Xiaxue is a genuine friend and stick with friends who are in big troubles. Xiaxue did not drop friends when they are in trouble but tries her best to help these friends. Really a good friend with true character, especially in a small country like Singapore.
Knowing how unbiased Xiaxue is when it comes to unearthing facts, I am looking forward to the next episode when she interviews the victims of Dee Kosh so that they also get the same public platform to tell their sides of the story.
He already paid the price by going to jail and publicly being shamed and forever carrying the label of sex offender ... ... why are some people so adamant to ensure the Dee Kosh will never get a second chance at turning over a new leaf .... people talk like they are saints without having committed any mistakes in life ... Like come on, karma is a bitch, sure now you get to throw stones but don't overdo it because one day you will not get any sympathy for your own mistake even if you want to turn over because the universe will remember how you have been un-merciful in the past ...
I know there will be some "mentally challenged" ppl who will say "she did not defend deekosh" . that's because your brain is underdeveloped. She gives deekosh a platform to gather sympathy. to tell "his" side of the story. Which is ofcos all bullshit. not just holy shit but the holiest of shit. Far from the the police investigation. Dee kosh is not the victim. he is a grown adult grooming young boys with money to fuck them. His favorite are virgin boys.
Its not okay to have paid sex with a 17 year old. Not knowing that it is illegal is not a good excuse. Why is there so much victim shaming? So what if they were seeking fame. What he did was wrong. What about the victims who didnt step forward because they were not seeking fame. Also it is disturbing that he doesnt seem to show any remorse and is just finding excuses for his behaviour!
this comment really deserves more likes 🥲🥲 and dee kosh said "what's the point, no one wins", like the point is to stop him from doing it to other people??? and this is not like "cancel culture", it is called paying the price for what he has done, it is not like the victims used a technicality in the law to send him to prison and "cancel" him, the prosecution even argued that he did not show any remorse
Exactly. Agree to this comment very much. It is also very uneasy to see Xiaxue being so biased in this interview (although it’s expected since they are close friends). Victim shaming is one thing, but to twist the story to even try and justify it as victim shaming is another. It disgusts me to hear about how they talk about whether the boys were seeking fame and it’s ok if they turn out famous, like come on.
Not knowing the law is not an excuses. But it’s better than knowing the law and yet do it. Do u know all the laws? Have u commit crimes without knowing it?! It’s not an excuse. So u go read more laws
Exactly. Why influencer got special treatment one ah? Lol. Go jail like go shopping, help one another can already. Don't like that lei.. If you made a mistake, admit. Just start over again and learn. Don't need to broadcast trying to make yourself look better. It's not necessary.
Didn't bother to watch the video at all. Just wanted to read the comments. Obviously Dee Kosh is going on a campaign to promote himself again, to draw listeners to his Spotify podcast, hoping to rekindle his former lucrative career again. I am a yellow ribbon supporter. But I will not support someone who denies guilt and tries to hoodwink others that he has been wronged
i would very much agree on this comment although im not one to take sides i feel like he shouldnt jst pretend that everything is ok n thta ppl will just forgive him
According to Dee Kosh himself, he did deliberately solicit paid sex from a known 17 years old and from a supposedly unknown 15 years old, the latter from which he didn't explicitly withdraw his offer either. By the legal standards, he is absolutely guilty. In his 3 mins video extract, he claims to not be guilty of "all" the sins he was charged for. And it wasn't just a casual minor mistake, either. This isn't jaywalking. (But not murder either lah)
He did not claim that he is NOT guilty by legal standards. He admitted to his actions and even though he was distraught, he accepted the sentence he received and have went through it. He was referring to how the media wrote about his charges, especially with the headlines that misled the public into thinking he was a pedophile, he had sex with minors, he has been paying minors to have sex with him. With such unclarity in the media (little to no effort on the media's part to rectify btw), this also perpetuates assumptions/inference that: 1. He knew they were minors 2. He knew this was illegal but still did it 3. He has been doing this repeatedly 1-3 were not true. As he shared in the video, the moment he found out he was speaking to a minor, he wanted to retract his offer. I think that his points are valid with respect to WHAT THE MEDIA PUBLISHED and not to be interpreted as "he did not claim to be guilty of all his sins that he was legally charged for". Undoubtedly, his actions are serious, which he has already owned up and paid for them. As such, I don't think he regarded it as a "minor mistake" akin to jaywalking. If he was treating his actions casually, I believe he would have created his own RUclips channel (somehow, maybe under a different but simliar alias) to justify himself and ask people to bury the hatchet. But as he stated in another podcast, he does not have any intention to fight RUclips and just accepts how things have became, especially in terms of his losses.
@@thatrb1740 (1) is true. (2) is arguably true, he may or may not have known, but he should have known. (3) is true. He may or may not have wanted to retract his offer, but according to him, he did not. Actions are what matters, not his words
@@thatrb1740 didn’t the prosecution provided evidence for points 1-3? If he had any evidence to counter, he would have provided it. The only counter he has is his own words.
I feel for Xiaxue as she is going thru a hard time herself but always help others to get out of trouble. A true friend indeed. I believe that we all go thru hard times and hope we get out off it soo. All the best to u Dee & Xiaxue..
This is a very public case of sexual assault. Having framed his wrongs as an honest mistake and that he simply didnt know the ages of the boys, he is not taking ownership of the harm and trauma he has caused for the victims. Arguing that the victims were paid for the sex act is not enough to even partly justify what was done! There is a reason why sexual activities with minors EVEN IF they had "consented" is illegal. As adults, it is our responsibility to ensure our children and the vulnerable members of our society are safe. Dee's return to social media is a very public one that shows what present or future perpetrators what they can do, to either shirk from ownership of what they have done, or to acknolwedge the harm they have inflicted onto the victims.
You talked so much about taking responsibilities but those so called “victims” of his seemed to be shying away from it too. Do you mean to say they should be free of responsibilities from their OWN actions simply because they were not of legal age??!
for all his haters ... bruh ... srsly ... wtf is wrong w u ... u keep on say "victims" victims victims ... wtf is wif de victims ... both side r willing party so whr de heck the victims come from ... ya iz weird but so wat ? ... its tt dudes life n its up 2 him wtv he 1 2 do w it ... u keep on say de dudes a predator n stuff ... wat ab de victim ... if they dw they still agree in de first place for wat ... ask urslef this ... do victims get tgt and still take pic n everyth ? ... do they still post on social media ab wat they about to do ? ... u ever c a rape victim say ... (oh ya ive been rape by this guy ... or go tgt w rape victims n post on social media yeah weve been rape by this guy bfr ) ... so pls use ur bloody brains bfr u comment ... if he manage 2 hook ppl ... its the ppl he hook @ fault not him ... if ur children or whoever uk go w him ... its ur children or whoever fault ... it takes 2 hands 2 clap ....dnt put the problem on some1 else when the "victims" oso @ fault ... u so corncern for de "victims" ... if they nd money ... u will help ? ... no rite ? ... den daim ... nothing good comment then stfu ... dude alrd lost literally everyth n oso dont owe any damn explanation n here he is explaining himself n u still 1 make wat noise ... 2 dee im not a fan but i salute u ... y ? ... after everyth n u haven't give up n juz end is juz amazing cuz iwould nv imagine myself continue living after loosing everyth .. ure a strong person n juz hang in thr ... u owe nobody a reason n u have no need to feel ashame ... ya id admit ... its fking weird but its ur life not mine ... if thats wat made u happy ... nv feel ashame of it
OMG Wendy! I remember when I first discovered your blog in 2013, i was still in high school! It's so nice and sentimental to see you on youtube! Subscribed xoxo
In the first place, Deekosh with his status should have never offered money to these young boys. Imagine, they are probably students, being unemployed. Such a sum of money would definitely be tempting for them. Plus, there's the hormones, they are probably more driven by hormones rather than logical thinking, and it's with a popular influencer, further giving them an "opportunity" to be famous. Honestly, it was a mistake made by thinking with your dick rather than your head. There's something about Xiaxue's perspective towards the term "victim" being used that made me ponder. You can also not be the victim at the point of time when the deed is being done but realise you're a victim afterwards. It's similar to a child getting molested by their weird uncle when they are young but suffer the mental trauma as they get older and truly understand what the heck just happened. However, these boys aren't dumb, who is to question their true motives as well, there's strength in numbers after all.
Your definition of victim is rather unorthodox. If an adult violates an infant, there is no victim in your scenario. The baby would have forgotten all about it by the time adult hood arrives
@@987ujhpl the baby would have forgotten? I think your thinking is unorthodox. Such trauma are ingrained in the child already. Victims are trueless helpless beings who cant defend themselves. These boys are not victims at all, THEY HAVE A CHOICE. They can run, they can walk away, they can reject, they can choose NOT TO BE ON GRINDR.
@@iamsexxy the boys were underage to give consent. So choices doesn’t apply here. And the baby analogy is to counter the above comment that the state of being a victim only happens when the person feels victimised. And by your definition anyone who can defend themselves is not a victim? So people who failed to defend themselves are not victims?
@@987ujhpl iykyk.. whether you're 16 or 18 to give consent to paid sex.. you're still abled body to walk away, let alone going on Grindr. A toddler doesnt know how to register an account on grindr. A toddler versus a "victim" who has the capacity to register on grindr, what do you think? Who is the true victim here? When you say a victim is someone who FEELS victimised is considered a victim then there's plenty of victims everywhere. 🤣 So long I say I FEEL like a victim then it is valid? BS. I did not state that when a person who failed to defend themselves are not a victim. A 15 yo and a toddler is entirely different. Like i said, a toddler is truly defendless because a toddler still requires an adult to tend to. A 15yo can feed himself, bathe himself and also register himself a grindr account. 🤡 You sound like an adult baby HAHAHAHA
@@987ujhpl What make me write that comment is because Xiaxue's perception on the "victims" , she thinks of it as a fair trade. Money for their body, but she didn't think into mind the target's age, state of mind, financial status, social status, that's so many factors to think about. "Where is the hurt when he offered money?", applying to those boys who actually went on to do the deed with Deekosh. You cannot say that, it triggered me so much. You're telling me someone offered you $2000, being a dumbass student in your daily/weekly allowance situation wouldn't jump on that opportunity (without properly thinking of the full consequences), plus it's with a big influencer at that time. When the person reaches a state of maturity, wouldn't there be a slight possibility of sudden self-awareness of what really happened. A lot of hypotheticals, Xiaxue's POV covered certain possibilities whereas mine covered the other end. Deekosh has the money and resources to do these things. Why pick the younger target? It's also because he has the upper hand (Financial status, social status, manipulation, mingling, know how boys think, basically LIFE experience). He can offer what he can because of his resources. It's like taking advantage of the situation when he can. Just because you can doesn't mean you should. Hence, JAIL TIME.
"in my own head how do i backtrack out of this?" huh? so hearing someone is 15 doesn't make you want to backtrack and immediately cut contact with him? WHAT TEH FK. did xiaxue just let that buzz by her ears or if she really so blinded by this "friendship"?
It’s ridiculous that he’s saying he “drew the line” and was not using fame as an inducement to get all these young boys to sleep with him. OF COURSE THE BOYS WOULD EXPECT IT? IT’S A LEGITIMATE EXPECTATION?! Unless you tell them clearly- if you sleep with me, I will nvr promote you, anyone will read between the lines. So don’t go acting all innocent. Dee was clearly leveraging his power to induce ppl to sleep with him for fame.
this video really touched me so much. I’ll not only watch the videos that will be up on TikTok as I’ve watched till the end. Xiaxue and Dee have always been my favourite influencers and Dee used to be the only one who can make me laugh throughout his videos. For Xiaxue, she have always been so genuine and fighting for rights for the right people and never been bias. I love you both. All the best! ❤
why are some of this comment or majority still supporting him?? like bro you just gonna forget what he did ? Is it because he has a platform ?? isit because he was famous ? how about the kids that had sex with him ? y’all need to know who to side . cmon there’s many underrated people in sg that need your support and you choose to support this criminal ?
Totally understand that Xiaxue is just trying to stand up for her friend but if we just dig the screenshots back out, I think it’s pretty obvious why he got punished and why he is WRONG (without a doubt or argument) for what he did. Shocked by how you think they labelled themselves WRONGLY as “victims”. It makes you distasteful? That’s very insensitive on your end. The boys that Dee Kosh targeted were YOUNG and almost clueless/naive/dumb/immature btw. So for him to target these people knowing well his AGE and the upper hand he has? Labelling themselves as “victim” is the only way they could join forces to take down 1 guy. Sugar babying is just an excuse that he came up with to make it seem “okay” that all the boys he asked for BLOWJOBS from were at least 10 years younger than him. It took 8 people to take down 1 guy who was clearly in the wrong and now he thinks the world still wants to hear his side. Eh. Tired la. Just retire bro.
I agree with you but ex-cons are also given a chance to reintegrate back into society. For Dee Kosh, his whole career was in the public eye, as a personality etc, this is all he has ever known how to do, tbh, I’m not a fan of him either but I can see why he would still put himself out there and refuse to “retire” from social media, this is all he knows. He still needs a career albeit in a different form now. I mean yeah he could erm, get a job at McDonald’s, but at the end of the day he’s just trying to earn his living doing what he knows best. He’s appearing everywhere now to generate buzz, hype his return, redirect the traffic to his podcast blabla. Coming from his own mouth, he claims he knows he fucked up, served his time, I guess just hope that he won’t repeat his mistakes. I’m not his fan, I don’t even like him, I agree with what you said, but I also think he deserves a 2nd chance, as any ex-con who finished their sentence.
@@katieebelleful, only 6 minutes in, reading comments, I agree with you. I give no F's about convicted sex offenders getting a 2nd chance. I can't finish watching this.
@@John_Smith_86 but…..murdering 4 people and texting minors to ask for sex is……levels apart bro….putting him aside but your comparison is not very equal lol…..
also I'm not taking sides at all but the fact that he made a bunch of these boys famous (some of them whoa are v arrogant, might I add) and they denounce him just never sat right with me like if Dee truly has never done anything to them but help with their careers they shouldn't have bitten the hand that fed them like starting a whole new channel and throwing shade but idk that's just my two cents
I rmb very clearly their statements tho, they just clarified that their relationship and interactions with Dee had always been professional and that he never tried anything with them. Also one of them, Ben, had to clarify because there were meme photos that they took for a skit/as characters and people were saying that those photos were proof that he slept with his talents. I even rmb Xin De said that Dee would tell his side of the story when he was ready etc blabla, it sounded like they asked him first before posting those statements. I agree with you tho, on RSB, the shade lol, but the OG boys, Xin De, Ben, Hamza, Shisong even, I felt that they handed it well. They didn’t do the same thing as the Kheng siblings. I think he’s referring to them too instead. If you watched Dee’s interview with daily ketchup, he mentioned Benjamin and Narelle Kheng.
@@noahakihaya don't watch their channel or follow any of them so I wouldn't know, apart from their first upload and it was such an ick because we only knew of them via Dee so it was cringe seeing them act self-made.
So Dee Kosh it’s okay for you to make a whole video about Eden Ang even though you guys are not even close, but you find it wrong when other people in the industry make statements about your crimes? The blatant hypocrisy
@@iris.west305 Dee Kosh aka Darryl Ian Koshy had pleaded guilty in May 2022 to one charge of offering cash to a minor for sexual services, and to another charge under the Children and Young Persons Act for the attempted sexual exploitation of a young person. He had also pleaded guilty to a charge under the Films Act for filming himself in 2016 or 2017 engaging in sex acts with a man aged between 23 and 25. Don't let him change the narrative. Dee Kosh is an Ex-Offender , Sexual Offender , Pedophile.
Miss XX, who are you to speak behalf of the victims? Have you interviewed them? Have you spoken to them? Are you telling us that you based your entire victim-blaming piece on just DK's side of the story?
After watching the whole video, I am able to accept Dee's explaination that there is no malicious/ perverse intent for most of the charges, and that it was an honest mistake that he made. However, I dont really buy his reason for illegally filming his "interaction" with the alleged rape victim. Dee said he filmed because the guy is sus??? It feels like he came up with this reason post hoc, given that the video eventually exonerated him of rape allegations...
If no harm was done, then it wouldn’t be a crime. And if harm was done then the act is malicious. Whether the aggressor feels that it is malicious is inconsequential.
Dee Kosh aka Darryl Ian Koshy had pleaded guilty in May 2022 to one charge of offering cash to a minor for sexual services, and to another charge under the Children and Young Persons Act for the attempted sexual exploitation of a young person. He had also pleaded guilty to a charge under the Films Act for filming himself in 2016 or 2017 engaging in sex acts with a man aged between 23 and 25. Don't let him change the narrative. Dee Kosh is an Ex-Offender , Sexual Offender , Pedophile.
and er... sugaring and paying for sex are 2 different things Dee, I've had several sugar daddies - none of which I ever had to perform s3x acts on... if someone is paid for that stuff it's just called pr0stituti0n
Ya, I thought most sugar baby and sugar daddy like all they do is like maybe go out together eat together and like talk with each other and stuff no sex
All things already been said so idk if it's worth sharing but after the exposé person A put his workbio as influencer couple of months after when everything went quiet during the investigation. Now he remove his insta. Which made me have super mixed feelings la 😒 there was also the twitter thread but almost all of the original post have either been removed or suspended?? Dee not so innocent either his texts made me cringed but to say they were victims...... I'm sus
Real people real conversation. I like the friendship between u two. I hope everyone have the chance to watch till the end and let dee have his side of story spoken. I also think dee became more humble and down to earth. Which is good
I think he look so much better now and I always believe God let u go thru all this so u will grow up and better door's will open up for u. U r very lucky u have your family sypport and some good friends. Now I remember why I don't watch his RUclips last time because he give me a bad vibe but now he look so different and look better. Lost all the weight. God bless u Dee and all the best for your future!
I really don’t understand why XX even bother to interview him. Like it’s 2023, who gives a F** about dee kosh? He is out dated and irrelevant. I’m sure most of you are not even thinking about him because that’s how much he matters in todays social media era.
Bring filmed doing such acts WITHOUT consent is making the person being filmed a VICTIM… Imagine being traumatised about being filmed whenever you try to be intimate. Wtf?????
God. Why do we even give people like him a platform. He was awful even before he was charged with those sexual assault allegations. He wasn’t even sorry he did those things, he was sorry he got caught. I believe he can turn a new leaf and he may very well have; I just find his humour and his want for fame off-putting. That said, you are a good friend. It takes a lot of courage and personal conviction to publicly support him in this way after what went down.
He wasn't really in the closet. The first time i met him was at Play Club which was a gay club (I've seen him there a few times). I dont think he was a DJ yet. He introduced himself and was very outspoken and friendly. My gaydar was def ticking.
@@xiaxue no I was referring to the video title I highly doubt anybody would admit to being one like how a cannibal won't ever publicly say that they are
I can't say I support dee kosh 100%, he isn't the best of person and still shows glimpses of his alleged toxic personality esp the part when he exposed the alleged pedo in the last part of the vid. dont get me wrong, i do not condone the sick acts but i sincerely hope that everyone that comes out of prison deserves a second chance to change. if only we can stop being so judgmental and be gracious to ex-convicts, i am sure people won't re-offend.
*I just found out today that these guys broke up. What happened?* I used to watch them all the time and then I didn’t see their videos for a while so I searched them and I could not find anything. Does anyone know what happened? 🤔
Why thsi deecok could become a influencer is largely due to the younger generation and lgbtq community. The former are impressionable and the latter a bunch of pervs..
@@jen5138 i dont think so dee doesnt follow ryan. Anyway he also referred to nathan as "when he was still friend with me". Sylvia liked xiaxue's dee video, but ryan doesnt.
to be fair, the boys that were “proclaimed” victims they also played their part and led him on / were ok to have sex w dee… i just feel it’s a two hands to clap thing.
Dee kosh tried to silenced the boys by threatening a defamation suit and even sent a cease and desist. They are victims of his threats. He was a celebrity while the kids are just nobodys.
@@minlingg91 he plead guilty to three charges. 1) he propositioned a 17 year old for commercial sex 2) he propositioned a 15 year old for commercial sex 3) he made a sex film with a 23 year old His lawyer pled for 2 months of jail but he was given 8 months due to severity of the case with the 17 year old and not the other two cases. They argued that he needed to be punished more harshly because he: - posted an image of the 17 year old online asking if anyone knew his contact. - was aware he was 17 before he propositioned him for commercial sex. - asked to move the convo to Snapchat from whatsapp so the convo can be deleted. Prosecutor argued he used his influence as DJ and social media star to purposely contact the victim and then knowingly propositioned him for paid sex despite knowing he is under 18. The convo move to Snapchat suggested he knew it was illegal and he wanted to hide his convo. Ironically if he had not offered money in return for sex I don't think it would have been a chargeable offence. Honestly, he broke the law and did his time which is great. But idk why people expect we give him the same energy we do to those who commit sexual assault.
I think dee may not be a pedo but he may like boys around their late teens to early 20s, which is still gross to me considering he's approaching his 30s. Hope he gets a fresh new start and repent (easier said than done) and also treasure your family since they emulated God's love to you. Don't repent too late.
I never really like Xia Xue but I have really got to give credit where it's due. She was there for Sylvia and Deekosh when nobody stood by then. Truly a friend that one can lean on with their eyes close when trouble arises.
Tbh it’s kinda obvious Dee likes boys too idk why it’s hard to tell. But also this whole saga is honestly pointless. JUST BECAUSE he is a “famous” guy he got caught easily there are much more guys MUCH WORSE THAN DEE that never got caught cause they were a nobody.
His claim is that his age preference doesn't technically fall under the pedo definition. Which from a very strictly technical viewpoint is correct, since the medical definition is age 13
Isn’t the saga caused by the aggressor? He was lawyering up when the first allegations were made, if he had quietly accepted his mistakes and not try to feign innocence there would be no saga.
At the end of the day after so much drama, did you reflect what you have done ? Every action has a consequence. Its a chapter that will either make you to be a better person or spiral downhill to make you worse. I hope for the better.
What I truly cannot understand after watching this whole video is why Dee Kosh would still continue to be sooo sexually explicit with his life after this whole episode. Even post saga, he talks about paying for sex, and f-ing people soo explicitly - it's like its a part of his life that he is very proud and unashamed of. Does he have any shame, really? Even if he doesn't think of himself, he should at least think for his parents - whom he has said were deeply hurt by what happened. Which mother would be happy to know that her son constantly goes around talking about f-ing people, especially after being implicated in such a dramatic criminal case. To Dee: I genuinely feel that you should rein in your promiscuity. If not for yourself, but for your loved ones who care about you. Regardless of whether what you are doing is "legal" or not .... have some shame. some decorum. some self-respect. really.
Omg the pedo teacher sounds familiar, similar to the teacher from my school. I hope it's not. Coz his case was a long time ago though. Can't be he is still in prison. 🤔
She also unfollowed her mom after her divorce. And she never mentioned anything about celebrating Mother’s Day with her mom. Her son has autism and she denies it. Something is broken within her family😞
@@jasperherr8694 lol how is his son autistic? I worked with Dashiel before and she is not only street smart but he is very polite, conscientious eventhou he is an introvert
@@jasperherr8694😂😂😂 you deducing all these based on social media?? My family doesn't celebrate birthdays or mothers day or fathers day. We have no such tradition. But we get along fine🤭🤣
I enjoy this video immensely. I watched twice!! Hope to watch more videos of Dee Kosh n Xie Xue!! Keep going guys!! Rooting for success n love for you both ❤
ye he made a lot people of guys famous. thanks to him but you can’t use that reason to forget what he did cmon. he is living happily here meanwhile the boys out there still suffering from trauma.
aiyo all these comments rly 😭 like if you don’t like deekosh or don’t care abt the explanation/drama then why are you even here ???? just look away la nobody forcing you to watch
Being famous or so-called influencers are indeed double-edged sword. One could argue that you do get more of the up sides than the down sides, but one can't deny that you get some of the down sides too, in a greater degree compare to someone who aren't famous. Everyone has their vices and being famous sometimes could lead to a worse outcome. I feel for Dee Kosh all the way, especially given that he has paid for his crimes.
Dee Kosh aka Darryl Ian Koshy had pleaded guilty in May 2022 to one charge of offering cash to a minor for sexual services, and to another charge under the Children and Young Persons Act for the attempted sexual exploitation of a young person. He had also pleaded guilty to a charge under the Films Act for filming himself in 2016 or 2017 engaging in sex acts with a man aged between 23 and 25. Don't let him change the narrative. Dee Kosh is an Ex-Offender , Sexual Offender , Pedophile. So which part of these do you feel exactly? Are you saying that you support such predatory behaviour? you support pedo?
sorry can i just say the closed captions is damn funny, like it doesn't make sense at all HAHAH i'm up for hire if you need someone to subtitle for you :))))
Xiaxue is clever and could be using Dee for clout at this point. She could be riding this wave to catch this clout This interview is likely from a business stand point for her. In this world it’s about what benefits can we gain from the other person. Nothing is true friendship. Look at Ryan and Sylvia when Dee was still with NOC. They were supposed to be best friends but when the saga first came out, they immediately sacked dee and wanted nothing to do with Him. No such thing as best friends one
Very glad to see Dee had tremendous growths these days after his jail term ended. He seems matured more and stronger. I never was a fan but liked to watch his comedy last time on RUclips as entertainment . Right now looking at Dee, he is just giving like a sunshine vibe to the broken soul. 😮 i maybe exaggerated about the statement .. but yeah nothing more than to just wish Dee a good wish and all the best moving fwd from now on . Happy for him he get a new chance and had alrdy passed his ordeal. I am sure Dee had leaned so much from his mistakes and the lesson in life had brought him today. Have a responsible and happy life DK🎉🎉🎉
@@drawinjackson6324 i am not on drugs but maybe u are , ppl commenting like yours really cannot see sunshine . Thats why many others committed suicide just becoz of some comments. My advice to u @drawinjackon6324 Life ur life to fullest and learn to give others a chance to grow too. Deekosh may not be a saint but i am sure he has his value too in his life. Nobody is righteous , mistakes in life tend to be made for some. But even the state also had alrdy released him , then why we cannot try to accept that the fact he is a freeman now. If u read really carefully on my comment, i generating towards move on , maybe u are stuck with the past ..🤷♀️
Deekosh is just talented in talking. After listening to daily ketchup even the same question there is variation of how he response. N clearly xia xue made him so much more comfortable n open to share more stuff than what was shared on daily ketchup. U can see how happy is xia xue w dee kosh. I hope their friendship stays strong. 💪Respect in having to keep fwb as legitimate frens. All human have they sex needs. Its just not very comment topic in Asia to talk about it though it is getting more.
thats is why if deekosh is not good at talking and not charismatic,I believe he will get more hate.I am waiting to see whether amos yee will get a second change if he comes backs to singapore.amos is clearly not as charismatic as dee kosh so will society give him a second change?
@@milkboysg4595 there is a chinese saying. 人比人，气死人. When u r trying to compare one person to another, u r just trying to drive urself mad. Because everyone is clearly different. It's not just charismatic or talking skills. Every individual have different personality, preference n mindset. And whats most important is the mindset which leads to the reasons behind individual actions. I have no idea why would u want to compare it w amos. Someone with repeated offence which is clearly so different. Proofing that his jail time did not wake him up. Just by listening to how they talk u will likely be able to guess what they r thinking n their thought process if its on the right track. It might not be a skill difference that makes a difference. Honestly i wasnt a fan of dee kosh n am still not. But to be fair these 2 are complete different case. Second chance needs to be earned. Not just by blabbering w no basis. Time will tell and show the difference.
this was honestly a great watch, and yeah thank fucking god he isnt that paedophile that everyone thought he was, just my own opinion! thanks for doing this video really , hes still such a good story teller and a great entertainer, so god to have watched this fully
even tho he is not a pedophile,the very act of messaging someone who is below 18 is just wrong.Obviously he is just defending himself but to me,I feel feel very sus when he claim he did not know what he did was illegal.
Danielle Steel lol... Her books are mainly romance. Sorry, I can't give recommendations cos I haven't read her books. Romance genre ain't my cuppa tea 😬😬
i still dont understand why he wants to claim he is bisex. he is a gay and always a gay. from the first vid i saw of him, his gesture, his voice, his shirts, his jokes, his use of words, HIS EVERYTHING SCREAM GAY. and what a stupid world we r living in even his supposedly friends dont know he is a gay. lol
Xiaxue Your HAIR!!!!!! Yes, I watched the entire video. And no, I was one of those who DM-ed you when you were being cancelled last time. Great interview, but I couldn’t really hear some parts.
"Give Shanmugam a raise" HELP xD I know I DM-ed Xiaxue about this (she sometimes answer la, makes me super happy lol). Like what she said, she's a super anti-pedophile person, why she's still friends w him? I wanna hear from her, because I mean, those who followed Xiaxue for so long would know, if he really is, she would've washed him maybe even killed him but she didn't so it made me believe that there is more than what was told to us. I'm glad to have sat through this video. Sucks that Dee Kosh cannot make contents on YT anymore because of this whole saga. Like what he said - no one benefitted from this whole thing so what's the point? Upside(?) is at the expense of him, we now know about laws like this eg having to plead guilty for a whole charge even when you only did part of it. The law system should make some changes to this and target case to case basis. Seriously all those people who reported should sit through psychological tests/lie detector as well - if they are clear and understand what they were doing (eg the consensual oral intercourse one) or that they lied, they should be charged for wrongfully accusing others.
He still did that to UNDERAGED BOYS. No victim blaming cos the ADULTS have to take responsibility fr their actions. And how is he still on RUclips? If Amos Yee and Eden Ang is gone from RUclips shouldn't he be too? Are people just brushing it off? wtf bruh
No way so many made police report just to discredit you. You know what you have done very well. Although you have a long way to go, trying to make yourself less guilty will backfired. Learned from your mistake, admit it and move on to other career if you cannot restart in the entertainment circle. Dont make another wrong move by trying to prove your innocence and make other victim/s which have not spoken out.
I have followed xiaxue for a long time and I trust her. It’s so important for people to share their experiences and the truth be covered. I have a law degree and I’m still clueless 😂 I wish him the best.
Dee Kosh solicited them which is wrong in the court of law; he served his time and I am not a big fan of Dee but he served his time; victim don't get paid... victim would be survivor of sexual crimes; the two don't correlate at all...at the end of the day, Dee is a good storyteller but the stigma is kinda real... he can't even open a company bank account for a company he is in right now (removed his name in the applications and instantly approved)... this is an injustice for the rest of the world towards criminals who served their time given by the legal system
Dee is not saying it right. Danielle steel writes romance, sexual books, but Sidney Sheldon’s thriller crime stories. Did he really read them like what he said?
Xiaxue, you shouldnt cut bits and bits of video out because people will think this interview shows 1 side of the story and blanked the other side. I watched half and I stopped.
Xiaxue is a genuine friend and stick with friends who are in big troubles.
Xiaxue did not drop friends when they are in trouble but tries her best to help these friends.
Really a good friend with true character, especially in a small country like Singapore.
YES AGREED!
Knowing how unbiased Xiaxue is when it comes to unearthing facts, I am looking forward to the next episode when she interviews the victims of Dee Kosh so that they also get the same public platform to tell their sides of the story.
U forget the " "
"Victims"
"unbiased"?? she is biased. yall are either dumb or just a fan of hers. cmon now.
He already paid the price by going to jail and publicly being shamed and forever carrying the label of sex offender ...
... why are some people so adamant to ensure the Dee Kosh will never get a second chance at turning over a new leaf .... people talk like they are saints without having committed any mistakes in life ...
Like come on, karma is a bitch, sure now you get to throw stones but don't overdo it because one day you will not get any sympathy for your own mistake even if you want to turn over because the universe will remember how you have been un-merciful in the past ...
I know there will be some "mentally challenged" ppl who will say "she did not defend deekosh" . that's because your brain is underdeveloped. She gives deekosh a platform to gather sympathy. to tell "his" side of the story. Which is ofcos all bullshit. not just holy shit but the holiest of shit. Far from the the police investigation. Dee kosh is not the victim. he is a grown adult grooming young boys with money to fuck them. His favorite are virgin boys.
Its not okay to have paid sex with a 17 year old. Not knowing that it is illegal is not a good excuse. Why is there so much victim shaming? So what if they were seeking fame. What he did was wrong. What about the victims who didnt step forward because they were not seeking fame. Also it is disturbing that he doesnt seem to show any remorse and is just finding excuses for his behaviour!
Yea, like he went in for jaywalking
this comment really deserves more likes 🥲🥲
and dee kosh said "what's the point, no one wins", like the point is to stop him from doing it to other people???
and this is not like "cancel culture", it is called paying the price for what he has done, it is not like the victims used a technicality in the law to send him to prison and "cancel" him, the prosecution even argued that he did not show any remorse
Exactly. Agree to this comment very much. It is also very uneasy to see Xiaxue being so biased in this interview (although it’s expected since they are close friends). Victim shaming is one thing, but to twist the story to even try and justify it as victim shaming is another. It disgusts me to hear about how they talk about whether the boys were seeking fame and it’s ok if they turn out famous, like come on.
Not knowing the law is not an excuses. But it’s better than knowing the law and yet do it.
Do u know all the laws? Have u commit crimes without knowing it?!
It’s not an excuse.
So u go read more laws
Exactly. Why influencer got special treatment one ah? Lol. Go jail like go shopping, help one another can already. Don't like that lei..
If you made a mistake, admit. Just start over again and learn.
Don't need to broadcast trying to make yourself look better. It's not necessary.
Didn't bother to watch the video at all. Just wanted to read the comments.
Obviously Dee Kosh is going on a campaign to promote himself again, to draw listeners to his Spotify podcast, hoping to rekindle his former lucrative career again.
I am a yellow ribbon supporter. But I will not support someone who denies guilt and tries to hoodwink others that he has been wronged
i would very much agree on this comment although im not one to take sides i feel like he shouldnt jst pretend that everything is ok n thta ppl will just forgive him
According to Dee Kosh himself, he did deliberately solicit paid sex from a known 17 years old and from a supposedly unknown 15 years old, the latter from which he didn't explicitly withdraw his offer either. By the legal standards, he is absolutely guilty. In his 3 mins video extract, he claims to not be guilty of "all" the sins he was charged for. And it wasn't just a casual minor mistake, either. This isn't jaywalking. (But not murder either lah)
He did not claim that he is NOT guilty by legal standards. He admitted to his actions and even though he was distraught, he accepted the sentence he received and have went through it.
He was referring to how the media wrote about his charges, especially with the headlines that misled the public into thinking he was a pedophile, he had sex with minors, he has been paying minors to have sex with him. With such unclarity in the media (little to no effort on the media's part to rectify btw), this also perpetuates assumptions/inference that:
1. He knew they were minors
2. He knew this was illegal but still did it
3. He has been doing this repeatedly
1-3 were not true. As he shared in the video, the moment he found out he was speaking to a minor, he wanted to retract his offer. I think that his points are valid with respect to WHAT THE MEDIA PUBLISHED and not to be interpreted as "he did not claim to be guilty of all his sins that he was legally charged for".
Undoubtedly, his actions are serious, which he has already owned up and paid for them. As such, I don't think he regarded it as a "minor mistake" akin to jaywalking. If he was treating his actions casually, I believe he would have created his own RUclips channel (somehow, maybe under a different but simliar alias) to justify himself and ask people to bury the hatchet. But as he stated in another podcast, he does not have any intention to fight RUclips and just accepts how things have became, especially in terms of his losses.
@@thatrb1740 (1) is true. (2) is arguably true, he may or may not have known, but he should have known. (3) is true.
He may or may not have wanted to retract his offer, but according to him, he did not.
Actions are what matters, not his words
@@thatrb1740 didn’t the prosecution provided evidence for points 1-3? If he had any evidence to counter, he would have provided it. The only counter he has is his own words.
I feel for Xiaxue as she is going thru a hard time herself but always help others to get out of trouble. A true friend indeed. I believe that we all go thru hard times and hope we get out off it soo. All the best to u Dee & Xiaxue..
What is she going through?
@En Hui Lim Yes but whatever that's inside her remains there..
@@lalalalaland84 Divorce matters...it's really tough...
If I remember correctly, she once said that Dee helped her when she was cancelled. And because of this, she will always stand up for him.
@@jamesyoung2934 Ooh I didn't know about this
This is a very public case of sexual assault. Having framed his wrongs as an honest mistake and that he simply didnt know the ages of the boys, he is not taking ownership of the harm and trauma he has caused for the victims. Arguing that the victims were paid for the sex act is not enough to even partly justify what was done! There is a reason why sexual activities with minors EVEN IF they had "consented" is illegal.
As adults, it is our responsibility to ensure our children and the vulnerable members of our society are safe.
Dee's return to social media is a very public one that shows what present or future perpetrators what they can do, to either shirk from ownership of what they have done, or to acknolwedge the harm they have inflicted onto the victims.
Wholly agree.
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 Agreed. Let’s call a spade a spade and he shouldn’t try to reframe the narrative to cast himself in a better light.
Simple term....he's just a bloody hypocrite
You talked so much about taking responsibilities but those so called “victims” of his seemed to be shying away from it too. Do you mean to say they should be free of responsibilities from their OWN actions simply because they were not of legal age??!
for all his haters ... bruh ... srsly ... wtf is wrong w u ... u keep on say "victims" victims victims ... wtf is wif de victims ... both side r willing party so whr de heck the victims come from ... ya iz weird but so wat ? ... its tt dudes life n its up 2 him wtv he 1 2 do w it ... u keep on say de dudes a predator n stuff ... wat ab de victim ... if they dw they still agree in de first place for wat ... ask urslef this ... do victims get tgt and still take pic n everyth ? ... do they still post on social media ab wat they about to do ? ... u ever c a rape victim say ... (oh ya ive been rape by this guy ... or go tgt w rape victims n post on social media yeah weve been rape by this guy bfr ) ... so pls use ur bloody brains bfr u comment ... if he manage 2 hook ppl ... its the ppl he hook @ fault not him ... if ur children or whoever uk go w him ... its ur children or whoever fault ... it takes 2 hands 2 clap ....dnt put the problem on some1 else when the "victims" oso @ fault ... u so corncern for de "victims" ... if they nd money ... u will help ? ... no rite ? ... den daim ... nothing good comment then stfu ... dude alrd lost literally everyth n oso dont owe any damn explanation n here he is explaining himself n u still 1 make wat noise ...
2 dee
im not a fan but i salute u ... y ? ... after everyth n u haven't give up n juz end is juz amazing cuz iwould nv imagine myself continue living after loosing everyth .. ure a strong person n juz hang in thr ... u owe nobody a reason n u have no need to feel ashame ... ya id admit ... its fking weird but its ur life not mine ... if thats wat made u happy ... nv feel ashame of it
OMG Wendy! I remember when I first discovered your blog in 2013, i was still in high school! It's so nice and sentimental to see you on youtube! Subscribed xoxo
In the first place, Deekosh with his status should have never offered money to these young boys. Imagine, they are probably students, being unemployed. Such a sum of money would definitely be tempting for them. Plus, there's the hormones, they are probably more driven by hormones rather than logical thinking, and it's with a popular influencer, further giving them an "opportunity" to be famous. Honestly, it was a mistake made by thinking with your dick rather than your head.
There's something about Xiaxue's perspective towards the term "victim" being used that made me ponder. You can also not be the victim at the point of time when the deed is being done but realise you're a victim afterwards. It's similar to a child getting molested by their weird uncle when they are young but suffer the mental trauma as they get older and truly understand what the heck just happened. However, these boys aren't dumb, who is to question their true motives as well, there's strength in numbers after all.
Your definition of victim is rather unorthodox. If an adult violates an infant, there is no victim in your scenario. The baby would have forgotten all about it by the time adult hood arrives
@@987ujhpl the baby would have forgotten? I think your thinking is unorthodox. Such trauma are ingrained in the child already. Victims are trueless helpless beings who cant defend themselves. These boys are not victims at all, THEY HAVE A CHOICE. They can run, they can walk away, they can reject, they can choose NOT TO BE ON GRINDR.
@@iamsexxy the boys were underage to give consent. So choices doesn’t apply here.
And the baby analogy is to counter the above comment that the state of being a victim only happens when the person feels victimised.
And by your definition anyone who can defend themselves is not a victim? So people who failed to defend themselves are not victims?
@@987ujhpl iykyk.. whether you're 16 or 18 to give consent to paid sex.. you're still abled body to walk away, let alone going on Grindr.
A toddler doesnt know how to register an account on grindr. A toddler versus a "victim" who has the capacity to register on grindr, what do you think? Who is the true victim here?
When you say a victim is someone who FEELS victimised is considered a victim then there's plenty of victims everywhere. 🤣 So long I say I FEEL like a victim then it is valid? BS.
I did not state that when a person who failed to defend themselves are not a victim. A 15 yo and a toddler is entirely different. Like i said, a toddler is truly defendless because a toddler still requires an adult to tend to. A 15yo can feed himself, bathe himself and also register himself a grindr account. 🤡
You sound like an adult baby HAHAHAHA
@@987ujhpl What make me write that comment is because Xiaxue's perception on the "victims" , she thinks of it as a fair trade. Money for their body, but she didn't think into mind the target's age, state of mind, financial status, social status, that's so many factors to think about.
"Where is the hurt when he offered money?", applying to those boys who actually went on to do the deed with Deekosh. You cannot say that, it triggered me so much. You're telling me someone offered you $2000, being a dumbass student in your daily/weekly allowance situation wouldn't jump on that opportunity (without properly thinking of the full consequences), plus it's with a big influencer at that time. When the person reaches a state of maturity, wouldn't there be a slight possibility of sudden self-awareness of what really happened. A lot of hypotheticals, Xiaxue's POV covered certain possibilities whereas mine covered the other end.
Deekosh has the money and resources to do these things. Why pick the younger target? It's also because he has the upper hand (Financial status, social status, manipulation, mingling, know how boys think, basically LIFE experience). He can offer what he can because of his resources. It's like taking advantage of the situation when he can. Just because you can doesn't mean you should. Hence, JAIL TIME.
"in my own head how do i backtrack out of this?"
huh? so hearing someone is 15 doesn't make you want to backtrack and immediately cut contact with him?
WHAT TEH FK. did xiaxue just let that buzz by her ears or if she really so blinded by this "friendship"?
what do u expect she did the same stuff with cruella desylvia she a hypocrite just like dee kosh is
Xiaxue always the real mvp … doing interviews we all want 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
y’all want interviews with pedos???
Why cant she talk about her own divorce then?
y'all need an explanation over dee's case ma? it's plain and simple he did some predatory stuff. point blank period.
It’s ridiculous that he’s saying he “drew the line” and was not using fame as an inducement to get all these young boys to sleep with him.
OF COURSE THE BOYS WOULD EXPECT IT? IT’S A LEGITIMATE EXPECTATION?!
Unless you tell them clearly- if you sleep with me, I will nvr promote you, anyone will read between the lines.
So don’t go acting all innocent. Dee was clearly leveraging his power to induce ppl to sleep with him for fame.
Enough is enough. He had learned his lessons. Give him time
Actually he dont have to, since he usually pay for sugar sex
Yee are you one of those that think just become someone is “nice” to you means got ulterior motives.
@@michellenonislim he chose to return to the social media scene. He could fade away like others.
@@wynnemillioncentury7777 remember jack neo? He could easily afford paid sex. But he chose to casting couch.
this video really touched me so much. I’ll not only watch the videos that will be up on TikTok as I’ve watched till the end. Xiaxue and Dee have always been my favourite influencers and Dee used to be the only one who can make me laugh throughout his videos. For Xiaxue, she have always been so genuine and fighting for rights for the right people and never been bias. I love you both. All the best! ❤
yes paid comment. we know.
I think jail made dee humble and that’s something positive that came out of this saga …
I dont think so.even now he seem sorry that he got caught not sorry for the act he did
The thing that made him humble was the loss of all his work and income.
Yes. It was his arrogance that got him before. Now he is so much better and relatable - I would rather support him now than the Dee before jail.
why are some of this comment or majority still supporting him?? like bro you just gonna forget what he did ? Is it because he has a platform ?? isit because he was famous ? how about the kids that had sex with him ? y’all need to know who to side . cmon there’s many underrated people in sg that need your support and you choose to support this criminal ?
Totally understand that Xiaxue is just trying to stand up for her friend but if we just dig the screenshots back out, I think it’s pretty obvious why he got punished and why he is WRONG (without a doubt or argument) for what he did. Shocked by how you think they labelled themselves WRONGLY as “victims”. It makes you distasteful? That’s very insensitive on your end. The boys that Dee Kosh targeted were YOUNG and almost clueless/naive/dumb/immature btw. So for him to target these people knowing well his AGE and the upper hand he has? Labelling themselves as “victim” is the only way they could join forces to take down 1 guy. Sugar babying is just an excuse that he came up with to make it seem “okay” that all the boys he asked for BLOWJOBS from were at least 10 years younger than him. It took 8 people to take down 1 guy who was clearly in the wrong and now he thinks the world still wants to hear his side. Eh. Tired la. Just retire bro.
Yeah I agree, it's morally iffy that the age gap is so big...
I agree with you but ex-cons are also given a chance to reintegrate back into society. For Dee Kosh, his whole career was in the public eye, as a personality etc, this is all he has ever known how to do, tbh, I’m not a fan of him either but I can see why he would still put himself out there and refuse to “retire” from social media, this is all he knows. He still needs a career albeit in a different form now. I mean yeah he could erm, get a job at McDonald’s, but at the end of the day he’s just trying to earn his living doing what he knows best. He’s appearing everywhere now to generate buzz, hype his return, redirect the traffic to his podcast blabla. Coming from his own mouth, he claims he knows he fucked up, served his time, I guess just hope that he won’t repeat his mistakes. I’m not his fan, I don’t even like him, I agree with what you said, but I also think he deserves a 2nd chance, as any ex-con who finished their sentence.
@@noahakihaya Yea, but he is still excusing his misconduct. Yea, I murdered 4 people, BUT...
@@katieebelleful, only 6 minutes in, reading comments, I agree with you. I give no F's about convicted sex offenders getting a 2nd chance. I can't finish watching this.
@@John_Smith_86 but…..murdering 4 people and texting minors to ask for sex is……levels apart bro….putting him aside but your comparison is not very equal lol…..
also I'm not taking sides at all but the fact that he made a bunch of these boys famous (some of them whoa are v arrogant, might I add) and they denounce him just never sat right with me like if Dee truly has never done anything to them but help with their careers they shouldn't have bitten the hand that fed them like starting a whole new channel and throwing shade but idk that's just my two cents
I rmb very clearly their statements tho, they just clarified that their relationship and interactions with Dee had always been professional and that he never tried anything with them. Also one of them, Ben, had to clarify because there were meme photos that they took for a skit/as characters and people were saying that those photos were proof that he slept with his talents. I even rmb Xin De said that Dee would tell his side of the story when he was ready etc blabla, it sounded like they asked him first before posting those statements. I agree with you tho, on RSB, the shade lol, but the OG boys, Xin De, Ben, Hamza, Shisong even, I felt that they handed it well. They didn’t do the same thing as the Kheng siblings. I think he’s referring to them too instead. If you watched Dee’s interview with daily ketchup, he mentioned Benjamin and Narelle Kheng.
@@noahakihaya don't watch their channel or follow any of them so I wouldn't know, apart from their first upload and it was such an ick because we only knew of them via Dee so it was cringe seeing them act self-made.
Their new channel is it get set...
Its v v v rare to have a good friend at the lowest and worst time of your life. You two are so blessed to be friends. God bless and take care always!
what i can only say is XX is a true friend no matter what shit u got to ,she will help u.
So Dee Kosh it’s okay for you to make a whole video about Eden Ang even though you guys are not even close, but you find it wrong when other people in the industry make statements about your crimes? The blatant hypocrisy
He already explained about it, what are you on about
@@iris.west305 Standing up for a pedo? What are you on about?
@@iris.west305 Dee Kosh aka Darryl Ian Koshy had pleaded guilty in May 2022 to one charge of offering cash to a minor for sexual services, and to another charge under the Children and Young Persons Act for the attempted sexual exploitation of a young person. He had also pleaded guilty to a charge under the Films Act for filming himself in 2016 or 2017 engaging in sex acts with a man aged between 23 and 25.
Don't let him change the narrative. Dee Kosh is an Ex-Offender , Sexual Offender , Pedophile.
Awesome to see this vid, welcome back Dee Kosh!! Thanks Xiaxue for arranging this interview :)
Once a pedophile always a pedophile! Once he is given a second chance, I believe he will be the same old Dee Kosh again 🐻🐻🐻🐻
Not disclosing the teacher’s name is to protect the identities of his victims who are minors, and not actually to protect the school
can we please stop giving him clout. i’m annoyed that i’ve been seeing new content involving him on youtube after his crime. please stop it.
shut up la cb
You have the option to abstain from watching or to extreme extent you can choose to physically impaired your vision by removing your own eyeball😂
Remember eden ? He is the one who keep insisting eden is a sexual predator.
thank you xx for giving dee a platform to say his story!! love and support both of you always
love and support pedos? 🤨
@@sybill123ful shut up la cb
Miss XX, who are you to speak behalf of the victims? Have you interviewed them? Have you spoken to them? Are you telling us that you based your entire victim-blaming piece on just DK's side of the story?
After watching the whole video, I am able to accept Dee's explaination that there is no malicious/ perverse intent for most of the charges, and that it was an honest mistake that he made. However, I dont really buy his reason for illegally filming his "interaction" with the alleged rape victim. Dee said he filmed because the guy is sus??? It feels like he came up with this reason post hoc, given that the video eventually exonerated him of rape allegations...
If no harm was done, then it wouldn’t be a crime. And if harm was done then the act is malicious. Whether the aggressor feels that it is malicious is inconsequential.
@@987ujhpl 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Honestly the apology isn’t for you to accept
Dee Kosh aka Darryl Ian Koshy had pleaded guilty in May 2022 to one charge of offering cash to a minor for sexual services, and to another charge under the Children and Young Persons Act for the attempted sexual exploitation of a young person. He had also pleaded guilty to a charge under the Films Act for filming himself in 2016 or 2017 engaging in sex acts with a man aged between 23 and 25.
Don't let him change the narrative. Dee Kosh is an Ex-Offender , Sexual Offender , Pedophile.
@@pepethefrog3651 yes it is. Because this is a PR move. He needs to public to accept.
Xx - if Dee target Dash and Dash told you that he rejected Dee, do you think Dash is the victim??
If true. Kong Hee didn't learn a thing during his jail time. Remember what he was in jail for - greed, selfishness, thinking just about himself.
and er... sugaring and paying for sex are 2 different things Dee, I've had several sugar daddies - none of which I ever had to perform s3x acts on... if someone is paid for that stuff it's just called pr0stituti0n
Ya, I thought most sugar baby and sugar daddy like all they do is like maybe go out together eat together and like talk with each other and stuff no sex
@@Nyan26 yeap XXX is a no no sir you just paying for my time not my body 🤭
girl u slay
i believe it depends on the arrangement! i know sugar babies who are agreeable to have sex at a certain fee
@@redsparksss that's why I said most haha
I like that Xiaxue had Dee Kosh’s back through this whole saga ❤
wonder how her son feels about that when he finds out next time!
Says so much abt her own twisted views😂😂😂
All things already been said so idk if it's worth sharing but after the exposé person A put his workbio as influencer couple of months after when everything went quiet during the investigation. Now he remove his insta. Which made me have super mixed feelings la 😒 there was also the twitter thread but almost all of the original post have either been removed or suspended?? Dee not so innocent either his texts made me cringed but to say they were victims...... I'm sus
Finished the full video! Thank you for providing us with insight. Kudos to XiaXue for the time and resources for this.
Real people real conversation. I like the friendship between u two. I hope everyone have the chance to watch till the end and let dee have his side of story spoken. I also think dee became more humble and down to earth. Which is good
He wants ur attention for the money to start flowing again. If he really is remorseful, he dont have to do a video to tell u.
Dude still trying to say "its ok" but in actual fact, what he did was just rightfully wrong and sick. It was proven in court.
I think he look so much better now and I always believe God let u go thru all this so u will grow up and better door's will open up for u. U r very lucky u have your family sypport and some good friends. Now I remember why I don't watch his RUclips last time because he give me a bad vibe but now he look so different and look better. Lost all the weight. God bless u Dee and all the best for your future!
God agrees with homosexual? Which part of bible suggests that?
I really don’t understand why XX even bother to interview him. Like it’s 2023, who gives a F** about dee kosh? He is out dated and irrelevant. I’m sure most of you are not even thinking about him because that’s how much he matters in todays social media era.
Can still get a few views from the perv mah...😂😂😂
Bring filmed doing such acts WITHOUT consent is making the person being filmed a VICTIM…
Imagine being traumatised about being filmed whenever you try to be intimate. Wtf?????
God. Why do we even give people like him a platform. He was awful even before he was charged with those sexual assault allegations. He wasn’t even sorry he did those things, he was sorry he got caught. I believe he can turn a new leaf and he may very well have; I just find his humour and his want for fame off-putting.
That said, you are a good friend. It takes a lot of courage and personal conviction to publicly support him in this way after what went down.
This video has a lot of sharing and knowledge. Very genuine sharing. Xiaxue does a lot of homework too.
Just saw this and would like to thank Wendy for being such a sweet and amazing person ❤️ And Dee, your new life is beginning :)
"A lot are GenZ, cannot write properly". Idk why but the way she said it made me laugh!
He wasn't really in the closet. The first time i met him was at Play Club which was a gay club (I've seen him there a few times). I dont think he was a DJ yet. He introduced himself and was very outspoken and friendly. My gaydar was def ticking.
Sick
okay slay but realistically if you ask a p3d0 if he's a p3d0 of course they would deny, no?
I’m assuming you haven’t watched the video right? Maybe finish watching it first
@@xiaxue no I was referring to the video title I highly doubt anybody would admit to being one like how a cannibal won't ever publicly say that they are
@@Asian6oy haha true I guess. But the title was not referring to me asking him if he were one
yea the title is just click bait for ppl to watch. Maybe she wont even ask him if hes a p-do
@@xiaxue The medical definition cut-off is age 13. He solicited a 15 years old boy. Is that 2 years really a large distinction for you?
i watched till the end! hehe thank u dee n xx!
I can't say I support dee kosh 100%, he isn't the best of person and still shows glimpses of his alleged toxic personality esp the part when he exposed the alleged pedo in the last part of the vid. dont get me wrong, i do not condone the sick acts but i sincerely hope that everyone that comes out of prison deserves a second chance to change. if only we can stop being so judgmental and be gracious to ex-convicts, i am sure people won't re-offend.
*I just found out today that these guys broke up. What happened?* I used to watch them all the time and then I didn’t see their videos for a while so I searched them and I could not find anything. Does anyone know what happened? 🤔
We didn't accept Amos yee, but we can accept dee kosh? Where's the moral compass?
Why thsi deecok could become a influencer is largely due to the younger generation and lgbtq community. The former are impressionable and the latter a bunch of pervs..
Our top no 1 SG local chiobu queen is back yay👐
I'm curious to know if Dee is still friends with Ryan & Nathan. They were pretty vocal about supporting Dee initially.
He is still friends with Ryan.
@@jen5138 i dont think so dee doesnt follow ryan. Anyway he also referred to nathan as "when he was still friend with me". Sylvia liked xiaxue's dee video, but ryan doesnt.
to be fair, the boys that were “proclaimed” victims they also played their part and led him on / were ok to have sex w dee… i just feel it’s a two hands to clap thing.
aren’t they underage
@@minlingg91 fr.. and the number of likes that the comment received is concerning too
Dee kosh tried to silenced the boys by threatening a defamation suit and even sent a cease and desist.
They are victims of his threats.
He was a celebrity while the kids are just nobodys.
@@minlingg91 he plead guilty to three charges.
1) he propositioned a 17 year old for commercial sex
2) he propositioned a 15 year old for commercial sex
3) he made a sex film with a 23 year old
His lawyer pled for 2 months of jail but he was given 8 months due to severity of the case with the 17 year old and not the other two cases.
They argued that he needed to be punished more harshly because he:
- posted an image of the 17 year old online asking if anyone knew his contact.
- was aware he was 17 before he propositioned him for commercial sex.
- asked to move the convo to Snapchat from whatsapp so the convo can be deleted.
Prosecutor argued he used his influence as DJ and social media star to purposely contact the victim and then knowingly propositioned him for paid sex despite knowing he is under 18. The convo move to Snapchat suggested he knew it was illegal and he wanted to hide his convo.
Ironically if he had not offered money in return for sex I don't think it would have been a chargeable offence.
Honestly, he broke the law and did his time which is great. But idk why people expect we give him the same energy we do to those who commit sexual assault.
this comment section really is full of pedo defenders blaming CHILDREN. there is no hope left in the world
X: I think they wasting resources leh
D: because I think usually people run (?)
X: No??!!
D: Yes, I’ve been to jail, ppl run
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I think dee may not be a pedo but he may like boys around their late teens to early 20s, which is still gross to me considering he's approaching his 30s. Hope he gets a fresh new start and repent (easier said than done) and also treasure your family since they emulated God's love to you. Don't repent too late.
I never really like Xia Xue but I have really got to give credit where it's due. She was there for Sylvia and Deekosh when nobody stood by then. Truly a friend that one can lean on with their eyes close when trouble arises.
Tbh it’s kinda obvious Dee likes boys too idk why it’s hard to tell. But also this whole saga is honestly pointless. JUST BECAUSE he is a “famous” guy he got caught easily there are much more guys MUCH WORSE THAN DEE that never got caught cause they were a nobody.
His claim is that his age preference doesn't technically fall under the pedo definition. Which from a very strictly technical viewpoint is correct, since the medical definition is age 13
and?? just because someone else did worse doesn’t mean this guy shouldn’t be reminded about and punished for what he did?
@@sybill123ful which part did I say he doesn’t deserve it?
Isn’t the saga caused by the aggressor? He was lawyering up when the first allegations were made, if he had quietly accepted his mistakes and not try to feign innocence there would be no saga.
At the end of the day after so much drama, did you reflect what you have done ? Every action has a consequence. Its a chapter that will either make you to be a better person or spiral downhill to make you worse. I hope for the better.
48:52 LMAO XX !!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
apologetic or not? cant tell
Not of course.
What I truly cannot understand after watching this whole video is why Dee Kosh would still continue to be sooo sexually explicit with his life after this whole episode. Even post saga, he talks about paying for sex, and f-ing people soo explicitly - it's like its a part of his life that he is very proud and unashamed of. Does he have any shame, really? Even if he doesn't think of himself, he should at least think for his parents - whom he has said were deeply hurt by what happened. Which mother would be happy to know that her son constantly goes around talking about f-ing people, especially after being implicated in such a dramatic criminal case. To Dee: I genuinely feel that you should rein in your promiscuity. If not for yourself, but for your loved ones who care about you. Regardless of whether what you are doing is "legal" or not .... have some shame. some decorum. some self-respect. really.
I believe I speak for everyone when I say, "No one cares..."
xiaxue! watched your old videos again and i thought omggg u look so chio now!!! so much better!!! 😍
Omg the pedo teacher sounds familiar, similar to the teacher from my school. I hope it's not. Coz his case was a long time ago though. Can't be he is still in prison. 🤔
can a reverse interview be done about xiaxue's divorce?
She also unfollowed her mom after her divorce. And she never mentioned anything about celebrating Mother’s Day with her mom. Her son has autism and she denies it. Something is broken within her family😞
@@jasperherr8694 lol how is his son autistic? I worked with Dashiel before and she is not only street smart but he is very polite, conscientious eventhou he is an introvert
@@jasperherr8694 wow, you sure are up to date with her personal life, if I didn’t know, I would have thought you were her dedicated fan 🤗
@@jasperherr8694😂😂😂 you deducing all these based on social media?? My family doesn't celebrate birthdays or mothers day or fathers day. We have no such tradition. But we get along fine🤭🤣
I enjoy this video immensely. I watched twice!! Hope to watch more videos of Dee Kosh n Xie Xue!! Keep going guys!! Rooting for success n love for you both ❤
ye he made a lot people of guys famous. thanks to him but you can’t use that reason to forget what he did cmon. he is living happily here meanwhile the boys out there still suffering from trauma.
A very good interview. Very real talk 👍
tbh xiaxue hair v nice in this video!! so wavy i cant stop looking at her hair
aiyo all these comments rly 😭 like if you don’t like deekosh or don’t care abt the explanation/drama then why are you even here ???? just look away la nobody forcing you to watch
Same on you
Being famous or so-called influencers are indeed double-edged sword. One could argue that you do get more of the up sides than the down sides, but one can't deny that you get some of the down sides too, in a greater degree compare to someone who aren't famous. Everyone has their vices and being famous sometimes could lead to a worse outcome. I feel for Dee Kosh all the way, especially given that he has paid for his crimes.
Dee Kosh aka Darryl Ian Koshy had pleaded guilty in May 2022 to one charge of offering cash to a minor for sexual services, and to another charge under the Children and Young Persons Act for the attempted sexual exploitation of a young person. He had also pleaded guilty to a charge under the Films Act for filming himself in 2016 or 2017 engaging in sex acts with a man aged between 23 and 25.
Don't let him change the narrative. Dee Kosh is an Ex-Offender , Sexual Offender , Pedophile.
So which part of these do you feel exactly? Are you saying that you support such predatory behaviour? you support pedo?
Influencers like them could only succeed with likes of you. Weak minds.
sorry can i just say the closed captions is damn funny, like it doesn't make sense at all HAHAH i'm up for hire if you need someone to subtitle for you :))))
No wonder. I was watching it outside without my earpiece and trying to read the closed captions but it didn’t make sense so i stopped 😂
Xiaxue is clever and could be using Dee for clout at this point. She could be riding this wave to catch this clout
This interview is likely from a business stand point for her.
In this world it’s about what benefits can we gain from the other person. Nothing is true friendship.
Look at Ryan and Sylvia when Dee was still with NOC. They were supposed to be best friends but when the saga first came out, they immediately sacked dee and wanted nothing to do with Him.
No such thing as best friends one
Very glad to see Dee had tremendous growths these days after his jail term ended. He seems matured more and stronger. I never was a fan but liked to watch his comedy last time on RUclips as entertainment . Right now looking at Dee, he is just giving like a sunshine vibe to the broken soul.
😮 i maybe exaggerated about the statement .. but yeah nothing more than to just wish Dee a good wish and all the best moving fwd from now on . Happy for him he get a new chance and had alrdy passed his ordeal. I am sure Dee had leaned so much from his mistakes and the lesson in life had brought him today.
Have a responsible and happy life DK🎉🎉🎉
Deecok 😂😂😂 sunshine??? Are u on drugs?
@@drawinjackson6324 i am not on drugs but maybe u are , ppl commenting like yours really cannot see sunshine . Thats why many others committed suicide just becoz of some comments.
My advice to u @drawinjackon6324
Life ur life to fullest and learn to give others a chance to grow too. Deekosh may not be a saint but i am sure he has his value too in his life. Nobody is righteous , mistakes in life tend to be made for some. But even the state also had alrdy released him , then why we cannot try to accept that the fact he is a freeman now.
If u read really carefully on my comment, i generating towards move on , maybe u are stuck with the past ..🤷♀️
Deekosh is just talented in talking. After listening to daily ketchup even the same question there is variation of how he response. N clearly xia xue made him so much more comfortable n open to share more stuff than what was shared on daily ketchup. U can see how happy is xia xue w dee kosh. I hope their friendship stays strong. 💪Respect in having to keep fwb as legitimate frens. All human have they sex needs. Its just not very comment topic in Asia to talk about it though it is getting more.
thats is why if deekosh is not good at talking and not charismatic,I believe he will get more hate.I am waiting to see whether amos yee will get a second change if he comes backs to singapore.amos is clearly not as charismatic as dee kosh so will society give him a second change?
@@milkboysg4595 there is a chinese saying. 人比人，气死人. When u r trying to compare one person to another, u r just trying to drive urself mad. Because everyone is clearly different. It's not just charismatic or talking skills. Every individual have different personality, preference n mindset. And whats most important is the mindset which leads to the reasons behind individual actions. I have no idea why would u want to compare it w amos. Someone with repeated offence which is clearly so different. Proofing that his jail time did not wake him up. Just by listening to how they talk u will likely be able to guess what they r thinking n their thought process if its on the right track. It might not be a skill difference that makes a difference. Honestly i wasnt a fan of dee kosh n am still not. But to be fair these 2 are complete different case. Second chance needs to be earned. Not just by blabbering w no basis. Time will tell and show the difference.
Dee, don’t be sad anymore. past is past. u come out to explain on ur behalf is already super brave!! all the best in the future!!
Dee is a great story teller. I hope he has a channel where he can share more stories of his life.
Don't give up Dee! It's a fresh new start.
Can someone please tell me more about the paedophilic teacher case? 😰😰😰
this was honestly a great watch, and yeah thank fucking god he isnt that paedophile that everyone thought he was, just my own opinion! thanks for doing this video really , hes still such a good story teller and a great entertainer, so god to have watched this fully
When the news came out I didn't believe it at all.
even tho he is not a pedophile,the very act of messaging someone who is below 18 is just wrong.Obviously he is just defending himself but to me,I feel feel very sus when he claim he did not know what he did was illegal.
A sex predator nonetheless
@@987ujhpl shut up la cb
Totally! I want him back!
What is the purpose if this interview?
He literally was convicted.
Hi can someone tell me which author they’re talking about at 1:11:59? Diane steels or something? Any book recommendation? Thanks so much 😄
Danielle Steel lol... Her books are mainly romance. Sorry, I can't give recommendations cos I haven't read her books. Romance genre ain't my cuppa tea 😬😬
@@StArLiTe5691HAHA thank you!! 🙌🏻
@Bot , no probs at all! 😃
i still dont understand why he wants to claim he is bisex.
he is a gay and always a gay.
from the first vid i saw of him, his gesture, his voice, his shirts, his jokes, his use of words, HIS EVERYTHING SCREAM GAY.
and what a stupid world we r living in even his supposedly friends dont know he is a gay.
lol
Xiaxue Your HAIR!!!!!! Yes, I watched the entire video. And no, I was one of those who DM-ed you when you were being cancelled last time. Great interview, but I couldn’t really hear some parts.
"Give Shanmugam a raise" HELP xD
I know I DM-ed Xiaxue about this (she sometimes answer la, makes me super happy lol). Like what she said, she's a super anti-pedophile person, why she's still friends w him? I wanna hear from her, because I mean, those who followed Xiaxue for so long would know, if he really is, she would've washed him maybe even killed him but she didn't so it made me believe that there is more than what was told to us.
I'm glad to have sat through this video. Sucks that Dee Kosh cannot make contents on YT anymore because of this whole saga. Like what he said - no one benefitted from this whole thing so what's the point? Upside(?) is at the expense of him, we now know about laws like this eg having to plead guilty for a whole charge even when you only did part of it. The law system should make some changes to this and target case to case basis.
Seriously all those people who reported should sit through psychological tests/lie detector as well - if they are clear and understand what they were doing (eg the consensual oral intercourse one) or that they lied, they should be charged for wrongfully accusing others.
Wtf? Law should be tailored for pervs? Are you lgbtq too? 😂😂😂
Eh bruh what u mean like just abit doesn’t count as real victim ah ? Joke leh.
When Dee said he has not enough balance on his app for food and only 48 cents left in the bank...
The views.... seems like more people are interested in the NOC drama than dee kosh's story.
Noc involved many people.
the juicy details are already out. no new perspective
dee kosh already made couple of videos already and this xx only got the tea quite late so the story quite boring already
Hi Xiaxue, you have a very cute son. Uncle Dee Kosh thinks so too!
LOL “sympathy f*ck” 😂😂😂
He still did that to UNDERAGED BOYS. No victim blaming cos the ADULTS have to take responsibility fr their actions. And how is he still on RUclips? If Amos Yee and Eden Ang is gone from RUclips shouldn't he be too? Are people just brushing it off? wtf bruh
Thanks for this episode. Really love xiaxue hair
No way so many made police report just to discredit you. You know what you have done very well. Although you have a long way to go, trying to make yourself less guilty will backfired. Learned from your mistake, admit it and move on to other career if you cannot restart in the entertainment circle. Dont make another wrong move by trying to prove your innocence and make other victim/s which have not spoken out.
Not him again..
I have followed xiaxue for a long time and I trust her. It’s so important for people to share their experiences and the truth be covered. I have a law degree and I’m still clueless 😂 I wish him the best.
Then our law is fugged.
Dee Kosh solicited them which is wrong in the court of law; he served his time and I am not a big fan of Dee but he served his time; victim don't get paid... victim would be survivor of sexual crimes; the two don't correlate at all...at the end of the day, Dee is a good storyteller but the stigma is kinda real... he can't even open a company bank account for a company he is in right now (removed his name in the applications and instantly approved)... this is an injustice for the rest of the world towards criminals who served their time given by the legal system
He def not Bi.. Purest Gay Soul
Would love to see more collab. U both are such good pod-caster (if that's a word)
Totally agree I enjoy both of their pod cast however I enjoy Dee's more
But fr fr after this Dee should do a Sylvia and work off camera only. Might be better for him. His days on cam/ on-air are over I reckon
Dee is not saying it right. Danielle steel writes romance, sexual books, but Sidney Sheldon’s thriller crime stories. Did he really read them like what he said?
Jia you Xia Xue . Keep up the good work! You’re a good person ❤
Xiaxue, you shouldnt cut bits and bits of video out because people will think this interview shows 1 side of the story and blanked the other side. I watched half and I stopped.