The Painful Consequences Of Not Vetting Your Women Properly

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  • @KiraWabisukeFTW
    @KiraWabisukeFTW Год назад +147

    Best thing I ever did was leaving my toxic ex. If she’s for the streets, she’ll always be an anchor and not a teammate. Walk away and never look back. 🤙

    • @paintopurpose
      @paintopurpose Год назад +3

      Well said

    • @KiraWabisukeFTW
      @KiraWabisukeFTW Год назад

      @@VoiceOfThe nope, who’s/what’s that?

    • @rjskum688
      @rjskum688 Год назад +2

      @@VoiceOfThe that dude is full of himself lmao.

    • @KiraWabisukeFTW
      @KiraWabisukeFTW Год назад +2

      @@lonevvolfbatallion4684great work bud, keep it going! 💪

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 Год назад +2

      You said it right. An anchor will stall the most driven man and start ruining his works.

  • @creamycanoli201
    @creamycanoli201 Год назад +121

    The book is to filter women, not a fixer of them.

  • @Bonfire5th
    @Bonfire5th Год назад +68

    I've read the book 33x but even then still make mistakes once my emotions are engaged with a girl, still working on emotional self control

    • @vickythakur8259
      @vickythakur8259 Год назад +23

      Happens all the time. End of the day u r human.

    • @LocPham-kw5ut
      @LocPham-kw5ut Год назад +4

      @@vickythakur8259 Yep, I have to keep going back at least once a year. Strong mind do need regular maintenances.

    • @ferhan.c
      @ferhan.c Год назад +5

      Nothing wrong with Emotions. Its the other Part, thats why its Not working. Hands on the Table, we Always Oversee the Red Flaggs.

    • @kareembrown1673
      @kareembrown1673 Год назад +8

      24 time reader myself man… nothing wrong with making mistakes. Those are simply opportunities to learn and learn again.

    • @LukezyM
      @LukezyM 4 месяца назад +5

      Men get weak for beautiful women. It’s just a reality.
      Small increments, getting better with every step.

  • @avenue.central
    @avenue.central Год назад +75

    Not reading the book 10-15 times is like being a starting Quarterback and you've only went through the playbook twice in my opinion.

    • @kundetest4553
      @kundetest4553 Год назад +3

      There are better books out there 😉

    • @aliensystem1528
      @aliensystem1528 Год назад +6

      @@kundetest4553 such as?

    • @Pistonhammer
      @Pistonhammer Месяц назад

      ​@@kundetest4553 so what are the 'better' books ??

  • @shortingthetrend
    @shortingthetrend Год назад +26

    17:03 greatest movie ever is gone with the wind. This woman puts him through so much crap and by the end he tells her "frankly my dear, I don't give a damn" and he walks away! The strongest negotiation is willing to walk away and mean it!

  • @SelfieStickAdventures
    @SelfieStickAdventures Год назад +33

    New premium video idea. Vet a story and invite them to the studio for an in person recorded coaching session. I'd love to see their reactions to the no BS responses from coach. Pipe dream. Probably unrealistic. But never say never! Thanks for your hard work and dedication coach.

  • @richardkelly4528
    @richardkelly4528 Год назад +17

    "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover and "How women test men" by Bruce Bryans are must-reads for students of Corey. But dont get me wrong, 3% Man will always be the foundation.

  • @BlijahBart
    @BlijahBart Год назад +31

    jesus Christ I just went through this I saw the red flags felt the feeling in my heart and still chose to go forward with it now I have to spend time learning and reparing my self esteem and Heart

    • @Sharkdog11b
      @Sharkdog11b Год назад +10

      Same here multiple time (an embarrassing amount) but we all have a family here in the comments section so that’s great!

    • @steveenczi8967
      @steveenczi8967 Год назад +3

      You learned don’t let it happen again you don’t deserve it

    • @OPCollecting
      @OPCollecting 11 месяцев назад +4

      I just got out of a toxic relationship two weeks ago and ignored all of the red flags. 4 months into dating I find out she was still living with her ex boyfriend the entire time we were together.

  • @adamroma2000
    @adamroma2000 Год назад +4

    This newsletter sums up why you can’t let your emotions control you and what happens if they do.one of your best newsletters coach!

  • @jasoncanon7311
    @jasoncanon7311 Год назад +17

    Your phone sessions should be called "when you don't read the book 10 to 15 times help line"

  • @living_in_revelation
    @living_in_revelation 5 месяцев назад +1

    So many of these email videos are addictively entertaining. Makes me want to email you about a ridiculous neighbor chick Who gave me her number 4 times over the course of 3 years when i kept deleting it after getting ghosted then unghosted. From now on I'm not breaking my rule against interest in neighbors/coworkers

  • @davidj5425
    @davidj5425 Год назад +20

    Having a girl hanging off my arm kissing my neck while out for a casual drink was a nice moment of realization that absorbing Corey's information to where it's nearly automatic has truly paid off. Its important to understand that you can't make any girl act that way, only some will find you attractive but at least from committing to it, you won't talk the next girl that really digs you out of liking you because you'll say and do the right things, which are so often counter intuitive to those that haven't learned (including myself once). Do it.. and hopefully you'll one day have that same moment that I had where living what you like feels natural and easy.

    • @oahts5906
      @oahts5906 Год назад +3

      I had the same experience, it was a co worker and she couldn’t keep herself off me, everyone else basically knew we were seeing each other. I did fuck up and it hurts but it is what it is, obviously I haven’t cemented the knowledge as much as I thought and that was a big wake up call. Great experience though, it felt great. No one talks about the haters though lol

    • @davidj5425
      @davidj5425 Год назад +2

      @@oahts5906 For sure. I think a lot of guys stop with the pickup/dating knowledge and don't cement the relationship knowledge needed to keep the girl. Also it definitely takes a few years of reading, listening and practicing to override your old programming. There are definitely some humbling moments of slipping up along the way to getting it right.

  • @steveenczi8967
    @steveenczi8967 Год назад +3

    I’m finally buying the book I’m excited it will be good to dive into a book

  • @pigbingo
    @pigbingo Год назад +16

    "Captain Save a Ho to the rescue! " - Classic

  • @jamestacular
    @jamestacular Год назад +6

    Here's what I've recently learned. Do not react to your emotions. Listen to them and react objectively. You should not ignore your emotions because what they're telling you is the truth. You can become emotional over both good and toxic women. But you have to be able to understand where your emotions are coming from and what they're really telling you before you react. Do not stay with a manipulative narcissist because you love her. Do not become jealous over a high quality girl attracting competition. These are examples of objectively reacting to what you feel.

  • @elsquibbs
    @elsquibbs Год назад +11

    He's making that box so dry that her crabs carry canteens.

  • @sgsuper1150
    @sgsuper1150 2 месяца назад +1

    I like this video. In my case the girlfriend wont make definate plans yet says im not stopping u seeing me. Walking away is the only option.

  • @sugag2870
    @sugag2870 7 месяцев назад

    "Seeing all the ways I went from the mean in control of the relationship to the woman who was always trying to please her "
    That one hit home for me. Thinking it was the right thing to do

  • @EmileMac-fy5mh
    @EmileMac-fy5mh 4 месяца назад +1

    Corey your humor is too good, one of the reason I come back over and over! XDD

  • @stumpymcstumpstump3503
    @stumpymcstumpstump3503 Год назад +9

    You can’t make good wine with bad grapes. That one’s gonna stick with me.

  • @Siameezkattwo
    @Siameezkattwo Год назад

    The number one mistake I believe man or women make! Nice to talk Coach!

  • @DorkonaRope
    @DorkonaRope Год назад +1

    Coach Corey! Great to see you back again in my feed!! Ive looked forward to your content!

  • @oahts5906
    @oahts5906 Год назад +1

    Corey Wayne, you’re badass! You’ve taught me a lot, and you mention real pressing topics a la the matrix, you have my respect!

  • @MegaDylancool
    @MegaDylancool Год назад +5

    After you read the book 10-15 times, I suggest reading it again every month to refresh your memory and continue to apply the principles

  • @anthonyjacksonjr4812
    @anthonyjacksonjr4812 Год назад +2

    Words of wisdom Coach. 💪🏾

  • @VinnieTheCarGuru
    @VinnieTheCarGuru Год назад +6

    You’re awesome thank you for everything

  • @D3ltaFreedom
    @D3ltaFreedom Год назад

    great video Corey. Very helpful!

  • @miryanski
    @miryanski 4 месяца назад +2

    Coach, now thanks to the Red Pill Einsteins there are 100 varieties of "something" male, Alpha and Beta is old school 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @xXR3DSP1R1TXxX
    @xXR3DSP1R1TXxX Год назад

    fire 🔥 video corey!

  • @nunolopes8926
    @nunolopes8926 7 месяцев назад +2

    That gama bulls%^& , bro... 😂

  • @gabrielrod1253
    @gabrielrod1253 Год назад +6

    Corey's book 3 per cent men is not designed to work with fruitloops. If wanting to be captain saviour get a degree in psychoterapy first. 3 per cent men isn"t a psychoterapy guide. Also , it's a book desgned for men , not for women to apply these strategies on men. Finally , the instructions in the book are not designed to be used as lines, or to reveal the strategies to your dates.

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  Год назад +23

      It’s designed to repel fruit loops

    • @gabrielrod1253
      @gabrielrod1253 Год назад

      @@CoachCoreyWayneCorey , but with your years of experience , won't you agree with me that 97 percent of wonen are fruit loops as well 97 percent of men are pushovers , and your book is intended to work with 3 percenr of emotionally healthy women ? This has been my experience. I'm 47 yrs old. You d be a 10 in Argentina. Welcome to come for visit if you wish , I could show you around.

  • @JRD-wi1bh
    @JRD-wi1bh 9 месяцев назад +2

    "You wanna come up with your own pronouns go ahead " 😂

  • @kvs7876
    @kvs7876 Год назад +13

    When you get complacent, that’s when she will look for other adventures with other men..
    Treat every day like it’s an Indiana Jones adventure, and she will never leave you.

    • @Iwillroastthesocksoffyoass
      @Iwillroastthesocksoffyoass Год назад +1

      If it's already in her nothing you do will make a difference.

    • @IwillEndureToTheEnd
      @IwillEndureToTheEnd Год назад +4

      What about her? What would YOU do if SHE is the one that becomes complaceant?

    • @IwillEndureToTheEnd
      @IwillEndureToTheEnd 2 месяца назад

      ​@WorldRunner444 Sure is a good question. By the way, I have left this field of "relationsship science" because it's a bunch of nonsense.
      Look at the comment above from kvs7876. He has read the book 15 times and is now completely brainwashed and thinks it is his DUTY to alone entertain a relationsship - otherwise her entitlement will be activated and she will cheat. So the message is - She MUST be entertained otherwise YOU are the one who will suffer the consequences and this will give you the perspective that you must be a £u$$y worshipper to maintain a relationsship.
      And That is such a big pile of S!! A relationsship is a two way street. You give, you take and you communicate. That's it.

  • @heman801
    @heman801 Год назад +2

    Thanks!

  • @TheMustangGuy
    @TheMustangGuy Год назад +1

    That problem the third guy can't solve would be a lot easier if he wasn't married already!

  • @2clau
    @2clau Год назад +5

    You don't "pass" tests with a nutcase. That's just being delusional.

  • @legrandfromage6450
    @legrandfromage6450 6 месяцев назад +2

    "The Painful Consequences Of Not Vetting Your Women Properly": A public service announcement from Corey Wayne.

  • @tjbohmier46
    @tjbohmier46 Год назад +1

    The last dude ignored the rage and depression issues from the woman he married. He didn't mention it, however you can bet her communication skills were suffering as well. If you can't communicate, you cannot have any healthy relationship in life...especially a happy, healthy marriage! Just my opinion.

  • @jeffstone4624
    @jeffstone4624 Год назад +4

    You must unlearn what you have learned....

  • @DukeFavre
    @DukeFavre Год назад +2

    6 months and you get married... oh boi. Never.

  • @TrevorEllison-lh5yo
    @TrevorEllison-lh5yo Год назад +5

    A question for the 3% men of this community. Would you consider it a dealbreaker for a nice, shy, and very feminine girl, who has been very submissive and all around a great girl, to tell you that before she fell for you that she was interested in up to 10 guys at once and found herself in many love triangles? I’ve been wrestling with it, because she doesn’t seem interested in anyone else at all, but this just doesn’t leave the back of my mind. I know that Corey always says that if they’re once a cheater they’re always a cheater, but she has never cheated on anyone. She does have guy friends but she’s not interested in them at all, and has even told me she wants new friends but is too scared to venture alone.
    For those 3% men that leave an answer and made the time to read this, thank you.

    • @1gregmoreira
      @1gregmoreira Год назад +16

      Nice and shy doesn’t compute here.
      Nice and shy girls don’t have a bunch of overlapping partners and love triangles.
      Insecure girls do. The fear of making friends definitely seems to fall in line with that as well
      Sounds like you’re projecting a bit of a fantasy onto her.
      Six or twelve months down the road when the newness has worn off and you occasionally have bad days… that’s when you need to be concerned whether or not she’ll need another hit of the attention in order to make herself feel better

    • @TrevorEllison-lh5yo
      @TrevorEllison-lh5yo Год назад +1

      @@1gregmoreira I did pick up on insecurity, and she’s even talked to me about it a bit. I’ve been trying to check myself to make sure I’m not projecting too much, but it kinda does seem like I’ve done a shit job of that. What would be your advice for this situation? She as of right now is at an attraction of probably 7 to 8 on Corey’s scale as she never blows me off, doesn’t really test, says she loves me and all but that story comes back to haunt me when I’m up thinking late at night? Should I continue on with a wary eye or do you think it isn’t worth the potential time loss? When she’s comfortable and around me she’s a great girl all around, but she seems to be really hard on herself and a bit insecure about her intelligence.
      Thanks for your response, as every little bit helps inform my decision with this situation.

    • @aga5037
      @aga5037 Год назад +5

      Trust your intuition and inner voice.

    • @TrevorEllison-lh5yo
      @TrevorEllison-lh5yo Год назад +2

      @@aga5037 Ok. I mean, it hasn’t been wrong so far. I’ve also been following Corey for years and read and listened to his book at least 10 times so I kind of know what to do, but I just wanted a second opinion as I’m human and I make mistakes and all
      Thanks for your advice

    • @brianbutterworth8186
      @brianbutterworth8186 Год назад +8

      The quote Corey uses from Ronald Reagan “Trust but verify” comes to
      mind in this situation

  • @youknighted0420
    @youknighted0420 Год назад +4

    No such thing as alpha and beta though it comes from wolves and the guy who put it out there tried to rescind what he said but no one paid attention. It's all just confidence, IMO. Since so many guys and women know the terms though I get it's easy to keep pushing that narrative because people understand what it means. Confidence is the key to life though.

  • @vickythakur8259
    @vickythakur8259 Год назад +4

    So this girl I am into confessed she is developing feelings for this guy. I am going by the book. Being busy, and not bringing anything serious. I could clearly sense she was into me. this guy shows up unannounced all the time, bombard her with flowers and gifts and propose and ask her to get in relationship everytime they talk, doesn't give her space she initially hated this behaviour, I don't know if she is like a low self esteem person or she has anuptaphobia coz she is liking the attention now and said she is getting fomo.

    • @mw5451
      @mw5451 Год назад

      How many times have you hanged out, had fun, and hooked up? Being busy is going out on dates and being busy with someone who shares that romantic interest in you and who is into you. I had girls in my life who were in to me, but the friendzone is real. I don't know everything about you, your situation, or her, but I can tell you the good news; it doesn't sound like your competing against a 3% man. Just someone who is being a little pushier about his interest. Ask her out, have a fun night, be cool, hook-up. If she says no, don't look back. She has to come to you.
      Corey knows what he is talking about. Even people who read the book 10-15 times screw up. Don't be a robot about everything. You have to be confident and natural from what you learned from Corey. Don't think about it, just do it. You have one life to live. Don't be scared of failure and rejection.

    • @vickythakur8259
      @vickythakur8259 Год назад

      @@mw5451 yes I think something went wrong coz she had been into me but I hadn't taken the hint at the right time. Probably now sinking towards friendzone. Corey s material had worked for me in the past but with this girl it's going counter intuitive. The other guy is literally creepy does everything opposite hovering all the time

    • @vickythakur8259
      @vickythakur8259 Год назад

      @@mw5451 yes you are right I am kinda scared of rejection with this particular girl as I thing I am invested too deeply. I don't want to mess up. I don't know how to handle going forward. Probably I am also not 3 percent yet

    • @mw5451
      @mw5451 Год назад +2

      @@vickythakur8259 There is nothing to mess up. You aren't dating. You are in her orbit playing it safe. Life is far too short to wait until something happens. Nothing just happens. You need to make the situation happen. Don't do what the other guy is doing by the way. She admires the attention. Don't be shitty with her either. You need to bring it to the point of finding out whether she is in or out. Plan out something fun that takes up an evening. Watch her eyes. Gauge her interest level. Also meet other women and date them. You are stuck in neutral and just need a shove to switch gears. I've been there. The leap isn't so bad. You will look back and be glad that you cleared the air. If you platonically like her, you are going to run the risk of losing her because if you are rejected, you have to move on. You want her romantically. That much is clear. Your vibe is platonic. She senses it. They have freaky senses. They know.

    • @vickythakur8259
      @vickythakur8259 Год назад

      @@mw5451 yes thanks. I will try to make it happen I have a trip planned with her in next couple of days. I will play it cool till then.

  • @brianbutterworth8186
    @brianbutterworth8186 Год назад

    Excellent video. Getting demonetized was worth it on this video.

  • @patrickmichael2760
    @patrickmichael2760 Год назад +2

    Visibility filtering (VF) lol

  • @themisfitsman77
    @themisfitsman77 Год назад +1

    Coach I had a question. I’m on my second read through and was wondering… when you give references in your book when would be Considered a good time to pause and look up those videos after the first few read through’s? Or right then in there?

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  Год назад +8

      They’re extra credit if that particular topic interests you

    • @alexanderwells783
      @alexanderwells783 Год назад

      What I do is I set up a play or watch list on you tube, then when i visit the videos related to the book,i save them on the play list then i watch them as i read the book or watch them separately.

  • @jonathanskube4365
    @jonathanskube4365 Год назад

    19:15: what the fuck? This is the most painful CW session ever

  • @linc131313
    @linc131313 Год назад +1

    You should check out 'The Critical Drinker', if you haven't already, but you probably already have. He talks about all of this woke crap in movies and in the media.

  • @legrandfromage6450
    @legrandfromage6450 6 месяцев назад

    Based Giga-Chad seems pretty straightforward - but wtf is a sigma male or a gamma male?

  • @evankolar8957
    @evankolar8957 Год назад +6

    Hey CCW. In the book it states that when you first meet women you get the know them and usually if everything is done right it should be about 8 weeks until she’s in love with you. My question to you is if you’ve known a girl for years and you already know a lot about her. And this particular girl has chased you for years since high school. If she’s always wanting to see me and making dates. How long should that take? She’s chased me for 5 years since she left high school and I didn’t date her because of the long distance from home to her college and I didn’t feel it was right in that moment. I was also figuring out life for myself and what path I wanted to take. Any advise would be great. The book is great for pickup for girls you just met but what about girls you’ve known for years?

    • @com3ta453
      @com3ta453 Год назад +5

      How she felt in high school and 5 years after, only applied at that moment. I suggest you keep dating other women and learning if she still feels something for you she'll reach out. Take it from there apply whats in the book.

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  Год назад +17

      Create an opportunity for sex to happen. Hangout, have fun and hook up. Read the book 10-15 times and stop acting like a robot.

    • @evankolar8957
      @evankolar8957 Год назад +1

      @@com3ta453 thank you for your feedback! Greatly appreciated

    • @evankolar8957
      @evankolar8957 Год назад +1

      @@CoachCoreyWayne thanks Corey for the feedback! Much appreciated!

  • @youknighted0420
    @youknighted0420 Год назад +1

    Some of these girls are nuts and want a relationship right from the jump. that's something you build together. Reading is a lost art today it's the TLDR generation. Hence you tube shorts.

  • @spacemanfunk
    @spacemanfunk Год назад

    These guys... jesus... they need to get it together.

  • @princestafford5747
    @princestafford5747 Год назад

    How do I get the book to read and is the book free to read

  • @danielpilipenko8556
    @danielpilipenko8556 Год назад

    Can anyone tell me the books covers which Corey also finds useful? Thanks!

  • @Mr.SP78
    @Mr.SP78 Год назад +1

    Gamma male? Smh Corey.

  • @whoareacts
    @whoareacts Год назад

    29:54 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Beb-f24
    @Beb-f24 Год назад

    Hilarious when you said the F word

  • @joannetruffle
    @joannetruffle 6 месяцев назад

    Nobody can do the stuff Indiana Jones can do. It's not like male action heroes are realistic.

  • @S8BASTIAN
    @S8BASTIAN Год назад

    18:57 😂😂😂

  • @stephengallagher2209
    @stephengallagher2209 6 месяцев назад

    Coach Corey evidently unfamiliar with the Greek alphabet. Alpha, Beta, Gamma, Delta... US education is atrocious.

  • @jonathanbryant148
    @jonathanbryant148 Год назад

    What's the science behind reading something 10-15 times? Does it not stick after 5 times?

    • @OPCollecting
      @OPCollecting 11 месяцев назад +1

      Repetition is the mother all skills.

  • @Mysteri0usMem0
    @Mysteri0usMem0 Год назад +3

    First!!!

  • @sirbantzalot
    @sirbantzalot Год назад +1

    Coach, you did'nt name the 57 genders, and say "gay unicorns lives matter" Demonitzed!!!! LOL SMFH

  • @Mecanrich
    @Mecanrich Год назад +1

    Too much politics weaved in there bro

  • @paulpazsak3665
    @paulpazsak3665 Год назад +2

    What the hell is gamma male?! 😂🤣Im gonna identity as a lizard today