Maintaining Mystery & Interest
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- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
- The importance of maintaining mystery in your relationship long-term and how this helps to keep your woman interested in and curious about you, as well as sexually attracted to you.
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Corey Wayne 
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You are so right about the signs of when a woman being in love they want to touch you and be around you, and when they start falling out of love lying in bed they don’t wrap their leg around you or put their arm around you or snuggle right up underneath you, I was noticing these signs but ignoring them
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Yeah I wish I had found Corey way earlier, but I needed to mess everything up to find him.
Listen fellas. Simply put. Never change because you have a girl. Always focus on your goals and hobbies. Trust when I say, women love men that are like that. It let's them know that a man's life is worthy and it doesn't revolve around his girl.
It’s nice to have an expert give full content videos, rather than a 2 minute video and then pitch a product for the rest of the info.
I came out of a 5 year relationship about 5 months ago and have since met somebody else. I did everything wrong toward the end of my last relationship; I was needy, clingy and a giant vagina. I’ve since watched days of content from experts and you’re by far one of the best. My new girlfriend (still very early days) is chasing me, and I’m forever giving the illusion that I’m the prize in this relationship. So far so good.
How are things going now?
Keep it going man
dont say things like "you give the illusion that you're the prize", you are the prize bro
Watching some videos just to do relationship maintenance. I feel so strongly about my wife in this way and im the luckiest man on earth.
It's actually insane. Been following your vids for a while now and read the book a few times, and just started practicing what you teach. Never pursuing, being mysterious about myself, courting, being playful, flirtatious and acting as if it's a scientific fact that they just want me. I now even have women that are in relationships telling me how they feel like wanting more because they keep wondering about me, feeling attracted by that behaviour. It's almost scary how it requires almost zero effort, just coming up with the right little statements or questions at the right times.
can you explain the key thing or things you did that changed your experiances with woman/ made the difference or like what you changed?
bruceyyy read the book 10-15x
Jay C read the book 10-15x
Coach, this is the very best relationship video you have ever done.
I WAS THINKING THE EXACT SAME THING!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm 6 weeks into the single life after a 10-year relationship....the timing of this one could not be better. On my fifth read and have your videos playing at my desk at work daily. Keep up the good work Coach.
Do you read straight through or read and watch the videos they suggest?
+Legendary Loser The first couple of times, I read straight through and highlighted the videos. I used different colors for ones that were pertinent to my situation at the time vs. the ones I wanted to watch later. Since I've been through the book a few times now, sometimes I'll stop and watch one here and there. As my situation progresses, I re-highlight some things that are more relevant at the time. Hope this helps.
+Dragracer612 not to compare but how long did it take you. I'm 90 pages in
+Legendary Loser About 6-8 hours....just depends on how long I am able to spend on it at a given time. I feel like I read fairly quick.
+Dragracer612 yeah I'm gonna do that. Read it straight through. I already planned a date with a girl who's interested. Ok attractiveness and if I mess up I don't care cause I'm kinda using her as practice haha
The plant/sun analogy is perfect! Great video Corey!
Coach Corey, I know you're a basketball fan. Speaking of purpose driven men, did you see Kobe Bryant's last game the other night? He scored 60 points, led a ferocious last minute comeback, was focused the whole game, and didn't let his emotions overcome him. He expunged every ounce of passion and dedication he had for the game, because he knew it was going to be his last and he wanted to leave no regrets on the court. The best part about it is not so much what he did during the game, but what he did after! Everyone expected him to party and relax and take it easy... But he went to bed early that night, got up early, worked out, and was in his office by 8:30 am. He told the media it's because now that he's retired from playing basketball, he is going to work hard on finding a new passion and purpose. I never liked the Lakers or Kobe, but he's an amazing goal-driven man! He accomplished his life goals and dreams through ferocious work and focus, and ended his 20-year career with a bang. He is truly an inspiration for me now.
+Pinsir Harris Kobe is a baller and an Alpha Male
+Pinsir Harris I agree. Although I am a Laker and Kobe fan. I have always admired Kobe's work ethic. Even though Kobe fucked up in the past by cheating on his wife, he turned that situation around and has learned from his mistakes. The thing that gave me a chill was at the end of the game he took the mic and thanked everyone for being supportive of him and his career, when he was done speaking he just sat the mic on the court and walked off..Classic Exit and Totally Alpha!!!
He truly is an inspiration. Thanks for sharing this!
RIP Kobe Bryant :(
13:53 I've always been much more wise than my years. I learned at 40 that things and money is not where happiness comes from. Instead of putting all my energy into 'get more money' I put all of my energy into 'get more happiness'. You'd be surprised how much different my life is now, and how much more happy I am because of it. I still strive for the best, but people eventually find out that 'more stuff' is not the best; pure happiness is what we're all after, and 'stuff' can't get you the 'best' happiness.
I agree with you but also think most people will misinterpret what you say. You need to be self realized examine your beliefs and mental conversations and boldly go where most people have never gone before, inside yourself. I find that most people use that as an excuse to not give life their all and instead to invest in fleeting pleasures, junk food, drugs, alcohol, shopping, videogames etc. These are not inherently bad but the habit and overuse and dependency is. An example I use is an extremely out of shape person deciding to start running. When they start they run 30 ft and gas out, feel horrible and walk for another half mile then call it a day. Fast forward a year, the person lost 80lbs and is training to run a marathon. They run the marathon and endured, pushed past the pain and discomfort. They finish and feel great. This is now one of their most precious accomplishments, most precious memories and when they think of it they get happy and are a positive influence on those around them. However they did not just chase flimsy happiness the fleeting feeling of buying some little gadget or shoes off amazon. Our greatest happiness is achieved from persevering through limitations. As spiritual beings we strive for constant expansion, but being attached to a body with inherent limitations, a body with its preprogrammed biological agenda and a world set on specific laws of nature. We have limitation set around us everywhere. With out limitation we have no purpose, life has no meaning, and if you were fully unlimited in power and could change reality as you chose at will, life would be arbitrary, it has no significance. What is the one thing an all powerful, unlimited, self aware, concious being(god) doesnt have? Limitation.
@5:00 min, what an aha point! I wish I knew as a female in a competitive male dominated career. Bosses would mock the Hell out of me and bystanders would say, "Don't kick the Puppy". Positive reinforcement would have changed my outcome.
Instead, my learning shut down. I developed a stutter at age 38. Knowing this male form of grooming would have made it less traumatic. Thank you for the perspective to help me feel less bullied in the future. As you might guess, I have trouble not totally icing decent guys out of my life. I watch your videos to help me understand why I shut guys out after dating weeks or months.
Your boss who mocked you was an insecure bully who needs a slap
Strong men, and strong women don't need to bully or mock anyone
seriously, this is the only channel that when I see a video that is long, I'm glad. All the other channels, I am just bored
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10:30 trying to describe being in love and being loved by someone
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If you're dating a smoking hot girl but you can maintain being that 3% man she's going to get hit on constantly but as long as you can maintain your cool be the James Bond even if she starts to stray away nine times out of ten the other guy will do something stupid so just maintain your cool and you will keep your girl
Just be like James Bond. That’s it. The oozing confidence, poise, charisma and wit do make wonders.
Just focus on what creates attraction.
Coach thanks for this videos. You have no idea how much the audiobook has change my life. I used to be needy and insecure. Now I just go out, have fun and hook up ;)
+Coach Corey Wayne Thank your advice helped me a ton!!! I had a break up I just waited and remained upbeat. She contacted me to make plans and have adult fun! Thank you so much it wasn't to remain patience but I followed your advice to a T!! Thank you worked 100%!!
As soon as that audiobook is out I'm buying it
+SpaceGhost Purpz can't wait!!!!!!!!!!
Same!!!
+corey clark I work and have so much going on it would be easy to throw some head phones on and multi task I have the book now but it's hard getting time in to read with a infant demanding job gym life home life and school
YES I KNOW I GOT IT HOME SKILLET
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Everybody needs a Corey! Maybe in the future we'll be able to push a button and a little virtual reality Corey pops up on our shoulder telling us, "C'mon man!"
The future: "how to text a girl you like"
In your book you stated: "You don’t want all these women to see you getting phone numbers from different women, so be discreet about it. Women like you more if you’ve got options, but you want her to feel like she is the most special out of all the women you’re talking to; not just another notch in your bedpost which will cause her to reject you."
How do you get women to believe that you've got options without turning her off to you?
TRUST me! They know bro. Many women are VERY intuitive. It's how you interact with other people and other girls... Doesn't matter if they're hot or ugly. They see other women laughing and smiling at you bc of your personality and the way you talk to them. Women notice if other girls check you out and smile at you. It's this sense of confidence and aura you carry around with you. NEVER be needy and show them that YOU are the prize bc you have dozens of other women that want you. Even if they don't, you have to act like it. Never be afraid to walk away and act like they might lose YOU.
@@robman7109 A lot of experience buddy. Was with this smoking hot polish girl who was a 10 at school and had a boyfriend of 5 years. I knew she wanted me but the second she saw the way other women (hot and ugly) would interact with me and the smiles they gave me and how they treated me, she wanted me even more. She saw the social proof and saw that I wasnt full of shit and that i was high value. You gotta interact with EVERY girl you encounter even if you're with another girl at the time. Shows you don't care and you have confidence. Lets just say we ended up fucking after that. Took a while bc she had a boyfriend, but i couldn't let that go lol.
By not caring
@@robman7109 just put one hand on your hip and tap one one foot, and then grab your junk with the other hand and swing it around like a rope. Women go crazy over that 🤣
Some of the best truth nuggets coach spits in this video
Coach Corey is the best....he has changed my life and I appreciate his work. Thanks 👍
You remind me of Brucie Kibbutz from GTA IV, only a more sensible less juiced-up version
Again Corey, another awesome video with substantially good advice. I am currently on my third read of your book. Learning the basics and fundamentals at the best of my ability. Have a good day Corey and thanks again for all that you do.
I COLLECT BASEBALL 1986 can I ask what book?
HAPPY 100 THOUSAND SUBS
you deserve it and many more my man ! :)
There's no Baskinandrobbins by me. Only a Dairyandqueen.
Congrats on your 100k subscribers Coach
Esther Perel is the relationship therapist he refers to in 12:05.
Yup, I caught that too. I was looking for this comment.
Coach, i stumbled into something interesting, Jesse James Sandra bullock ex husband (they broke up cause he was cheating left and right), you know what, THIS GUY ACTUALLY is the living example of your work, he does it without realizing lol.
Here's how i found out, i saw him with another famous girl named Kat von D in a video, she invited him to her tattoo shop to surprise him about her tattooing his picture on her body ( probably a test to see if she can control him) lol, he didnt cave in, she was talking non stop, he was quiet and the dude acted like the tattoo is no big deal lol , he even teased her. u have to remember those girls are waaay better looking and probably more famous than him lol
Months later she broke up with him and wrote a long bitter message on her FB, saying she thought she found true love for the first time, and found out he cheated on her with 19 women lol, 19 (this guy is a powerhouse), but little did she know that what she think is "love" is actually her first encounter with a true alpha male with a lot of options who does what u teach in your book without realizing lol. Hes a cheater, but that not the point, the point is , your work helps unveil the mysteries for young men, THANK U.
Mashallah my g
I agree, Def. the Best video I've seen of yours Coach CW TY Corey!
The problem I have is finding multiple women that are interesting enough and attractive enough to keep around. I’m starting to think it’s partly my location.
VERY possible. Where ya at btw?
@@Blodia1990 Outside of Seattle.
@@gtcam723 Damn fam. What's your ethnicity and what routes do you take to meet women?
This is a very good video Corey!
Btw.. Its funny how there are always people disliking Coach's videos within the first few hours.
Why subscribes to the channel if you hate on Corey? So negative.
Those are haters. Let them do their thing!
While we (diligent students) are gonna awesome drama free relationships with the person who we truly adore.
Right on time. Great video Mr. Corey! Thanks for your time and dedication.
I am on the 6th read by the way and things are getting pretty serious. I hope to be in one of your success video stories one time :)
Anyways, Keep up the life - changing content!
How do you read the book? Do you look at all the videos it suggests or just read it straight through?
+corey clark will do man. Thanks
You’re genius!
*lines up for audiobook*
The lawyer and the client kinda reminds me of the scorpion and the frog me the frog and the lawyer the scorpian stirring things up its in there nature.. Enjoyed the story..
I can't wait on the audio
+Plump Cosplay It's available now: amzn.to/1MIsxWJ
Listen at 1.25x, thank me later
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Thank you for this video coach, it was beautiful!!!
I almost felt like crying(Yeah like a little pussy). The way you were talking just made me remember how my girlfriend of 3 years was with me... I got complacent and she dumped me. This is week one... I did some soul searching and found your work. I just want to say thank you! You have helped me allot, I now know everything I did wrong and I lost a wonderful woman because of my ignorance.
'Women are like baskin Robbins ice cream favours lol - classic:-)
Your best video my friend.
find a soulmate, a woman who completes you is waaay harder for high IQ people. the odds are just totally against them.
I'm curious. Can you tell me why? I'd like to hear your thoughts on that. Maybe I have a low IQ for asking, ha ha.
It’s really just an issue for women. Men don’t mind marrying down on stuff, but it’s hard for women who are naturally inclined to marry up or at least equal
When is the audiobook coming out??
+Matt Ferraro It's available now: amzn.to/1MIsxWJ
Is the a French equivalent to Coray wayn svp.
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Hey, I need a little help on some girl i went on 2 dates with: She was the one approaching me and the first date went really well and the second idk yet. She was basically just kissing me the whole time grabing my hand when i let go of it or leaned toward me etc. The thing that gets me confused is that it was like impossible to talk to her, idk if she is just a shy person or just doesnt like to talk to me^^. She was always smilling and i thought she could be a good match if she just opened up more. Well that was last weekend and a entire week has passed by without that i heared anything from her. Any ideas what the problem could be? If you dont have any ideas I will probably text her tomorrow and ask her out, lets see if i find some time. Thanks!
Call her is better than texting, and it could say that she has a low level of interest but just call ask for a 3rd date see if she agree
any advice for writing messages or flirting within a dating site? i tend to be too open and wondering if i ought to be the opposite to create 'mystery' and/or NOT come across as desperate, which i'm not.....yet.
Get straight to the point. Have a great opener to break the ice and then follow up to her response w “you + me + drinks. When?”
@@RealMattKiefer this! Flirt from the get go, chat a bit then ask. Keep it fun and chat to multiple people at once.
How do you re-build mystery if she knows almost everything about you :/
Say0n I guess your fucked... Time to reel in another!
get a fucking hobby and don't tell her about it LMAO
There are several things said that I could not disagree more
You have never read his book. Evidence backs up what he is saying. Now come on over bring a bottle of wine and let's make dinner😉
Brian T
Cute. I’d bite. 😊
coach, when ur gf tells u how come i always contact u and u never do (when things are doing great)? since she needs ur presence all the time...? what would u do in that matters? it happened twice...!!
Just say because you love me so much. You should contact her every once in a while though. Like once every couple of weeks just send a short sweet text and move on. But read the book it will help
+tank5617 yes, read the book - suprise her every now and then, but let her to do most of pursuing, but there is fine line between letting her do most of the pursuing and ignoring her(bad way to go). Just suprise her with date and be mysterious about it
+yellow daisy no, iv been acting the same way i first met her...im being natural. she even used to mention it in a subtle way before we became together.
James James - she’s telling you want she wants, then do it!!! Her opinion is the only one that matters. If you were my bf and only reached out once every 1-2 weeks, I’d doubt your interest and not be happy with you. At all.
If you have a gf with a good self esteem. She will accept the responce of. "Becuase you love me so much." If she sat you down twice already concerning this then it when you respond with " so let me get this straight, you want me to surprise you with a text or phone call to demonstrate that I care about you? ...yes. alright baby I'll do that for you"
Now from now on. Once a week you will have to plan this out! Dont be a robot and do this on that one day. You can either write a note and posted it randomly where she commonly opens a door. Cabinet, mirror door, car visor, ect....send her a text good morning. That you were thinking of her and it made you smile.or maybe during a lunch break call her and leave her q voicemail if she doesnt answer about how wonderful she is. You dont want to over do this on a week because then she won't appreciate your effort. Once a week is all it takes. Anything other than that is too much. Good luck :) oh and plus corey already made a video about this
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I would love to do the audiobook version. My voice is very good.
Jason Guzman you sound like a dying cheetah
Dear coach Corey, i thought you were not going to make an audio book. Why did you decide to change your mind?
+bbborec It will be released soon. Stop posting BS.
+Coach Corey Wayne I am sorry but in one of your videos you said that your book is the only one that we have to read personally. And that's why you were not going to make an audio book. I am not hatin, i'm just curious.
bbborec
Yeah, you’re right, I recently watched a video from years back where he commented about not doing an audiobook. He shot the person down commenting then as well. 😬
Anyway, I’m glad he changed his mind, I can’t stop listening to it.
I am like this to my new man 🤗
Are you still together? Going good I hope,
@@johnkennedy8795 we are!!! 😊
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