How To Get A Woman To Be LOYAL To You (secret to longterm attachment)

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Комментарии • 155

  • @gatienlaurol5793
    @gatienlaurol5793 2 месяца назад +13

    Women think loyalty is just not cheating. No - loyalty is devotion to one person. No entertaining side pieces, no entertaining exes, no seeking validation from social media, no thirst traps. Unwavering devotion to one person while blocking out the noise of the outside world for the sake of your relationship. That’s what true loyalty is.

  • @alchea2972
    @alchea2972 2 месяца назад +48

    what's up brothers!!

    • @philipcrocker
      @philipcrocker 2 месяца назад +8

      Hope everybody's doing well out there...

  • @bellavita3097
    @bellavita3097 2 месяца назад +15

    100% about meeting the family.

  • @-glitch-8195
    @-glitch-8195 2 месяца назад +20

    What you just said about how dates are secretive is why I can't do it😂 Hell I've had guys go silent during the talking stage just to pretend to be "nonchalant". I don't speak to them ever again because I don't want to converse with a grown adult who thinks it's "hot" to look disinterested. That behavior only attracts toxic/hurt females. There's upkeep associated with that as well. IDK but I've never thought wow, that guy is "disinterested" in me, let me try harder. I'm more like, "So you're not interested in me???? Your loss brother!" 😂
    On a serious note though, nowadays it's all about who can look more disinterested. It's so silly. It used to be who can like the other more. Gotta be careful not to overplay disinterest. I know manosphere guys push that so hard. Took me a long time to meet a guy who was not like that.

    • @user-gm8xb4zk2g
      @user-gm8xb4zk2g 2 месяца назад +3

      Sadly, same with most women, btw.

    • @AboutDatMoneyy
      @AboutDatMoneyy 2 месяца назад

      ​@@user-gm8xb4zk2gThe majority of women.

    • @MomoAfterDark
      @MomoAfterDark Месяц назад

      They push disinterest because it’s what the vast majority of modern women actually respond to.

    • @agentnukaz1715
      @agentnukaz1715 Месяц назад

      I'm happy to see there are women like that, but it also makes finding good advice hard for us.

  • @gregorystinette8271
    @gregorystinette8271 2 месяца назад +148

    Why would I want to " MAKE" a woman "loyal " to me ? If she doesn't do it on her own, move on.

    • @lanceroyal699
      @lanceroyal699 2 месяца назад +1

      Yup'a? Always PUNT on 4th down ... inches or yards... get rid of it..!

    • @user-cf3wt8sj5w
      @user-cf3wt8sj5w 2 месяца назад +30

      Nobody volunteers to give you loyalty. You have to earn it and deserve it.

    • @gregorystinette8271
      @gregorystinette8271 2 месяца назад +1

      @@user-cf3wt8sj5w/ not true, I'm not proving anything to anybody; they either see me or they don't.

    • @mhill88ify
      @mhill88ify 2 месяца назад +32

      He's talking about the actions you might consider taking, in order to encourage a certain level of loyalty.

    • @jagosevatarion8822
      @jagosevatarion8822 2 месяца назад +13

      My last gf 8 yrs ago i introduced to my parents for the first time and two weeks after that she dumped me all the while being obsessed with a guy at work which i suspect she cheated on me with. It wont help

  • @Letztalkself
    @Letztalkself 2 месяца назад +24

    First masculine man advice that is emotionally intelligent. Yes. Safety and future is key.

  • @dudeskidude8376
    @dudeskidude8376 2 месяца назад +12

    Ngl, barely watch videos in this realm anymore, but this caught my attention, and man, am I glad I clicked!

  • @johnthursday2
    @johnthursday2 Месяц назад +1

    NUMBER ONE IN RUclips, in the super toxic manosphere you give away such an advice, let's keep it healthy, i love you brother

  • @CosminPerisan
    @CosminPerisan 2 месяца назад +3

    What you are saying is true, but ONLY IF she chooses you from the start. If you find yourself in a situation that you are getting out if your character trying to "win" her, you already lost.

  • @KristopherStidd
    @KristopherStidd 2 месяца назад +5

    Thank you for the video LFA❤

  • @FenixMGTOW
    @FenixMGTOW 2 месяца назад +5

    What's up brothers....
    Salute from Venezuela.
    Good topic...!
    Thanks.

  • @tedknight1676
    @tedknight1676 2 месяца назад +2

    LFA speaks the truth.

  • @Majorhavoktv
    @Majorhavoktv 2 месяца назад +23

    My mother and father are both dead and I can't stand the rest of the family.

    • @BohemianAndy
      @BohemianAndy 2 месяца назад +3

      Sorry to hear man

    • @perfection9669
      @perfection9669 2 месяца назад +2

      Same mother and grandmother dead. Friends were leeches. Remote job. Dating prospects were 3-5pts lower. Leaving America was easy for me.

  • @cmr1127
    @cmr1127 2 месяца назад +1

    Bro I just found your channel...I'm 37 from Columbus Grove Ohio...I've recently been through a lot and found the red pill slash manospere space..really like what your preaching here brother

  • @Haema88776
    @Haema88776 2 месяца назад +1

    „What’s up brothers, hope everyone is doing well out there.“ gives me goosebumps and chills every time when I watch a video of you LFA!

  • @PassionateSpirit88
    @PassionateSpirit88 2 месяца назад +22

    Modern women have too many choices and attention nowadays so loyalty ain't going to happen

    • @DeaFBRED
      @DeaFBRED 2 месяца назад +7

      They loyal to THE STATE And any stranger who gives em money.

    • @MX-CO
      @MX-CO 2 месяца назад +1

      Same with top tier guys tho

  • @ehud2597
    @ehud2597 2 месяца назад +7

    You shouldn’t care whether she stays or leaves.Thats how she stays

  • @AA12514
    @AA12514 2 месяца назад +4

    Never thought about that before re: " psychology mind games are never permanent" . 🍻LFA

  • @moto3463
    @moto3463 2 месяца назад +31

    I’m 25 this year and have 0 interest in modern women (Australia is bad with feminism)

    • @AA12514
      @AA12514 2 месяца назад +8

      ironically your lack of interest is a turn on to them. im in the same boat brother. . .

    • @ryno1808
      @ryno1808 2 месяца назад +5

      Yeap in same boat here mate... i literally dont really take notice off aussie chicks anymore...

    • @BohemianAndy
      @BohemianAndy 2 месяца назад +6

      I’m in Australia too, it’s absolutely trash here

    • @ryno1808
      @ryno1808 2 месяца назад

      Yep once i got home from being overseas and mingling around with women over there it really made myself realise that Australian women are beyond a joke.. i just felt different towards them and havnt felt the same towards them ever since... they dont phase me anymore plus im older know and they are no longer a main priority

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 2 месяца назад +1

      So are you going to look for a woman from the past? 😎

  • @BohemianAndy
    @BohemianAndy 2 месяца назад +1

    Redacted my comment from earlier - great video LFA. The best thing to do if you like the girl - invite the girl over to meet your parents and hang out

  • @arosalesmusic
    @arosalesmusic 2 месяца назад +5

    Nothing in life is permanent, except impermanence. When you accept this, you will stop your suffering.

  • @izzuddinzaheid6147
    @izzuddinzaheid6147 2 месяца назад +9

    Life’s
    Frickin
    Awesome!!

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 2 месяца назад

      You have too much Kool-Aid? 😎

  • @Bobby_101
    @Bobby_101 2 месяца назад

    This actually is a very good point. It works.

  • @AAYZ7
    @AAYZ7 2 месяца назад +2

    Yeah LFA, I do this in my 3 years relationship and this is cool. Suppose I want to cheat, I will think 1 million time because I have good relationship with her parents, her brother, uncle, aunty, and her cousin too.
    Before bring her for a date, I pick her in her home and talk with her family. And she like it because it show responsibility and maturity.
    Thank's for all your teaching LFA

    • @gruntod9171
      @gruntod9171 2 месяца назад

      No. Not true. Those immoral people have masks and people dont care . Lfa is great but this is worst vid of him from what I saw.
      This advice from here is terrible

  • @Real_Estate_Investor
    @Real_Estate_Investor 2 месяца назад +2

    Good vid topic man 💪

  • @mac11daddy6
    @mac11daddy6 2 месяца назад +12

    Here’s the thing with dates. It costs money period!!!Dating and relationships are expensive. Are you getting what you want out of it? It goes for both women and men

    • @WhiteGhost21
      @WhiteGhost21 2 месяца назад

      i was almost on a month long no fap , then jumped on an app and met someone and spent less than $30 for the two of us and got my socks off. i may just do this from here out.

    • @milesralls7972
      @milesralls7972 2 месяца назад +2

      If you don’t have enough money to take a woman out on dates probably a wise idea to work on your own life for awhile

    • @Livingmybestlife82
      @Livingmybestlife82 2 месяца назад +2

      If a girl is sexually attracted to you you won't have to spend a dime on a date, she will follow your lead. Only simps pay for dates and expect to get something out of her afterwards. Make her earn the date she will respect you more and enjoy the validation she earned to get it.

  • @elisatseng6286
    @elisatseng6286 2 месяца назад

    Very good advice, inviting the woman to family events rather than just going on dates..

  • @flilguy
    @flilguy 2 месяца назад +12

    In 1992 I had a girl ask me out on a date. I was 23 years old and she was 21. I had to go into the house, sit, and talk with her parents. She had other boyfriends. I took her to Ponderosa and the movie was "Under Siege". She was a nice girl although I wasn't ready to settle down. It was also a very 1950s type of date. She also became my stalker. She and her girlfriend were peeking in my windows one evening. I caught them yet pretended I didn't see them. Later she married some guy and they rented the house across the street from me. Her friend also wanted to go on a date a few years later. I was dating someone at the time and told her I have to take a raincheck on that.
    .

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 2 месяца назад +1

      Those were the good old days. It was like that back in the 2000's too. 😎

    • @flilguy
      @flilguy 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@ModelJames13 Yeah, some people thought it was cute that those girls were looking in my windows. I was using the shower at the time. I don't know what they saw. Could you imagine if two guys were peeping into some chick's bathroom and bedroom windows? That can make you a registered sex offender in Illinois. I didn't think it would be good to complain. So I just pretended I didn't see or hear anything. Hell I'm not even that good looking could you imagine what good looking people have to deal with.

  • @Foldylokx
    @Foldylokx 2 месяца назад +6

    Also, if you have a heart, you won't cheat.

    • @SalPerez-io3mz
      @SalPerez-io3mz 2 месяца назад

      Only man have heart, honour. Women are not the same as men. They will sell anything out at any time. They sell out their country, their friends, their own God if it suits them. Men understand heart, honour, loyalty, country, brotherhood, service etc. Women do not, they just act like it sometimes to look good, but its not inherent.

  • @brianbachmeier34
    @brianbachmeier34 2 месяца назад +5

    See LFA, press play.
    😎

    • @tateknows3379
      @tateknows3379 2 месяца назад

      I’m a simple man, i see LFA …

  • @vivianahrv
    @vivianahrv 2 месяца назад +3

    As a girl I am afraid to admit that this would work on me

  • @gatienlaurol5793
    @gatienlaurol5793 2 месяца назад +1

    I think a woman is loyal to you if she believes you’re the best she can do. That’s really it. Women are loyal to their best perception of their option. I think that perception involves her thinking you’re wanted by other women. Therefore, it’s in her best interest to stay loyal to her perceived best interest.

  • @Rudimentary007
    @Rudimentary007 2 месяца назад +3

    Two 👍 up brother.🍺🇺🇸

  • @KainBaker
    @KainBaker 2 месяца назад +2

    Good advice. I have a shitty family so this is important to me but never heard it put like this.

  • @davidflors1448
    @davidflors1448 2 месяца назад +2

    I’m not trying to change or control anyone. I’m just loving everyone in front of me. That being said, if you’re giving it up so easy I don’t want it, as Tupac would say

  • @DrArku
    @DrArku 2 месяца назад

    So I've been doing it right unknowingly. Still, good to know.

  • @thomasandersen2534
    @thomasandersen2534 2 месяца назад +1

    What’s up brothers we got this !

  • @commando1912
    @commando1912 2 месяца назад +2

    sad world we live in, what you were saying was normal wasnt that far long ago, but social media fried the minds of this generation.

  • @tomjannace3944
    @tomjannace3944 2 месяца назад +8

    Nothing from this channel applies to average or below average men

  • @BenJohnston1993
    @BenJohnston1993 2 месяца назад

    I use a bunch of dating apps and also go out to try to meet people. It seems like most dating apps are more for short-term hookups and less for long-term dating. I’ve also gotten my fair share of phone numbers over the years.

  • @SmutnyCzlek
    @SmutnyCzlek 17 дней назад

    That's cool advice but branching ape will always long for climbing the trees.

  • @jeremiahjohnson3018
    @jeremiahjohnson3018 2 месяца назад +1

    I miss the outro music, do you only put on certain videos?

  • @blackpepper5926
    @blackpepper5926 2 месяца назад

    even a king got cheated

  • @Jeremy_Meeks
    @Jeremy_Meeks 2 месяца назад +15

    Prove her loyalty by having her bail you out of jail and going on the run with you. Its the only method thats proven.

    • @bellavita3097
      @bellavita3097 2 месяца назад

      Choosing a degenerate who’s been in jail who makes wrong choices no thanks let him improve himself.

    • @Tylersfehr
      @Tylersfehr 2 месяца назад +2

      You forgot the most important part. Have her get your name tattooed somewhere another man would constantly have to look at if he's hitting it. Nice mug shot bro. 💯 😂

  • @aarrynz9721
    @aarrynz9721 2 месяца назад +1

    What if you don't have any family where you live?

  • @Gdhdjejgfsbh
    @Gdhdjejgfsbh 2 месяца назад +3

    Bro basically defined Indian culture . It has been practiced for a long time in India . That's why our family ties are still considerably good . But it's vanishing slowly because of westernization

  • @kek6905
    @kek6905 2 месяца назад +1

    I went to the store and I liked the cashier she was so darn cute but I froze and didn't say other than hi and thank you. What can I do to ask her out this is kind of frustrating 😞

    • @BenJohnston1993
      @BenJohnston1993 2 месяца назад

      I have a crush on one of the girls who works at a Starbucks inside the local grocery store near my house. Her name is Brittany and she gets a good giggle out of (almost) all the jokes I tell her. My friend that I go to the Starbucks with usually is telling me to play it cool with her so I don’t ruin the opportunity. Maybe a few more visits and I’ll see if I can get her phone number.

  • @stephens4175
    @stephens4175 2 месяца назад +1

    you will know if she wants to be loyal and just yours off the bat, if there's any doubt, don't even attempt to try, she will show you which side of the sword she falls on.

  • @cristianprisecariu1964
    @cristianprisecariu1964 2 месяца назад

    This cultural model proposed by you is still used today by the gypsy communities in Europe.
    The girl is very well received in the boy's family with whom she has a special family relationship.
    But the girl in these families comes at a young age (under 20) and a virgin.
    Many times the father of the groom pays a sum of money to the father of the bride.

  • @kristinadk
    @kristinadk 2 месяца назад

    ...(You got a breeze coming through..., you have dogs barking, you have birds chirping, )
    ...(and you also have a crap load of Honda Civics was shitty loud mufflers !)
    (That's what I hear every time spring arrives:|

  • @adriana12995
    @adriana12995 2 месяца назад +8

    Secular people trying to get loyalty out of each other in this dating and relationship culture is all with the purpose to avoid the real issue at hand: godlessness.
    Women will NEVER submit to a man and be loyal to him if she doesn’t have a solid foundation of faith that relies on virtuous behavior and biblical values. You can play all the mind games, try to become the best version of yourself. None of that matters to the woman that worships nothing but herself and her own flesh. Secular people, whether they realize it or not, want a Biblical life at the end of the day but will not get it due to falsely believing that they can find that without God. The culture has been trying to do that already for 50+ years. Now look at us. At best, fleeting pleasure of the flesh is what godlessness will get you. Secular behavior will get you secular results.

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 2 месяца назад +1

      Even worse, I'm a Christian man and can't find a wife quality Christian woman anywhere. 😎

    • @sheezy2526
      @sheezy2526 2 месяца назад

      Bullshit, if u still believe in fairy tales maybe you shouldn''t breed

    • @adriana12995
      @adriana12995 2 месяца назад

      @@sheezy2526Stick to your modern liberal culture and deal with the results of it. Enjoy the fruits of the culture that you love so much. Real marriages are for for people of faith and values. The rest of you are just following the culture like sheep and never questioning why you do the things that you do. Just like animals.

    • @adriana12995
      @adriana12995 2 месяца назад

      @@ModelJames13 Yes, sadly real Christian women are rare. Churches are filled with evil and deceptive women nowadays that go to church on Sunday and then to a hookup the next day. The Bible speaks of this though, most people will not be saved and will be lovers of themselves, lovers of their flesh in the last days. Stay strong and believe in Christ. All of this is temporary.

    • @BohemianAndy
      @BohemianAndy 2 месяца назад

      I’d hate to break this to you - but even religious women are fallible and have the same “software” as godless women.
      I know multiple friends who had religious wives who are now divorced

  • @mikepaul396
    @mikepaul396 Месяц назад

    great video. the prior comment was just a title of its better to have them loyal. prior guy acting like a beta

  • @kristinadk
    @kristinadk 2 месяца назад

    I've never been on a date before but, ...lol, watching a guy who just came over at the pool hall with his construction work clothes on after work? that's when I say, :o "YES"! ( in the back of my head) ...."date done."

    • @Spicoli-Cary
      @Spicoli-Cary 2 месяца назад

      I guess Sara makes a good friend 😅😂😂
      ruclips.net/user/clipUgkx6GHlzT29WrTJtPUgcpZl7uPlP4YakwfA?si=-PXh_DjfRrKhwv8J

  • @kristinadk
    @kristinadk 2 месяца назад

    Rofl.... when it comes to parents? I always want to meet them when me and that person are just friends at that moment. So at least at that time? I'm not put on the spot with pressure... but if we were to get serious after? ( I already know them, so it's all good) lol

  • @TheUpliftingGuy
    @TheUpliftingGuy 2 месяца назад +2

    Just wondering if this video was inspired by the previous upload from Casey Zander a day ago? 😉

  • @nicpeters3306
    @nicpeters3306 2 месяца назад

    This is the best vice to get girlfriend

  • @heavymetal3256
    @heavymetal3256 2 месяца назад +1

    By not giving a f***** !

    • @LFA
      @LFA  2 месяца назад +1

      For me, that has always been the leading cause of breakup.

    • @heavymetal3256
      @heavymetal3256 2 месяца назад +1

      @@LFA Yeah, I can understand your thoughts, but I'm only speaking by my personal experience. 43, in great shape and running two simultaneously businesses.
      Life is great and I only play by my own rules; if she's fine with that, great!
      If not, fine and we both move on; no hard feelings. 🤝🏻

  • @doubleoseven273
    @doubleoseven273 2 месяца назад

    Good tip, but how do you even get them to want to go out with you to begin with? I even try to ask a girl for her number and I get rejected, can’t even get to base 1

    • @BenJohnston1993
      @BenJohnston1993 2 месяца назад

      Sucks. I guess you don’t have enough rizz…just joking. I’m sure if you keep trying you’ll get a #

  • @blockaderunner
    @blockaderunner 2 месяца назад +4

    A lady of the west? Good luck with that?

  • @bellavita3097
    @bellavita3097 2 месяца назад +9

    Who cares who she’s talking to, dating is to get to know someone, it takes time to get to know someone, and dating should be fun, building a friendship the foundation of any good relationship, friendship 90%, Respect 9%, and passion 1%. Without one your doomed.

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 2 месяца назад +3

      If you're dating somebody the passion % should be higher than the friendship %. Guys aren't aiming to be simps here. 😎

    • @bellavita3097
      @bellavita3097 2 месяца назад +2

      Passion doesn’t mean sex, it means you have 1% passion for something be it golf travel, whatever 1% comparability for that not sex, you have sex with someone you have build a friendship with not friend zone completely different. And a man with a PHD made these % I personally have to respect you more than 9% but that’s a formula that works. All dates don’t have to cost money get creative.

    • @bellavita3097
      @bellavita3097 2 месяца назад +1

      These percentages were made by a man, a PhD, who studies relationships psychology and this formula works. Your foundation has to be friendship your walls respect, passion your roof. Looking at it like a house. and passion does not mean sex. It means you have a passion for golf a passion for ice-skating whatever it is, it’s only 1% But when you’re 90 you better be sitting next to your best friend who you respect who you have passion with, and adore.

    • @Tom-cp6yj
      @Tom-cp6yj 2 месяца назад +1

      I do! Especially when she uses the excuse, "we shouldn't talk anymore because I'm seeing someone else."
      I heard that plenty of times!

    • @bellavita3097
      @bellavita3097 2 месяца назад

      We’re talking about a man and a woman in a romantic relationship.

  • @lanceroyal699
    @lanceroyal699 2 месяца назад +5

    Uhh? How do you make her loyal? Take her back to the corner you picked her up on ... Sheesh? Already!

  • @Peyton_Edwards
    @Peyton_Edwards 2 месяца назад

    Make her O and you increase your chance

  • @imFruzzy
    @imFruzzy 2 месяца назад

    A women

  • @ptcosmos
    @ptcosmos 2 месяца назад +1

    6:38 Look I bet this comment won't get pinned or liked, reply and I'll do absolutely NOTHING.

  • @Crazyd2050
    @Crazyd2050 2 месяца назад +2

    My story is wild af with my almost ex wife. She playing mad games.