Such good insight, analysis and advice, as always. I lived by: Turning the other cheek. Walking the extra mile. Giving more that what is asked. Thinking more of others....than of oneself. At 60 years of age, I had to start seeing reality. I have cut most of my family and friends. The few that are left are worth my time and love and know that I have boundaries. Eight years later, I still need to learn and grow a lot, but have much more peace.
Thank you so much for this...i recently had to stop talking to someone who was draining me emotionally and at the same time disrespecting me. She would call me to talk to her when she had problems yet telling me that i am yoo old to relocate and start a new life and would you believe she is 10 years older than i am? I met her because she is my husbands friend. After the disrespect started i blocked her and my husband is most upset. I stand my ground because i realize that she is hateful and envious and disrespectful. This confirm for me that i was within my rights to stop allowing her access to keep using me and abusing me at the same time. Ghank you.
No. 1 They constantly undermine you No. 2 They mock your goals No. 3 They're inconsistent No. 4 They only call when they need something No. 5 They hold grudges No. 6 They're envious of your success No. 7 They encourage bad habits
To hold a negative view about one and never letting go of that negativity, is interference with that one. It's like throwing a stone on someone who is climbing up a mountain. It's very damaging to one's progress. It's a downward pull. Has great consequences.
No one in this world wants negativity. The way you look at a problem is the real issue. You may call someone a bad person, but I see them as a good person displaying bad behavior. Everything is subjective, even this comment. I hope you all find peace in your lives. 💖💖💖
I have a lot to share about this, but I'll just say that a lesson I've learned (the hard way) is that if someone decides not to like you, friend, or family, run away from them. You are not going to make them like you ever again. And, the longer you try to stay with them, the worse they will make it for you. They won't tell you to your face that they hate you because they are cowards; and, that will also make them look bad. _“If you don't feel it, flee from it. Go where you are celebrated, not merely tolerated.”_ ― Paul F. Davis
My brother calls me a fascist. I used to live near near my aunt and uncle, folks that survived Nazi slave labor camps and Auschwitz. No contact anymore for quite some time.
🔗 "Cutting toxic ties isn't easy, but it's necessary for true peace and growth. This video really hit home for me. 🙌❤ 🌈🕊
Absolutely correct.
Sometimes, walking away is the most Stoic thing you can do. Protecting your peace doesn’t mean you lack love-it means you value your growth
Such good insight, analysis and advice, as always.
I lived by:
Turning the other cheek.
Walking the extra mile.
Giving more that what is asked.
Thinking more of others....than of oneself.
At 60 years of age, I had to start seeing reality. I have cut most of my family and friends. The few that are left are worth my time and love and know that I have boundaries.
Eight years later, I still need to learn and grow a lot, but have much more peace.
Thank you so much for this...i recently had to stop talking to someone who was draining me emotionally and at the same time disrespecting me. She would call me to talk to her when she had problems yet telling me that i am yoo old to relocate and start a new life and would you believe she is 10 years older than i am? I met her because she is my husbands friend. After the disrespect started i blocked her and my husband is most upset. I stand my ground because i realize that she is hateful and envious and disrespectful. This confirm for me that i was within my rights to stop allowing her access to keep using me and abusing me at the same time. Ghank you.
😢😢 THANKS GOD FOR THIS VIDEO, VERY LIGHTNING ON MY MIND
Thank you very much 😊
Great video. Very helpful ❤❤
Wow wow wowwwwwww the best I have ever heard. Wowwww
Very impressive 👍❤
I’ve cut so much negativity from my life the last couple of years it’s practically become a part time job.
No. 1 They constantly undermine you
No. 2 They mock your goals
No. 3 They're inconsistent
No. 4 They only call when they need something
No. 5 They hold grudges
No. 6 They're envious of your success
No. 7 They encourage bad habits
Thank you.
Bye-bye
Tqvm.now I have to put ur advice into action.gb us all
Nice video brother
So True
To hold a negative view about one and never letting go of that negativity, is interference with that one. It's like throwing a stone on someone who is climbing up a mountain. It's very damaging to one's progress. It's a downward pull. Has great consequences.
Its so helpful
No one in this world wants negativity. The way you look at a problem is the real issue. You may call someone a bad person, but I see them as a good person displaying bad behavior. Everything is subjective, even this comment. I hope you all find peace in your lives. 💖💖💖
I have a lot to share about this, but I'll just say that a lesson I've learned (the hard way) is that if someone decides not to like you, friend, or family, run away from them. You are not going to make them like you ever again. And, the longer you try to stay with them, the worse they will make it for you. They won't tell you to your face that they hate you because they are cowards; and, that will also make them look bad.
_“If you don't feel it, flee from it. Go where you are celebrated, not merely tolerated.”_
― Paul F. Davis
Hope more vedios ❣️
My brother calls me a fascist. I used to live near near my aunt and uncle, folks that survived Nazi slave labor camps and Auschwitz. No contact anymore for quite some time.
AMEN
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"How Not to Be Codependent"
PS: listen at 1.5x speed.
35 minutes to say 7 things... Well this definitely isn't a video about efficiency.