The Value of Being Disliked | Robin Sharma

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  • @mrfooter6248
    @mrfooter6248 5 лет назад +1686

    I just don't understand why people want to be around fake people while the chill quiet unwanted people are hated for being themselves why is that ??

    • @dalzvert9206
      @dalzvert9206 5 лет назад +217

      Because this world is now evil

    • @jordanaestelle7442
      @jordanaestelle7442 5 лет назад +165

      Broda Osas facts my whole life I’ve been hated by everyone mainly girls idk what’s up w my energy I’ve always been told I’m intimidating so I guess I give a bad image about myself for being shy and quiet at first like wtf is that.

    • @bakatobijuu
      @bakatobijuu 5 лет назад +24

      Because it's a nature and free will the humans are selfish by nature, the evil only wicked and murder everyone

    • @queenpeaches3843
      @queenpeaches3843 5 лет назад +25

      Broda Osas I have to go to nursing school with fake people and sit with them everyday. Lol! That’s why I’m here.

    • @elihuerta3383
      @elihuerta3383 5 лет назад +31

      because the people are assholes!

  • @gillymac9363
    @gillymac9363 6 лет назад +1144

    "I'd rather be loathed for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Wayne Dyer affirmation✌🏻🙏🏻🕊️

    • @moonboy2022
      @moonboy2022 5 лет назад +13

      Thought that was Kurt Cobain too.

    • @isolirionband7300
      @isolirionband7300 5 лет назад +3

      @@moonboy2022 It was Cobain...

    • @stephaniestevens5185
      @stephaniestevens5185 4 года назад +8

      A lot of people quotes things that have been said before. Its hard to trace back where the quotes originally came from. But still impacts the same.

    • @laraimonroe1502
      @laraimonroe1502 4 года назад +1

      Yassssss!!

    • @nisav4124
      @nisav4124 4 года назад +1

      Thats one rare coolest feeling one can have in themselves.

  • @onepocketslim
    @onepocketslim 4 года назад +853

    "A man who has made no enemies is probably not a very good man."- Antonin Scalia

    • @adelineproverbs3139
      @adelineproverbs3139 4 года назад +10

      Isn't that a lot of shit?

    • @rakashii6599
      @rakashii6599 4 года назад +14

      @@adelineproverbs3139 no it's not!

    • @sutingstelline7285
      @sutingstelline7285 4 года назад +19

      Sounds true cause he wanted to be accepted by people

    • @j-hp2449
      @j-hp2449 4 года назад +14

      @@sutingstelline7285 Or he was just happy with living a quiet life taking care of the people he could at his level. Also, it depends on what being a good man means to you. Go look up Thomas Edison's story and come tell me he was a good man. You think that most public figures are good people? Ambitious people make enemies because most of the time they're willing to forget all notions of moral and stomp over their adversaries and it doesn't matter to them if they are good people or not. Imo, this question is much more complex than that quote makes it seem to be.

    • @ivann9924
      @ivann9924 4 года назад +16

      Agreed, if you aim to please everyone you gotta compromise with them. If you happen to meet bad people but you don't want to make enemies with them you would probably do bad things in expense of other people for your safety. Wanting to please everyone also shows you have no standards and willing to comply for anything, basically you discard your moral to be able to do that, so yeah you're not a good person

  • @katerigonzalez3261
    @katerigonzalez3261 5 лет назад +732

    I'm 32 and been hated by many throughout my life. I know nobody cares for me. It's okay life goes on. I'm still living. I'll get through this.

    • @melancholy_dude
      @melancholy_dude 4 года назад +50

      Me too, I'm 30 and most ppl hate me.

    • @Christine-wi1dl
      @Christine-wi1dl 4 года назад +55

      @Kateri Gonzalez My motto is " What other people think is none of my business". Why? Because people are gonna think whatever they want to think, and their is absolutely nothing that any of us can do to persuade them to think differently! Some people will see you walk on water and say it's because you can't swim! And Hater's gonna Hate. It's what they do. So I don't take "their hate" personally

    • @MrSivram28
      @MrSivram28 4 года назад +11

      Do people hate you for no reason or how you interact and speak to people?

    • @TheSpeakenglish
      @TheSpeakenglish 4 года назад +27

      @saganist You are making the mistake of thinking there is a reason for evil. Sometimes bad things happen to good people. MOST good people are attacked by godless leftists who have no righteousness in them. MOST good people have to FIGHT the apathy of lazy ezcuse-makers like you.

    • @matthewclark7952
      @matthewclark7952 4 года назад +10

      @Kateri Gonzalez - Do people really not like you or is it the way you perceive their thoughts towards you? I relate absolutely to not fitting in and being lonely. I'm sending you love and best wishes.

  • @mr.wilson381
    @mr.wilson381 5 лет назад +633

    I get disliked for no reasons and I swear I respect and Love every one ✊🏿 think 💭 it’s my walk

    • @elpablo9243
      @elpablo9243 5 лет назад +35

      OD Wilson omg tho I was alone

    • @ping7364
      @ping7364 5 лет назад +52

      OD Wilson I get disliked for no reason too . I could feel that for some reasons (not all )they didn’t have happiness in their own life and looked into others in a negative way. It impossible to please people in the whole world 😂. Be yourself

    • @gachalove0039
      @gachalove0039 5 лет назад +16

      I relate to everything you have said

    • @jordanaestelle7442
      @jordanaestelle7442 5 лет назад +6

      OD Wilson same it’s because I’m shy

    • @jomanahelal8219
      @jomanahelal8219 5 лет назад +31

      Honestly same. People underestimate me and say shit when I'm being nice. I dont get it

  • @MrSivram28
    @MrSivram28 4 года назад +277

    I've been hated and gossiped about all my life. I'm very quiet, introverted, handsome and confident. When I walk into a room people start gossiping snickering and watching me.

    • @alexz3692
      @alexz3692 4 года назад +30

      Same here! nice to know I'm not the only one experiencing this

    • @kacceyjoseph5040
      @kacceyjoseph5040 4 года назад +5

      Same at skl

    • @inspirational_cari4950
      @inspirational_cari4950 3 года назад +28

      Facts but idc because I’m a goat 🐐 😤

    • @_-.--.-..-.-_
      @_-.--.-..-.-_ 3 года назад +14

      Me same. Much worse when ur harassers play victim, the society being manipulated, and the harassment go on..

    • @ahnzelcayanan1140
      @ahnzelcayanan1140 3 года назад +15

      Maybe they just talking on how handsome you are, and since you are quiet, they are shy to talk to you

  • @bilhahoroko1439
    @bilhahoroko1439 5 лет назад +293

    I always feel bad when people hate me but I also hate being loved by many people coz the more friends you have the more time you owe them

    • @millions2nette
      @millions2nette 4 года назад +19

      Good point...Some friends want to drain the life out of you, if you let them. With that in mind, seems like they're not really friends, as they would understand that this is a busy life and they shouldn't monopolize one person's time...I feel bad when ppl hate me for no apparent reason too, but over the years I've realized that they want it that way. They want to hate certain people or certain types, and nothing you can do, will change their pattern of hatred.

    • @nmajor187
      @nmajor187 3 года назад +10

      Hey Bilhah Oroko and anyone else taking time to read this comment. That's the misconception everyone tends to have about friends, you don't owe them time. Time is way too limited and it's almost unethical to make your friend feel horrible for not being there at an exact moment in time. The only thing you owe in a friendship is loyalty and respect because a true bond is when you both haven't spoken for a long time and when you see each other it's like nothing ever changed.

    • @kylieking8163
      @kylieking8163 2 года назад +1

      Facts

    • @StaaaaNzHD
      @StaaaaNzHD 2 года назад

      No that’s no entirely true. you don’t owe anyone your time

  • @lucysauce1266
    @lucysauce1266 4 года назад +305

    I feel sorry for people who hate me because not having me in their life will always leave a big void in their life.

    • @cheeseontoast3434
      @cheeseontoast3434 4 года назад +8

      Absolutely❤ that's what I always say

    • @0patience4flz
      @0patience4flz 4 года назад +3

      Thats awesome

    • @chaneln1469
      @chaneln1469 4 года назад +1

      lucy sauce same here

    • @ivann9924
      @ivann9924 4 года назад +5

      You got confidence that is good but this is so cocky

    • @lucysauce1266
      @lucysauce1266 4 года назад +7

      @@ivann9924 you haven't met me, I am pretty awesome

  • @brahmabkitty03
    @brahmabkitty03 4 года назад +78

    I got picked on by coworkers for taking my job too seriously. I just created my own job role.

  • @valerieannrumpf4151
    @valerieannrumpf4151 4 года назад +126

    I'm at that point in my life where I don't give a shit what others think of me. I feel comfortable with my self and that's okay.

    • @MrGooshness
      @MrGooshness 3 года назад +5

      Discovering this now

    • @japaneseswordfish3199
      @japaneseswordfish3199 2 года назад +5

      That’s cool as fuck ❤️

    • @kaym.h.3583
      @kaym.h.3583 Год назад +1

      Yes that comes as you grow older 🙂 you just don't care what people think about ya

  • @SS-dh5nn
    @SS-dh5nn 3 года назад +44

    Always remember , YOUR HATERS ARE UR SECRET ADMIRERS... They see something better in u which they don't have in themselves...
    So respect ur Haters...😇

    • @jen-gv7tx
      @jen-gv7tx Месяц назад

      human nature back story song. little kids wanting to play with each other. wanting inclusion in camoflauge reacting nastily.

  • @amiadlm17
    @amiadlm17 6 лет назад +212

    In this video i learned:
    The value of being disliked.
    1. You canbe a change maker. You can be liked by everyone around you. You dont get to be both.
    2. Every visionary was once ridiculed before they were revered.
    3. Transformation lives in awareness.

  • @prophecyrevelations5653
    @prophecyrevelations5653 3 года назад +65

    I'm not gonna dummy myself down or appear less successful to make others feel comfortable with themselves. Self esteem, self motivation, self confidence ect. Key word is SELF. If a person dislikes, usually it has nothing to do with you...it's a issue they have with themselves so themselves have to deal with it. It's not your problem.

    • @simonebrooks202
      @simonebrooks202 3 года назад +1

      Exactly imagining wasting time caring if people like you...a lot of them dont like themselves

    • @elviram3360
      @elviram3360 2 года назад +1

      Yes but you don’t have to insult someone minding their own business

  • @Mike-pj1kv
    @Mike-pj1kv 4 года назад +91

    When you don't care too much or focus on being liked - that really helps. People like people that aren't hung up on trying to be liked.

  • @focusedallday5620
    @focusedallday5620 3 года назад +18

    Just know two things: there’s a lot of unhappy people walking around, and misery needs company. So the next time you’re confused about why someone’s hating on you, just know that person simply isn’t happy with their own life.

  • @cristinaferreira2230
    @cristinaferreira2230 4 года назад +252

    I am a leader not a follower some people don't like that .

    • @cheapgamer4U
      @cheapgamer4U 4 года назад +8

      This happens with me too. Over the years I forgot about who I am but now I am getting back on track.

    • @CallumHolmes
      @CallumHolmes 4 года назад +2

      ego

    • @north8414
      @north8414 4 года назад +8

      @@CallumHolmes yours? Yeah I know

    • @Korosensei5891
      @Korosensei5891 4 года назад +3

      @@north8414 exactly..well said

    • @giveyourlifetothelord9453
      @giveyourlifetothelord9453 4 года назад +1

      ruclips.net/video/JxDLNS1mJhw/видео.html 🎨🌐🌐🌎🌎🦁🦁🦁🦁🤴🏿👍🏾🌟🌟👍🏼

  • @angii1500
    @angii1500 5 лет назад +71

    I just love everyone hating me and whispering every time I walk past them..yay

    • @tiffanysar-lecluze5679
      @tiffanysar-lecluze5679 4 года назад +6

      Hey it's been a year, how r u doing now ?

    • @_-.--.-..-.-_
      @_-.--.-..-.-_ 3 года назад +5

      Get better at what you do.
      been thru same situation every single day after being viral by sum grown ass. Society here naive, obsessed. Making excuses to harass.
      When i started doing great in school, i dont have time to react to the hate i received. ))

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 3 года назад

      Billie Ellish likes it too

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 3 года назад

      @@_-.--.-..-.-_ Binged

  • @L2PlayRunescape
    @L2PlayRunescape 4 года назад +142

    I notice when im working out a lot and getting in good physical shape, people around me look more pissed off at me frequently. It feels like theyre not comfortable with me getting stronger. And they refuse to acknowledge my growth even though its really obvious. I got a haircut first time in three months and no one commented on it, not family not employees. No "did you get a haircut" or "nice haircut." When i start to speak they cut me off three words in and don't even acknowledge they interrupted me. I just feel really disrespected on so many levels when i truly am trying my best. Im doing double as good as last year if not 10 times better.

    • @DieselPlays
      @DieselPlays 4 года назад +22

      if you are really good at something you can find like minded people around in the internet. keep ur head held up high and move away from these self destructing people. I was laughed at when I said I was going to do youtube. I started and in a few months I got more than 10k subs. After that I stopped because I had other ventures to look at but I did it to show those clowns. Even after that they will hate u. They hate u not for what you are, but for what they cannot be.

    • @kevinbaconwasntinfootloose1742
      @kevinbaconwasntinfootloose1742 4 года назад +2

      Do it right back to them.

    • @nitikavidyarthi2471
      @nitikavidyarthi2471 4 года назад +2

      Same with Mee 😭😭😭😭

    • @CrazyJuiceProd
      @CrazyJuiceProd 4 года назад +3

      Keep going, don’t stop. You’ll achieve whatever you set your mind to

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 3 года назад +3

      @@DieselPlays So true!!

  • @realmofgaming7923
    @realmofgaming7923 4 года назад +28

    Protect your energy. This is an extroverts world right now and every interaction in life warrants some form of stored energy to exchange in an engagement. That is why minimalism, living below your means, and a small loyal social group produces good results.

    • @reed4884
      @reed4884 4 года назад +8

      It's hell being an introvert in a world dominated by extroverts.

    • @Cappinasd
      @Cappinasd 4 года назад +4

      @@reed4884 Thats right, its life on veteran mode. Be your own boss or die if you're like that

  • @ohiorobertstephens
    @ohiorobertstephens 2 года назад +15

    You can't/won't be liked by everybody regardless of who you do or don't inspire. You could be the nicest, sweetest person in the world and someone will hate you because you are the nicest, sweetest person in the world.

  • @leftypaws1131
    @leftypaws1131 3 года назад +51

    Almost everyone I know hates me. Even the ppl that say they like me don’t treat me well and I get the feeling that I annoy them. It’s to the point that I literally don’t want to meet ANYONE ever again and I don’t value any of my relationships. I constantly have to be fake to “get along” w people. It’s exhausting and depressing.

    • @manoj9596
      @manoj9596 3 года назад +4

      Omg same here ..but we need to transform that feeling for good.
      If you think deeply, it is actually the childhood experiences that needs to be healed. Psychological injury is something that we cannot see therefore we carry on just like that as if it's normal.
      Imagine that your leg is broken in accident and you are still trying to walk on it as if nothing happened.
      Results? More pain and more injury and suffering.
      But it doesn't happen because we instinctively know that we need to heal our physical body and take care of itself exclusively before we walk out again.
      Same is the case with our psychological beliefs and pain. Wherever you spot pain in your thinking, it is clearly asking for healing.

    • @MrGooshness
      @MrGooshness 3 года назад +4

      Literally, I feel 100% what you are saying. It is extremely draining, but I know I’ll be aligned with people who will actually embrace and genuinely care for me and you will too ✨

    • @leftypaws1131
      @leftypaws1131 3 года назад +1

      @@MrGooshness ❤️✨

    • @leftypaws1131
      @leftypaws1131 3 года назад +1

      @@MrGooshness thank u !!! Sending u love and positivity 🙏😊

    • @walterdavies6434
      @walterdavies6434 3 года назад +1

      aspie?

  • @crazycreeper3653
    @crazycreeper3653 4 года назад +51

    “We want everyone one around us”
    Me: *avoids people as much as possible* ..... ooof

  • @georgekhumalo5283
    @georgekhumalo5283 4 года назад +54

    I'm like one of the most hated individuals out there. lol, people just hate me for who i am.

    • @adamsmia8063
      @adamsmia8063 4 года назад +1

      @@klif4755 Had us in the first half not gonna lie

    • @giveyourlifetothelord9453
      @giveyourlifetothelord9453 4 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/JxDLNS1mJhw/видео.html 👍🏾👍🏼👍🏼🎯🎯🎨🤴🏿🌐

    • @_-.--.-..-.-_
      @_-.--.-..-.-_ 3 года назад +1

      Probably the way you talk? When people are convinced by misinformation about you that ur "arrogant".. But ur not.

  • @143mark6275
    @143mark6275 8 лет назад +217

    does this explain why it's "lonely at the top"?

    • @baudedelini956
      @baudedelini956 5 лет назад +24

      Because they don't follow tradition or old ways ,and can't relate to others that follow simple normal average way of thinking.

    • @crazyr605
      @crazyr605 4 года назад +2

      Wrong, no one follows tradition anymore

    • @GamerJustPlay
      @GamerJustPlay 4 года назад +2

      Baude Delini well said ✊🏽

    • @shawingo8757
      @shawingo8757 4 года назад +2

      143mark6275 🎯🎯 People FEAR what they don’t understand. Intimidation.

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 4 года назад +5

      Yes. As you get higher in your goals, the air gets deader.

  • @srikanthganesan7603
    @srikanthganesan7603 8 лет назад +99

    Thank you Sir! You brought me back to life. I am proud to be called weird, eccentric. I know who I am and what I want. Will go for it no matter what.

  • @danielrasugu2425
    @danielrasugu2425 4 года назад +4

    When people don't like you then there's something good you are doing for yourself!

  • @neodintchly
    @neodintchly 7 лет назад +367

    i love being hated

    • @alextynes9782
      @alextynes9782 5 лет назад +11

      Neo Dintchly why?!

    • @louieray1027
      @louieray1027 5 лет назад +61

      Neo Dintchly I agree! Fuck it

    • @tinomane
      @tinomane 5 лет назад +22

      I thought that not being liked was a cool thing but now I know how it's feels it's just not good.

    • @lukeallan8876
      @lukeallan8876 5 лет назад +68

      Yeah me to I'm not a kiss ass. I love being my own person .

    • @Marco.91
      @Marco.91 5 лет назад +31

      I walk my own path

  • @lumberjack5909
    @lumberjack5909 3 года назад +12

    Haters only feed the flame of passion I have for success

  • @brahbeh8483
    @brahbeh8483 4 года назад +25

    Everyone is in this world for themselves.

    • @mmommo-hx4dx
      @mmommo-hx4dx 3 года назад

      end times?

    • @jen-gv7tx
      @jen-gv7tx Месяц назад

      then they probably won't get invited to the after party

    • @jen-gv7tx
      @jen-gv7tx Месяц назад

      not the infj crowd.

  • @Kerrviii
    @Kerrviii 4 года назад +6

    I lost my mom early... I was 9. I think after that I stopped caring and saw the most fake stuff ever! I was already bossy..... but I really stand my point and I own what I believe in !!!!

  • @PratikPatelblackunicorn
    @PratikPatelblackunicorn 8 лет назад +55

    This is one of the best mastery session of all time. It is same as arnold schwarzenegger said, What is point to be on this earth if all you want to do is to be liked y everyone and avoid trouble.

  • @Heyiya-if
    @Heyiya-if 3 года назад +7

    “It's not worth doing something unless someone, somewhere, would much rather you weren't doing it.”
    ― Terry Pratchett

  • @ImmaShadowGirl
    @ImmaShadowGirl 8 лет назад +156

    Every single video BLOWS my mind.
    And the funny thing is I already know everything you talk about and yet I get these goosebumps all over my body.

    • @yanadre9154
      @yanadre9154 8 лет назад +1

      That's why those videos are so motivating! :)

    • @THEGREATME329
      @THEGREATME329 5 лет назад

      Video these goose bumps all over your body... then let us se

    • @PeteS_1994
      @PeteS_1994 5 лет назад

      Random comment but the outline of your current picture reminds me of Africa.

  • @lindseyhebert5568
    @lindseyhebert5568 6 лет назад +71

    I’m crying because everyone is disliking me my family does this been taken for granted feeling like I am not the special person that Was people used to like me a lot and I was a sweet girl now less communication feeling ignored and feeling like people don’t remember me feeling forgotten and I don’t know if this is true say I asked do y’all still remember me they out of course

    • @Marco.91
      @Marco.91 6 лет назад +10

      I know what you're going through .you will find people that like and you and appreciate you .best wishes

    • @the0ne775
      @the0ne775 5 лет назад +2

      Lindsey Hebert well, you should start by learning proper punctuation, for one...

    • @ashleyphoenix633
      @ashleyphoenix633 5 лет назад +11

      Lindsey Hebert+ I personally know what you're going through too. My own family doesn't even care about me plus they're just toxic /destructive people anyway (we don't choose our families sadly) . You just do what you have to do with your life, always remain positive even when you feel down. Cause the only person that doesn't need to be hated is yourself. Care and love every aspect that makes you an extraordinary and wonderful human being. Stay strong. We are all in this together 💪

    • @sonjicraig6033
      @sonjicraig6033 4 года назад +3

      I feel the same way 😃But God is on my side That’s all you need 🦅

    • @airdonte23
      @airdonte23 4 года назад +1

      Drone So dude, you are lost

  • @HiddenWen
    @HiddenWen 4 года назад +28

    I always try to keep strictly professional at work, even if there are truly friendly people who want to befriend me. I view the place as somewhere to get work done. Making too many close friends creates problems in the future that could be avoided.

  • @rachelrosen5501
    @rachelrosen5501 4 года назад +14

    My life is already a Legend of Tragedy. The sheer amount of adversity I have faced in my life makes me legendary. I am a survivor

    • @mmommo-hx4dx
      @mmommo-hx4dx 3 года назад +1

      me too

    • @jdt8983
      @jdt8983 2 года назад

      Yeah that can be a hard thing to gauge. People have so many different experiences I don't know whether or not my suffering is better or worse. Regardless of how many years I've constantly hoped someone would put a bullet in my head... Compared to somebody elses life mine might be heaven. meh

  • @Ted1775
    @Ted1775 8 лет назад +39

    Transformation lives in Awareness.

  • @damariuswingfield2144
    @damariuswingfield2144 3 года назад +6

    "It is better to be fear then loved if you cannot be both" - Machiavelli.

  • @maulikdesai7688
    @maulikdesai7688 8 лет назад +84

    Thank you... it feels like a family member guiding us...thanks once again...

    • @convadodel2932
      @convadodel2932 5 лет назад +1

      Wish I had a family member like that man.

  • @levicrossdechantel
    @levicrossdechantel 6 лет назад +154

    Random thought:
    Thomas Edison wasn't mocked. He took everything from Tesla. Tesla had a heart of gold--the guy didn't want to profit from his inventions. He wanted free electricity for everyone...but that wasn't the case for Edison, as Edison was more interested in the profit than the common good. In fact, most of Tesla's inventions didn't even get a decent patent since Edison was always screwing him over and ruining his reputation--especially with the case of the electric chair.
    Winners write history. Sadly, that's what Edison did to Tesla.

    • @chiarag2733
      @chiarag2733 5 лет назад +2

      You surely heard about karma 😉

    • @mytube6538
      @mytube6538 5 лет назад +5

      Yes true welcome to earth aka hell

    • @jmm1817
      @jmm1817 5 лет назад +2

      Good point. They were both great men, and I believe we needed them both. One was just a better businessman. Just The Way of the World when you have freedom and capitalism.

    • @kurisuakino317
      @kurisuakino317 4 года назад +3

      I agree Tesla is the true founder.

    • @cheeseontoast3434
      @cheeseontoast3434 4 года назад +4

      At least people now know what's up with Edison And Tesla

  • @lifesymphony2024
    @lifesymphony2024 7 лет назад +27

    I always welcome new ideas. To me, it doesn't matter whether I believe it or not but I respect other's faith, ideas and beliefs. I think that is a sign of a matured mind. Just because we don't believe or understand someone's thought, doesn't mean it is not true and no one has the right to ridicule others.

    • @sohaibahmed226
      @sohaibahmed226 7 лет назад

      Thats true Sharmella I am working on that myself.

  • @natalijar5989
    @natalijar5989 5 лет назад +8

    The name of the video alone changes my attitude towards dislikes

  • @MrVeladi
    @MrVeladi 8 лет назад +25

    Robin i feel like crying with happiness.. I will take the chance to meet you and definitely touch your feet. You just spoke about what i was going through and it gave me more inspiration to move on.. thankyou and i mean it.

  • @justynasoszka2402
    @justynasoszka2402 8 месяцев назад +1

    I am used to being disliked. Since 9 years I stand up for my truth and live life on my own terms. Honestly, I feel unique in the eyes of haters and those who don't like me.

  • @brilliantwriter4856
    @brilliantwriter4856 3 года назад +6

    Know thyself - Socrates
    To know thyself you must first think for yourself- Socrates
    Don’t be the image others put on you -Robert Greene

  • @hank13280000
    @hank13280000 4 года назад +6

    Story of my life i think its mostly because of my looks. Both men and women always point out how ugly i am in unprovoked situations. The crazy thing it's mostly complete strangers i never seen before. But it's worse when its people you think is cool secretly hate you for no reason

  • @Freefork
    @Freefork 4 года назад +9

    BTW, remember that if you lived somewhere else or lived in a different culture, people would react to you differently. So don't disregard your huge passion or your tiny goals simply because of the people around you now. Focus on facts, focus on improving, focus on success.

  • @priyasatiaceelan552
    @priyasatiaceelan552 4 года назад +3

    Thank you so much. I was upset to the point of depression. I am vocal and I stand up for myself. At work place, I try to practise and create standards so there is a process. Generally, I am just vocal hoping to reach out so ppl can make a difference. But resulted in me just being disliked or ignored. Now I am convinced that I will still myself and not be bothered all these people.

  • @IsabelDelgado
    @IsabelDelgado 4 года назад +12

    I just have a hard time dealing with people at work. Every job I’ve had, someone has a problem with me because of my age or my gender. Now I am looking for a way to deal with them without letting it end in me quitting my job.

    • @jdt8983
      @jdt8983 2 года назад +1

      people at work can be cowards because they know they're safe there in an odd way. Depending on the hierarchy

  • @angelligomez
    @angelligomez Год назад +2

    thank you, I was worried about being disliked, but now I see it of value

  • @deathrowinmate28
    @deathrowinmate28 3 года назад +3

    I'm hated so much.... yet I have never hurt anyone in my life. I gets me down to the point I just want to be a hermit and run my businesses from my home.
    I'm actually a generous person.
    But the hate towards me is potent

    • @mmommo10
      @mmommo10 2 года назад +1

      me too, ever think it could be the devil?

  • @Ps114REXIVD
    @Ps114REXIVD 4 года назад +6

    I needed this confirmation and affirmation this morning...thank you! A week ago I came against the greatest opposition in my journey and I nearly gave in or gave up, but I pulled through and today your message confirms that I have the strength to make it to the very end, and this end is so near that I'm living it already. It's just my physical body which needs to relocate.

  • @seanaslany2226
    @seanaslany2226 5 лет назад +9

    Man today I post a ad on Facebook for my Facebook and so many people start to hate like hate hate and I was just wonder why so many people hate to see growth and progress this video just explain it all to me
    Thank you

    • @deafconmediaZA
      @deafconmediaZA 4 года назад

      That is a fantastic thing. Congratulations on your first taste of success. Your next goal is to double the hate👌

    • @jen-gv7tx
      @jen-gv7tx Месяц назад

      people hate because hate is in the dna and there is really really atrocious people who were not trained properly from their own dna. ha, ha , ha.

  • @synamot624
    @synamot624 8 лет назад +24

    I had to make myself click this link... "leaders run towards resistance"

    • @fakefakingtonthe3rd702
      @fakefakingtonthe3rd702 5 лет назад

      synamon townsend same lol 😂 but I had to listen as much as I kept thinking to just ignore this

  • @shemoecollash573
    @shemoecollash573 5 лет назад +18

    I just met some ppl and they just dislike me and insult me for no reason... idk what I did, I'm just always sad... i hate my life.
    From I was a child, I've faced dislikes from everyone I might be the most hated person in the world.

    • @katerigonzalez3261
      @katerigonzalez3261 5 лет назад +3

      People hate me too. Only very few love me for who I am as a person. Those people really got to know me. We have to keep on going, keep on living.

    • @BrolyKing801
      @BrolyKing801 3 года назад +1

      People hate me too you not alone bro Haters going to hate they see you shinning.

  • @happyguy1148
    @happyguy1148 6 лет назад +10

    Thank you so very much for that. I really needed it. I’m on a journey right now to write short horror/action / amazing things that I dream of every night. I want to put it out there for people to enjoy and in my heart I know it’s my calling and people will really enjoy them. That being said I’m coming across a lot of individuals saying that’s a stupid idea don’t do that. But it hasn’t broken me and I’m still on my mission to share to the world some really neat things that I’ve experienced in my dreams on a nightly basis. Thank you again Mr Sharma for this video

  • @tanitrarobinson7477
    @tanitrarobinson7477 2 года назад +3

    Awesome lesson! I'm not designed to fit in and I love it!

  • @oohmonika6944
    @oohmonika6944 3 года назад +3

    I know not everyone is rude. But I’m not judge mental and I never talk bad about others.. but most of the time people are rude to me and always talk bad about me even if they’re my friends and I share my blessings to them.

  • @juliewishmeyer1461
    @juliewishmeyer1461 5 лет назад +5

    This video helped me see things differently. I can let go of the negativity.

  • @BeanBeanMcBean3000
    @BeanBeanMcBean3000 4 года назад +8

    I feel like no matter what I do everyone I know just starts to hate me eventually.
    I feel like there’s no point to living if no one at my school likes me. It would be better for everyone if I was dead.

  • @BTHABIT.
    @BTHABIT. 8 лет назад +72

    all this is very nice but how can I use it on a smaller scale it's not like I want to change the society I just want to be myself and have a better life for my own

    • @user-nf5px7vg6w
      @user-nf5px7vg6w 5 лет назад +1

      @Shipp If that makes one relatable I have yet to find others to befriend.

    • @giveyourlifetothelord9453
      @giveyourlifetothelord9453 4 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/JxDLNS1mJhw/видео.html 🌐🎨🎯👍🏼👍🏾🌟💯🌎

    • @mybeautifuljourney7540
      @mybeautifuljourney7540 3 года назад +4

      That is still creativity. You are creating something outside what everyone is doing!

  • @sawsanbellaj
    @sawsanbellaj 7 лет назад +4

    It just feels that every word you say, is said to me personally and makes me love my life even more! ❤ Thank you Robin Sharma !

  • @juliamalysz
    @juliamalysz 4 года назад +4

    Nobody likes me and I just cant stop thinking about it
    And I cry everyday

    • @user-pz6ex9vv5r
      @user-pz6ex9vv5r 4 года назад +1

      i'm here if you wanna talk

    • @juliamalysz
      @juliamalysz 4 года назад

      @@user-pz6ex9vv5r thanks

    • @Testo99
      @Testo99 3 года назад

      @@user-pz6ex9vv5r I am here if you wanna talk

  • @daleromdenne
    @daleromdenne 4 года назад +5

    I feel like I have no good friends. I was told that I can only have one friend at a time. Yeah because I am faithful to my friends. I don’t care but I will stand for them. But it seems I am the bad one in the end. I don’t know anymore.

  • @gardeningwithatley3098
    @gardeningwithatley3098 5 лет назад +18

    I think i'm going to be dead before i get to do what i want because people make it so difficult. Good talk though. Cheers.

    • @CutieZalbu
      @CutieZalbu 3 года назад

      It’s a test. Keep going,Cheers from Internet stranger 💜

  • @Aman.Akshay.Sharma
    @Aman.Akshay.Sharma 8 лет назад +16

    Thanks brother, really needed this right now

  • @barakieldraco5440
    @barakieldraco5440 4 года назад +4

    David icke was laughed at and now im literally speechless,
    He is on to something

  • @lulabella9249
    @lulabella9249 4 года назад

    I am so grateful I found your channel. I have been ostracized by my fellow teacher/colleagues for reaching out to my students and their families during COVID-19, stating that my intent was to upstage them. The level of hate that was thrown in my direction without actually mentioning me was so obvious that other staff members noticed and reached out after the meeting to see if I was ok. Thank you for helping me to stay grounded and focused in my truth

  • @umeshkanthanselvaraj2319
    @umeshkanthanselvaraj2319 7 лет назад +5

    Every word said by you adds great value to our life. Thanks Robin

  • @bigfreeze2691
    @bigfreeze2691 8 лет назад +14

    This video is a gem!! Thanx alot, Robin

  • @nv4067
    @nv4067 4 года назад +4

    true , my success make people dislike me

  • @thelonecrow1300
    @thelonecrow1300 5 лет назад +2

    I am not liked in my workplace and I got so stressed my throat muscles started to tighten. What’s the point of change if you stand alone with nobody to share it. You can say what you think and I’m happy for you but words fall numb So I stand on what I say if people dislike you to a point you will dislike yourself and that’s the cold truth

  • @christopherofarrell1628
    @christopherofarrell1628 4 года назад +6

    This video is just absolute pure of knowledge and wizardry I love it great content😁

  • @cherylboyd1811
    @cherylboyd1811 4 года назад +2

    I love when people put enough heart into disliking me 😃and I love it for all the wrong reasons.lol. I always return any futile efforts to start slick talking with sweetness. Unless someone comes in my personal space.then a whole different personality comes out . Its also crazy when people find out where I came from . Most tough talking big mouths are just that..all talk. Loudest usually the weakest

  • @seeingstraightthrough
    @seeingstraightthrough 4 года назад +3

    After all the hate. Life goes on that's what I had to learn.

  • @nadiacavallini4728
    @nadiacavallini4728 4 года назад +2

    Wow, this was one of the best messages I've ever listened to. Deep down I already know this stuff, but this message has helped bring back my awareness as to why people hate. Being a leader can definitely be a lonely journey.

  • @theredpilgrim
    @theredpilgrim 7 лет назад +3

    Thanks a lot Robin Sharma! God Bless and All the Best from Rizwana!

  • @erigeorgie
    @erigeorgie 3 года назад +1

    Love it ♥️ tired of being attacked and hated for no reason. But I’m fighting to not let it get me down and instead fuel me to do better.

  • @moosaalhadhrami5797
    @moosaalhadhrami5797 8 лет назад +8

    Thanks Robin it's really makes me feel so great whenever I watch your videos. However, I have a suggestion for you, if you just can add some photos or music related to the subject you present it would be much understandable and stuck in our minds, eventually it help us to follow your advices as we picture it.

  • @DeanRendar
    @DeanRendar 4 года назад +1

    involvement in pertinent matters towards career, self reliance, and not solely socializing is being reorganized AT THIS VERY MOMENT. High school ends, despite what tormentors who think misery is enjoyed when shared think.

  • @cooldudezeon4711
    @cooldudezeon4711 3 года назад +4

    I've been hated since my birth
    Even my family don't care about me
    Sometimes I fell lonely

  • @krishnasingh-fu7tm
    @krishnasingh-fu7tm 4 года назад +1

    idk why at first i always wins heart of every person i met ... but then sooner or later they started hating on me and making me feel as if i dont fit in

  • @keepsmililgyo4675
    @keepsmililgyo4675 6 лет назад +6

    I just want to say thankyou....to you..

  • @MRBLONDE6
    @MRBLONDE6 2 года назад

    Needed this. Just confirming what I already believed especially seeing some of the comments. I don’t care to be loved by all, just liked by a few good ones. This creates a culture of winning and success as a leader in your workplace. As long as you have your bedrock that share the same beliefs and aligned on the same goal it’ll be alright. Keep going if you’re reading this. You’re exactly where you need to be.

  • @muthukumaranjayaraman6859
    @muthukumaranjayaraman6859 6 лет назад +3

    Thanks Robin. I found the answer to my question after a long time...

  • @erinsama6547
    @erinsama6547 3 года назад +1

    speaking wisdom. powerful and short. down to the point. easy to understand. good looking out.👍

  • @nayefdajim
    @nayefdajim 7 лет назад +5

    This is an amazing talk. Thank you.

  • @queenofthebutterflies5212
    @queenofthebutterflies5212 3 года назад

    I love you. Thankyou. I am a complete freak, always on the fringes, and now I live in suburbia with my Mum bc I have a little boy & I'm unwell with auto immune disorders. Everyone here is 'normal' & I'm having a really hard time bc I used to hang out in ashrams. You've really helped me today bc I see the other people everyday at drop off. Abundant blessings xx

  • @uppercut1200
    @uppercut1200 4 года назад +3

    Absolutely the smartest words spoken on RUclips

  • @codeknight7
    @codeknight7 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for reminding me.

  • @turenalive
    @turenalive 8 лет назад +10

    LOVE this. Thank you.💛

  • @NaeemAkramAndroidiOSApp
    @NaeemAkramAndroidiOSApp 8 лет назад +2

    Transformation lives in awareness...

  • @itsvee803
    @itsvee803 5 лет назад +3

    Yea being hated can be a dangerous thing....

  • @sabrinaabdelhamid6714
    @sabrinaabdelhamid6714 4 года назад

    Thank you so much, Robin. I always get back to this mastery session whenever I feel hated. It shocks me that followers say you're free to do what you belive in and when I actually do so, they become so mad at me and why is that? Because I did something differently. I am still in the process of being a leader. I am in the phase of being disliked and ridiculed. I am just saying that because I don't wanna get back to being a follower because I wasn't happy. I was complaining all the time and I used to be an addict to entertainment or the news. Now I am an addict to education and I am happy most of the time. Entertainment now is being around real good people who really love me even when I change. They are not a lot but that is great so that I can have enough time to be a leader.

  • @go4dil
    @go4dil 4 года назад +3

    My friends used to love me but now they hate me just because I started talking with someone they don't like and I don't see why it's a big deal. The fact that they hate me is very painful because they were my only friends....

  • @biancacurley7073
    @biancacurley7073 3 года назад

    Currently experiencing that feeling of being "disliked" after starting my channel so trying to deal with the fact that it happens when you try to make an impact and finally express and are yourself. Thanks for the inspiring words!

  • @govind8300
    @govind8300 8 лет назад +8

    Great inspiration as always

  • @joey7763
    @joey7763 4 года назад +2

    Look I don't care if I die alone. I've been bullied by both men and women for being even when my mother had attack, even when I had severe family issues that caused a multitude of disruption resulting to my bipolar disorder.
    I want to simply live a simple, fulfilling life, for myself.

  • @deepakkumar-he5zy
    @deepakkumar-he5zy 8 лет назад +8

    thanks robin for superb insight....

  • @fajrsahar157
    @fajrsahar157 3 года назад +1

    "Think, be, and produce as those in the top 5%, and be eccentric"