Im sitting here watching this and writing my thoughts on paper because i can't do this shit anymore i'm fed up always making choices based on numbing my pain gaining pleasure through bad habits. Even though I've read the Coach Coreys book 4 times i know im only doing it half-hearted. I'm disappointed and frustrated!!!! The quote "People will do more to avoid pain than to gain pleasure" never resonated as much as it does right now. I'm starting to see a glimpse of clarity of how i behave and my beliefs. I guess i had to go through this pain to wake up to myself but at least I'm awake. Now to break down the barriers, rediscover myself because this is not the real me. Now to address this one chunk at a time. Blessings to everyone else on their journey.
Twister Corey Wayne I really appreciate all your help you've done my girlfriend left me after 10 years in a whim overnight bouncing on Valentine's Day for another fellow moved out of state haven't talked to her since I do kind of blame myself for not noticing all the red flags and I let the relationship go to hell I guess but I can't take all the blame she cheated on me once before I should have known better to let it go then I'm over the sadness and ship part of it like that but right now I'm in The Pissed Off part of her doing me wrong as far as the cheating and lying goes I just can't handle it constantly thinking about her every f****** day because I'm so f****** pissed off at what she did to me but I just bought your book I've been reading it on my second time reading it now I know I need to keep my mind busy with positive things and dating other women which helps a lot just can't get her off my mind about what she did to me it makes me want to f****** rip her head off anyway thanks a lot for all your advice and help I am a subscriber and I will never ever unsubscribe
This might be one of the best Corey videos.. It was uploaded 9 years ago and I’m just watching it now in January 2024.. I do so much to avoid pain, and then find myself in even more painful situations, like what he was describing in the situation with his calculus class. I will try this change of perspective. Instead of thinking: “Working on this is painful, I’m going to do something else” (which often times is not even a conscious thought), I’m going to think “NOT working on this now will bring xyz pain in the near future”. It sounds very logical and I can see how it can work. After all, I really want to avoid pain. I’ll give it a try.
Woow - Thank you Corey; it may sounds "weird" but I feel this one is one of your best and very important video - I saved it preciously. You did encompass everything key in it. Thanks again!
Yes life doesn't have to go your way everytime, but at the same time, life does not have to equal any pain, like I said life can literally be as easy as pie
Im sitting here watching this and writing my thoughts on paper because i can't do this shit anymore i'm fed up always making choices based on numbing my pain gaining pleasure through bad habits. Even though I've read the Coach Coreys book 4 times i know im only doing it half-hearted. I'm disappointed and frustrated!!!! The quote "People will do more to avoid pain than to gain pleasure" never resonated as much as it does right now. I'm starting to see a glimpse of clarity of how i behave and my beliefs. I guess i had to go through this pain to wake up to myself but at least I'm awake. Now to break down the barriers, rediscover myself because this is not the real me. Now to address this one chunk at a time. Blessings to everyone else on their journey.
Twister Corey Wayne I really appreciate all your help you've done my girlfriend left me after 10 years in a whim overnight bouncing on Valentine's Day for another fellow moved out of state haven't talked to her since I do kind of blame myself for not noticing all the red flags and I let the relationship go to hell I guess but I can't take all the blame she cheated on me once before I should have known better to let it go then I'm over the sadness and ship part of it like that but right now I'm in The Pissed Off part of her doing me wrong as far as the cheating and lying goes I just can't handle it constantly thinking about her every f****** day because I'm so f****** pissed off at what she did to me but I just bought your book I've been reading it on my second time reading it now I know I need to keep my mind busy with positive things and dating other women which helps a lot just can't get her off my mind about what she did to me it makes me want to f****** rip her head off anyway thanks a lot for all your advice and help I am a subscriber and I will never ever unsubscribe
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This might be one of the best Corey videos.. It was uploaded 9 years ago and I’m just watching it now in January 2024..
I do so much to avoid pain, and then find myself in even more painful situations, like what he was describing in the situation with his calculus class. I will try this change of perspective. Instead of thinking: “Working on this is painful, I’m going to do something else” (which often times is not even a conscious thought), I’m going to think “NOT working on this now will bring xyz pain in the near future”. It sounds very logical and I can see how it can work. After all, I really want to avoid pain. I’ll give it a try.
Woow - Thank you Corey; it may sounds "weird" but I feel this one is one of your best and very important video - I saved it preciously. You did encompass everything key in it. Thanks again!
I agree. Corey is the shit. His advice is great!
I agree too! I can relate to this video so much.
Yes life doesn't have to go your way everytime, but at the same time, life does not have to equal any pain, like I said life can literally be as easy as pie
Great video Coach! Congrats on 14k subs, btw!
Watching today, dude has 440k+ followers
This vid after 9 years only has 300 likes or so... But its a great point. Dont let pain derail your dreams.
Funny as HELL! I used to do the same shit in my college math classes!
Coach the article about the sweat shirt....where can I find it?
like Wesley said in The Princess Bride, '' life is pain, anyone who says different is selling something''.....
Coach the article about the sweat shirt....where can I find it?