'Doomsday Cult Mom Murders' | Victim to Verdict with Ted Rowlands
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- Опубликовано: 27 окт 2023
- #VictimToVerdict | Lori Vallow Daybell, the Doomsday Cult Mom, is serving life in prison for the murders of her two children, JJ Vallow, 7, and Tylee Ryan, 17, as well as her fifth husband and self-proclaimed Doomsday Prophet Chad Daybell’s first wife, Tammy Daybell.
#CourtTV's Ted Rowlands goes through this bizarre case from the victims to the verdict.
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Poor Charles contacted police, who did ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. This cannot be over emphasized.
And the church leader who he thought would back him up threw him under the bus. Charles must have been so frustrated
Exactly
@@SendMeToTheVoid Gabe Bonilla, that's the name of the double-crossing stake president. Another one who has blood on his hands.
I believe the Arizona Police are the slackest ….. I’ve ever seen ….. On actual Videos they don’t seem alarmed …… who knows if the Police had taken Charles serious maybe just maybe the kids might still be alive ❤❤
The police did what they could and recommended a mental health exam but he should have hired a lawyer and sued for custody and contacted children’s services. The police were not the answer.
Charles didn't just "die." He was MURDERED. Words mean a lot.
Very true. This was a homicide.
Yes ! He was MURDERED, He didn’t just pass away. Say it how it is !
“Hi Neighbors, sorry” cold blooded
Only someone as crazy as Lori would leave Charles for a big toe.
😂😂😂
But she's not crazy 😬
Fantastic description! And yes, you're right.
Hahahaha .. too funny!
Toe 🐸
Lori did not deserve Charles nor did Chad deserve Tammy. Both were too good for the likes of these MONSTERS!
Agreed. Charles and Tammy were loyal, loving, intelligent, caring, generous, and hardworking spouses. They were pretty much the ideal partners. Whereas, Chad and Lori are both lying, cheating, selfish, manipulative, and murderous. They were the absolute worst partners. I hope that Chad gets the DP for murdering Tammy, Tylee, same JJ.
Her estranged husband was murdered by her brother and she’s laughing and making jokes. Why wasn’t that a warning sign to the police? They didn’t dog it up until the kids were found
I deal with traumatic situations with humor and even I find this odd.
"Pretty" Privilege, I think (though I don't think Lori is pretty at all). So easy to fool the police with looks. Should have at least looked at Lori's record and saw her previous husbands were all dead
Charles played baseball and was very good at it yet he hit Alex on the back of the head and didn’t even leave a limp or bruise 😢
How sad .
The police in Arizona were a JOKE. The police in Rexburg were not much better at the wellness check.
This should be death penalty not life in prison.
In Lori's case there was some type of error that occurred to where it made it not possible for her to receive the Death Penalty. But Chad is facing the Death Penalty.
A mother should always put their child first , rule of thumb ❤🙏.
And god
@@barbmurray8557 who?
@@barbmurray8557 Pan?
@barbmurray8557 That would be good too, if god existed. Which he doesn't so....
She has no soul .only lust.
I love listening to Ted Rowland’s voice, literally takes any story up a notch. Doesn’t matter what case he’s speaking on. 🔥🔥🔥
I'm living for the moment in Chad's trial when the "storm" text is shown.
If he takes a plea deal we might not get to see the drama
@@deadmanswife3625 For the sake of the victims' families I hope so but nothing we've seen so far points that way and I don't really get why 🤔🤔
@@StellaFl Yeah, you’d think after the last one, they’d deal real fast. His fancy lawyer might be over confident.
@@justkiddin84perhaps the state hasn't offered a plea deal
@@msaijay1153they probably won’t after Lori’s successful conviction. He might have gotten a deal earlier if he had tried.
This could have been stopped had Charles been taken seriously. Sad and crazy
True statement
The oldest son sure changed his view on his mom by the end of the trial
Justice is slow but its coming for you Chad.
I have had to put my life and body on the line to protect my child from my violent husband and I can not imagine doing anything else other than what I did. She is an insult to mothers and this story proves how often the police fail people. Even here in Sydney Australia. RIP to all victims! ❤
❤❤❤❤
😘😘😘
You are a real mum, and she's demon.
Nate Eaton is one of the best reporters, on this case and many other cases.
Been following this from UK 🇬🇧 and think Nate Eaton is in a class of his own re his reporting of this case.
If it wasn't for Kay and Larry would anyone to this day be missing those children?
Brandon
Definitely not the Coxes or Melani Pawlaski. And I'm not even sure about Colby. He was unable to talk to his sister on the phone for months but started receiving a steady flow of thousands of dollars from her Venmo from the day we now know she was murdered and then didn't raise hell to make contact.
Plenty people started wondering where they were
@@bobo25500 Like who?
Yes, Charles has other family. Some of Lousi’s family cared too. Teachers, neighbors (and one neighbor died of ‘pulmonary embolisms’ as well.
IMO they are a trio of serial killers.
BEING "BLONDE & THIN" DOESN’T MAKE SOMEONE BEAUTIFUL, THAT BEGINS ON THE INSIDE & LORI VALLOW DID’NT SEEM TO HAVE AN OUNCE OF THAT.
Yes, but the fact is people are judged superficially and on their appearance.
Lori had that pretty cheerleader look, a pleasant voice, and knew how to charm, and that combination clearly made some people melt.
@It-is-me...Melsie
LUST WILL MAKE MANY PEOPLE MELT & THAT WAS EXACTLY WHERE HER HUSBAND WAS AT THAT'S JUST A FACT.
AS FOR HER SPEAKING WELL, IN ALL HONESTY SHOWS VERY LITTLE ABOUT BEAUTY, INSIDE OR OUT.
@@cheryl5994 Why so shouty?
It's not always lust which causes people to respond well to an attractive and charming person. Lori could charm both men and women.
I'm confused.. Except for what looks like a nice figure for her age I fail to see anything beautiful about her. Nothing whatsoever stands out to me except she looks like a younger version of her mum
SAY IT AGAIN, SISTER❤
This case has been so sad from the beginning. All over Cult behavior from very unstable people. The children and any normal sane adult did not have a chance. Kay and Larry really tried to keep their relationship with JJ going to no avail. Their heartbreak is tremendous. Their strength to be admired.
Not sure what you mean about Kay and Larry. They still have their relationship?
@@christineoleary3862 Relationship with JJ. My words were unclear.....
Absolutely! LD$- jodiAuris, tedBundy, chadDaybell, stevenPowell, meganHuntsman, Haight murders, rubyFranke, jodiHildbrandt, joshPowell, kevinFranke, too many to count ! Something is obviously wrong! C U L T
I agree. And Kay and Larry are amazing people. Add Kresha in there too. She is on fire with her research.
Annie is also an amazing person, she is the only one who has fought for tylee, without bashing her and using her as a prop or tool to get what they want or need. Annie IS TYLEE’S ONLY TRUE ADVOCATE
Nate Easton of East Idaho News is a star.
Shame on Arizona police dept. For allowing Charles' to be murdered by that monster!
It is NOT the job of the police to protect citizens from harm.
@@Ausgar-yc1yl 😅😅
@@Ausgar-yc1yl it is
@@bobo25500Wrong, it is NOT. It is NOT the job of the police to protect citizens from harm. Try again when you actually know what you are talking about.
@@Ausgar-yc1yl is
Utah is a hot mess! This and the Franke/Hildebrand case are horrific!
Why did Tylee tell cops she kept a bat in her room because she did that when she stayed at her Uncle Alex house, why??
Visions of Glory…is a blueprint for this case..
Years ago I lived in Rexburg. The keystone cops are more concerned with monitoring kids holding hands for the mormon church than actual crime.
How exactly did this lady think it would go when she was asked to produce the kids and she couldn't.
It’s the end of the world! No one would ask🙄. She has gotten by with literally everything for her whole life, what else would she expect?
It enrages me every time I see the footage of Charles and the police and how they Don't take him seriously. Especially the little troggle officer that says "Angel,LDS .." and by doing so essentially is dismissing Charles concerns bc She is also LDS and thinks it's just a religious thing... and the husband is just being a husband... Sick.
It is NOT the job of the police to protect citizens from harm.
Sexist to say the least. Men reporting DV are not taken seriously sadly.
@@Ausgar-yc1yl it is
@@Ausgar-yc1yl last time I checked! It is their job to serve and protect 👮♀️
@@peggyjohnson2438 Wrong. It is NOT the job of the police to protect citizens from harm and you have NO idea what you are talking about. Protect and serve does NOT mean citizens it means the laws of the constitution only. My husband was a cop while in law school and has been an attorney for over 30 years and was a prosecutor for 12 years. I think we know what their job is. Google the question.....are police obligated to protect citizens from harm....they are NOT and they are NOT even obligated to respond when you call 911. You might want to actually know what you are talking about.
Charles Vallow "died July 2019"??? I think you mean "was murdered July 11, 2019." He didn't just die from old age or some incurable disease...
"Where are the kids?" - Nate Eaton. Such a rockstar reporter!
Lori is an absolute monster for laughing at Colby while they were on the phone and he was confronting her for murdering his siblings. My heart breaks for poor Colby, it had to be so difficult and traumatic for him to lose everyone in his immediate family because his mother chose to murder them. Lori is a heartless monster and I hope that she is miserable every day for the rest of her life.
If only convictions could bring back victims. These cases are cold and calculated.
"Kids, I want you home more than I want to breathe." 😢
Melanie Gibb "covering" for her friend is confusing and nonsensical to me. Did she not think to ask "but where is he though?"
tf
God Bless Kay and Larry xoxo
In the bodycam of Lori and Chad being served in Hawaii Chad looks kind of nervous, and he seems to be looking to Lori as to how to react. Until then I think Potato Head actually thought they were going to get away with this. Especially knowing how Lori had so easily gotten rid of Joe and Charles. And his own wife was still not cold in the grave. Until this time he thought all his stupid dreams had come true.
The city and the police department that Charles called is heavily Mormon so he got nowhere with them because nothing he said was something they hadn’t heard before. These fringe Mormon groups were very active in that area. When he mentioned the death threat though, that should’ve elevated it to another level. Heartbreaking they didn’t pay closer attention to his warnings
It is NOT the job of the police to protect citizens from harm.
Thought so. The priesthood power.
@@Ausgar-yc1yl Stop. Enough with this.
@@ubidacosta3317 Why don't YOU actually learn what their job is. You stop.
Nice work Ted. I enjoy these documentary style in depth case reviews. Chanleigh does a terrific job for Court TV !
This case is sickening. 😢. People are so twisted you don’t even know what and who your dealing with anymore. What’s on the outside is completely different from the inside keep your distance.
It's not new.
True 😢
So many dead around them ! Joseph , Charles , Tammy then JJ and Tylee and finally Alex the hit man !!! They are all very dangerous !
What about the Melanie’s ? Where are they and why haven’t they been arrested??? They are involved….. Alex’s wife she’s involved…..they all need to go down for their part in theses CRIMES 🤬🤬🤬
Still waiting for Melanie Powloski to be charged with the attempted murder of Brandon
Unbelievable how obvious they were in the time line. The killings and then marriage right after. What WERE THEY THINKING??????
All these people blah blah blahing... why did they not stand with Charles... He begged everyone, He warned everyone. Charles did not pass He was REDUMed!
Give the reporter asking where are your kids his flowers!
Charles knew his sis Kay would battle Lori
It is NOT the job of the police to protect citizens from harm.
Because they had all chosen to believe Lori and after he was murdered - which proved he was right- , they STILL sided with Lori. smh
@@Ausgar-yc1yl it is
Charles didn’t just die he was murdered!
Lori really must be CRIMANALLY INSANE for her to sit there and LAUGH at her grieving son Colby about his siblings death!
She is truly a very sick individual and Chump Dingbell is as well!😊
Possession
Chad's potato voice, who could ever think that was alluring?
😂😂😂 Only a kook like Lori.
😂
Take a look at Marshall Applewhite. Or Daniel Perez. Creepy voices, bland banal faces.
He had absolutely NOTHING to offer so he became a God . Lol
@justkiddin84 Warren jeffs too....creepy lizard people
5:50 Charles died......more like murdered.
This whole case is just shocking . I believe joe ryan was murdered and the SA accusation was a big fat lie. I still wish i saw lori face when she found out she wasnt getting charles money . As lori had actually called up and chsnged the will (or she got alex or chad to pretend to be Charles). Looking forward for chads day in court . He deserves evetyrging he gets . Rip to all the victims . Including brandon who was lucky to survive.
This is an awful case - this is the ultimate betrayal of a mother and her children deserved a mother who put them first. I feel the Morman Church need to find away to protect their members, especially children, from abuse and unsavoury personality types because ‘benefit of doubt’ isn’t working.
Most churches and religious organizations protect the abusers while blaming the young victims.
Charles didn’t pass he was murdered .If the police had listened to him instead of virtually laughing in his face he might still be alive 😡
Law enforcement should be looking at Julie Row.
Who is Julie Row?
@@Friendofstfrank she is a doomsday cult leader. She claims to have visions pertaining to end-times events like Chad Daybell.
Issue is people around them at church or whatever they call it believed supported their stupid believes and delusions , didn’t do much..
That's the sad part of it all.
Wtf?? How do u stop serial killers? Don't blame anyone but THEM
@@bobo25500 It's not like they were like Ted Bundy killing random strangers, they were killing family members. Let's look at only some of the missed opportunities to stop them:
💩 Gabe Bonilla, LDS stake president, ear witness of Lori saying crazy stuff to Charles, was present when Charles was reporting her to Gilbert PD but kept his mouth shut leaving his claims completely unsupported.
💩 Adam Cox, Lori's brother: pretends he's on Charles' side, takes advantage of him to get a free flight to AZ on the pretence he was going to contact another stake president and help organize an intervention for Lori. Ditches him and goes to hang out with his sister Summer, play basketball with his son Zac and visit friends instead of doing what he had promised to do. After the murder, he hides under a rock and NEVER volunteers to contact Chandler PD with everything he knew. THEY track him down a month later after HIS WIFE had contacted them.
💩 Summer Shifflet, Lori's sister: Knew all about "Lori's mission" and how she "had help from the other side" and cheered her on.
💩 Gilbert PD, AZ: Police officer ON BODYCAM advising Lori how to evade being taken by the police to Community Bridges for a court-mandated 72 hour evaluation.
💩 Community Bridges: they let Lori go after a couple of hours' (NOT 72 as the court had mandated) psych eval
💩Chandler PD, AZ: Botched Charles Vallow's murder investigation. They shoved all the HARD evidence under the rug and never made an arrest for what was a clear-cut murder case. Lori and Alex were free to kill 3 more people.
💩Melanie Gibb, Audrey Barratiero, Zulema Pastenes, David Warwick: All 4 knew what happened to zombies and they all kept their mouths shut and supported Lori and Chad. Gibb even said about Charles' murder :"They had been planning it for months and months and months".
They ALL have blood on their hands. Lori, Chad and Alex could have been stopped at least after Charles was murdered but noone lifted a finger.
I want to know how they all paid for their own apartments when no one was working?
This whole thing was about money, so her and Chad could move to Hawaii an not have to work.
Did he have a crack in his head? Bruise, blood, anything???? No one has addressed this thus far
What about Charles murder? ..though he was killed by Loris brother Alex, it was all orchestrated by Lori and she too killed her own brother.
She's being transferred to Arizona now to face charges for Charles's death. Finally.
all this could have been prevented if only the police listen to Charles. police are just as responsible, they could have saved Charles and the children. They did nothing. Alex shots him and they don't even arrest him. They are now making another big mistake not arresting Melanie, before she gets a hold of her kids and her ex husband.
I just don’t get how cold the parents can be!! These children deserve parents (step parents) who love them!!!
If only Arizona cops had listened to Charles!!!!
I ALSO THINK DAVIDS "NIGHTMARE" WAS ACTUALLY HIM SEEING/HEARING JJ BEING KILLED
It’s a pleasure to watch Ted. Such a sad and crazy case . Wait till she goes to Arizona
Charles wasn't Loris Ex Husband
At the time he was killed no.
He was
Point taken.
He was her ex husband
He was not they were not divorced
JUSTICE FOR CHARLES
That smile…. she’s insane
Doesn't make any difference if he gets the death sentence or not.His fate is sealed as soon as he gets to prison.
Charles “passed? Oh ffs…Lori’s brother unalived him.
I think they killed Alex also
Most probably they did or persuaded him to DIY himself somehow.
!?Lori could have left both children with Kay and Larry. !?
Isn't this a re-upload? Or maybe I've just consumed too much about this case so it seems familiar
I still don’t understand why chad wife did have autopsy done a healthy woman just dies my aunt dropped dead from heart attack and there was autopsy to confirm it since she died in her home I thought it was the law unless it was in a hospital or they were 90 or had a terminal illness
It might have to do with the fact that the decision was made by a coroner and not a medical examiner. In order to be eligible to run for coroner in Idaho all you need is to be at least 21 years old, a citizen of the United States and a resident of the specific county for one year. If you win the election, you must complete annually at least eight hours of training. So yeah.... not surprised. Also, it is highly likely they were LDS which might have played a part in their not suspecting such an "upstanding" LDS author like Chad 🤢
Yes, my husband died suddenly of a heart attacked and an autopsy was required because he was so young and his death so sudden when he was apparently fit and healthy. This NZ though.
Brandon’s Ex wanted him dead. She had Alec try to kill him. She got away with attempted murder. The she stalked him and wasn’t even arrested.
Excellent story teller. I may have heard this before, but I've slowed it down a bit to get all these details to register.
Notice how 8Passengers woman is same just the same dillusional amd you can bet her chad will stand by her untill shes sent to prison because she has things on him too?
Her eyebrows are like a cartoon character 😅😅😅😂😂
I’ve always thought it was so smart of Charles to change the life insurance policy to Kay.
The police saw a good looking blonde and ignored Charles, didn’t take him seriously at all. I hope this case is used to properly train law enforcement. Charles told the police that Lori said that she could murder him. The police failed Charles dreadfully. Had they properly investigated Charles’ death maybe the kids would still be alive. Also if Chad didn’t rate the kids as zombies they’d still be alive. This case is so bizarre. How about Lori’s niece, why hasn’t she been charged. If she didn’t say anything negative about Brendon there wouldn’t have been a hit out on him. I know you need evidence but, come on, Melanie, the niece, lived right next door to Lori, can’t they charge Melanie with conspiracy, I don’t know, but I really feel for JJ’s grandparents and Tylee f JJ’s brother, he lost his whole family.
I agree with you that Melaniece should be charged with conspiracy to commit the murder of her ex-husband Brandon. She had to have known that Alex was going to murder Brandon after he was labeled a zombie. You're right that if Chad hadn't started calling people zombies then they wouldn't have had a justification to murder anyone.
All about revenge and selfishness !
This is truly stranger than fiction!
I wonder what the mother and sister say now? They were adamant (delusional) that lori didn't do anything wrong and kids were safe. Remains found and all.
His new wife lori right after he killed his first wife tammy wow dud lori she know about tammy? Hes heartless murder
Yes, she knew about Tammy. Kind of hard for her to buy wedding rings for a wedding, if his wife wasn’t destined to die in a few weeks. She was found guilty of conspiring in Tammy’s death.
She says dead Tammy’s spirit is her “good friend” and that she’s very busy and happy in heaven. 🙄
Unrelated to Lori - is the judge for the eye drop murder trial the judge who handled Darryl Brooks?! She was incredible in that trial.
Yes, it's Judge Dorrow ❤
Melanie Gibb, Melani Palowski and Zulema all need to be in jail too IMO
LORI REPEATED HERSELF SO MUCH WHEN COPS SHOWED UP LOOKING FOR JJ
Given Chad Daybell's at least passable writing skills, he could catch a conscience in prison and really explain, in print of course, just exactly what really happened here. And why. Because this is a bizarre case.
Hes not got a concience
They are/were Preppers. The kids had life insurances and money to inherit.
Please get your facts straight because Charles Vallow was still married to Lori when he was killed, he wasn't an ex-husband to Lori, they were only living separately.
Separated = ex
@@It-is-me...MelsieWrong, that does NOT mean EX. Try again.
@@Ausgar-yc1yl Like I've said previously, yes it absolutely does.
Key pioint: he tells her they're outside, yet she still asks if they're seizing "stuff"?
"Stuff" is the one description that is beyond all feelings.
Logically, if they're not in the house, what "stuff" else would she be thinking about; in his yard? Dead giveaway.
I hope Charles gets his justice even though justice is a pittance for a life.
Jj looked so much like his paw-paw!!!
So so sd that LE wouldnt take this seriously until people lost their lives!
The police officers who responded to Charles's concerns have blood on their hands as far as im concerned!
Wonder if after Charles was murdered and this case blew up if those l.e. officers saw it and thought, OMG we should have listened or taken charles seriously?
Probably not though the cops never think nor admitt any wrong doing or negligence
💯 That's the incompetence we've come to expect from police departments in this country. When police departments intentionally hire people who are stupid and low in empathy this is what we get.
Such a tragic case for her children and families. God keep them all in his love. Great job on documentary.
Charles Vallow and Mrs. Woodcock are siblings.
I still believe that extraditing her to Arizona was a mistake. They should have left her alone to suffer in misery. Arizona will never sentence her to death. She is too crazy.
I have a feeling that the prison is AZ is going to be a lot less comfortable for her than the one in Idaho.
Oh you Christians 😆
She's not crazy though
She's not eligible for the death penalty in AZ as she's only charged with conspiracy to commit the murders, that's 25 to life. Also, I think (not sure 100%) that she has to serve her sentence in Idaho first and then (in a future probation 😆) be taken to AZ to serve the next sentence.
Charles and Brandon deserve justice. Plus, I've heard that the Maricopa county jail is much worse than Pocatello. Let her face those charges and that jury
You couldn't make it up!
So, basically, anyone who Lori and Chad found "inconvenient", was a "zombie"? How can you lie to yourself like this?
He got hit woth the bat in the back of the head? But he is just fine? No marks even? So you ... shot him. Wow.
Vinnie is the man
All You Zombies, a song by the Hooters in the 1980s. They didn't kill children or spouses though.
It sems as though she lost her mind.
So,So,So SAD 💔🙏💔🙏💔🙏💔🙏💔
From Boston Massachusetts
It's crazy how many of these cases have LDS at their roots.
Where are they ?❤❤❤
LDS and Scientologists, stay the f away from everyone . I don't care who this offends. Y'all are wrong. On every account.
Melanie Gibb knew everything and needs to be charged as an accomplice. Also Melanie Boudreaux
How can you lie to the police when kids are in danger ?
Kay lied to the police, bad mouthed Tylee then used her as a prop. She accused Tylee of killing charles. Come on people wake up
@@julesjay424 Tylee was involved in some ways in Charles ´s murder … Lori and Alex used her and she told to the police what Lori wanted .
@@christinecandelier7380 you should be ashamed of yourself!!!! She was an innocent 16 year old child! Who was abused her whole life! Sorry if the truth hurts about Kay and Larry, but it’s the truth. What people hand over a child they were given custody of to raise to another couple! Her brother is murdered and doesn’t jump on a plane IMMEDIATELY to go check on her grandson? And then bad mouths an innocent child, who was tossed aside, used and abused her whole entire life, and had nobody in her corner standing up for her she protected JJ with her life, and K and Larry should be singing her praises, instead of bad, mouthing her, and only using her as a prop when they wanted to get JJ back. She held back vital information to the chandler police, information that could have saved both JJ Tylee. Purged herself on the stand. It’s all in the FIOA docs if you bothered to read them which I’m sure you didn’t. You should be completely utterly ashamed of yourself and god help your children if you have any!
@@julesjay424 Sorry if I hurt your feelings . I didn’t know about the allegations made by Kay and Larry . I just said > because she testified at the police in favor of Alex . I understand that she was abused and manipulated by her evil mother . I am not accusing her . And I am very sad from these two children whose were innocent victims of two mad and selfish individuals .
@@christinecandelier7380 you didn’t hurt my feelings. Saying that a poor child who was brutally murdered helped participated in a murder that she has NOTHING to do with is what is offensive