Infact we INFJs believe that we are all playing roles in our lives in all aspects in all areas, all the time and the difference between other people and an INFJ is that the INFJ's role playing is authentic to the core. We do not pretend, falsify or mask ourselves to fool others like most people do we seriously abhor that we don't share our hardships and struggles because no body can walk in our shoes. We don't believe in the saying 'Fake it until you make it'. We actually make it so we do not have to or need to fake it, otherwise we don't go for something if we can't make it altogether. We believe that life is so simple and greed, hatred, jealousy other people's status, money, fame their attitude, their perception of us, being on the top or looked upon to by others , nothing of such superficiality of life motivate us or impress us indeed. We strongly believe in the power of love only or we are in a true sense 'Sages'. For us life is to be lived from within. We nourish our body and soul with true valuable things in life and only go after them. We appreciate humanity and knowing that we possess great healing power adopt a role of a healer and live a contented life as we also know that for many common sense is a sense which is not very common. We are so genuine in everything we do, that we often falls into the category of: 'A thing too good to be true'
Now I understand why my probation officer, counselors and some of the “social elite” are always trying to act hard towards me. They want me to be their daddy, and be more aggressive with them. I usually get annoyed as hell, but I’m gonna start having fun with this ish.
Makes sense to an extent, role play to be good has to be authentic, enjoyed, even though this seems paradoxal there’s a dimension of who the other is that remains constant throughout all variations, that’s their core and my super thrill. That’s what I search for when I say connection, it is basically seeing and being seen into that.
You say role play and I have a funny analogy for the way, I, as an ESTP, operate in life. Its like Bumblebee from Transformers with all of these different radio signals forming his vocals; I flicker through past experiences, accents, sensations and motor patterns that I’ve collected through trial and error, and almost in a synesthaetic way I blend this together at high speed in real time. Going through combinations of possible acts in this grand theatre/ orchestra performance of life. I learn through prominent powerful figures and emulate their perception to create alternate personalities that I can absorb and synthesise as part of my own in the form of scenes and patterns of outcomes. I try not to focus on one field or subject, but to blend relevant skills in a multidisciplinary fashion and I am completely self sufficient. Its easier to make mistakes and quickly learn from them this way and then to ultimately win without elation so you can become autistically good at whatever it is you do.
See I like the fantasy of it but an ISTJ I feel would be too ridged for me in terms of their approach to life and I would feel judged. And ENFP, their constant hypothesizing without action would be frustrating. But maybe the quality time in the bedroom would have my forgive all their “sins” outside of the bedroom lol I could see that happening 😇😂
Watching interviews of him, he initiates more than responds imo. Definitely philosopher though. Might be ESTJ but I might be projecting since I am one.
idk but this might be a bit morbit take of other type on these two types. I don't agree with the objectification part. not disagreeing :p but now I'm like shit what if someone says thats disgusting how do i respond... "yes it is... what's your point tho??"
I really related to everything was said in the video,, I even know quality time is my actual number one need in a relationship However I don't think I was attracted to people who were in suits or uniforms because in my culture people who are in uniforms usually they do submit to an authority and they would live in traditional manner and that's something I don't want in the relationship personally I remember telling my sister that I don't want a businessman who wears suit but I would rather take businessman who wears casual instead because for me, I would see it as if he is far more carefree and he is not following what is considered to be expected and regular.. my sister thinks that I was so shallow based on that point of view but idk for me, fashion literally expresses your core or your character and how you want to live life
Being fake is sparing everyone from being the downer who is actually right, I've tried being genuine, and it started all kinds of problems for myself, but hey, those people that I don't like end up correcting their course after I get fucked over. Yippee 🎉😐
his "you can't see me" tagline is a literal preemptive discrimination before the five knuckle shuffle and his "attitude adjustment" is inflicting wrath to his opponents
Infact we INFJs believe that we are all playing roles in our lives in all aspects in all areas, all the time and the difference between other people and an INFJ is that the INFJ's role playing is authentic to the core. We do not pretend, falsify or mask ourselves to fool others like most people do we seriously abhor that we don't share our hardships and struggles because no body can walk in our shoes. We don't believe in the saying 'Fake it until you make it'. We actually make it so we do not have to or need to fake it, otherwise we don't go for something if we can't make it altogether. We believe that life is so simple and greed, hatred, jealousy other people's status, money, fame their attitude, their perception of us, being on the top or looked upon to by others , nothing of such superficiality of life motivate us or impress us indeed. We strongly believe in the power of love only or we are in a true sense 'Sages'. For us life is to be lived from within. We nourish our body and soul with true valuable things in life and only go after them. We appreciate humanity and knowing that we possess great healing power adopt a role of a healer and live a contented life as we also know that for many common sense is a sense which is not very common. We are so genuine in everything we do, that we often falls into the category of:
'A thing too good to be true'
Well said, we are anything but fake. We just adjust for social harmony.
I love these talks where you just walk around outside. 😊
yeah I agree
You walking around while lecturing made me remember "the old days" haha - only now the audio slaps XD
I’m not attracted to men in uniform. Signed, INFJ
Yeah I disagree with that.
No Uniform for me...but a man who can go outside of his daily mental persona and explore himself in a different mind state with me is 🫠
Well, this helps explain who’s the primary target market of all those “Sexy” Halloween costumes those stores advertise every year.
The problem w/ CSJ is he speaks in absolutes. Human typing is the least absolute of theories.
He comes of as bs
I'm INFJ and I can't roleplay. Or can I?
Catholic Church controlling the "overpopulation craze" when they're anti-abortion AND anti-contraception
Now I understand why my probation officer, counselors and some of the “social elite” are always trying to act hard towards me. They want me to be their daddy, and be more aggressive with them. I usually get annoyed as hell, but I’m gonna start having fun with this ish.
Nice opening 💪🏻
4:49 so true about istj and enfp wrath types
Makes sense to an extent, role play to be good has to be authentic, enjoyed, even though this seems paradoxal there’s a dimension of who the other is that remains constant throughout all variations, that’s their core and my super thrill.
That’s what I search for when I say connection, it is basically seeing and being seen into that.
You say role play and I have a funny analogy for the way, I, as an ESTP, operate in life. Its like Bumblebee from Transformers with all of these different radio signals forming his vocals; I flicker through past experiences, accents, sensations and motor patterns that I’ve collected through trial and error, and almost in a synesthaetic way I blend this together at high speed in real time. Going through combinations of possible acts in this grand theatre/ orchestra performance of life. I learn through prominent powerful figures and emulate their perception to create alternate personalities that I can absorb and synthesise as part of my own in the form of scenes and patterns of outcomes. I try not to focus on one field or subject, but to blend relevant skills in a multidisciplinary fashion and I am completely self sufficient. Its easier to make mistakes and quickly learn from them this way and then to ultimately win without elation so you can become autistically good at whatever it is you do.
See I like the fantasy of it but an ISTJ I feel would be too ridged for me in terms of their approach to life and I would feel judged. And ENFP, their constant hypothesizing without action would be frustrating.
But maybe the quality time in the bedroom would have my forgive all their “sins” outside of the bedroom lol I could see that happening 😇😂
Is actor Tom Selleck an ISTJ? He sounds like he is. My ESTP mom used to fantasize about him back in the 1980's when he played Magnum P.I.
Watching interviews of him, he initiates more than responds imo. Definitely philosopher though. Might be ESTJ but I might be projecting since I am one.
idk but this might be a bit morbit take of other type on these two types. I don't agree with the objectification part.
not disagreeing :p but now I'm like shit what if someone says thats disgusting how do i respond...
"yes it is... what's your point tho??"
I really related to everything was said in the video,, I even know quality time is my actual number one need in a relationship
However I don't think I was attracted to people who were in suits or uniforms because in my culture people who are in uniforms usually they do submit to an authority and they would live in traditional manner and that's something I don't want in the relationship personally
I remember telling my sister that I don't want a businessman who wears suit but I would rather take businessman who wears casual instead because for me, I would see it as if he is far more carefree and he is not following what is considered to be expected and regular.. my sister thinks that I was so shallow based on that point of view but idk for me, fashion literally expresses your core or your character and how you want to live life
What do INFP’s and ESTJ’s bring to the table In relationships/friendships?
Fantasy what keeps us alive.
Channing Tatum isn’t an esfp ?
Is Dr Gabor Mate an INFP? Thanks for the video.
Yes
Thanks!
Definitely INFJ 5.
@@chriskozak7356 get some help
@@knowthyself8186 Fi over Ti? Where lol. Gonna need some Fi examples, it's always Fi users mistyping people as Fi users.
shouldnt estp/infj be w istj and enfp then? not w infp/estj
So we have soul temple to thank for the existence of cat girls...
That explains a lot.
Being fake is sparing everyone from being the downer who is actually right, I've tried being genuine, and it started all kinds of problems for myself, but hey, those people that I don't like end up correcting their course after I get fucked over. Yippee 🎉😐
do what u gotta do lol. But dont change your values and principles.
😊 o, that´s true .i confess
So true
🙈🤫
John Cena an ISTJ? Did you mean estp?
He's said multiple times that John Cena is an ISTJ
his "you can't see me" tagline is a literal preemptive discrimination before the five knuckle shuffle and his "attitude adjustment" is inflicting wrath to his opponents
@@Entyipo but he wasn't making a video about them
🤭 yes