Begging and pleading to resume your position as the guy she doesn't want only makes one look weak, and rewards her (with attention) for kicking you to the curb. The more powerful stance is to simply move on with your life, withdraw all attention/affection, and meet loads of new, awesome women. Actions always speak louder, and more potently, than words. Don't attempt to rework an amateur Picasso into a Raphael masterpiece, just scrap it and start anew on a blank canvas.
lol. That is guy talk dude. Not something you repeat to her. At the end of the day she dumped you. Walk and never look back. The only way they come back is if they still have interest. At least you stood up for yourself and what you wanted.
I really like the part where you explain that you should keep moving and dating people (having fun) untill someone comes along who you love.... EVEN if it takes a couple of years! I think most guys start dating, fail and then go back to their exes or get hung up with some girl. I like the idea you planted that every date is just me getting better in seducing my future girl. Awesomeness!
I'm 66 now, and when I first began dating in my mid-30s there wasn't much left around, by 40 it was over, I couldn't imagine dating now -- it just isn't fun anymore
Want = deficit = she has something I'm trying to get = I'm going to beg/bribe/guilt trip/pressure her to give me what she has that I WANT This is why the girls you *don't* 'want' are liking and chasing you, you aren't changing who you are or putting on a facade to try and get something from them. Don't press her and she'll come to you. 'Wanting' means you don't have (and never will). Stop wanting and be content with yourself, and she will feel free to never stop giving.
Years ago a I told a woman dad said "never trust anything that bleeds for 7 days and won't die"! Along with the fact she never spoke to me again it got me a slap in the face.
I wasted a year and now my crush is engaged. I wish I could go back and choke myself, but no time like the present! At least it lead me to your work coach!
Ive suffered through this in my teens and 20s. I went to therapy a couple years ago and talked about it a little to a therapist. I feel that it helped a lot. I kind of still have that problem still but I am doing my best to learn how to love myself to love someone who loves me.
Yup can't love someone else or have any respect or confidence if you don't fix yourself and in every way to financially , socially , everything in your life has to be normal or as close as you can get it , the best you then you can go out and start dating the type of women you want which may have changed by the time your done fixing yourself which actually is a never ending process
+Coach Corey Wayne I feel like most men, when they get emotionally invested in a girl, its the body or the looks that they lust after, because they want to get in there, and if they had the opportunity to get in there, or used to get in there but then turned the girl off somehow, and then they no longer have access to that source of pleasure, its like an addiction withdrawl, they go nuts. But I feel that a lot of the time, the man is really just obsessed with her sexy body (if she has a sexy body) Im not saying this is the case all the time, people do have spirit connections, but then i feel that real spirit connections arent so easily disposed of by either the girl or the boy, so most of them i feel is just a physical lust for the beautiful womanly body that they no longer have access to.
Lol for sure , last girl I was with was so beautiful nice body skinny nice tits , nice ass , gorgeous face smile , god she fckd my head up and never feel like I can ever get her back , she dumped me after I went out bought her a car and gave her money for whatever ahe needed, IM not bad looking guy and so I pulled her and I make good money again ok I pulled her , but I acted like a bitch because she was so beautiful , I was never really in love with her though she was mean and kinda heartless and had no respect for me such I don't blame her but she called herself a thug lmao I couldn't love her it was def her body and looks I didn't like her as much as I thought after we really did get to know of ,now I'm talking to this new girl and she's so fckn cool and funny at but she's really thick like kinda overweight pretty in face but man it's like you cannot have your cake and eat it to , the only way would be what this guy says and go on a bunch of dates and learn to be more manly
Corey I am 26 years old and up until now I have been lucky with just a few good looking girls. Mostly because I was a pretty good runningback in Hs on a winning team. So girls some girls in Hs just kinda threw themselves at me. Was lucky enough to get into a couple relationships since graduation. Only thing is girls always break it off with me. I am def a nice guy. Always thinking of others before my true intentions. I am super shy and low spoken. I never thought I was a bitch cuz......
It's fucking insane the things we tell ourselves. In the second email the seemed like he was SOOOO FREAKING positive that everything she did was for him like putting a song on Facebook but from the outside looking in we think "bro move on she don't want you" but to him it sounds so perfect
Your sense of human and the way that you communicate your ideas is really awesome! I am grateful for everything that You are doing, I am one of the many people that get to benefit from You being You and existing with us :)! Keep being Yourself and keep doing what You are doing man!
MrGunboat78 Know the feeling, I’m 45, wish I’d known about and started applying this stuff 20+ years ago! I think the problem with us older guys is, we’ve been preconditioned to behave in such a weak, beta way all our lives, so picking this stuff up isn’t straightforward.
It's not just the beauty, it's her values and interests that is exciting, and she shows up at the gym all the time doing the work at the same time as I that almost no one ever does... she loves cars/trips, hikes and maybe the most important part, she wants to live close to where I allready work.. she's allready taken but does not seem to happy. My GF is close to perfect in lots of ways, but she can't handle the mountains here with less sunlight witch I do love for hikes and skiing. And she's been very pesemistic lately.. and her family have been trough lots of negative depressive situations lately. There would be no easy time to brake up with her🙈
Needed to hear this. Good vid. Learning this as I go. Learn to live in reality but also let go. If they are unavailable or uninterested move on. Of course there are plenty of women I find attractive and enjoy the eye candy but won't make a move if they are taken of course or if they aren't interested.
"I watched lots of 97 percent ers strike out with this girl I like, I asked her out and got a response that confused me" aka translation.. you too are a 97%er hahahaha
I see so many men that don't even have respect for themselves and be begging after a woman. jokers. if someone have doubts of being with you send that crap to hell and go on. find someone that really care about you and know what she wants. And when you find the woman that really want to be with you don't screw up. Corey knows well what he is saying. get his book. nothing is worst than being ignorant about about anything
I’ve been searching all over for the new Black Phillip Show since the great Patrice O Neal died. He was the king on women, I’m hoping you can provide similar views lol
I handled myself on the football field. But watching ur vids I realized how big of a bitch I really have been. With almost anyone in my life. Haha thanks man. I will work my ass off and apply ur knowledge
Can someone tell me the difference between being her rock, her mountain, and being her gay male girlfriend, therapist or butler? This is one of the areas where I fucked up, I was trying to be her rock, but she lost respect for me.
Hi coach I have stopped contacting my ex and have started leaving my phone at home since my job takes me on long trips and to be honest my phone has become a distraction. When I come home after several days my ex has contacted me several times and I didn't pick up because I didn't have my phone. Anyway he eventually blocked me because of this. He then started calling again and asking my whereabouts. I love him but I think he does not return my love and I have grown tired of this. I wish he cud change but I don't think that possible so I want to move on. Today he I told him that I won't be around for the rest of the week because I am travelling[ I just informed him because I don't want the drama since we have kids together] . He message me claiming to be ill at work and need me to pick him up should I go and help him?
If you don't move in their world, you do not exist to them. A person wanting someone that they cannot have is an exercise in time-wasting. Not worth the effort, IMO. You can have fantasies but that's is about all it will ever be for you. BTW- 'she is into me'. Hmmm, could it be that she's just cultivating good relations with the patrons who come into the bar? That is what it seems like to me.
Perfect woman? Perfect in what way? Looks are the perfection point? I respect the material, but there is no such thing as perfection in a woman. In fact, dude probably already did meet the "perfect" woman who liked him but a shallow sense of criteria used shut him and many of us off from an amazing woman for us.
I swear most of these self-help gurus never even address the issue of wanting the impossible. They just spew this obvious nonsense that "everything is possible for everyone." Sorry but if you're a paraplegic and and what you really want is to be a basketball player, you are actually hopeless. Rarely if ever do you hear them say "change what you want." They don't want to address reality, and the problem is that the lack of facing reality is a large part of why their followers came to them in the first place.
Begging and pleading to resume your position as the guy she doesn't want only makes one look weak, and rewards her (with attention) for kicking you to the curb.
The more powerful stance is to simply move on with your life, withdraw all attention/affection, and meet loads of new, awesome women.
Actions always speak louder, and more potently, than words.
Don't attempt to rework an amateur Picasso into a Raphael masterpiece, just scrap it and start anew on a blank canvas.
lol. That is guy talk dude. Not something you repeat to her. At the end of the day she dumped you. Walk and never look back. The only way they come back is if they still have interest. At least you stood up for yourself and what you wanted.
Your awesome
"Faith is to believe what you do not see; the reward of this faith is to see what you believe." - Saint Augustine
I definitely appreciate this share!
This is powerful and rings true!
The PHONE is just for setting DATES.
I really like the part where you explain that you should keep moving and dating people (having fun) untill someone comes along who you love.... EVEN if it takes a couple of years! I think most guys start dating, fail and then go back to their exes or get hung up with some girl. I like the idea you planted that every date is just me getting better in seducing my future girl. Awesomeness!
I'm 66 now, and when I first began dating in my mid-30s there wasn't much left around, by 40 it was over, I couldn't imagine dating now -- it just isn't fun anymore
Want = deficit = she has something I'm trying to get = I'm going to beg/bribe/guilt trip/pressure her to give me what she has that I WANT
This is why the girls you *don't* 'want' are liking and chasing you, you aren't changing who you are or putting on a facade to try and get something from them.
Don't press her and she'll come to you.
'Wanting' means you don't have (and never will). Stop wanting and be content with yourself, and she will feel free to never stop giving.
man the girls i dont want arent even pretty so i just chase them away
Years ago a I told a woman dad said "never trust anything that bleeds for 7 days and won't die"! Along with the fact she never spoke to me again it got me a slap in the face.
Checkm8king2 haha funny asf
😳😬😬😬😬
I wasted a year and now my crush is engaged. I wish I could go back and choke myself, but no time like the present! At least it lead me to your work coach!
That happened to me alot too bro
Omg....that had to be unbearable. But I have had a similar situation. Peace be unto you
When they have it. they don't want it.
"Dude quit stalking her on facebook!" LOL
i always want the person that dont want me but when they want me I'm outta there i like the chase challenge I'm guessing.
Ive suffered through this in my teens and 20s.
I went to therapy a couple years ago and talked about it a little to a therapist. I feel that it helped a lot. I kind of still have that problem still but I am doing my best to learn how to love myself to love someone who loves me.
Me too
Well done for going. I’m twice your age and still struggle.
Yup can't love someone else or have any respect or confidence if you don't fix yourself and in every way to financially , socially , everything in your life has to be normal or as close as you can get it , the best you then you can go out and start dating the type of women you want which may have changed by the time your done fixing yourself which actually is a never ending process
I’m
+Coach Corey Wayne I feel like most men, when they get emotionally invested in a girl, its the body or the looks that they lust after, because they want to get in there, and if they had the opportunity to get in there, or used to get in there but then turned the girl off somehow, and then they no longer have access to that source of pleasure, its like an addiction withdrawl, they go nuts. But I feel that a lot of the time, the man is really just obsessed with her sexy body (if she has a sexy body) Im not saying this is the case all the time, people do have spirit connections, but then i feel that real spirit connections arent so easily disposed of by either the girl or the boy, so most of them i feel is just a physical lust for the beautiful womanly body that they no longer have access to.
Amen thats exactly what it is!!!!!!!!
Facts
Lol for sure , last girl I was with was so beautiful nice body skinny nice tits , nice ass , gorgeous face smile , god she fckd my head up and never feel like I can ever get her back , she dumped me after I went out bought her a car and gave her money for whatever ahe needed, IM not bad looking guy and so I pulled her and I make good money again ok I pulled her , but I acted like a bitch because she was so beautiful , I was never really in love with her though she was mean and kinda heartless and had no respect for me such I don't blame her but she called herself a thug lmao I couldn't love her it was def her body and looks I didn't like her as much as I thought after we really did get to know of ,now I'm talking to this new girl and she's so fckn cool and funny at but she's really thick like kinda overweight pretty in face but man it's like you cannot have your cake and eat it to , the only way would be what this guy says and go on a bunch of dates and learn to be more manly
@@blakehorton8110 keep going forward bro well done,
Hope and Optimism! "You may have a live one here Dude!" Good one!
i am suffering from this.. i am trying to overcome from this by watching coach corey wayne video.
great advice....on the topic of being friend zoned I just smile and say,"If I want to make friends I'll go to summer camp."then walk.
I just fucked up with a great girl and it sucks but just got to learn from it. Keep your heads up kings. We will figure it out.
i love that Corey watches Spongebob hahaha
You did this video 10 years ago and I sure needed to hear it today. Amazing.
is it a red flag when a girl says she is easily bored but likes you???
Heb 11:1 Definition of Faith
Corey I am 26 years old and up until now I have been lucky with just a few good looking girls. Mostly because I was a pretty good runningback in Hs on a winning team. So girls some girls in Hs just kinda threw themselves at me. Was lucky enough to get into a couple relationships since graduation. Only thing is girls always break it off with me. I am def a nice guy. Always thinking of others before my true intentions. I am super shy and low spoken. I never thought I was a bitch cuz......
Corey, you are so very wise. One of just 2 people I would call wise on this Earth alive today.
It's fucking insane the things we tell ourselves. In the second email the seemed like he was SOOOO FREAKING positive that everything she did was for him like putting a song on Facebook but from the outside looking in we think "bro move on she don't want you" but to him it sounds so perfect
Your sense of human and the way that you communicate your ideas is really awesome! I am grateful for everything that You are doing, I am one of the many people that get to benefit from You being You and existing with us :)! Keep being Yourself and keep doing what You are doing man!
Sad that I'm mid 40s, n just getting this stuff....!!..too many failures to count...
56 just getting it. Ughh
@@danatrepanier9962 I'm 53 and I'm a woman.
MrGunboat78
Know the feeling, I’m 45, wish I’d known about and started applying this stuff 20+ years ago! I think the problem with us older guys is, we’ve been preconditioned to behave in such a weak, beta way all our lives, so picking this stuff up isn’t straightforward.
Music - The Voice Of The Soul yep I’m the same as you and Mrgunboat! Wish I knew these things 20 years ago.
It's not just the beauty, it's her values and interests that is exciting, and she shows up at the gym all the time doing the work at the same time as I that almost no one ever does... she loves cars/trips, hikes and maybe the most important part, she wants to live close to where I allready work.. she's allready taken but does not seem to happy. My GF is close to perfect in lots of ways, but she can't handle the mountains here with less sunlight witch I do love for hikes and skiing. And she's been very pesemistic lately.. and her family have been trough lots of negative depressive situations lately. There would be no easy time to brake up with her🙈
This describes my depression of not being in a relationship with Ariana Grande, what is wrong with me, I’m living in my head.
Listen up, Mila. You can’t have. Ever. Never. Ever. Ever.
Do you think in the movies the sweet guys do well is because that's a screenwriter's fantasy?
Matthew Alistair I know so bro...I've fantasized about stuff like this
One of the best videos on this subject-matter I've watched so far.
Needed to hear this. Good vid. Learning this as I go. Learn to live in reality but also let go. If they are unavailable or uninterested move on. Of course there are plenty of women I find attractive and enjoy the eye candy but won't make a move if they are taken of course or if they aren't interested.
"I watched lots of 97 percent ers strike out with this girl I like, I asked her out and got a response that confused me" aka translation.. you too are a 97%er hahahaha
Then proceeds to FB message her hahaha
" man who havve balls never do this "
25:54 😂😂😂😂😂😂 balls the size of bbs is wild 😂😂😂 im dying at work right now
"Your balls are the size of beebees" XD
I see so many men that don't even have respect for themselves and be begging after a woman. jokers. if someone have doubts of being with you send that crap to hell and go on. find someone that really care about you and know what she wants. And when you find the woman that really want to be with you don't screw up. Corey knows well what he is saying. get his book. nothing is worst than being ignorant about about anything
I’m an 18 year old girl dating a 20 year old girl and it’s so complicated because she’s always showing that she misses men
Maybe your not acting like a Alpha Female
I’ve been searching all over for the new Black Phillip Show since the great Patrice O Neal died. He was the king on women, I’m hoping you can provide similar views lol
The first time I’ve seen Patrice mentioned. He was the man that got me here.
"97%ers strike again"...the 97%er said lmao
Truth. I just have fun
"Everybody has been hurt " 😂😂😂
@coreywayne the last email ... Oh God.. Your reactions are awesome dude.. Spot on..Lool 😂😂
Someone must have watched FMJ this weekend
I have a man who I love but he just hang out and he likes me. I know that I have a friend who wants me but he stood me many times.
But is a girl ever really alone, and available? They always have someone they’re involved with.
Care to elaborate? I'm in a situation where I have to interact with a taken girl several times a week. How should I act around her?
Haha... the violin part was awesome :)
thx corey for making longer videos..your next step...
Hey Corey. I've been following you for a bit now. Great videos. Can you make a video about dating through tinder?
hahahaha Corey you speak the truth brotha
I handled myself on the football field. But watching ur vids I realized how big of a bitch I really have been. With almost anyone in my life. Haha thanks man. I will work my ass off and apply ur knowledge
I love the longer videos Corey.
Actually, the book contains the MEAT!
That guy on facebook... It's fucking painful listening to that shit.
Can someone tell me the difference between being her rock, her mountain, and being her gay male girlfriend, therapist or butler?
This is one of the areas where I fucked up, I was trying to be her rock, but she lost respect for me.
Brilliant!!! Thanks Coach Corey.
That guy who asked the chick out on FB was convinced he was a 3 percent man. But he ain't doing e percent shit haha
Oh my lordy Corey your too funny 😂
Coach is so funny man I swear
Hi coach I have stopped contacting my ex and have started leaving my phone at home since my job takes me on long trips and to be honest my phone has become a distraction. When I come home after several days my ex has contacted me several times and I didn't pick up because I didn't have my phone. Anyway he eventually blocked me because of this. He then started calling again and asking my whereabouts. I love him but I think he does not return my love and I have grown tired of this. I wish he cud change but I don't think that possible so I want to move on. Today he I told him that I won't be around for the rest of the week because I am travelling[ I just informed him because I don't want the drama since we have kids together] . He message me claiming to be ill at work and need me to pick him up should I go and help him?
lol the interjections between reading the emails tho
Thanks for reminding me.
That last email was so cringe. Read the damn book!
If you don't move in their world, you do not exist to them. A person wanting someone that they cannot have is an exercise in time-wasting. Not worth the effort, IMO. You can have fantasies but that's is about all it will ever be for you. BTW- 'she is into me'. Hmmm, could it be that she's just cultivating good relations with the patrons who come into the bar? That is what it seems like to me.
I like your attitude.
I’m just ugly why lie
I understand. Dating when not the modern physical ideal is like learning to play the piano with only one hand, at a disadvantage from day one!
28:13 LOL
Interesting
28:12🤣🤣
Not soo fast sweetheart😁😁
12:49 lol 😂 gold
Hi Does girls care if you have a disability?
Perfect woman? Perfect in what way? Looks are the perfection point? I respect the material, but there is no such thing as perfection in a woman. In fact, dude probably already did meet the "perfect" woman who liked him but a shallow sense of criteria used shut him and many of us off from an amazing woman for us.
Attraction may or may not be a choice, but as men our strength in the masculine is in the use of logic too.
I swear most of these self-help gurus never even address the issue of wanting the impossible. They just spew this obvious nonsense that "everything is possible for everyone." Sorry but if you're a paraplegic and and what you really want is to be a basketball player, you are actually hopeless.
Rarely if ever do you hear them say "change what you want." They don't want to address reality, and the problem is that the lack of facing reality is a large part of why their followers came to them in the first place.
haha
thx corey for making longer videos..your next step...