Prison roommate with heinous crime

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  • Опубликовано: 14 дек 2023
  • This kid committed the most heinous crime and many called him a monster. What I saw, instead, was a kid who had experienced tremendous abuse and trauma, who felt trapped - almost like a feral animal - and who responded in the only way he felt like he could escape. It was a horrible act, a horrible situation and a horrible indictment of our system as a whole.
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Комментарии • 14

  • @saoirsevicteoiria2759
    @saoirsevicteoiria2759 5 месяцев назад +12

    Pain *is* a communicable disease. Well said.

  • @2ctheocean
    @2ctheocean 3 месяца назад

    Normal people don't understand this when people talk about abusive parents. You can still have good memories with your abuser because they are not like that all the time. You can even love them. But they can't give you what you need from them because they're broken themselves. It's a duality that most people don't fully grasp.

  • @aishasamodien5987
    @aishasamodien5987 4 месяца назад +1

    How the hell do you know his stories are true??? How could you take his word for it???

  • @mickmash13
    @mickmash13 5 месяцев назад +1

    Man. "Pain is a communicable disease" really hits me hard. I grew up in an abusive home because of my mom's alcoholism, which happened because she was self medicating her PTSD and other mental health issues. I've been through periods of being so angry with & resentful of her & missing her a lot (we're no contact right now), but I've never stopped loving her through all of it. Hearing what you said hits home really hard with me in regards to her. Does it justify or excuse what she did? No. Does it help me reframe things in my own mind? Yeah, a little. Thanks for sharing this. It helps.

  • @5m4llP0X
    @5m4llP0X 5 месяцев назад +1

    My grandmother was about that bad towards her kids, with the exception of one. This caused my eldest uncle to try and kill him. We couldn't prove it, but he was always jealous of the affection and attention my other uncle received. My grandmother still died saying horrible things towards my eldest uncle, even though she never knew he did it.

  • @nocodeguitar
    @nocodeguitar 5 месяцев назад +1

    You should reach out to the podcast “on the gate”. Funny dudes but also talk about their time behind bars

  • @CM-oj3oi
    @CM-oj3oi 5 месяцев назад +2

    It is sad that any child has to suffer abuse.

    • @Max_6200
      @Max_6200 2 месяца назад

      Well, you know, we all encounter pathogenic bacteria all the time, but we don't get sick that easily. What does make us sick is the amount of pathogens and the lack of balance between it and our immunity

  • @marlonbravo9466
    @marlonbravo9466 5 месяцев назад

    Amen brother! ✊

  • @wig_chief7743
    @wig_chief7743 5 месяцев назад

    You make a lot of sense. I am going to start meditating again because of your videos.
    Peace n love!

  • @clemdelaclem
    @clemdelaclem 5 месяцев назад

    In statistics there's this concept of something being heriditary, which is how much of the variance of a trait correlated with the same trait in their parents. Note how this does not necessarily mean that that trait is genetic, smoking, for example, is hereditary, if your parents smoke you are more likely to smoke.
    **Abuse is also hereditary**, it gets passed on like an illness and it festers and spreads to other people, other families. I can sympathize with the kid and I hope he got some kind of healing and that his sentence wasn't life, not all abuse victims become abusers though so he has some culpability

  • @high62609
    @high62609 5 месяцев назад

    Please don't say borderline people are violent. I've not been violent to anyone, I'm borderline, ptsd, anxiety and depression. EMDR made a HUGE difference

    • @__-wm9lu
      @__-wm9lu 5 месяцев назад +2

      They can be. Stop being sensitive

    • @high62609
      @high62609 5 месяцев назад

      @__-wm9lu you REALLY what to be an A-hole to someone w/borderline personality disorder???