Pickup & Date Questions That Build Attraction
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- Coach Corey Wayne discusses some great questions you can ask women when you first meet them or when you are out on dates that are interesting and fun to talk about to make you stand out from the rest of the crowd and create attraction at the same time. How to be an interesting and fun guy for women to talk to instead of being dull and boring.
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Almost six years later, and I still review this video before I go out with someone for the first time. Actually, a few videos in a playlist I made. I've read the book 18 times but it never hurts to review the fundamentals. Thanks Corey Wayne, my life was changed.
Do you have a softcopy?
That's a great idea brother. Would you mind sharing what other videos you look at on that playlist?
@PBR Streetgang
What videos does your playlist have?
@@Voltisvoltis everything suggested in the book
@@Voltisvoltis it’s best to watch them all and make your own playlist when you find something particularly applicable also there’s many similar good video suggestions in the book.
I cant wait to obtain this superpower of being a 3 percent man
"Repetition is the mother of all habits" cw
3% man cannot be obtained. Only uncovered and realised.
Muahahahaha
Are you a 3% man yet?
With power comes responsibly, just remember dogs are not just for Christmas 😂
Guys, I tried out most of these and they worked a charm. She was at ease, really open and talkative. Obviously I had filtered her out by going out with a woman who was excited. I tried this on a 5-6 level attraction and I wish I could get that time and money back. Don't bother with women like that, a total waste of time. One question that really got her attraction up was 'what do you love most about your body?' We talked about this for over an hour. Thanks Coach!!!!
What a question. That's funny
@Colts fan4 Life Assuming the question is serious:
Yes! but you always keep it playful. Be like "really? I hadn't really noticed" (obviously you have). Stare at that body part for a moment with a contemplative look for a second then smile at her and be like "yeah they're/it's pretty ok!". Ask about why she loves that body part. You could say almost anything as long as it's fun and you don't lose your centre. Project your own assumption on to her in a playful way. "Cool" is a closed statement and doesn't lead to more fun or funny conversation.
Gonna try it out
I think his book says a level 5 or above is worth going for anything below that is a no
im kinda surprised, so many of these require a lot of thought and seem super awkwaard. im not sure so many girls i dated would enjoy asnwering these.
Wow this advice really help me a LOT!! I'm in Highschool rn but Corey is right this shit works regardless of age! The women I asked, did 80% of the talking and that's all I had to do was listen. If there ever was a pause in our engagment, I'd say something like "So what else"? "Tell me more, i wanna know!😊" The trick is being really confident in what you say! So when you say it, it actually feels and sounds like you really thought about it out of geniune curiosity! I hope this helps and thanks a lot Coach C, for all your invaluable info! Peace&Blessings brother!✌
Questions to ask that build attraction:
What are you passionate about?
What do you love?
What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
What is the most exciting place you ever had sex in public?
What do you like to do for fun?
Do you remember your first day of school? What was it like?
What do you love, but are afraid to admit you love it?
What’s unique and exciting about you?
What are your guilty pleasures?
What do your friends love most about you?
What makes life exciting to you?
What’s your biggest dream?
What are you most proud of?
What is the funniest thing that ever happened to you?
What’s the most fun you’ve ever had?
How do you know when a guy is right for you?
What specifically makes him stand out from the rest?
What do your friends admire most about you?
Have you ever fallen in love just by looking into someone’s eyes? If she says yes, ask her specifically what it was that made them stand out from the rest: Their smile, clothes, body language, how they looked at you, tone of their voice, etc.? What was their “hook” that made them irresistible to you?
What makes you really happy?
What cracks you up more than anything?
What is the silliest thing you’ve ever done?
What is your favorite memory?
What is the funniest movie you’ve ever seen?
Have you ever been very mischievous and done things like put Mr. Bubble in a large water fountain, and then came back later to see the bubbles everywhere?
Have you ever farted and then blamed it on someone else successfully like an older relative?
What is the most fun you ever had on a date?
What’s the one thing you can’t say no to?
What are you really good at that would surprise me?
If you could wake up tomorrow and be anyplace in the world, where would it be? Why?
FFS i wrote them all down then found this hahha
How do you bring this up to the date? Tell them you found these interesting questions online?!? Lol
@@meedy92 no, you flat out ask them as if these were your own questions
Bitch ass questions
@Solaiman Wahab same here. Hopefully that helps me remember them on the date I have Wed night
I do this to everyone. Practice is the mother of all skill.
Coach like to say, "repetition is the mother of all skill". What you said is correct as well.
Dude, you need a noble peace prize! I've recommended your book to all my friends and all are now reading your book and making happier homes!
Make sure you only ask the questions you also have an answer for as they are very likely to ask you back the same question. Be prepared. Don't ask something you wouldn't want to answer because it may come back to you in a sec. I also rather avoid questions that if the answer is "no" it breaks the flow and doesn't develop a story.. like the "Do you remember your first day at school?".. if she says no, you either have to tell about your first day at school (which is better be good) or move onto the next question, which can be a bit robotic.
I stick with the questions that I know there is an answer for like "What are you most passionate about?"... she can't say yes or no, she needs to elaborate and everyone can think for a moment and come up with something.
Honestly my dude the world needs more guys like you thank you for your work when I become more successful I will show you how much I value you your work - Faris Beuller
Did you become successful?
Great questions! Definitely have your own answers at the ready. On my last date, after about four questions in, the lady made a game out of it and asked me the same. Had to go back and answer the previous three. We had a blast, laughing at some of our answers. On the car ride home, she asked when our next date was. That really was easy!
Here's one to add "what's the one thing you can't say no to?, besides me
@Umberto Diotalevi 😂😂😂
the key is to get her to do most of the talking... It is not so much about the venue or what you say but HOW YOU SAY IT... A woman who likes you will laugh at anything you say and will answer any question you ask her as long as you are confident when you ask or say it... Throughout my date i focus on teasing her lightly... This way i can be an asshole but a nice guy at the same time... It doesnt matter were you go as long as you both can experience the moment shared together... If you are going to dinner have fun and dont be so serious... Its that simple...
You know Corey bout to drop game on you when you like every video before it even starts haha am I the only one ?
I like your emphasis on keeping the conversation fun, playful and uplifting.
I always use my pick up line- "You remind me of a robot in the Rain forest." 🤖🌴
She'll ask- "What? Whyyyy?"
And then I say "I'm sure you'll figure it out."
Trust me, she'll be tryna figure it out for days.
This is so stupid it might work
lmao
I found out about this channel from a young male elsewhere in the world who happened to uprate it & I took note -- he's very open-minded & serious & is doing a lot of awesome stuff, has a pretty good life but is really living his dreams, including wife & family. I would definitely hire Corey for a phone counseling session. Meanwhile, these clips are very well done & he really is lucid & frank. My best to ya from over here in France.
I told the pee story on a date, of course I mixed it up a little, It didnt happen at school it happened at work last week.
@@kevincarbone6831 lol!
You really have to be yourself. If you have to learn what to say then you're done! If you've nothing interesting to say then you're not going to do well. It's about confidence, ask her about herself, her ambitions and what makes her happy. Make her laugh. Don't spend the eve rapping on about yourself and how great you think you are. Confidence is the key. Just be confident of who you are. There's no magic formula with women so just be cool and if she likes you you'll get on. You can't make her like you or worry she won't like you. Too much focus on this will make you overthink things.
Good for you! I am 56 now and one thing I did NOT understand was that nearly all the time, no relationship at all is better than a bad one!
You can really tell coach loves teaching about this topic and wants to help us. His smile is genuine and excited.
Corey, you are so authentic and organic in your approach. The world so desperately needs men like you! I appreciate this very much
I did this and she was saying so much that I got worried I would forget a lot of it. 🤣 Thanks, coach.
waw I remember a girl was asking me lot of fun questions like: what is your favorite superpower if you can get one? and we were discussing about the power of time travelling and daydreaming about it in a looong fun conversation it was very fun!
anyone try out these questions in a real date? how did it go? did she feel like she was being interviewed? i wish coach corey would have a forum set up for all of his followers to discuss together.
I think a forum is an awesome idea!
Also, I studied journalism in my younger days. There are books out there on interviewing techniques where you don't come off as if you're interviewing the person but just allowing them to open up to you through prompts. That's how you should ask these questions, like a series of small, casual prompts. Not as if you're reading off a list of questions. Ask something and then stop talking, even (and especially) when she goes quiet. Learn to be comfortable with the awkward silence. The other person will inevitably fill that silence on their own and open up even further because you've basically told their internal editor to take a hike. Now their answers start to become more spontaneous and visceral rather than formulated or forced. Just be silent and look at her expectantly as if to say, "Hey, you're not finished answering yet" but do it in a non-confrontational way. It's amazing the kind of information people will volunteer just to break the tension of that awkward silence once they realize you're not going to let them off the hook. Silence can be golden. Barbara Walters is a master of this.
That's what the RUclips comments are for
I did at the time when I was just starting to use his material and it did come off as interviewing. But I have changed my ways ever since and its women everywhere I look! This guy is a legend!
+shinviroz works really really good girls go crazy
Also, I'm writing down many answers of my own to these questions as to know them inside-out! Corey, you make me proud to be here, brother!
What are you passionate about?
What do you love in life?
What is the craziest thing you have ever done?
Where's the most exciting place you have had sex?
What do you like to do for fun?
What was your first day of school like?
What do you love but are afraid to admit that you love?
What is unique and exciting about you?
What makes life exciting for you?
What are your guilty pleasures?
What do your friends love about you?
What is your biggest dream?
What are you most proud of?
What is the funniest thing that ever happened to you?
What is the most fun you have ever had?
What makes a guy stand out to you?
Have you ever fallen in love at first sight? What was it like?
What do your friends admire most about you?
What makes you really happy?
What cracks you up more than anything?
What is the silliest thing you have ever done?
What is your favorite memory?
Have you ever done something mischievous (prank, tease)?
What is the funniest movie you have ever seen?
Have you ever farted and blamed in on someone else successfully?
What is the most you have ever had on a date?
What is something you are really good that would surprise?
If you could wake up tomorrow anywhere in the world, where would you be?
Thanks for everything you do Corey. You are a lifechanger!
Thx!
@sparrowfish
Thank you. You're THE man.
I was looking for this comment, thank you.
He gives a lot of really good advice for men. I am one of those females who actually doesn't hate men, so I think this is really great.
Definitely gotta practice! Repetition is the mother of skill! Yes!
The thing is these questions are great but if a girl asks me these questions back I won't know what to say
read the book 10-15 times cuz everything is explained in there
Answer positive and funny, be yourself
These questions are awesome, but in my recent experience girls usually create a game out of it by asking me to answer the same question after they do (e.g. "Bla bla bla... Now you tell me what's the craziest thing you've ever done."). While this adds to the fun of the date, it uncovers a great chunk of the mystery about me and also gives some of the power to the girls (those tricky, tricky women). How can I play this, so that I keep the conversation going, without giving away too much info about me?
Make your answers quick and witty. Get right back to have her answering your questions. You lead the direction of the date
Hey coach I've been watching your vids and I just got your book. It's helping a lot!! I'm new to the whole dating world, kept myself from dating due to lame excuses. I'm ready to start and I'm learning a lot from you. This is gonna change my life. Thanks!!!
I am using this questions tonight wish me luck people
Rudy Tucker how did the questions work out for you?
+Jose Pineda he didn't reply for a year so it must of been bad
Hahaha, you right. These questions are best when a woman really likes you.
@@zobekguerrero1366 he got stood up probs
I would bet he didn’t respond because it’s RUclips comments. I always miss them
Your stuff is working for me bro. Because it's truth! Live life for today!
What do you like to do for fun
Do you remember your first day of school?
What do you love but are afraid to admit (or you shouldn't love)
What's exciting and unique about you?
Guilty pleasures
Biggest dream
Most proud of
Funniest thing that ever happened to you?
The most fun you've ever had?
How do you know when a guy is right for you?
How do you know when he stands out from the rest?
Have you ever felt in love with someone from just looking in their eyes?
What do your friends admire most about you?
What makes you happy
Have you seen any good funny movies lately?
Most fun you've ever had on a date?
One thing you're really good at?
If you could wake up tomorrow and wake up any place in the world, where would it be?
1565 votes, 55 downvotes. 3 percent that doesn't get it
3.5% to be exact
@@zobekguerrero1366 actually it's 3.4%. you'd need to add both numbers together which gives you the total number of votes, which is 1620, then do 55÷1620, which is .03395, which rounds up to 3.4%.
@@TheAspiringFitnessGuru man it's been 2 years of course more people won't get it due to these damn liberals and media.
the - 3% . lol
So Corey I've read your book 7 times now. Most of what you say feels like a natural instinct that has been locked away for so long. Me and my wife split have a 2 year old with her so I looked you up and man it helped. I used to get alot of attention from girls when I was with my ex and now I get double that. And the power to actually have to reject pussy is amazing. If that doesn't boast confidence I don't know what can. But to the point I was talking to this girl and I said hey I got a question, she said I may have an answer so I asked have you ever farted and successfully blamed it on someone? She died laughing and said yeah my kids. How bout you so I made up some BS story bout me doing it to my grandma. Needless to say I pulled my list out my wallet and this girl got 8 out of 10 on my traits. We've hung out a few times and this guy that likes her shows up sits next to her starts talking and she interrupts him turns to me and starts talking. I gave short playful answers went to leave and she bout fell out her seat to ask me where I was going. Bro all I got to say is Hook line and sinker in the dating game and in actual life.
You're a beast coach, appreciate all the information!!
Someone did the bubble fountain thing in my town too. They shut down the fountain permanently. Ruined it for everyone. It's been over 20 years and they haven't turned it back on again.
wassup corey '' i can't believe that a man from florida can make a person laid, who is actually in india with the power of his awesome mind i think its amazing dude keep up the great work ur fuckin inspirational never ever give up,and also thru you i got introduced to tony robbins and jim rohn online who are also very powerful and magnetic men like u who can transform people's life with there wisdom,over couple of months i been watching ur videos its been very helpful for me in the timesofordeal
Can't give this video enough thumbs up! This is some good shit.
lmao........aaaww being a kid...."hahah you peed your pants"...."no I didn't, what are you talking about".
That's what I'm talking about 😂😂😂😂 he got swag from childhood 🤣
Yesterday I realized that My brother is on a whole other level then me just from reading your book
Are you tired? You've been running in my mind all day
Jeje!
Ahahahaha
Thank you Corey for real man you are changing my life cheers buddy.
This is a great addition to the Material in the book! Thanks Coach!
Corey Wayne is the best!!
My superpower is not talking about myself because I know usually someone is trying to sell me something. They don't really care, they care about getting what they want 🤷♂️
Thanks!
what a chad, just randomly telling a story, how he peed his pants as a kid, with a smile on his face 😂😂
Farting and blaming someone else is indeed "shitty" :)
I remember doing this in a restaurant. My friend's Mom immediately blamed him so I just went with it. :)
This is an amazing video,... this is exactly what I lack.. asking good questions... thanks Coach.
You are the one coach I would pay to consult. This is just great, good for you. My two burning issues, I think I am handling them okay BUT IT IS HARD. Over the decades I have really gotten some solid benefit from taking the time out to see someone who's objective & learn some strategies. I like that you emphasize things do not generally happen easily or overnight & a lot of discipline, character, commitment & effort are NEARLY ALWAYS REQUIRED, especially for it to have value for us.
You bad boy Corey 🤣
Walking around peeing all over the classroom. 😂
Thank you Coach,you the man.
He randomly makes a wide crazy eyed expression for no apparent reason
6:30
6:39 how do you know when a guy is right for you. Have you ever fallen in love with someone as soon as you looked in their eyes?
8:22 what do your friends admire most about you?
8:26 what made them stand out
Yeah, that stinks. People don't consider the consequences of their actions! Thanks for telling this.
Personal questions are key ! Wow, thanks cory
What's crazy I used to be an alpha male and the captain of the football team. All the girls chased me and wanted my attention...but then my mom passed away and I became weak and my mind wasn't the same..I wonder what happened?
What to do. When girl is not so talkative ?? And even the person is shy kind ???
There's a girl that I met a couple of days ago and I've started to have some banter with her back-and-forth (I'm gonna try for a date this Friday), and I'm gonna give a lot of these a try - thanks man
Knock-Off Nerd how did it go bro? You ask any n how she take like it
It went well until I found out she had a boyfriend :P Kinda downhill from there. lol. Thanks for asking :)
Knock-Off Nerd lol boyfriends suck if he dont blow it with her you can always ask if she has a sister lol
I would have responded with , “boyfriend that’s cute. But do you have a MANfriend?”
@@3PCTManOrBust not bad, although I simply moved on to the next one and we have been together for 6 years now. I can't even remember the chick I was talking about in my original comment
Corey, you said in the book to stay off sexual innuendo, so by asking "Whats the craziest place you had sex with?" isnt against that?
Advanced students only.
What do you do coach when you ask a girl these questions like what’s exciting about her what’s her passion etc but she’s just a super boring person but really hot and you want to still hook up. Do you just accept that she’s boring and stop asking questions or just keep listening to her saying oh nothing really
I got a poop story. I'll tell it to her during dinner and see if she would get turned off and if she does, I'll laugh my ass off.
I'm sitting in a popular coffee place & listening to these doctors & nurses discuss their studies & writing down their social questions & statements?"I don't like everybody in our class as much as you guys. What's your (DJ) name DJ deez nuts? What's this one? I haven't seen it yet? So, this is a normal thing? Oh, there are different rules when you're drunk? So, in a parallel universe, you're an alcoholic? So it goes from in to out? Have you ever played Egyptian slap-stick (explains (apparently card) game in it's relativity to pain as follow-up to a "really hurt people question)yeah, I'm probably not going to use any of those although it's an interesting conversation
I had the exact same experience my first day of school
1 question that works for me is what 1 guilty pleasure that you have that no one knows about?
Some of.these are.bold lol. Overall great questions!!
Another good question: "Do you remember your first kiss?"
LMAO, Homi I been stealing the PEE STORY.. Girls in South Africa love it!!
Thank you Corey you're fuckin awesome dude. I appreciate you.
Hey Cory, may I ask you a question? How can you relate to others when you're parents over sheltered you as a child; never allowing you to experience the things others experience, and how can you relate to others when you two have completely different backgrounds, upbringings, and or interests?
this is a bad question, everyone has a different upbringing. No one person was brought up the same way. However, people can relate to some things. Where his parents never showed him love and his parents never showed love to eachother. These types of things he can relate to others because it is quite common. And women are women no matter where you go, they respond the same way and work the same way.
Corie than you so much! Very helpful
thanks Coach!!
Wow that side ways look and tilted head was something I did the other day and this bad Ass girl just went crazy with her flirts and she was with other men. This was at the gym.
Yoo Corey you the man brooo!!
Hi. I recently came to the gym and was exercising. Then I rested on the bench in a lying position. There was a girl with daugther at the gym (I noticed earlier). She came and asked me: "Is everything OK with you". I said: "I am fine. Did you think I was dead?" She stared at me with a huuuge smile. Could anyone tell me what her intentions are?
Get them to confess a secret. It builds trust.
Thank You for your insight.
Hahahaha! I peed my pants a few times back in the day, talk about embarrassing. The nurse gave me some sweet cargo pants though.
These are some great topic
What do you love in life?
How do you go about asking these questions? Memorize a few & build upon them as the conversation flows or have them typed out on paper/phone & read them off & make it seem like you’re both playing a game? Tell her I have a fun game we can play, found these interesting dating questions I found online that can help us know each other better. What do you say? Please share your thoughts peeps. Got a hot date today
these sound great for established back and forth question texting conversations
never text
Dont be her gay male girlfriend
Corey's kindergarten teacher was the substitute from Miss Nelson is missing.
What are you passionate about?
Don't feel bad Coach...lol. I've got a kindergarten pee story as well!
I have a question, would it be less masculine if I wrote these questions down and then read them to the young lady I was dating when we went on a date instead of trying to memorize these questions?
@coach corey wayne, can you still ask these questions when you are 2 years in? I need more info from my girl. Yea even after 2 years we do talk but not this specific
I'm thinking and correct me if I'm wrong. Let's say I ask the question at 6:40 when did you have most fun in your life? Can I playfully say after she answer "oh that means I'm no fun huh" of course assuming she says she had the most fun with something other that you. If she does say she has the best fun with you then you can say "qnd you haven't seen everything yet my dear" to keep the mystery and suspense. Again please correct me if I'm wrong. I'm still learning from you. I read your book 3 time this last month. Still 7 more to go
No. Never put yourself down, not even joking. Instead, say something like: "that sounds like a lot of fun. We should try something like that next."
I’ve asked women questions and that just said Why
LEGEND
waaaww a platonic love girl of mine once she told me about a story of her peeing in her pants in classroom hahaha
LOL the pee story happened to me too
great
Any guys call a girl to make the first date and get the answering machine? What do you do? Just hang up and assume she'll call you back?
Thanks, that seems like the best way to go.
What was your first day of school like, that's a good question.
What if she is into sports?
Ask open ended questions!
Females will choose mates & sex partners who are the most like their fathers genetically yet smell nothing like them. This is scientific fact & has to do with a built-in anti-incest thang. I'm in France now & have a heavy bg in the sciences & I laughed so hard when I found this out! :)