But it's stuff that needs to be said, especially in desi households, in a respectful manner, but it needs to be said and challenged. I think it is great therapy and he will probably improve his relationship with his family through this podcast. Thank you, Wajeeh, for speaking the thoughts of a lot of second generation desi's.
When women say they have an issue with mama’s boys, its not an issue with how close a son is to his mom, its a fear of whether the girl will be mistreated by her husband because his mom asks him to do so. Otherwise a close bond & a loving relationship between a guy and his mom is very attractive. It makes the guy look much more respectful
To be honest, I am a mama’s boy too and I have the same arguments with my mom. But I am on mama jee’s side here. Its so evident she loves you so much. Made me miss my mom. 😭 I think you see the reality clearer once you view the entire argument as an outsider. Wajeeh doesn’t realize this right now. Mama jee if you ever come to Cincinnati, we need to have a fan meet up. 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 You are so awesome.
Love this! I love that Mama Jee doesn’t hold back. And yes 95% of Pakistani parents are 100% racist. They say “as long as they are Muslim” until you bring home a black partner. Let’s be real. Let’s talk about that. Btw my husband is black, I’m Pakistani. Anyway looking forward to the next one!
Stumbled upon this on my bday.....was feeling...alone...lonely...sad...coz lost my dad few months back....n was missing his love n duas n good wishes...thank u wajee n mama G....brought a 😊....on my otherwise 😔 face....u r both hilarious ...God bless
Tons of respect for mama Jee. I’m saying this completely from a place of care and compassion. You guys should really push mama Jee to get therapy. Our desi immigrant parents have certain mindsets that become very problematic and a lot of that’s due to repressed trauma and emotions from their own upbringing. Much love! ❤️
I actually genuinely agree with a lot of Mama Jees points. I see where she’s coming from when she says he belongs to her but his happiness is her happiness so she sets him free. Like I understand even if it’s worded that way, her love is true love. Mama jee makes some very great points
Totally agree with mamajee you will realise everything she was saying after you have your own children. I was the same, i thought the same as you wajeeh and now i have my own children i have the same fears and right now they are only toddlers so imagine when they are older, the fear and worry will be tenfold
I wouldnt want a mama boy because some guys wont leave their mum and get their own house with their wife,I've seen some guys who are like that Mama boys shouldn't get married if their can't keep their wives happy
I respect your mom a lot for sitting down and having this discussion. I can't have this discussion because my parents find it disrespectful that I am talking back to them. So most of the time, we end up digressing from the actual discussion and insulting each other.
Wajeeh is going to use this as evidence later in life.😂Alhamdulillah, my brown parents let me travel ever since i turned 18, with my brother and friends. Love the message thats put out, waiting for more.
Marrying a mummys boy only works if the mum isn’t toxic and can’t bear the thought of her son having another woman in his life. Speaking from experience lol
Mamajee is speaking from her ❤ wajeh u have all the freedom in the world! Just love and respect ur parents there never gonna be around forever! Eventually ur gona find ur own family and gonna go through the same jouney
Thank you soo much wajeeh for not letting me spill my tea this time hahaha THE MOST AWAITED EPISODE i don't know how do i express my feelings litterally man after rough week at school this is the thing which brightens my day thank you for making my day and MAMA JEE APKO ABHUT SAARI DUA AND PYAAR like man this desi mother son dyanmic is what the podcast industry was waiting for this THIS IS UNIQUE U GUYS ARE UNIQUE man you dont know how much u made me happy everyday with your content and hardwork! i have sent u emails on this on how much i love ur content and podcast! god bless and inshallah this podcast journey reaches the highest peak. Lots of love from dubai! YOU GUYS DID IT AND I AM PROUD OF U GUYS please i will now wait every weekend for this its sad cuz i am dying with excitment but u make each podcast worth wait wajjeeh i am soo proud of u
@@laundryclothes1582 bro no body said they hate school its just there are rough weeks or days in school or jobs time to time otherwise school is enjoyable but i just had tiring rough week and their podcast makes me happy lmao
Every women say that before becoming a mother In law,when they are in this situation they would never bear their son taking their wives sides or take stand for their wife 😅
Hope Wajeeh's future wife isn't watching this 😅 I feel like parent's should stop interfering too much in Son's life after marriage... They should let them live happily... If they are happy together then they will definitely going to take care of their parents... Today's generation doesn't want top much interference...
Mama g is sooo cutest ❤...when waji said do you think am your property? She immediately and clearly said...I do...😂😂😂😂 I laughed harder than ever 😂😂😂😂😂
Talk about why you don’t do RUclips videos anymore. I know it’s probably because you’re a lawyer but I’d like to hear you talk about it and also if mama jee misses the videos
Awww mama g is on point yea boy should be a mamas boy but mom should not be controlling and negative person and boy should be respectful and kind. Love watching you guys.
When she said you wont understand till your a parent.. I totally get that now. Im a parent now and I get it! Idk how my parents gave me so much freedom Im scared lol for my kids!
Heres the thing....If you are going to date a desi guy there is no need to talk to him!! Interview his mother instead!! If you get along well with her then only proceed with the match. And Mama Jee here is a very sweet lady!! I have seen some mother in laws who are really monsters!! Mama Jee here is very nice.
Your mum is completely correct about travelling with your wife 😂 you'll both appreciate the experiences a lot more than having experienced it with friends. Especially first experiences. That's generally speaking too. Do the repeat experiences with your mates after marriage in regards to trips. Then, let her have time with her friends and let husbands have his time with the boys. Within halal boundaries of course and with balance 😛
I think the whole movie thing you answered yourself, unless your leaving details out but like you said, you didn't have the luxury because you had another bigger task/goal to cover first. You'll get another opportunity and a bigger one bro
I know she loves her son but the mother is way too much with her son he has to live his life and make the mistakes that is how he will grow strong and able to live his life..Cut the strings...I know the other son his brother he doesn't allow his mother to act like this toward him..She is really over the top...too much Your children are never your property
Tbh the whole mamas boy thing doesn't make sense to me. I find that most women that say stuff like that have a weird way of comparing themselves to your mother which is a huge turn off. My mother is my mother. You are not my mom. When girls cross that line and start comparing themselves to the women that birthed me it becomes extremely evident that the girl has controlling issues. It's almost as if they feel like they want to be your mother and your women. And something else that's not talked about is when women and mothers can't control their emotions or aptitude for thinking they own you so we as men are put into dramatic losing situations where we have to essentially pick a side in an issue they created just to stop conflict. Ultimately, women that say "mamas boy" are weird. I'd never look at a girl sideways because she was a daddy's girl and has a strong relationship with her father. If anything It shows me she was raised right.
maybe because fathers don't interfere or become a hindrance in their daughter's marriage while the son's mom does very often become a hindrance. It isn't the wife trying to be your mom in fact women complain about men not being self-sufficient and expecting you to be like their mom. It's the mothers that have this "emotional incest"-yes that's a word where they get jealous of their son's wife and if the son is a "mama's boy" he will go with the flow and not disagree with his mom whether she is right or wrong and let her be the third person in their marriage. So women who say mama's boy arent weird because it's a real thing and they are the ones who suffer afterwards.
The purpose of having kids is basically leaving a piece of you behind when you're not in this world your generation goes on..expanding you're family. It's the nature of humans within kids at some point you feel something is missing in your life kids bring joy to you're house it's feels complete. Unless your against kids, then that's another story. This is how I feel about it.
I feel the purpose of having kids is that you are having them for the sake of Allah as a contribution to the ummah. That’s why whatever sacrifice you made while raising them, the reward is with Allah. You don’t expect anything from them in return. It’s not transactional
@@leema365 sad in today's world family always look for return and if you don't they say we raised you and took care of you but you are not doing the same for us in return.
Mama ji ki English is so good. You should ask her in next pod cast ke would she allow her boys to get married to someone older then them and divorced with kids? Would like to get her view. As many desi moms do not.
Wajeeeh Huge respect man 😂 Trying to get her thoughts straight Wowwww just commendable how you deal with it 😂 But she’s still Super sweet 😂my property 😂😂😂😂😂
I agree with your mother. Please dont listen to thospeople who call you mama boy. What i saw in you is that you love your mother and you are mama boy but i have also seen that you traveled, you moved out and lived alone, you always did what you love and took your own decision while being mamaboy
Don’t get me wrong I love watching theses series but why do I feel like wajeeh is kinda being disrespectful towards mama jee especially when it came to the film movie opportunity where he basically blamed his mom when he himself was not sure if he wanted to peruse the film himself and then mama jee pleading his hands informs of the camera I just kinda felt bad towards mama jee no hate whatsoever just telling y’all my honest opinion.
That’s hypocritical and a typical desi mom behavior…..her parents gave her the freedom to come half way across the world as a woman but she can’t give same freedom to her own child. Sorry mama jee, not with you on this one. I am a mom too and get the safety concern but a love that smothers you, is actually disabling. You can’t clip your children’s wings all because you are too scared to let your kids fly away and leave the nest.
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Wajeeh has def started this podcast to say all the things he can't off-camera lol...bro feels trapped
But it's stuff that needs to be said, especially in desi households, in a respectful manner, but it needs to be said and challenged. I think it is great therapy and he will probably improve his relationship with his family through this podcast. Thank you, Wajeeh, for speaking the thoughts of a lot of second generation desi's.
FRRR, she shook me with that first answer alone
When women say they have an issue with mama’s boys, its not an issue with how close a son is to his mom, its a fear of whether the girl will be mistreated by her husband because his mom asks him to do so. Otherwise a close bond & a loving relationship between a guy and his mom is very attractive. It makes the guy look much more respectful
EXACTLY EXACTLY EXACTLY!!!!!! 💯💯💯💯💯💖🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SAYING THIS!!!!! I 10000000% agree!!!!
Or the mom mistreating her and the husband wouldn’t stand up for her because he a mama’s boy
The point where wajeeh said ‘you don’t listen when we confront you and you can never be wrong’ I felt that bro. 😂😂😂😂 My mom’s like that.
fr lmaoo
Mine too . Moms think they can’t be wrong :p
To be honest, I am a mama’s boy too and I have the same arguments with my mom. But I am on mama jee’s side here. Its so evident she loves you so much. Made me miss my mom. 😭 I think you see the reality clearer once you view the entire argument as an outsider. Wajeeh doesn’t realize this right now.
Mama jee if you ever come to Cincinnati, we need to have a fan meet up. 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 You are so awesome.
Mama Jee is awesome. She can conduct her own morning show. Mama Jee please tell your life stories. It would be interesting.
Love this! I love that Mama Jee doesn’t hold back. And yes 95% of Pakistani parents are 100% racist. They say “as long as they are Muslim” until you bring home a black partner. Let’s be real. Let’s talk about that. Btw my husband is black, I’m Pakistani. Anyway looking forward to the next one!
Stumbled upon this on my bday.....was feeling...alone...lonely...sad...coz lost my dad few months back....n was missing his love n duas n good wishes...thank u wajee n mama G....brought a 😊....on my otherwise 😔 face....u r both hilarious ...God bless
She's definitely going to love her Bahu to the fullest whether you choose her or she chooses her❤️
Tons of respect for mama Jee. I’m saying this completely from a place of care and compassion. You guys should really push mama Jee to get therapy. Our desi immigrant parents have certain mindsets that become very problematic and a lot of that’s due to repressed trauma and emotions from their own upbringing. Much love! ❤️
Mama Jee is such a natural on camera! ty for the subtitles haha great podcast :)
I actually genuinely agree with a lot of Mama Jees points. I see where she’s coming from when she says he belongs to her but his happiness is her happiness so she sets him free. Like I understand even if it’s worded that way, her love is true love. Mama jee makes some very great points
Legit why do I find myself agreeing with mama jee more even though I'm wajeeh's age
Please can we get a segment for mama jee to give us advice about issues we have- I love her mindset and she has such a good outlook on life!!
Maybe you can do a podcast segment where people send in their stories about the issues they are facing and mama jee can advice
Love this!!! Great convos. Love ur mom. Would love 2 eps released a week if possible pls!!
Totally agree with mamajee you will realise everything she was saying after you have your own children. I was the same, i thought the same as you wajeeh and now i have my own children i have the same fears and right now they are only toddlers so imagine when they are older, the fear and worry will be tenfold
I wouldnt want a mama boy because some guys wont leave their mum and get their own house with their wife,I've seen some guys who are like that
Mama boys shouldn't get married if their can't keep their wives happy
I respect your mom a lot for sitting down and having this discussion. I can't have this discussion because my parents find it disrespectful that I am talking back to them. So most of the time, we end up digressing from the actual discussion and insulting each other.
Wajeeh is going to use this as evidence later in life.😂Alhamdulillah, my brown parents let me travel ever since i turned 18, with my brother and friends. Love the message thats put out, waiting for more.
One thing I will give to mama jee is her faith in Allah swt and her love for Islam, it’s nice to see.
“OPEN MINDED mujhe nahi ataa?” ~ this was just too funny 😂
waiting for the next episode! I want to hear about mom's travel alone to the USA!!
Love listening to ur podcast ❤.. u guys are so fun!!
Mama's boy is a person who always listen to his mom while making a decision.. whether the mom's decision is right or wrong
I loved this podcast , watched it with my whole family
Thank u for bringing up this topic
This podcast needs to be shared with all the moms 🥲
“You still go tho” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣mamaji Savage for that 20:24
Marrying a mummys boy only works if the mum isn’t toxic and can’t bear the thought of her son having another woman in his life. Speaking from experience lol
I want more mama jee videos!! ❤️
Keep these episodes coming loool highlight of my week
Thank you so much for the subtitles
Mamajee is speaking from her ❤ wajeh u have all the freedom in the world! Just love and respect ur parents there never gonna be around forever! Eventually ur gona find ur own family and gonna go through the same jouney
When your mom said, “stupid asses” I burst out laughing and almost swung my car! ☠️ Literally something my moms would say!
yaaaaarrrrr!!!! you guys are awesome.. so relatable
LOOOOOOOOVing these podcast episodes...never stop!
This was so much fun to watch😂 Especially the Tom Cruise part!😂
Appreciate the subtitles bro
Bro got it on recording incase he needs it in the future 😂😂
“I’m treated like a brown girl too” ~ felt that in my chest 😂😂💀
Mama Jee is all ❤
Love your podcasts!! This is the second one I'm seeing!
Thank you soo much wajeeh for not letting me spill my tea this time hahaha THE MOST AWAITED EPISODE i don't know how do i express my feelings litterally man after rough week at school this is the thing which brightens my day thank you for making my day and MAMA JEE APKO ABHUT SAARI DUA AND PYAAR like man this desi mother son dyanmic is what the podcast industry was waiting for this THIS IS UNIQUE U GUYS ARE UNIQUE man you dont know how much u made me happy everyday with your content and hardwork! i have sent u emails on this on how much i love ur content and podcast! god bless and inshallah this podcast journey reaches the highest peak. Lots of love from dubai! YOU GUYS DID IT AND I AM PROUD OF U GUYS please i will now wait every weekend for this its sad cuz i am dying with excitment but u make each podcast worth wait wajjeeh i am soo proud of u
🙏🙏❤
honestly idk why ppl say they hate school i had best time of my life at school
@@laundryclothes1582 bro no body said they hate school its just there are rough weeks or days in school or jobs time to time otherwise school is enjoyable but i just had tiring rough week and their podcast makes me happy lmao
Every women say that before becoming a mother In law,when they are in this situation they would never bear their son taking their wives sides or take stand for their wife 😅
Mama jee makes sense with the travel companion
Ahh so entertaining 😂 Sunday made
Beautiful podcast, so spontaneous, really enjoyed this one too. Love you my dear Raheela. Stay blessed always.❤❤❤
Really enjoyable, All the best for next pods really looking forward to them❤
Omg loving it guys...keep it up
Perfect setup now!
Need more of these
Mama Jee is right..
Your mom is amazing,Allahumma barik laha...She is thoughtful. ❤
Lol I enjoyed Tom Cruise discussion 🤣
Wow, I had to watch this as soon as I saw it had been uploaded, the 'I love you baby' message to Tom Cruise took me out lol
Hope Wajeeh's future wife isn't watching this 😅
I feel like parent's should stop interfering too much in Son's life after marriage... They should let them live happily... If they are happy together then they will definitely going to take care of their parents...
Today's generation doesn't want top much interference...
Loved this podcast. Waiting for more to come ❤
This is good, keep going.
😂 love this wicked keep the good work man love this dude
Mama g is sooo cutest ❤...when waji said do you think am your property? She immediately and clearly said...I do...😂😂😂😂 I laughed harder than ever 😂😂😂😂😂
Love the podcasts! Mama jee is great!
Well before marriage and before kids we also get annoyed from do this after shaadi etc but now I have kids and am married it's difficult to explain
This was such a fun, enjoyable episode… keep it going. And with regards to that movie.. I’d say jo bhi hota hai achay ke liay hota hai 😅
Love this lady so truth full about motherhood really enjoying these podcasts ❤
Talk about why you don’t do RUclips videos anymore. I know it’s probably because you’re a lawyer but I’d like to hear you talk about it and also if mama jee misses the videos
Awww mama g is on point yea boy should be a mamas boy but mom should not be controlling and negative person and boy should be respectful and kind. Love watching you guys.
Best example are Reza and Pooja ❤
Mama jees Words of wisdom:
It is all about the choice.
Life is all about the choices.
Always make good choices.
Would love to see the spiritual side of mama jee!
When she said you wont understand till your a parent.. I totally get that now. Im a parent now and I get it! Idk how my parents gave me so much freedom Im scared lol for my kids!
Heres the thing....If you are going to date a desi guy there is no need to talk to him!! Interview his mother instead!! If you get along well with her then only proceed with the match. And Mama Jee here is a very sweet lady!! I have seen some mother in laws who are really monsters!! Mama Jee here is very nice.
Your mum is completely correct about travelling with your wife 😂 you'll both appreciate the experiences a lot more than having experienced it with friends. Especially first experiences. That's generally speaking too. Do the repeat experiences with your mates after marriage in regards to trips. Then, let her have time with her friends and let husbands have his time with the boys. Within halal boundaries of course and with balance 😛
I started tweaking when you just threw "You are racist" 😂😂
I’m not even Pakistani or desi, I’m arab and I love your guys show😂🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
Mama ji was like yes you told me 😂 like she wants to know details before coming on love you guys loved this episode 😍❤🥰
I think the whole movie thing you answered yourself, unless your leaving details out but like you said, you didn't have the luxury because you had another bigger task/goal to cover first. You'll get another opportunity and a bigger one bro
I honestly love mama jeeee ❤ may Allah give her a LOOONG, healthy and happy life. ❤ and I love wajeeh’s relationship with mama jee.
I’m loving this 😍 May Allah bless y’all! 🤲🏻
Keep uploading more videos ..Even I made tea while watching and drank with you guys
We need one episode with Papa Jee
Mama Jee and Waji love your podcast,and your bonding beta my jaan,turns of duas for you both.
I know she loves her son but the mother is way too much with her son he has to live his life and make the mistakes that is how he will grow strong and able to live his life..Cut the strings...I know the other son his brother he doesn't allow his mother to act like this toward him..She is really over the top...too much Your children are never your property
Tbh the whole mamas boy thing doesn't make sense to me. I find that most women that say stuff like that have a weird way of comparing themselves to your mother which is a huge turn off. My mother is my mother. You are not my mom. When girls cross that line and start comparing themselves to the women that birthed me it becomes extremely evident that the girl has controlling issues. It's almost as if they feel like they want to be your mother and your women.
And something else that's not talked about is when women and mothers can't control their emotions or aptitude for thinking they own you so we as men are put into dramatic losing situations where we have to essentially pick a side in an issue they created just to stop conflict.
Ultimately, women that say "mamas boy" are weird.
I'd never look at a girl sideways because she was a daddy's girl and has a strong relationship with her father. If anything It shows me she was raised right.
maybe because fathers don't interfere or become a hindrance in their daughter's marriage while the son's mom does very often become a hindrance. It isn't the wife trying to be your mom in fact women complain about men not being self-sufficient and expecting you to be like their mom. It's the mothers that have this "emotional incest"-yes that's a word where they get jealous of their son's wife and if the son is a "mama's boy" he will go with the flow and not disagree with his mom whether she is right or wrong and let her be the third person in their marriage. So women who say mama's boy arent weird because it's a real thing and they are the ones who suffer afterwards.
Need to know that long story of mamaji trying to find the purpose behind having kids on the next episode.
The purpose of having kids is basically leaving a piece of you behind when you're not in this world your generation goes on..expanding you're family. It's the nature of humans within kids at some point you feel something is missing in your life kids bring joy to you're house it's feels complete. Unless your against kids, then that's another story. This is how I feel about it.
I feel the purpose of having kids is that you are having them for the sake of Allah as a contribution to the ummah. That’s why whatever sacrifice you made while raising them, the reward is with Allah. You don’t expect anything from them in return. It’s not transactional
@@leema365 sad in today's world family always look for return and if you don't they say we raised you and took care of you but you are not doing the same for us in return.
My mom, even after admitting she is wrong, still wants to persuade the same thing🥲
So true I totally agree with your Mum. You never understand until you have your own!
love you Wajeeh and your mom she's so pretty mashallah 🥺
thank you for liking my comment! ❤😁
Feel sorry for Wajeeh’s wife, women do not get married 😂
Mama ji ki English is so good. You should ask her in next pod cast ke would she allow her boys to get married to someone older then them and divorced with kids? Would like to get her view. As many desi moms do not.
Mamajee is a gem
The issue with a mama's boy is usually the mom and the boy always running to the mom with his issues
Wajeeeh
Huge respect man 😂
Trying to get her thoughts straight
Wowwww just commendable how you deal with it 😂
But she’s still
Super sweet 😂my property 😂😂😂😂😂
I agree with your mother.
Please dont listen to thospeople who call you mama boy. What i saw in you is that you love your mother and you are mama boy but i have also seen that you traveled, you moved out and lived alone, you always did what you love and took your own decision while being mamaboy
I was waiting for episode 2 for the whole day 🩷
True. Mama Jee is correct. Mama's boy are good but to some extent point..🤣
Don’t get me wrong I love watching theses series but why do I feel like wajeeh is kinda being disrespectful towards mama jee especially when it came to the film movie opportunity where he basically blamed his mom when he himself was not sure if he wanted to peruse the film himself and then mama jee pleading his hands informs of the camera I just kinda felt bad towards mama jee no hate whatsoever just telling y’all my honest opinion.
mama ji is so right....
A mamas boy knows how to treat a woman! 👏
Mama jee we wanna meet u guys❤ love your relationship with your fam, I have the same with my sons❤❤ love the podcasts pls continue them
My favorite new podcast
That’s hypocritical and a typical desi mom behavior…..her parents gave her the freedom to come half way across the world as a woman but she can’t give same freedom to her own child. Sorry mama jee, not with you on this one. I am a mom too and get the safety concern but a love that smothers you, is actually disabling. You can’t clip your children’s wings all because you are too scared to let your kids fly away and leave the nest.
Oh my god!! 😅😅 you're right. Mama jee is sooo stubborn 🤣