Walking away isn’t weakness; it’s self-respect. This message resonates deeply-sometimes the bravest thing we can do is choose our own peace over toxicity. Thanks for spreading such empowering insights!
This video is absolutely brilliant. I love how it uses Stoic principles to offer practical and insightful ways to deal with toxic people. Thanks for sharing such valuable content.
Today is my starting point i have been emotionally physically and financially drained for 5 years but today I'm taking a decision to take care of my mental health and focus on my own healing
Great. Just keep on walking. Don't allow them to draw you back in. They'll try. I'm pulling for you! I had to do the same. Things had gotten so bad, walking away was much easier than staying.
I have walked away from family, it was hard but I did it. The world paints a picture that all people are kind. But this is not the case always. My faith helped me to regain my control of myself and gave me the courage to walk away finally. Cut all ties. My family used the phone to manipulate me. Keep in contact to see what I was doing. Once I stopped this contact, they showed the real them. They where highly insulted couldn't verbally attack. Lost their grip on me.
I walked away from family to I said I am moving out it's time they started wanting to much from me told my older sis go do something we seem to get along better from a distance momi are fine my own health got in the way I did not want to live with two people no ties no grand kids I had the power to tell them I am leaving for my own life dad gone 24 years so far best move I made X friend to negative he lives here told him three years ago left him best move I made in my life I love quiet time I gave everyone boundaries glad I did in touch with good friend who really cares she talked about how she was disappointed with Pattie I said look if she's rude turn her off on the phone when ever she calls her Pattie always wants something it's never hi how are you?? I gave her advise block her on the phone don't deal with her anymore Hans he was dumped for being rude I blocked him he's a complainer he's negative it was to much to deal with he blew it not me❤❤❤❤
Your not alone man I’m dealing with the exact same thing you can only hope you decision will make them realize they need to change don’t go crawling back unless they can be the people you need to support your success you did the right thing don’t think otherwise
Yes! When you're raised by them, marry them, have siblings and/or offspring who are toxic, our energy is spent defending/protecting ourselves rather than developing healthy boundaries. Makes it's so difficult to trust our perception, because there are so many. Sets us up for a lifetime of misery, until we learn differently. I'm only beginning to understand and it truly is liberating.
A lifetime of a very toxic mother to this day. Siblings followed in her footsteps to the extent that after asking 3 times if I needed a certain test and wasn't replied to, I now have to live with a life threatening illness. Never trust these people. They destroy your life physically and mentally. I never thought a family could be so evil.
Walking away and dissappearing was the absolute most liberating thing I ever did. You must understand, however, that when you do, you will still be wrong for setting boundaries.
I did it 11 years ago the best move I made I just don't want to live with anyone my own health got in the way asthma COPD I now have cist that needs attention my breathing is not great mom has really helped a lot my sis gave her boundaries 11 years ago glad I did I have doctors app so it's busy !!! The best move I made❤❤❤❤❤
Remember someone else is going through same struggles and just make sure you're doing whatever is necessary for YOUR HEALTH AND WELL-BEING. Strength and wisdom to you!
I am sure it is not easy to walk out after 20 years…. I am not demotivating you but just being practical and telling you the truth. If you could walk out of the relationship I am very happy for you and you a brave lady….. I am trying to walk out from past 21 years….but unable to 😢
I find myself letting them have their onesided conversations. I enjoy turning away and abandoning them. They can only control themselves. I can only take care of myself. You can't change them, so why waste your precious time here on earth being frustrated and unhappy. I am open to loving everyone until they prove they don't deserve it. When I am done with them, I am not going to engage with them again. I mean ever, no matter if they are family, once friends, or colleagues. I value me and my well-being. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@SaraMercer-v6i Go for you! You won't regret it. I'ts called emotional abuse. You have to have a lot of strength, be independent and have courage to walk away. Be blessed, stay blessed in your journey in life.
I distanced myself from family-it was a painful choice, but necessary. Society often portrays family as a source of unconditional love, but that's not always true. My inner strength and faith gave me the courage to break free and reclaim my peace. Cutting all ties was the turning point. They had used communication to control and monitor me, disguising it as concern. When I ended that connection, their true nature surfaced. Unable to manipulate or criticize me anymore, they lost the control they once held over me.
Family can be very distructive.. because its supposed to be a safe place for an individual... sometimes family love and acceptance comes from people you don't share the DNA
Yes this is unfortunately my situation right now. What do you do when the toxic person is your own mother who you have no choice to live with currently???
True . We cannot control them . But we can control our reaction to them. Not give them the drama they so desire. Turn them over to God and let go. It was too big for me. I could not do it alone. I agree with the wonderful support system idea, and the self care.
the problem is that most of these toxic people do it subtle, over time and usually as they grin like you should focus on the facial expression and not so much the words. and bc it takes awhile to see them as toxic, that's why it takes awhile to react to them properly... people were conditioned to be forgiving, listeners, sympathizers and that it was STRANGERS you were supposed to be wary of...
I knew my gf was toxic but never knew to what level until I heard this. She literally fits every single catagory...thanks for gving me the confidence to let it go for good.
13 Clever Ways to Deal with Toxic People 1. Identifying Toxic Behavior 2. It's not about you 3. Set Boundaries 4. Master the art of non-reaction 5. Use the gray rock method 6. The Broken Record Technique 7. Limit exposure to Toxic people 8. Build your support system 9. Prioritize Self-care 10. Recognize you cannot fix everyone 11. Use Cognitive Reframing 12. Practice forgiveness for your own peace 13. When to walk away
03:17 This is so true. Toxic people often manipulate situations to make you feel guilty for simply standing up for yourself. Recognizing these behaviors as emotional abuse is the first step in breaking free.
This has really helped me to decide how to react to a friend of 30 years who now makes me feel insulted and unable to voice my opinions. I have tried many times to place boundaries but each time it gets forgotten. I have listened to this and realise I do not owe this person anything and need to distance myself for my own peace and good. Thankyou.x
"Life experiences can teach us tough lessons, but they also shape us into stronger, more cautious individuals. Using those lessons to protect yourself isn't wrong-it's wisdom. Trust yourself and your instincts; they’ve kept you safe for a reason."
Without coming across this feature about TOXIC PEOPLE : It's very enlightening that I applied STOICISM already, many times that now gives SMILE on my lips.🎉 😊 Humbly, I would say, perhaps watching and hearing this video now vindicates that I have done it right after all. Thus, PEACE is a gift. A treasure.
The point at 3:50 is so insightful! Learning to not take things personally truly helps in dealing with negativity. Thank you for this practical wisdom! 🙏
"You're welcome! Not taking things personally is a game-changer. It frees you from others' negativity and helps you stay grounded in your own truth. So glad the point resonated with you! 🙏✨"
Very important and useful advice. Peace and happiness are very much essential and need to be protected at any cost. The strategies suggested are very realistic and practical. The method is unique. Many thanks.
"You're absolutely right-protecting your peace is non-negotiable. I'm glad the advice resonates with you! Stay focused on what truly brings you peace and happiness. Thanks for the kind words! 🙏🏼💯"
This video is a game-changer! The reminder that 'we cannot fix toxic people, only ourselves' truly hit home. Protecting our peace and setting boundaries isn’t selfish-it’s self-care. Thanks for this empowering message!
Listening to this and other videos similar to this video, is very relieving. Just thinking back throughout my life and the psychological truth about the mindset of individuals and our own taught and or not taught behavior's. The true mental health status of everyone in society has been taught groomed, practiced within childhood. It's profoundly freeing. I'm grateful for whoever created this video, for everyone that shares the good news. Everything takes time, Rome wasn't built over night, the beauty about theses videos are you can always come back and reprogram yourself to live the life that you want to live. After this seed has been planted, it will be watered, if you want it to be. This basically is reminding you about your own power over yourself. Live and let live. Thank you!❤👑🙏🏿😇💯☮️♾️
This was great . Dealing with a toxic family member. This spoke right to me! For me I would add the must important ingredient for healing was leaning on my faith in Jesus! But well done!!!! ❤
This person would do mean things to me and come asking How are you with the sweetest voice over and over. They were told not to do this or that, yet they continued and created more variations. It took me almost a year to understand. Thank you for this very insightful video. It mentioned exactly what was happening and named many things I didn't understand. Very spot on. Thanks a bunch!
Such Absolutely Awesome Words, I'm Currently Going Through This Exactly Dinamic As I'm Listening To This Message, She's Attempting All Which We Are Listening To Right Now, Thanks Brother For The Strong Insight ❤
Sometimes the best thing you can do is not think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess. Just breathe, and have faith that everything will work out for the best. I am rooting for you❤
This is really an "Eye Opener" I've been prioritizing people since 2014, Family or friends.. I'm 28 years old as of today, Now i just realize.. I don't even value my time and energy.. just to help them with all of their needs.. But how about me? OMG! Thanks for this... I think i need to watch video like this more often as reminder to focus on myself and nurture with the time that i've wasted on the wrong people.😢
Thanks for sharing. I now understand myself more. And now ready to free myself from believing that I was the one toxic only to realize he "guilt-trip"me
This happened to me and i reacted eventually how you explained latter,eventually the person looked for another prey, Truely on point,this video is par excellence❤!!!!!!!!!
I am quite vulnerable emotionally. Sometimes I cannot tell if I am being manipulated or I am the manipulator in friendship. I feel that I should guard my heart from those harmful relationships.
Powerful, precise and perfectly worded. Hoping that this compounds what I've been trying to put across to my partner in regards to their son . Thank you. 🤞
Yes I experienced it also with a colleague, with my sister-in-law and two acquaintances (I don't call them friends). Thanks for the lesson. It's not about you, it's about them.
Especially in work there are toxic people who act like good people to get the information to make you fail and feel bad. "Some people want you to fail and are not really intrested anything they ask " 🎉😮
Thank you for this channel, i have walked away from a toxic relationship that i was stuck in fir years and bksned kysekf until i fekt im going crazy, until one day felt I owe it to myself to keep my sanity and disappeared, nit looking back, im yealing and getting stronger and enjoy my new free life, thank God
Well I always have liked the challenges that Life gives me, easy and difficult. People like who he defined have been around since time began You can, with practical application and proper knowledge, learn to handle yourself in ANY situation. You can't realistically walk away from everyone you are uncomfortable with. Some of them are so defensive because they are broken and trying to protect their inner self. They are reacting because YOU are the threat.
I have been in this situation where I have been made to feel like I am not worthy of being myself, but I have worked on my self esteem and I have been able to make myself feel better about myself and I have not allowed others to intimidate me.
❤ thank you to give me this answer at what time thank you for this beautiful lettuce that you give me and that all the angels the help us to understand dirty people doing to each other sometimes it's too difficult because you want to help everybody yourself thank you for this beautiful answer that you give me I try back to myself and you Forgive People They Hurt Me and thank you you are very nice speaker I wish you The Best Thank You For This Beautiful Energy
OMG this video came at the right time!On 23rd Dec it was my last working day n I was dropping sweets to my colleagues from different departments and then one of my bosses saw me and I wished him good morning and he just flipped at me about an email that I had sent him to remind him to sign some paperwork so that he could get approval.You have to think that this is happening in the morning at 7.30am and it’s Christmas week.I was shook and I felt very sad.He spoiled the happiness.I was still feeling very upset this whole week because I never expected this.Thank you for making this video as it came at the right moment.
Keep your head up , and keep your cool always and don't t let people walk over you , if someone makes jokes about you just smile at least you not being toxic it will dawn on the haters
Your dedication to spreading Stoic wisdom is truly admirable. I’ve discovered several of your channels and deeply appreciate how you’re sharing these timeless principles with the world in such meaningful ways. Thank you for all that you do!
This is very helpful. I have a friend who has become really toxic all of a sudden. I never noticed it before she drains me out. She's selfish and arrogant expects me to drop everything and do stuff for her. I'm trying to keep my distance 😢
8:37 The art of non-reaction is powerfully beautiful. It takes time, but after exhausting All'ah, other avenues, you just give up aNd let stuff come at you aNd you learn to brush it off aNd go oNN. Then, it will extinguish on it's own & you learn how crazy that All'ah 'long you weren't...
This has really opened up my spiritual eyes to "toxic ppl" I have one of these "snakes" now spewing their toxic behavior into my peaceful life. I'm keeping up my boundaries, unapologetically! ❤🙏🏼❤🙏🏼❤🧘
I never knew about these people until I reached the age of 63. That was 3 years ago. They will not go away. I stay calm, but can't wait for them to leave
Walking away isn’t weakness; it’s self-respect. This message resonates deeply-sometimes the bravest thing we can do is choose our own peace over toxicity. Thanks for spreading such empowering insights!
This video is absolutely brilliant. I love how it uses Stoic principles to offer practical and insightful ways to deal with toxic people. Thanks for sharing such valuable content.
Today is my starting point i have been emotionally physically and financially drained for 5 years but today I'm taking a decision to take care of my mental health and focus on my own healing
Strength and wisdom to you!
Great. Just keep on walking. Don't allow them to draw you back in. They'll try. I'm pulling for you! I had to do the same. Things had gotten so bad, walking away was much easier than staying.
Stand strong❤. Take care of YOU
I’ve allowed it for 54 years. Too terrified to walk away. But, I finally did.
Do what is best for you …….
I have walked away from family, it was hard but I did it. The world paints a picture that all people are kind. But this is not the case always. My faith helped me to regain my control of myself and gave me the courage to walk away finally. Cut all ties. My family used the phone to manipulate me. Keep in contact to see what I was doing. Once I stopped this contact, they showed the real them. They where highly insulted couldn't verbally attack. Lost their grip on me.
I walked away from family to I said I am moving out it's time they started wanting to much from me told my older sis go do something we seem to get along better from a distance momi are fine my own health got in the way I did not want to live with two people no ties no grand kids I had the power to tell them I am leaving for my own life dad gone 24 years so far best move I made X friend to negative he lives here told him three years ago left him best move I made in my life I love quiet time I gave everyone boundaries glad I did in touch with good friend who really cares she talked about how she was disappointed with Pattie I said look if she's rude turn her off on the phone when ever she calls her Pattie always wants something it's never hi how are you?? I gave her advise block her on the phone don't deal with her anymore Hans he was dumped for being rude I blocked him he's a complainer he's negative it was to much to deal with he blew it not me❤❤❤❤
Strong move
Your not alone man I’m dealing with the exact same thing you can only hope you decision will make them realize they need to change don’t go crawling back unless they can be the people you need to support your success you did the right thing don’t think otherwise
It isn't kind when we're forced to walk away from our own family. I discovered that I had much higher of a calling and purpose🕊️♥️
Good for you...I respect your courage.
Omg I’ve been dealing with toxic people pretty much my entire life. Family members!!!!
Yes! When you're raised by them, marry them, have siblings and/or offspring who are toxic, our energy is spent defending/protecting ourselves rather than developing healthy boundaries. Makes it's so difficult to trust our perception, because there are so many. Sets us up for a lifetime of misery, until we learn differently. I'm only beginning to understand and it truly is liberating.
A lifetime of a very toxic mother to this day. Siblings followed in her footsteps to the extent that after asking 3 times if I needed a certain test and wasn't replied to, I now have to live with a life threatening illness.
Never trust these people. They destroy your life physically and mentally.
I never thought a family could be so evil.
Family is blessing
@@eileennapier1109I’m in same boat and on way to hospital alone 😢. I’m scared alone at my age.
Iam so sorry dear. God bless you l hope you can find a kind heart that will support you. There are people out there 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉@@sandyk7611
Walking away and dissappearing was the absolute most liberating thing I ever did. You must understand, however, that when you do, you will still be wrong for setting boundaries.
I did it 11 years ago the best move I made I just don't want to live with anyone my own health got in the way asthma COPD I now have cist that needs attention my breathing is not great mom has really helped a lot my sis gave her boundaries 11 years ago glad I did I have doctors app so it's busy !!! The best move I made❤❤❤❤❤
“Wrong”
@@mindyann8903 Yep
Absolutely
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I find it nessesary to have constant reminders like this
Remember someone else is going through same struggles and just make sure you're doing whatever is necessary for YOUR HEALTH AND WELL-BEING. Strength and wisdom to you!
Me to!!
I agree
I have been dealing with toxic relationship for past 20years,but now I value my inner peace so I choose myself and I want to walk away from it.
Its hard isnt it. Hugs. I believe in you.
I am sure it is not easy to walk out after 20 years…. I am not demotivating you but just being practical and telling you the truth. If you could walk out of the relationship I am very happy for you and you a brave lady…..
I am trying to walk out from past 21 years….but unable to 😢
Stay strong and believe in yourself.I dealing with that for 33years
I needed this 48 years ago!!!!!
😮
I find myself letting them have their onesided conversations. I enjoy turning away and abandoning them. They can only control themselves. I can only take care of myself. You can't change them, so why waste your precious time here on earth being frustrated and unhappy. I am open to loving everyone until they prove they don't deserve it. When I am done with them, I am not going to engage with them again. I mean ever, no matter if they are family, once friends, or colleagues. I value me and my well-being. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Your summation is PERFECT, thank you for sharing. ❤ Wishing you all the best!
@@SaraMercer-v6i Go for you! You won't regret it. I'ts called emotional abuse. You have to have a lot of strength, be independent and have courage to walk away. Be blessed, stay blessed in your journey in life.
Wow! I love it. Very courageous.
I distanced myself from family-it was a painful choice, but necessary. Society often portrays family as a source of unconditional love, but that's not always true. My inner strength and faith gave me the courage to break free and reclaim my peace. Cutting all ties was the turning point. They had used communication to control and monitor me, disguising it as concern. When I ended that connection, their true nature surfaced. Unable to manipulate or criticize me anymore, they lost the control they once held over me.
Family can be very distructive.. because its supposed to be a safe place for an individual... sometimes family love and acceptance comes from people you don't share the DNA
Absolutely
💯 Correct..
Yes this is unfortunately my situation right now. What do you do when the toxic person is your own mother who you have no choice to live with currently???
@@user-kq2yp8ji8e so sorry to hear this, I have a toxic mother too and it’s truely horrible
True . We cannot control them . But we can control our reaction to them. Not give them the drama they so desire. Turn them over to God and let go. It was too big for me. I could not do it alone. I agree with the wonderful support system idea, and the self care.
the problem is that most of these toxic people do it subtle, over time and usually as they grin like you should focus on the facial expression and not so much the words. and bc it takes awhile to see them as toxic, that's why it takes awhile to react to them properly... people were conditioned to be forgiving, listeners, sympathizers and that it was STRANGERS you were supposed to be wary of...
@@seeleygirl6178 Unfortunately you have to love them from a distance.
@@trailwalker19 Right, Right. There you go you know. Be blessed, stay blessed in your journey in life.
Usally they are unaccomplished, uneducated, they are in state of pitty for themselves, they are manipulative.
Hey stranger scrolling through the comments...
May all your wishes come true....😇😊 and take care of your self....😊
Amen 🙏🏾
Tathastu 🙏🙏
I knew my gf was toxic but never knew to what level until I heard this. She literally fits every single catagory...thanks for gving me the confidence to let it go for good.
I have been drained almost beyond recovery. I am glad to finally begin to do and know what to do for my betterment.
13 Clever Ways to Deal with Toxic People
1. Identifying Toxic Behavior
2. It's not about you
3. Set Boundaries
4. Master the art of non-reaction
5. Use the gray rock method
6. The Broken Record Technique
7. Limit exposure to Toxic people
8. Build your support system
9. Prioritize Self-care
10. Recognize you cannot fix everyone
11. Use Cognitive Reframing
12. Practice forgiveness for your own peace
13. When to walk away
Thanks for posting this..I'll listen to the rest later.
thank you so much for this!!
Totally what the stoics said. 😂😂😂
Thank you so much
i like 4. Master the art of non-reaction, what about you?❤❤❤
03:17 This is so true. Toxic people often manipulate situations to make you feel guilty for simply standing up for yourself. Recognizing these behaviors as emotional abuse is the first step in breaking free.
@@victorystoic_channel Yes! Having anxiety is emotional abuse. It's just like any other abuse.
This has really helped me to decide how to react to a friend of 30 years who now makes me feel insulted and unable to voice my opinions. I have tried many times to place boundaries but each time it gets forgotten. I have listened to this and realise I do not owe this person anything and need to distance myself for my own peace and good. Thankyou.x
Sounds like You've outgrown the Abuse 😂.. Congratulations 🎉👏🏻..There are so Many loving incredible people out there waiting to meet you ..
Every point in this video is a gem. These clever ways to protect our peace are exactly what I needed-thank you for sharing . TOXIC people
Amen Thank You Jesus 🙏🙏🙌
Most of the time, I use these things towards everyone. Just in case. Experiences in life told me to do it like this.
"Life experiences can teach us tough lessons, but they also shape us into stronger, more cautious individuals. Using those lessons to protect yourself isn't wrong-it's wisdom. Trust yourself and your instincts; they’ve kept you safe for a reason."
Without coming across this feature about TOXIC PEOPLE : It's very enlightening that I applied STOICISM already, many times that now gives SMILE on my lips.🎉 😊 Humbly, I would say, perhaps watching and hearing this video now vindicates that I have done it right after all. Thus, PEACE is a gift. A treasure.
THANK U SO MUCH ....I AM CURRENTLY DEALING WITH TOXIC FRIENDS .... SET BOUNDARIES ..I START TO PROTECT MY PEACE ...I MANTAIN DISTANCE FROM THEM...
Brilliant wisdom, thank you. This has helped me a great deal this week.
Glad to help
The point at 3:50 is so insightful! Learning to not take things personally truly helps in dealing with negativity. Thank you for this practical wisdom! 🙏
"You're welcome! Not taking things personally is a game-changer. It frees you from others' negativity and helps you stay grounded in your own truth. So glad the point resonated with you! 🙏✨"
Very important and useful advice. Peace and happiness are very much essential and need to be protected at any cost. The strategies suggested are very realistic and practical. The method is unique. Many thanks.
"You're absolutely right-protecting your peace is non-negotiable. I'm glad the advice resonates with you! Stay focused on what truly brings you peace and happiness. Thanks for the kind words! 🙏🏼💯"
WOW, awesome! Reminds me of narcissistic people! Excellent words of wisdom to live by. I wrote five pages of notes for myself to re-read! Thanks!
This video is a game-changer! The reminder that 'we cannot fix toxic people, only ourselves' truly hit home. Protecting our peace and setting boundaries isn’t selfish-it’s self-care. Thanks for this empowering message!
Best teaching to deal with toxic people! Thank you for the sharing
Listening to this and other videos similar to this video, is very relieving. Just thinking back throughout my life and the psychological truth about the mindset of individuals and our own taught and or not taught behavior's. The true mental health status of everyone in society has been taught groomed, practiced within childhood. It's profoundly freeing. I'm grateful for whoever created this video, for everyone that shares the good news. Everything takes time, Rome wasn't built over night, the beauty about theses videos are you can always come back and reprogram yourself to live the life that you want to live. After this seed has been planted, it will be watered, if you want it to be. This basically is reminding you about your own power over yourself. Live and let live. Thank you!❤👑🙏🏿😇💯☮️♾️
This was great . Dealing with a toxic family member. This spoke right to me! For me I would add the must important ingredient for healing was leaning on my faith in Jesus! But well done!!!! ❤
This was highly recommended and it’s definitely worth my time. Thank you for sharing
This is good advice with dealing with my toxic boss whos trying to destroy me. I'm feeling mentally and emotionally exhausted and overwhelmed.
I have the same boss experience at work. It drains mentally and emotionally
Start looking for a healthier work environment, seriously. You can't get back years or months of your life🕊️
My heart goes out to you as i have experience with a boss that kept me walking on eggshells …May you be released from this soon
This person would do mean things to me and come asking How are you with the sweetest voice over and over. They were told not to do this or that, yet they continued and created more variations. It took me almost a year to understand. Thank you for this very insightful video. It mentioned exactly what was happening and named many things I didn't understand. Very spot on. Thanks a bunch!
Such Absolutely Awesome Words, I'm Currently Going Through This Exactly Dinamic As I'm Listening To This Message, She's Attempting All Which We Are Listening To Right Now, Thanks Brother For The Strong Insight ❤
Sometimes the best thing you can do is not think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess. Just breathe, and have faith that everything will work out for the best. I am rooting for you❤
This is really an "Eye Opener"
I've been prioritizing people since 2014, Family or friends.. I'm 28 years old as of today, Now i just realize.. I don't even value my time and energy.. just to help them with all of their needs..
But how about me? OMG! Thanks for this... I think i need to watch video like this more often as reminder to focus on myself and nurture with the time that i've wasted on the wrong people.😢
Thanks for sharing. I now understand myself more. And now ready to free myself from believing that I was the one toxic only to realize he "guilt-trip"me
Tired of making excuses for them & me being in denial. I've walked away and have never felt better!
This happened to me and i reacted eventually how you explained latter,eventually the person looked for another prey,
Truely on point,this video is par excellence❤!!!!!!!!!
I am quite vulnerable emotionally. Sometimes I cannot tell if I am being manipulated or I am the manipulator in friendship. I feel that I should guard my heart from those harmful relationships.
I was a victim of this manipulation 101, thank you so much n your message's is much appreciated ❤
Danke, Bruder, für diese Weisheit, sie hilft mir wirklich sehr.
Powerful, precise and perfectly worded. Hoping that this compounds what I've been trying to put across to my partner in regards to their son . Thank you. 🤞
Thanks for sharing!
Yes I experienced it also with a colleague, with my sister-in-law and two acquaintances (I don't call them friends). Thanks for the lesson. It's not about you, it's about them.
Very meaningful lesson
Especially in work there are toxic people who act like good people to get the information to make you fail and feel bad. "Some people want you to fail and are not really intrested anything they ask " 🎉😮
Great job in recognizing the importance of setting boundaries to protect your peace!
Really how to protect yourself is important!
24:52 I practiced forgiveness for your peace, it's so ok❤❤❤
This video is a validation of what I I've already been doing. Specifically for family. I will be watching this everyday.
Thank you for this channel, i have walked away from a toxic relationship that i was stuck in fir years and bksned kysekf until i fekt im going crazy, until one day felt I owe it to myself to keep my sanity and disappeared, nit looking back, im yealing and getting stronger and enjoy my new free life, thank God
Finding your words difficult to understand.
I needed this video twelve years ago
Keep your head up please.
Than you for highlighting these actions by toxic individuals
I was really impressed at 12:35! The way you tie philosophy with real-life examples is incredible. It resonates deeply.
Well I always have liked the challenges that Life gives me, easy and difficult. People like who he defined have been around since time began You can, with practical application and proper knowledge, learn to handle yourself in ANY situation. You can't realistically walk away from everyone you are uncomfortable with. Some of them are so defensive because they are broken and trying to protect their inner self. They are reacting because YOU are the threat.
The advise is valuable protective, proactive. Implementing over and over again can sometimes be exhausting.
I have been in this situation where I have been made to feel like I am not worthy of being myself, but I have worked on my self esteem and I have been able to make myself feel better about myself and I have not allowed others to intimidate me.
Danke!
Been abused by my Toxic partner ..
Financially and emotionally abused,
big time..
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Me too ..We need to escape and free ourselves to Heal 🙏🏻..
❤ thank you to give me this answer at what time thank you for this beautiful lettuce that you give me and that all the angels the help us to understand dirty people doing to each other sometimes it's too difficult because you want to help everybody yourself thank you for this beautiful answer that you give me I try back to myself and you Forgive People They Hurt Me and thank you you are very nice speaker I wish you The Best Thank You For This Beautiful Energy
tnx brother 🙏 Gbu
OMG this video came at the right time!On 23rd Dec it was my last working day n I was dropping sweets to my colleagues from different departments and then one of my bosses saw me and I wished him good morning and he just flipped at me about an email that I had sent him to remind him to sign some paperwork so that he could get approval.You have to think that this is happening in the morning at 7.30am and it’s Christmas week.I was shook and I felt very sad.He spoiled the happiness.I was still feeling very upset this whole week because I never expected this.Thank you for making this video as it came at the right moment.
Keep your head up , and keep your cool always and don't t let people walk over you , if someone makes jokes about you just smile at least you not being toxic it will dawn on the haters
Your dedication to spreading Stoic wisdom is truly admirable. I’ve discovered several of your channels and deeply appreciate how you’re sharing these timeless principles with the world in such meaningful ways. Thank you for all that you do!
This is very helpful. I have a friend who has become really toxic all of a sudden. I never noticed it before she drains me out. She's selfish and arrogant expects me to drop everything and do stuff for her. I'm trying to keep my distance 😢
Wow wow so helpful
Glad it was helpful!
Every word is on point 👍
The best advice I ever heard so true to ignore it thanks to stoic folks :-)
Great video thankyou
Very welcome
Yes I experience this at work..Toxic really.
Feel badly for you that you have to work with them. Stay strong & don't react. They'll find someone else to hound.
Leave..
I feel like I just had free therapy session!!!
8:37 The art of non-reaction is powerfully beautiful. It takes time, but after exhausting All'ah, other avenues, you just give up aNd let stuff come at you aNd you learn to brush it off aNd go oNN. Then, it will extinguish on it's own & you learn how crazy that All'ah 'long you weren't...
Happiness comes from wanting less, not having more.
This has really opened up my spiritual eyes to "toxic ppl" I have one of these "snakes" now spewing their toxic behavior into my peaceful life. I'm keeping up my boundaries, unapologetically! ❤🙏🏼❤🙏🏼❤🧘
I learned to control my own emotions and put boundaries up
I finally realized i might love them but I love myself more
I wish l had seen this some years ago. When suffering from emotional and verbal abuse from my son.
This has helped me understand . What i have been dealing with some toxic people. Thank you.
Powerful and very good information to keep in mind every day.....thank you so much
I never knew about these people until I reached the age of 63. That was 3 years ago. They will not go away. I stay calm, but can't wait for them to leave
Good lord, this is nothing but the truth! Thank you for this. Had a very toxic, abusive ex.
Every word is so true,to the point,dealing with a toxic narc.right now. They think the world revolves around them.
Thank you for the clever ways of toxic relationship
Tks for this information
I can't believe how much it applies to me
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Amen thank you Jesus for this eye opening message 😇🙏🏿
Thank you for cure my soul..it was a helping hand...
💯 thank you Beverlywingate for sharing your story.
@@stevenhulett7315 Your Welcome! God Bless!
🤦Gee😭this happened to me! Every day! I got to break away from this night mare ! Unbelievable I let these people take over my life 🙏🏾
I needed this 5 years ago
For 4 year
Don’t be hard on yourself, I too needed this a while too 12 months ago. Learn, be kind to yourself and move on. There are good partners out there.
i tried the gray rock technique. it works!!
Thank you so much for this great teaching I do appreciate❤
This is best thing i have ever listened to thk u
If only I can recover my finances after all the damages done.
Restoration will come. Stay on track and rebuild bit by bit. ❤
Thank you!!😂😁This is just what i needed to hear!! And my days WILL BE HAPPY full of JOY and LAUGHTER something NO ONE CAN TAKE FROM ME Y@Y👏🎉😂❤
I walked away from a narcissistic friend, this video has helped should I ever run into her again. Thank you
This is what I needed to know for a long time. Thank you.
Beautiful
Very true, & Deep insight to the minds of Toxic people. . I have gained strength from this. .❤
Whoever reads this comment, I hope you find peace and strength to live each day. Whatever you're going through now, I promise you'll be fine.
Excellent work.carry it on.good luck