find areas where you can improve yourself amidst the circumstances. As CSJ said, freedom is integral. When you feel trapped in a situation, likely there is an 'out' that you haven't considered. Not to say that this 'out' won't require a degree of pain, whether emotional or physical. The 'out' needs to be carefully weighed with pros and cons to determine if separating yourself from your current life really will solve the issues, or if there is an underlying problem that needs to be addressed. There is a stigma with 'door-slamming' people, but sometimes it is necessary, especially after you have done a considerable amount of deliberation on your situation. Some people are simply bad for you, and you have to determine if they are worth the risk. Let people surprise you, but don't be afraid to close the door on them if you've given them the opportunity for change. I think it needs to be said, that you have to use your voice, and stand up for yourself too. Assuming that people know how they are affecting you, is unfair. You have to tell people how their actions or choices are affecting you, and you have to be able to assert your voice. I have learned this the hard way. Sometimes, people aren't out to get you, and sometimes people are just simply selfish. Confrontation is difficult, and harmony is paramount; however, if you are living in constant stress and negativity, it may be time for you to confront those in your life for the sake of change. You matter too. Take care.
You need to humble yourself into letting an ESFP be more exciting than you, and still be friends with that ESFP, that way you can closer relationships to ENTPs too, coz the ENTPs would respect that you get along with the ESFPs
@@loref4200 I am not retracting what I said, I am someone who upsets INxJ family without even knowing I do it, but if the INFJs could socialise better with ESFPs my life would be in a better place, I am an ISTJ and I go out of my way to socialise with ENTPs to make INxJs comfortable, and that extra effort has been rewarding me tenfold, plus I know how to upset INTJs really easy, so don't call me trying to be nice to ENTPs an SJW move, I don't expect the ENTPs to be nice to me in return, I do it coz it puts the INxJs I know in a much better headspace, my type is very common, so I have the luxury of not always having my inferior function activated, so that is why I try to help INxJs have better connections with ENTPs, you should do the same with ESFPs, but I have been watching this channel since late 2018, and only just now I am getting to this point of finding the most humble to use this knowledge, which from my experience is also the most affective, I am ISTJ your super ego type, so please do your best to try and listen what I am saying, sincerely sorry if it is too Si heavy
@@carlurbananimals I am not really sure where this comment came from, as it seems very personal and directed at me with no previous interactions between us. However, I am going to put that aside and address the claims you've made. I'm sorry that your family has taken offense to you, and it isn't fair that they haven't taken the time to understand you or where you're coming from. I haven't had the pleasure of meeting an ESFP in person, and if I have, it was very far into the past and I cannot recall a specific person coming to mind. I don't socialize often, but when I do, it is typically with those in my inner circle. Two ESTJs, an ENTJ, an ISTP, an ENFJ, an INFP, an ESFJ, and an ISFJ. So far, I haven't had any trouble getting along with many people, and seem to find common ground with most every person I meet, even if it takes some time. I recently lost an ENTP that was very dear to me, but we had to part ways due to life conflicts. I have to say that they are my favorite type by far, and I have yet to find another person who understands me in such a way. I doubt I ever will, and that will pain me for the rest of my life. I appreciate the comment, and perhaps I need more information from you as to how exactly I am to benefit from an ESFP relationship, and furthermore, how to come across one in daily life. I hope this reply finds you well. Please, let me know if I have misunderstood any of your points, and hopefully we can discuss further. Take care.
@@loref4200 If you can learn to have a friend that is an ESFP it will make ENTP people around you more happy which means healthy ENTPs will like you more, it is great that you are friends with all those types, but there is a chance that the ESTJ and ENTP could've made each other uncomfortable, especially since ESTJ cannot gel too well with ENTP, that is just my speculation, but Ne users are a lot more worried about who their friends are friends with than Ni users are Thanks so much for your response, I hope you can keep your momentum up and keep up those good relationships
Another thing INFJs really need to do is reading. Because while you're reading, the author of that book is talking to you, and you'll mirror their psyche. Also, Go browns!
I agree with this, but it is especially important to discern how the author has affected your mindset, and objectively (as best as possible) determine if you should be mirroring their psyche.
Each time I felt trapped, I changed (or at least tried) my environment: moved to different cities, changed work places, lived with a partner and then on my own... it truly helps. I feed my Se with positive experiences so it aspire to be healthy instead of being corrupting.
I love keeping old tickets and buttons from clothes I liked and a bunch of stuff in a memory box, so I can look at it once every couple of years and be transported back.
You got the Te savior, but almost no Si, im not sure if you have seen his original quarter life crisis video, but he talks about in quarter life crisis, you will confirm your ESTP subconscious to the extent that it becomes your ego for a period in time (so you will actually feel INFJ in your own mind, and see how others see INFJ) you also gain access to your Si demon at this time, as you behave so much like an ESTP you even gain the ISTJ side like ESTPs do.
Im so glad he asked this question. This is literally exactly where I am in life right now and even I'm twice his age. I've been itching to make a total reset of my environment and now I know at least I'm going in the right direction because sometimes people will say that leaving your life behind to start a new one is running away. But I just feel like it's time to move on so I can grow because if I stay I will just end up being bitter and who wants to live like that? Thank CS Joseph this has really helped me a lot. 👍🏾
Straight to the point. INFJs should learn to be self-sufficient. I am doing it through strengthening Fi/Te/Si with a help of Ne. My Ne is more or less active and it seems to be a driver of that development. Ne is important because it pushes my ego to the limit. By learning how to be more pragmatic and resilent I sustain Ne energy.
That sounds like Se inferior AND Ne, but the best way is to humble yourself into having respect for your 11th most compatible type which has the same middle functions as your 1st most compatible type, and not just ESFPs that are admirable also ESFPs at a similar stage in life, this will supercharge your Fe parent
What you are describing is using your weaker functions like Ne, to overwhelm the abundance of SJs, and you expect all the SJs to just run away, but trust me before you do something stupid, SJs have their limits
@@Grivendal It is subconscious by default. They are subconscious because ego consumes all our attention. If you spend time to learn yourself (especially in stressful situations) sooner or later you will notice how these functions influence your behavior.
Fire goes wherever wind blows. Change the direction of wind if fire is getting trapped. It’s so cool when you think about cognitve functions as their elemntal affinity and how they interact with each other.
I had a similar problem a couple of months ago , I just made myself my own mental point of origin and cut off loser friends and toxic ex and unplugged from family drama and became a pariah. my depraved ENTP ex taught me a huge lesson about the 4 pillars...
The best deal for an infj is being born in a traditional healthy stable family unit. I wasn't. When I accessed my ti - I ran away, stole my sperm donor and my birth mothers financial information Changed my full legal name, dropped my whole family. Dont know if it applies to all infjs but Lack of te manifested in me as no lucrative job, Why don't I do only fans, stripping or prostitution? I lack sexual aggression... Plus people feel entitled to my body for free so I wouldn't get paid well and/or likely end up trafficked. So I was doing postmates/door dash..applied for every social service ..food stamps, I even told them I was mentally disabled which I'm not just to get a disability check (when you're an infj everyone thinks you're stupid by default so hey make them pay you for it.), I wouldn't recommend housing bc you have to live around toxic ppl but if you need to go for it I go to the food bank/pantry twice a month. and I had to scam my sperm donor for like 15-20k My name is changed so theres nothing they can do I've been in countless fist fights with sensors I rent a little house in a rural area and drive a 1999 Chevy. I keep a baseball bat in my trunk, knives, spray. Before the pandemic if I was feeling low on money or wanted an adventure I would go into the city for a few days and deliver postmates and door dash I don't even like going into the city bc ppl would look at me like I have 3 heads, some would cry, or some burst out into an uncontrollable joker laugh to hide their shame and pain I have to live like an old lady for the sake of freedom and I'm only 24 but I'm at peace and I'm content
I just stumbled upon your channel this afternoon, and have spent a while looking at a few videos. I'm an INFJ male according to the mbti test (which I've taken multiple times and almost always got the same result (once infp) although I've seen your opinion about the test on the lecture on social compatibility for the type), and I'm really glad you are able make these sort of videos. As you say, the online community is highly infj populated (if not dominated) and it is quite refreshing to be criticised and not just glorified. Your insight on the cognitive functions is the greatest i've seen so far, and has intrigued me greatly to delve deeper into it. I do feel portrayed when you talk about potential threats to our mental health (our impulse to mirror the environment, to please people, highly perform for some, the "transactional" character some relationships can acquire for us...etc, as well as the potential room for development and balance. I also wanted to comment here regarding one lecture, that two of my best friends are (this is just my personal, uneducated guess) ISTP and ESTP respectively, which is something that certainly has, and still does cause me lots os stress but also been veeeery rewarding at times looking back at it. My aunt is INFP and we seriously bond intellectually and emotionally. Comparing both kinds of relationships, I picture a training camp the first case, compared to a walk on the park holding hands in the second. Both are fundamental to me as of today, and have certainly had a huuuuge influence on who I am right now. Anyway, keep making great content, I'll try to catch up to you.
yeah I have to just use new experiences to distract myself from old experiences that were unfavorable but they still don't go away, like you wanna erase your mind sometimes or press a restart button for some experiences
I have moved to two cities and 4 apartments in the past two years, now I have a calling for adventure to move to southeast Asia with a backpack for at least a year while working on building an online business at the same time and reinvent myself again starting from January 2025, it will definitely be an adventure
yeah I also noticed the dishes thing! So my dad has some old dishes that we used to use when I was like 7yo...basically at a bad point in my life but we still have those dishes. I absolutely hate them lol...I just don't use them at all. I'd rather hand wash the new dishes than use the old ones if the dishwasher isn't full
Yes I now know I’m ESTP when I’m in social setting . But to develop that it takes time to learn And grow for years and find interest with the right people . Meeting inspiring individuals is like energy charging. That you get more and more like them with time . And start to play the game as they perform unconsciously and one day when you look back do you have been far away from your old self. Total transformation. Now I really like my extrovert mask, it comes in so naturally and make myself feel happy and the other person content
Hey Chase! First of all, you content changed my life. ☺️ Any chance you could do a video on how infps could develop a way to communicate (when the subject is personal/ a deeply held value that is,) that is not “an hour-long rant that goes off into tangents and never gets to the point?” 💀 (that was my intj dad’s description of the phenomenon if you couldn’t tell lol.) Also, infjs you are amazing, seriously. I deeply admire you and you are worth the world.
Hi Chase, I’m a new subscriber to your RUclips and fb pages. I don’t see a lot of Isfp content or I’m not sure which videos to watch. I typically have always tested as an Infp but have learned through your info that I am definitely an Isfp. Looking forward to understanding the functions.
I follow your channel since 2018 and I really liked (and I hope people that have followed you, feel the same) how you had your playlist with every type and without the thumbnail. I hope someday you comeback form your original style
If you can find the factors that harm your si, and take action in setting things right internally, you can avoid being absorbed by the chaos in the world around you and even make real changes in your life
If you hang around smokers all the time you're gonna become a smoker, unless you stand your ground and make your decision to stop. A lot of the times you making that stand can cause others to follow your example
Hi Chase. Great video!! Two questions though 1. What if the INFJ in question is real broke and has absolutely no savings to move out? Doesn't own a car etc. Since you are speaking from a US context, what if the INFJ is living in a 3rd world country where it's more unsafe due to factors apart from covid? 2. Does the same advice apply for INFJ women as well?
Just throwing this out there because I agree with you. According to the CDC, since August of last year, the mortality rate for COVID in the USA is .04%, so the survival rate is 99.96% without the vaccine. The survival rate is likely a higher percent. This is due to the people who have had COVID; yet, had zero symptoms and survived (but were not tested for it and, therefore, not documented). Those without symptoms at all equate to about 80% of people. Anecdotal evidence: My 82 year old grandmother, and my 60 year old mother both got Covid. Both only had a headache for a few days. They both had pneumonia a few months prior and both were hospitalized for over 2 weeks and on breathing treatments for over a month. (I have similar stories from several other people who have contracted the virus, and they also said it wasn't anything to worry about if you are relatively healthy and have no underlying illnesses). The statistics listed here are comparable to any other country with similar measures in place. It is less than twice as deadly as the common flu virus that kills thousands of people every year. The issue is that 'covid related death' numbers are skewed because if someone died of heart disease, but they had covid, then they are a 'covid related death' even if they would have died from their underlying illness. Statistics can be skewed based on your data pool to represent the facts that you want to represent. Anyone who has taken statistics or deals in statistics knows this, yet the media touts statistics from companies owned by people with severe bias and hypocritical methods. Unfortunately, too many people venerate the media for their main source of information. RIP, critical thinking.
Yeah. Well done post. It may take some time and pain, but it will always lead to the moment in the end when the INFJ reclaims their freedom. Very true observation Mr. C.S. Joseph. Btw, that song at the end. Here comes the brand. Catchy though.
Hey, I'm a 19 year old INFJ, this is my first comment on the channel, howdy from the east coast. I wanted to ask a question. What does an INFJ do when their visions have already been set into motion by other people like them? What do they do when all the epiphanies they experienced have all been discovered, spread and implemented by people in no time at all? I've found some hope in that me trying to walk in truth has improved my life, and subsequently improved the lives of everyone around me, which tells me that whatever I'm learning here is helping me improve my fellow man. The problem lies in that because everyone is introducing ideas so quickly now, I'll never get a chance to embark on "my" visions because someone's already doing it. I'm taking in as much information as I can while going to college and socializing from time to time with my INFJ wolf pack and sorting fact from fiction, but I need to come up with better visions to get my feet off the ground and get in a better environment for myself and my sanity. The point is, how can an INFJ change the world if the world is changing days after you think it? Can you just unintentionally "copy" everyone else by doing the idea that you both had at the same time, or are you supposed to be original, unique, connect bigger ideas, what is there to do? PS: Of course, I'm aware you have a negative view of higher education, but I am self teaching myself how to self teach by paying more attention than I did in grade school, so I might not be completely wasting my time..
INFJ Here, I am grateful for your content . INFJs are misunderstood, I love it; in general. but when I need advice it is hard to explain what I need , even when I know it clearly. most N types try to , no one can help except a healthy ENxP , I have had 4 of them in my life . you are one of them . the advice would be something to empower my Fe-Fi and do the next right thing , rather than being stuck in the I don't know how to start . an ESTP told me : you love to search and research do it and every thing is gonna be clearer . that was good for my Ti-Te . I think it was a hunch of her Ni as she was aware of something through here Se. as for Si part it is harder if my Te is not powerful enough to see the role of everyone including me in the event , so Fe-Fi is not haunted . and yes having new Se would help a lot .
8:34 Yeah I had a fever the other day. Felt like I needed to report that to my university. Now they say I have to stay in a dorm to quarantine for 14 days. I shouldn’t have reported that fever.
I could relate to the part about Se getting rid of old objects with memories attached. As an INTP I channeled into my ENTJ unconscious to sell all my old loser and weeb stuff and collections and also into my isfp superego to physically hammer and slash and destroy and occasionally set ablaze anything that my parents or someone had given to me that I did not pay for or create myself. Also totally true about infjs as my wife lived with her parents way too long into her mid 20s, then went to a religious college that is described by many as a concentration camp just to be free from her parents and now she is living which my tyrannical self although as long as she pleases me (which she absolutely loves doing as an Infj) I am helping her to build a life for herself and helping her to make smart investments while living a higher quality of life as she is stuck with me but the difference is she is getting everything she wants plus she doesn’t have to be not only a literal slave anymore and going further into debt with the previous two regimes as now with me she can work the other way into the green instead of the ditch and do things she likes such as me and children and have a purpose and new high quality stuff.
damn low-key lucky I'm living with 2 good ppl ngl.. there are the low times but I think it keeps me in check through them having si child and se child, and also I can tell the truth to them too most of the time
“They have to be okay with not being the most interesting person in the room.” God that hit me in my fucking Se. I also just watched the cognitive transitions of an INFJ vid, feels good to get a reality check for a change.
As an ENFJ I am stuck with an INFJ ex-girlfriend in memories we both have and we both reinforce the fears of the other that lead to unhealthy attachments with the external environment and compensate each other’s emotional needs. What exact dynamic is behind that? I am very attracted to and intrigued by INFJs and feel that same sense of empowerment and distancing from the environment to restart, but in a somewhat different manner. How can I stop myself from believing and falling into these poisoned memories that are associated with her?
i think i have heard something similar on meghan levota's channel, and from other enfjs on reddit and other sites.Both nfjs kinda help each other out when the other one is feeling down or devaluing themselves but feeling happy about it is a struggle.There is emotional attachment but without any "highs" if i had to describe it.I would suggest having deeper relationships with nfps would be better.And finding your own ways to pull yourself out of one of those negative Fi moods so you don't feel the need to be attached to something(this can't be completely true, but i do believe we can be better than we were yesterday perhaps with enough trying!)
@@aladdout9454 Thank you a lot for that elaborate answer. It might be a confirmative bias, but I can somewhat confirm that. The thing about this type of relationship is that it‘s also kind of helpful, because NFJs help each other out and try to improve them so that they don’t stumble into pits again. They rarely accept each other‘s moral flaws and both feel good about confronting each other (if healthy of course). I feel like it‘s also possible to have emotional highs with NFJs, but they need to be at a more meaningful and transcendental state of consciousness, by projecting the more unconscious functions. I also think that if NFJs have trauma in their parent function (Ni,Fe) they might start a relationship like this, trying to parent each other because they just become each other‘s pillar. That‘s the case for me at least Their support for each other either will be very very empowering and meaningful, or compensatory.
Can you make a video comparing the INFJ and INTP types, I remember you typed Jordan Peterson as INTP, and another youtube channel who tried comparing INFJ and INTP gave Jordan Peterson as an example of INFJ, and also I was convinced I am an INTP for a long time, now thinking I'm actually INFJ
Jordan Peterson has subpar and sometimes even shitty Ti so he can't be a Ti hero. He is a male ISFJ with Ne aspiring (all over the place) and very practical imo. I can give you many reasons why this is, but that's the short of it.
@@c.s.70 Peterson is an INFJ. It's so extremely obvious, now I'm actually wary of all the other information I've received from people who believe otherwise.
Sorry about the Browns, Chase. They got done dirty on that helmet-to-helmet. I wanted my Bills to face them in the AFC Championship. On to what I actually wanted to say: I would suggest that the life reset is only the first step. Si demon can be brutal enough to hurt you for a long time, its toxicity infecting your life and relationships. There needs to be a mental reset as well. Understand how you got into that situation in the first place. Understand why you were abandoned. Understand that if you were abused, it wasn’t your fault, *even if you stayed.* Healing is a long, grueling process. And yes, time helps. But a true examination of conscience will speed the process along. And if you made a mistake, learn from it, and right your ship.
I still can’t figure out if I’m an INFJ or and ISTP. After studying what everything means in your testing the type grid I’ve been stuck between those two types for a while. I’ve noticed this is a reoccurring theme. When types have the same cognitive functions and similar interaction styles/temperaments it can get tricky distinguish them. E.g. ISTP vs INFJ, ISFJ vs INTP, ENFJ vs ESTP I’ve respected and admired your work for a while now and would love to know your opinion on this.
Love this. Could you do a video on the ENTP 'mid life crisis' you said you could feel on the horizon for yourself? I have an ENTP husband who is nearly there too...help...!
@@CSJoseph Yeah, I wasn't sure because of the whole male ESTP subconscious male rough survival thing for females...which seems to fit the male archetype. As INFJ females should we develop away from the male characteristics of the subconscious ESTP or go full-on towards it? I've found that ESTP subconscious in concentrated doses is VERY Alpha and male, even more so than your ESTP man, only we can't sustain it for long like ESTPs. It takes a lot to provoke that side of me, and if I'm honest I'm a bit worried scared of its power and its potential destructive consequences if fully unleashed especially in anger. In ESTP subconscious mode I caught myself being uncharacteristically tough and even insensitive, which hurt some people and I felt deeply ashamed and regretful of it afterwards, I really don't want ppl to violate my boundaries but I don't want to hurt ppl either. And even so, that ESTP side doesn't feel like the real most authentic me for the most part, sure it's a part of me like an armor and defense weapon, but there's an even more vulnerable soft feminine pure side to the INFJ that I think most of us protect tightly. Seems conflicting.
Great video. How does looking at the present while it’s changing using Se differs from Ne? How would the combination of Se and Ti will differ from Se and Fi?
God when he decides an ENTP male should be born: "Yooo lol what if we created a man with almost no base stats but high learning multipliers wouldn't it be funny for this dude to spend his whole early life suffering in mediocrity before he could taste success and fulfillment"
sorry this is a bit off topic .. did you ever type Casey Neistat? I would love to know - I guessed entp but some say enfp. honestly he is an empath and not all about showing of status symbols! What do you say? Would love to hear it .. Also would you like to make videos like " inspiring xxxxs " and then we can learn from them ? thanks a lot for the content
Hi CSJ, I tried to take your quiz but, despite the quiz saying to skip questions I'm not sure on for, I can't submit my answers because the page is taking me back to the unanswered questions. Any advice? Love your channel BTW 😊
I think last week I came across your channel. I binged watched some playlists and now some question have come up. I am going to state one here (maybe I'll join the discord soon): Since the positions in which the functions are matter and the only rules are that F and T have to be either in 1/4 or 2/3 and then S and N in whats left (which means also in either 1/4 or 2/3), aren't there some types left out? like the (Ti Si Ne Fe) closest one would be INTP with Ne in Parent and Si in Child. Also Fe and Ti in INTP switched (Fe Si Ne Ti) are no type on the type grid. Maybe you can link me a video to where this is explained. Thanks a lot.
INFPs can get stuck in the lazy rut if it's in their comfort zone and they don't feel like being productive and it could look quite similar. Their Ni critic piles on an unwillingness to want things. A feeling of trapped for an Ni hero is usually more due to a real or perceived lack of choices though.
I (INFJ) am really confused to take a decision to go forward in relationship with a career and logic driven INTP or a career and status driven INTJ ...Any guiding suggestions ?
@@CSJoseph Thank you for taking the time and replying 😇 My understanding of the human mind is been developing because of your videos! Thanks a lot for all your work ❤️
TBH I have plucked an INFJ from their old environments and have helped them to complete their quarter-life crisis on my quest to become a man and be fruitful and multiply. I did not fully understand Jungian psychology at my time of the decisions as I need a high level of Fe and brainlessness for survival in my career I chose when I was young and uninformed of the psychological realities of life and I thought the INFJs Fe parent could help me to develop my Fe inferior and help me exist and live throughout my poorly chosen career choice for my type in brainless subconscious happiness as esfj. Unfortunately I am not sure if this is working and I may fail my quarter life crisis and she says we can reproduce if I meet my quarter life crisis but I am finding that I am possessed by and am worshipping my ENTJ unconscious to survive and get by to make it. Is it possible my poor life decisions when combined can correct and I will become super cultivated and mastered of four sides or will it be most likely beneficial to give up before I am consumed and destroyed by my other sides of the minds so will I be able to control them and access them for survival more likely or are they too strong and will take me out as I am having trouble?
Sorry but I have to say this. The cut scenes are very cringe. I don’t think it adds any values. It was much more natural without them. I don’t know if other people feel the same but just wanted to share my side.
@@faezix2124 No your right, but humor is a good teaching tool. Not that every joke he says actually relates to the topic, but welcome to being informative I guess. Besides, it gives Chase a chance to show how he isn't merely just a harsh ass that everyone accuses him of being. He is just a regular dude, who enjoys a laugh like the rest of us. Personally I think that's what he hopes people will come to see him as. Chase also understands the majority of his audience are people around his age bracket, and lower. We live in a meme culture with out generations, funny wit catches the attention of audiences. The same as when he goes into rants about certain anime series, I don't think that is to appeal to boomers when he does that.
It’s certainly hard for me to let go of objects just because I see all the years they’ve endured like why they still function and I save money 🤷🏼♀️ ha been letting go of things like my couch I breastfeed both of my children on and they’re 10 years apart 😂 like omg 😭😭😭😭 hahaha 🤣 my partner is making me get rid of all the stuff 😂
You just imposed footage of a woman caressing (her?) daughter while talking about getting rid of things and getting new things. I am not getting rid of my children to get new ones. I totally know that is the implication here. 10:56. Editing is very cumbersome on RUclips.
I really liked this vídeo, but being homeless do not sound that appealing. Being unproductive and not generating money I would feel more sad and in a global crisis, Feels like a Bad idea. But overall good video.
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Most INFJS are considered “empaths” and the popular advice I hear is “Observe not absorb.” Easier said then done, but remember brain and psyche is a muscle that we have total control over and we must sweat the brain to grow. Love you!
Thank you again my favorite ENTP pedagogue.
Very much appreciate the honesty and transparency of your answers with us INFJs.
Spot on. I hope this INFJ can find a path to healing, and a way to detach from the negativity. Sometimes, solitude can help in the meantime. When you aren't able to detach physically, you can detach mentally to preserve the growth you've already made. Meditation or focusing on improvement/learning also helps. Find areas where you can improve yourself amidst the circumstances.
As CSJ said, freedom is integral. When you feel trapped in a situation, likely there is an 'out' that you haven't considered. Not to say that this 'out' won't require a degree of pain, whether emotional or physical. The 'out' needs to be carefully weighed with pros and cons to determine if separating yourself from your current life really will solve the issues, or if there is an underlying problem that needs to be addressed. There is a stigma with 'door-slamming' people, but sometimes it is necessary, especially after you have done a considerable amount of deliberation on your situation. Some people are simply bad for you, and you have to determine if they are worth the risk. Let people surprise you, but don't be afraid to close the door on them if you've given them the opportunity for change.
I think it needs to be said, that you have to use your voice, and stand up for yourself too. Assuming that people know how they are affecting you, is unfair. You have to tell people how their actions or choices are affecting you, and you have to be able to assert your voice. I have learned this the hard way. Sometimes, people aren't out to get you, and sometimes people are just simply selfish. Confrontation is difficult, and harmony is paramount; however, if you are living in constant stress and negativity, it may be time for you to confront those in your life for the sake of change. You matter too. Take care.
You need to humble yourself into letting an ESFP be more exciting than you, and still be friends with that ESFP, that way you can closer relationships to ENTPs too, coz the ENTPs would respect that you get along with the ESFPs
@@carlurbananimals Maybe this reply was meant for someone else?
@@loref4200 I am not retracting what I said, I am someone who upsets INxJ family without even knowing I do it, but if the INFJs could socialise better with ESFPs my life would be in a better place, I am an ISTJ and I go out of my way to socialise with ENTPs to make INxJs comfortable, and that extra effort has been rewarding me tenfold, plus I know how to upset INTJs really easy, so don't call me trying to be nice to ENTPs an SJW move, I don't expect the ENTPs to be nice to me in return, I do it coz it puts the INxJs I know in a much better headspace, my type is very common, so I have the luxury of not always having my inferior function activated, so that is why I try to help INxJs have better connections with ENTPs, you should do the same with ESFPs, but I have been watching this channel since late 2018, and only just now I am getting to this point of finding the most humble to use this knowledge, which from my experience is also the most affective, I am ISTJ your super ego type, so please do your best to try and listen what I am saying, sincerely sorry if it is too Si heavy
@@carlurbananimals I am not really sure where this comment came from, as it seems very personal and directed at me with no previous interactions between us. However, I am going to put that aside and address the claims you've made.
I'm sorry that your family has taken offense to you, and it isn't fair that they haven't taken the time to understand you or where you're coming from. I haven't had the pleasure of meeting an ESFP in person, and if I have, it was very far into the past and I cannot recall a specific person coming to mind. I don't socialize often, but when I do, it is typically with those in my inner circle. Two ESTJs, an ENTJ, an ISTP, an ENFJ, an INFP, an ESFJ, and an ISFJ. So far, I haven't had any trouble getting along with many people, and seem to find common ground with most every person I meet, even if it takes some time.
I recently lost an ENTP that was very dear to me, but we had to part ways due to life conflicts. I have to say that they are my favorite type by far, and I have yet to find another person who understands me in such a way. I doubt I ever will, and that will pain me for the rest of my life.
I appreciate the comment, and perhaps I need more information from you as to how exactly I am to benefit from an ESFP relationship, and furthermore, how to come across one in daily life.
I hope this reply finds you well. Please, let me know if I have misunderstood any of your points, and hopefully we can discuss further. Take care.
@@loref4200 If you can learn to have a friend that is an ESFP it will make ENTP people around you more happy which means healthy ENTPs will like you more, it is great that you are friends with all those types, but there is a chance that the ESTJ and ENTP could've made each other uncomfortable, especially since ESTJ cannot gel too well with ENTP, that is just my speculation, but Ne users are a lot more worried about who their friends are friends with than Ni users are
Thanks so much for your response, I hope you can keep your momentum up and keep up those good relationships
Literally needed this! Miracle how you just uploaded this
Same!
Same, glad I got the chance for the wizard question
@@saschasprengler6564 Thank you very much Sasha, I am going through this crisis, I hope you have enjoyed our South American land.
Another thing INFJs really need to do is reading. Because while you're reading, the author of that book is talking to you, and you'll mirror their psyche.
Also, Go browns!
I agree with this, but it is especially important to discern how the author has affected your mindset, and objectively (as best as possible) determine if you should be mirroring their psyche.
@@loref4200 Absolutely. Especially because of INFJs' susceptibility to gullibility.
@@maybeantoniovivaldi2522 It helps to mirror a Ti hero for this reason. Lmao.
It helped me
damn you right
What INFJ doesn’t need this seriously
Each time I felt trapped, I changed (or at least tried) my environment: moved to different cities, changed work places, lived with a partner and then on my own... it truly helps. I feed my Se with positive experiences so it aspire to be healthy instead of being corrupting.
I love keeping old tickets and buttons from clothes I liked and a bunch of stuff in a memory box, so I can look at it once every couple of years and be transported back.
I needed that video so so much thank you ❤️
I still have a lot of life ahead of me, but I can see this becoming useful to me.
You got the Te savior, but almost no Si, im not sure if you have seen his original quarter life crisis video, but he talks about in quarter life crisis, you will confirm your ESTP subconscious to the extent that it becomes your ego for a period in time (so you will actually feel INFJ in your own mind, and see how others see INFJ) you also gain access to your Si demon at this time, as you behave so much like an ESTP you even gain the ISTJ side like ESTPs do.
Im so glad he asked this question. This is literally exactly where I am in life right now and even I'm twice his age. I've been itching to make a total reset of my environment and now I know at least I'm going in the right direction because sometimes people will say that leaving your life behind to start a new one is running away. But I just feel like it's time to move on so I can grow because if I stay I will just end up being bitter and who wants to live like that? Thank CS Joseph this has really helped me a lot. 👍🏾
Straight to the point. INFJs should learn to be self-sufficient. I am doing it through strengthening Fi/Te/Si with a help of Ne. My Ne is more or less active and it seems to be a driver of that development. Ne is important because it pushes my ego to the limit. By learning how to be more pragmatic and resilent I sustain Ne energy.
That sounds like Se inferior AND Ne, but the best way is to humble yourself into having respect for your 11th most compatible type which has the same middle functions as your 1st most compatible type, and not just ESFPs that are admirable also ESFPs at a similar stage in life, this will supercharge your Fe parent
What you are describing is using your weaker functions like Ne, to overwhelm the abundance of SJs, and you expect all the SJs to just run away, but trust me before you do something stupid, SJs have their limits
@@carlurbananimals Thank you. Sounds fair. I like how Ne manifests itself, but maybe it is not wise for INFJ to use Ne the way I do. Who knows.
@@DenisStarikov Question, but if you're INFJ how is it even possible to use a subconscious function in a concious way?
@@Grivendal It is subconscious by default. They are subconscious because ego consumes all our attention. If you spend time to learn yourself (especially in stressful situations) sooner or later you will notice how these functions influence your behavior.
People as totems. I had not realized this. Opens up a whole new way of thinking about people and situations. Thanks, Chase!
Fire goes wherever wind blows. Change the direction of wind if fire is getting trapped.
It’s so cool when you think about cognitve functions as their elemntal affinity and how they interact with each other.
Appreciate the consistency. Also no wind(air)=no fire
Great timing 😭
I had a similar problem a couple of months ago , I just made myself my own mental point of origin and cut off loser friends and toxic ex and unplugged from family drama and became a pariah.
my depraved ENTP ex taught me a huge lesson about the 4 pillars...
The best deal for an infj is being born in a traditional healthy stable family unit.
I wasn't. When I accessed my ti -
I ran away, stole my sperm donor and my birth mothers financial information
Changed my full legal name, dropped my whole family.
Dont know if it applies to all infjs but Lack of te manifested in me as no lucrative job,
Why don't I do only fans, stripping or prostitution? I lack sexual aggression... Plus people feel entitled to my body for free so I wouldn't get paid well and/or likely end up trafficked.
So I was doing postmates/door dash..applied for every social service ..food stamps, I even told them I was mentally disabled which I'm not just to get a disability check (when you're an infj everyone thinks you're stupid by default so hey make them pay you for it.), I wouldn't recommend housing bc you have to live around toxic ppl but if you need to go for it
I go to the food bank/pantry twice a month.
and I had to scam my sperm donor for like 15-20k
My name is changed so theres nothing they can do
I've been in countless fist fights with sensors
I rent a little house in a rural area and drive a 1999 Chevy. I keep a baseball bat in my trunk, knives, spray. Before the pandemic if I was feeling low on money or wanted an adventure I would go into the city for a few days and deliver postmates and door dash
I don't even like going into the city bc ppl would look at me like I have 3 heads, some would cry, or some burst out into an uncontrollable joker laugh to hide their shame and pain
I have to live like an old lady for the sake of freedom and I'm only 24 but I'm at peace and I'm content
How are u now
I just stumbled upon your channel this afternoon, and have spent a while looking at a few videos. I'm an INFJ male according to the mbti test (which I've taken multiple times and almost always got the same result (once infp) although I've seen your opinion about the test on the lecture on social compatibility for the type), and I'm really glad you are able make these sort of videos. As you say, the online community is highly infj populated (if not dominated) and it is quite refreshing to be criticised and not just glorified. Your insight on the cognitive functions is the greatest i've seen so far, and has intrigued me greatly to delve deeper into it. I do feel portrayed when you talk about potential threats to our mental health (our impulse to mirror the environment, to please people, highly perform for some, the "transactional" character some relationships can acquire for us...etc, as well as the potential room for development and balance. I also wanted to comment here regarding one lecture, that two of my best friends are (this is just my personal, uneducated guess) ISTP and ESTP respectively, which is something that certainly has, and still does cause me lots os stress but also been veeeery rewarding at times looking back at it. My aunt is INFP and we seriously bond intellectually and emotionally. Comparing both kinds of relationships, I picture a training camp the first case, compared to a walk on the park holding hands in the second. Both are fundamental to me as of today, and have certainly had a huuuuge influence on who I am right now. Anyway, keep making great content, I'll try to catch up to you.
OMG no one is gonna read the whole thing hahahahahh
Sounds like you're on the right path. ruclips.net/video/OcV0HskbAgA/видео.html
yeah I have to just use new experiences to distract myself from old experiences that were unfavorable but they still don't go away, like you wanna erase your mind sometimes or press a restart button for some experiences
I have moved to two cities and 4 apartments in the past two years, now I have a calling for adventure to move to southeast Asia with a backpack for at least a year while working on building an online business at the same time and reinvent myself again starting from January 2025, it will definitely be an adventure
yeah I also noticed the dishes thing! So my dad has some old dishes that we used to use when I was like 7yo...basically at a bad point in my life but we still have those dishes. I absolutely hate them lol...I just don't use them at all. I'd rather hand wash the new dishes than use the old ones if the dishwasher isn't full
Yes I now know I’m ESTP when I’m in social setting . But to develop that it takes time to learn And grow for years and find interest with the right people . Meeting inspiring individuals is like energy charging. That you get more and more like them with time . And start to play the game as they perform unconsciously and one day when you look back do you have been far away from your old self. Total transformation. Now I really like my extrovert mask, it comes in so naturally and make myself feel happy and the other person content
This video was much needed. Btw music at the end. 👌🏻😁
Hey Chase! First of all, you content changed my life. ☺️ Any chance you could do a video on how infps could develop a way to communicate (when the subject is personal/ a deeply held value that is,) that is not “an hour-long rant that goes off into tangents and never gets to the point?” 💀 (that was my intj dad’s description of the phenomenon if you couldn’t tell lol.)
Also, infjs you are amazing, seriously. I deeply admire you and you are worth the world.
amazing video, as an INFJ this has been really useful
Hi Chase, I’m a new subscriber to your RUclips and fb pages. I don’t see a lot of Isfp content or I’m not sure which videos to watch. I typically have always tested as an Infp but have learned through your info that I am definitely an Isfp. Looking forward to understanding the functions.
Check the playlists
I follow your channel since 2018 and I really liked (and I hope people that have followed you, feel the same) how you had your playlist with every type and without the thumbnail. I hope someday you comeback form your original style
If you can find the factors that harm your si, and take action in setting things right internally, you can avoid being absorbed by the chaos in the world around you and even make real changes in your life
If you hang around smokers all the time you're gonna become a smoker, unless you stand your ground and make your decision to stop. A lot of the times you making that stand can cause others to follow your example
Hi Chase. Great video!! Two questions though
1. What if the INFJ in question is real broke and has absolutely no savings to move out? Doesn't own a car etc. Since you are speaking from a US context, what if the INFJ is living in a 3rd world country where it's more unsafe due to factors apart from covid?
2. Does the same advice apply for INFJ women as well?
Get a tent. Learn the skills to live off the land
Just throwing this out there because I agree with you. According to the CDC, since August of last year, the mortality rate for COVID in the USA is .04%, so the survival rate is 99.96% without the vaccine. The survival rate is likely a higher percent. This is due to the people who have had COVID; yet, had zero symptoms and survived (but were not tested for it and, therefore, not documented). Those without symptoms at all equate to about 80% of people. Anecdotal evidence: My 82 year old grandmother, and my 60 year old mother both got Covid. Both only had a headache for a few days. They both had pneumonia a few months prior and both were hospitalized for over 2 weeks and on breathing treatments for over a month. (I have similar stories from several other people who have contracted the virus, and they also said it wasn't anything to worry about if you are relatively healthy and have no underlying illnesses).
The statistics listed here are comparable to any other country with similar measures in place. It is less than twice as deadly as the common flu virus that kills thousands of people every year. The issue is that 'covid related death' numbers are skewed because if someone died of heart disease, but they had covid, then they are a 'covid related death' even if they would have died from their underlying illness. Statistics can be skewed based on your data pool to represent the facts that you want to represent. Anyone who has taken statistics or deals in statistics knows this, yet the media touts statistics from companies owned by people with severe bias and hypocritical methods. Unfortunately, too many people venerate the media for their main source of information. RIP, critical thinking.
More quarter life crisis questions please
Yeah. Well done post. It may take some time and pain, but it will always lead to the moment in the end when the INFJ reclaims their freedom. Very true observation Mr. C.S. Joseph.
Btw, that song at the end. Here comes the brand. Catchy though.
Hey, I'm a 19 year old INFJ, this is my first comment on the channel, howdy from the east coast. I wanted to ask a question. What does an INFJ do when their visions have already been set into motion by other people like them? What do they do when all the epiphanies they experienced have all been discovered, spread and implemented by people in no time at all? I've found some hope in that me trying to walk in truth has improved my life, and subsequently improved the lives of everyone around me, which tells me that whatever I'm learning here is helping me improve my fellow man.
The problem lies in that because everyone is introducing ideas so quickly now, I'll never get a chance to embark on "my" visions because someone's already doing it. I'm taking in as much information as I can while going to college and socializing from time to time with my INFJ wolf pack and sorting fact from fiction, but I need to come up with better visions to get my feet off the ground and get in a better environment for myself and my sanity.
The point is, how can an INFJ change the world if the world is changing days after you think it? Can you just unintentionally "copy" everyone else by doing the idea that you both had at the same time, or are you supposed to be original, unique, connect bigger ideas, what is there to do?
PS: Of course, I'm aware you have a negative view of higher education, but I am self teaching myself how to self teach by paying more attention than I did in grade school, so I might not be completely wasting my time..
Mankind will always need INFJs, don't worry. No matter how many current ideas you can't work on there will be need for more.
Thank you
Love the video!
INFJ Here, I am grateful for your content . INFJs are misunderstood, I love it; in general.
but when I need advice it is hard to explain what I need , even when I know it clearly. most N types try to , no one can help except a healthy ENxP , I have had 4 of them in my life . you are one of them . the advice would be something to empower my Fe-Fi and do the next right thing , rather than being stuck in the I don't know how to start .
an ESTP told me : you love to search and research do it and every thing is gonna be clearer . that was good for my Ti-Te . I think it was a hunch of her Ni as she was aware of something through here Se.
as for Si part it is harder if my Te is not powerful enough to see the role of everyone including me in the event , so Fe-Fi is not haunted . and yes having new Se would help a lot .
8:34 Yeah I had a fever the other day. Felt like I needed to report that to my university. Now they say I have to stay in a dorm to quarantine for 14 days. I shouldn’t have reported that fever.
Excellent advice for an infj :)
I could relate to the part about Se getting rid of old objects with memories attached. As an INTP I channeled into my ENTJ unconscious to sell all my old loser and weeb stuff and collections and also into my isfp superego to physically hammer and slash and destroy and occasionally set ablaze anything that my parents or someone had given to me that I did not pay for or create myself. Also totally true about infjs as my wife lived with her parents way too long into her mid 20s, then went to a religious college that is described by many as a concentration camp just to be free from her parents and now she is living which my tyrannical self although as long as she pleases me (which she absolutely loves doing as an Infj) I am helping her to build a life for herself and helping her to make smart investments while living a higher quality of life as she is stuck with me but the difference is she is getting everything she wants plus she doesn’t have to be not only a literal slave anymore and going further into debt with the previous two regimes as now with me she can work the other way into the green instead of the ditch and do things she likes such as me and children and have a purpose and new high quality stuff.
damn low-key lucky I'm living with 2 good ppl ngl.. there are the low times but I think it keeps me in check through them having si child and se child, and also I can tell the truth to them too most of the time
Yes! My favorite CS videos are the infj direct shots sprinkled with red pills 👍👏
Alright, time to purge and rearrange my friends' tier list
“They have to be okay with not being the most interesting person in the room.”
God that hit me in my fucking Se. I also just watched the cognitive transitions of an INFJ vid, feels good to get a reality check for a change.
I bought a camera and go out to the woods and take pictures. I can’t go into town because I interact with my Grandfather but that helps a lot.
That's cool!
@@joshualeon4183 yeah I’m a cool guy comes naturally.
@@boshtovar Yeah, same here. Generally laid back and try to keep peace and harmony between other people.
INFJ here. I think you have just saved my life.
As an ENFJ I am stuck with an INFJ ex-girlfriend in memories we both have and we both reinforce the fears of the other that lead to unhealthy attachments with the external environment and compensate each other’s emotional needs. What exact dynamic is behind that? I am very attracted to and intrigued by INFJs and feel that same sense of empowerment and distancing from the environment to restart, but in a somewhat different manner. How can I stop myself from believing and falling into these poisoned memories that are associated with her?
i think i have heard something similar on meghan levota's channel, and from other enfjs on reddit and other sites.Both nfjs kinda help each other out when the other one is feeling down or devaluing themselves but feeling happy about it is a struggle.There is emotional attachment but without any "highs" if i had to describe it.I would suggest having deeper relationships with nfps would be better.And finding your own ways to pull yourself out of one of those negative Fi moods so you don't feel the need to be attached to something(this can't be completely true, but i do believe we can be better than we were yesterday perhaps with enough trying!)
@@aladdout9454 Thank you a lot for that elaborate answer. It might be a confirmative bias, but I can somewhat confirm that. The thing about this type of relationship is that it‘s also kind of helpful, because NFJs help each other out and try to improve them so that they don’t stumble into pits again. They rarely accept each other‘s moral flaws and both feel good about confronting each other (if healthy of course).
I feel like it‘s also possible to have emotional highs with NFJs, but they need to be at a more meaningful and transcendental state of consciousness, by projecting the more unconscious functions.
I also think that if NFJs have trauma in their parent function (Ni,Fe) they might start a relationship like this, trying to parent each other because they just become each other‘s pillar.
That‘s the case for me at least
Their support for each other either will be very very empowering and meaningful, or compensatory.
TRUE...hermit mode...disappear for a while....YES it works
Hermit society
@@smar4433 yep
Can you make a video comparing the INFJ and INTP types, I remember you typed Jordan Peterson as INTP, and another youtube channel who tried comparing INFJ and INTP gave Jordan Peterson as an example of INFJ, and also I was convinced I am an INTP for a long time, now thinking I'm actually INFJ
Jordan Peterson has subpar and sometimes even shitty Ti so he can't be a Ti hero. He is a male ISFJ with Ne aspiring (all over the place) and very practical imo. I can give you many reasons why this is, but that's the short of it.
@@c.s.70 Peterson is an INFJ. It's so extremely obvious, now I'm actually wary of all the other information I've received from people who believe otherwise.
Sorry about the Browns, Chase. They got done dirty on that helmet-to-helmet. I wanted my Bills to face them in the AFC Championship.
On to what I actually wanted to say:
I would suggest that the life reset is only the first step. Si demon can be brutal enough to hurt you for a long time, its toxicity infecting your life and relationships.
There needs to be a mental reset as well. Understand how you got into that situation in the first place. Understand why you were abandoned. Understand that if you were abused, it wasn’t your fault, *even if you stayed.* Healing is a long, grueling process. And yes, time helps. But a true examination of conscience will speed the process along.
And if you made a mistake, learn from it, and right your ship.
Exactly.
Yeah it was lame. I hope the Bills go all the way.
@@CSJoseph Aren’t you rooting for Tampa since they’re still in it?
I still can’t figure out if I’m an INFJ or and ISTP. After studying what everything means in your testing the type grid I’ve been stuck between those two types for a while.
I’ve noticed this is a reoccurring theme. When types have the same cognitive functions and similar interaction styles/temperaments it can get tricky distinguish them. E.g. ISTP vs INFJ, ISFJ vs INTP, ENFJ vs ESTP
I’ve respected and admired your work for a while now and would love to know your opinion on this.
Love this. Could you do a video on the ENTP 'mid life crisis' you said you could feel on the horizon for yourself? I have an ENTP husband who is nearly there too...help...!
How does this information affect anyone who has infj in the four sides of their mind?
Does the 'surround yourself with winners' apply to INTJs as well?
It can
Is there an episode about how to develop the Nemesis function for INTJ?
Cleveland is the most underrated US city, in my opinion.
Why do you say that? Curious.
Does this apply to INFJ females for their development as well? (Female, so obviously not King Archetype X)
It applies
But for Queen archetype
@@CSJoseph Thanks :)
@@CSJoseph Yeah, I wasn't sure because of the whole male ESTP subconscious male rough survival thing for females...which seems to fit the male archetype. As INFJ females should we develop away from the male characteristics of the subconscious ESTP or go full-on towards it? I've found that ESTP subconscious in concentrated doses is VERY Alpha and male, even more so than your ESTP man, only we can't sustain it for long like ESTPs. It takes a lot to provoke that side of me, and if I'm honest I'm a bit worried scared of its power and its potential destructive consequences if fully unleashed especially in anger. In ESTP subconscious mode I caught myself being uncharacteristically tough and even insensitive, which hurt some people and I felt deeply ashamed and regretful of it afterwards, I really don't want ppl to violate my boundaries but I don't want to hurt ppl either. And even so, that ESTP side doesn't feel like the real most authentic me for the most part, sure it's a part of me like an armor and defense weapon, but there's an even more vulnerable soft feminine pure side to the INFJ that I think most of us protect tightly. Seems conflicting.
Can we get a video on the same topic for ENFPs?
Acolytes members get to ask these each month, you can sign up at offers.csjoseph.life/acolyte
@@CSJoseph Ok, thanks for letting me know! :)
Great video. How does looking at the present while it’s changing using Se differs from Ne? How would the combination of Se and Ti will differ from Se and Fi?
Headset?
God when he decides an ENTP male should be born:
"Yooo lol what if we created a man with almost no base stats but high learning multipliers wouldn't it be funny for this dude to spend his whole early life suffering in mediocrity before he could taste success and fulfillment"
Someone should make stats for all the types lol
soo.. every male not born in a rich family ever??
more videos about this topic please
Season 19 in the Discover bundle is a deep dive on this topic.
sorry this is a bit off topic .. did you ever type Casey Neistat? I would love to know - I guessed entp but some say enfp. honestly he is an empath and not all about showing of status symbols! What do you say? Would love to hear it .. Also would you like to make videos like " inspiring xxxxs " and then we can learn from them ? thanks a lot for the content
Hi CSJ, I tried to take your quiz but, despite the quiz saying to skip questions I'm not sure on for, I can't submit my answers because the page is taking me back to the unanswered questions. Any advice? Love your channel BTW 😊
If questions are unanswered then pick the ones the test has left over for you
I have been trying to take the test. Link doesn't work 😢
udja.app
I think last week I came across your channel. I binged watched some playlists and now some question have come up. I am going to state one here (maybe I'll join the discord soon): Since the positions in which the functions are matter and the only rules are that F and T have to be either in 1/4 or 2/3 and then S and N in whats left (which means also in either 1/4 or 2/3), aren't there some types left out? like the (Ti Si Ne Fe) closest one would be INTP with Ne in Parent and Si in Child. Also Fe and Ti in INTP switched (Fe Si Ne Ti) are no type on the type grid. Maybe you can link me a video to where this is explained. Thanks a lot.
No one is left out. Keep going. csjoseph.life/typegrid
7:13 I am an INFP but that's where I am at. 🙈 Can those advices also be applied to infp's? I feel trapped too.
INFPs can get stuck in the lazy rut if it's in their comfort zone and they don't feel like being productive and it could look quite similar. Their Ni critic piles on an unwillingness to want things. A feeling of trapped for an Ni hero is usually more due to a real or perceived lack of choices though.
I (INFJ) am really confused to take a decision to go forward in relationship with a career and logic driven INTP or a career and status driven INTJ ...Any guiding suggestions ?
Assuming you're both typed correctly you'll have better chemistry with the INTP.
@@CSJoseph Thank you for taking the time and replying 😇 My understanding of the human mind is been developing because of your videos! Thanks a lot for all your work ❤️
TBH I have plucked an INFJ from their old environments and have helped them to complete their quarter-life crisis on my quest to become a man and be fruitful and multiply. I did not fully understand Jungian psychology at my time of the decisions as I need a high level of Fe and brainlessness for survival in my career I chose when I was young and uninformed of the psychological realities of life and I thought the INFJs Fe parent could help me to develop my Fe inferior and help me exist and live throughout my poorly chosen career choice for my type in brainless subconscious happiness as esfj. Unfortunately I am not sure if this is working and I may fail my quarter life crisis and she says we can reproduce if I meet my quarter life crisis but I am finding that I am possessed by and am worshipping my ENTJ unconscious to survive and get by to make it. Is it possible my poor life decisions when combined can correct and I will become super cultivated and mastered of four sides or will it be most likely beneficial to give up before I am consumed and destroyed by my other sides of the minds so will I be able to control them and access them for survival more likely or are they too strong and will take me out as I am having trouble?
Why do i hardcore relate to this even tho i think i'm an infp. Would you like to make a similar video addressing infp?
Anyone can get their video question answered at cjsoseph.life/wizard
So does that mean that INJs are the least concrete of all the types because of their si demon?
Yeah
Sorry but I have to say this. The cut scenes are very cringe. I don’t think it adds any values. It was much more natural without them.
I don’t know if other people feel the same but just wanted to share my side.
I'm pretty sure they are meant to be corny, it's doing something ironically for humourous effect. Personally I've found some of them to be hilarious.
@@Kagemitsu888 but most topics are not meant to be funny. Like this one. And it’s just weird. It weirds me out everytime I see one.
@@faezix2124 No your right, but humor is a good teaching tool. Not that every joke he says actually relates to the topic, but welcome to being informative I guess. Besides, it gives Chase a chance to show how he isn't merely just a harsh ass that everyone accuses him of being. He is just a regular dude, who enjoys a laugh like the rest of us. Personally I think that's what he hopes people will come to see him as.
Chase also understands the majority of his audience are people around his age bracket, and lower. We live in a meme culture with out generations, funny wit catches the attention of audiences. The same as when he goes into rants about certain anime series, I don't think that is to appeal to boomers when he does that.
Was Maria Callas an INFJ?
It’s certainly hard for me to let go of objects just because I see all the years they’ve endured like why they still function and I save money 🤷🏼♀️ ha been letting go of things like my couch I breastfeed both of my children on and they’re 10 years apart 😂 like omg 😭😭😭😭 hahaha 🤣 my partner is making me get rid of all the stuff 😂
You just imposed footage of a woman caressing (her?) daughter while talking about getting rid of things and getting new things. I am not getting rid of my children to get new ones. I totally know that is the implication here. 10:56. Editing is very cumbersome on RUclips.
Weird shit happens
I was joking
I really liked this vídeo, but being homeless do not sound that appealing. Being unproductive and not generating money I would feel more sad and in a global crisis, Feels like a Bad idea.
But overall good video.
No expenses when living in car. Make shaving minimum wage easier
4:41 Trump-like hand gesture. I'm sorry. :p
Intuitive people don't have an interest in sports as you do you must be a sensor not ENTP either ESTP or ESTJ .
yay
How dare you quote The Matrix lmao 😂. You think you’re slick with that INFJ pandering hahaha
No, no no.
lol